Great tips! Having a extra supply of neutralizing shampoo on hand is great. And if I might suggest for the at home ladies, invest in a three-way mirror to hang on the back of your bathroom door so you can see the back of your head while relaxing. It’s a lifesaver. Thanks so much!
Definitely need a separate bottle of neutralizing shampoo for sure. Whenever I relax my own hair, I am very generous with the amount of shampoo that I use and the number of times that I wash out my hair.
When I used to relax I had a separate bottle of neutralizing shampoo. I would rinse the relaxer out of my hair and shampoo it and rinse it out. I’d shampoo it again and let it sit for 10 minutes. I’d rinse out and shampooed it again, and let it sit for another 10 minutes and rinsed it out. And I’d follow up with a protein treatment. That seemed to work for my hair and it never broke off.
Hello, this is the first time tuning into your vlog. You are 100% right. My hairdresser of 30 years has taught me well about relaxers. When she does my touch up , she washes out the relaxer with a neutralising conditioner must be about 5 or 7 times and then uses a normal conditioner. Also a regular trim. Trimming the ends of your hair is so important if you perm your hair. Relaxer is basically a perm. Love the content of your vlog 🙏💖
I relax my hair using that same at home kit and my hair is growing a lot. It really depends how you care for it, I use the shampoo but not the conditioner some times.
I use box relaxers but I've always used an unusual method. I apply the shampoo, work it through my hair let it sit for about 10 minutes. I do this 2-3 times with the neutralizer from the kit. Works for me but I get what you are saying. That neutralizing process is important!
The other thing I've noticed about the relaxer in the relaxer kits vs. the professional relaxer is that the relaxer substance in itself is cheap and thin vs. the professional relaxers are rich and thick. That makes it much easier to manipulate and smooth your hair with a professional relaxer. My hair broke off immediately when I used a boxed relaxer during the pandemic, and I actually had my own supply of neutralizing shampoo and rinsed very thoroughly.
I used at home relaxers-never had a problem. I would buy a separate neutralizing shampoo. You definitely need to rinse very well first too. I know people with long, healthy hair who relax their own hair.
Thanks for the tips. No need to go in blind when relaxing the back of your hair. Simply position two mirrors carefully so that you can see the back of your head perfectly. It takes a little practice at first but is an absolute hair saver!😊
Wow, you have excellent timing! I’ve been thinking about relaxing my own hair recently! Thanks for the excellent tips. I especially love the practice run idea! 💡
I buy my own Neutralizing shampoo. I never did use the neutralizer shampoo that came with the boxes, and I used the Mazani relaxer. I feel that it's always best to buy your own neutralizing shampoo and your moisturizing shampoo. I'd never use the shampoos that came with my relaxer. I always threw them out. Great video ❤
I have not relaxed my hair at home for over 10 years and it is a game changer. I did use boxed relaxer, the cheapest one in HS and college and my hair never grew or was healthy, just dry and frizzy. I left it on too long, used super when I did not need it and washed it out with the little packs that came in box that barely did the job. Until I went to a salon and they washed it like three times, letting it sit for a few and then used PH balancing product, moisturizing shampoo and then deep conditioner, I did not know my hair could grow this long. All while relaxed. The active ingredients in relaxers are the same as in Nair and other depilatories so the length of time you let that sit matters. I will never relax at home again, I am down to twice a year at the salon.
Great video! I used a box relaxer during the pandemic and my hair came out pretty good. I was thrilled when the salons reopened. I needed the professional results. I did buy an extra kit & a bottle of neutralizing shampoo in case I had to do my own hair again at any point during the pandemic.
OMG Dominique! my friend mentioned something to me a few years ago about the neutralizer part, "Was I using enough of it" because my crown and nape kept breaking off but I didn't know this and sometime I don't even use the neutralizer at all 🤦🏽♀️
I use Phyto relaxer and my cousin who is licensed applies my relaxer. That's one thing I will not do myself.. You literally cannot see the demarcation note the back of your head. I've also never had that happen..my relaxer comes with a lot of neutralizer..
Amazing. So glad you have someone to help you. I get so many people writing to me that they have only washed their hair once or twice or use regular shampoo to wash relaxer out of their hair! Omg!
I use Silk Elements Relaxer (Sallys Beauty Supply). It's lye based and you have to bye everything separately(neutralizing shampoo ect). And I use olive oil on my previously processed hair. Love it.
Its true, they don't supply enough shampoo in the box. (I usually use a childrens relaxer/touch up kit) So, what i do is rinse out the relaxer w/o shampoo first. And then I rinse it out with shampoo 3/4 times. Even using other shampoos that i might have.
I stopped using Neutralizing Shampoo about a year or just over. I use to self relax but got tired of doing it myself so i went back to the salon, i only go to get my relaxer done. As much as im get it done there now i still dont Neutralize, my hair dresser just shampoo 3x with my KeraCare Humecto shampoo (my request). My hair is healthy as ever still and at bra strap. For some reason Neutralizing Shampoo was setting my head on fire when i washed out my relaxer even though there would be no burning or tingling when the relaxer was in my head. I started to hate relaxer day due to that so i said F Neutralizing Shampoo and stopping was the best thing i did
I’m natural but YES to consultations. Your first time at a salon, meeting your cosmetologist, or seeing their work shouldn’t not be in the chair. Talk to them, have questions ready, and ask MORE questions during your first hair appointment. This could make or break your salon experience.
After washing my hair with neutralized, I wash with other shampoo proteined products to fully throughly washout chemicals. Then neutral it ine last time. Yay🎉
I have extra on hand but always use what's in the kit the key is washing it out well before the shampoo it takes 2 kits for my head and I use 1 to 1.5 of the bottles 1 quick lather and rinse then another 3 or 4 with 10 to 15 mins of leaving it on for each and never had a problem but good tips
Yes I agree please be extra careful with at home relaxers… I had to cut off all my hair because it was so overprocessed. I have started all over. I miss my hair so much 😫
Can you do a video on the rumor of damage to the body from relaxers? Is it a myth, or is it relaxing your own hair and not using professionals? Thanks! Love you!
Tbh.... I believe it is true BUT literally every chemical we use is damaging or toxic... I'm still going to get my fresh relaxer after 11 years of being natural, I'm honestly just not happy being nappy anymore lol... the convenience of having my hair straightened trumps the bad wrap relaxers have gotten ❤ hope this perspective helps
If you’re afraid of relaxers than you should also be afraid of the pesticides in food, the air we breathe and the rays from our phones. There are people that smoke for decades and don’t get cancer and there are people who live a very healthy lifestyles that develop cancer. Don’t let yourself be fear mongered by every article your read. No it is not a myth, relaxers can cause long term damage but so do probably a couple dozen other things you do on a daily basis. Just make the best decision for yourself
I relaxed my hair with that very very at home kit after 10 years of being natural and my entire hair crumbled over a 2 month period. I eventually had to cut it all off. Ground zero. It’s officially one year later and my hair has grown neck length. I often wonder if I should have used cholesterol with it to make it not as harsh.
I always have a large bottle of neutralising shampoo that I use and shampoo until it’s 100% white and not pink .. my problem is that it doesn’t seem to relax my hair properly when doing touch ups 😭 it seems all straight but by the next wash day, the roots have reverted .. almost like it’s resistant . I don’t know what to do 😭
Just booked my next relaxer appointment with your Gloria! I've been asking my current stylist to wash my hair properly, but he doesn't listen. The minute I leave his chair, my hair starts breaking and doesn't stop for WEEKS. I have barely retained any length in 6 months since I started going to his salon. I hope things will change for the better with Gloria :)
Agree! Oftentimes, the kits don't have enough relaxer in those tiny jars to evenly touch up the roots. The person applies _too little_ out of fear of running out of product which can cause unevenness or UNDERprocessed results. The person will have the same results as OVERprocessed hair - Dry, rough, frizzy, hard to style, breakage😢 I use the big bottles of neutralizer. I wash/rinse until there are ZERO suds. Then rinse again. I do not care if the hot water starts to run cool, as long as the chemicals stop processing.
@@StyleDominationthank you for that...I'm gonna request those next time I go. I also noticed my hair hardly grows and it itches a lot when it's natural..once I relax it I have no problems. Would you happen to have an answer for me about that??😊😊😊txs so much.. And your skin is glowing...😊😊love it.
I’ve learned that box relaxer are way more stronger with chemicals in it. That’s why I stop using them in my hair. My stylist he’s expensive but I’ve noticed that my hair shed less when he does my hair then when I use box relaxers. So people please stop using those box relaxers
Thank you so much for all your great tips and advice. Please could you give recommendations on good salons/stylists in Toronto that are great with relaxed hair? Or if you don’t mind can you share the one you currently use? Thank you so much.
I live in Hawai’i too so I always do my own hair and just get trims at the salon. If you also live on Oahu I suggest getting a trim and headspa at SOHO salon. It’s the best scalp massage I ever got and my hair was perfectly shaped by the stylist
This is true I was relaxed for decades like 14 to 39, I have been natural now for five years, I always went to salons for my relaxers or hair care period and my hair was long and healthy. I started traveling for work and couldn't find salons in area to do my hair mostly Caucasian area so, I started doing my own relaxers for about 3 year's, I immediately noticed my hair thinning and breaking seemed it wasn't growing because it was breaking. I was forced to go natural hair started thriving again I highly discourage doing you're relaxers at home unless you're trained to do so.
Amen...learned my lesson! Pros only from now on! Like you, once I stopped, I was amazed at the hair growth in places where it had been breaking/thinning.
Haven't seen you on these YT streets in a hot minute!😅 I have my "Gloria" two hours from where I live and I trust no one else (especially not me) to do a relaxer. I have been with her for 13 years. I'm moving to the other side of the U.S. and am panicking about finding a new person to do my hair. Call me bougie, but I am not above getting on a 5+ hour flight to get my hair done by someone I trust. Love your content and you're looking stunning as per usual.😊❤
Hello Dominique. Thank you this. I noticed my hair gets stiff after self relaxing at home. Any tips to remedy this problem? I cannot go to the hair salon cause that’s where I lost all my hair I’m the first place. Any way to self relax and stop this stiffy hair problems? God bless
Dominique what is the brand name of the relaxer that your stylist uses on your hair ? And how can she keep it from getting on the scalp I know it's a method of application but I never had it to where it's never on my scalp please explain or maybe do a live chat with us for people who have questions thanks so much 💕 love the channel your great
What about high-end $65 at home relaxer kits like Phyo(Phytospecific)? Anyone have any insight? I really don't feel like going into the salon for a touch up this month.
This is misinformation! I've been using box relaxers for eons. That's not true that box relaxers don't supply enough nuetralizing shampoo. Where did you get your research from? How do you really know if you been going to Gloria for over 30 years? If it is the case that there is a lack of nuetralizing shampoo then I would be bald and I'm no where near bald. I think this is an irresponsible claim!
I have been getting realaxers for years now I am afraid to because of this cancer story my hair now is a hot mess I just dont like natural hair does not work for me can anyone give advice on are there any natural hair relaxers out there I think this is a conversation we need to have about these relaxers
I’ve been relaxing my hair for 35 years and now there is talk about it causing cancer. Can you do a video on this and if there are safe relaxer options out there for us to use?
Look into the research, a lot of it was misdirection. Women relaxing too often, letting it sit until it burns and then rinsing based on their own testimonials. The study never said the relaxers were the cause just that they could be the cause. Correlation is causation. Relaxers have the same active ingredient as Nair the hair removal kit and there is no cry that that causes cancer but somehow on black skin chemistry and science acts different. Any chemical when used incorrectly or too often will have repercussions. Relax as seldom as possible and paying attention to the time for application.
Just came back from my first professional salon visit where she concentrates on hair health along with relaxed hair. I definitely notice the difference and imma just stay out of my own head.
The country I live in, you are better off using relaxer kits and doing it yourself because the so called professionals will over process your hair. I use home kit that doesn't come with neutralising shampoo so I have a separate neutralising shampoo that rinses my relaxer out completely .
I disagree : relaxer Rise the ph of hair, neutralizing shampoo lower the high ph caused by crème relaxer. Thé solution is not use more shampoo. Thé solution is lower the ph of hair with acidic shampoo (redken for example) or with acidic rince (apple cider vinegar). Relaxer dont stay, its the ph of hair that IS not correclty lower. Its acidic-base réaction
Something very important that I learned in cosmetology is that the shampoo isn't what can remove Hydroxides, only water does that. rinsing is MUCH more important than shampooing
I am not relaxed anymore but also I dont think it is chemically compatible to use regular shampoo with relaxer residue still in the hair. I think that can also be damaging to the hair. So it is an absolute MUST that you neutralize the relaxer until it is completely out of the hair before using regular shampoo. Regular shampoo opens up the hair shaft, so if you still have relaxer residue in your hair, regular shampoo will open up the hair shaft, possibly making it worst. So don't think that you can just use your regular shampoo. Do what Dom says and buy a bottle of neutralizing shampoo. I am a natural girlie but I love seeing black women with their own beautiful, flourishing hair.😊
This isn't true. I've been using Dark & Lovely for a looong time; it has plenty of shampoo, and even when I went to a salon they never used that much shampoo. Even my cousin who had his own shop and showed me how to get that stuff washed out properly.
How about stop using relaxers period. Poison to the scalp and hair. Yes, I wore a relaxer for many years in my younger years. As a licensed hairstylist I advise against putting lyes in your hair. Fun fact, water neutralizes the chemical in the hair so rinsing and then rinsing again is the key!
There aee plwnty of people who use boxed kits on UA-cam and their hair is thriving. Let people do their homework and continue to do what works for them. Gloria just wants more clients
Rinse relaxer out as much as you can first before shampooing to.. that helps
I would shampoo like 3 times trying to get it all out.
Absolutely! At least 3/4 times.
Great tips! Having a extra supply of neutralizing shampoo on hand is great. And if I might suggest for the at home ladies, invest in a three-way mirror to hang on the back of your bathroom door so you can see the back of your head while relaxing. It’s a lifesaver. Thanks so much!
Our daughter does mine. And on my channel, I ALWAYS let them know she's very careful when doing my hair.
Yesss! The mirror tip was given to me by all of you. So helpful!
@@StyleDominationI'm a recent subscriber to your channel. I love your makeup. Can you do more makeup tutorials please?
I never thought of that! Thank you ❤️🫡
Definitely need a separate bottle of neutralizing shampoo for sure. Whenever I relax my own hair, I am very generous with the amount of shampoo that I use and the number of times that I wash out my hair.
Excellent! Glad to read that! 🎉
When I used to relax I had a separate bottle of neutralizing shampoo. I would rinse the relaxer out of my hair and shampoo it and rinse it out. I’d shampoo it again and let it sit for 10 minutes. I’d rinse out and shampooed it again, and let it sit for another 10 minutes and rinsed it out. And I’d follow up with a protein treatment. That seemed to work for my hair and it never broke off.
Hello, this is the first time tuning into your vlog. You are 100% right. My hairdresser of 30 years has taught me well about relaxers. When she does my touch up , she washes out the relaxer with a neutralising conditioner must be about 5 or 7 times and then uses a normal conditioner. Also a regular trim. Trimming the ends of your hair is so important if you perm your hair. Relaxer is basically a perm. Love the content of your vlog 🙏💖
I relax my hair using that same at home kit and my hair is growing a lot. It really depends how you care for it, I use the shampoo but not the conditioner some times.
I use box relaxers but I've always used an unusual method. I apply the shampoo, work it through my hair let it sit for about 10 minutes. I do this 2-3 times with the neutralizer from the kit. Works for me but I get what you are saying. That neutralizing process is important!
I agree. You have to let it sit in the hair for a bit. Also use Affirm 5in1 Reconstructor before the neutralizing shampoo
Oh wow! And you don't get any burns??
@@StyleDominationHairliciousinc used that method, and she had a great hair. 😊
The other thing I've noticed about the relaxer in the relaxer kits vs. the professional relaxer is that the relaxer substance in itself is cheap and thin vs. the professional relaxers are rich and thick. That makes it much easier to manipulate and smooth your hair with a professional relaxer. My hair broke off immediately when I used a boxed relaxer during the pandemic, and I actually had my own supply of neutralizing shampoo and rinsed very thoroughly.
Agree completely with you. I am so sorry you had a bad experience with the box relaxers!
This happened to me too
I used at home relaxers-never had a problem. I would buy a separate neutralizing shampoo. You definitely need to rinse very well first too. I know people with long, healthy hair who relax their own hair.
Thanks for the tips. No need to go in blind when relaxing the back of your hair. Simply position two mirrors carefully so that you can see the back of your head perfectly. It takes a little practice at first but is an absolute hair saver!😊
Thank you for this!
Yay! Loving the longer video again! You are absolutely right. Buy extra neutralizer and an extra tub of relaxer.
I missed the long form. It was nice to "sit and chat with my friends"! Agree with you!
Wow, you have excellent timing! I’ve been thinking about relaxing my own hair recently! Thanks for the excellent tips. I especially love the practice run idea! 💡
I wholeheartedly agree; I use box relaxers for my edges at times and that shampoo is barely sufficient for that. Great tips as always!
I buy my own Neutralizing shampoo. I never did use the neutralizer shampoo that came with the boxes, and I used the Mazani relaxer. I feel that it's always best to buy your own neutralizing shampoo and your moisturizing shampoo. I'd never use the shampoos that came with my relaxer. I always threw them out. Great video ❤
Same here. I buy the large tub of Mizani mild relaxer and buy a separate bottle of neutralizing shampoo. Never buy kits.
Yes! Awesome! You know what’s up!
I see what you're saying with your length of hair. That paxk is plenty for me. I use a lot of water when I relax and wash. Rinse, rinse, rinse!
I have not relaxed my hair at home for over 10 years and it is a game changer. I did use boxed relaxer, the cheapest one in HS and college and my hair never grew or was healthy, just dry and frizzy. I left it on too long, used super when I did not need it and washed it out with the little packs that came in box that barely did the job. Until I went to a salon and they washed it like three times, letting it sit for a few and then used PH balancing product, moisturizing shampoo and then deep conditioner, I did not know my hair could grow this long. All while relaxed. The active ingredients in relaxers are the same as in Nair and other depilatories so the length of time you let that sit matters. I will never relax at home again, I am down to twice a year at the salon.
I think also with box (no lye) relaxers you need a chelating shampoo because of the calcium deposit makes it harder to moisturize hair
Great video! I used a box relaxer during the pandemic and my hair came out pretty good. I was thrilled when the salons reopened. I needed the professional results. I did buy an extra kit & a bottle of neutralizing shampoo in case I had to do my own hair again at any point during the pandemic.
Same! I was pretty happy with my results but also bought a lot of extra neutralizing shampoo
Also ORS sell a huge 32oz bottle of the Neutralising Shampoo.
What an inspo! I hope to have as much beauty, grace, and positivity. Love all of your content
WOW! Thank you! You made my day!
OMG Dominique! my friend mentioned something to me a few years ago about the neutralizer part, "Was I using enough of it" because my crown and nape kept breaking off but I didn't know this and sometime I don't even use the neutralizer at all 🤦🏽♀️
I use Phyto relaxer and my cousin who is licensed applies my relaxer. That's one thing I will not do myself.. You literally cannot see the demarcation note the back of your head.
I've also never had that happen..my relaxer comes with a lot of neutralizer..
Amazing. So glad you have someone to help you. I get so many people writing to me that they have only washed their hair once or twice or use regular shampoo to wash relaxer out of their hair! Omg!
I use Phyto as well. I love it. And you are right…compared to other box relaxers there is ALOT of neutralising shampoo 😊
This is the most beneficial information on UA-cam about relaxers.
I use Silk Elements Relaxer (Sallys Beauty Supply). It's lye based and you have to bye everything separately(neutralizing shampoo ect). And I use olive oil on my previously processed hair. Love it.
I use a professional affim relaxer (big tub) and a regular shampoo with an apple cider vinegar rinse in between each lather. This works great for me.
Each one teach one! Thank You!
A rising tide lifts all boats!
@@StyleDomination indeed!!
Its true, they don't supply enough shampoo in the box. (I usually use a childrens relaxer/touch up kit) So, what i do is rinse out the relaxer w/o shampoo first. And then I rinse it out with shampoo 3/4 times. Even using other shampoos that i might have.
I stopped using Neutralizing Shampoo about a year or just over. I use to self relax but got tired of doing it myself so i went back to the salon, i only go to get my relaxer done. As much as im get it done there now i still dont Neutralize, my hair dresser just shampoo 3x with my KeraCare Humecto shampoo (my request).
My hair is healthy as ever still and at bra strap.
For some reason Neutralizing Shampoo was setting my head on fire when i washed out my relaxer even though there would be no burning or tingling when the relaxer was in my head. I started to hate relaxer day due to that so i said F Neutralizing Shampoo and stopping was the best thing i did
I’m natural but YES to consultations. Your first time at a salon, meeting your cosmetologist, or seeing their work shouldn’t not be in the chair. Talk to them, have questions ready, and ask MORE questions during your first hair appointment. This could make or break your salon experience.
Your hair is so beautiful omg
After washing my hair with neutralized, I wash with other shampoo proteined products to fully throughly washout chemicals. Then neutral it ine last time. Yay🎉
I have extra on hand but always use what's in the kit the key is washing it out well before the shampoo it takes 2 kits for my head and I use 1 to 1.5 of the bottles 1 quick lather and rinse then another 3 or 4 with 10 to 15 mins of leaving it on for each and never had a problem but good tips
Yes I agree please be extra careful with at home relaxers… I had to cut off all my hair because it was so overprocessed. I have started all over. I miss my hair so much 😫
Can you do a video on the rumor of damage to the body from relaxers? Is it a myth, or is it relaxing your own hair and not using professionals? Thanks! Love you!
Tbh.... I believe it is true BUT literally every chemical we use is damaging or toxic... I'm still going to get my fresh relaxer after 11 years of being natural, I'm honestly just not happy being nappy anymore lol... the convenience of having my hair straightened trumps the bad wrap relaxers have gotten ❤ hope this perspective helps
If you’re afraid of relaxers than you should also be afraid of the pesticides in food, the air we breathe and the rays from our phones.
There are people that smoke for decades and don’t get cancer and there are people who live a very healthy lifestyles that develop cancer.
Don’t let yourself be fear mongered by every article your read. No it is not a myth, relaxers can cause long term damage but so do probably a couple dozen other things you do on a daily basis. Just make the best decision for yourself
I love your skin color, it destructing me from listening! Is it only me? 😅
Omg. Thank you! Wow!
Where are the earrings from? Could you provide a link? Thank you!!
Yeah I'm gonna buy some neutralizing shampoo now, thank you!
Awesome! Always keep a bottle on hand whenever you relax!
I relaxed my hair with that very very at home kit after 10 years of being natural and my entire hair crumbled over a 2 month period. I eventually had to cut it all off. Ground zero. It’s officially one year later and my hair has grown neck length. I often wonder if I should have used cholesterol with it to make it not as harsh.
I always have a large bottle of neutralising shampoo that I use and shampoo until it’s 100% white and not pink .. my problem is that it doesn’t seem to relax my hair properly when doing touch ups 😭 it seems all straight but by the next wash day, the roots have reverted .. almost like it’s resistant . I don’t know what to do 😭
Yes a long video! Finally lol welcome back Aunty Dom!
Just booked my next relaxer appointment with your Gloria! I've been asking my current stylist to wash my hair properly, but he doesn't listen. The minute I leave his chair, my hair starts breaking and doesn't stop for WEEKS. I have barely retained any length in 6 months since I started going to his salon. I hope things will change for the better with Gloria :)
Haven't seen you in a while. Welcome back!
When I was relaxed I always had a separate bottle of neutralizing shampoo. My aunt who is a beautician would always keep me educated
Agree! Oftentimes, the kits don't have enough relaxer in those tiny jars to evenly touch up the roots. The person applies _too little_ out of fear of running out of product which can cause unevenness or UNDERprocessed results. The person will have the same results as OVERprocessed hair - Dry, rough, frizzy, hard to style, breakage😢
I use the big bottles of neutralizer. I wash/rinse until there are ZERO suds. Then rinse again. I do not care if the hot water starts to run cool, as long as the chemicals stop processing.
One the 3rd wash letting the neutralizer sit on the hair for 5 minutes helps.
What relaxer does Gloria use on your hair?
She uses either Indigo hair relaxer or Silk Elements relaxer
@@StyleDominationthank you for that...I'm gonna request those next time I go.
I also noticed my hair hardly grows and it itches a lot when it's natural..once I relax it I have no problems. Would you happen to have an answer for me about that??😊😊😊txs so much..
And your skin is glowing...😊😊love it.
I’ve learned that box relaxer are way more stronger with chemicals in it. That’s why I stop using them in my hair. My stylist he’s expensive but I’ve noticed that my hair shed less when he does my hair then when I use box relaxers. So people please stop using those box relaxers
Hey Dominique, please can you do an update on your favourite hair products 😊
The back of my hair is sm shorter than the front (back: top neck length) (front: bottom of my neck-collar bone) I don’t know what to do
How do we get in the relaxer hair group?
Thank you so much for all your great tips and advice.
Please could you give recommendations on good salons/stylists in Toronto that are great with relaxed hair? Or if you don’t mind can you share the one you currently use? Thank you so much.
What brand relaxer do you use?
Has anyone used the phyto natural relaxer kit?? I live in Hawaii and still haven’t found a stylist I agree with with to care for my relaxed hair
Lots of people in my Relaxed hair Facebook group have used it and love it!
I live in Hawai’i too so I always do my own hair and just get trims at the salon. If you also live on Oahu I suggest getting a trim and headspa at SOHO salon. It’s the best scalp massage I ever got and my hair was perfectly shaped by the stylist
When I did go to the salon I went to Ota, but my go to stylist left the island a year ago
@@757Princess aw I understand. My main stylist left as well, his name was Hideki
This is true I was relaxed for decades like 14 to 39, I have been natural now for five years, I always went to salons for my relaxers or hair care period and my hair was long and healthy. I started traveling for work and couldn't find salons in area to do my hair mostly Caucasian area so, I started doing my own relaxers for about 3 year's, I immediately noticed my hair thinning and breaking seemed it wasn't growing because it was breaking. I was forced to go natural hair started thriving again I highly discourage doing you're relaxers at home unless you're trained to do so.
Amen...learned my lesson! Pros only from now on! Like you, once I stopped, I was amazed at the hair growth in places where it had been breaking/thinning.
Which salon do you go and where do you live I am very impressed with idea
I just love love your hair tips
Love you and your hair tips
Haven't seen you on these YT streets in a hot minute!😅 I have my "Gloria" two hours from where I live and I trust no one else (especially not me) to do a relaxer. I have been with her for 13 years. I'm moving to the other side of the U.S. and am panicking about finding a new person to do my hair. Call me bougie, but I am not above getting on a 5+ hour flight to get my hair done by someone I trust. Love your content and you're looking stunning as per usual.😊❤
What relaxer do you use?
You are always so pretty Dom. Off topic, which lip colour is it you are wearin in this vid ?
Hi, Please what relaxer do you use? Please the name and is it lye?
I agree I broke off my edges an a larger spot behind my ear😢. I was running around looking for the towel 😮
Hello Dominique. Thank you this. I noticed my hair gets stiff after self relaxing at home. Any tips to remedy this problem? I cannot go to the hair salon cause that’s where I lost all my hair I’m the first place. Any way to self relax and stop this stiffy hair problems? God bless
You need to start protein treatments.....1 egg mayonnaise olive oil...if the damage is real bad do this every week to build your hair strength
Dominique what is the brand name of the relaxer that your stylist uses on your hair ? And how can she keep it from getting on the scalp I know it's a method of application but I never had it to where it's never on my scalp please explain or maybe do a live chat with us for people who have questions thanks so much 💕 love the channel your great
You put relaxer on the new growth but avoid the scalp....maybe try a base on your entire scalp..it should help
Thank you for the new video
What about high-end $65 at home relaxer kits like Phyo(Phytospecific)? Anyone have any insight? I really don't feel like going into the salon for a touch up this month.
2:27 You are dazzlingly beautiful ma'am. Your nails are extremely beautiful
Thank you! ❤
Can you ask Gloria if she has any contacts for a good hairstylist in Toronto?? 😢
This is misinformation! I've been using box relaxers for eons. That's not true that box relaxers don't supply enough nuetralizing shampoo. Where did you get your research from? How do you really know if you been going to Gloria for over 30 years? If it is the case that there is a lack of nuetralizing shampoo then I would be bald and I'm no where near bald. I think this is an irresponsible claim!
Go away hater!
Do you use lye or no lye?
Can you please do a length check of your hair.
I used neutralizing conditioner; it was great but they don't make it anymore.
I have been getting realaxers for years now I am afraid to because of this cancer story my hair now is a hot mess I just dont like natural hair does not work for me can anyone give advice on are there any natural hair relaxers out there I think this is a conversation we need to have about these relaxers
I’ve been relaxing my hair for 35 years and now there is talk about it causing cancer. Can you do a video on this and if there are safe relaxer options out there for us to use?
Look into the research, a lot of it was misdirection. Women relaxing too often, letting it sit until it burns and then rinsing based on their own testimonials. The study never said the relaxers were the cause just that they could be the cause. Correlation is causation. Relaxers have the same active ingredient as Nair the hair removal kit and there is no cry that that causes cancer but somehow on black skin chemistry and science acts different. Any chemical when used incorrectly or too often will have repercussions. Relax as seldom as possible and paying attention to the time for application.
@hrhsophiathefirst4060 I'm not relaxed but this was a great answer!
Study was based on lye relaxers. Use no lye.
Salon relaxers burned my scalp. They're too harsh and stylists never pay enough attention to not touch my scalp.
Just came back from my first professional salon visit where she concentrates on hair health along with relaxed hair. I definitely notice the difference and imma just stay out of my own head.
I admire you ❤️
Dominique you are so lovely.
Any tips for growing in edges at age 54?
I love relaxed hair my hair is too tight it's not my thing
I get my hair professionally relaxed by my stylist. She uses affirm fiberguard relaxer.
I know you don't want kids, but I really look up to you as a beautiful, stylish, and poised big sister! I admire you so much 🥹 💙
The country I live in, you are better off using relaxer kits and doing it yourself because the so called professionals will over process your hair. I use home kit that doesn't come with neutralising shampoo so I have a separate neutralising shampoo that rinses my relaxer out completely .
Thanks but you're super dupper cool and gorgeous ❤❤❤
I disagree : relaxer Rise the ph of hair, neutralizing shampoo lower the high ph caused by crème relaxer. Thé solution is not use more shampoo. Thé solution is lower the ph of hair with acidic shampoo (redken for example) or with acidic rince (apple cider vinegar). Relaxer dont stay, its the ph of hair that IS not correclty lower. Its acidic-base réaction
I’ve never be relaxed ever but I used to watch my mom do hers
I’m so happy you finally made a full length video, I just wish it was longer.
What did you put on your hair to smooth it down?
why would you need so much relaxer if you are only touching up. your new growth,
Something very important that I learned in cosmetology is that the shampoo isn't what can remove Hydroxides, only water does that. rinsing is MUCH more important than shampooing
I am not relaxed anymore but also I dont think it is chemically compatible to use regular shampoo with relaxer residue still in the hair. I think that can also be damaging to the hair. So it is an absolute MUST that you neutralize the relaxer until it is completely out of the hair before using regular shampoo. Regular shampoo opens up the hair shaft, so if you still have relaxer residue in your hair, regular shampoo will open up the hair shaft, possibly making it worst. So don't think that you can just use your regular shampoo. Do what Dom says and buy a bottle of neutralizing shampoo. I am a natural girlie but I love seeing black women with their own beautiful, flourishing hair.😊
ORS is too watery
This isn't true. I've been using Dark & Lovely for a looong time; it has plenty of shampoo, and even when I went to a salon they never used that much shampoo. Even my cousin who had his own shop and showed me how to get that stuff washed out properly.
Creme of nature neutralizer.
How about stop using relaxers period. Poison to the scalp and hair. Yes, I wore a relaxer for many years in my younger years. As a licensed hairstylist I advise against putting lyes in your hair. Fun fact, water neutralizes the chemical in the hair so rinsing and then rinsing again is the key!
Well Doctor help us find something us black women can use without paying 49.99 just for a natural relaxer. Doctor? Figure this one out. Thks 😊
There aee plwnty of people who use boxed kits on UA-cam and their hair is thriving.
Let people do their homework and continue to do what works for them.
Gloria just wants more clients
I thought your are all about child free crap?