Improve Your Voice I have this problem all the time. When I was maybe 14 or 15 I was on a bus and the ticket inspector came and asked me for my ticket. I gave him my under 16’s ticket and he didn’t believe I was under 16. He asked my date of birth and I couldn’t say it. He then kicked me off the bus because he thought I was lying.
I’m 18 years old, I’m terrified to apply for a job because of the interview, I hate speaking to people on the phone because my anxiety goes through the roof. I remember being at school and the teachers would ask the class a question, and I knew all the answers but couldn’t say them because I knew I would start to stutter. However, the only time I don’t stutter is when I’m saying phrases from a movie or start to sing. I just wish there was a cure to get rid of it. But this video has helped! Thank you.
I entirely hear you & relate to all of this that you express (been there). I've had a stutter since age 5. I'm 46 now. Had tons of speech therapy and even tried the speech easy device. It's just how we are made. The struggles are real and intense. Keep your head up and just do your best. So many have something going on challenging and stuttering is it for us. God speed.
Don’t feel that way. Life is long and you can make changes to start appreciating all that you have. Whenever you feel this way, I want you to write down three things that you are grateful for. Even if you feel awful, force yourself to sit and write 3 blessings that you can actually be thankful for! Then once you acknowledge these three things. Spend a little time working on this issue at hand. You’ll find that you’ve changed your psychology to a more positive mindset and so will allow the work to work because you’re not frustrated. 💪💪💪
@@trenchplugg I always talk to my mother... I'm joking, I CAN talk to girls well but it's awkward because being a guy who talks with a girl about girl stuff or about my hobby just feels weird in a way. Sometimes we run out of topics to talk about and it's just an awkward silence. These things didn't happen if I were to talk with other guys of course or with my childhood friend
Random guy you have a new friend today. ME ! I am your friend and i feel so much empathy to you. Never give up , you are stronger and more amazing than you believe .
My daily regimen to help manage my stutter is: (1) Practice Daily Mindful Meditation - 10 mins (2) Practice Diaphragmatic Breathing - 10 mins (3) Reading Out Loud - 10 mins (4) Practice In Front Of My Bathroom Mirror - I practice greetings, my name, salutations, etc.... The most fascinating aspect of all of this is when I DON'T focus on my stutter and I focus on the conversation, the person I'm speaking to and I'm in the moment, my stutter lessens and often goes away. When I focus on living and being in the moment, my speech improves. When I have a block, I stop, breathe, and continue on. We are all different in our speech journey but our common denominator is that we are not alone. The main point of all of this is that there is no magic pill but through daily practice, you will see and hear the difference. All of my coaches told me that if you want to get good at a skill, you need to practice. (My background: started stuttering at age 5 due to a traumatic dog attack. I had no voice for one year after the dog attack and then I attended 20 years of speech therapy. I'm 49 now with 95% fluency. I focus on living and not my stutter. Fear has no more control over me, I'm in control now.)
Stuttering makes us automatically humble, kind, nice, we are givers, we tend to be nice to cover up this flaw, we smile a lot... It's difficult to mock someone who is kind 😊
Hey guys! If you are interested in my journey as a stuttering writer I've posted my first video on my channel. Here's the link! Subscribe if you want to come along for the ride! ua-cam.com/video/o4PSpfYfXuc/v-deo.html
okay this helps me but it’s not the best way. i stutter a lot too and when i’m arguing i start stuttering and i slowly lose the argument,but when i start to speak louder and do some hand gestures it really helps. ik it’s not the best way but at least i win the argument :)
Improve Your Voice yes! I am able to record UA-cam videos now without sounding like I am dying! 🤪 now to calm my social anxiety so I can slow down in conversations with others 😅
Hey guys! If you are interested in my journey as a stuttering writer I've posted my first video on my channel. Here's the link! Subscribe if you want to come along for the ride! ua-cam.com/video/o4PSpfYfXuc/v-deo.html
Hey guys! If you are interested in my journey as a stuttering writer I've posted my first video on my channel. Here's the link! Subscribe if you want to come along for the ride! ua-cam.com/video/o4PSpfYfXuc/v-deo.html
Summary 1. relax your body, muscles and jaw - drop shoulders and relax muscles - focus on breathing - massage jaw 2. slow down your speech - recognise patterns in speech stuttering 3. Focus attention away from yourself - focus on the action, not the words. Focus on how you're trying to affect the listener. Words will come automatically. - example: when flirting, don't think about the words you have to say but think about how you are trying to affect the other person with flirting. - example 2: when scolding, don't think about the words, think about the action and effect of scolding. 4. Practice daily If it doesn't work: stop, breathe, slow down, think of the action or change the action.
The worst thing is when you actually managed to say what you wanted.. but no one listened so they tell you to repeat and when i repeat it i cant say it
I was 4 years old when I started stuttering and I am currently 20 years old and I feel it getting worse. I realized things I did that I never thought would trigger my stutter. Whenever I talk I feel like people just aren’t interested in what I have to say or they even devalue my opinion. This video was very helpful. Thank you.
@@noorhuda2319 why don’t y’all just pause and take a minute to say it instead of saying it quickly eventually wouldn’t it become a habit to talk normal ??
I've been stuttering since I learned to talk. I couldn't get through a sentence without stuttering. My family (bless them) didn't know that it was an actual speech impediment and would hit me in the mouth every time I stuttered thinking that I was doing it on purpose. My mom's approach of getting me to get over my stutter was to force me into public speaking. Eventually I wouldn't stutter as much in front of a crowd (I still did very randomly with conversations) I was bullied because of my weight and my stutter as I was growing up, and it wasn't until I was in college that I saw The King's Speech for the first time and found out that I wasn't alone- a lot of people had that problem too. I used the same techniques I saw there and what I see in these videos to try to overcome my stutter. My stutter still comes back every now and then, but I learned to overcome it by: - avoiding trigger sounds when I know I'm about to stutter (so using a synonym instead: eg, saying sheet instead of paper) - using hand gestures to force the sound out - blending it with an "umm" to not make it so obvious - controlling my pace so I can really visualize each word I'm about to say. I never let my stutter stop me from doing what I love - I'm currently an English communications trainer and scuba instructor. So I'm constantly fighting my battle with my stutter every day, and not letting it silence me. So I'm super thankful for videos like this for helpinh me get through my stutter the past 10 years. ❤️❤️❤️
@@horvathlaszlo96 I like to think that when I stutter, the words are too shy to come out, so I have to literally force them out with hand gestures hahah
@@chrisandjullabutcher1292 that's right. I noticed that when I anticipate a stutter I immediately try to change (if possible) the syntax of the sentence and add either an adjective, or an adverb, or simply modify it in such a way that it creates enough of a momentum to spit it out XD
As someone who had a severe stutter and as someone who still has a minor stutter now. I can say this to you. 90 percent of it is psychological because when you stutter for so long it becomes a habit to stutter more and more. I took this course on Udemy and it’s helped me a lot. Also I have to say that meditation and reading a book out loud helps a lot and also getting out of your comfort zone too. You guys got this 💯
i keep stammering while speaking, my family/teachers always say "spit it out" then they mimic me and that just makes me insecure about it and it causes me to stutter/stammer a lot, and i have social anxiety, i have 0 social skills and I'm only 12, i can't even talk to people anymore, this helped me so much ty sm
I am 26. I realized the less I speak the worse my stuttering become. Like now these days in pandemic when I spent so long at home and now I failed some job interviews because of it. Before when I study and work, the days when you meet and talk to people every day I could control it and stuttering less. Now it is getting uncontrollable
You're not alone. I'm 22. I'm an introvert. I stutter and stammer. The fear of this has made me refrain from having conversations with people. I'm terrified of having phone calls with people for the first time. When I'm called to read out, I'm terrified. The last time in high school when I was selected to debate. I stammered and stuttered so bad. That was the last the last time I ever did that. I haven't practiced speaking for years now that my spoken English is rusty. I found solace in written words. The irony of it is that I'm a lawyer, a UA-camr and a weight loss coach. All these entails that I speak a lot. I'm trying everyday to be better. Reading all these comments give me hope that I'm not alone
Same. Tried reading books aloud i hope this could help me. Im having an interview next week :((( and if i get this job i might be doing a lot of public speaking im so scared
Thank you so much! You deserve a million dollars for helping all of us! Stuttering is one of the worst defects someone can have. It shatters so many hopes and dreams because communication and fluent communication is such an important aspect of mankind
Hey guys! If you are interested in my journey as a stuttering writer I've posted my first video on my channel. Here's the link! Subscribe if you want to come along for the ride! ua-cam.com/video/o4PSpfYfXuc/v-deo.html
Hey guys! If you are interested in my journey as a stuttering writer I've posted my first video on my channel. Here's the link! Subscribe if you want to come along for the ride! ua-cam.com/video/o4PSpfYfXuc/v-deo.html
The funny thing about me is that I stutter a lot when I’m with family and friends but when I need to speak in front of a group of people or present a project I speak fluently
@@vaibhavyadav5462 brother, read favorite any book, 10 sheets 📖 *«aloud expressively with intonation, emotionally»* , day after day, or one day after two
Hey man I just wanted to thank you so much. I watched this video before my presentation my last presentation was a month ago I got a 3/10 and got bullied and made fun off everyday today I spoke fluently and clearly. You need more recognition love you man ❤
I am grateful for the comments under this video. I don't meet a lot of people who also stutter (nome really) and to read the comments under this thread of people who know exactly the struggle and anxiety that comes with stuttering, it makes it a bit more bearable. I feel like I have to constantly prove to people that I am smart cause a lot of people assume I am not due to my stutter.
I am an adult stutterer since ten. But being a regular public speaker myself, i can attest that concentrating on your breathing, taking control of slow, deep breaths work wonders just before going onstage. “Actioning” is something new to me so I am gonna give it a try thanks!
I realised stuttering for me is 90% a confidence thing, when i was happy with life, more confident in myself physically and mentally i rarely stuttered or at least from what i remember, however recently being low on confidence i've struggled a lot, hopefully if i can get myself back on track my speech will improve
I mostly stutter at words starting with vowels and when I fear of something or if I get anxiety. Thanks for the video it was relatable and practical. I'll surely try using your tips :)
I’m 100% they same way. I don’t miss a beat when I’m pissed. My mind knows exactly what it needs to say and my breathing is usually deep. I actually try and get a little mad sometimes just to speak clearly. Like the hulk.. I’m always angry 😤
This video was great for me bc I grew up with a stutter from being in an abusive home. I went to speech therapy in school & got it under control, but as an adult I got into a physically abusive relationship & my stutter came back full force. I put in a TON of work to get it under control again. Now it mainly comes out only when I'm stressed or very upset, but there are occasions where it comes out of nowhere. This video has helped me nip it in the bud every time. Thank you so much! I am a voice actor & you've helped me tremendously throughout the years to become a better one
I had very bad stuttering. I overcome it. Now my son has it very badly. It makes me sad. He says he hates his voice and needs helps and says hes a failure. I just want the best for him
I have had it all my life am 34 and still stutter my 10 year old son does too. My husband doesn't get what we go through. He scolds my son and i when the words don't come out
@@sambhrantdas8716 i just eventually grew out of it. I had speech therapy for years. Dont get me wrong I do slip up from time to time. But I think before I talk try to speak slowly and articulate the words well.
@@vocabilities I dont know but I used ur tips and they are helping though when I talk with my friends or normal I cannot constantly say in my brain that I have to talk slowly. When I decide to talk slowly I do not stutter at all. But I cannot break the habbit
I don't think it's confidence issue. In fact that is the most common symptom of someone who stutters. He is able to speak fluently to himself but can't speak to others.
I noticed something when I am sick I no longer stutter because I’m so tired and fatigue to the point where I don’t concentrate on my speech and being shy and embarrassed in front of strangers like doctors and nurses So I used this mindset to start observating myself and it actually worked!!
and that i think is what its all about...try not to think about it...dont stare also...i stotter from my childhood on till now..its not simple to get over it.not at all
I am 22 now. I use to have a bad speech impediment where I couldn't even finish a sentence. It all started with a constant ear infection. Yes. A ear infection. It created a disconnect with me hearing, to what I am saying. Fast forward 6 years. I always had a speech therapist in both elementary and middle school years. As a young child, it greatly affected my social and mental health at the time where I was constantly teased to the point where I stopped talking all together, throughout my whole middle and part of my high school years. Today, I am talking and able to go through a conversation without severely stuttering. I trip up sometimes when I talk to fast, so slowing myself down helped me alot. Thank you very much for this helpful video.
Thank you for commenting, that’s quite a story and it sounds like you are heading toward gaining back full control! 💪💪💪 what’s been the most powerful thing you’ve done?
I am 69 years old, and have stuttered all my life. I have found by “trial and error” that I need medication to treat anxiety AND depression. That may or may not require two medications. From my reading, I have found that what will work for one person may not work for another. For depression, I suggest that you start with Prozac; I have used it for 30 years. I have heard that Xanax has bad side effects. Clorazepate is one of several medications designed to treat anxiety. It greatly helped my speech at first, but its effect slowly declined because my body developed a tolerance for it. It also has bad side effects: it makes a person drowsy, and I once fell asleep while driving and almost got killed.
I’m 21 and I stutter horribly....my girlfriend really understands and tells me to take my time..and I really appreciate it because I had it bad in high school
Thanks Darren, for making the world a better place. My love to all fellow humans who suffer from speech impediments. When I became a father I stopped stuttering almost totally. I did no longer care if I talked fluently or not. My daughter became much more important than myself. Good luck to all of you!
I have had a traumatic childhood that caused me severe case of inferiority complex and anxiety and i started stuttering as a child. I have problem telling my name to others. I hope i overcome this problem sooner!!
So instead of looking at my stuttering in a negative way i look at it in a positive way, I consider it as special feature that i have and it helps me become less embarrassed abt it (:
Oh my god it actually works. I'm in the kitchen and just started talking to myself then actively tried to slow down. I felt like I could inhale and exhale whilst talking, and it made me relax my face and body which helped me by giving me time to think whilst speaking. Thank you so much!
I want to personally thank you for this as I have had a stutter since birth. I have to give a presentation every month at my work and I have meetings daily where I have to talk in them and I have been struggling with my confidence with my stutter. I use the techniques you listed and I almost never stutter anymore! You helped improve my confidence in speaking to others and I simply cant thank you enough!
That just saved my life I was starting to go crazy with my speech I’m always racing in everything I do but that helped me relax thanks for the knowledge
So we had this poetry competition and for an odd reason I couldn’t say words. It took at least 30 seconds to say 1 word. From that day on I would stutter all the time. Thank you. You helped me so much,
Story time! I got pulled over last year. When the officer walked up he asked for license and registration. I responded by stuttering pretty heavily and the officer asked me if I had anything illegal in the car. Then I responded with more stuttering and stammering. He then proceeded to call 4 more officers to search my car because he thought I was extremely “nervous”. When in reality I have a speech impediment. Took them 3 hour to search my car…
As a child i spoke way quicker than others and people told me to speak better. So then i started to slow down my speech. But the started stuttering. And now i hope with these tips this wil help. Thank you!
I stutter a lot. Even in the daily life when I'm speaking to my family members and sometimes I can't even get the "good" out to say good morning. Sometimes they get angry at me even though it's something that I can't even control. They think life is easy for me because they have never stuttered. That's the thing I hate to most. I just want everyone to ignore my stuttering when I talk.
I've never talked about it on Internet but I stutture scince I started to talk, I have this frustrating moments where you just can't express yourself at phone, ordering food or even thinking outloud. I've been through awfull presentations and people thinking I'm mentally ill and every thoses emotional moments when you lose faith .. BUT somehow I joind many students activites, I have made great friends and today I succeeded a job video-interview. I have no Idea where all this come from but I'm quit sure that giving up was never a solution. Do your best and you will get it at the end. All love to all stammers in the world ♥️♥️♥️
I only stutter at the BEGINNING when I start speaking. Once I get the first few words out I’m good, but man...sometimes it feels impossible to get started when it’s my turn to speak. I really have to prepare for it, which only increases my anxiety.
@irl bratzdoll Yeah it sucks man. Like, I would be really good socially, but I have a habit of stuttering when it’s my turn to start speaking. This knowledge and self awareness that I have of my stuttering only increases my anxiety and it makes me self conscious and less socially adept than I’d like to be.
This is great information. I have limited my abilities and experiences in this life because of my stuttering and I'm finally tired of it. One way to help fluency I think would be to practice singing your words. There are three instances where I use my voice and I don't stutter: when using a fake accent, speaking out loud when alone, and when I sing.
these are very good suggestions I never heard of. it is obvious that you have much experience and constantly improve your knowledge. after 20 years I finally achieved to overcome my stuttering
I don't interact with people because of same stutter, especially in school people laugh at me when ever I want to say something, I felt embarrassed 😳 thanks for your tips
My stutter started at age 4-5. My mother and I believe it manifested from being disciplined for not wanting to recite the alphabet. I believe, I only really stutter when I’m trying to “perform professionally”, or speaking with 100% grammatical correctness. I can rap, or speak with slang fluently, it kinda amazes me.
@@vocabilities no, I saw a few audiobooks on it before I found your channel. I’ve also been debating on whether if I still even WANT to portray a “proper” personality type.
@@vocabilities very true. It seems to only get bad when answering pointed questions, ones where I’m expected to give certain specific answers. (My name, phone number, quoting word for word, etc)
Thank you this. My 6 year old has recently started a stammer and tick and it hurts me so much to watch. It started after the lockdown. I let him play Fortnite with his older brother and it made him so stressed and upset. The beauty of the stuttering has meant I’ve given him so much more focus and time and really bonded with him. It’s people like you that are helping us get through this. Btw Reiki sessions really helped improve his flow
This sounds different and might help. I've had a stammer all my life, some days good, some days not so good, but it definitely gets worse over winter, which is a strange thing I've never heard anyone else experience. Several speech therapy sessions over the years helps but it does come back as lessons learned are forgotten. I'll certainly be practising these tips. Your video says it can stop stuttering but I have never, ever, been close to having no stammer. I know it's an old video but thank you.
Thanks alot from a perspective of voice coach and actor you are the one who is helping stutters. By helping to reveal the secret why do people doing acting don't stutter it is really helpful. And it's really interesting topic and subject that many acting coach and voice coach don't talk Thanks for this
A very good tip that I use to not stutter ( I still stutter till this day but this trick made it so much better ) I used to think that I’m a celebrity and I’m giving a speach while thousands of people are watching me. It really helps
I'm a med student and I have learnt to love myself despite of my stutter, i always find a way to control it and be a better version of myself. The advice i can give to someone like me who stutter is never mind people just speak eventually you will be ok
I think rather then slowing down, we must allow the tounge to complete its motion while speaking. This make our mind more confident that we are able to speak and also it gives time to tounge and vocal cords to come in position for the next word. I have tried this and this has really worked like I tried to speak some complex words like Reservation, Conformation in normal speech with the technique and this relly worked. Slowing down is good but if we combined the above mentioned technique it can produce best results.
As I got older, my stuttering increased. I was afraid to talk because of this stuttering . ever since I saw this video of yours I have always practice . And now my stuttering has reduced.thank you so much for this help
I've always wondered how actors who stammer/stutter like Rowan Atkinson, James Earl Jones and Samuel L Jackson are able to just switch into character mode. Thanks so much for explaining "actioning" it makes sense as the times I'm most fluent is when I have an action like "to flirt" or "to vent" or "let rip". It might also be why Samuel L Jackson says saying "Mother F*cker" helps him to distinguish the stutter. I'm going to practice this and report back. Great content. Subscribed.
Jasmine Aba not currently. Usually this kind of issue is best in the hands of a speech therapist. However I might include hypnotherapy for certain people!
Improve Your Voice thank you any recommendation please ??! Of good therapist name even in other countries and for professional who does hypnotherapy ,my email address is : yasmineaballaoui3@gmail.com
I cannot tell you how much this has helped me! It's a great way to ease the breathing and slow down my pace, my stammering is almost gone. Thank you so much!
I have such a story: I live in Russia and have been stuttering since I was 5 years old because I loved scary movies and games, I don't remember exactly at what point I started stuttering. SCHOOL STAGE:when I turned 7, I went to school, but in elementary school I didn't pay much attention to it, but then the moment of transition came and I began to fixate on it and was afraid to speak, there were moments when the teacher asked me a question and I knew the answer but couldn't answer, or for example when they asked my last name and I didn't I could answer and I pretended not to hear (it was terribly embarrassing) but fortunately at school they didn't laugh at me, only sometimes they talked about me, but it was for 1 day. Now I am 14, I am actively engaged in various speech exercises and I have almost stopped being afraid, but there is still a lot of work Exercises that help me: you pull a belt or belt over your stomach and start reading, at the moment when you say the words inflate your stomach yes, inflate it, 2 I'm just talking to myself and as a bonus, since I'm learning English, it helps me too.
what’s strange about my stutter is that I only stutter in front of my family and if i order food or something (under pressure) but i never stutter when i talk to my friends. my mum said mine is psychological because i only ever do it when i tense up and think about it.
I do competitive debating and i love talking, I also dream to be a lawyer, im 20 now. But the thing is, I stutter. There are times where I can manage my stuttering, but there are times where i stutter a lot, to the point that i cant continue speaking, this caused me anxiety. It's depressing when you cant control something in you. But thanks for this! I'll try this in my next debate round. 😊
Same one time I was at the dentist and they asked me for my last name I couldn’t even say my last name I was like “my last name is ...” and I never finished for 30 secs
One thing that gets on my nerves sooooo much whilst stuttering that people say: Lol have you forgot your name?! Like HEY YO shut up! That really isn’t helping my mental situation.
If you have time read it, else ignore :) My friend stutter a lot and honestly I don’t find anything wrong with that I feel like it’s just a special way for them to talk and to be known but he really hate it, he hate talking to people and he hate using his own voice for communication and I’ve tried giving him support mentally like I honestly never thought that the way he talks is detracting or unordinary I think of it as special bu the doesn’t and I am just trying my best to help but I just don’t know what to do 🤧🤧😭😭💕💫 I am his childhood friend and he always tell me if it was special then why can’t I make new friends, ITS YOU is my reply always because you should try putting yourself out there I know that it’s hard and it takes a lot of courage but you shouldn’t hide who you really are to sake acceptance, you are perfect and I mean a lot suffer more severe stuff but they fight and over come the power to defeat it BE STRONG and PUT YOURSELF OUT THERE, you only live once and you will regret being anti social just because of your stuttering. Some are willing to accept you the way you are so don’t let those who destroyed your confidence or YOU from someone who might give you all the support you want 🥰 I love you for who you are and even if no one loved you I am here and I know I might not be much but talk to me if you need it 😭😭💕 I really love his reactions when he is stuttering and trying his best to express his emotions 😂😭🥺💕 someone might feel that same way AND I KNOW THERE IS SOMEONE
I found a solution for my stuttering: just concentrate while talking. It really works you just have to practice to concentrate while talking bc I was just bringing sentences that I memorised just by saying it a lot and that’s how I stuttered but I found the solution of concentrating while talking after a few months of stuttering and I want to help all of you guys to get through it bc I know how hard it is to not stutter I hope this helped
I was able to prevent my self from stuttering when I started to exercise a lot, it would give me more breath and better control of my breathing which helped with my speaking.
Improve Your Voice interestingly recently I haven’t been doing a lot of exercise and I’ve noticed my stutter has been coming back a little. But I’ll be going back soon enough
I work as a bank teller and I consistently talk to people and having a stutter is so embarrassing I feel ashamed to even talk and even sometimes want to quit I’ve been trying to just finds way to help me stop stuttering or at least help it but thank you!
I do have stuttering since i was a kid up until now and i’m 24 years old. It’s kinda sad you know because it’s not uncontrollable and ppl would say that it was intentional. :(
i’m 18. i never stuttered as a kid. i went through something traumatic 2 years ago and that caused my stuttering to get worse. It gets horrible when i’m TRYING to say something. if it’s something useless like “ok sure” or “that’s fine” it’s not there. but when i explain something or tell a story, i can never get the words out and it takes me hours. I hate it bc now people think im weak, or have no personality, or can’t stand up for myself, or even talk, all because of this that wasn’t even natural in the first place. it frustrates me a lot. and i wish i could get rid of it.
@@teziHQ sem happens with me, when im talking to myself its all good but whenver i go to any shop my heart start beating fastly and most of the time i comes back without saying a word :(
Dont feel sad Be proud of yourself You've had challenging days and nights with this You coped up with other people to do rhe same activities with your shuttering and achieved many things Dont let this sluttering stop you SHOW OTHERS THAT A PERSON WITH SLUTTER CAN DO BETTER THAN OTHERS
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I hate when people think that your lying because your stuttering
Memez_R_Dreamz 07 wow do you get that?
Memez_R_Dreamz 07 I get that to there like u lie when you studer
My ex wife used to tell me that lol
My mom bruh
Improve Your Voice I have this problem all the time. When I was maybe 14 or 15 I was on a bus and the ticket inspector came and asked me for my ticket. I gave him my under 16’s ticket and he didn’t believe I was under 16. He asked my date of birth and I couldn’t say it. He then kicked me off the bus because he thought I was lying.
Stuttering can sometimes crush your confidence. I've had people hang up on me during a phone, worst shit ever.
OMG what is wrong with people!
@@vocabilities ....You did a great job playing Voldemort
Pfff yeah... phone calls are my worst fears!
Good
I was born for the role
These videos have helped me so much. I used to hardly be able to speak, now i can speak almost fluently. Thankyou so much darren, i owe you my speech.
That is really lovely to hear. Keep it up!!
Lol fake dream, and btw I have one to
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this was very anticlimactic for me. i was like oh fuck dream watched this video but then i saw the comments
@@bobafett6294 i really don't care
I’m 18 years old, I’m terrified to apply for a job because of the interview, I hate speaking to people on the phone because my anxiety goes through the roof. I remember being at school and the teachers would ask the class a question, and I knew all the answers but couldn’t say them because I knew I would start to stutter. However, the only time I don’t stutter is when I’m saying phrases from a movie or start to sing. I just wish there was a cure to get rid of it. But this video has helped! Thank you.
the situation you described in class is when being aware of answer yet I can't respond the teacher it's just too sad
@@ahmedmerdoukhahmed9765 People dont understand that stuff, and when you do try to answer and you stutter you get so mad at yourself.
I entirely hear you & relate to all of this that you express (been there). I've had a stutter since age 5. I'm 46 now. Had tons of speech therapy and even tried the speech easy device. It's just how we are made. The struggles are real and intense. Keep your head up and just do your best. So many have something going on challenging and stuttering is it for us. God speed.
@Hannah ROID get black seed and have it everyday it kind of cure my stammer but it’s like 90% gone my stammer. Keep having it.
@@Cbow09 is this the cure for stammering
stuttering has destroyed my life. i have no friends, no social life and no fun. i hate my life
Don’t feel that way. Life is long and you can make changes to start appreciating all that you have. Whenever you feel this way, I want you to write down three things that you are grateful for. Even if you feel awful, force yourself to sit and write 3 blessings that you can actually be thankful for! Then once you acknowledge these three things. Spend a little time working on this issue at hand. You’ll find that you’ve changed your psychology to a more positive mindset and so will allow the work to work because you’re not frustrated. 💪💪💪
same problem.
I can't even pronounce my name in front of other people.
@@trenchplugg I always talk to my mother...
I'm joking, I CAN talk to girls well but it's awkward because being a guy who talks with a girl about girl stuff or about my hobby just feels weird in a way. Sometimes we run out of topics to talk about and it's just an awkward silence. These things didn't happen if I were to talk with other guys of course or with my childhood friend
You again?
Random guy
you have a new friend today. ME ! I am your friend and i feel so much empathy to you. Never give up , you are stronger and more amazing than you believe .
My daily regimen to help manage my stutter is: (1) Practice Daily Mindful Meditation - 10 mins (2) Practice Diaphragmatic Breathing - 10 mins (3) Reading Out Loud - 10 mins (4) Practice In Front Of My Bathroom Mirror - I practice greetings, my name, salutations, etc.... The most fascinating aspect of all of this is when I DON'T focus on my stutter and I focus on the conversation, the person I'm speaking to and I'm in the moment, my stutter lessens and often goes away. When I focus on living and being in the moment, my speech improves. When I have a block, I stop, breathe, and continue on. We are all different in our speech journey but our common denominator is that we are not alone. The main point of all of this is that there is no magic pill but through daily practice, you will see and hear the difference. All of my coaches told me that if you want to get good at a skill, you need to practice. (My background: started stuttering at age 5 due to a traumatic dog attack. I had no voice for one year after the dog attack and then I attended 20 years of speech therapy. I'm 49 now with 95% fluency. I focus on living and not my stutter. Fear has no more control over me, I'm in control now.)
This is very helpful. Thank you for the tips.
Dude you're an inspiration
Thank youu
Thx i just stutter a lil bit i think its ez for me
Also i think im not stuttering anymore THX
Stuttering makes us automatically humble, kind, nice, we are givers, we tend to be nice to cover up this flaw, we smile a lot... It's difficult to mock someone who is kind 😊
@koko nina I'm so sorry about that, grown up people don't mock a stutter..
You're right
@@lukmanegbeyemi3717 I wish I could just take out this tongue and put a new one 🥺
Channels like this dont get enough recognition
Anthony Thach too kind!
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I came to this video because I’m tired of stuttering during roast sessions and ps4 party chats
@@pallbearer4430 exactly haha
i need to stop stuttering now because when i’m arguing with someone no matter how valid your point is as long as you stutter you lost the argument 😔
same :(
Ikr, I can’t ever come back because I stutter 😔
Right it’s so embarrassing because ik I’m right but the stutter, stammer and mumbling is an automatic LLLLL😭
okay this helps me but it’s not the best way. i stutter a lot too and when i’m arguing i start stuttering and i slowly lose the argument,but when i start to speak louder and do some hand gestures it really helps. ik it’s not the best way but at least i win the argument :)
Same this is the worst😔😔
My stutter makes me want to stop talking, my stutter embarrasses me so much
For real, I got made fun of so much in school, I just stopped talking.
same
Omg me too it makes me sad
I know you wrote this 6 months ago. But I’m wondering how old you are. I’m 31 and still studder when I’m anxious
i can’t even pronounce my name to my coaches😆
I needed this. Especially to SLOW DOWN. Sometimes I completely lose my breath when speaking. Thank you
cubanadelrey many of us need to slow down in general. Not only for speaking. Has it helped?
Improve Your Voice yes! I am able to record UA-cam videos now without sounding like I am dying! 🤪 now to calm my social anxiety so I can slow down in conversations with others 😅
@@vocabilities I slitter a lot I'm now 17
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this is exactly what happens to me too
Having Speech Block is like carrying an elephant on your shoulders for whole day
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What's speech blocks
Summary
1. relax your body, muscles and jaw
- drop shoulders and relax muscles
- focus on breathing
- massage jaw
2. slow down your speech
- recognise patterns in speech stuttering
3. Focus attention away from yourself
- focus on the action, not the words. Focus on how you're trying to affect the listener. Words will come automatically.
- example: when flirting, don't think about the words you have to say but think about how you are trying to affect the other person with flirting.
- example 2: when scolding, don't think about the words, think about the action and effect of scolding.
4. Practice daily
If it doesn't work: stop, breathe, slow down, think of the action or change the action.
wow this really worked
thank you
Nimen hao
Yaa hard thing is that it is difficult to follow regulary and easy thing is that it works 😅
The worst thing is when you actually managed to say what you wanted.. but no one listened so they tell you to repeat and when i repeat it i cant say it
That happened to me
same
hahaha dude i thought this happens to me only :)
Same
I prayed we overcomes it sooner, because it getting out of hands. I'm lost here
I was 4 years old when I started stuttering and I am currently 20 years old and I feel it getting worse. I realized things I did that I never thought would trigger my stutter. Whenever I talk I feel like people just aren’t interested in what I have to say or they even devalue my opinion. This video was very helpful. Thank you.
Same here
I can feel ya dude, I'm dealing with the Same situation, 😶
@@brightHakEye yeah it happens usually
@@noorhuda2319 why don’t y’all just pause and take a minute to say it instead of saying it quickly eventually wouldn’t it become a habit to talk normal ??
@@disturbedvelo7199 yeah i tried practising it but..
I've been stuttering since I learned to talk. I couldn't get through a sentence without stuttering.
My family (bless them) didn't know that it was an actual speech impediment and would hit me in the mouth every time I stuttered thinking that I was doing it on purpose.
My mom's approach of getting me to get over my stutter was to force me into public speaking. Eventually I wouldn't stutter as much in front of a crowd (I still did very randomly with conversations)
I was bullied because of my weight and my stutter as I was growing up, and it wasn't until I was in college that I saw The King's Speech for the first time and found out that I wasn't alone- a lot of people had that problem too.
I used the same techniques I saw there and what I see in these videos to try to overcome my stutter.
My stutter still comes back every now and then, but I learned to overcome it by:
- avoiding trigger sounds when I know I'm about to stutter (so using a synonym instead: eg, saying sheet instead of paper)
- using hand gestures to force the sound out
- blending it with an "umm" to not make it so obvious
- controlling my pace so I can really visualize each word I'm about to say.
I never let my stutter stop me from doing what I love - I'm currently an English communications trainer and scuba instructor. So I'm constantly fighting my battle with my stutter every day, and not letting it silence me. So I'm super thankful for videos like this for helpinh me get through my stutter the past 10 years. ❤️❤️❤️
Julla Butcher I recomend that you use Tongue twisters
It helped me talk now i talk normal again
Thanks to tongue twisters
Search it on google
omg, you just described the exact techniques I'm trying to use in order to decrease the amount of stuttering for as much as possible.
@@horvathlaszlo96 I like to think that when I stutter, the words are too shy to come out, so I have to literally force them out with hand gestures hahah
@@chrisandjullabutcher1292 that's right. I noticed that when I anticipate a stutter I immediately try to change (if possible) the syntax of the sentence and add either an adjective, or an adverb, or simply modify it in such a way that it creates enough of a momentum to spit it out XD
that film woke ALOT of parents up to how ANYONE can suffer from this. X awesome film.
As someone who had a severe stutter and as someone who still has a minor stutter now. I can say this to you. 90 percent of it is psychological because when you stutter for so long it becomes a habit to stutter more and more. I took this course on Udemy and it’s helped me a lot. Also I have to say that meditation and reading a book out loud helps a lot and also getting out of your comfort zone too. You guys got this 💯
What did u got from the course?
What corse what it?
I been stuttering so long that my very good friends understand what I’m saying so well even if I don’t even finish the word
i keep stammering while speaking, my family/teachers always say "spit it out" then they mimic me and that just makes me insecure about it and it causes me to stutter/stammer a lot, and i have social anxiety, i have 0 social skills and I'm only 12, i can't even talk to people anymore, this helped me so much ty sm
UPDATE
@@healer-bs4915 IT REALLY DID HELP ALOT, I FEEL WAY BETTER NOW, I STILL STAMMER HERE AND THERE BUT IT REALLY DID HELP
I am 26. I realized the less I speak the worse my stuttering become. Like now these days in pandemic when I spent so long at home and now I failed some job interviews because of it. Before when I study and work, the days when you meet and talk to people every day I could control it and stuttering less. Now it is getting uncontrollable
Like many things which involve muscles to function the voice will weaken if not regularly exercised!
Lol same with my, before quarantine I could control it really good and but the last few months it became worse and now I almost cam't talk anymore
You're not alone. I'm 22. I'm an introvert. I stutter and stammer. The fear of this has made me refrain from having conversations with people. I'm terrified of having phone calls with people for the first time. When I'm called to read out, I'm terrified. The last time in high school when I was selected to debate. I stammered and stuttered so bad. That was the last the last time I ever did that.
I haven't practiced speaking for years now that my spoken English is rusty. I found solace in written words.
The irony of it is that I'm a lawyer, a UA-camr and a weight loss coach. All these entails that I speak a lot.
I'm trying everyday to be better.
Reading all these comments give me hope that I'm not alone
Same. Tried reading books aloud i hope this could help me. Im having an interview next week :((( and if i get this job i might be doing a lot of public speaking im so scared
@@loeyexo1685 Hope you succeed
Thank you so much! You deserve a million dollars for helping all of us! Stuttering is one of the worst defects someone can have. It shatters so many hopes and dreams because communication and fluent communication is such an important aspect of mankind
This comments sections is all like me feeling comfortable 🤗
☺️
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@@vocabilities do u have stuttering
@@yoxyo2604 I don’t think so because he talked so much clearly in the video
Yess 😪
When you're waiting for the teacher to call your name and say present like:🥴😶
Oh no really?
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Same dude same
same with me but what we can dooooo??????????////
Same bro
The funny thing about me is that I stutter a lot when I’m with family and friends but when I need to speak in front of a group of people or present a project I speak fluently
Lol.. I can relate. Talking to my mom on the phone is the hardest thing in the world.
Exactly same her when am reading a book and other stuff like that i don’t stutter
Good for u :')
Same thing with me.i stutter a lot in front of my family and closed ones but when i talk to strangers or unknown i speak very fluently
Other way around for me
i hate my stutters, i could start talking and get interrupted by my friends mocking it saying “spit it out” and it rlly makes my confidence go down
FELT
same
Yeah I understand I’ve had it before as well :(
Same
Some of my friends did that but my other friends told me to relax and don't worry you will recover from it
Been stuttering all my life. I self cured 95% atm! It takes hard work but it can definitely be done for sure!
How you did that?
Good to hear! Any tips for others here?
Good question!
@@vaibhavyadav5462 brother, read favorite any book, 10 sheets 📖 *«aloud expressively with intonation, emotionally»*
, day after day, or one day after two
Hey man I just wanted to thank you so much. I watched this video before my presentation my last presentation was a month ago I got a 3/10 and got bullied and made fun off everyday today I spoke fluently and clearly.
You need more recognition love you man ❤
♥️♥️♥️Congratulations for overcoming it 🎊
I am grateful for the comments under this video. I don't meet a lot of people who also stutter (nome really) and to read the comments under this thread of people who know exactly the struggle and anxiety that comes with stuttering, it makes it a bit more bearable.
I feel like I have to constantly prove to people that I am smart cause a lot of people assume I am not due to my stutter.
Same
Who fuckin cares what people think
Dam I never knew there was this much ppl who stutter I thought I was the only few
I am an adult stutterer since ten. But being a regular public speaker myself, i can attest that concentrating on your breathing, taking control of slow, deep breaths work wonders just before going onstage. “Actioning” is something new to me so I am gonna give it a try thanks!
I realised stuttering for me is 90% a confidence thing, when i was happy with life, more confident in myself physically and mentally i rarely stuttered or at least from what i remember, however recently being low on confidence i've struggled a lot, hopefully if i can get myself back on track my speech will improve
I mostly stutter at words starting with vowels and when I fear of something or if I get anxiety. Thanks for the video it was relatable and practical. I'll surely try using your tips :)
Same happens with me as well
I do practice in front of mirror
I don’t stutter when I get angry. It’s weird ,when I start stuttering ,I’ll pause and then scream what I wanted to say, and it comes out perfect.
When we get mad our angry feelings get more stronger and that makes us think about being mad and not thinking about stuttering
Weird... I cant speak a single word when iam angry
Same here
I’m 100% they same way. I don’t miss a beat when I’m pissed. My mind knows exactly what it needs to say and my breathing is usually deep. I actually try and get a little mad sometimes just to speak clearly. Like the hulk.. I’m always angry 😤
I don’t stutter when I drink beer real talk
This video was great for me bc I grew up with a stutter from being in an abusive home. I went to speech therapy in school & got it under control, but as an adult I got into a physically abusive relationship & my stutter came back full force. I put in a TON of work to get it under control again. Now it mainly comes out only when I'm stressed or very upset, but there are occasions where it comes out of nowhere. This video has helped me nip it in the bud every time. Thank you so much! I am a voice actor & you've helped me tremendously throughout the years to become a better one
I had very bad stuttering. I overcome it. Now my son has it very badly. It makes me sad. He says he hates his voice and needs helps and says hes a failure. I just want the best for him
I have had it all my life am 34 and still stutter my 10 year old son does too. My husband doesn't get what we go through. He scolds my son and i when the words don't come out
Love him unconditionally.
How did you overcome it?
@@sambhrantdas8716 i just eventually grew out of it. I had speech therapy for years. Dont get me wrong I do slip up from time to time. But I think before I talk try to speak slowly and articulate the words well.
@@rachellebrown6457 That's great. My mother outgrew it as well.
When I call someone then I stutter or while speaking to family members and friends. But never when I record a video or when I talk to myself
Sounds like a confidence issue!
@@vocabilities I dont know but I used ur tips and they are helping though when I talk with my friends or normal I cannot constantly say in my brain that I have to talk slowly.
When I decide to talk slowly I do not stutter at all. But I cannot break the habbit
Habit takes time. Allow yourself some! 😁
@@vocabilities 😁okay I will try my best
I don't think it's confidence issue. In fact that is the most common symptom of someone who stutters. He is able to speak fluently to himself but can't speak to others.
Me wondering why I'm still single:
my stammering laughing at me:
😂
ur not alone bro
I thought I was the only one 😂
Exactly bro😅🙌
I noticed something
when I am sick I no longer stutter because I’m so tired and fatigue to the point where I don’t concentrate on my speech and being shy and embarrassed in front of strangers like doctors and nurses
So I used this mindset to start observating myself and it actually worked!!
That’s really interesting 🤔
SAME
and that i think is what its all about...try not to think about it...dont stare also...i stotter from my childhood on till now..its not simple to get over it.not at all
I am 22 now. I use to have a bad speech impediment where I couldn't even finish a sentence. It all started with a constant ear infection. Yes. A ear infection. It created a disconnect with me hearing, to what I am saying. Fast forward 6 years. I always had a speech therapist in both elementary and middle school years. As a young child, it greatly affected my social and mental health at the time where I was constantly teased to the point where I stopped talking all together, throughout my whole middle and part of my high school years. Today, I am talking and able to go through a conversation without severely stuttering. I trip up sometimes when I talk to fast, so slowing myself down helped me alot. Thank you very much for this helpful video.
Thank you for commenting, that’s quite a story and it sounds like you are heading toward gaining back full control! 💪💪💪 what’s been the most powerful thing you’ve done?
I am 69 years old, and have stuttered all my life. I have found by “trial and error” that I need medication to treat anxiety AND depression. That may or may not require two medications. From my reading, I have found that what will work for one person may not work for another. For depression, I suggest that you start with Prozac; I have used it for 30 years. I have heard that Xanax has bad side effects.
Clorazepate is one of several medications designed to treat anxiety. It greatly helped my speech at first, but its effect slowly declined because my body developed a tolerance for it. It also has bad side effects: it makes a person drowsy, and I once fell asleep while driving and almost got killed.
I’m 21 and I stutter horribly....my girlfriend really understands and tells me to take my time..and I really appreciate it because I had it bad in high school
She's the best! Keep her in your life forever please.
unfortunately, that didn't happen.
Thanks Darren, for making the world a better place. My love to all fellow humans who suffer from speech impediments. When I became a father I stopped stuttering almost totally. I did no longer care if I talked fluently or not. My daughter became much more important than myself. Good luck to all of you!
Lord Voldemort helping people stop stammering ❤
Nebojša Maksimović thanks a bunch 🤪
@@vocabilities how can I contact with you please I need your advice and help me
Amine Akbo contact darren@vocabilities.com
hahha u funny mate 😂
I can’t stop laughing
I have had a traumatic childhood that caused me severe case of inferiority complex and anxiety and i started stuttering as a child. I have problem telling my name to others. I hope i overcome this problem sooner!!
Therapy. Therapy is amazing. Please get therapy
So instead of looking at my stuttering in a negative way i look at it in a positive way, I consider it as special feature that i have and it helps me become less embarrassed abt it (:
Oh my god it actually works. I'm in the kitchen and just started talking to myself then actively tried to slow down. I felt like I could inhale and exhale whilst talking, and it made me relax my face and body which helped me by giving me time to think whilst speaking. Thank you so much!
Amazing that you took the time and tried it! I’m so glad you found benefit! Keep going 🙏🙏🙏
i am 20 and i feel like i dont talk loud enough, and when i do i feel like im yelling. i also stutter a lot😭
Yeah same here
Same here
same
same dude :(
I want to personally thank you for this as I have had a stutter since birth. I have to give a presentation every month at my work and I have meetings daily where I have to talk in them and I have been struggling with my confidence with my stutter. I use the techniques you listed and I almost never stutter anymore! You helped improve my confidence in speaking to others and I simply cant thank you enough!
lol really?
Austin Laymon well feel free to watch more videos and leave awesome comments like this! Other areas will help back this up too. Have you searched?
Bro message me on Instagram I will video call you and show u how I cured it.. @Patrick_Tuson
@@patricktuson wouldn't mind getting in on this too. We can all help each other in some way
That just saved my life I was starting to go crazy with my speech I’m always racing in everything I do but that helped me relax thanks for the knowledge
I’m getting bullied for stuttering and this video helped me a lot thank u 🙏🏼
I hope you’re doing better
I’m 14 and I stutter a lot 😂 idk how to stop it
Alexfrasermusic bro same 🤣
same im 14 and i get speech blocks
Lmao
Alexfrasermusic same
I just realised i dont stutter but when i speak very fast i do lmao , and i stutter when i dont think of doing something lol
So we had this poetry competition and for an odd reason I couldn’t say words. It took at least 30 seconds to say 1 word. From that day on I would stutter all the time. Thank you. You helped me so much,
Story time!
I got pulled over last year. When the officer walked up he asked for license and registration. I responded by stuttering pretty heavily and the officer asked me if I had anything illegal in the car. Then I responded with more stuttering and stammering. He then proceeded to call 4 more officers to search my car because he thought I was extremely “nervous”. When in reality I have a speech impediment. Took them 3 hour to search my car…
It’s sad how are lives can be hard in those situations
As a child i spoke way quicker than others and people told me to speak better. So then i started to slow down my speech. But the started stuttering. And now i hope with these tips this wil help. Thank you!
Ive stuttered for a while its improved alot this video is so helpful
I’m so pleased to hear. I have a second one also with other techniques if that helps!
NEW VIDEO ON STUTTERING - I WANT EVERYONE TO CHECK IT OUT! LOTS OF GREAT TIPS FOR YOU. ua-cam.com/video/qwckyCWIKvs/v-deo.html
I stutter a lot. Even in the daily life when I'm speaking to my family members and sometimes I can't even get the "good" out to say good morning. Sometimes they get angry at me even though it's something that I can't even control. They think life is easy for me because they have never stuttered. That's the thing I hate to most. I just want everyone to ignore my stuttering when I talk.
Relatable
It happens to me as well
I've never talked about it on Internet but I stutture scince I started to talk, I have this frustrating moments where you just can't express yourself at phone, ordering food or even thinking outloud. I've been through awfull presentations and people thinking I'm mentally ill and every thoses emotional moments when you lose faith .. BUT somehow I joind many students activites, I have made great friends and today I succeeded a job video-interview. I have no Idea where all this come from but I'm quit sure that giving up was never a solution. Do your best and you will get it at the end. All love to all stammers in the world ♥️♥️♥️
I only stutter at the BEGINNING when I start speaking. Once I get the first few words out I’m good, but man...sometimes it feels impossible to get started when it’s my turn to speak. I really have to prepare for it, which only increases my anxiety.
this is literally my same situation 😕
@irl bratzdoll Yeah it sucks man. Like, I would be really good socially, but I have a habit of stuttering when it’s my turn to start speaking. This knowledge and self awareness that I have of my stuttering only increases my anxiety and it makes me self conscious and less socially adept than I’d like to be.
This is great information. I have limited my abilities and experiences in this life because of my stuttering and I'm finally tired of it. One way to help fluency I think would be to practice singing your words. There are three instances where I use my voice and I don't stutter: when using a fake accent, speaking out loud when alone, and when I sing.
I'm 14 yrs old and ive been stuttering for 2 yrs now, ppl make fun of me. Thank you so much it really helped!!
these are very good suggestions I never heard of. it is obvious that you have much experience and constantly improve your knowledge. after 20 years I finally achieved to overcome my stuttering
I don't interact with people because of same stutter, especially in school people laugh at me when ever I want to say something, I felt embarrassed 😳 thanks for your tips
My stutter started at age 4-5. My mother and I believe it manifested from being disciplined for not wanting to recite the alphabet. I believe, I only really stutter when I’m trying to “perform professionally”, or speaking with 100% grammatical correctness. I can rap, or speak with slang fluently, it kinda amazes me.
Have you considered hypnotherapy?
@@vocabilities no, I saw a few audiobooks on it before I found your channel. I’ve also been debating on whether if I still even WANT to portray a “proper” personality type.
It’s all about options though right?
@@vocabilities very true. It seems to only get bad when answering pointed questions, ones where I’m expected to give certain specific answers. (My name, phone number, quoting word for word, etc)
Thank you this. My 6 year old has recently started a stammer and tick and it hurts me so much to watch. It started after the lockdown. I let him play Fortnite with his older brother and it made him so stressed and upset. The beauty of the stuttering has meant I’ve given him so much more focus and time and really bonded with him. It’s people like you that are helping us get through this. Btw Reiki sessions really helped improve his flow
This sounds different and might help. I've had a stammer all my life, some days good, some days not so good, but it definitely gets worse over winter, which is a strange thing I've never heard anyone else experience. Several speech therapy sessions over the years helps but it does come back as lessons learned are forgotten. I'll certainly be practising these tips. Your video says it can stop stuttering but I have never, ever, been close to having no stammer. I know it's an old video but thank you.
Thanks alot from a perspective of voice coach and actor you are the one who is helping stutters.
By helping to reveal the secret why do people doing acting don't stutter it is really helpful.
And it's really interesting topic and subject that many acting coach and voice coach don't talk
Thanks for this
sourabhh vijjayaash thank you for saying so. 👍🏻
Message me on Instagram bro I will help you. Instagram @patrick_tuson I stuttered for 25 years. It's easy to beat
A very good tip that I use to not stutter ( I still stutter till this day but this trick made it so much better ) I used to think that I’m a celebrity and I’m giving a speach while thousands of people are watching me. It really helps
🤩Good to read you! It gives me hope...
I’m 11 and I stutter quite a bit...and i think after this video I have stooped way more Tysm ❤️
I'm a med student and I have learnt to love myself despite of my stutter, i always find a way to control it and be a better version of myself. The advice i can give to someone like me who stutter is never mind people just speak eventually you will be ok
I think rather then slowing down, we must allow the tounge to complete its motion while speaking. This make our mind more confident that we are able to speak and also it gives time to tounge and vocal cords to come in position for the next word. I have tried this and this has really worked like I tried to speak some complex words like Reservation, Conformation in normal speech with the technique and this relly worked. Slowing down is good but if we combined the above mentioned technique it can produce best results.
Thank you man 💓 i am suffering stammering from 10 years now i have to focus and improve my self!!! Thanks for your tips
The chocking part is the worst. I'm 17 and things aren't getting better for me lol. Social interactions are a rollercoaster ride.
As I got older, my stuttering increased. I was afraid to talk because of this stuttering . ever since I saw this video of yours I have always practice . And now my stuttering has reduced.thank you so much for this help
I've always wondered how actors who stammer/stutter like Rowan Atkinson, James Earl Jones and Samuel L Jackson are able to just switch into character mode. Thanks so much for explaining "actioning" it makes sense as the times I'm most fluent is when I have an action like "to flirt" or "to vent" or "let rip". It might also be why Samuel L Jackson says saying "Mother F*cker" helps him to distinguish the stutter.
I'm going to practice this and report back. Great content. Subscribed.
Tim Murphy yeah man go for it. I look forward to your feedback!
@@vocabilities hi do you give any private session for people who stutter ,thank you
Jasmine Aba not currently. Usually this kind of issue is best in the hands of a speech therapist. However I might include hypnotherapy for certain people!
Improve Your Voice thank you any recommendation please ??! Of good therapist name even in other countries and for professional who does hypnotherapy ,my email address is : yasmineaballaoui3@gmail.com
Message me on Instagram bro I will help you. Instagram @patrick_tuson I stuttered for 25 years. It's easy to beat
I cannot tell you how much this has helped me! It's a great way to ease the breathing and slow down my pace, my stammering is almost gone. Thank you so much!
Guy in my year, went from one of those nice people speaks quite loud, makes good jokes, and then got a stutter, basically stopped speaking
I have such a story: I live in Russia and have been stuttering since I was 5 years old because I loved scary movies and games, I don't remember exactly at what point I started stuttering. SCHOOL STAGE:when I turned 7, I went to school, but in elementary school I didn't pay much attention to it, but then the moment of transition came and I began to fixate on it and was afraid to speak, there were moments when the teacher asked me a question and I knew the answer but couldn't answer, or for example when they asked my last name and I didn't I could answer and I pretended not to hear (it was terribly embarrassing) but fortunately at school they didn't laugh at me, only sometimes they talked about me, but it was for 1 day.
Now I am 14, I am actively engaged in various speech exercises and I have almost stopped being afraid, but there is still a lot of work
Exercises that help me: you pull a belt or belt over your stomach and start reading, at the moment when you say the words inflate your stomach yes, inflate it, 2 I'm just talking to myself and as a bonus, since I'm learning English, it helps me too.
what’s strange about my stutter is that I only stutter in front of my family and if i order food or something (under pressure) but i never stutter when i talk to my friends. my mum said mine is psychological because i only ever do it when i tense up and think about it.
I do competitive debating and i love talking, I also dream to be a lawyer, im 20 now. But the thing is, I stutter. There are times where I can manage my stuttering, but there are times where i stutter a lot, to the point that i cant continue speaking, this caused me anxiety. It's depressing when you cant control something in you. But thanks for this! I'll try this in my next debate round. 😊
I’m 19, I went by the dentist two years ago and couldn’t say my surname 😔
Same one time I was at the dentist and they asked me for my last name I couldn’t even say my last name I was like “my last name is ...” and I never finished for 30 secs
@@Bomboclaut_863 literally me today i couldn’t say how old I was
Yahh I couldn't get my name without blocks for once
Good for u
@@crzyloki6548 me too brooo the worst is ordering food at restaurant for me
One thing that gets on my nerves sooooo much whilst stuttering that people say:
Lol have you forgot your name?!
Like HEY YO shut up! That really isn’t helping my mental situation.
If you have time read it, else ignore :)
My friend stutter a lot and honestly I don’t find anything wrong with that I feel like it’s just a special way for them to talk and to be known but he really hate it, he hate talking to people and he hate using his own voice for communication and I’ve tried giving him support mentally like I honestly never thought that the way he talks is detracting or unordinary I think of it as special bu the doesn’t and I am just trying my best to help but I just don’t know what to do 🤧🤧😭😭💕💫
I am his childhood friend and he always tell me if it was special then why can’t I make new friends, ITS YOU is my reply always because you should try putting yourself out there I know that it’s hard and it takes a lot of courage but you shouldn’t hide who you really are to sake acceptance, you are perfect and I mean a lot suffer more severe stuff but they fight and over come the power to defeat it BE STRONG and PUT YOURSELF OUT THERE, you only live once and you will regret being anti social just because of your stuttering. Some are willing to accept you the way you are so don’t let those who destroyed your confidence or YOU from someone who might give you all the support you want 🥰 I love you for who you are and even if no one loved you I am here and I know I might not be much but talk to me if you need it 😭😭💕
I really love his reactions when he is stuttering and trying his best to express his emotions 😂😭🥺💕 someone might feel that same way AND I KNOW THERE IS SOMEONE
Lovely 😊
That's so sweet
You have provided a good Ideas for stammers to stop stammering.
I found a solution for my stuttering: just concentrate while talking. It really works you just have to practice to concentrate while talking bc I was just bringing sentences that I memorised just by saying it a lot and that’s how I stuttered but I found the solution of concentrating while talking after a few months of stuttering and I want to help all of you guys to get through it bc I know how hard it is to not stutter I hope this helped
Deep breathing exercise
is so important. We get so up tight when stuttering, we literally stop breathing.
Thanks so much, I would basically studder every time I would talk. this has helped me so much thank you!
That’s very kind of you to say! Thanks for your support. May you continue to improve and regain your confidence 💪
Keep up with this content, it helps people so much in life I appreciate people like you who do this.
Thankyou 🙏
I was able to prevent my self from stuttering when I started to exercise a lot, it would give me more breath and better control of my breathing which helped with my speaking.
That’s interesting have you been continually doing them!
Improve Your Voice interestingly recently I haven’t been doing a lot of exercise and I’ve noticed my stutter has been coming back a little. But I’ll be going back soon enough
Yeah gotta change up then habits! 😉
I work as a bank teller and I consistently talk to people and having a stutter is so embarrassing I feel ashamed to even talk and even sometimes want to quit I’ve been trying to just finds way to help me stop stuttering or at least help it but thank you!
“Good work 47!”
@@napoleondynamite4148 😊😊
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I have never met a lady who stammers... I need one in my life... We are the best ever
I do have stuttering since i was a kid up until now and i’m 24 years old. It’s kinda sad you know because it’s not uncontrollable and ppl would say that it was intentional. :(
i’m 18. i never stuttered as a kid. i went through something traumatic 2 years ago and that caused my stuttering to get worse. It gets horrible when i’m TRYING to say something. if it’s something useless like “ok sure” or “that’s fine” it’s not there. but when i explain something or tell a story, i can never get the words out and it takes me hours. I hate it bc now people think im weak, or have no personality, or can’t stand up for myself, or even talk, all because of this that wasn’t even natural in the first place. it frustrates me a lot. and i wish i could get rid of it.
This man is a life saver 💯 appreciate it bro
Timmy DatYounggin have you tried many other vids?
Bro message me on Instagram I will video call you and show u how I cured it.. @Patrick_Tuson
The best video on this topic I've ever watched. Thanks a lot, bud
I hope it can be useful. Thank you!
My stutter has gotten so bad that I can’t even say I love u 😥
Have you considered Hypnotherapy?
Improve Your Voice I ask my dad all the time but he says read out loud but when I’m alone I can talk perfectly fine
@@teziHQ sem happens with me, when im talking to myself its all good but whenver i go to any shop my heart start beating fastly and most of the time i comes back without saying a word :(
@@zainneticgaming1701 yea but mines gotten way better tho
@@teziHQ tell me how ? plxx :(
Dont feel sad
Be proud of yourself
You've had challenging days and nights with this
You coped up with other people to do rhe same activities with your shuttering and achieved many things
Dont let this sluttering stop you
SHOW OTHERS THAT A PERSON WITH SLUTTER CAN DO BETTER THAN OTHERS
i have always had my stutter ever since i was born and i feel very insecure about this stuttering. Now im determined to stop stuttering.