New York is NOT What I Expected | Culture Shock and First Impressions

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  • Опубліковано 10 лис 2024

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  • @iamprideless
    @iamprideless 4 місяці тому +2

    First here ❤❤

    • @ChideraPeters
      @ChideraPeters  4 місяці тому +1

      Yay! Thanks for showing up ♥️♥️🥳🥳

    • @Jaay2022
      @Jaay2022 4 місяці тому +1

      Well done 👏

    • @eileenwatt8283
      @eileenwatt8283 3 місяці тому

      @@ChideraPeters You are right Americans are not polite. NY is worse. In the south people are more polite.The homes in the south are hugh. There is some restrictions on weed but it's not enforced since the laws changed.

  • @courageekoh
    @courageekoh 4 місяці тому +17

    I live in the US, in New York State, but not NYC and I am Nigerian. NYC is quite different from the rest of the country. The culture is quite different too, so it is difficult to use NYC to judge what America is like. I believe whatever you will term as good in the UK, it's available in the US too. You just need to find the city that matches your vibe in America.
    Weed is not legal across the US. It is legal in many states, right, but every state has it's laws.
    I know you mentioned that cars are an essential in the US because you saw lots of cars in NYC. But best believe, NYC has some of the lowest car ownership per capita compared to many other cities in America, because other places are more dispersed and the US is BIG. People don't realize that until they get here. It could easily take you a 7hr drive at 70mph (113km/hr) to get to another city in the same state. For a Nigerian context, that is the distance from Owerri to Lagos by road.
    Also, in America, if you want to avoid ATM fees, use your ATM providers ATM. America is quite casheless too, you just have to visit other places. Card providers usually charge businesses a fee for every transactions. That's the reason small businesses would rather opt for Zelle or other platforms that would not require such fees, and in the worse case pass the cost to the buyer. You'll get used to it. Welcome to America.

    • @ChideraPeters
      @ChideraPeters  4 місяці тому +2

      Thanks for this detailed explanation. I truly appreciate it! And I’m looking forward to visiting other states ✨✨

  • @VictorAgboga
    @VictorAgboga 4 місяці тому +16

    I had the same experience while visitng the US from the UK:
    1. Their rooms and roads are far bigger
    2. Their (old) buidlings have a weird smell
    3. Their food is often too salty or overspiced
    4. Lots of freedom!
    5. Taxes and tipping are ridiculous!

    • @ChideraPeters
      @ChideraPeters  4 місяці тому +2

      Aha! Glad you can relate. It’s so different 😂

    • @darylsledge1456
      @darylsledge1456 3 місяці тому

      then, don't visit again. How about that, since taxes and tipping are ridiculous.

  • @petej7136
    @petej7136 3 місяці тому +1

    I'm born and raised in NYC, and yes, it is different not just from other places in the world, but also different from most other American cities. Weed only became legal in NY about 2 years ago, so it is new for us too, and it's still illegal in at least half of the US. NY is a very international city with people from all over the US and the world, only about half the people you see actually grew up in the city, so there's a lot more cultural diversity in NYC compared to other US cities. The vibrant nights and empty sidewalks are mostly summer things, from autumn to the spring, when it's cooler out and school is in, the nights are more quiet, and the daytime sidewalks are much busier, during the November-January holiday season some sidewalks can be unbearably crowded! And more New Yorkers don't have a car than do, many people use the buses and trains, both run 24hrs/day, so looks can be deceiving. As for the rest of the US, yes, we do have too much salt in our diet and we are slowly starting to realize the health consequences.😔 When we shop, we just learned to assume that there's a 7%-9% tax on everything, and be pleasantly surprised when there isn't. 😄 ATMs usually charge a fee if your card is from a different bank, it's like a service fee for non-account holders. Not all restaurants take your card away, but it's considered a service to not make you get up, and polite to not let others at your dinner table see your card or the bill. You say things are big in NYC, but it's actually considered rather cramp compared to the rest of the US, and the rest of the country is where a car is far more essential and walking is uncommon. Anyway, good video, I look forward to watching your journey.

  • @misskayem5709
    @misskayem5709 4 місяці тому +3

    For most of us from northern Nigeria, we are used to the massive states and 4hrs journey one way and still being in the same state.
    So there are a lot of states in Nigeria that are like that.

  • @MarylandCrafts
    @MarylandCrafts 4 місяці тому +11

    In terms of dressing, Newyorkers look very rough. But when you go to other states like Washington DC. They are more smartly dressed.

    • @ChideraPeters
      @ChideraPeters  4 місяці тому +2

      Yeah, looking forward to exploring other cities

    • @akosuapomaah7194
      @akosuapomaah7194 4 місяці тому +1

      Don’t compare buildings in UK to US. That’s an insult!! Building y’all live in in Uk is so disgusting!!! I visited there and I couldn’t enter the kitchen my entire stay. It was nasty!!

    • @tf5655
      @tf5655 3 місяці тому

      Did you say New Yorkers look rough? When I visited Washington DC., I was afraid to go outside the hotel room.

  • @Chilotalks
    @Chilotalks 4 місяці тому +5

    Finally someone else has said it 😫😫😫. I thought I was mad for having the same reservations about the almighty 'New York' Remember doing a similar comparison video like this on my channel and some people came for me 😂. I was there for a 1 month PhD research work and everything you said, I can so relate! You see that hostile customer service and food thing? Let's not even get started 😫😫

  • @princeagyemang6157
    @princeagyemang6157 4 місяці тому +3

    Im with you. Most of the people i encountered in America were very loud and came across rude and not polite.

  • @Ballish234
    @Ballish234 2 місяці тому

    I'm originally from Nigeria, Honestly you got most of the things you said in this video spot on. I used to be concerned about my dressing in Nigeria but when i moved to New York I figured out that nobody cares. Sincerely, I dress like them now because everybody is more concerned about how sexy your bank account is and not your outfit. And Yes, you need a car in New York BUT if you live and spend most of your time in Manhattan then the case is the opposite. Young multi-millionaires in manhattan move around with cabs, bikes and scootters and nobody cares. Yes people in New York are mostly on the big side but Atlanta has more monster sized people. Also, if you are driving from Queens NY to Buffalo NY, just know you will be driving for over 6hours. New York is big !
    And Yes, they call NY the city that never goes to sleep, but that's in Manhattan and some parts of the major boroughs. In the upstate region, it's more of a country lifestyle over there.

  • @tf5655
    @tf5655 3 місяці тому

    In the United States, New York is the primary fashion hub. New York, is the city recognized as a major fashion trendsetter. You probably couldn't comprehend

  • @saratalabidun5675
    @saratalabidun5675 4 місяці тому +3

    I absolutely agree with the dressing please! People are more fashionable in the UK, the fancy winter coats, the nice colors in the summer, my bosses wear lipstick, love it. Also agree with the food, super sugary and salty, I feel like my uk friends are just more conscious of what they eat and their weight, about half my colleagues are vegetarian and even the uk fast food culture is almost non existent.

  • @MarylandCrafts
    @MarylandCrafts 4 місяці тому +7

    In terms of transport, you can buy a metro pass to use on both the buses and the train .

    • @ChideraPeters
      @ChideraPeters  4 місяці тому +1

      Nice I didn’t use the trains/subway

  • @jharris467
    @jharris467 4 місяці тому +1

    The tax is a percentage added onto the price. So, if you don’t know the price of the item, you can’t calculate how much tax is due for that particular item and won’t know if you’re being overcharged or not. Where I live, sales tax is 7%. Entertainment tax is 9%. If you walk into a McDonald’s and order your food, you’ll be charged 7% of the price. However, if you go through the drive-thru, you’ll be charged the 9% entertainment tax.

  • @EmmaAA-jn8xm
    @EmmaAA-jn8xm 4 місяці тому +2

    summer can get really hot here in NY , but it can get really cold during winter too.every state is different.

  • @Myraisins1
    @Myraisins1 3 місяці тому +1

    You might as well describe the USA as NYC and the rest of the USA, as NYC is in a world of it's own. USA is very car centric. Most people in NYC do not own nor do they need a car but it would be difficult to function in the rest of the country without a car. Also homes and rooms in NYC are generally smaller than the rest of the country. Americans are taxed upon taxed upon taxed. And NYC is among the highest. Its a hustle and grind concrete jungle kind of living in NYC

  • @nancychika4440
    @nancychika4440 4 місяці тому

    My dear, can literally relate to everything you are saying, from food, to weather, to the people, to transport and all

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld6072 4 місяці тому

    Culture shocks indeed 😅
    Thank you for sharing
    I really hope you are able to cook at Atlanta❤
    Cheers 🥂

  • @KeleweleneJollof
    @KeleweleneJollof 3 місяці тому

    You’re very right about everything so far. For a long time I couldn’t eat outside. Too salty or sugary

  • @estherkingsley
    @estherkingsley 4 місяці тому +6

    I had to pause this video to drop my comment. I visited US 🇺🇸 in May from Australia. (I covered 4 states: MI, NY, NC, and DC)You see that habit of operating phone and driving, it’s definitely a norm for them. I was so shocked 😳 cos it’s not something I’m used to seeing in Australia. the traffic lights and drivers in NY🚦? Arhhh Don’t even get me started on the salty food. I couldn’t finish their Chick-fil-a and the fish sometime at dinner cos I couldn’t handle the salt.
    And oh yeah! Some places in NY literally felt like Lagos or Aba in Abia state sef 😂😂. At some point I was confused whether I’m still in the US 😂.

    • @darylsledge1456
      @darylsledge1456 3 місяці тому

      so, we don't have to worry about you visiting again, right?

    • @estherkingsley
      @estherkingsley 3 місяці тому

      @@darylsledge1456 you sound really dumb cos I see you’re in every comment replying 😂😂ain’t nothing wrong with people expressing their culture shock 😳 when they visit a new place ok. Bye mate 😌

  • @eldreduzo3622
    @eldreduzo3622 4 місяці тому +1

    Every City in America is unique. So New York does not define what America is. You will find out when you get to Atlanta.

  • @Raetalkss
    @Raetalkss 4 місяці тому +1

    I have lived in the UK all my life, travelled to several countries in Europe and been to a number of African countries. I did not have culture shock in these place like I did in the USA. For me it was the level of poverty. I could not get over how many poor people there were. I went to NYC and NJ, as for NYC everyone is a hustle it reminded me of Lagos,Nigeria.

  • @Michelle-oj4wv
    @Michelle-oj4wv 3 місяці тому

    I find it interesting that you felt skinny in the US, I just visited the UK and I felt skinny. I will say I’m from Boston and there’s definitely more of a workout culture here than New York.

  • @devantewilliams2169
    @devantewilliams2169 4 місяці тому +3

    It gets really cold during the winter months here in the city.

    • @ChideraPeters
      @ChideraPeters  4 місяці тому

      Maybe some day I’ll experience winter here and I might have a different experience

  • @tegaokoro1857
    @tegaokoro1857 4 місяці тому

    I thoroughly enjoyed this video. The salty food is same in Canada, but customer service is great here, they are really polite. Night life is the same with Toronto.
    I think the price without tax is cause tax % varies per states I assume, cause it does vary per province in Canada. So the total cost changes, some are higher than other.

  • @WordsPictures997
    @WordsPictures997 4 місяці тому +1

    7:52 They are actually being guided 😅

  • @SandraAkingbala
    @SandraAkingbala 4 місяці тому +2

    You looking great Chidera

  • @Bella36o
    @Bella36o 3 місяці тому +1

    I’ve lived in New York for 7+ years. Getting a car in New York City is a bad idea unless you have children. Most single working class people take the subway.

  • @TheGlobalTemi
    @TheGlobalTemi 4 місяці тому +5

    Let’s talk about your camera quality

  • @gacaptain
    @gacaptain 4 місяці тому

    The taxes are added on after the purchase because different states and towns have different tax rates. So a company can't just put one price on it's product or service because depending on where you are in the states the after tax price will vary. You lucked out finding stable weather in New York. Depending on the time of year the weather can be unpredictable and extreme. You will see thunderstorms and temperature drops like you never saw in the UK. Lastly. New York City is it's own World. When you leave New York and the Northeast US you will see everything change, from peoples behavior, prices, taxes, culture, food, weather, etc. etc. America is huge. There are four time zones forest, swamps, mountains, deserts, frigid plains and tropical beaches. New York City is just one spoonful of the whole banquet. Lol

  • @Elldrop1
    @Elldrop1 4 місяці тому

    Also, I love America but sweet googly they love their money. Tax and hotels are ugly. Never get injured out there or you could be down grands. Also Atlanta is my dream trip to USA 👏🏾

  • @abokoeguale9783
    @abokoeguale9783 4 місяці тому +5

    They want your money, capitalism ia real in America.

  • @EstellM
    @EstellM 4 місяці тому +3

    Welcome to NYC!!
    NY is not the whole country!!
    Other parts of the country are completely different.
    Tax??
    Well, removing the tax just makes it seem cheaper than it really is.Each state has a different tax % .
    I guess you need to know the actual cost less the tax.

    • @ChideraPeters
      @ChideraPeters  4 місяці тому +1

      Oh each state has its own tax percentage. That’s interesting to know! Thank youuu

    • @courageekoh
      @courageekoh 4 місяці тому

      @@ChideraPeters That's correct. For NY, it's 8% sales tax on most items

    • @gacaptain
      @gacaptain 4 місяці тому

      @@ChideraPeters Here in Georgia you can literally drive a few blocks to the next town over and the tax rate will change. Then again in the next town. Lol

  • @vanessaanugwom8686
    @vanessaanugwom8686 3 місяці тому

    Hi. I live in the Uk, but would really love to go to America one day. Is it true the uk is better? did you prefer America to the UK?

  • @SimplyTemmyDee
    @SimplyTemmyDee 3 місяці тому

    You can drive 7 hours within Georgia.

  • @kofoworolaola
    @kofoworolaola 4 місяці тому

    Exactly the same for me. I had the same exact feeling 😂

  • @Elldrop1
    @Elldrop1 4 місяці тому

    Love US, for holiday 😅 short and sweet holiday

  • @EstellM
    @EstellM 4 місяці тому +1

    Salt and sugar Yes!!

  • @namsyl2093
    @namsyl2093 4 місяці тому +1

    😂😂😂 yes,salt is essential.Sugar too.Try and buy drinks A see the amount of added sugar 😢😢. That's why people are sick.

  • @giftchidi8774
    @giftchidi8774 3 місяці тому

    congratulations

  • @MarylandCrafts
    @MarylandCrafts 4 місяці тому +5

    You're are 💯 right, i have been to NY, and i found the customer service hostile.

  • @tf5655
    @tf5655 3 місяці тому

    Hopefully, you're still here in the U.S. with what’s going on in the U.K. Wonder if the U.S. looks much better now?

  • @sylviannadi1309
    @sylviannadi1309 4 місяці тому +1

    Taxes system in pricing is the same for US and Canada.
    Yeah Americans can be very rude compared to Canadians
    US and Canada have much more space
    Weed is legal in all of Canada

    • @ChideraPeters
      @ChideraPeters  4 місяці тому +1

      Wow didn’t know weed is Legal in Canada too😂. We learn everyday

  • @patiztv7816
    @patiztv7816 4 місяці тому

    Next time try and get revolut credit card or curve credit card you will enjoy it when traveling around the world

  • @durojaiyekolade3178
    @durojaiyekolade3178 4 місяці тому +4

    Welcome to America, they don't send no body here, people here don't really care, they just flow. We just flow we the vibes, no offence ma'am... First time in America, disturbing America... lalala. I bet you prefer it here compared to the UK Chi.

    • @ChideraPeters
      @ChideraPeters  4 місяці тому +3

      lol 😂 on some things I prefer it here eg the weather but overall, I honestly prefer the U.K. tbh. It’s slow and calm and I like that

  • @ThatWave
    @ThatWave 12 днів тому

    An air quality complaint is new 😂 NYC isn’t known for air quality 😅

  • @dimmakezie
    @dimmakezie 4 місяці тому

    It's the an hour 30 minutes for me.
    Nu giving me lagos vibes. Only that traffic does us bad. 🤣🤣

  • @folasadelydiaoladipo3850
    @folasadelydiaoladipo3850 4 місяці тому +1

    You are the best

  • @bryanoaitse1547
    @bryanoaitse1547 4 місяці тому

    I hope to see America wow 😍😍🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️

  • @kachibom5350
    @kachibom5350 4 місяці тому

    You had me laughing when you said you drove 1hr 30mins and were still in the same state. In California where I stay, from Northern California to places like San Diego in Southern California is about 8hrs drive and within the same state. 😂😂. America is pretty much a continent and every state is very different. NYC is a fun but not for everyone 😂😂.

  • @martanunez9755
    @martanunez9755 3 місяці тому

    You right baby girl we yes came from London, Paris but yees iiii love to see every body well dressed not pajamas pant or crooks am from NYC

  • @dennisstampleycali
    @dennisstampleycali 4 місяці тому

    American Cultural! New York! American love there car! American don’t have to dressing! But they have the money!

  • @sharonkude8089
    @sharonkude8089 4 місяці тому

    Hi Chidera, thank you for sharing a lot on your channel.
    Is your Telegram community for International students in the UK still active?
    I would like to subscribe but it's not working.

  • @SimplyTemmyDee
    @SimplyTemmyDee 3 місяці тому

    Better to cook your own meals. The food here is either too salty or too sugary.

  • @rollandanonymous8194
    @rollandanonymous8194 4 місяці тому

    It’s pretty much the same here in Ontario

    • @ChideraPeters
      @ChideraPeters  4 місяці тому +2

      Oh hopefully I visit Canada soon

  • @oloridestiny3251
    @oloridestiny3251 4 місяці тому +1

    Lol, different country, different people, different culture

  • @Lola-zb4pi
    @Lola-zb4pi 3 місяці тому

    How can you compare the UK with North America

    • @ChideraPeters
      @ChideraPeters  3 місяці тому

      Not sure what point you’re making

  • @melvinaalaoma7239
    @melvinaalaoma7239 4 місяці тому

    Lol😂
    Dera the Nigeria girl in you said you’re not comfortable with leaving your card😢

    • @ChideraPeters
      @ChideraPeters  4 місяці тому +1

      I’m not ooo, I’m sorry 😭😂😂

  • @Omas_Diary
    @Omas_Diary 4 місяці тому

    They are actually more plus sized people in America than the UK... lol

  • @JonahTimileyin-vo6fy
    @JonahTimileyin-vo6fy 4 місяці тому +1

    sis chidera peters,pls can you help me to read my personal statement

  • @KeleweleneJollof
    @KeleweleneJollof 3 місяці тому

    You seem to mix up the state and the city. NYC is like an island part of the NY state

    • @KeleweleneJollof
      @KeleweleneJollof 3 місяці тому

      Yuh nobody cares about dressing 😂. Lots of fast foods cause of plus size bodies

  • @EstellM
    @EstellM 4 місяці тому +1

    NYC is only a city! Upstate NY is still outside.
    You cannot have a car in NYC.
    You have to be insane to want to drive in NYC.
    Parking is out of this world!! So No cars!!

    • @ChideraPeters
      @ChideraPeters  4 місяці тому +1

      Yeah I’ve been to upstate New York - Albany and it’s much calmer there. Loved it

    • @Wellnesswithij
      @Wellnesswithij 4 місяці тому

      Albany is a city.
      I was thinking more about the villages of NY. Rochester, Ithaca! etc.
      Daughter went to college in Rochester, she is living in upper east side now and she thinks NYC is insane!

  • @chibuezechristophernwoke3984
    @chibuezechristophernwoke3984 4 місяці тому

    My friend and the gf had guns on them when we were going fo lunch

  • @SandraAkingbala
    @SandraAkingbala 4 місяці тому

    lol 😂I just came from your WhatsApp status

    • @ChideraPeters
      @ChideraPeters  4 місяці тому +3

      lol didn’t realise my WhatsApp gets some people to actually click. Nice to see you here 😂

  • @awotesu
    @awotesu 4 місяці тому

    Chidera, are you British?

    • @ChideraPeters
      @ChideraPeters  4 місяці тому

      I’m Nigerian

    • @awotesu
      @awotesu 4 місяці тому

      @@ChideraPeters you have a nice vlog. Try to visit other states in the North east, Mid west (bible belt) and southern America before you return to the UK. You'll have different experiences in all of the regions.

  • @SimplyTemmyDee
    @SimplyTemmyDee 3 місяці тому

    Different counties have different taxes. Americans are aggressive. It is all about the Benjamins.

  • @ijayokey
    @ijayokey 4 місяці тому +2

    No, Dressing in uk in summer hmmm chidera they dress half naked

    • @ChideraPeters
      @ChideraPeters  4 місяці тому

      Not like here honestly 😅

    • @ijayokey
      @ijayokey 4 місяці тому +1

      @@ChideraPeters ok..do they dress half naked too?

  • @divinepeters260
    @divinepeters260 4 місяці тому +1

    Say "water" again abeg, e get wetin I wan hear

  • @EstellM
    @EstellM 4 місяці тому

    ATM machine is owned by someone!!

    • @ChideraPeters
      @ChideraPeters  4 місяці тому

      Aha! That explains it

    • @akosuapomaah7194
      @akosuapomaah7194 4 місяці тому

      But you don’t get charged if it’s your bank’s atm. You only get charged if you use atms that is not owned by your bank. But you can’t compare UK to US!

    • @sarahafere7270
      @sarahafere7270 4 місяці тому

      ​@@akosuapomaah7194this is the same in Nigeria u get charged if its not ur bank