What he is telling Ashley is that... I Don't have to show up as upstanding...Honorable man because you have accepted me at my lowest state. A state in which I have chosen to abandon my kids. If you can accept that type of man , you will accept anything that I do to you
I love how you broke down how male trauma can look like chaos, manipulation, and survival mode. Tyler's behavior reminds me of my ex husband. Whew chile...
Thank you for taking one for the team. Tyler lives in chaos. Just how Bri describes how the all the children came to be is chaotic and messy. Even when she breaks down how the twins were conceived, how Tyler was in and out of their lives, the staged pictures, the taxes-it sounded insane. And trying to convince us that we don’t know when children are abandoned is wild. And Ashley needs to get therapy about her daddy issues because her trying to prove her loyalty to Tyler isn’t going to heal the abandoned little girl who lives inside of her.
The interviewer admitted that 1) he never watched Love is Blind and had no idea who Tyler was, other than hearing his name thrown around a lot 2) that someone from Love is Blind chased him down to get him to interview Tyler (despite his busy schedule 3) that after he had the interview set up, he only THEN watched some of the Jessie Woo/Story time with Rikki stufff and admitted that he only watched about 30% of what they covered - also that he didn't get to pre-interview Tyler and only met him JUST before filming
Yeah I can’t believe ppl are actually watching that interview lol ….. I knew he was going to lie the wholllleee time…but im glad my girls can make content and coins off of discussing this man🥳…great video!!
I'm not mad nor disappointed... at Ashley. I just think that See is morally Bankrupt as well as Tyler To sit by And not encourage him to be a part of his children's lives is a failure. So I guess I am disgusted by that behavior.
Yes. Anger is a secondary emotion. There is always something deeper. And yes, so many people are addicted to the chaos. They don't know anything else. It's a trauma response.
The most irritating thing about Ashley for me is how she centers herself and her “love story” and disregards those kids. Even if he was playing “uncle”. Now “uncle” doesn’t ever want to see you again? She is so weird for that.
I completely agree with you. Tyler is definitely in survival mode, seeking an escape, and Ashley became that escape for him. However, I see Ashley as the core issue here. Tyler displayed his red flags, yet Ashley chose to stay and ride with him. On one side, we have a man doing whatever he feels necessary, manipulating , lying etc and on the other, a woman allowing it. This highlights a larger issue: Black women need to prioritise building and reinforcing a strong sense of self-worth and self-love. While I understand and appreciate the concept of self-love being rooted in our collective validation as a community, I also believe that at some point, the individual journey becomes crucial. As much as we are a collective, we must recognise our personal agency and the power to make our own choices. Ashley represents a common experience for many Black women, beautiful, accomplished, independent, and yearning for meaningful connection. Yet, the structure of global society often positions us as less desirable for marriage or long-term partnerships. Despite this, there comes a point where we must forge our own paths. Establishing self-love, self-respect, and clear boundaries is vital to protect ourselves from bottom feeders like Tyler-those who are simply looking for someone to pull them out of their struggles. It’s a lesson in valuing ourselves enough to walk away from relationships that don’t serve us and recognising that we deserve so much more than being someone else’s escape plan.
Nahhhh we're not disappointed in Ashley anymore. We're mad because we have found out that she is just as horrible as he is. WE THOUGHT SHE WAS BETTER THEN SHE HAS SHOWN HERSELF TO BE. The fact that she could accept Tyler was one thing with all of his lies, BUT AS WE SEE HER CONDONE'& SUPPORT 'F THOSE KIDS' WE DECIDED WE WERE DONE WITH HER!!! Also as we saw her on these podcast frame her responses anyways that demonstrated she had no interest in the Truth, didn't even want to know, head in the sand behavior while at the same time going around talking about, well as a married woman blah blah blah blah blah blah as if she was now in some group that was so much better than the group she was in 2 seconds ago..... We watch this bird being ignorant acting like she was so above all the rest of us. It's not disappointment at all. Ashley has now shown herself to be just like a whole lot of other birds but we HAD much higher hopes for her.
My sister I so agree with you on the point of getting Tyler and Bri on a crouch with an experienced therapist. I said the same thing. All these interviewers on podcast are only looking out for their likes which that's the line of business they're in, but the bottom line is not one of them made the effort or suggestion to less help those two individuals that seriously have some problems going on.
This is a prime example of generational unhealed trauma. Tyler has deep abandonment wounds. Why didn't a therapist do this interview? Someone like you who has the qualifications and the training to help him take accountability for his actions. What lead him to a place in his life where he was making such poor decisions? This man should not have done this interview. He did Tyler and the audience a disservice. I am way more interested in how someone gets to this place in their life and the background story, that is the real "tea". You can be entertaining and informative. Who does an interview without first doing their research? Why are all these people just doing interviews without getting the background information and at the very least watching the show? This is people's actual lives not just reality tv. Tyler and Ashley should both be in therapy alone and as a married couple. it is no accident they ended up together. When we don't work on these deep wounds from our childhood this is how it shows up in our adult life. They both had absent fathers and they are repeating the cycle and chaos. I have so much empathy for everyone involved. It makes me sad more than anything. Thank you so much for the great work you are doing. It is so needed!
Thank you so much! I was thinking about talking about this with another shows....these host discussing trauma WO any trauma informed background. It truly brings 0 value to the audience. Plus he wasn't well versed on the WHOLE story just tad bits he saw on another you tube channel
I’m curious what it is that adults do now, in Tyler defending being a deadbeat dad in realtime as he does it. My dad had other priorities when I was a kid (& is still disconnected today). Yes, it hurts, on the receiving end.
@@summerintherockies9530 I fornately have not seen anyone defend him. The host here seems to "be on the fence" and did not provide enough dialogue about accountability. that goes back to him not being fully informed of the FULL story.
@ I think you should talk about this issue with many of these “reality” shows. They are exploiting people’s trauma and are not offering them any kind of substantial mental health support.
You’re the only one who said what needed to be said: THEY’RE ALL MESSY!!! 😩🤣🤣 After hearing all sides of this situation, all I could think was, Tyler and Bri are messy AF and the only people I feel sorry for are the children. But here’s where I deviate slightly from the current discussion: while I believe Tyler needs to take his fair share of the blame, Bri has a lot that she needs to answer for as well. She has issues with her sexuality, she probably ALWAYS liked Tyler romantically, and I believe that she had these kids to not only keep him around but to alleviate her own shortcomings. Ofc, I don’t know these people but listen to the interviews - it was a recipe for disaster from the beginning. And sadly, while the parents are crashing out online, the children are the ones having to deal with the emotional aftermath. Honestly, it’s just sad 🙏🏽
@@WorkYourWisdom I’ve ALWAYS been told I say what others are thinking. I love telling about the stuff no one else is. I do believe bri has her own issues. It’s all a mess the kids have to grow up in. Truly SAD!
Imo Bri may have a ton of issues but she is taking care of her kids with no help from Tyler. This story is about Tyler going on an international tv show thinking none of this would come out and Bri wouldn’t come forward bc of her government job. The point is Tyler was on the show and if he is a man of God and good character he needs to step up and take care of his biological responsibilities.
@ yea all that matters is that he goes in and out of those kids lives and that’s confusing and hurtful. I do believe he thought no one associated with that side of his off would come out. I also think he thinks he is smarter than the internet slueths.
@@RedBunni1024: I agree to a point! Was Tyler mad shady and manipulative? Yea. But remember the beginning of the story: he originally was only supposed to be a donor, and then he tried to do the “right thing” and be in the children’s lives, but I guess he thought it would be over once he went on the show. Also, from what Im sure I heard, he was only known as Uncle Tyler as opposed to Daddy. My point is, he and Bri need to make it legally clear how involved Tyler will be in these kids lives - is he gonna be on child support and no contact? Will he only be the Uncle? Or will he actually be active and known as their Father?!
@@TheInnerchild.Whisperer yeah. And we’re all crazy for digging it up or caring. I’m not an internet detective but if someone puts it out there I’ll listen and form my own opinion. If he didn’t want the smoke he should’ve stayed home but then again he was bout homeless with $8 in the bank so 🤷♀️
The host of the podcast said that love is blind, actually reached out to him about doing the interview. And he admitted on Jesse‘s channel that he only had a few moments to review all the stuff that’s been coming out about him. He also said he probably only got 30% of the information that was out there on him so headmittedly went into it pretty blindly he said.
Agreed. i think he really sh*t himself in the foot with this interview. The host was trying to give him "room/rope to hang himself with the lies". Like you said, He is so accustomed to an entangled way of living, that this is normal.
Thank you for mentioning that the overwhelming majority of podcasters don't have the necessary credentials to tackle the issues discussed on their platform. It scares me that so many easily take advice from unqualified people, without ever once questioning whether the podcaster has the qualifications to give advice.
THANK YOU 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 you said exactly what I thought about the interviewer- he uses religion as an excuse for bad behavior. He joined Jessie Woo's live and said Tyler wouldn't be interviewed by them because they would attack him and that he believes it because they were attacking him 🙄 sir, holding someone accountable is NOT an attack and if you think it is, you need to reevaluate things. I'll never watch another one of his podcasts.
@TheInnerchild.Whisperer I was trying to attach her live but it's not up yet. He joined her live about halfway in while she was reacting to the video and she invited him to speak his peace. He gives off shady and egotistical and definitely doesn't like being called out by women. Can't wait for you to watch it and react 😂
I will say I wonder if things would be different if Ashley had kids herself. I have one teen and I can’t imagine her dad just up and leaving her life (we are divorced). I dated a guy awhile back and he was barely in his kids lives and honestly that was a huge red flag AS a MOM. I kept saying, oh you don’t see your daughter that much? Oh when are you gonna see her next? I didn’t know him enough to really press into it but it gave me the ick and this is why I wonder if Ashley had a connection to her own child if she could co-sign on Tyler doing this to HIS kids.
He came there to refute the claims and take the heat off his wife. It was never about telling his story because we know all he does is lie and create confusion. He was better off not talking because it did nothing to redeem his image. If anything it just confirmed to everyone that he is a pathological liar and the truth ain't in him. Ultimately the people who will suffer most are the children who are innocent byproducts of two selfish people. If we're being real he and Bri are the same person and are now reaping the consequences of their poor actions. Please be mindful I'm not victim blaming but stating the obvious when we factor in the accounts from Bri's ex-wife.
Yes, everybody is wrong, correct!!! most people are focusing on Tyler all of them “coming for all of them”. Neither parent was ready to have children period. The ex/wife of the kids mother said that her ex-wife (Tyler baby mama) was fighting her. It was a lot of craziness going on.
Saying how the chaos is filtering right down into the same generational trauma, makes me sad and it's why i go so hard on this situation. That broken little boy named Tyler grew up to do this to his son and I wish more than anything the kids can grow up in spite of these odds to break that curse. As far as the interviewer... I don't like that he assumes being fully informed SOLELY means we are asking him to interrogate him. There is a lot of range between not being informed and asking questions to asking without it meaning destroy tyler. The interviewer did some good things with 30% knowledge(his words) so imagine what he could have done with more.
@@TheInnerchild.Whisperer he repeatedly asked him questions in different ways that Tyler tried to get away with. He made an attempt to set a tone of a safe space in hopes tyler would be more honest. i'm not a sympathizer of the interviewer, i called him out in a video saying he could do more, but he did do somethings good.
My observation is: his “family participation” made him want his own as evidence by how thirsty he has been speaking about having a family during the season. I hope they create secondary pages and live quietly.
You may not have seen it, but Ashley already confirmed that she is NOT pregnant. She made a video literally right after people started the speculation.
Can you review laterras response to Jessie and rickii response to the interview he was defensive kept saying as a man ... called them females and accused them of attacking him. I would like to hear your thoughts
I do not like that guys podcast. I’ve watched two episodes and noticed that he never holds BM accountable and he doesn’t research the guest. If he did thorough research he’d have better questions. He will always get certain interviews and a certain audience because he refuses to do the work.
Tyler wouldn't want to go on a podcast that goes deep. He didn't want to be held accountable. Netflix sent him there. Everyone is wrong. Bri and her ex-wife should have had a sperm donor agreement and Tyler shouldn't have accepted without signing a document 🙄
He actually said he only watched 30% of Jessie and Rikki's interview with Bri. He didn't say if he watched the show or not, and it really appears he didn't. It also appears that 30% of the interview watched may be an exaggeration bc he seemed to not know alot!!
How about pleasing the kids. Are they happy?🙄 Tyler was jumping from one allegation to another not really being accountable for dragging Ashley into this mess.
Listen I’ve been watching Dear Future Wifey for like a year now, Laterras is an amazing interviewer. I barely miss his episodes but this one I took a HARD PASS.
11:06 disappointed especially since she and Tyler both didn’t have active fathers in their lives so for them both to choose to abandon those kids is extremely disappointing. And I think viewers are hurting for the children involved because we know people benefit from having a mother and a father in their life. Tyler doesn’t want an interview with someone else, interviewer Latteras said to Jessica woo and Rikkii that Tyler told him his buddies said Latteras went hard on him as a man. So where we look at it and see the interviewer as going very easy on Tyler he said he didn’t and we need to have common sense and accept Tyler as he is. Tyler would say one thing then another that contradicts and Latteras says we need to use our brains to see ok Tyler is gonna lie and not wait for him to get right.
@ I can’t recall if he said those words exactly but yes that was the sentiment. He wasn’t gonna call Tyler out on his lies, just let Tyler dig a deeper hole for himself. But women need to learn when people show you who they are believe them. It’s on the 2nd half of the Jessie woo episode from yesterday when Latteras and Rikkii join.
Tyler's truth is his truth and viewers looking in from the outside (and high atop their moral mountain) don't get to determine that. Tyler & Ashley can and should - get on with the business of being happily married.
I think we all need to stay out folks business. Any of us watched their love story. Ashley chose to marry Tyler a year ago before everyone knew about Tyler's non-disclosure in the pods. Also, remember Ashley signed off on Tyler's interview with Lateras Whitfield because she trusted him with Tyler. Lateras didn't give Tyler a pass on fathering these children, AND there is a court hearing still pending. Tyler only saw himself as a donor and Bri's BF. I believe, Ashley wanted a spiritual brother to speak into his life. I believe she wants a godly mentor for her husband. Now Denise, if you want to provide your services to Tyler to deal with his childhood trauma and how that said trauma impacted his lack of responsible decision-making at 27 years old, now 35 years old then let that be reason for your two cents. I just think people like train wrecks. Let's stop hating on the black experience. Black love is complicated enough. We, the black culture, have this type of parental dynamic more times than not. It dates back to slavery. This generation curse hasn't been dealt with in our culture at any great extent. Just like racism. Once white people acknowledge our collective history then we all heal. That is a whole different subject. This episode of Dear Future Wifey podcast was for Tyler to have a safe place to share his truth. Because everyone got to get their 15 minutes of fame at this couples experience after the finale reunion of Love is Blind. We all have made mistakes, and some worse than others, but none of us shouldn't be defined by our worse day. That's where grace and forgiveness come in. The collateral damage is those three little people he gave his seed to make. Let's have compassion for them. Our comments will impact them one day. As Jesus said to the crowd who wanted to stone, the woman caught in adultery said, "He who is without sin cast the first stone." When Jesus looked up after neiling down to write in the dirt and looked up. There was no one left. They all dropped their stones and went home. Jesus said to her, "Where are your accursers...? Go a your way an sin no more. Yes, I know their was a man involved, too. We need to stop devouring our own kind. Leave this couple alone!
Yall will use Jesus, the Bible, and everything in it to avoid having people accept accountability for their actions. Why are y’all making so many excuses for this man and for ashley? Grace and forgiveness? GTFOH The only victims here are this kids. Everyone else is grown enough to know right from wrong. Tyler is that little girls first example of a man’s love. Think about that.
Tyler The Procreator back at it again with his LIES!!!! The real ones know that @TheeJessieWoo @storytimewithrikki and @GirlIsThatLegal have allllll of the receipts. Tyler lied about SO MUCH stuff in that interview. Imagine if “Rikki Lake” and Jessie sat him down for an interview. Best believe they would hold him accountable.
i loved that we collectively called him lyler now :D lord
😂😂😂😂
well if the shoe fits? 😅😅
@@TheInnerchild.Whisperer If it fits, it sits. 🤣
@ you RIGHT 🤭
Hhahahahahahhahah😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
What he is telling Ashley is that... I
Don't have to show up as upstanding...Honorable man because you have accepted me at my lowest state. A state in which I have chosen to abandon my kids. If you can accept that type of man , you will accept anything that I do to you
@@cliquesnvues that goes into her self worth. And it being not where it should be . She represents a lot of women 😫😫
I love how you broke down how male trauma can look like chaos, manipulation, and survival mode. Tyler's behavior reminds me of my ex husband. Whew chile...
It’s sad how ashley and Tyler represented black love in the worst ways
Thank you for taking one for the team. Tyler lives in chaos. Just how Bri describes how the all the children came to be is chaotic and messy. Even when she breaks down how the twins were conceived, how Tyler was in and out of their lives, the staged pictures, the taxes-it sounded insane. And trying to convince us that we don’t know when children are abandoned is wild.
And Ashley needs to get therapy about her daddy issues because her trying to prove her loyalty to Tyler isn’t going to heal the abandoned little girl who lives inside of her.
@@CARATMom PURE CHAOS
Well…her dad said she was a “ride or die”…
@@msbe.9792 I think we should retire "ride or die"
The interviewer admitted that 1) he never watched Love is Blind and had no idea who Tyler was, other than hearing his name thrown around a lot 2) that someone from Love is Blind chased him down to get him to interview Tyler (despite his busy schedule 3) that after he had the interview set up, he only THEN watched some of the Jessie Woo/Story time with Rikki stufff and admitted that he only watched about 30% of what they covered - also that he didn't get to pre-interview Tyler and only met him JUST before filming
@@jessicanowe yeah the interview clearly shows that. 😪
Sooo… what was the fucking point of interviewing him??
@@KandyRenee For views
That explains a lot!!!! No wonder Ashley had a "feeling" that he was safe there! Smh
@ coddling.
But I think it was the religious aspects of the podcast
Yeah I can’t believe ppl are actually watching that interview lol ….. I knew he was going to lie the wholllleee time…but im glad my girls can make content and coins off of discussing this man🥳…great video!!
Thank you 😌
Yeah it was a lot of excuses 😪😪 just say you watched Jessie’s videos and you BIG MAD
I'm not watching it 😕
@@MsSugarDyme you didnt miss much
His not a people please … he pleases himself
@@thisqueenwontquit9699 💯
That part! 🤦🏾♀️
@ 💯
I'm not mad nor disappointed... at Ashley. I just think that See is morally Bankrupt as well as Tyler
To sit by And not encourage him to be a part of his children's lives is a failure. So I guess I am disgusted by that behavior.
@@cliquesnvues MORALLY BANKRUPT! WOW that DEEEPPP
He kept skirting around the questions… lies…lies…”that family”… “those people”… his kids.
The host was also feeding into that!
I loved this poddy... You really spoke to the heart of the matter without a bunch of extra stuff that blocks out the solutions
🩵🩵 straight to the point no chaser!
Yes. Anger is a secondary emotion. There is always something deeper. And yes, so many people are addicted to the chaos. They don't know anything else. It's a trauma response.
@@kathydb613 💯💯
I love the truths you speak! 🙌🏽
@@Eilvain THANK YOU 😌💙💙
The most irritating thing about Ashley for me is how she centers herself and her “love story” and disregards those kids. Even if he was playing “uncle”. Now “uncle” doesn’t ever want to see you again? She is so weird for that.
@@sindiswamakate1174 yeah that part is very strange. How can a new partner be ok that with?
I completely agree with you. Tyler is definitely in survival mode, seeking an escape, and Ashley became that escape for him. However, I see Ashley as the core issue here. Tyler displayed his red flags, yet Ashley chose to stay and ride with him. On one side, we have a man doing whatever he feels necessary, manipulating , lying etc and on the other, a woman allowing it. This highlights a larger issue: Black women need to prioritise building and reinforcing a strong sense of self-worth and self-love. While I understand and appreciate the concept of self-love being rooted in our collective validation as a community, I also believe that at some point, the individual journey becomes crucial. As much as we are a collective, we must recognise our personal agency and the power to make our own choices. Ashley represents a common experience for many Black women, beautiful, accomplished, independent, and yearning for meaningful connection. Yet, the structure of global society often positions us as less desirable for marriage or long-term partnerships. Despite this, there comes a point where we must forge our own paths. Establishing self-love, self-respect, and clear boundaries is vital to protect ourselves from bottom feeders like Tyler-those who are simply looking for someone to pull them out of their struggles. It’s a lesson in valuing ourselves enough to walk away from relationships that don’t serve us and recognising that we deserve so much more than being someone else’s escape plan.
@@aliciastalksessions 👍🏾
I’ve said the same thing about him using religion to escape accountability for people.
@@alwyzbeenshayla so many platforms allow ppl to do that
Nahhhh we're not disappointed in Ashley anymore. We're mad because we have found out that she is just as horrible as he is. WE THOUGHT SHE WAS BETTER THEN SHE HAS SHOWN HERSELF TO BE. The fact that she could accept Tyler was one thing with all of his lies, BUT AS WE SEE HER CONDONE'& SUPPORT 'F THOSE KIDS' WE DECIDED WE WERE DONE WITH HER!!! Also as we saw her on these podcast frame her responses anyways that demonstrated she had no interest in the Truth, didn't even want to know, head in the sand behavior while at the same time going around talking about, well as a married woman blah blah blah blah blah blah as if she was now in some group that was so much better than the group she was in 2 seconds ago..... We watch this bird being ignorant acting like she was so above all the rest of us. It's not disappointment at all. Ashley has now shown herself to be just like a whole lot of other birds but we HAD much higher hopes for her.
@@LS-gy9bq WOW! Tell me how you really feel 😅😅🎤
My sister I so agree with you on the point of getting Tyler and Bri on a crouch with an experienced therapist. I said the same thing. All these interviewers on podcast are only looking out for their likes which that's the line of business they're in, but the bottom line is not one of them made the effort or suggestion to less help those two individuals that seriously have some problems going on.
@@msrenee9435 💯💯
@@msrenee9435 therapist is the true answer
This is a prime example of generational unhealed trauma. Tyler has deep abandonment wounds. Why didn't a therapist do this interview? Someone like you who has the qualifications and the training to help him take accountability for his actions. What lead him to a place in his life where he was making such poor decisions? This man should not have done this interview. He did Tyler and the audience a disservice. I am way more interested in how someone gets to this place in their life and the background story, that is the real "tea".
You can be entertaining and informative. Who does an interview without first doing their research? Why are all these people just doing interviews without getting the background information and at the very least watching the show? This is people's actual lives not just reality tv. Tyler and Ashley should both be in therapy alone and as a married couple. it is no accident they ended up together. When we don't work on these deep wounds from our childhood this is how it shows up in our adult life. They both had absent fathers and they are repeating the cycle and chaos. I have so much empathy for everyone involved. It makes me sad more than anything.
Thank you so much for the great work you are doing. It is so needed!
Thank you so much!
I was thinking about talking about this with another shows....these host discussing trauma WO any trauma informed background. It truly brings 0 value to the audience. Plus he wasn't well versed on the WHOLE story just tad bits he saw on another you tube channel
I’m curious what it is that adults do now, in Tyler defending being a deadbeat dad in realtime as he does it. My dad had other priorities when I was a kid (& is still disconnected today). Yes, it hurts, on the receiving end.
@@summerintherockies9530 I fornately have not seen anyone defend him. The host here seems to "be on the fence" and did not provide enough dialogue about accountability. that goes back to him not being fully informed of the FULL story.
@ I think you should talk about this issue with many of these “reality” shows. They are exploiting people’s trauma and are not offering them any kind of substantial mental health support.
@ that’s my video for tomorrow already set up! Y’all give me the best ideas 😇
Ashley could’ve shown how to repair and to blend a family. She failed all women.
AND DID
All women and their children.
@ 😮💨🥶🥶
You’re the only one who said what needed to be said: THEY’RE ALL MESSY!!! 😩🤣🤣 After hearing all sides of this situation, all I could think was, Tyler and Bri are messy AF and the only people I feel sorry for are the children. But here’s where I deviate slightly from the current discussion: while I believe Tyler needs to take his fair share of the blame, Bri has a lot that she needs to answer for as well. She has issues with her sexuality, she probably ALWAYS liked Tyler romantically, and I believe that she had these kids to not only keep him around but to alleviate her own shortcomings. Ofc, I don’t know these people but listen to the interviews - it was a recipe for disaster from the beginning. And sadly, while the parents are crashing out online, the children are the ones having to deal with the emotional aftermath. Honestly, it’s just sad 🙏🏽
@@WorkYourWisdom I’ve ALWAYS been told I say what others are thinking. I love telling about the stuff no one else is.
I do believe bri has her own issues. It’s all a mess the kids have to grow up in. Truly SAD!
Imo Bri may have a ton of issues but she is taking care of her kids with no help from Tyler. This story is about Tyler going on an international tv show thinking none of this would come out and Bri wouldn’t come forward bc of her government job.
The point is Tyler was on the show and if he is a man of God and good character he needs to step up and take care of his biological responsibilities.
@ yea all that matters is that he goes in and out of those kids lives and that’s confusing and hurtful. I do believe he thought no one associated with that side of his off would come out. I also think he thinks he is smarter than the internet slueths.
@@RedBunni1024: I agree to a point! Was Tyler mad shady and manipulative? Yea. But remember the beginning of the story: he originally was only supposed to be a donor, and then he tried to do the “right thing” and be in the children’s lives, but I guess he thought it would be over once he went on the show. Also, from what Im sure I heard, he was only known as Uncle Tyler as opposed to Daddy. My point is, he and Bri need to make it legally clear how involved Tyler will be in these kids lives - is he gonna be on child support and no contact? Will he only be the Uncle? Or will he actually be active and known as their Father?!
@@TheInnerchild.Whisperer yeah. And we’re all crazy for digging it up or caring. I’m not an internet detective but if someone puts it out there I’ll listen and form my own opinion. If he didn’t want the smoke he should’ve stayed home but then again he was bout homeless with $8 in the bank so 🤷♀️
The host of the podcast said that love is blind, actually reached out to him about doing the interview. And he admitted on Jesse‘s channel that he only had a few moments to review all the stuff that’s been coming out about him. He also said he probably only got 30% of the information that was out there on him so headmittedly went into it pretty blindly he said.
@@Becoming_Els LIB wanted more promo for the show and he took the bait…and coin from doing the interview. That’s capitalism for ya!
@ you mean, revenue from people watching his interview? Because he doesn’t get paid for interviews.
@@TheInnerchild.Whisperer
Full-stop. 1000% 😉
@ yes that’s what I meant
@ 💯💯
Agreed. i think he really sh*t himself in the foot with this interview. The host was trying to give him "room/rope to hang himself with the lies". Like you said, He is so accustomed to an entangled way of living, that this is normal.
@@angieb822 he’s been in survival mode for way too long.
He didn't even do that amount of research. 😅
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Thank you for mentioning that the overwhelming majority of podcasters don't have the necessary credentials to tackle the issues discussed on their platform. It scares me that so many easily take advice from unqualified people, without ever once questioning whether the podcaster has the qualifications to give advice.
@@sherwood9917 I think the audiences also use the podcasts as therapy 😫
@@TheInnerchild.Whisperer That is scary!
@ VERY
THANK YOU 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 you said exactly what I thought about the interviewer- he uses religion as an excuse for bad behavior. He joined Jessie Woo's live and said Tyler wouldn't be interviewed by them because they would attack him and that he believes it because they were attacking him 🙄 sir, holding someone accountable is NOT an attack and if you think it is, you need to reevaluate things. I'll never watch another one of his podcasts.
Was her on there before or after the interview with Tyler? Him doing this interview was low hanging fruit.
@TheInnerchild.Whisperer I was trying to attach her live but it's not up yet. He joined her live about halfway in while she was reacting to the video and she invited him to speak his peace. He gives off shady and egotistical and definitely doesn't like being called out by women. Can't wait for you to watch it and react 😂
@@TheInnerchild.Whisperer the live was last night after the interview aired!
@ 😂😂 you think I should react to it? 😅
@ I’ll have to check it out
I will say I wonder if things would be different if Ashley had kids herself. I have one teen and I can’t imagine her dad just up and leaving her life (we are divorced). I dated a guy awhile back and he was barely in his kids lives and honestly that was a huge red flag AS a MOM. I kept saying, oh you don’t see your daughter that much? Oh when are you gonna see her next? I didn’t know him enough to really press into it but it gave me the ick and this is why I wonder if Ashley had a connection to her own child if she could co-sign on Tyler doing this to HIS kids.
It would be interesting if the roles were reversed
He came there to refute the claims and take the heat off his wife. It was never about telling his story because we know all he does is lie and create confusion. He was better off not talking because it did nothing to redeem his image. If anything it just confirmed to everyone that he is a pathological liar and the truth ain't in him. Ultimately the people who will suffer most are the children who are innocent byproducts of two selfish people. If we're being real he and Bri are the same person and are now reaping the consequences of their poor actions. Please be mindful I'm not victim blaming but stating the obvious when we factor in the accounts from Bri's ex-wife.
THE TRUTH AINT IN HIM 🎤🎤
Yes, everybody is wrong, correct!!! most people are focusing on Tyler all of them “coming for all of them”. Neither parent was ready to have children period. The ex/wife of the kids mother said that her ex-wife (Tyler baby mama) was fighting her. It was a lot of craziness going on.
You got that right!!!
Not Lyler 😂😂😂
@@dwadetracilynn 😂😂😂
Saying how the chaos is filtering right down into the same generational trauma, makes me sad and it's why i go so hard on this situation. That broken little boy named Tyler grew up to do this to his son and I wish more than anything the kids can grow up in spite of these odds to break that curse. As far as the interviewer...
I don't like that he assumes being fully informed SOLELY means we are asking him to interrogate him. There is a lot of range between not being informed and asking questions to asking without it meaning destroy tyler. The interviewer did some good things with 30% knowledge(his words) so imagine what he could have done with more.
what were the good things? Bc I did not see them
@@TheInnerchild.Whisperer he repeatedly asked him questions in different ways that Tyler tried to get away with. He made an attempt to set a tone of a safe space in hopes tyler would be more honest. i'm not a sympathizer of the interviewer, i called him out in a video saying he could do more, but he did do somethings good.
@@LoveLensReviews more could've def been done!
@@TheInnerchild.Whisperer i agree?
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My observation is: his “family participation” made him want his own as evidence by how thirsty he has been speaking about having a family during the season.
I hope they create secondary pages and live quietly.
Yeah get a private IG and move on with ya life. No more interviews
You may not have seen it, but Ashley already confirmed that she is NOT pregnant. She made a video literally right after people started the speculation.
Maybe not NOW but I’m sure it will happens sooner than later.
Can you review laterras response to Jessie and rickii response to the interview he was defensive kept saying as a man ... called them females and accused them of attacking him. I would like to hear your thoughts
yes im going to do that today and post it tomorrow
The show only gave a glimpse of the situation. Everything came from social media.
@@mrsselondieu still I think ppl should do more research than just take what they see on socials and do an interview
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I do not like that guys podcast. I’ve watched two episodes and noticed that he never holds BM accountable and he doesn’t research the guest. If he did thorough research he’d have better questions. He will always get certain interviews and a certain audience because he refuses to do the work.
@@marriejames01 it feels lazy. And also I agree with the no accountability. There was 0 value in this
Tyler wouldn't want to go on a podcast that goes deep. He didn't want to be held accountable. Netflix sent him there. Everyone is wrong. Bri and her ex-wife should have had a sperm donor agreement and Tyler shouldn't have accepted without signing a document 🙄
@@fabibibine now what if the whole Netflix thing is a lie?
He said he watched about 30% of the show.
Clearly not enough.
He actually said he only watched 30% of Jessie and Rikki's interview with Bri. He didn't say if he watched the show or not, and it really appears he didn't. It also appears that 30% of the interview watched may be an exaggeration bc he seemed to not know alot!!
@@DollfaceDuchess THANK YOU! BC he did not know much.
How about pleasing the kids. Are they happy?🙄 Tyler was jumping from one allegation to another not really being accountable for dragging Ashley into this mess.
@@fabibibine she made a choice also to include herself
Listen I’ve been watching Dear Future Wifey for like a year now, Laterras is an amazing interviewer. I barely miss his episodes but this one I took a HARD PASS.
@@janinepolanco319 other ppl I follow have been guests but this was my first timer watching it
An amazing interviewer? lol girl.
🤣🤣He is a lousy interviewer with no background at all, a mysogynist and a hypocrite. As you can clearly see in this interview.
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11:06 disappointed especially since she and Tyler both didn’t have active fathers in their lives so for them both to choose to abandon those kids is extremely disappointing. And I think viewers are hurting for the children involved because we know people benefit from having a mother and a father in their life.
Tyler doesn’t want an interview with someone else, interviewer Latteras said to Jessica woo and Rikkii that Tyler told him his buddies said Latteras went hard on him as a man. So where we look at it and see the interviewer as going very easy on Tyler he said he didn’t and we need to have common sense and accept Tyler as he is. Tyler would say one thing then another that contradicts and Latteras says we need to use our brains to see ok Tyler is gonna lie and not wait for him to get right.
He said “USE OUR BRAINS??” oh I gotta watch this 😮😮
@ I can’t recall if he said those words exactly but yes that was the sentiment. He wasn’t gonna call Tyler out on his lies, just let Tyler dig a deeper hole for himself. But women need to learn when people show you who they are believe them. It’s on the 2nd half of the Jessie woo episode from yesterday when Latteras and Rikkii join.
@ so he did it for the views like everyone else…sounds like.
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@ I put that the second the video played. I’m still listening to you cook, lol. I’ll send a more thoughtful message when you’re done, lol.
@@LoveLensReviews Thank you 🙏🙏
Tyler's truth is his truth and viewers looking in from the outside (and high atop their moral mountain) don't get to determine that.
Tyler & Ashley can and should - get on with the business of being happily married.
@@ask_why000 moral mountain 😂😂😂
That’s why I didn’t watch it because I knew it wasn’t going to be a hot stankin mess!
@@taraanthony6326 MESS
It was a painful two hour podcast with Tyler continuing with his lies. Waste of time.
@@michellealvarez8160 waste of time
@ I watched it in 3 parts 😂😂 just so I had all the information
@ lol the time you spent 😫
Wait Ashley is pregnant?
@@811ghost people thought she was but she denied it
The bullshit
2 hours of BS!
As a therapist you shouldn’t be calling people names…
Thanks for stopping bye
Mind your business you all need to find some business
But you in the business on this channel 😂😂
What did he lie about? We dont know these people 😂..
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But I came here for a breakdown from a therapist??
@@RoneMusik 🤷🏾♀️ I can’t please everyone. And I did break it down
I think we all need to stay out folks business. Any of us watched their love story. Ashley chose to marry Tyler a year ago before everyone knew about Tyler's non-disclosure in the pods. Also, remember Ashley signed off on Tyler's interview with Lateras Whitfield because she trusted him with Tyler. Lateras didn't give Tyler a pass on fathering these children, AND there is a court hearing still pending. Tyler only saw himself as a donor and Bri's BF. I believe, Ashley wanted a spiritual brother to speak into his life. I believe she wants a godly mentor for her husband. Now Denise, if you want to provide your services to Tyler to deal with his childhood trauma and how that said trauma impacted his lack of responsible decision-making at 27 years old, now 35 years old then let that be reason for your two cents. I just think people like train wrecks. Let's stop hating on the black experience. Black love is complicated enough. We, the black culture, have this type of parental dynamic more times than not. It dates back to slavery. This generation curse hasn't been dealt with in our culture at any great extent. Just like racism. Once white people acknowledge our collective history then we all heal. That is a whole different subject. This episode of Dear Future Wifey podcast was for Tyler to have a safe place to share his truth. Because everyone got to get their 15 minutes of fame at this couples experience after the finale reunion of Love is Blind. We all have made mistakes, and some worse than others, but none of us shouldn't be defined by our worse day. That's where grace and forgiveness come in. The collateral damage is those three little people he gave his seed to make. Let's have compassion for them. Our comments will impact them one day. As Jesus said to the crowd who wanted to stone, the woman caught in adultery said, "He who is without sin cast the first stone." When Jesus looked up after neiling down to write in the dirt and looked up. There was no one left. They all dropped their stones and went home. Jesus said to her, "Where are your accursers...? Go a your way an sin no more. Yes, I know their was a man involved, too. We need to stop devouring our own kind. Leave this couple alone!
Yall will use Jesus, the Bible, and everything in it to avoid having people accept accountability for their actions. Why are y’all making so many excuses for this man and for ashley? Grace and forgiveness? GTFOH
The only victims here are this kids. Everyone else is grown enough to know right from wrong. Tyler is that little girls first example of a man’s love. Think about that.
Can you explain why blacks need white people to “acknowledge our collective history”?
Lmao girl no
Debra, get a grip.
Tyler The Procreator back at it again with his LIES!!!!
The real ones know that @TheeJessieWoo @storytimewithrikki and @GirlIsThatLegal have allllll of the receipts. Tyler lied about SO MUCH stuff in that interview. Imagine if “Rikki Lake” and Jessie sat him down for an interview. Best believe they would hold him accountable.
They do the real research!
@@TheInnerchild.WhispererFor real tho. Jessie and Rikki are like FBI Special Agents
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