Your Assumptions About People Could Be Wrong, Here's Why | Reverse Assumptions
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- Опубліковано 5 сер 2018
- It’s certainly easier to make assumptions about people than it is to spend time getting to know someone. We wanted to put assumptions to the test to see what we're missing out on because we're so busy assuming we already "know" a person. Join us as we discover why you should never judge a book by it’s cover in our series, Reverse Assumptions.
We are all conditioned with certain biases. In this experiment, we challenged these biases by asking people to make assumptions about their partner's appearance without ever actually seeing their partner. When they flipped around to finally face each other, they were shocked by how wrong they were.
Now it's YOUR turn. What do people assume about you?
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petition for a separate video of those two singing together !!!!
Alex - I’m down! Haha Carolyn Let’s DO IT😂😂
Totally down! Let's make it happen! 😃
Guessing someone's age is usually the hardest part for me
Ah! A Kenyan name!
I ship both couples when’s their double wedding
Sammy Mackey SAME!!!
I thought the same thing.
That’s funny lol I already have a girlfriend tho :)
67oyt
the guy who knows the girl in wheel chair, i loved him at the end of the video when gave her a hug!
Wheelchair girl has a beautiful voice
simply stated...'SoulPancake,' I sincerely L o v e your videos & their powerful messages...
Always love your videos Soul Pancake.
I love that she said people just feel things ❤️
They didn't sing... :(
Yup I wanted too!! She said we should do it later lol
Lol that's my bad! We totally should have done a duet! 🎶
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O'Shay is so charming!
Awww thank you! Haha
He is hot, too :P
Hi, O'Shay! Please don't be embarrassed or ashamed of being a sensitive person. The world could use more people like you! Plus women tend to be drawn to that. :) Also, sorry if this embarrasses you, but I think you and Carolynn were cute together. :)
Kaddy Kaboom awww I appreciate that! That’s a confidence booster!
People assume I'm a masculine guy, even though I don't really have any typical masculine interests and I like cute animals, musicals, clothes, and wearing make up.
I guess I don't mind playing football (soccer) but that's about it. I don't really bother watching sports unless someone I know is playing.
People think I'm around 12-14 years old most of the time and thats why I get asked for my ID a lot. I'm actually 20 lmao. Another thing is that almost everyone asked me if I'm Polish or Russian because I seemingly look like that but I'm 100% German. Thats why I think this series is so interesting. I would like to do something like that too, just for the experience!
i love carolyn’s voice
Great Video as Always!
Make more of these, SoulPancake!
I love these segments
Yup empathy not sympathy!
Tell me why i'm supposed to be sleeping but i just found this page and i am binge watching all the videos 🤣
They have some amazing yet difficult jobs. They’re such amazing people 🌷
I can not stop watching this channel
I missed these!
They were all so cool. Lovely video
I love these videos!!
excellent!
People assume I'm younger, because I talk in a friendlier voice, which makes me sound younger. Then, even if they see me, they think I'm younger, because my family ages well; we all look younger. What's annoying is when they think I'm younger and assume I'm less mature too.
After reading comments I remembered that people think I'm gay, because I'm friendly, have a lot of female friends (a lot of friends in general), and also have a best friend who is female.
Souliers Poilus Will you please shut the f*** up, you're so immature.
Loved all of them!
These videos make me happy 😊😊
The guy being awkward in the end about handshaking or hugging made me think about the fact that people don't really know how to approach things with a person with a disability. I have been visually impaired...aka legally blind...since birth. I always wondered why people seemed kind of awkward around me...then one of my co-workers was in a wheelchair and I started to understand the whole thing. I didn't know what to do with her...that sounds weird, but now I was the one in an awkward situation. My job, and hers, was to help people with disabilities get jobs, so I got a lot of insight from my friendship with her...and vice versa. I finally just said to her..."I have never had a friend in a wheelchair, so tell me when you need help, because I don't want to make you feel that I am constantly aware of your situation. I am more than happy to help you if you need help, but I won't usurp your independence." I told her to do the same with me and that I would let her know if I needed assistance because of my limited vision. I used to see people on street corners with white canes and a red tip...others would just walk past them without asking if they needed help. I think they felt uncomfortable and didn't know what to do...or if they should do anything. You really don't need to do anything in that situation, but you might say "hello" to let them know you are there...then if they need assistance, they may ask you. Most blind people travelling alone on the streets know exactly where they are, but suppose the bus driver let them off at the wrong stop...or some other odd thing happened? Most people are very kind and want to be helpful, but are just unsure how to go about it in these situations.
AYYY!!!! San Jo!!! 🙌🏼 haha
Some people assume I am a hetrosexual ; I am not. Also, they assume I don't speak English, but I have been speaking it for 4 or more years now.
Ivy Alexandra just being your self
@@ralphlondon8172 Thank you, Ras.
Ivy Alexandra u welcome 😉😘❤️
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They assume I'm born in a rich family but in reality I am slightly in the lower middle class. They always say it's something about your face!
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Don't be awkwardly nice to people with disabilities. They get that 10 times a day. Treat them normally and let them feel normal.
Nice she's from san jose silicon valley ✊ my home state northern california my family is from san jose
Niko here shut up
Chief Jones rude
People think that I don’t poop in ugly shoes, but I totes do.
flaneurgh hahahaah
Miriam is BEAUTIFUL!
Awesome
Some people assume i’m really young and that “bad” Which is wrong because i am a good child and and i’m a bit older than people in my classes.
People find me enigmatic, or crazy.
I have no idea what people assume about me. I would be scared to find out
Where and how do they find the couples for these videos? Is there a web site you can apply at to be considered to be in one? I'm serious. I would love to see the person they'd match me up with and if we'd be a study in contrast or same qualities. SoulPancake If you read this contact me on how I can be involved.
gramps2matt yeah! I actually saw it from Facebook. They didn’t tell us what we were doing until the day of though. It was a really good experience
Oshay Neal
Dude, you're awesome 😀
Iliana thank you Bruh!! Lol
@@oshayneal4057 oh wow I didn't expect to see you on the comment section. I love how you work with disabled people. You seem like a genuine caring man! God bless.
I wish the video didn't keep skipping from one pair to another and just stay on one pair until they were done before moving on to another one.
People assume I'm like 13-14 but I'm a frickin' adult!!!
Oh! And O' Shay is damn cool!
Iliana I usually get 16-24 as my age guess and I’m actually 31. I got carded for an R rated movie last month. It’s a compliment, sure, but when you’re an adult trying to be taken seriously in your career...
Awww thank you! I appreciate that!
Iliana, I live your profile picture!
Gage Waterhouse
Thank youuu ❤
How do they get them in the room without them seeing eachother ?
Usually, people think I am between 17 and 23 (I am 33 years old), they think I'm a wild partygirl (my wildest party is to go to bed at 11 pm after a pizza and a herbal tea...). And everybody thinks I am a heterosexual who likes guys with a lot of tattoos, long hair and smelly grungy clothes... well, ask my ultra neat and «girl next door» wife if thats true....
Why don't they say why she is in a wheelchair? My guess is spina bifida.
She is 5'1?? I thought I was short, I'm 5'7 and 14
Awesome person Honey, that's tall for your age.
People always assume I'm fron down south
Where's kid president?
But Asia is huge what country is she like actually from.....
R - She can be Asian without actually being born in Asia. It’s about heritage.
Melissa Govender Honey I know, but that's not what I meant. What I meant was what country is she from IN Asia. I'm Asian as well, but most people in the States wouldn't consider me such since I'm from Turkey and don't stereotypically look 'Asian'. However that does not change the fact that I'm Asian and I have the right to call myself such. That's what I was wondering about, is she from let's say China, Oman, India or Armenia? All of those countries are technically Asian but they most certainly don't share the same culture, hence why Asian is a very vague classification imo and quite problematic
I wanna do this because people get so much wrong about me lol like my sexuality, my I guess ancestry cause no one like ever guesses that I have Mexican lineage like my grandmothers family is from Mexico. I feel like I sound how I look though, like my voice just screams brunette lmao, but I feel people would get my height wrong cause I’m like a quarter shy of 5’11 which is tall for a girl especially in my family where most of all the women are around 5’3.
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Miriam reminds me of Khloe Kardashian
They look at me and assume I'm Mexican or Hispanic but I am full Armenian lol
That german girl is nice on the surface but she's slightly cold and distant.
The black guy was lovely.
The other two were very sweet . Mature and had a good connection. Lovely pair.
ksam pco She's not German tho... she's "of German heritage." I know, I know, let's not be overly dramatic over this. I just can't stand when Americans do this.
What just came to mind: you might also subconsciously find her coldish because you heard "German" and, as many would, try to look for things that match your idea of Germans.
Cool video anyways haha. I personally found her pretty warm and easy going.
Anyways. It's a cool series that reveals a lot.
Anna Lucia She could be German-American. I was born and raised (and now living) in Switzerland, but in the U.S. I would say I was from N.C. (where I lived for most of my life), but was originally from Switzerland. Overall, I present myself as Swiss-American, so I didn’t find her comment odd.
@@Evieteresa I understand what you're saying and there was certainly some assumption in my comment. Of course there are American citizens who have experienced socialization from outside of the U.S. and still have family ties in other countries. Perhaps the woman in this video is one such person. The people I was referring to though are those numerous Americans who base everything on genetics and confuse cultural & national identity with race & ethnicity, often for the sole purpose of having something more to say than "I'm white American. Full stop." I don't agree with this type of mentality at all because identity is a lot more complex than DNA.
@@AenLu I totally agree 100%
Black dude is sweet and cute
where is the singing ??/
grace bey I wish we did it!! Haha
whoop whoop
Ayyy I’m O’Shay Neal... (the black dude in this) hit me up on IG , Twitter Facebook y’all 😂😂 @OshayNeal
Black guys hot
FIrst off....Mariam is beautiful. Those strong cheek bones and her incredible smile.....wow. And her eyes.....forgetaboutit! Secondly, O'Shay should never feel that being sensitive is a bad thing. There are far too many people in this world who feel nothing.....for a person, especially a man, to actually feel emotions and to feel for others....that is a great thing. I am a sensitive person, a man, who has been told that my heart is my weak point because it makes it so easy for people to take advantage of me.
Plz change that motto 🤠
I have to say something about the other video. I did not like how the girl said she was black she could of said brown.
Iced Elsa MSP it’s really not a big deal at all ha
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no one cares.