Bargaining Doesn't Make You Cheap- It Makes You Smart | SBP #42

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  • @itsnickfrench
    @itsnickfrench 3 місяці тому +141

    Our boy burning every bridge in this one 😂

  • @kylehamilton6560
    @kylehamilton6560 3 місяці тому +110

    I really appreciate how little you care about what people think! Keep being you bro!

    • @smallbrainedpod
      @smallbrainedpod  3 місяці тому +16

      Thanks bro!

    • @samcheeseman2750
      @samcheeseman2750 3 місяці тому

      @@smallbrainedpodloved watching you walk through the turd filled streets of India with open toed shoes! Keep em coming bro 😎

    • @g-raffasaurus2350
      @g-raffasaurus2350 3 місяці тому +1

      I agree! Man this guy makes me laugh so hard, especially when he starts laughing at funny and awkward situtions and stories.

    • @Greatlakeskyle.
      @Greatlakeskyle. 2 дні тому +1

      @@g-raffasaurus2350I admire how well adjusted the guy is. I feel quite returted sometimes haha.

  • @Willstangv6
    @Willstangv6 3 місяці тому +48

    You are legend, it’s always refreshing to hear your no BS truth about these locations people hype up.

    • @dertythegrower
      @dertythegrower 3 місяці тому

      'When keeping it real does not go wrong" or something like that 😅

  • @93media5
    @93media5 3 місяці тому +23

    quickly becoming my fav UA-camr. true unfiltered opinions are refreshing

  • @darkmasterjake
    @darkmasterjake 3 місяці тому +20

    Connor, don't listen to the hate. Your content is incredibly valuable and fun to watch for those of us unable to have that lifestyle. Just keep doing what you're doing.

  • @ting236le
    @ting236le 3 місяці тому +16

    Something I love to do with my husband when we're in China visiting wholesale markets is let him ask and negotiate the price for an item first, then I go after him to ask the price for the same item, to see how much vendors try to overcharge him just because he doesn't look Chinese, even though we're both Americans and both speak fluent Mandarin but he isn't Asian-American. Usually, I get the real price and he gets the inflated tourist price that's anywhere from 2 to 20 times higher. Then we only buy from vendors that didn't try to overcharge him. Some will argue that business is business, and if you find someone stupid enough to pay the inflated price it's all fair game, but refusing to budge and negotiate with people based on ethnicity seems super racist to me.

  • @robfromearth
    @robfromearth 3 місяці тому +36

    Getting ripped off is getting ripped off.

  • @egwsu
    @egwsu 3 місяці тому +32

    Seattle resident here, you honestly nailed it.

  • @poppukon-au
    @poppukon-au 3 місяці тому +4

    Agreed.
    In countries like India, Turkey, Morocco and Egypt all expect some form of haggling. If you dont, it can be seen as disinterest or a lack of respect for the transaction. Its a cultural norm.

  • @ian314
    @ian314 3 місяці тому +49

    Hey Connor I'm a big fan of your videos and I love seeing your perspective on the places you visit!
    I know a lot of the criticism you get is dumb and I appreciate you going out your way to explain the culture of the places you go to defend against that criticism. For example, I like how you explained here how bargaining works in India to effectively scalp tourists.
    My gripe against how you address the criticism is how you want to turn this into a "woke" thing in response to a single criticism of how you wanted to bargain over 60 cents. For people who don't know the culture of bargaining in India, this probably looked a little extra, but after learning more about how scalping targets visitors to the country like you, it probably makes a bit more sense.
    It feels like you're vindictive in proving how bad of an experience you have when you visit India, but you should support that without complaining about wokies because it makes it sound like you're the snowflake who wants to name-call instead of addressing the criticism in fruitful ways given the really cool and unique opportunities you have.
    All I ask is that you be a little more good faith to criticism that likely comes more from ignorance rather than ideology.

    • @ethanansel-kelly3266
      @ethanansel-kelly3266 3 місяці тому +16

      Yea It's understandable to feel defensive about the criticism tbf, but blaming "woke" feels weird and like projection. It's more likely that his mostly Western audience simply doesn't understand a culture that exists on the other side of the world, and is not trying to "cancel" him

    • @codeninja100
      @codeninja100 3 місяці тому

      I'm pretty sure he gets a lot of "woke" comments that talk about his whiteness and foreigness in these countries he visits which is why he harps on the woke ideology so much. I think Connors view of travel and the world is that he's a person like anyone else anywhere else. So when it comes to being scammed in India because he's white, or being burdened with the expectation he has to soften his opinion of a place or a person / culture because he is either white or American is a form of reverse racism being pushed on him. He is just one guy traveling the world being honest about his experiences and taking the piss out of situations in these countries. A lot of travel channels try to oversell and embellish their experiences in these countries wither to be dishonest to their viewers or due to some kind of guilt not to present minorities in a bad light.. I understand where he's coming from because the white guilt woke stuff is really imbedded in the western world. I'm black and I see this all the time. Both sides of the spectrum.

    • @codeninja100
      @codeninja100 3 місяці тому

      @@ethanansel-kelly3266 I get that but explain what else other than "woke" ideology would describe someone who complains about their posh lives in the western world but goes to another country and willing allows themselves to be scammed because they are foreign? How would you feel if let's say someone from Japan came to your country and it was common place for Taxi drivers and vendors to hike prices just because they were Japanese? How do you think the Japanese would feel about your country? What would think of the Japanese that come and willing pay the hiked prices because they "feel sorry" or make more than the average native?

    • @GeneralBoneyspurs
      @GeneralBoneyspurs 3 місяці тому +2

      @@ethanansel-kelly3266that’s exactly how I felt. He came off as the same type of person he’s complaining about, or even just another chudie, in this video.
      I’ll just have to remind myself to only watch his travel vlogs and avoid the pod 😂

  • @DarbHikes
    @DarbHikes 3 місяці тому +2

    Dude, so fucking refreshing to hear a youtuber speak like this. I just saw the Channel 5 video about Mexico City yesterday, so it was neat to see clips referred to in the beginning, but the reason I've come back to your channel is due to the respect you've shown other cultures (to extent) but I love that you don't take shit and you'll talk shit right back to them, and openly question the shady practices.

  • @EspenJohan
    @EspenJohan 3 місяці тому +1

    I completely agree with you, why should we pay 100 times the local price. You can see the effect of this in parts of Spain, now the local population is tired of tourists. Because we drive the prices up

  • @lololauren55
    @lololauren55 3 місяці тому +16

    You crack me up man! 😂 Never stop being real

  • @itsnickfrench
    @itsnickfrench 3 місяці тому +29

    Tbh Conner this was one of the best pods yet. I think I’d prefer these short and sweet ones and do them more frequently rather than the longer pods

    • @thirtytwo6289
      @thirtytwo6289 3 місяці тому +3

      I’m great with whatever he puts out at this point lol, like the longer ones for when I’m driving tho

  • @imprint.mp4
    @imprint.mp4 3 місяці тому +6

    i agree with your points, but blaming "wokies" and "blue hair" people is a tad annoying to be honest and you could very easily explain yourself without that sort of projection as it all it does is contribute towards a divide.

  • @adamdanks18
    @adamdanks18 3 місяці тому +3

    " Sorry to my Kansas City viewers "
    honestly made me lol

  • @l_globetrotter
    @l_globetrotter 3 місяці тому +2

    When ranting just becomes speaking everyone’s mind with a little common sense, well done mate 👌🏽

  • @jeeerb3645
    @jeeerb3645 3 місяці тому +6

    I definitely get your point. People just have different views. I would simply pay the extra couple cents just to get going because I'm not one to negotiate all to much. If it was an absurd amount difference then yeah I would bargain or go else where. But im also one to pay slightly more for convenience. I don't necessarily think in doing that it is raising the prices for the locals. I'm sure the people who live their understand what the fair price is to get from one place to another and their isnt that many tourist going to these places to take up any taxis from the locals.
    I do find it annoying but if theyre starting off the bargain already extremely over priced I wont even bargain with them. Ill take my business else where. I also dont shop anywhere when theyre outside hassling you to go into their shop. Ill go into the shops that are quietly waiting for customers.

  • @suyinlight
    @suyinlight 3 місяці тому +4

    I've spent quite some time in India, I love this country and often hated it at the same time (like a lot of people do). Regarding the bargaining: I see it as adapting to their culture. If it's a given to bargain in a country, I will go along. And yes people will try to charge you 10 times more.. is it annoying? yes. but at the same time.. whatever.. nice try. It's a good practice to take things not that seriously. Nothing is black and white in India. I'd probably do the same if I'd be in those peoples shoes! I've made the experience that if you keep a friendly attitude, you've almost "won" the situation. People will respect you. It's like a game and it shows someones character and resilience. It's easy to come to India narrow minded, expecting things to work how you know them, get angry and judgemental.. if you do, India will give you exactly the same back - it's a mirror, if you like it or not.

  • @sanjayagung
    @sanjayagung 18 днів тому +1

    i love to see you small braining india

  • @bottiao
    @bottiao 3 місяці тому +1

    was watching ur vietnam video and actually thinking about this, but this is amazing and i 100% agree. ur one of the best content creators on the platform right now btw sir, keep doing u!

  • @paulihakli5763
    @paulihakli5763 3 місяці тому +2

    As having traveled to 50 countries I totally agree. It would be the same thing as somebody would try to charge you 3€ for a plastic bag in an European country where it should be like 20 cents and obviously you wouldn’t pay that so why would you overpay them.

  • @MadandMajorGaming0
    @MadandMajorGaming0 3 місяці тому +3

    As a an American leftist wokie, I apologize for some of the brain rot that goes on in online discourse

  • @johnmarsh9651
    @johnmarsh9651 6 днів тому

    Yo brother.. you are right 👍.. love your podcasts.. and vlogs.

  • @thevideogamerconsortium6180
    @thevideogamerconsortium6180 3 місяці тому +3

    You hustling for 60 cents. and doubling down for nothing. lol XD I'm here for it!

  • @thelovelyt1
    @thelovelyt1 3 місяці тому +3

    You are so refreshing

  • @walrus8353
    @walrus8353 3 місяці тому +2

    I posted this comment on your other channel, but I'll post it here too for visibility:
    >> About those rickshaw fares; I’m not from Delhi, but mostly if you hail a rickshaw or cab from the street you’ll be charged a minimum of 150-200 rupees regardless of the distance. This is the case in many cities like Hyderabad, Chennai, and even Mumbai. Uber is essential now to get a good fare. Or, you could share a cab with others going in the same direction and actually pay that low of a price.
    After making that comment, I found out that the govt. mandated rickshaw fare in Delhi is set to Rs. 25 for the first kilometer, and Rs. 8/km after that. The thing is, not a single rickshaw driver you approach on the street will abide by that number, regardless of whether you're a local or foreigner. They used to abide by it, till 5 years ago. It's because of inflation and the precipitous fall of the rupee's value.

    • @Adolphout
      @Adolphout 3 місяці тому

      Doesnt happenn in mumbai. It goes by the meter there

  • @jiggersotoole7823
    @jiggersotoole7823 3 місяці тому +1

    Okay, bro. I'm 3 minutes in. You made a really good point straight off the bat then you started getting lost. I love arguing and i know it can be difficult. Respect for having a go. Gonna carry on watching now. Cheers.

  • @GaryWhittingham
    @GaryWhittingham 3 місяці тому +1

    nice, I'm with you mate, very refreshing to hear what most of us are thinking.

  • @MetalJosh666
    @MetalJosh666 3 місяці тому

    I like this guy more and more. Killing it man!

  • @calebnation8802
    @calebnation8802 3 місяці тому

    I love when this guy says right and then pauses. Bro the goat 🐐

  • @wumbc
    @wumbc 3 місяці тому +2

    bro is cooking never fold fr

  • @Mundile
    @Mundile 3 місяці тому +1

    He will never forget India at this point.

  • @lizbethgonzalez4951
    @lizbethgonzalez4951 3 місяці тому +1

    You explained it so well!!

  • @noahsamuelsofficial
    @noahsamuelsofficial 3 місяці тому

    restarded white man here, i would have not been impressed by your negotiating a few months ago but there's a really good section in Vagabonding about it which changed my perspective completely, so now i am on board with you conner, cheers for the recommendation btw

  • @munkku
    @munkku 3 місяці тому +5

    Never change Conner 😂😂

  • @AydanBenning
    @AydanBenning 2 місяці тому

    so real i love it

  • @NoName-ub3zv
    @NoName-ub3zv 7 днів тому

    Dude you rock.

  • @JamesReedy
    @JamesReedy 3 місяці тому +2

    45 seconds in you’re speaking my language 😂

  • @samrigsby6621
    @samrigsby6621 2 місяці тому +2

    Go to the Himalayas

  • @Sirkusbarnet
    @Sirkusbarnet 3 місяці тому

    love your videos bro. binged almost your whole channel after i watched ur tokyo guide video. keep keepin it real

  • @JustAGuyYaKnow42
    @JustAGuyYaKnow42 3 місяці тому

    People who haven't been there didn't know that you are just playing their game. Keep up the great work.

  • @SaxonSavage
    @SaxonSavage 3 місяці тому +2

    People told me travel would open my mind and make me value and appreciate other cultures and diversity. I traveled the world and in the end, those people were fucking dead wrong.
    There is no such thing as bad land. Its the people who live on the land that makes a place paradise, or hell on earth. The biggest difference between Switzerland and India is the people.

    • @GaryWhittingham
      @GaryWhittingham 3 місяці тому

      interesting comparison mate - my lasting memory of Switzerland is how arrogant and awkward the people were. As an obvious tourist with an accent, if I opened up in French, they replied in German and vice versa. Whilst it was a nice safe place with an outwardly 'perfect' society, they seemed confused with identity issues to me.

  • @bmackfw
    @bmackfw 3 місяці тому

    Perfectly said!

  • @alexandergavin3104
    @alexandergavin3104 3 місяці тому

    Keep doing you man! I appreciate your input on this, very reasonable. I lived in Mexico for a decade but am half white. Merchants would IMMEDIATELY lower their prices to what it should be once I started speaking Spanish.

  • @dpporlando
    @dpporlando 3 місяці тому

    People that don't know would never believe there are parts of the world where negotiating and lying is second nature and if you do not negotiate hard you will get 0 respect.

  • @merzbow89
    @merzbow89 3 місяці тому

    God I hate it when tourist attractions have separate prices for locals and tourists, I saw it on a few occasions in Java as well. That is so not ok, if I see that I usually refuse to go in. The great thing about Java however is that you have the two apps Grab and Gojek, which are basically the Uber of Indonesia. This means you never have to haggle with taxi drivers, you always pay the local price because you can just book a taxi via the local app. I heard from fellow travelers that in Bali the taxi drivers collectively chose to not work with Grab/Gojek purely for the reason of charging tourists inflated prices. Indonesia is one of my favorite countries, but I have never been to Bali and I'm not planning to ever visit it. The other islands offer the same beauty minus the destruction caused by overtourism :)

  • @maplestar67
    @maplestar67 3 місяці тому

    You're a real one bro. I was in vietnam during the time you "exposed" that cop and I was terrified of getting pulled over and made an example of that whole trip lmao

  • @alexha2884
    @alexha2884 3 місяці тому

    My god I love your videos and I was so happy for u when you blew up last year

  • @-SailorJupiter-
    @-SailorJupiter- Місяць тому

    "They had time to improve" LMAO

  • @hamburger360
    @hamburger360 3 місяці тому

    if ay of u come here, which idk why u would, delhi has uber auto. in some areas it has uber e-rick. those are fixed prices and since they cant see ur a foreigner while ur booking, u will get local prices. even as an indian myself i don't take autos right outside the metro because they charge double unless i'm in a rush

  • @jacobmecrob5185
    @jacobmecrob5185 3 місяці тому +1

    Fire video mate.

  • @macuser1232
    @macuser1232 3 місяці тому

    lol this was gold ❤

  • @W0LF2612
    @W0LF2612 3 місяці тому +2

    right on point.

  • @skinrat81374
    @skinrat81374 3 місяці тому +3

    Not blue haired or woke, and have travelled in Nepal. I think its just the humanity of seeing people with so much less for seemingly no good reason, and then a westerner who is far wealthier by birth, with an opportunity to give back to the community that he is earning from, and not considering that maybe it wouldn't be so bad. Would it drive up prices and affect their preferences? perhaps/likely. Is earning more corelated with a higher standard of living and is that how tourism can positively influence these communities by raising the standard of living? probably. I've been in that position before and its not fun, but just food for thought.
    p.s. stop reading comments and just have fun :)

    • @3DaysIn
      @3DaysIn 3 місяці тому +1

      This is way too much nuance for a dude who got some social media rewards for being a douche bag and now thinks that's how you "make a career" out of it

    • @skinrat81374
      @skinrat81374 3 місяці тому

      @sixgunguerrilla I like Connor which is why I'm trying to keep it real. I can't imagine success and 100,000's of ppl are easy to deal with

  • @davidzimmerman6893
    @davidzimmerman6893 3 місяці тому +3

    Great video !

  • @LegionaryAssassin2277
    @LegionaryAssassin2277 15 днів тому +2

    negotiating is ok, but you gotta be a little reasonable.
    Imagine I’m buying a used t shirt at a garage sale. The seller asks for $20. I say 50c. It’s insulting and a total non starter.
    That’s basically what you did in that video. Bargaining is ok but your 15x guess was kinda whack in this case.

  • @poverty_enjoyer
    @poverty_enjoyer 3 місяці тому +14

    Small Based Pod

  • @abdq4712
    @abdq4712 2 місяці тому

    'Lasting diseases' 😂😂😂😂.

  • @ricshaw4358
    @ricshaw4358 3 місяці тому

    Bravo, Preach it!

  • @boozy5208
    @boozy5208 3 місяці тому +10

    Your way of thinking is spot on. There's nothing wrong with negotiating, and anyone who thinks there is, is a big ole bishhh

  • @marvbordello6047
    @marvbordello6047 3 місяці тому +3

    Preach brother. Calm down Rajesh.

  • @jackharbor3347
    @jackharbor3347 3 місяці тому

    Spot on with these dummies that never left the States and who are judging you on not wanting to get scammed.

  • @Xeonz1000
    @Xeonz1000 3 місяці тому

    You're absolutely right
    We don't need to pay much higher than locals or the value of something in that place, little bit higher is ok but not x2+...etc

  • @Michael-lt5eq
    @Michael-lt5eq 3 місяці тому

    Its also 1000 times more enjoyable to get fair prices and then when you meet someone kind you have the ability to give them more money. Don't get ripped off, and able to make someone else and you feel good. Most people scamming shouldn't deserve it anyway

  • @YgslvLost
    @YgslvLost 3 місяці тому +1

    what would Krishna do 😂

  • @W0LF2612
    @W0LF2612 3 місяці тому

    expected nothing less. you're a real one and you'll stay that way.

  • @brandonhayes7245
    @brandonhayes7245 3 місяці тому

    Love the vids bro, keep it up.

  • @TripTreys
    @TripTreys 3 місяці тому +6

    Starts podcast about bargaining. 4 min in: “Lizzo’s not beautiful”
    This is why I tuned in for Conner 😂

  • @Primalinstincts101
    @Primalinstincts101 3 місяці тому +1

    Normally I would say ignore the haters, but this was too entertaining! lol

  • @LogicalVelocity
    @LogicalVelocity 3 місяці тому

    Youre awesome Connor.

  • @chadzillaful
    @chadzillaful 3 місяці тому +1

    Great explanation my thoughts were on the beggars of you start handing out money more people will come to you

  • @KilpatrickProductions
    @KilpatrickProductions 3 місяці тому

    The Taz Baseball Crew Neck is top level drip brother

  • @3DaysIn
    @3DaysIn 3 місяці тому +1

    It was a rage bait video anyway. Who cares. You know what you’re selling and they know what they’re buying.

  • @sambrewster3889
    @sambrewster3889 3 місяці тому

    Straight up 😂😂....i appreciate your view....actually doing the right thing is a lot more nuanced than just "oh poor people...I will just give them my money" I do wish we could 'bargain" with people selling in stronger currencies tho

  • @samamama8192
    @samamama8192 3 місяці тому +9

    haggling is actually a normal thing. idk why people are being so weird about it, tbh.

  • @KaeseFresh
    @KaeseFresh 3 місяці тому +1

    Bargaining per se is good. Offering hilarious prices is not.

  • @neil7340
    @neil7340 3 місяці тому

    I got one of your shirts today - dude these are nice.

  • @frontiernomad8765
    @frontiernomad8765 2 місяці тому +1

    All is ok but bargaining a taxi ride by startung with 20 rupees only shows you are a tourist. Be readonable in your bargaining.

  • @shellderp
    @shellderp 3 місяці тому +1

    I get it but its still funny to negotiate over 20 cents

  • @m.o.x.d
    @m.o.x.d 3 місяці тому

    I get it man. You're totally in the right here tbh

  • @Nosferatew
    @Nosferatew 3 місяці тому

    Hit the nail on the head

  • @ab287
    @ab287 3 місяці тому

    We get overcharged in the US all the time. Wish we could negotiate. Keep it real.

  • @andy3949
    @andy3949 3 місяці тому +3

    Connor is 100% right. I hate getting ripped off under the assumption because I'm white I'm some rich c***.

    • @HashiraFranklin
      @HashiraFranklin 3 місяці тому +1

      For real, I don't give a fuck if they ripping me off 40 cents. That's my pocket change.

  • @FunHistoryFacts00
    @FunHistoryFacts00 3 місяці тому

    Love from Switzerland

  • @GlompyVR
    @GlompyVR 3 місяці тому

    That whole last episode reminded me of going to a carnival. Youre being overcharged, its loud as hell, and the carnies keep calling you over to play their game and spend some money. To your friend who got robbed literally in that video, just say no next time and leave your cash in your pocket.

  • @americanflounder
    @americanflounder 3 місяці тому

    Love you man, you didn't piss me off for what its worth!

  • @nickqe7228
    @nickqe7228 3 місяці тому

    The people compaining are a small minority. Dont let them bother you. They've probably never left their neighborhood thats all they know. Keep doing what you're doing bro!

  • @leeo3983
    @leeo3983 3 місяці тому

    I don’t understand people who are fine being ripped off. Why are people fine being a sucker or a mark?

  • @adrianp5258
    @adrianp5258 3 місяці тому

    bro youre so funny and valid keep it up

  • @dallinsiddoway5119
    @dallinsiddoway5119 3 місяці тому +6

    I think regardless of being a foreigner or not, there's a limit on how much someone can get gouged for basic services. I do think it's absurd to charge 3x, 5x, or even 10x the price they would already make money for their service.
    That said aggressively negotiating over 10-25 cents is just ridiculous for everyone involved. Even if 25 cents is double the cost, speaking English and dealing with clueless foreigners who probably don't understand how things work is a 100% justifiable upcharge.
    In Thailand I get extremely upset when a tuktuk wants 300 baht for a 25 baht ride down the next soi, but I don't care if I have to pay 50 baht for not speaking the language and being a foreigner.
    It's all about context and proportionality and haggling over dimes is just as rude as them asking for 10x the price.

  • @faber3969
    @faber3969 3 місяці тому +1

    You should visit the "good parts" of India they tell you go to and see what they're actually like. It would be good content.

  • @iamanthonyescaleras
    @iamanthonyescaleras 3 місяці тому +1

    Bros a comedian 😂

  • @daniellikes
    @daniellikes 3 місяці тому

    Fantastic!!

  • @75zackattack75
    @75zackattack75 3 місяці тому

    you shouldn't have to explain this. Paying the double the price as a foreigner is more than enough, people need to travel more.

  • @huliwood
    @huliwood 3 місяці тому

    Preach brotha

  • @jimmygorgiev9379
    @jimmygorgiev9379 3 місяці тому

    Nobody likes getting ripped off.
    Pay the local price
    You have to bargain!!!

  • @Choiven
    @Choiven 3 місяці тому

    haggling is a forgotten concept in the western world, people who whinge about this are the actual small brains. Stay true Connor

  • @guerrerosfun8806
    @guerrerosfun8806 3 місяці тому

    Nice sweater love Taz since I was little

  • @saschap8461
    @saschap8461 3 місяці тому

    Always remember, people who complain about the smallest things are those who are generally unhappy with their life or the way things are going for them. Fuck them, they gotta fix THEIR lives and not yours.