I tend to get so intense with my special interests and go into info dumping mode too. I used to do that A LOT when I was younger but in time I realized people didn't like that so I (almost) completely stopped. Sometimes I still do that with some people but it's rare. However I do that ALL the time with my poor boyfriend. But he lets me so it's on him too I guess 😂 I love him ❤ I also recently started to do that on purpose when I don't want to talk or keep talking to someone and don't want to be rude by cutting them off so I just info dump them and it works wonders 🤭
What you’re doing for Women with Autism is fantastic. Sorry to double comment bomb ‘ya, but yeah dude, you’re definitely a really valuable person in this community on YT. I hope you get back into making videos, but I understand burnouts, and just life in general. Thought I’d give you a little motivation though, because if you had a good following I’m tellin’ ‘ya it would really help keep you to want to make more videos. At least it did for me (Kinda)
At no2 I thought about my wife and how wonderful she’s coping with her trauma-she asks our boys for 30 min alone time after work, and then they do stuff together- it’s has become “routine”. #3 - I don’t think we should worry about telling what we think is wrong, but how to do it without “bullying” people,and not to gaslight ourselves into oblivion afterwards. ❤
I had a similar experience to your desire to right a wrong that was about 20 years ago. I was working as a server and someone accused me of stealing their cash tip off their table, as well as calling one of the other servers a "b****". I DIDN'T! One of the other servers shoved me in the back room accusing me of stealing tips and I was beside myself. I also told the other girl that I never called her any names, I actually liked her and it broke my heart that someone said that! And she just rolled her eyes at me and didn't believe me. To this day it still bothers me because it was absolutely not true. Not even something that generated from a kernel of truth that I could kind of understand how it got exaggerated along the way... No! None of it happened not even remotely. And I still lie awake thinking about it and wanting to find those people and tell them I didn't do those things.
Hello there, I just found your channel, decided to sub. Im also Autistic/ADHD, and I definitely can relate to you being picked on for being naive. It was a common thing for us to be easy targets in school, because we didn't understand societal norms much, and tend to stand out and be different, and that made us easy targets. Very good and informative video!!
yes, the crumbs, the hair, honey... the dishes clanking and microfiber😢. how about motorcycles, muscle cars, sirens and helicopters? im donating all my uncomfortable clothes.
@@AuthenticallyAlexis2023 i'm so excited! Thank you and never forget to do it your own way ❤️ people who feel connected will stay no matter how often or many videos will come - greetings and best wishes
(W) I'm laughing because my woo-woo type friends always said, "You look at me in my third eye, not my actual eyeballs."
Nicely done. It’s so good to have you sharing your experiences.
Thanks for watching!
@@AuthenticallyAlexis2023 thanks for being you.
Hearing “them all at the same volume” makes SO much sense.
Your struggles are so completely relatable to me. **empathetic AuDHD low five**
I tend to get so intense with my special interests and go into info dumping mode too. I used to do that A LOT when I was younger but in time I realized people didn't like that so I (almost) completely stopped. Sometimes I still do that with some people but it's rare.
However I do that ALL the time with my poor boyfriend. But he lets me so it's on him too I guess 😂 I love him ❤
I also recently started to do that on purpose when I don't want to talk or keep talking to someone and don't want to be rude by cutting them off so I just info dump them and it works wonders 🤭
We are so similar when it comes to traits, I can relate to everything!
Me too, it's incredible!! 😮
What you’re doing for Women with Autism is fantastic. Sorry to double comment bomb ‘ya, but yeah dude, you’re definitely a really valuable person in this community on YT. I hope you get back into making videos, but I understand burnouts, and just life in general. Thought I’d give you a little motivation though, because if you had a good following I’m tellin’ ‘ya it would really help keep you to want to make more videos. At least it did for me (Kinda)
Thank you for these comments!
At no2 I thought about my wife and how wonderful she’s coping with her trauma-she asks our boys for 30 min alone time after work, and then they do stuff together- it’s has become “routine”. #3 - I don’t think we should worry about telling what we think is wrong, but how to do it without “bullying” people,and not to gaslight ourselves into oblivion afterwards. ❤
I had a similar experience to your desire to right a wrong that was about 20 years ago. I was working as a server and someone accused me of stealing their cash tip off their table, as well as calling one of the other servers a "b****". I DIDN'T! One of the other servers shoved me in the back room accusing me of stealing tips and I was beside myself. I also told the other girl that I never called her any names, I actually liked her and it broke my heart that someone said that! And she just rolled her eyes at me and didn't believe me. To this day it still bothers me because it was absolutely not true. Not even something that generated from a kernel of truth that I could kind of understand how it got exaggerated along the way... No! None of it happened not even remotely. And I still lie awake thinking about it and wanting to find those people and tell them I didn't do those things.
i’m mad for you, fren
Wow, ths explains so much! Thank you, Alexis!
Brilliant video - thanks for sharing 😁
I love your tattoos. Thank you for sharing your experiences.
Also an autistic mum homeschooling 😊
Hello there, I just found your channel, decided to sub.
Im also Autistic/ADHD, and I definitely can relate to you being picked on for being naive. It was a common thing for us to be easy targets in school, because we didn't understand societal norms much, and tend to stand out and be different, and that made us easy targets.
Very good and informative video!!
yes, the crumbs, the hair, honey... the dishes clanking and microfiber😢. how about motorcycles, muscle cars, sirens and helicopters? im donating all my uncomfortable clothes.
Uuuhg yes! Those are hard to handle as well!
I always wet the qtip before putting it in my ear, cant deal with a dry one, but when wet no sound and doesnt feel horrible
You’ve got 4 kids … is it easy for you to have eye contact with babies when you nurse/take care of THEM .. 🤔🤗
Hope you are okay! (Not to put presure on you, just because of your plans for growing the channel and than no more videos.) Take care ❤
Thank you! I’m finally planning to come back with a new video soon!
@@AuthenticallyAlexis2023 i'm so excited! Thank you and never forget to do it your own way ❤️ people who feel connected will stay no matter how often or many videos will come - greetings and best wishes