Coming out to my Parents on a Reality Tv Show - LIVE REACTION

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  • Опубліковано 2 жов 2024
  • I came out to my parents and captured the whole thing as if I was on a reality TV show.
    It was difficult at times but after 5 months of hard work I finally finished it, and I am so proud. It would mean the entire world to me, if you could hit that share button, and share the love and message I am trying to send in this video. You have no idea how much it helps me.
    Again, I have to say a huge thank you to the amazing people that helped me on this journey including Alberto who spurred me on and Kieran who wrote/ performed the most beautiful music that you hear.
    Thank you to everyone who featured in the video and didn't mind me broadcasting their beautiful faces to the entire world.
    A special thank you to my Mum and Dad who have let me share the personal and intimate moment with you guys.
    !PLEASE LIKE AND SHARE!
    ALL MUSIC USED:
    - Vibe With Me by Joakim Karud / joakimkarud
    - Music provided by Audio Library • Vibe With Me - Joakim ...
    - Whitesand - forever -- • Happy Sad Piano Music ...
    - Lorde Instrumental, (CF) • Lorde - The Love Club ...
    - Original Piece written by Kieran Williams

КОМЕНТАРІ • 103

  • @JohnnyGurnett
    @JohnnyGurnett  6 років тому +10

    GUYS, I am doing a Q and A soon surrounding my sexuality. ANY QUESTIONS LEAVE THEM BELOW! 💓

    • @donaldstanfield8862
      @donaldstanfield8862 6 років тому

      Has being gay at uni had effects both positive and negative in your experience?

    • @willpower6638
      @willpower6638 6 років тому

      Johnny Gurnett simply beautifull vid joy & blessings on your family

    • @angelscinta4385
      @angelscinta4385 6 років тому +1

      Johnny Gurnett you have great parents.

  • @adamapple3006
    @adamapple3006 6 років тому +37

    I hate when people say 'are you sure' like nah I've just spent literally years having the thought of telling you this tear me up internally for the bantz lol xoxo

  • @tombrooks5933
    @tombrooks5933 6 років тому +10

    the most beautiful and calm coming out video i've ever seen.

  • @allans1013
    @allans1013 3 роки тому +1

    My hart melded when you told your mom and I was scared and afraid when you told your dad and when he accepted you I felt happy for you

  • @rafaelfleitas5038
    @rafaelfleitas5038 6 років тому +13

    Congratulations Johnny, for you did what I just never dared to do and at this time, it's kind of late for me, because I am already on my way to my 74th birthdate and both my parents have passed. Good for you my boy and just bear in mind that you have to take a lot of care of yourself and be responsible. I loved your video.

  • @paulmcmichael7157
    @paulmcmichael7157 6 років тому

    Seriously. You won the internet. Editing like a Netflix pro. Funny. Poignant. Informative. Too good for just youtube. 889 subs? Come on, hit subscribe.

  • @amyleethirty3
    @amyleethirty3 6 років тому +14

    Beautiful video ♥

    • @SavyerXo
      @SavyerXo 6 років тому

      OMG I love you so much

  • @TheCynedd
    @TheCynedd 6 років тому +7

    Good video, John.

  • @davidashmore1049
    @davidashmore1049 6 років тому +2

    Johnny, first let me say this is the BEST Coming Out video I have seen. And I have seen a lot of videos. You did a great job editing and narrating your story. You have a unique and wonderful way of creating your videos.
    Now I have to also say that you are Gorgeous! You are so attractive both physically and with your personality. I have subscribed and set my notification to on. Looking forward to following your journey.

  • @stephanlaufs8651
    @stephanlaufs8651 6 років тому +6

    To be proud, is the essential topic. Sorry for my rather bad English. Stephan from Germany.

  • @larissainaction
    @larissainaction 5 років тому

    this made me cry

  • @itshaymusic
    @itshaymusic 6 років тому +1

    Johnny, I love the message and style of your videos! Keep up the great work!

  • @beingjxy9195
    @beingjxy9195 6 років тому +1

    this video was amazingly edited and very well put together, so happy for you :)

  • @AndrewMefford
    @AndrewMefford 6 років тому

    So happy for you! Oh and that British accent always makes me simply melt.

  • @oliviaprosser868
    @oliviaprosser868 6 років тому +1

    This is so inspiring and touching! Such an amazing video 💗 Why am I crying in the club right now ❣️❣️

  • @92jar
    @92jar 6 років тому +3

    To anyone thinking of coming out. Please when you feel safe come out the community is here for you. It is so liberating too finally be yourself!!!!! 😀😀😀😀😀😀😀🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈 And when you do welcome to the lgbtqa community/famliy!!!

  • @DemianDs
    @DemianDs 6 років тому +9

    i loved your video, i loved the way you did make your own reality show, it is funny and emotional too,
    you re awesome and very brave
    p.s. you have a beautiful family

    • @JohnnyGurnett
      @JohnnyGurnett  6 років тому +1

      Demian Ds HD Thank you so much!! ♥️

  • @looneytunes5590
    @looneytunes5590 6 років тому +2

    I SUPPORT YOU AND I'M A CHRISTIAN LATINA😊

  • @gregpaschal4263
    @gregpaschal4263 6 років тому +1

    Your video was so amazing awesome

  • @charliefunboy5210
    @charliefunboy5210 6 років тому +3

    Simply a perfect coming out video on sooooo many levels. Congratulations. Continue being yourself and you will be just fine. You are an inspiration.

  • @calvindavis3641
    @calvindavis3641 6 років тому +3

    Absolutely loved the editing in this video with the family pics as you talked to you mum. Great work there.

  • @KAPPIEY
    @KAPPIEY 6 років тому +4

    Johnny I was surprised that I was one of the lucky few you told at the beginning. I just want to let you know that I love you unconditionally. I will fight for you always! Your sexual orientation does not define you. You still are one of my closest friends at home - I don't have many 🤷 I wish I was closer to you as a friend but life got in the way and so did university! you are loved dearly, if you don't know, I am so happy that you are at peace with yourself maybe for the first time ever.
    Love you loads,
    your almost favourite
    Jack.

  • @cameroncloseted9972
    @cameroncloseted9972 6 років тому +1

    Impressive video, in multiple ways. The thought, effort, production and editing are better than 99.9% of the many hundreds of coming out videos I've seen.
    The ignorance of your father's initial reaction really annoyed me. Clearly he has a lot to learn. Fortunately, he has you to educate him!

  • @smoothcriminal6622
    @smoothcriminal6622 6 років тому +1

    I loved this video

  • @TheSmilecamera
    @TheSmilecamera 6 років тому +2

    Great vid Johnny. And the love for your family really shows. Great family photos. Were the pictures from prints? I get so afraid that zillions of family digital pictures will get lost in wonderland and never get downloaded. (Wow, how’d I get off on that tangent??). Again, great going and it shows A LOT of work went into your video. 👍🏻👍🏻👀

  • @thatsolevihayqueenz1660
    @thatsolevihayqueenz1660 6 років тому +1

    My mum said the same thing to me when I came out to her are u sure that you haven't found the right girl

  • @siddharth7860
    @siddharth7860 2 роки тому

    I m dead laughing when he said "what the hell Martin" 😂😂😂
    And the questions his mom asked him after he told his mother about himself were the exact same question my mom asked😂

  • @larawagner2838
    @larawagner2838 5 років тому +2

    This is adorable, I’ve literally got tears in my eyes 🤧 you should be so proud of yourself! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @JohnnyGurnett
      @JohnnyGurnett  5 років тому

      omg Lara!!! Thank you so much, that means a lot!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @MorganKellyReact
    @MorganKellyReact 6 років тому +1

    I enjoyed this video! also as a media student, loved the editing ;) haha

  • @jessicafashionlover2148
    @jessicafashionlover2148 3 роки тому

    father isnt really ok casue after he told him he gay dad said are you sure? then your still
    young you might meet someone meaning a woman noone can turn a gay person staright or striaght person gay either you
    are or your not and just becasue a person gay theres no rules you cant find someone attractive

  • @philipperichard5756
    @philipperichard5756 6 років тому +1

    Don’t give up man :)

  • @madelyvries2095
    @madelyvries2095 6 років тому +1

    How does one add a 100 likes to your vid!!

  • @yourwisecousinjoe8841
    @yourwisecousinjoe8841 6 років тому

    Your parents doesn't know you are gay?? I can smell that miles away.

  • @rome71ad
    @rome71ad 5 років тому

    Not cringe at all! Thank you for making this video!!!

  • @tylernorth5441
    @tylernorth5441 6 років тому +1

    I’m 14 And I think I’m gay. But I’m scared. Like really scared. All my life I feel like I have been pushed by my parents, family, my peers and society to be straight. I’ve been told that it’s not normal to be anything other than straight. But as time went on I began to notice that I was starting to have feelings for boys instead of girls. I kept shaking off the feeling but it kept getting stronger. I now realize after all this time that I might be gay. But I am scared to death that I am gay. I’m scared I’ll be disowned by my parents, and my friends and people around me won’t like me anymore. I don’t know what to do... I just feel like I need help or something for someone and I don’t know how to ask.

    • @donaldstanfield8862
      @donaldstanfield8862 6 років тому

      Tyler North Consider first your personal safety, especially if you live in an area that punishes lgbt people and/or you think you might be put out of your home.

    • @zrp8y23
      @zrp8y23 6 років тому

      Tyler, Google "help for Lgbt teens". This will you lots of info on finding and getting help and support. Being gay is not abnormal and gay people are not broken and don't need fixing. There is an enormous amount of love and support out there for Lgbt youths. Please take advantage of it as it will help you until the time you feel you will be safe coming out.

  • @jal2885
    @jal2885 3 роки тому

    Great video and well done for having the conference and braveness to come out

  • @liam-jamesmcallister7545
    @liam-jamesmcallister7545 6 років тому +1

    Great video 👍❤

  • @robertgrant7297
    @robertgrant7297 6 років тому +1

    Good on you Johnny for coming out to your Parents, I'm glad that it turned out so great for you. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, may 2018 be kind to you and bring unto you lots of great things. Take care and stay safe my Brother. 🌈❤👍😁🙋🇦🇺

  • @adammeehan3733
    @adammeehan3733 6 років тому

    It was wrong of your sisters to say anything to them without telling you

  • @Rebecca-d01
    @Rebecca-d01 6 років тому +1

    You’re so funny and entertaining to watch😂

  • @stevvewithtwovs2538
    @stevvewithtwovs2538 6 років тому +3

    That spider tho

  • @lyralol8964
    @lyralol8964 6 років тому

    No vas a entender esto, pero eres GENIAL (la próxima vez que vengas a España vente a Cantabria 😂)
    Tienes pocos subscriptores, eres increíble. Keep it up! 💓

  • @fitnesswolver
    @fitnesswolver 6 років тому

    You have friends no too easy be gay is you life i coming you fan

  • @amandaquinn6741
    @amandaquinn6741 3 роки тому

    a wonderful mum. what did his dad say! welldone dad.

  • @ritualgglizzer9468
    @ritualgglizzer9468 5 років тому

    Ur 700th like :)

  • @MichaelJones123
    @MichaelJones123 6 років тому +1

    Wonderful video and a wonderful family. So proud that all of you are my relatives

  • @louisebian9399
    @louisebian9399 6 років тому +1

    I went to school with your sister Emily, this video is so great. Brill editing too, subscribed 🌈💕

  • @SunesonEdits
    @SunesonEdits 6 років тому +2

    Wow Johnny I loved it, so well made

  • @thingaboutit441
    @thingaboutit441 6 років тому +1

    I'm 14 years old and I think I'm prepared to talk whit my family that I'm gay.
    Should I wait a little longer to tell them or should I tell them right now?

    • @JohnnyGurnett
      @JohnnyGurnett  6 років тому

      AqUeLe_homen_atraz do vide0 a really interesting question!! This might not seem helpful but it is totally up to you! Only you can decide when you definitely know and you’re definitely ready to tell the world. Make sure you are happy with yourself!

    • @thingaboutit441
      @thingaboutit441 6 років тому

      Johnny Gurnett thank you!

  • @lpssunnyofficial4069
    @lpssunnyofficial4069 6 років тому

    999 what’s your emergency

  • @libbyloves1535
    @libbyloves1535 6 років тому +1

    This is a beautiful video love!! ❤️ Shod be so proud. Xx

  • @democraticpatriot2657
    @democraticpatriot2657 6 років тому +1

    love this video!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @lpssunnyofficial4069
    @lpssunnyofficial4069 6 років тому

    Me. Mum in gayyyyy
    Mum. Okii

  • @sachinbhopalmyers
    @sachinbhopalmyers 6 років тому +3

    Love this video. Do you have any advice about coming out cause I want to come out as gay.

    • @92jar
      @92jar 6 років тому

      Sachin Vlogs just come out when your ready the world is way more accepting then you ever can imagine!!!🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀 And you will gain amazing chosen famliy as well..

    • @lukaswilliam97
      @lukaswilliam97 6 років тому

      Good luck 🏳️‍🌈 you just tell them. They will appreciate your sincerity. Do it when you’re all together. So you could take that as a memory, which in the future you will take for granted. Like on a vacation or whatsoever. Do you have any siblings (you feel fine telling them)? I can tell, that 9/10 times they Do have at least one acquaintance that’s gay or lesbian so they’ll be more familiar with that than, depending on what kinda parents you have (religious, conservative, macho).
      Your heart tells you when it’s the right moment.
      😎 you can do this 💪🏽

    • @lukaswilliam97
      @lukaswilliam97 6 років тому

      And you’re not an alien 👽
      So when they tell you “we want you to be safe” of course we know what that means, but that doesn’t mean you’re any different. Lol. Straight people could catch any STD too. So that’s stupid. 😜
      But the nervousness you’re feeling is just now ;)

  • @itzzzzJule
    @itzzzzJule 5 років тому

    15:38 first signs

  • @emmettallen5989
    @emmettallen5989 4 роки тому

    Ahhh your cute

  • @robertaverill936
    @robertaverill936 3 роки тому

    Well done..

  • @stefanomarani3645
    @stefanomarani3645 6 років тому +1

    SUCH GREAT PARENTS. OMGGGGGG

  • @alexcuthbert2607
    @alexcuthbert2607 6 років тому

    It was a good video I just didn't like when the dad talked about him not having children or being the last gurnett or whatever because if my dad said that to me it would kinda make me feel upset like i've disappointed the family but then again I still have two older brothers soo..

  • @lpssunnyofficial4069
    @lpssunnyofficial4069 6 років тому

    Oh no

  • @alexmae246
    @alexmae246 6 років тому +1

    You’re in inspiration 💕

  • @AaronSaltzer
    @AaronSaltzer 6 років тому

    Idk. I think it's hard to tell if someone's not straight. That's when Science comes in.

  • @LexxiLuna
    @LexxiLuna 5 років тому

    u deserve more subs

  • @keilahvisscher1529
    @keilahvisscher1529 6 років тому

    I’ve just found your channel and you deserve WAY more subscribers than you have. Be proud of your content👍👍👍

  • @lpssunnyofficial4069
    @lpssunnyofficial4069 6 років тому

    Ohhhhh Gay Bows yea queen

  • @jacoblefevre430
    @jacoblefevre430 6 років тому

    2:30 how much ice do you need in a glass 😂🤪🙃

  • @harryreeves3051
    @harryreeves3051 6 років тому +1

    such an icon

  • @mikesmith7324
    @mikesmith7324 6 років тому

    Im 45 and my parents dont know. I cant tell them. good for you!

  • @MiaVlogz
    @MiaVlogz 6 років тому +1

    so much love❤️xx

  • @kaseysnell9589
    @kaseysnell9589 6 років тому +1

    So proud of you 💙

  • @djwashington8509
    @djwashington8509 6 років тому

    Great editing man, your gonna go Darin this!!!

  • @isabelahidalgo2632
    @isabelahidalgo2632 6 років тому

    You are so brave, congratulations

  • @Michael_in_Vt
    @Michael_in_Vt 6 років тому

    Save your time, coming out is at 8:48 into it

  • @VikiAngel111
    @VikiAngel111 6 років тому +1

    You made me cry 😭

  • @FirstMomentsOf
    @FirstMomentsOf 6 років тому

    Oh boy, he is so my type 😍😍

  • @amyxsmall8762
    @amyxsmall8762 6 років тому +1

    ❤️

  • @ronniecaron6827
    @ronniecaron6827 6 років тому +1

    If I was a sitcom writer, I would rip off this entire video. Yes, I'd change some things and add some..I think you would have had a better reaction from your mom, if, while standing there with your pink phone and pink jumper, and said ""mom, I'm straight"!!! "She would reply "are you sure of that Johnny"??????..."you, thinking you're straight, might be a phase you're going through"""!!!!!.."give it some time and you will probably grow out of it"!!! Haha........Your dads reaction, would have been (in the sitcom) "don't you think, for the sake of our family name, you could STRAIGHTEN UP and bang out a few kids with your highschool sweetheart, then go back, to whering pink and bright yellow"?.?? Your reaction (in the sitcom) "dad, this the 21st century, it won't be long before science finds a way so that boy's can have babies"!!!!! His remark about" some gays are bizarre and kinky" was priceless!!! Your response (in my sitcom) would be "dad, I am bizarre and kinky..….your such a typical straight guy, they don't notice anything"""!!!.....I hope you take this as fun.,....I watched
    your video twice and almost fell out of my chair.....you are awesome..I suscribed...have a wonderful, happy, healthy New Year and best of luck at uni...

  • @sexykjetil
    @sexykjetil 2 роки тому

    Just in case you do meet a girl that change your mind, there are aspects of the heterosexuals community that are quite kinky.
    Like once I got invited to champagne and caviar, and naive me was thinking I just scored a rich couple here.....
    Before we was going to meet they did explain what "champagne and caviar" was, good lord straight people are freaky!!!
    But luckily there's hope that your dad might meet a guy that changes he's mind, so you can save him from that madness!

  • @violabonesu2270
    @violabonesu2270 6 років тому +1

    I genuinely want to say this is such a great video, I really like you from what I see here: the way you present yourself, how your organised the story, the character that emerges from what you show... This is the first video I see from you and I decided to subscribe. (You're also great at filming/editing, in fact I thought you had more followers!) Aaand sooo, great job, I'm proud of you ❤

    • @JohnnyGurnett
      @JohnnyGurnett  6 років тому

      Viola Bonesu Thank you so much Viola! That really means so much to me! ♥️ I hope you like the rest of my content too 😄

    • @violabonesu2270
      @violabonesu2270 6 років тому

      Johnny Gurnett I'll explore them now ;)