WHY YOUR BOUNDARIES AREN'T WORKING | The Slumflower Hour podcast

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  • Опубліковано 21 січ 2025

КОМЕНТАРІ • 31

  • @mieskaarendorf8247
    @mieskaarendorf8247 Рік тому +21

    Your mind is just amazing.

  • @bongeka_nm_gasa6070
    @bongeka_nm_gasa6070 Рік тому +14

    Receiving this podcast every Friday is like having your fairy God mother coming to keep you in check ..I love it..
    You look amazing as always

  • @itsvdarling
    @itsvdarling Рік тому +8

    Yea this was like a message from god

  • @teethenugget
    @teethenugget 7 місяців тому +6

    No ur podcast is actually saving me lmaoo so grateful I found you😭 cus these small changes in how i move around men makes sm difference

  • @cm203
    @cm203 Рік тому +9

    Ngl youre spittin some madddd game and I’m only 20 mins in 😭 can’t believe I’ve been doing shit so wrong 😩

  • @EVOLVINGWITHASHLEY
    @EVOLVINGWITHASHLEY Рік тому +5

    absolutely obsessed with this & your mind. you truly just opened me up to a whole new perspective & mindset and i thank you for that. 🩵 looking forward to watching other episodes of yours.

  • @zaink.7243
    @zaink.7243 Рік тому +4

    that last part reminded me of the book called The Power by naomi alderman. i think you would love it. (im only half way in but so far im like 'where has this been my whole life'. teenage me would've loved it)
    anyway, this episode was great. just like all the others :)

  • @alexispeterson4439
    @alexispeterson4439 Рік тому +6

    I want to find these types of events and friends! I resonate so much with each 💎 dropped and having this mindset heading into the weekend is top tier!

  • @ruthuwantege
    @ruthuwantege 3 місяці тому

    I should have seen this like a year ago!! I have finally seen the light!!This was definitely made for me
    Thank you for the work you do..

  • @msn9565
    @msn9565 7 місяців тому +2

    Chidera, you are heaven-sent! YOUR MIND 😮

  • @melissamillion6869
    @melissamillion6869 3 місяці тому

    I need to go to these events 😂😂 I love hearing about your experiences as a dominatrix and I feel like this is what would help me reclaim my power and dark feminine. I am tired of being a 'trad-wife' for 2 years for a man who could never deliver! I'm leaving to be a Dom lol

  • @allthingsiro
    @allthingsiro Рік тому +1

    Can you do an episode on where to find these men that are generous & loving?

  • @MarliisGaze
    @MarliisGaze 6 місяців тому +1

    The brain power! You honestly speak to me!

  • @GrungeGalactica
    @GrungeGalactica 10 місяців тому

    I’m so grateful for you and the other women I follow on here, teaching us stuff, that would’ve wasted us years of suffering & self doubt to learn for ourselves. At 28 I’m just now learning that I have so much inherent worth and value, and if others (men) can’t see that and respect me for all that I am; I need to calmly exude and reinforce the facts so it’s obvious to them. If that gives them the ick then they can filter themselves out. But also, most men aren’t worth my energy anyways, so I can pour all that back into myself 🥰

  • @jemsypeacecastillo9797
    @jemsypeacecastillo9797 Рік тому +1

    Te amo! Gracias 🫶🏾

  • @sheiswildlyfree7319
    @sheiswildlyfree7319 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for this. Your work is so important.

  • @maisieheracleous4
    @maisieheracleous4 Рік тому +3

    Listening to you is making me realise I ain’t ever gonna find a decent man again 😂

    • @teagoldleaf4137
      @teagoldleaf4137 Рік тому +5

      That's awesome because it means you won't be wasting your precious blessed time anymore ❤🌷

  • @piperlewis5533
    @piperlewis5533 Рік тому +1

    First one here! Loyal fan!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @goodnessb.4808
    @goodnessb.4808 Рік тому +2

    i concur with 100% what youve shared here...

  • @theprettyeffect
    @theprettyeffect Рік тому +1

    Me wait hold on I think I love you😅❤ lol that event definitely sounds interesting but girl I love watching your videos. You’re definitely a 💎 What is your sign?

    • @teagoldleaf4137
      @teagoldleaf4137 Рік тому +1

      Sagittarius, with Gemini moon and venus in scorpio

  • @trachbeba3488
    @trachbeba3488 Рік тому +1

    I adore you ❤

  • @krupam.v7911
    @krupam.v7911 Рік тому +1

    I love you

  • @Notme6783
    @Notme6783 6 місяців тому

    😍😍😍😍😍

  • @attica-m7z
    @attica-m7z Рік тому

    hiiii would you ever be interested in doing an episode on side chicks or being "the other woman" and third party situations in a relationship?or cheaters? for context im seeing a man with a babymama who is also his girlfriend. he cheats on her with me. i know ive been too forgiving with him!! i would just love some advice and insight on what to do with this player. also im just interested to hear your thoughts on cheaters and the twisted dynamic and psyche of men who cheat and dont care. i am curious about your take on why women stay with cheaters.

  • @angela.6273
    @angela.6273 Рік тому +1

    girl I did that whole ‘paragraph’ thing not because I want him to grovel , just because I like to run my mouth and have the last word. I think he’s scum and I let him know 💯🙏🏼 he didn’t respond because he didn’t want to get ROASTED anymore

    • @plumenommershpadoinkle7575
      @plumenommershpadoinkle7575 Рік тому +5

      no he didnt respond because he got what he wanted. he got a reaction out of you & knows youre pressed

  • @xicanayork
    @xicanayork 9 місяців тому +3

    Coming back and watching all of these videos again 🙂‍↔️🫶❤️‍🔥freed myself of a man and I feel less anxious and happy!