Preventing suicide and coping with loss

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  • @ester9326
    @ester9326 10 місяців тому +37

    Im not sure if it passes to be honest. It comes and goes but that cycle repeats itself. In my case at least. It’s a horrible feeling and knowing it will come back is the worst

    • @juliannavincent319
      @juliannavincent319 10 місяців тому +5

      I went through the worst depression in 2017 during my custody battle against my ex with my children. I lost over $25,000 in lawyer and court costs and got no where due to covid happening and shutting down everything. I barely kept going and wanted to take my life every day for 2 years but my children kept me going. I wanted to fight for them. Yesterday, their father called me and told me they don't want to be with me and I know it's him brain washing them. I tried talking to them and they tell me everything their father lies to them about me and they believe every word. I was doing better, but last night and today I am fighting against myself to not give up and this is the hardest fight I've ever faced and I don't know what to do. I just want everything to stop and I'm scared and I'm tired of hurting

    • @markdavies8946
      @markdavies8946 8 місяців тому

      I hope you're doing abit better now. I remember when my ex made it difficult for me to see my daughter, i had years of cancelled visits and rejection from my daughter.​ she is now old enough to make her own decisions and we have a good relationship, not the one i wanted but she thinks I'm cool, looks up to me and takes my advice. Become someone that your children want to be around when they can make their own decisons. It is hard and you'll have tough days but persevere as it will all be worth it. Eat well, exercise and tell yourself positive things about yourself :)@@juliannavincent319

    • @TipsyRedley
      @TipsyRedley 7 місяців тому +2

      I always feel like it comes back to bite me whenever I least want it to. The anger is overwhelming.

    • @Lex0863
      @Lex0863 7 місяців тому +1

      @@juliannavincent319I’m sorry you’re going through this 😔

    • @aditipandey8415
      @aditipandey8415 7 місяців тому

      Hey you ok now??​@@juliannavincent319

  • @janeh4664
    @janeh4664 2 роки тому +37

    I’m so glad someone stopped to help this lovely man . I hope his life is richer now.
    When Chester died my son drew a beautiful picture of Chester for me. My son took his own life recently and now that picture with the title …KEEP ME IN YOUR MEMORY…is heartbreaking, life is so cruel and suicide is like a living death for us left behind

    • @BEACHDUDE71
      @BEACHDUDE71 4 місяці тому +3

      you cannot stop people

    • @godsims170
      @godsims170 4 місяці тому +1

      @@BEACHDUDE71 everyones time to leave is written. hope no one leaves before their time arrives.

    • @BEACHDUDE71
      @BEACHDUDE71 4 місяці тому +1

      @@godsims170 we decide

    • @FreethinkingPharoah
      @FreethinkingPharoah 2 місяці тому

      ​@godsims170
      Written by whom? Be specific and lost a credible source to back your claim.

    • @AdammtheBiker1-uc9zq
      @AdammtheBiker1-uc9zq 10 днів тому

      Leave out all the rest - Linkin Park
      I am sorry to hear your son passing
      Chester's death hit us fans very hard to be honest, I thought about it as well.

  • @--M--1111
    @--M--1111 Місяць тому +8

    It doesn't help though when all your high school bullies moved on with their lives successfully and the teachers that were supposed to protect you were in on the bullying with the majority of the kids thinking you're an outcast. To grow up feeling excluded.

  • @reneaMichealMartin684
    @reneaMichealMartin684 Рік тому +13

    Miss you brother,A piece of me died when you left,I wish I could've help you,but it was to late.GONE BUT NEVER EVER FORGOTTEN,LOVE YOU FOR INFINITI.😢 😢💔💔
    March 18,1988
    August 11,2023

    • @madimoe8331
      @madimoe8331 2 місяці тому +1

      Just imagine the pain they had to be going through.

  • @dragonseeker8830
    @dragonseeker8830 5 місяців тому +15

    So what's the best way to die, other than of old age? I need to know, I really can't take it anymore...

    • @joecheffo5942
      @joecheffo5942 4 місяці тому +1

      We all need to advocate for assisted dying. We need to keep speaking up. They have the methods they are just making them illegal. There are still some ways, can't really comment here, don't know how old you are or your situation.

    • @neptunefan-n6i
      @neptunefan-n6i 2 місяці тому

      its okay

    • @joecheffo5942
      @joecheffo5942 2 місяці тому +7

      @@neptunefan-n6i what’s OK staying on this rotten earth and suffering when we have the technology to let anyone leave peacefully whenever they want? That’s not OK it’s inhumane and stupid.

    • @kiyoinaa
      @kiyoinaa 2 місяці тому +6

      @@joecheffo5942well said, forcing anyone to live is inhumane, what is the point ???? just let people go if they want to, no one asked to be born here and it's selfish to say "well just tough it out". there is no point in toughing anything out, and sometimes it doesnt get better. give us freedom.

    • @timothyquinn4919
      @timothyquinn4919 18 днів тому

      Suicide bomb taking out the one percent.

  • @AN-zz8ps
    @AN-zz8ps 2 роки тому +107

    suicidal thoughts and feelings do not always pass for everyone unfortunately some people have extremely nasty incurable illnesses it's just not fair to say things will get better and those feelings will pass sometimes they won't unfortunately. And suicide sometimes IS the only hope for some unfortunate people we can't just act like everyones life will be great with time it sadly is just not true :(

    • @theliver619
      @theliver619 Рік тому +16

      Well said.

    • @juliannavincent319
      @juliannavincent319 10 місяців тому +10

      Or when you've fought custody battles until you've gone broke, only to have the ones you've been fighting for tell you they don't want to be with you. And their father feeds them lies to make them hate you. That'll do it.

    • @AN-zz8ps
      @AN-zz8ps 10 місяців тому +1

      @@juliannavincent319 OMG! I am SO sorry to hear this! :( That is so heartbreaking! That is so unfair to have lies spread about you like that I am so sorry! :(

    • @AN-zz8ps
      @AN-zz8ps 10 місяців тому

      @@theliver619 thanks!

    • @AN-zz8ps
      @AN-zz8ps 10 місяців тому

      @@theliver619 sorry I didn't see this till now I must have missed your comment somehow

  • @ahjahrobinson297
    @ahjahrobinson297 6 місяців тому +14

    Nothing in this video is encouraging enough to stop me from taking my own "life".

    • @ironman1518.
      @ironman1518. 6 місяців тому +4

      AGREED me too! dumb video I want out and I should have the right to die whenever however I wish. Am trying starving........going on 4 days.......

    • @itzjetlife3639
      @itzjetlife3639 5 місяців тому +1

      are either one of you still with us ? if not i might be joining you all soon

    • @FreethinkingPharoah
      @FreethinkingPharoah 2 місяці тому

      Thank you!

  • @TEXAN_SHADOW
    @TEXAN_SHADOW 4 місяці тому +18

    I’m scared that I’m so deep in depression and anxiety that this is the only way out….

  • @JazzFan76
    @JazzFan76 7 місяців тому +11

    I've had depression most of my life and still have it. I have tried ending my life quite a few times but unfortunately, I'm still here. I don't want to be but for some reason, I can't go through ending my life, at least not yet. I am seeing a therapist which sometimes it helps and sometimes it doesn't. I don't tell her everything because I do not want to be locked away in a mental hospital or crisis center. I was in a crisis center before in 2006 for 3 days and hated it. I was so drugged up for those 3 days that I just slept through them. I knew that if I wanted to go home, I would have to tell them what they wanted to hear and it worked and I was sent home. I never want to go through that again. I honestly don't think that a person that doesn't want to be here should be forced to stay here. I don't really have friends and my family doesn't care about me. I never had a boyfriend or been in a relationship because of my ugliness. I never amounted to anything in life. I'm just wasting away. I do distract myself from my depression but it sneaks up on me at times. It never fully goes away. Honestly, I don't think anyone would give a crap if I died anyway because I'm pretty much ignored by people that I love and care about while I'm alive so I don't think it'll matter if I died but I'm not at that point yet.

    • @Muataran
      @Muataran 5 місяців тому +2

      I think my uncle must have felt that way, he believed that we wouldn't care if he was gone, or that we might be better off without him. He was wrong. I just wish I could give him a hug and tell him I care.

    • @gillianm9367
      @gillianm9367 2 місяці тому +4

      I felt very sad reading your story. You say your family doesn't care about you but im sure that isn't true. Please keep talking to your therapist, i hope they can help you to learn to value yourself ❤

    • @saraemily7397
      @saraemily7397 Місяць тому

      Not everyone has a family that cares! ​@@gillianm9367

  • @dannyleo4791
    @dannyleo4791 4 місяці тому +3

    I'm broken hearted for these people. The pain they must have went through is unimaginable. I pray for the victims and their families. I hope their hearts heal.

  • @aadiptpandey538
    @aadiptpandey538 4 роки тому +17

    Chester ♥️😥 RIP .his songs are very deep.

  • @Tainted_Julz_Radio
    @Tainted_Julz_Radio Рік тому +7

    Love Chester soo much. And I hear his cries for help in his music now

  • @tgibbs3208
    @tgibbs3208 2 місяці тому +2

    I don't see it passing i wanted this since i was 16. Now I'm 34 still not gone. Nothing changed when ever I get the courage to fix my problem there's always someone that makes me feel lower and lower then when I started. To me it's kinda dumb I spent years working on my trades. Carpentry, car mechanics, welding, pc building, rewiring everything. And yet I was trained to provide for my family. With no family any idea what it's like being alone for 12years. Was told it's a number game keep asking. Out of 50 no. Nothing got better. 16 I was sent to a us military base because word got out at school. You know what dad said? Thanks I get a day off work for this. Then that night he tryed to hand me a gun and said if your going to do it go outside. He didn't want his house destroyed. At this point I'm just waiting to see if my life gets better before I'm 40. If not it was a great run

  • @TenshinhanIsKing
    @TenshinhanIsKing Рік тому +33

    How about instead of preventing suicide we just let people do what they want

    • @ironman1518.
      @ironman1518. 6 місяців тому +8

      AGREED!! I am soooo tired of living am old crippled, sick, no reason to live do n't want to continue to live WTF for?? I have NOTHING in my shitty life to live for just let me go.......I don't belive the number they used 800,000 die by suicide probably world wide, really not much considering the totals of people in the world.

    • @joecheffo5942
      @joecheffo5942 4 місяці тому +2

      It's called freedom. I am for it.
      And many of our physical and mental illnesses are caused by modern chemicals and injuries from modern machines like cars, so why not give us modern ways to help us leave, balance it out.

    • @lalaausten9072
      @lalaausten9072 2 місяці тому +5

      Give people with chronic illness the chance to exit their pain if they want

    • @ChristopherAllen-b6n
      @ChristopherAllen-b6n 14 днів тому

      100% in the UK no access to 🔫

  • @TheOriginalElkstone
    @TheOriginalElkstone 5 місяців тому +4

    I like how all of this is "Don't do it because other people"
    What if you just don't have other people, you just have people that would be better off if you weren't around

    • @danielgiordani7625
      @danielgiordani7625 5 місяців тому +3

      Not to mention you don’t owe anyone your life or your existence. It’s your life you can do as you please

    • @boodledemic6430
      @boodledemic6430 4 місяці тому +1

      That’s why I sometimes hate that I have family that loves me. I can’t do anything because I know it would make them sad

  • @Matthew-lh6nl
    @Matthew-lh6nl 3 місяці тому +3

    I was so close to attempting suicide but my mum walked in and stopped me

    • @deano234
      @deano234 2 місяці тому

      Hope you are doing well, everyone at certain times in their life can hit a brick wall and wonder why they bother to carry on but things do change every day can be different.And the good times are still to come.All The Best to you.

  • @Pices3370
    @Pices3370 4 роки тому +6

    Even with resources ,especially after covid hit, it has gotten extremely difficult.

  • @jaisaqui
    @jaisaqui Місяць тому +1

    No… They never pass for everybody. I’ve been dealing with this for the last 22 years. Every… Single… Day.

  • @__-vp7dd
    @__-vp7dd 4 роки тому +5

    I wanted WHO to talk about Chester's death

  • @Whatiftheresmore1314
    @Whatiftheresmore1314 8 місяців тому +1

    Bless this beautiful man! ❤️🙏🏻

  • @PaulMiskimmon
    @PaulMiskimmon 3 місяці тому

    Im suffering with so much pain and loneliness, i feel like ive tried everything to get on track and everything just blows up in my face, been with depression since i was 6, im 32 now and ive tried to end my life on a number of occasions throughout my life, im planning on trying it again and im hoping i succeed, goodbye yall😢

    • @divine6867
      @divine6867 3 місяці тому

      don’t, i hope you’re okay

  • @tannersharp643
    @tannersharp643 2 місяці тому +1

    I think about suicide every day for at-least 5 years now it doesn’t pass for some people, I have friends a gf loving parents etc I think about it every day, I’m good for a week then back to it

  • @leinad5243
    @leinad5243 7 місяців тому +2

    How can I contact the gentleman who was talked off the bridge?

  • @ChannelPro666
    @ChannelPro666 11 днів тому

    It doesn't pass it gets put aside "I never forget"

  • @davidkuffel5959
    @davidkuffel5959 Рік тому +5

    Being forced to pay s lifetime of alimony will do it ..

  • @brendamccarty8045
    @brendamccarty8045 7 місяців тому +1

    I had a moment that it would’ve been perfect
    But certainly about it and I was out of state and now that my parents are dead what keeps me for that moment

    • @Brett580
      @Brett580 Місяць тому

      Happy Sunday Brenda, It's incredible how we connect with strangers in unexpected ways. Although I don't usually do this, I couldn't help but reach out to you after seeing your comment. Could you tell me what you like to do in your spare time?

  • @HowardArnold-be9ly
    @HowardArnold-be9ly 7 місяців тому +2

    What makes anyone think they any right to stop me?

  • @yleonardoperez8a632
    @yleonardoperez8a632 4 роки тому +1

    Gracias

  • @andix209
    @andix209 3 місяці тому +4

    @0.57 bull💩 if you got real people in instead of actors, you know it will never pass the thoughts are sill there. What a load of 💩💩💩💩

  • @thisgirl5933
    @thisgirl5933 3 місяці тому +1

    I'm over 50, divorced, screwed up my career, not good at cooking, not the most devoted mom. Failing in my Catholic faith. But God and my family is keeping me from s. I admire people who keep going when they are alone and don't believe in God.

  • @marianvillafuerte9577
    @marianvillafuerte9577 3 роки тому +3

    🙏

  • @Theheraldsblog
    @Theheraldsblog Місяць тому

    Feels like no one there till its to late

  • @banerjeesiddharth05
    @banerjeesiddharth05 4 роки тому +2

    Saddening 😔😔😔😔😔

  • @Erikgamer-l8m
    @Erikgamer-l8m Місяць тому

    My mom tried so many times to kill herself my "dad"is lied to me and everyone that my mom tried to kill him but it's the opposite

  • @cloudscream9534
    @cloudscream9534 8 місяців тому +5

    Just show me the damn things I’m trying to search for instead of this video

    • @Jake-rs4ki
      @Jake-rs4ki 7 місяців тому

      I feel you. Take care ❤

  • @ReadableNamethefirst
    @ReadableNamethefirst 59 хвилин тому

    coping through loss with a youtube video

  • @alfiewillis4893
    @alfiewillis4893 3 місяці тому +1

    I'm gonna help drop that number down to every 39 seconds.

  • @collineisch8518
    @collineisch8518 6 місяців тому

    Thanks this kind of helped, idk why

  • @VTUBERHAYATO
    @VTUBERHAYATO 4 роки тому +8

    I pray for all the people to keep holding on to dear life and have more strength surpass this year
    Guys we are almost there .... Hang on guys 😔

  • @billhawk4293
    @billhawk4293 7 місяців тому +4

    If making millions of dollars making very bad music isnt enough to prevent suicide, then what are the rest of us waiting for?

  • @davidkuffel5959
    @davidkuffel5959 Рік тому +3

    No it's the only way..

  • @fgjruk
    @fgjruk 4 роки тому +2

    .
    I humbly 💝 invoke my right to 💙 lay down my life so that life may survive on 🌐 Earth.
    .

  • @FilterX-wl1xr
    @FilterX-wl1xr 6 місяців тому

    People die, regardless.

  • @soulsnatcher5408
    @soulsnatcher5408 Рік тому +11

    I don't know why we are trying to prevent it. If people choose to want to end it they should be allowed to. Depression can be avoided if you stop feeling sorry for yourself same with suicide. Both of which are a choice. I know some people have it worse but they stick it out. I mean I'm stuck in a wheelchair becuase of a disease I've had since birth and slowly losing other muscular functions as well but I don't mope around feeling sorry for myself. Once you pull your head out of the cloud you put yourself in you'll feel better. You control your brain nothing else.

    • @briandavis9002
      @briandavis9002 Рік тому +23

      If you have never had the feeling of despair,that there is no help,you can’t say that. People who have never been there cannot understand. Same with addiction. People say why can’t they just quit using? It’s not that simple and if you’ve never been an addict you could not understand the sickness.

    • @TheFracturedfuture
      @TheFracturedfuture Рік тому +23

      Yeah you don't know what it's like at all. Being in a wheelchair doesn't give you a free pass at telling people to just snap out of it.

    • @carliebeau5329
      @carliebeau5329 Рік тому +2

      Nasty replies. Sorry about that wheel chair guy. Listen everyone minds there minds. Even if you don't have function legs u can still have n mind n make a choice to be ok. Pride is what drives people to suicidal. That want. You excepted your fate n that means everything

    • @TheFracturedfuture
      @TheFracturedfuture Рік тому

      @@carliebeau5329 "Pride is what drives people to suicide" It would be so great to be as ignorant as you.

    • @Taniere
      @Taniere 10 місяців тому +1

      Amen!!

  • @C-Tech1231
    @C-Tech1231 7 місяців тому

    Stuck in a trap like william aft

  • @pratikchahande9
    @pratikchahande9 4 роки тому +1

    1st

  • @marioh5144
    @marioh5144 Місяць тому +1

    This is trash

  • @Linqlmaoo
    @Linqlmaoo 7 місяців тому

    +ratio get your baps out.