SHOCKING: Woman with 60+ Bodies is Having Troubled Marriage?
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- SHOCKING: Woman with 60+ Bodies is Having Troubled Marriage?
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Ruslan, you sound a little cynical there, for a minute, Bro. You're right. With sin, you can't choose the consequence. Although brokenness needs to know that, they also need that charity you're always talking about!!!
I’m just Glad God isn’t scared of our situations. He can pull us outta anything. All glory to God! 🙌
Amen. There is nothing in our past that disqualifies us from his love. ❤
Exactly! 🙌
Amen, no one is too far gone!
Absolutely 💯
Fine, doesnt make you entiled to a ring.
What helped me in my struggle against lust was having people from church pray over me, confessing my sin, and intaking a lot of scripture
Yes ! Jesus Christ saves all sinners, and renews the mind and spirit 🕊️ ❤️ 🙏 Same for me, although I don't think church people prayed over me. Maybe they did. But I did go to Confession and tell the priest I used to fornicate. Now I'm abstinent and happier than ever !
That's fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I love how Ray Rock refused to laugh at the degrading joke. This is what I imagine Paul means when he tells older men to be sober minded.
Right I was just saying that!!
Degrading Joke??😂It wasn't a joke it was an observation. When you sleep with 60+ men in a span of 5 years Thats an avg of 12 new guys every year. There's no joke in calling a spade a spade. A joke didn't degrade this woman she did that herself.
Deuteronomy 22:21 "Then they shall bring out the young woman to the door of her father’s house, and the men of her city shall stone her to death with stones, because she has done a disgraceful thing in Israel, to play the harlot in her father’s house. So you shall put away the evil from among you.'
That is how seriously God is disgusted by sexual sin. Only because we now live under grace does this woman still have a chance to repent. And of course if she truly does God will forgive her... However to NOT call her actions repulsive is outrageous. If you will judge, judge righteously. Not all women would even sleep with that many men, and no one forced her into their beds. You can choose the sin, but you can't choose the shame that comes bundled with it. Christians care more about this woman feelings than her poor husband having to deal with the consequences of them. Even Ruslan was like Nah, you can't just sweep this one under the rug!
Ephesians 5:11-12 "Have no fellowship with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them. 12 For it is SHAMEFUL even to mention what the disobedient do in secret."
Well put @denory
@@denroybercier in the modern church female sins don't matter apparently. She Can just say she's a born again virgin and be fine. But I can't say I'm a born again millionaire when I'm 500k in debt. Go figure.
@@venividivici6418 "Born again Millionaire" I have to steal that line😂
Sex was this poor young woman’s drug, that “addiction “ needs to be addressed before trying to have a marriage. Sobriety “ celibacy” would be the way to go.
She's a poor young woman? If this was a man you wouldn't be saying that . Amen for forgiveness but let's not make her a saint for her sin. She is a Saint now only cause of the blood
@@jtecheira304 yes I would, I say this a lot talking with women from church’s that are starting purity classes for girls in their church. What about the boys, why are you not talking purity classes for boys?
@@Dontrolling no poor husband
🙏🏼💯
Unfortunately even if she works out no one can be a born again virgin.
King David "a man after Gods own heart"
Did not escape the consequences......
I think it's crazy how ppl like this. I'm a Christian now, and I don't even care how ppl end up this broken. I was molested by my uncle and my girl cousin as a kid. I was introduced to porn at the age of 4. I was abandoned by my dad, and I always felt rejected by my family all my life. I went through a whole self-destructive mode for 20yrs plus, but God. I hear all these traditional men talking about the women body count being an issue, but promote men having multiple females. I person think I went through stuff to help women that deal w these demons. I just saying. Satan is disgusting and continue to blind our youth. While Christians judge.
@@kkb892 I think you completely misunderstood what she said. Read it again.
Sis pray for them, They got this all wrong! they are gonna have to deal with a lesson from God if they want to prob others sins above there own. Stay strong in the Lord sis
I praying for this young lady and the laughing was honestly necessary
Sorry you went through, happy God rescued you. Exactly, I wonder if the pastor asked her why? It seems to be about shaming females even in the Christian community like men with similar pasts won't struggle in marriage also. Unfortunately, this is why so many people run from the church.
@@theroadlesstravelled7754 Why sleep with 60 men? What's a good reason for that? And why should her husband suffer because of her bad sexual choices. Reverse the genders. I highly doubt that you would encourage Christian women to try to play therapy for Men who macked through 60 woman. So why should men?
Unfortunately I have a high body count. Yet fortunately it's been almost 4 years since I had sex and waiting for my fiance/ wife when we get married. The longer you walk with God and abstain it really changes you in ways you didn't think were possible. I feel so bad for some of these people thinking your value is in how many people you have slept with. When I think back to my experiences it's almost like it never happened. God has this way of making you forget about it just like he has forgotten about it.
Don't worry, you won't be ridiculed.
I'm right there too. Abstinent for two yrs and experiencing changes in my spirit that are now elevating me beyond anything I can imagine. God is good and when you give him your life, mind, body and soul .. as long as you don't let go, you will never be the same ! Glory be to God Almighty! 🕊️
Same here it's been about 5 years for me and God took away my lusting over women and addiction to porn away from me, I am very grateful to Him for his forgiveness. Now I am focused on learning the His word and not on finding a wife, I know that He will give me a wife when I am ready.
Lucky you’re a guy. I have 100+ bodies, but nobody really gives a fuck. At least girls dont… havent engaged in that behavior in years, good looking, financially successful. Im still gonna bag a beautiful virgin.
I pray God brings her complete restoration! ❤ He came for the sick, and we were all unwell before we knew Jesus!
Women have been talked to softly for so long that correction feels like judgment. When you have the same energy with men, no one asks you to change your tone. We are more likely to accept correction.
Totally agree here
That’s why I want to have sex after marriage. I’ve never had sex before. Never. That’s one of the reasons why I want to wait until after marriage, to keep it exciting over time. I never even knew what sex was until I met the man that I’m with now. We are still going strong after two years and almost five months of dating. I also want to wait until marriage to have sex because I don’t want to deal with babies right away. I want to wait until we are both financially secure and to live life with my significant other.
I've often heard of christians mouth kissing after marriage as well but not sure how common that is. There was an even old Christian movie about it
@@williss1192 I have a friend who waited to have her first kiss until her wedding day.
@Abby Jones Me too!
Please keep waiting until marriage! I'm married and I'm fighting so much because of my past sins. It really does take away from sex with your partner.
Moat men try to have multiple partners though...that's why they change scripture like the lutherans...why aren't the Lutherans being smited if sex is that big of deal you can just do what you want anyways by changing the scripture...
THANK YOU RUSLAN FOR SPEAKING TRUTH!!!! IS THERE FORGIVENESS...YES! IS THERE CONSEQUENCES FOR SIN/CHOICES?!!!!
Amen Amen Amen
This take is such a breath of fresh air and exactly what the modern church needs. Too many chaste men being told to just accept born again virgin women and shut up and be happy.
Why is it that when ppl are saying something is wrong, others automatically say you're shaming that person. Wrong is wrong, it is what it is
I really like this quote that says "truth without love is brutality. Love without truth is hypocrisy". Many people approach promiscuity solely through one of these lens, and typically when people are admonishing women for fornicating, it's strictly from the "truth" angle to the point of being cruel. Why would anyone listen to someone just bash them, without first knowing they have their best interest in mind?
Daaaamn… what a mess. 🤦♀️ It doesn’t mean she can’t work on her relationship/ herself and have a good marriage. But my goodness… I wonder what that young lady was going through that she was using sex to dull the pain of.
Most of the time they are from abusive relationships. It has a way of leading to promiscuity
@@Ashley_MG Abuse as a child can lead to that kind of behavior also. 😢
True, I agree with you. Or maybe she was just doing it for the high life? We don't really know her circumstances.
I love you guys both talking so openly about these things. As a viewer though, I would personally like to hear more from you about *how* to get out of debt, both literally and spiritually, and less about the fact that being in debt is bad. I think most Christians understand that debt is bad, that sleeping with many people is bad, but what about the solution for those who have already made those mistakes? That’s what I would like to hear about more in the Christian community personally. Blessings 🙏
I'm with Ruslan on this.
At times we can be too sensitive to the truth even we make bad choices.
Good conversation
Let's normalize not demonizing women who have a past. Especially those who are trying to live for Christ and are married. That "for the streets" comment was highly inappropriate and immature. But I'm also not surprised that Ruslan laughed at it.
I agree as long as they renounce the lifestyle and work with God
The issue is seldom are people renouncing or even being honest about these consequences. Just look at some of these comments. The denial is wild
@@BlessGodStudios Well, I have to say, renouncing something and clowning it are two different things. That "for the streets" comment was more akin to mocking than admonition. Though I understand how easily one could slip into that.
Don’t get salty now
Me either
I feel Men to be just as damaged from pornography. I went through a traumatic divorce and found pornography during it and it helped him to have a "hit" of dopamine to feel better. Of course this immediately spiraled to a horrible place. It has taken me YEARS and having all my devices locked and I don't know passwords to content and my MIND still betrays me. The memories of all those images is still there and when I'm "weak" for whatever reason they haunt me.
You truly have to STAY in the word and focused with such past sexual trauma. My heart goes out to those who actually have real abuse, and what they have to deal with.
This is why purity is important. I'd like to be the only man in my wife's sex life. Honestly, most girls I've met are normal and have high respect for themselves. I did meet wild ones occasionally but in nature weren't bad people. (From my experience) I've seen some Christians after they get saved really take it hard and regret sleeping with different women. Like you said it takes more work but keep up the faith. I really like the video in discussion for this topic.
To be of a wild spirit is most definitely "bad"
Shame for sin is healthy! It causes us to seek forgiveness and reconciliation with God. Accepting forgiveness and forgiving yourself is the next step. This is true freedom!
Massive respect for this take Ruslan. This is what's caused lots of men to leave the church. Born again virgin bs.
How about born again millionaire. I have 1mil in debt from gambling but I'm saved so that doesn't matter anymore and you should accept me as I am!
Ray Rock provides such great balance. Always a great guest for real.
Ray is a master at never calling out sin, but instead glossing over every issue with "Well, that person claims to be a Christian now so their past is irrelevant."🙄
The same effect happens to men who do corn... I was married to someone who did it behind my back the whole time and also had intimacy problems so he would always focus on the mechanics of sex. It was very impersonal and yet never quite novel enough for him. It wasn't about love or being one; it was all about him trying to live out whatever the corn told him was supposed to be good and all I wanted to do was be loved. He withheld from me and basically wouldn't let me touch him at all or touch me at all on top of completely shutting me out of his life. There are no words to describe the pain of it all but I had to divorce him. I've dealt with hating him so much for what he did to me and all the years I lost, but Jesus has led me out of that dark valley. I met an amazing man at church and I am just trusting the Lord right now.
I believe the problem begins when you start viewing sex as something that's an important aspect of a marriage, the intimacy is what plays a role but when there is an expectation/desire of just being pleasured it will create issues regardless of the amount of previous partners you have had. If you can find a way to appreciate the intimacy and also prioritize your partners pleasure over your own you can reconcile the marriage. That was one of the biggest wake up calls for me when I got married and really gave my life to Christ, just realizing sex is really not important. Idc if I can have it or not, an intimate kiss can satisfy that aspect of the marriage for me, imo.
For some reason the verse " 1 Timothy 2: 15 Yet she will be saved through childbearing-if they continue in faith and love and holiness, with self-control." speaks volumes in this.
That I actually agree with.
That's over 10 a year!
I can't even fathom sleeping with that many men in my lifetime and I'm 36.
Stop giving it away to whole football teams ladies!
She was sexually active from 16-21 years old
Married for 5 years now 26yrs old (and sexually bored)
By my math 60 bodies in 5 years = 12 bodies per year on average
Unfortunately sometimes people who have been sexually abused at a young age.. develope a sex addiction
@@gatestimonymiracle1302 exception not the rule
@@JIX9ISLER1986 1 out of 4 girls have been molest so this is the majority, not the exception.
It's so sad that you are suppose to be a Christian but this is what you decide to say. A lot of girls aren't purposely trying to be promiscuous. Maybe do a little research before making these women feel worse then they already do. So many women have been molested or exposed to sexual things and no one interjected and helped them.
60 bodies for a woman is just wild to me. Even though, I have a high body count as a male and I struggle with my past actions daily.
Alot of y'all women are getting offended because this young lady is you as well. Sadly, my story is very similar to this lady. I dont know her back story but i was molested at 3 and I showed signs but i was just spanked so the mindest was still there. Abuse makes us view our bodies as objects and not temples. I feel so bad for everything i have done but i had no idea how depraved i was and nobody ever helped me. At 19 i heard a voice say "why are you giving you're to men who dont love you?" And that is actually where I started realizing how crazy i was acting. God was the only one who interjected in my life but sadly im still dealing with the consequences of sex. I'm married to a man ive told everything to and though it was disappointing to hear he still loved me enough to look past that. I still feel disgusted at myself, i feel bad that my body is used up the way it was and my husband doesnt really have anything special because of that. I really wish i would of known better but all i can do is help my daughters and other young ladies to not make the choices i did in life.
Your comment touches me because you’re carrying around so much guilt and shame. Once you truly repented, theres no need to carry that burden. The devil uses shame of our past sins to make us feel unworthy and Im sorry, that will probably have a worse effect on your life than the actual past. The devil uses shame to keep us from accepting God’s true love and forgiveness.
Isaiah 54:4
Dont walk around with that scarlet letter on your chest.
@@autumnoneil7417 what is true repentance? I thought I did that already by repenting and turning from my since. I feel like the outcome of my actions are what's making me remember and feel bad. But my understanding of repentance may not be correct so I'm open to a better understanding.
Confess to a priest for absolution. This clears the slate completely, if you faithfully do the prayers and penance he assigns.
I'm aware that not everyone is Catholic, but I hadn't practiced in many yrs. One day I went to confess all my past promiscuity. When I came out of the church, I found the nearest spot full of trees and cried uncontrollably like a baby.
The grace of God and His forgiveness and mercy flowed through me in such a way.
Now when I hear negative comments from men, the pain of their words, insults, jokes ... it's more of a memory of pain, like a scar, rather than a fresh wound.
I swear on my life and the lives of all whom I love ... Confession to a priest restores the soul.
@@rosegarden2014 Only Jesus will know if you’re truly repentant, but with repentance should come joy. I dont think you should feel disgusted with yourself (maybe the sin itself but you are not your sin) Jesus doesn’t look at you as disgusting and you shouldn’t either💕 have a blessed day okay
This is true contrition at sxl sin that's incredibly rare amongst women nowadays, including most supposed born again virgins.
It's beautiful to see. Starting from this full understanding of the magnitude of your wrongs, you definitely have a chance now to put things right.
When he said sin cost the same on the cross, but the effects of different sins can vary made me think of an analogy: you can buy $20 worth of candy or $20 worth of healthy food. They cost the same but the effect of them on you is different.
Bodies is an unusual word in this case. I saw the thumbnail and thought is this girl a serial killer.
That's common slang, when I see a woman and body + number, I already know
@@MelodicAssymetry445 Thanks
I'm hearing there's a deeper issue she's not addressing. What was going on at 16 years old, that she was using sex so often? What was she escaping from? This culture makes sex so casual, as casual as food, and people are addicted.
This makes me sad for marriages nowadays, because most people I know have been with other people in the past. Hookup culture is very bad today, and it’s setting up so many young people for failed marriages in the future. I do think we should not expect the worst out of everyone who has had these upbringings, but we do need to face the facts. My question is though, if someone were to have a sex addiction, should they not get married and struggle with that addiction for the rest of their life? I know that adultery could still occur, but I’m just asking because I’m genuinely curious.
She for the streets?😢 that comment was not cool.
Love what you’re doing Ruslan. Keep up the blessed work
People don't realize how damaging sleeping with others that aren't your husband or wife does to you inside starting with corrupting your mind and heart. BUT THERE IS HOPE IN JESUS.
If I'm the dude married to her and I just now heard the 60 number I'm freaking out! How can you not? I think it could seriously damage the marriage.
She got so many soul ties and sex means nothing to her ...its just like having a meal
soul ties aren't an ACTUAL biblical concept... it was taught in the 90's and 2000's by ignorant so called preachers with terrible misusing of scriptures. the corinthian churches from ancient days literally had sex cults and orgies going on... not once did Paul give instruction for how to break soul ties because its NOT a thing. but y'all are so quick to point fingers at others sins because it makes you feel better... thats why ppl still believe in this unbiblical nonsense... smh
did Jesus tell the lady at the well that she now needs to break her soul ties???? of course not! becuase there is no such thing! instead he called her to repentance
Pretty much the way men treat sex
@@geewhiz747 she’s not a man
Aka also broken men
You do know soul ties can be broken right? Just like demons can be cast out. I'm starting to think y'all aren't real believers bc if you don't believe Jesus can set people free and renew them, then you don't really believe in Jesus.
I would be interested to know if her husband knew about the number of guys she was with before they got married or if he learned this in the counseling session.
You already know the answer
Testimony here that it absolutely IS possible through Christ to STOP sex, porn AND desires when you are ready and willing!
My number was in the 20's when I got married. I had that warped mindframe that sex meant love, 15 yrs of marriage and that never changed. When we divorced, I surrendered completely and fully to God. Everything i had, everything i was, all of it! God showed me the way! That was 10 yrs ago and not a single issue! I am now a bride of Christ ❤️
God can release you from ANY burden or sin. YOU have to want it bad enough. ❤️✝️
Why is Ruslan suprised of 60+ body count? I thought he also watches the Whatever podcast? Girls there have stated numbers in the 100s more times than I can remember
It's just sad because if a young person is promiscuous and when they are an adult they get saved they can be with only their spouses for the rest of their life but the body count doesn't go away. God transforms them and they be with only one person, their last person, for 40 years but some Christians would still focus on the high body count especially if the person was a girl and not a boy.
Only Christians who lack maturity and understanding. I don't look down on people who have a high body count because I understand that (especially for women) alot of times it comes from a place of brokenness. When someone comes to the Lord, the Word of God says that He blots out their sin for His benefit! Sooooo if God blots out our sin (He forgets it), why are we judging Christians for their past???? Are you better than that person or holier than God? My recommendation to women of God who have high body counts is to pray for a husband who has the mind and heart of Christ. I've seen testimonies of former porn stars getting saved and then getting married to Christian men, so God can do it :)
@@racpatrice This is a given. No one has the right to judge, our past is no one's business..! Whi goes around asking 'how many partnets did you have?' Thst would be totally off!!
However, I see the tide turning and now I am experiencing the shunning of virgins / those never married singles in church settings. At least at Christian dating sites.. Women can have multiple divorces and still find a husband, but a single person is considered non desirable.. Porn stars getting married to pastors is nothing surprising, it is common and it happens a lot.. but if a never married, celibate woman hopes for a husband, that is seen as odd, and she is told 'just be content'.. it is truly twisted..! All of us girls need a husband with the heart of Christ, not some arrogant or macho or sex crazed 'perfect man'..
@@racpatrice Bruh this is silly. I am a dude that hasn't been sxually pure. If a woman doesn't want to be with me because of this then that is a perfectly fine decision and says nothing about their Christ-like character. We as people are allowed to have standards. And the whole statement of "my past is none of your business" is ridiculous. Your past informs who you are and what you are like today. It is most definitely the business of someone who is considering marrying you.
Everyone who has made a comment on May 3 and May 4, I agree with. It's not a given one said. True, some people do only look at the person for who they are now and not the past. But in general body count especially but not exclusively concerning women is a conversation topic both in media and personal relationships. And in the Christian circle sadly other peoples body count is judged more than in the world who doesn't know Christ. It's discussed just as much if not more but people in the world are more forgiving of ones sexual past than people in the church. I know partly because there is no standard with the world so why would they care. But we have Christ and we shouldn't be like the other son in the story of The prodigal son who couldn't get over his brothers falleness and just celebrate his restoration. Not only do we ask the brother how many harlots did you sleep with but we hold him to it forever.
Imagine the scenario about debt you brought up but picture if people knew about your debt and other Christians gave you a look like "dang, that sucks now you gotta deal with that". That is not very encouraging especially for people that are trying to do the right thing and turn their life around and live for Christ. Sexual sin has brought down the strongest of Christian men, which is why God advices us to flee from it. Ruslan you struggled with corn, you said you battled it for 10 years, you should relate to this story. You should be more encouraging with regards to this topic.
It’s not. But you know what’s FLAT OUT unloving. Is acting like debt is cool or that it doesn’t have to be dealt with.
@@BlessGodStudios No one is saying that. You're missing the point. My point is when you see a Christian trying to do the right thing and allowing themselves to feel convicted and trying to fix it and is seeking guidance we shouldn't go "oh dang that's some major debt you gotta deal with" like yeah man they obviously know that, which is why they are looking for guidance, I am sure any born again Christian wishes they could go back and undo a lot of the sins they committed but they can't, no one can, which is where Gods grace comes in, which is then going to instill hope and we as Christians should encourage them along a righteous path not point our how heavy their burdens are.
@@BlessGodStudios Love you Rus my brother, thank you for responding. You have a great show. God bless you and your family brother.
I think we take different approaches. I appreciate when Ramsey “you’re a million dollars in debt!?, how did this happen? Your actions were stupid, and you’ll have to clean this up” approach. You don’t. That’s fine. That’s why Ray was here 🤷♂️🤣
@@BlessGodStudios and this is where wisdom with age comes in. An elder man would certainly realize that sinning against your own body brings up soooo much more shame and guilt that being 1 million dollars in debt. Money is not as personal and sexual sins against God. An elder would be more wise and give more hope on a situation where shame is abundant.
Their whole argument isn’t about them having standards but it’s about making men change their standards to match with theirs. I’ve watched so many of these and it’s always the same, it’s like they expect men to lower their standards to accept them.
who would've thought
I been with just over 100 from the age of 14 to 16. Looking back I realise that a lot of it was child abuse with me thinking I consented.
I met my partner just before turning 17. I have been with him for 15 years, we have an 8 year old. And a healthy meaningful Relationship.
This red pill shit is funny to me! Most of these red pillers and single and advocate for men sleeping around.
Dichotomy at its finest
"Body count" is seen as a badge of honor these days. It is not. There are consequences, as can be seen in the comments. But God is so forgiving and willing to restore. Grace greater than our sin.
I feel bad for this man. Christian men (and women), please only extend the grace that God has extended to you. If you've waited till marriage and your partner has a high count, it's okay to not take on that burden. However, if God has redeemed you from having a high notch, extend the same grace. And whatever burdens and hurts that come with both you're pasts (both inwardly and from your spouse), your shared grace will allow you to work on it together. But do your due diligence on the sexual past, financial situation, relationship and life burgage on the person you want to be with, then have an honest assessment on yourself before decided of the relationship can really work.
Ruslan, why did you use a woman from that other podcast as the thumbnail? You did her dirty bro😂
God can help us in EVERY situation. But, consequences of sin we may have to deal with our entire lives! God can still give us grace and help in the midst of our trouble.
Something that always shocks me is the comments is whenever a negative concept is pointed toward women. They think Ruslan doesn't understand the negative situation because he warns about the negative consequences. As if it's the only thing he is critical of.
Ruslan is against any kind of degeneracy because he was a victim of it, but he doesn't have the mindset of a victim. He keeps the same energy with the red pill and even debated some of them.
I read comments about m*lestation and abuse and how that makes you more prone to being sexually promiscuous. Do you guys forget Ruslan's testimony? He literally has a free course to help people break free from their addictions.
He keeps the same energy when he talks about Finances. Guess what? He and his family had been in debt for a while before getting out of it. He's blunt because he's been there, he's blunt because people need to be warned, and he's blunt because the situation can be fixed. That's just the way he is
Does he ridicule men in the same way? Check the background of most women who are promiscuous and then maybe you will understand why his response could have been more meaningful and compassionate.
I know you probably did not mean it that way but people who have sexual trauma are not sleeping with people because they are addicted to sex. I don't think. I mean I don't even know if there is any research on this or whether its just something people say, or believe. Sexual trauma is very complex and I would say the worst type is child sexual abuse. I pray for any person who has experienced that. Just imagine that happening to you as a child and then blaming yourself. Please anybody reading this you have no need to feel guilt you were an innocent child.
@@missp498 my comment was not meant to blame anyone but to remember who the messenger is. Ruslan's innocence was taken from him as a child, he's not coming at this issue to condemn people rather he suggests a solution. When he attacks the red pill, it's ok. When he attacks promiscuity, it's ok. When there is a woman, it's not ok anymore. That's what I noticed
@@theroadlesstravelled7754 I mean he ridicule F&F who recommends men to have 50 partners before settling. He shows statistics telling parteners (1 man and 1 woman) have a better sexual experience when they have had less parteners or even better when they marry whithout prior experience (virgin). He's not bashing women, just bad advices and he suggests a solution to avoid or fix the situation
@@urielgloire I think some people don't like his tone on this video. Its comes off judgemental and shaming and perhaps a little juvenile.
Yes, we are triune. The triune God said man was made in "our" image. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
The response initially was shameful enough for the lady or any in her position. We're overlooking that yes their are consequences but the God I serve makes all things the enemy has set out to destroy, good. Yes, if her physical body is out of whack if God says supernaturally he can make it new. Then, he can do that. We down play the power of God. We dont have accept any and everything. Greater is he that is in me than he that is in the world. He can do all things. Mental, physical, super natural. But, yes their are consequences but don't limit Gods ability. He still heals!
Soul Ties ain’t no joke. I speak on this on my channel. Been celibate for 10 yrs, we can’t entertain demons and also expect happiness.
Our minds must be restored by the renewing of our minds. What does the WORD tell us we need to do to renew the mind? This must be worked out.
That’s a man a month from 16-21 years old.
Working out our salvation with fear and trembling (Philip 2:12); mental and emotional strongholds are real too (2 Cor. 10:1-5). The older gentleman speaks facts regarding multiple partners physically and emotions. Oxytocin is the bonding hormone, which is released during physical intimacy.
Yes ppl will have to pay the consequences despite being renewed spiritually, and we can be honest about that, but one of those consequences should not be to be laughed at or degraded by professing Christians. Your guest had the best posture towards this young womans situation imo. He is a very good addition.
QuickTake here… I think we need to look at the response of Christ to the woman at the well and to other women of ill repute when it comes to sins of a sexual nature. I think the analogy of debt is apropos for some things, but I don’t think that it’s so much so for sexual sin. I think there is also the analogy of bankruptcy, and that your slate can be wiped completely clean by Jesus Christ himself.
Ruslan, I think you need to be very careful when making analogies of this nature. Also, it is of utmost importance to consider what Paul says about forgiveness, and those who sin more and you can be certain that this woman having send some prolifically in this area of her life not only has a tremendous amount of forgiveness from the Lord, but also has a tremendous amount of subsequent forgiveness for others.
What about the Mary M we know which Mary we’re referring to, Forgive First Receive First 🙏🏼
Ruslan never denied that Jesus loves and forgives all, but he said that doesn't erase natural consequences in this life. If someone doesn't want to be with me because I messed up with an ex, then I don't think that they are doing anything wrong by saying that is a reason to not be with me. That is a consequence of my actions.
Although it would be troublesome, I'm sure it would be a bit less problematic it both of them were seeking Christ and open with one another.
Like Ray Ortlund spoke about in his book, the Death of Porn.
Next time, please replay the video you're showing at it's original speed please. I found myself being forced to slow down the video, then speed it back up when you guys discussed it. Thank you!
He can’t because his video will be flagged or removed by UA-cam.
I was married at 19 my husband 22 we have been married for 28 years because I can’t see myself being with other men . And the secret to our marriage is that I don’t have male friends he has women friends but it’s in the nature to seek other females but the conversation are around religion or business.
Very good take from ruslan and ray
60 customers or 60 one night stand or 60 relationships?
Yeah, and a situation like that shows that the young woman still needs liberation in that area. That sounds like some unclean spirits need to be cast out. We cannot totally disregard that unclean spirits are still part of the issue.
I am going to show this to my kids because I really want them to understand why I'm saying wait till marriage other than just "it says so in the bible" and this was so beautifully said. Thank you😊
It does matter to wait and hold yourself
Butttt no debt is too big for God!!!! It don't matter if she 100 partners, God still loves her and he can restore her to a place where she can enjoy her 1 husband all she needs is deliverance!!
Can you share the video that you two are commenting on?
Damn that's Scary... Cold as 🧊🥶 bars
0:53 "Pandora box has been opened"
I disagree.....Pandoras "Box" 📦 has been
blown to bits 💣🧨💥
him him him her her bodies bodies bodies BODIES!!!!
Oh this was sooo good.
Most women I know that have a higher body count have been abused at a young age. That is not a justification for sin. However, they were trained that their bodies were for the use of others to earn their love.
Why would they value themselves if those who were charged to love them abuse them and their bodies?
This is very sad, but common.
I also disagree with the gentleman to a point regarding the more sexual partners the more difficult it is to be sexually satisfied for a woman; every woman I know doesn't have an issue.
They gave their bodies to be loved and not to be pleased before knowing Christ.
This may be true for non believers, but I don't think it's true for believers. At least in my experience. Most of those women only gave their bodies to be loved. If anything they struggle to find the beauty in sex after marriage, but Jesus can do all things...
I feel bad for the husband. All things become new,BOL! She can't erase all of the men she was with, that's why she feels as she does. You can stop doing drugs but for as long as you live that feeling will never be forgotten.
soul ties are REAL. Ungodly soul ties are the worse. And it most often times comes from sex. The more partners you have, the more soul ties you create. And it ain’t easy by to break it. So be wise people.
Yo Ruslan, where does Ray Rock get his hats from ?
I have to disagree that the number of partners you have before marriage ALWAYS decreases your pleasure once you’re married. Both my husband and I had more partners than we wish we’d had prior to marriage and being saved, and after 11 years of marriage our physical relationship is better and more satisfying than anything we experienced in our past. The ideal is 💯 to save yourself for marriage but for anyone out there who doesn’t have that story don’t believe that married s*x can’t be amazing, satisfying, and the best you’ve had 🙌🏻 with God at the center you’ll be closer and feel more safe to explore each other in ways you wouldn’t otherwise. Christians should talk more about this, just because we follow Jesus doesn’t mean we can’t have a very happy and wonderful (faithful and pure) s*x life! Just saying 🤷🏼♀️
Yes love overrides all. There is nothing Jesus can't do
Definitely not the case for me 😢 I'm praying God can help me so I can be satisfied. I'm so upset at myself but idk what to do.
@@rosegarden2014keep praying and asking God and he us able to help u
The facts are what they are. You don’t have to agree. But there’s MOUNTAINS of data that prove higher body counts equal less satisfaction and more likelihood of divorce.
Again that’s what happens when someone who has never experience sex for pleasure and only sees it sacred for marriage philosophy is based. Since you’ve experience multiple partners you can say that point of view is not true.
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01:00 had to come back to this lol
Back again 😂
Ruslon is so petty lol 😂
1:07 young girls are LIED TO about sexuality. It’s so sad.
Were can I find a man that thinks and feels this way about marriage.
Church
@@Shekupe_k 😂😂😂
Purity is a present condition, not a past one.
Shalom men of God and many blessings to you both and to your beautiful wives and families (personal/ministries).
You both shared some healthy truths regarding this situation.
And the man of God, Mr. Rock is right, The Most High's standards are much more sound. They actually carry the power to protect our value and protect us from destroying ourselves.
As for the clip you have shared Mr. Ruslan, the young lady who is the topic of discussion in this segment is in need of important revelation about soul ties. Her multiple sexual encounters left behind many soul ties. And those soul ties need to be broken off her life. This is one of the reasons why she is having certain troubles in her marriage. She has also exposed her husband to those ties and if her husband was sexually active before marriage, then he too has exposed his wife to the soul ties that are in his life as well. So both the young lady and her husband have been transferring different spirits back and forth from the soul ties that were created from their former sexual encounters. And this can cause an issue in their intimacy.
So they both need help coming out of agreement with the soul ties that are in their lives.
This is why it is never good for a man or woman to experiment with sex before marriage. This kind of indulgence brings imbalance to a person's internal make up, especially the intimate part of a person's make up. Having sex outside of marriage can create room for people to have a very distorted view on love, intimacy, covenant, and relationships. The Most High designed sex with a particular set of spiritual laws. And when those laws are broken by people who are not married, those same persons open themselves to experiences that can reap unhealthy consequences at the end. Sex is not to be treated as something common. And it is not just a random thing to take for granted or abuse. Sex outside of marriage cheapens the true experience that garments the intimacy within this gift. There is nothing weak or passive about a person having discipline and restraint and self control and dignity when it comes to their sexual nature. It is very valuable and we need to understand the importance of protecting it. God Bless you all and Shalom
Sin disqualifies us to enter Heaven on our own merit. But sins definitely vary in degree of evil.
Is spiritual less real than reality? Is God less real than what we see? Nah fam, if we’re renewed by God we are RENEWED full stop. The point of the scripture is that we now have to renew our minds to our new reality in Christ.
Great video by the way. Who is this guy? I'd like to see more of his content. Also, for, the man in the green hat. I don't think we're saying she can't be transformed. But I have one question for you. Would you tell your son to marry her?
Should a father let his daughter marry you with your sin? Are you better?
@Alex Ika If my sin was being abusive, would you tell your daughter to prioritize marrying a man who has a history of beating his wife? The answer is no. If you did, you'd be a bad parent. Nobody is talking about forgiveness from God, but that doesn't mean that you can avoid the consequences of your specific sin. All sins don't have the same consequences.
@@TruthSeeker_7 ok they don’t but are you saying that your sin has better consequences than hers? Have you been promiscuous? Would a father want his daughter to marry a promiscuous man to then cheat on her and break her heart??
@Alex Ika Who said anything about better? I said sins don't have the same consequences. And you can't choose what other people prefer. If I was promiscuous, a good father wouldn't want their daughter to marry me. It's common sense.
So no one knows if she's been molested or raped ? that effects women all the time. Even men that get molested can act out. Men can be just as bad as women when it comes to lust and unfulfillment.
Not everyone whose promiscuous has been assaulted. Let’s not lift autonomy
@@BlessGodStudios but most have in one way or another.
@@priscymrp3211 Proof please?
where did she find 60 dudes?
There is godly love shown in this video, but with two men talking I wonder if the same energy would be given with a guy who has 60-plus bodies? That's way more common and the reason why so many males don't commit and minds immature.
You understand that sex is extremely hard for men to get, and dead easy for women, right? Your statement doesn't make any sense.
The sexual imprintations after having been with so many partners, at least one of them or more will always stick in one's memory as having been more enjoyable physically and therefore possibly desired in the future.. But on the other hand, Christ makes all things new if in fact they are in Him.. 🙏
For us with the NT, once we repent for a thing we don't really have a debt we have to pay for that as we've been forgiven.
Forgiveness is not the issue. They’re using debt as working out the consequences of her actions.
Consequences don’t cease. A murderer in jail is still going to face the consequences even if he gets saved and repents.
@@BlessGodStudios Interesting. Could you possibly give me some more examples of consequences for different sins? I mean, I suppose my gluttony has consequences for my fitness goals etc.
@@BlessGodStudios Not many of us are in prison though :)
@@ConstantiaVerted Say I have a lot of sex before marriage. I repent and clean up my life and start seeking to live a holy life. I then start dating a girl who has kept herself continually to the standard that the Bible teaches. I am honest with her, and she decides that she can't handle that. I believe that she has done nothing wrong by doing that, and this is a consequence of the sins that I have committed.
I didn't do any of it right and there are consequences. Multiple partners, young mom, marriage, divorce, rape, and a lifetime of pain I continue to heal from. I am married now for almost 13 years and it is work when it comes to intimacy. God designed it the way He did for a reason. Our free for all culture is problematic.
You're born again you're made a new Jesus can heal someone from blindness. Surely he can get the spirit of lust out of them is a physical spirit a demonic presents. God learn something before you try to be an expert.
W Commentary.... People dont really appreciate how much what we do everyday shapes our brains to desire more of the things we keep doing. Its why trying to get someone to change their behavior is so hard. Its why we want pills and injections to loose weight because making lifestyle changes are a bitch.
I’m not taking up for this young lady but if you do the math that’s only one new partner a month. . I would imagine anyone who’s active that may be an average 🤷😢
Ruslan's attitude💔💔💔💔 is something... Jesus help us all.
I totally dislike your tone during conversations around women having sexual pasts. You never seem to have the same tone when it comes to men. I appreciate your co host for balancing the conversation and preventing you from going down the rabbit hole of “jokes”.
I was thinking this same thing. As a man of God... Come on, now! Thank God for the co-host.
@@angelbishop9574 I know and I’m so not the “tone police” type but all I can imagine is a woman listening to his videos when this subject is discussed leaving super discouraged about her past because of his comments. Like no of us can do anything about our past other than repent and freely accept the grace Christ give !
I need to walk on eggshells around reality? You want me to not say having half a million in debt is going to come with consequences. What fantasy do you live in?
I think it’s disingenuous and in bad faith to compare someone who had 60 partners by the age of 21 and a woman who was assaulted and struggles. You’re comparing apples to oranges. There are men and women who WILLFULLY walked into sin. They will deal with the consequences. Sometimes (as your friends case and my case) we also have to deal with ramifications of someone sinning against us. That sucks too. What sucks more is tone policing people around the reality. I rather folks who’ve been promiscuous know they’ll have different challenges. Folks who experienced S/A will also have challenges. This is life.
@@BlessGodStudios I’m simply saying when these topics are discussed, it’s almost implied that women who’ve had multiple sexual partners will ALWAYS struggle in marriage with satisfaction in their husbands because of their past. Men also bring sexual baggage to marriages. Even one sexual partner prior to marriage can affect the marriage. When God redeems, he also restores, changes, hearts and minds. Honesty without love is brutality. There’s no need to discuss reality while also making insensitive jokes, repeating “she’s for the streets”, etc. I again appreciate your co host for focusing on the grace of God during this discussion.
I hope you take these comments on your video seriously Ruslan!
Which comments 🫠
Love is not Love. In other languages there are different words for different kinds of Love. I am happy that was brought up
That big ol Bible and he didn't use it? Please read your Bible for yourself...PLEASE!
They have the technology to make physical things new Ruslan but I totally get it yikes.