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КОМЕНТАРІ • 102

  • @Yasmeenabeena
    @Yasmeenabeena Рік тому +106

    the biggest thing I would tell my 25 year old self is YOU HAVE TIME. you have time to do everything you want to do. you have time to take a minute to breathe. you have time to live in the moment and enjoy life. when I was 25 I felt like I was running out of time for everything.

    • @BellaSabo_
      @BellaSabo_  Рік тому +25

      I needed to hear this, I don’t know why I feel like I’m running out not time. Thank you so much😩😩

    • @jessicandukwe
      @jessicandukwe Рік тому +10

      Yeahh I feel like today’s society keeps promoting toxic productivity

  • @masmodiba
    @masmodiba Рік тому +22

    Bella: Absolutely no dresses
    2 seconds later, shows us a dress from behind 😂😂
    This is all so cute to watch🥰

  • @BSmith-yl3je
    @BSmith-yl3je Рік тому +58

    I think that’s the beauty of “ growing up”; you can’t do it wrong or just right but it’s right for you. I’m 40, married, career and children and I’m at a point in life where I am realistic with myself and I’m easy on myself. I’d say the one thing I’d tell my 25 yo self - go easy on yourself ❤

  • @housegamer18
    @housegamer18 Рік тому +28

    When Bella said her therapist said the wedding is about her and Ade the Nigerian in me laughed. 😭😂

    • @basetsana1618
      @basetsana1618 Рік тому +3

      Honestly😂.
      The therapist is not well versed in Nigerian culture clearly.

  • @itsedinagrace
    @itsedinagrace Рік тому +10

    I love that you’re pushing yourself out of your comfort zone this year and learning how to swim! Honestly that motivates me to learn too! Keep inspiring🥲🫶🏾

  • @CariLethoko
    @CariLethoko Рік тому +7

    Loved this grwm. I’ll be turning 30 this year and honestly I would tell 25 year old me to just do it! Take the risk, go on the holiday, make the purchase, stick to the plans or ever cancel them! There’s no time to waste but also that you have so much time 🥹 I’d also tell her I’m proud of her. And the woman she’s becoming is the woman she’s dreaming of becoming ❤ she’s important and she matters and she is capable!!!

  • @serena_bee
    @serena_bee Рік тому +15

    Love the way this color makes your skin look so vibrant and glowy ❤

  • @fayebagamuhunda65
    @fayebagamuhunda65 Рік тому +7

    Advice to my 25 year old self… there is no copy for you to follow through with because your path is personal! You are creating your own journey and try and enjoy it! Keep it personal and authentic,mostly have fun while at it!

  • @ashleyadewa6593
    @ashleyadewa6593 Рік тому +22

    We are down for a rebrand 🥂✨ Honoured to evolve w you

  • @jessicandukwe
    @jessicandukwe Рік тому +5

    Absolutely loved this video, you have such a calming presence and this was really enjoyable to watch! As a new/growing content creator definitely resonate with the problems!

  • @serena_bee
    @serena_bee Рік тому +3

    Omg, can’t ever get over this tote bag ❤❤❤

  • @lyssaro
    @lyssaro Рік тому +9

    I feel you. I recently started embracing my middle name ‘ Saro ‘ ✨and I should’ve embraced it sooner. I love it so much

  • @AfrikanQueen17
    @AfrikanQueen17 Рік тому +3

    Obsessed with this hair. I need this wig in my life 😍

  • @chinwaaay
    @chinwaaay Рік тому +3

    I can relate to the swimming, I also can swim from point A to B but can't float in deep water (yet) trying to learn... I'm excited for you for all the transitions happening 💗

  • @BonnieCreoleSpirit
    @BonnieCreoleSpirit Рік тому +1

    I think that it’s so great that you’re asking yourself question and giving yourself the space to hear your own voice. It is amazing that can do this at 25! I would tell my 25 year old self: slow down and don’t rush yourself to keep up with deadlines society says you should follow. Enjoy the moment and trust yourself…no one knows you better than you.
    Don’t worry Bells…you will find the answers. You have already found one: you need more than money for motivation. So many don’t’ t even get this concept. When I what your videos, I often think you’re more wise than your years. 😊❤

  • @faridasaid4211
    @faridasaid4211 Рік тому +1

    Omg, I'm also going through a transitional phase in my life at the moment and I honestly don't know what to expect. it's soo terrifying so I completely resonate with you there hun 🥺❤

  • @fego672
    @fego672 Рік тому +3

    Excited to watch !!❤️

  • @sumira.t
    @sumira.t Рік тому +4

    Hey Bella, I loved this video! As a starting content creator myself or as you said it “new generation” of content creator I also find it hard to keep the boundaries between what I should show and what not. But this video really helped me come back to myself and ask myself what I really want in life. Just like you I’m not “money driven” either but I do want a platform for my future plans. What I would suggest you to do is charity work!! I’ll be doing volunteer work & charity work in future as well because I visited a Buddhist temple recently & helped the workers there. That really made my heart feel lighter & made me realise that I like to give back whether it be through volunteer work or just to people in my life that I love. Give that a try!

  • @enkosikhohliso3950
    @enkosikhohliso3950 Рік тому +9

    I’ve been off my socials for a while now and come back to find out you’re engaged? I’m so excited, congratulations Bella🥺🥳🥳🥳🥳❤️

  • @karisahove5818
    @karisahove5818 Рік тому +4

    Love your natural hair 💕💕💕

  • @kasiapetruk6730
    @kasiapetruk6730 Рік тому +6

    I read somewhere that if something is not going to matter in 5 years, then you should not spend more than 5 minutes worrying about it.

  • @tiaaaliyah
    @tiaaaliyah Рік тому +2

    Love the rebrand name! It sounds very luxe 😊

  • @Sessi_K
    @Sessi_K Рік тому +11

    I think it would look like you trying authentically to keep expressing yourself in whatever entertainment genre you choose, not being afraid of a process not working, not being afraid to experiment. Within you boundaries, see what works for you and accept that you’ll keep evolving from whatever you settle on… hence you not resonating with OnlyBells/Bella-Michelle anymore. Even with that, you’re not scrapping ‘the plan’, you’re just developing it. Keep growing!🖤

    • @BellaSabo_
      @BellaSabo_  Рік тому +2

      Thank you SO much! This is exactly it, just figuring it out as we go on ☺️

  • @verushcakatokele1553
    @verushcakatokele1553 Рік тому +4

    This hair colour is everything...... Bella you look tewww good chileeeee

  • @iamchimzy
    @iamchimzy Рік тому +6

    I’m I the only one that just loves when bells talk 🥰🥰💯

  • @puseletsotukula5335
    @puseletsotukula5335 Рік тому +3

    It's always nice listening to you talking. Now I miss your tipsy talk🥺. Anyway, can we start calling you Sabo already?

  • @VicksStyles
    @VicksStyles Рік тому +2

    Love the honesty 💃

  • @izakohpis
    @izakohpis Рік тому +1

    I loved this video so much! I related on a lot of things you mentioned, even though I am way to young compared to you, in age. It felt like we were having a catch up session☺💗

  • @moonlightscare7097
    @moonlightscare7097 Рік тому +6

    Would you be doing a Burundian/Nigerian traditional wedding?

  • @valenciaroberts9255
    @valenciaroberts9255 11 місяців тому

    This hair on you is perfection 🤌🏽🤌🏽😍😍😍😍

  • @Little.Ann__
    @Little.Ann__ Рік тому

    I definitely understand what you mean. Honestly I'm also 25 and i feel so confused. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings with us because it really resonated with me. 25 feels like a very transitional stage of life and it's tough to figure both personal and career life. I also wish I could see my life/myself at 30.

  • @caramel9244
    @caramel9244 Рік тому

    Love love this content🥰…A real food for thought 😉🤔

  • @yves_4
    @yves_4 Рік тому +2

    It’s the what are we doing question for me, you and me both sis😂

  • @chibundoakupue
    @chibundoakupue Рік тому +1

    A vlog suggestion: day in the life vlogs when you have something to do or someplace to be.
    Take us to somewhere with you to do an activity.

  • @toziamutambo1883
    @toziamutambo1883 Рік тому +1

    The contacts struggle...relate 🤣

  • @ItsPoppyKathryn
    @ItsPoppyKathryn Рік тому

    My family just has to understand why she is my favourite UA-camr
    Love her

  • @Cocomeetschanel
    @Cocomeetschanel Рік тому +3

    your teeth look perfect Bells😍, may you please do a video on them and your journey with invisalign.

  • @lydianyabuti8141
    @lydianyabuti8141 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤❤ love to see you Bella

  • @kooliecurlz93
    @kooliecurlz93 Рік тому +2

    Isabella Sabo sounds beautiful I can’t lie, unique

  • @yodittesfamariam8186
    @yodittesfamariam8186 Рік тому +3

    Connect with your local community would be my suggestion for finding your purpose 💚

  • @ChristinaVerse
    @ChristinaVerse Рік тому +1

    Yess new Vlog! ❤ I’m glad to be first!🎉

  • @lovesiphiwe
    @lovesiphiwe Рік тому +1

    Love the vulnerability of this video! I've been wondering since your perfume video but please, what hotel is this?

  • @ChinyereXO
    @ChinyereXO Рік тому +1

    Your middle name is gorgeous ♥️♥️ I love the meaning!

  • @rickimalatji
    @rickimalatji Рік тому

    You hair looks amazing. Keen for an install video?!🥺

  • @gloriamafisa
    @gloriamafisa Рік тому +2

    we hope you doing well too Bella

  • @the.zinhle
    @the.zinhle Рік тому +1

    Hey Bella sending love from Dubai

  • @drangonfliepink79
    @drangonfliepink79 Рік тому +1

    This is what am saying I have a frd who is on UA-cam n people came at me because I asked a question to him on social media that people felt I shouldn't n they came 4 me thinking they new him better than I did ....he was fine with the question was so strange to me ...lesson learned

  • @bond007jinxie6
    @bond007jinxie6 Рік тому +6

    Listen I’m 40 unmarried no kids 3 miscarriages I wanted a picket fence kids by 30 but that’s the beauty of life it’s not what we want but what the universe gives us in the end I’m some what satisfy but I’m not regretting the life that I’ve we live we love and we learn ❤❤

    • @ANa-qt7tt
      @ANa-qt7tt Рік тому

      V true 💗💗sending you love & light

  • @sinosijula
    @sinosijula Рік тому +1

    Pleeeease rebrand ❤ I actually commented on that tiktok when you posted it. I love your middle name.

  • @theshakiladiaries
    @theshakiladiaries Рік тому

    I never really comment but i was wondering if you've looked into the theory called the 7 year cycle. It's a theory it talks about this shift we go through as we transition, through our lives.
    Also i'm excited for the re-brand and congrats on the engagement. 😊

  • @Fatima-gp8op
    @Fatima-gp8op Рік тому +1

    We need the deets for the short hair 😩

  • @carleneclark1702
    @carleneclark1702 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing. You are right. Don’t put all of your personal information out here. I will watch anyway. Again, Congrats 🎊🎈🍾 on your engagement. Wishing you and yours the best! And we love 💕 watching your videos..💋💄❤️💓

  • @Wilma-Joy
    @Wilma-Joy Рік тому +1

    Notification gang ❤️

  • @amandine8186
    @amandine8186 Рік тому +1

    Nah you guys were deep in the country side of France! 600€ quote to get back?! I’ll walk. 😂

  • @lisaabena852
    @lisaabena852 Рік тому +1

    Bella Sabo has a nice ring to it

  • @yasminmohammed9815
    @yasminmohammed9815 Рік тому +1

    Please where did you get your brows done? Not sure if it's micro bladed

  • @jhannelm
    @jhannelm Рік тому

    Oooh brave Bella came out in this video. Sis said you guys are not my friends 😂 i understand & fully agree with u, it must be overwhelming and it’s borderline creepy to know everything abt a stranger’s life tbh

  • @princesschonco9205
    @princesschonco9205 Рік тому

    I’m 35 and if I was 25 I would say to myself Is calm down ,calm down baby and just take a deep breath. Know that you are enough and you deserve the best. Don’t settle for less.

  • @nthabby_M
    @nthabby_M Рік тому +1

    the maxi skirt! a need, dont wanna lie

  • @sikejohnson6641
    @sikejohnson6641 Рік тому +2

    This hair on you 💋💯

  • @ennvee1989
    @ennvee1989 Рік тому +1

    Wedding Bells 🔔❤

  • @ashakiberu9161
    @ashakiberu9161 Рік тому +1

    Yesssssss

  • @drangonfliepink79
    @drangonfliepink79 Рік тому +4

    I'm 43 n I still don't no whats going on haha lol

  • @AJD7233
    @AJD7233 Рік тому +2

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @jungleafreeca1111
    @jungleafreeca1111 Рік тому +11

    Heeeey gaaaal 🌍🌎🌍 Kenya in house

  • @lolatatasja
    @lolatatasja Рік тому +1

    I loooooovvveee your real middle name. Usually I don't even like short names for girls/women.

  • @Isis10610
    @Isis10610 Рік тому +1

    Gorgeous

  • @GG8p
    @GG8p Рік тому +1

    loved the vid! PLEASE where is the pink jacket from in 12:05 ?? xx

  • @emmaelliott9250
    @emmaelliott9250 Рік тому +1

    You look like Rihanna ❤️❤️❤️

  • @aneleboligello6587
    @aneleboligello6587 Рік тому +1

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @maonaa
    @maonaa Рік тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @pizzalii9849
    @pizzalii9849 Рік тому +1

    What do you mean Tanya has red flags?? love the hair btw ❤❤❤

  • @marblandine
    @marblandine Рік тому

    I love the editing can I ask which app you used to edit?

    • @BellaSabo_
      @BellaSabo_  Рік тому

      Thank you! I use Final Cut Pro

  • @moonlightscare7097
    @moonlightscare7097 Рік тому +6

    Tbh you can just add Michelle to your birth certificate. Who says we can’t give ourselves our names

  • @Ovokeroh
    @Ovokeroh Рік тому +1

    Bella 🫶🏾

  • @MissAmyBaybie
    @MissAmyBaybie Рік тому +1

    From following you for the past 4/5 yrs I'd say you're overthinking things. Everybody is different and every relationship is different. You've lived w Ade before which is a plus. As a 31 yr old I'd say you're doing great. You know who you are and are comfortable in your skin(takes time to get there)

    • @BellaSabo_
      @BellaSabo_  Рік тому +2

      Thank you so much! I’m definitely overthinking, I’m trying to get out of it 😭

  • @vizichisakuta9413
    @vizichisakuta9413 Рік тому +1

    Hey Bells. Did you do bridal proposals?? Definitely more wedding content 😁❤

  • @zariayong
    @zariayong Рік тому +2

    Struggling with this too. The audience will judge people for showing too much especially when creators expose their bodies same time this is the kind of content that gets the million views. Had this conversation with someone too. The public has to look inside. A lot of talented creators are not doing well because "they are boring" as per the public. The public will also rather watch someone trying to fall off the tallest mountain (aka kill themselves) than a decent creator sitting on a chair sharing useful information that may safe someone's life. I can't even get to share my living room. Looks like I am sharing too much. Introvert creators got to be struggling.

  • @angelkiyonga5777
    @angelkiyonga5777 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤thanks Bella❤❤❤beautiful name….gorg face beat

  • @allywildflower
    @allywildflower Рік тому +2

    Will you be taking Ade’s last name? Since you spoke about using your real last name for rebranding

    • @berenicei.7283
      @berenicei.7283 Рік тому

      It's her middle name! She wouldn't give out her last name lol

  • @mandamumayowe290
    @mandamumayowe290 Рік тому +2

    Hey Bella Zambia 🇿🇲 here!

  • @kennedistevens9454
    @kennedistevens9454 Рік тому

    Them ones when you put your contacts in and your face is looking too HD 🤣😩

  • @lerato17mokoena
    @lerato17mokoena Рік тому +1

    ❤️🌹💯

  • @sheisjacinta_
    @sheisjacinta_ Рік тому +3

    You're cute,
    Just like Rihanna 💙💙💙💓🌸

  • @amaleilah
    @amaleilah Рік тому +1

    Ok but Bella what you say to your 20 year old self?

  • @collegegrad2955
    @collegegrad2955 Рік тому

    Yeah people SHARE too much on social media! Especially on TIK TOK they have diarrhea of the mouth!!! Let’s get back to gatekeeping and boundaries!

  • @yemisi480
    @yemisi480 Рік тому

    I can't standdd Olivia and I feel like producers were tryna make her the star! ugh and I agree w you on tanya she doesn't like him like that lol yea Ron and Lana mehh...I also don't feel like jessie is into will like that! xo

  • @risperladee5718
    @risperladee5718 Рік тому +4

    🇰🇪..🙏👏👌

  • @aimanose3433
    @aimanose3433 Рік тому +3

    😍😍😍 Highlight of my day!