Colors of Tobi: Being Transgender in Hungary

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  • Опубліковано 20 кві 2024
  • There is a tiny village in Hungary, where Éva and her family live. Her 16-year-old child recently came out as transgender and lives by his chosen name of Tobi. After the initial shock, the whole family comes together to support him.
    However, Éva is quietly suffocating from the idea of losing the girl she was raising. Tobi is determined to become a man biologically, all while he struggles growing up. Éva is trying hard to be the mother her son needs, while Tobi starts questioning the boundaries he set up for himself as a transgender man.
    'Colors of Tobi' is an emotional tale of releasing and accepting.
    Director: Alexa Bakony
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  • @_ArsNova
    @_ArsNova 27 днів тому +75

    Sorry but gender is determined by genetics, not feelings.

    • @danielbetancur1250
      @danielbetancur1250 27 днів тому +1

      Biology is, not gender. Read a book

    • @DogratDavis
      @DogratDavis 27 днів тому +9

      ​@danielbetancur1250 Gender is still fundamentally predicated on sex, otherwise, it would just be called aesthetics. You read a book.

    • @teloiiv
      @teloiiv 27 днів тому +1

      Biology, not genetics. Did you inherit your gender in your genes?

    • @_ArsNova
      @_ArsNova 27 днів тому +5

      @@teloiiv Your gender, like every trait that determines who you are, stems from your DNA. I.e. your genetic makeup. I never claimed gender was hereditary.

    • @user-wh2oy2ul1q
      @user-wh2oy2ul1q 27 днів тому +2

      This is not about feelings, it's identity. And also, gender is not determined by genetics, nonetheless.

  • @robbyg229
    @robbyg229 27 днів тому +98

    Good job getting an unsubscribe from me

    • @techcafe0
      @techcafe0 27 днів тому +21

      adios, you won't be missed

    • @DesaDonalba
      @DesaDonalba 27 днів тому +8

      @@techcafe0 who cares what woke people will felt or not? ;D

    • @dewetmaartens359
      @dewetmaartens359 27 днів тому +10

      Me too, I'm out.

    • @DaStarrchild
      @DaStarrchild 27 днів тому +5

      Werd we out

    • @66kbm
      @66kbm 27 днів тому

      Ditto, ignore the fuckwits comments.

  • @Oz1991
    @Oz1991 27 днів тому +29

    Narcism and obsession is what I see to be honest. Or am I crazy?

  • @user-mp9rd4hg8b
    @user-mp9rd4hg8b 27 днів тому +35

    I thought this was Vice media for a minute there.

  • @muhammadshafi5084
    @muhammadshafi5084 27 днів тому +94

    Not good for society

    • @RabbitWatchShop
      @RabbitWatchShop 27 днів тому +16

      Your hate isn’t good for society

    • @okilydokily
      @okilydokily 27 днів тому +21

      @@RabbitWatchShop Your brain is mush

    • @RabbitWatchShop
      @RabbitWatchShop 27 днів тому +6

      @@okilydokily replace “Your” with My, and you’ll have an accurate comment.

    • @jule3480
      @jule3480 27 днів тому +12

      @@RabbitWatchShop. I don’t care what an adult chooses to be. But what has upset me as a women is elevating men identifying as women OVER women.
      I see it in sports, change rooms and bathrooms.
      Transgender women should not compete against biological women. The two sports men/ boys and women/gils exist because the male sex is physically stronger/ faster than females, end of story.
      The bathroom/ change room, I’ll just say I would NEVER choose to be in a state of vulnerability of being partially or fully undressed in an enclosed room with a strange man in such a setting. Especially as I have been physically assaulted by a man in my past.
      I wish people who call women against shared spaces “ transphobia “ would also consider that something like one in three women/girls have experienced some form of abuse and how it makes us feel.

    • @RabbitWatchShop
      @RabbitWatchShop 27 днів тому +5

      @@jule3480 I’m trans and 100 💯 percent agree with your statements, and often state all that in opposition to my own community.

  • @editkarpati6587
    @editkarpati6587 27 днів тому +3

    Nagyon rendesek a szülők...! Csak még ne bánják ezek a gyerekek egyszer a nem átalakítását.

    • @madmax6827
      @madmax6827 27 днів тому

      Rendesek? Inkabb bolondok.

  • @godzilladepressivo9
    @godzilladepressivo9 27 днів тому +11

    A cara de decepção dos pais 😂

  • @LacikaErdely94
    @LacikaErdely94 27 днів тому +22

    Bárki bármit próbál magyarázni ez nem normális dolog..... Valami valamikor nagyon félre ment gyermekkorban. Keressetek szakembert aki segít. Minden embert tisztelni kell de ez teljesen szembe megy az evolúcióval...... Sérült emberek ezek. Jobbulást kívánok nekük 🤘

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 25 днів тому +1

      Wounded Victim Department. What's your complaint?

  • @teloiiv
    @teloiiv 27 днів тому +10

    I don't understand why some transgender people get upset so easily, not understanding that people have to get used to it. When in 17:43 Tobi is upset because his mom called him "Jazmin" is inlogical to me. They were clearly talking about a situation that happened in the past, so it was normal for his mom to say "we used to say Jazmin, not it" because then it was in fact, Jazmin. Parents also have to deal with a lot when their child is changing their whole appearance, name and getting a sex change when they were living years with a whole different person

    • @DogratDavis
      @DogratDavis 27 днів тому +8

      It's because this is about power and attention. These people don't actually believe they are the opposite gender.

    • @teloiiv
      @teloiiv 27 днів тому +4

      @@DogratDavis I believe some people really feel like other gender, a friend of mine is trans as well, but he acts normally, but I do agree about attention when it comes to some people

    • @user-wh2oy2ul1q
      @user-wh2oy2ul1q 27 днів тому

      ​@@DogratDavisplease learn science and biology, how your gender identity and body has been developed. Gender and human biology is very complicated, and trans, enby, genderqueer, or such is very legit thing in terms of science

    • @MikasTinyLife
      @MikasTinyLife 27 днів тому +2

      As a transman, I NEVER got upset. These things take time. People around me got scared when they accidentally did it wrong and were so surprised when I wasn't mad. I'm on hormones now, and it has never happened since as I now pass and look completely male

    • @Kiz-0
      @Kiz-0 26 днів тому

      Because being called your old name or gender is physically painful. it may not seem like it but it feels like being stabbed in the chest. on top of the depressive state.

  • @dylendog
    @dylendog 25 днів тому +12

    You can identify what ever but it doesn't change reality

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 25 днів тому +1

      Who's reality? God's?

    • @dylendog
      @dylendog 25 днів тому +3

      @@purple6188 go milk a bull and see for yourself

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 25 днів тому +2

      @@dylendog Wounded Victim Department. What's your complaint?

    • @guacanememoya2045
      @guacanememoya2045 25 днів тому

      @@purple6188 Sounds like you're the one who's hurt, born in the wrong body perhaps? 🤡

    • @valm9462
      @valm9462 8 днів тому

      Which is that transgender people are valid.
      and no not-see transphobe can change that reality.

  • @eeweeweew
    @eeweeweew 21 день тому +1

    This film is from 2021, and most of it seems to be filmed before 2020. It got way worse since then, I hope he is doing well!

  • @Evy-1988
    @Evy-1988 27 днів тому +6

    all the snowflakes in the comment section are so offended when someone just wants to live his life

    • @bahrom942
      @bahrom942 26 днів тому

      Not just living, they are contagious, these tiny minority being pushed in media, turn on TV, most likely you gonna see gay parents or non binary person as main actors in films and even cartoons

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 26 днів тому

      @@bahrom942 I'll bet you can condense your comment to 2 words or less and still get your opinion out there for others to read. Give it a try.

  • @kopisatu14482
    @kopisatu14482 27 днів тому

    Wow 🤭

  • @DogratDavis
    @DogratDavis 27 днів тому +33

    Why do they all look, act, talk, and dress the same, no matter which country? It's almost like it's an internet based social contagion.

    • @user-wh2oy2ul1q
      @user-wh2oy2ul1q 27 днів тому +2

      It's just because you don't know them in real life, people obviously avoid you if you're also acting such a netizen thing in real life

    • @patrickmunneke8348
      @patrickmunneke8348 27 днів тому +4

      That's exactly what it is. A social contagion.

    • @deidresable
      @deidresable 26 днів тому

      Yep they all the same in every country

    • @bahrom942
      @bahrom942 26 днів тому

      ​@@user-wh2oy2ul1qoh mate wait till pride Month, you see weirdos walking with stupid dresses even naked.

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 26 днів тому

      Wounded Victim Department. What's your complaint?

  • @zsuzsannabarna8028
    @zsuzsannabarna8028 3 дні тому

    Köszönöm szépen hogy megfilmesitettèk

  • @The_will_of_Ukraine_or_death
    @The_will_of_Ukraine_or_death 26 днів тому +6

    This is clinic case, need a doctor. Parents suffer.. but this human simply playing with them. Narcism on high level.

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 26 днів тому +1

      Why the muddled word salad?

    • @valm9462
      @valm9462 8 днів тому

      transphobia is the new not-see-zem. it actually is part of the not-see ideology.
      Narcism on high level indeed, check yourself notsee transphobe

  • @dionysise5008
    @dionysise5008 27 днів тому +27

    Being a clown 🤡

    • @valm9462
      @valm9462 8 днів тому

      tsphobes be like

  • @ShellyGODS-CHILD
    @ShellyGODS-CHILD 27 днів тому +2

    Colors of Legions

  • @TAKEALONGLINE.
    @TAKEALONGLINE. 27 днів тому +6

    Walking Fairy Floss. 😅

    • @valm9462
      @valm9462 8 днів тому

      Oh no, someone with colored hair. :O

  • @thecognitivedissonant3606
    @thecognitivedissonant3606 27 днів тому +2

    Nobody is asking what the common factors are among these youth that might be causing the body-brain disconnect and mismatch in self-perception. Is it chemical, hormonal, societal, injections, there is more to this phenomena. Individually they perceive it as their unique truth, but the statistics are alarming. On reddit alone there are more than 30k "detransitioners" who suffer varying degrees of permanent changes and other sorts of harm by what is happening. 😢 They need compassion and for us to fight to protect and help them

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 27 днів тому +1

      Why the muddled word salad?

  • @The_will_of_Ukraine_or_death
    @The_will_of_Ukraine_or_death 26 днів тому +5

    Only♀️and ♂️

  • @lotuspocus76312
    @lotuspocus76312 27 днів тому +6

    I was waiting for a physical change of Tobi due to male hormones...but I only see a female wearing oversized clothes - who has got a name and sex change on documents.
    I work with someone who is a male now and was a female before. Very nice dude. Its just....the dude I work with takes hormones and has a beard.

    • @valm9462
      @valm9462 8 днів тому

      I mean, that's a child and thats how it starts. reversable things first, to see if you really want that.

  • @jededge
    @jededge 27 днів тому +11

    such a small minority of people forcing there views on children , telling my kids to be gay is ok, straight is great, keep your views to yourself

    • @bahrom942
      @bahrom942 26 днів тому

      The reason they target on our children is because they can't have any.

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 26 днів тому

      @@bahrom942 Who's 'They'?

    • @romans1450
      @romans1450 23 дні тому

      @@purple6188 You know and you're shaking, everyone knows "they" degenerate societies.

    • @guacanememoya2045
      @guacanememoya2045 23 дні тому

      @@purple6188 🤡

    • @valm9462
      @valm9462 8 днів тому

      yes, the not-see minority, as usual harassing lgbt people.

  • @aguianegra2752
    @aguianegra2752 27 днів тому +4

    As cores do toba: pseudociência na Hungria

  • @babayaga8514
    @babayaga8514 27 днів тому +15

    I'm just reading these mean comments and keep thinking about one thing: are you guys okay? So much hate from ppl who are not well-educated on the topic. Trans people don't hate on anyone, so why would you?
    Btw I used to know Tobi for a short time when we were in the same high school and he is a good person with a big heart.

    • @semedrisstouda4676
      @semedrisstouda4676 27 днів тому

      كان ذو زوك كبير

    • @DogratDavis
      @DogratDavis 27 днів тому

      "Well educated on the topic" is just code for indoctrinated on this topic. There is no actual education to be had on gender. Transgenderism is a cult centered around queer aesthetics.
      And yes, all they do is go on the internet and hate.

    • @mikeymike1981
      @mikeymike1981 27 днів тому +5

      So saying what you don’t agree with is hate? No body wished any hurt on him.

    • @user-wh2oy2ul1q
      @user-wh2oy2ul1q 27 днів тому

      ​@@mikeymike1981Okay because you are on behalf of everybody

    • @eeweeweew
      @eeweeweew 21 день тому

      Do you know how he is doing now? This film is from 2021 and I am worried for any transgender person still living in Hungary.

  • @user-zy7kn6ep1o
    @user-zy7kn6ep1o 27 днів тому +1

    Сколько живут такие люди после тотальной операции?

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 26 днів тому +1

      Wounded Victim Department. What's your complaint?

    • @valm9462
      @valm9462 8 днів тому

      Well I had mine about 8 years ago, but I waited long. I live as female for like 15 years.
      But it depends, girl.

  • @tyrondeklerk8489
    @tyrondeklerk8489 27 днів тому +3

    my eyes aaaaargggggggggg my eyes

  • @anasyare5815
    @anasyare5815 27 днів тому +2

    Good Documentary

  • @Prod_Edits1
    @Prod_Edits1 27 днів тому +2

    A Tobi não conseguiu mudar de nome, que tragédia 😭😭🤧🎉

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 26 днів тому

      Wounded Victim Department. What's your complaint?

  • @simpletownworx
    @simpletownworx 27 днів тому

    Always here. Always will be! ❤🏳️‍⚧️

  • @purple6188
    @purple6188 27 днів тому +4

    Very good documentary. Tobi is a nice young man. He's got really good parents. Cherish them as long as you can. Once they're gone, the world becomes a very lonely place.
    Oh, anyone with a "just my opinion" bag of words that attack, belittle, dehumanize and outright call for voilence, hatred, intolorance or you "have some advice", just keep it to yourself. Pray to God for you and your love ones. Focus on becoming the best possible human being you can be. Earn your place in heaven. Prove to God you deserve to be there.

    • @DogratDavis
      @DogratDavis 27 днів тому +4

      It's very telling that you cleverly try to equate anyone who dares to voice an opinion on a social movement with calling for violence by lumping all those categories together. You should work on your own intolerance of diversity, and your own relationship with God.

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 27 днів тому +2

      @@DogratDavis We know each other so well. God and I see your hatred for Tobi and his family. You see God and me as purveyers of acceptence. Heaven is not for you.

    • @romans1450
      @romans1450 23 дні тому

      @@purple6188 Psalm 139:21
      King James Version
      21 Do not I hate them, O Lord, that hate thee? and am not I grieved with those that rise up against thee?
      No one "Earns heaven" false preacher with a malicious cloak of "love". No ones proves to God that they deserve to be there, we were all sinners saved by Jesus by faith.
      You mistake love for tolerance very dangerous teaching, not everything goes. Who are you to say heaven is not for him, if he trust in Jesus Christs finished work on the cross + nothing - nothing he is saved. Pharisee.
      Also
      Deuteronomy 22:5
      King James Version
      5 The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are unto the Lord thy God.

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 23 дні тому +1

      @@romans1450 Do me and God a favor. Keep your opinions to 1 word or less. Your muddled word salad doesn't say anything intelligible.

  • @liledionbrown8507
    @liledionbrown8507 27 днів тому +3

    Amazing family !!!! 😍 communication is the key to understanding !!! Thats evolution !!! LOVE AND RESPECT ✌🏼
    So sad and pathetic to read hatefull comments ….
    Those people have no f****king lives !!
    I hope those haters dont have kids because ignorance is one hell of a problem espacially when its transmited from the familly !!

    • @guacanememoya2045
      @guacanememoya2045 24 дні тому

      What about love and respect to a different opinion?

  • @user-wm2zy5nk1i
    @user-wm2zy5nk1i 26 днів тому +6

    Расчеловечевание подростков, все это от сатаны

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 25 днів тому +1

      Satan isn't real.

    • @dylendog
      @dylendog 25 днів тому

      @@purple6188 keep going and thinking that way and sure you'll know

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 25 днів тому +1

      ​@@dylendog Are you threatening me DylenDoggieStyle?
      Next time, keep your hate-filled comments to 2 words or less. Your opinions don't stand for much anyway.
      DylenDoggieStyle, you need to update your moniker. LOL. Peace.

  • @user-lj4nj6hq6z
    @user-lj4nj6hq6z 27 днів тому +1

    В ПЕЧЬ!

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 27 днів тому +1

      После Вас!

    • @user-lj4nj6hq6z
      @user-lj4nj6hq6z 27 днів тому

      @@purple6188 НЕ ДОЖДЕШЬСЯ.

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 27 днів тому +1

      @@user-lj4nj6hq6z Жертва Отдел. На что вы жалуетесь?

  • @dunciukasas
    @dunciukasas 24 дні тому +1

    Image being a dad and leaving this as your legacy after you are gone. hahaha

  • @flora9069
    @flora9069 27 днів тому +11

    Its nice to see supportive loving parents 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

  • @Tata-gx3ni
    @Tata-gx3ni 18 днів тому

    мама терпения и еще раз терпения!! с таким чудом а чуду надо психиатора и голову лечить

  • @user-hi1et2tb5u
    @user-hi1et2tb5u 27 днів тому +3

    I think what happen is we are the oppesite sex in our last lives and still hold on to the association.

    • @DogratDavis
      @DogratDavis 27 днів тому +3

      The same people who make fun of religion and praying to flying Spaghetti monsters all suddenly treat gender like it's a supernatural force and believe in souls and past lives

    • @user-hi1et2tb5u
      @user-hi1et2tb5u 27 днів тому

      @@DogratDavis Religion is a form of control,I believe in God but not Bullshit from man.I barely trust my self TBH.

    • @firstdirst5519
      @firstdirst5519 27 днів тому

      weak shit

  • @harisfadiell269
    @harisfadiell269 27 днів тому +2

    Az egyik legundorítóbb dokumentumfilm, nem érdemes megnézni azoknak, akiknek még egészséges az agya 🤮🤮

  • @kissdani1911
    @kissdani1911 24 дні тому +1

    Egy lányt vesztettünk el a woke miatt!!! Mindet ki fogom írtani!!!! Nemzetiszocialista Magyarországot!!!!!

  • @peterpresser8151
    @peterpresser8151 22 дні тому +1

    This is the worst documentary i ever watched 👎🏼

  • @user-wn8ot8gt6c
    @user-wn8ot8gt6c 23 дні тому

    انحرافكم شيئ مقزز فعلا

  • @pterks911
    @pterks911 24 дні тому

    🤮🤮

  • @israel_started_it_ALL_in_1948
    @israel_started_it_ALL_in_1948 27 днів тому +2

    oh. ok

  • @luca_mos
    @luca_mos 26 днів тому +1

    🤡🤡🤡🤡