Is it Okay to Go Through Your Spouse's Phone?

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  • @beefypanda88
    @beefypanda88 3 роки тому +67

    Tbh I have never tried or cared to check my significant other's phone, regardless of insecurity. I've always seem it as it's not my property I have no right to go through their messages, emails, accounts etc. Also I've always understood the fact of the matter is you could police your partner's phone all you want they can still cheat or find someone new regardless how much you snoop. It's a lot of wasted energy tbh

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  • @nicolerojas1927
    @nicolerojas1927 Рік тому +5

    listen, it is normal to have insecurities. my man and i have an open door policy. he can go through my phone and i can go through his. the goal is to stay together forever and we're not perfect people. sometimes we need that reassurance and that's ok.

    • @johncoviello8570
      @johncoviello8570 10 місяців тому +3

      Exactly! My wife was apologizing for going through my phone. I just said no problem, if that’s what you need to do to feel comfortable and reassured, then I’m happy you did.

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  • @matthewcanfield6748
    @matthewcanfield6748 2 роки тому +12

    My wife was showing me a pic on her phone when it somehow went to her text log. There was a man's pic and msg in it and as soon ad I seen it, my stomach knotted up...I just knew there is something there. We made an agreement several years ago that if one of us ever wanted to see the others phone. we would give it immediately. I've always let her have full access to mine, but she will never let me in hers I asked her when this happened, and she refused. I seperated from her and filed for divorce about a year ago, but thought we might be able to save it. I feel like a sucker. I'm going to finish the divorce

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  • @drewdude8868
    @drewdude8868 5 років тому +27

    This lady is ignorant and has zero qualifications to speak about relationships. Marriage counseling 101 TRANSPARENCY is essential. Nobody should ever have to tolerate a spouse that keeps things from them.

    • @she_sings_delightful_things
      @she_sings_delightful_things 5 років тому +4

      Agreed 100%

    • @johnwilson5248
      @johnwilson5248 4 роки тому

      Okay answer me this if they didn't deny you access to their phone how often would you check it when letting you have access to their phone make you think differently or would you still say something else is up

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    • @brittaniharold1880
      @brittaniharold1880 4 роки тому

      @@neldalaw7369 is your partner your lover or your child?

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      @neldalaw7369 4 роки тому

      @@brittaniharold1880 is my partner lover

  • @lilhank1995
    @lilhank1995 Рік тому +7

    What if you have suspicions and you check their phone and your right about your suspicions?

    • @Rickdawgx
      @Rickdawgx 2 місяці тому +1

      It doesn't matter if he was right with the suspicious or not the point is you shouldn't be going through another person's phone

    • @mattjtx93
      @mattjtx93 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Rickdawgxyeah bro, get cheated on and be blissfully ignorant to it.

  • @Idhrennielful
    @Idhrennielful 2 роки тому +5

    A better question is why would you have an issue with your partner going through your phone?

  • @arnobothma403
    @arnobothma403 9 місяців тому +3

    I started to have trust issues and anxiety after 18 years. Me andy wife always had a open relationship with our phones and we never had any reason to mistrusts each other. I had access to her phone and she to mine. Then all of a sudden she put a new screencode on and when I picked it up she she had her justifications but not one was really valid and she all of a sudden wanted her privacy. I started getting anxiety which I never new of and also trust issues. I was so focused on her strange actions all of a sudden with her phone that if affected my communication with her. I don't know if im paranoid but this brought some emotions out of me which I thought never existed. To be honest it broke me mentally and emotionally.

  • @Darventure33
    @Darventure33 4 роки тому +6

    It’s more like. I’m protecting my heart. I see it as he keeps yanking his phone from me and then fights with me about it. So how am I supposed to go on with that? I don’t like that. And he’s telling me he has privet conversation with his best friend that’s a girl. So yeah how am I supposed to trust that. But I see it as. Hey I’ve been hurt if you got nothing to hide let me and he won’t. So idk wtf that’s supposed of mean. But I know for sure that I’m only protecting myself by going through his phone. I don’t like being hurt so going through his phone would give me more trust with him. I still trust him but I think it’s protecting myself and my heart.

    • @beefypanda88
      @beefypanda88 3 роки тому +4

      Why not break up, if someone makes you feel insecure and the only way you can trust them is going on the low and searching the phone just to feel ok. Just break it

    • @justright6457
      @justright6457 3 роки тому +2

      He cheating point blank

    • @diving.deep.
      @diving.deep. 4 місяці тому

      Are you still with him ??

  • @ganeshshankar5781
    @ganeshshankar5781 4 роки тому +17

    I think it's okay for my partner to check my phone bcoz I don't have anything to hide! But with only one condition.. Having maturity and the person should be able to differentiate between betrayal/cheating and my Friendship with others... If not, I definitely wouldn't suggest

  • @tashawilliams8093
    @tashawilliams8093 3 роки тому +23

    Checking phones can cause your feelings to be hurt. For instance you might find texts from others about you that you don't like.

  • @saurabhbhargava4917
    @saurabhbhargava4917 4 роки тому +13

    Trust builds over time.
    Yes, you should check each other's phone or enjoy your life separately.

    • @homerdadon6363
      @homerdadon6363 2 роки тому +3

      why should you need to check a phone, that sounds like a controlling person that wants their partner in a damn cage...

  • @bponce26
    @bponce26 6 років тому +26

    I definitely don’t trust my husband at the moment. He has given me reasons to check his phone. I don’t want to played. I’m having a hard time trusting him. I don’t know what to do. Part of me wants to leave him because I don’t trust him but part of me wants to stay and work things out.

    • @a675432100
      @a675432100 6 років тому +1

      Stay and work things out. Going out is never the best option, until you have solid evidence. However, most of the time, your sixth senses will tell you the truth, about if something is happening. Watch videos on youtube about how to know when your spouse is cheating. Those signs will help you settle down in your approach.

    • @truckingwithtobee
      @truckingwithtobee 4 роки тому

      Brenda P I’m having the same issues. Let’s talk🙋🏼‍♀️ayalatransport@hotmail.com

    • @ms.williams6907
      @ms.williams6907 4 роки тому

      Brenda P then fucking leave.

    • @brittaniharold1880
      @brittaniharold1880 4 роки тому +1

      Then why stay?

    • @brittaniharold1880
      @brittaniharold1880 4 роки тому

      @@truckingwithtobee so why are you still married?

  • @huyonwilliams8607
    @huyonwilliams8607 2 роки тому +2

    i have never felt the need to go through my girlfriends phone. she has two and they both on silent most of the time. i asked her about it. and she said its because of her notifications. i did not believe her, but gave her the benefit of doubt and left it at that. after a few weeks she admitted to going through my phone which i dont hide and she has the password to i my add. she pulled me up on a conversation i had about her with a close friend of the family. out of respect i want say what the conversation was about but, just that i needed outside advise. nothing bad was said in the message. it was just advise about a sensitive subject to do with my partner at the time. my point is i felt all the trust i had for her went with that. to me it felt like she wanted a reason to cheat or have an issue with me..

  • @shodan198
    @shodan198 2 роки тому +1

    Openness honesty and transparency is the key while I shouldn't go though it constely there shouldn't be an issue

  • @johnnyglass1006
    @johnnyglass1006 5 років тому +66

    If you do it you have trust issues

    • @thescapegoatmechanism8704
      @thescapegoatmechanism8704 5 років тому +11

      Johnnylee Glass but what if you actually find something?

    • @lasnenastv6811
      @lasnenastv6811 5 років тому +4

      Ok so what if I was looking at pics because he has the oldest baby pics on his phone so I was reminiscing when he saw me he immediately began to act suspect🤔 I never wanted to go thru his phone but he sparked a doubt by his actions. And now I tease him to grab his phone and he jumps up to stop me like really? That's suspect, I dont care if he goes thru my phone so yeah it all depends not saying he's cheating but yet he's acting suspect.

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    • @AwesomeSauceToys21
      @AwesomeSauceToys21 4 роки тому +4

      Ana I don’t understand why it’s not okay? If they have nothing to hide then what’s the big deal? I have no problem with them checking mine. I knew a friend who went years without knowing her husband had an affair. if you want to be oblivious and waste time with someone that is cheating on you go ahead.

  • @jah3053
    @jah3053 4 роки тому +4

    How do you find out if there is a betrayal?

  • @brothsipper-h5o
    @brothsipper-h5o 3 роки тому +1

    Ok everyone in this comment section is just wrong, you ever heard of privacy? Like just talk to them if you’re feeling insecure.

  • @mariaanavlog8041
    @mariaanavlog8041 5 місяців тому +1

    My husband didnt hide his phone and he let me check his phone but something is odd, he kept on deleting chat from a girl collegue, so what is that for?

  • @jillmeredith2012
    @jillmeredith2012 4 роки тому +12

    Marriage is whatever illusion you want it to be. Having said that...Yup. Do it. Why not? Chances are your hunches are correct. It took me too long to kick out my Borderline boyfriend and one thing that helped me understand how messed up he is was reading his correspondence with friends and past girlfriends. I quickly saw he had a pattern of BPD behavior....lying and checking out of reality. Indeed.
    If it were someone who I don't have a bad feeling about....then I wouldn't do it.

  • @nabilashaikh2997
    @nabilashaikh2997 5 років тому +10

    My husband checked my phone message and made an arguement that "I need to explain myself to him why he didn't know this". Even thought that message was texted before we met and got married. I am very mad at him because he didn't even apologize for his behavior but instead he blame me that I didn't tell him.

    • @thinkinsidetheboxsquarecir3303
      @thinkinsidetheboxsquarecir3303 4 роки тому +1

      He's a piece of shyt for that... practice the mirror effect.. show him why he was wrong for that!

    • @johnnymondragon3570
      @johnnymondragon3570 4 роки тому +2

      all you had to do was delete that out right before you got together. leaving it there raises a red flag. simple little things to do (delete) why wouldnt you erase makes the other feel insecure

    • @brittaniharold1880
      @brittaniharold1880 4 роки тому +2

      So you just let your husband control you

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      @carolmanning3299 2 роки тому

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  • @thescapegoatmechanism8704
    @thescapegoatmechanism8704 5 років тому +18

    But what if you find something?! That’s the question!

    • @andreabosley1669
      @andreabosley1669 5 років тому +10

      If you look you shall find. This is something that I always think of. Even if that "something" is innocent, it can be interpreted wrong. It's either best to trust or better to let go.

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      @neldalaw7369 4 роки тому

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    • @beefypanda88
      @beefypanda88 3 роки тому +1

      1st if your partner gives you feelings they may be cheating then address them if those feelings persist then state it and break up. A relationship without trust isn't a relationship and it will only cause further problems the more insecure you feel.

  • @La_br00tal_mija
    @La_br00tal_mija 2 роки тому +2

    She didnt at all explain how that means we dont trust ourselves....

  • @areionagarrett6718
    @areionagarrett6718 4 роки тому +3

    Checking their phone not gone stop them from cheating if they are it’s gone help them find better ways to cheat! I don’t check phones anything that happens in the dark will ALWAYS come out

  • @anjjpineda7402
    @anjjpineda7402 4 роки тому +10

    transparency is more important in a relationship.. it builds comforrt and trust...you are already become one when you got married...

  • @ms.williams6907
    @ms.williams6907 4 роки тому +3

    This very thing is what’s breaking my relationship. I, the woman, feel controlled . He waits until I go to sleep or I am intoxicated to have a field day in my phone. The moment I ASK to see his in person, his body language tells on him every time but I’m the one who’s cheating, right? It’s a form of control and leverage and it’s unhealthy and very annoying. Sometimes our perception isn’t reality and honestly, it’s torture being in an untrustworthy relationship.
    How many times does he have to go through my phone ? But you’re still here! I’m a horrible person but HES STILL HERE . Then it turned to controlling who I go out with, who I talk to, even criticizing my friends .....talking bad about women to me or listening to passive videos on UA-cam around me as if I cannot tell or hear the content is about me- pfft whatever.

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  • @carneyzx11
    @carneyzx11 5 років тому +35

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  • @georgeorwell2994
    @georgeorwell2994 3 роки тому +6

    I'm not cheating. I do have a son who is going through a tough time who I don't want to be left alienated. So at times I have not told my partner everything as it could cause more issues. My partner has checked my phone numerous times and I pretty much don't mind. But,I feel that if you look hard enough you will always find something to question especially if you're an untrusting person. So it ends up with multiple questions about things on my phone . For example, spam emails from old dating sites, rude messages from male friends. Yet if I confront her about similar things from her male friends she hits the roof and phones them up saying I'm accusing her of having an affair. Which I'm not. I'm just pointing out that she does similar things which I could be angry about but I'm actually ok with.
    Any response from a female perspective is welcome.

  • @giacomo1096
    @giacomo1096 Рік тому +1

    sent this to my gf, thx for the video

  • @SageRobinTalks
    @SageRobinTalks 3 роки тому +13

    Nailed it! I realised this in my 20s and was never interested. Trust is important as is privacy. If somethings going to happen, no amount of control will stop it. This communication you talk about has been most helpful in all areas of my life.

  • @psychologicalsiren5232
    @psychologicalsiren5232 4 роки тому +19

    The lady in this video is very inexperienced and clueless. She's conflating privacy with secrecy.
    All relationships need transparency with everything from the get go! Including being normal and open about phones.
    Trust me lady, many men are going to take full advantage of your sheer naivety.

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    • @brittaniharold1880
      @brittaniharold1880 4 роки тому

      Are they your kid or mate?You can't have it both ways

  • @motofrog3402
    @motofrog3402 4 роки тому +3

    Hey , straight up everyone. I'm married and not interested in other women. I am happy. However note , dont go through my phone because i actually dont want you to see how i talk to some of my friends. The thing is we are all our own person. I maneuver through life differently with different people. And i even would say i have a lil different personality around said person. Going through someones phone... sorry , but sometimes the way we attach ourselves to them. That can almost be like going inside someone's head. Not ok to do.

  • @ivycookingshow3385
    @ivycookingshow3385 2 місяці тому

    Hi this is Kimberly my boyfriend recently started taking his cell phone to the bathroom with him and making it where I cannot read his text messages what do you think about that

  • @MariaArriaga
    @MariaArriaga 2 роки тому +1

    Checking a spouses phone? Nothing wrong with it your married. Shouldn’t have anything to hide and it’s like if a woman is spreading her legs to you….I mean.

  • @rosbeyond6970
    @rosbeyond6970 6 років тому +9

    when they give you their passcode is it still okay to check their phone or not and if you check their phone and they are saying harsh things about you two other people but in front of you putting on a front like they really love you I think it should be okay to check a spouse's phone to find out the hidden truth of your spouse's feelings toward you. I just found out this last night when I checked my woman's phone come to find out she is disrespecting me to other people while I talk highly of her to everybody you have to show you can be trusted in front of them and behind their back and it's good to know the truth cuz I think they were hurt you more if you find out that they was lying the whole time so you tell me Ar-k!
    "Rosbeyond Rosbi Ozaki"

    • @johnwilson5248
      @johnwilson5248 4 роки тому

      Trust me it will eventually come out in person what they are doing is venting just like how people do in Diaries and take some time to get their thoughts together and sometimes make sure they're not blowing things out of proportion.

    • @johnwilson5248
      @johnwilson5248 4 роки тому

      Trust me it will eventually come out in person what they are doing is venting just like how people do in Diaries and take some time to get their thoughts together and sometimes make sure they're not blowing things out of proportion.

  • @akahn4945
    @akahn4945 2 місяці тому

    I think it is ok, for your spouse to look at your phone it should be in front of you. I do have a problem if my spouse goes behind me and goes in my phone.

  • @a675432100
    @a675432100 6 років тому +11

    There is no trust issue relating to checking your spouses phone. You should never assume that your spouse is an angel. There has be a policy of openness as part of boundery setting.

    • @johnwilson5248
      @johnwilson5248 4 роки тому

      Could you go deeper? Im still trying to find a non-biased answer that doesn't hit everybody in a personal spot ..

  • @Gigimolinaartist3952
    @Gigimolinaartist3952 Місяць тому

    My boyfriend scrolls through my notifications like im hiding something what do i do

  • @megantanguay9851
    @megantanguay9851 2 роки тому +1

    I only started going through my fiancé’s phone because of an incident.
    On his birthday sitting in our garage having a smoke and watching tv. I glance over at him while he is on his phone. He had a text open and I saw a picture of some girls legs in short shorts at her driver seat. I didn’t say or do anything and he immediately said “I don’t know who the fuck that is”
    Well a few days later I cracked and looked through his phone and found way to much. He was talking to many females for 12 months and had a few profiles made as well.
    Currently working through it and have gone to couples councilling. Been together for a little over 6 years now and have a little girl together

  • @cqualif
    @cqualif 2 роки тому +3

    Transparency equals trust. I don’t care about any other conversation than with the people flirting with you and how you’re responding to them. Flirt less, and there will be less phone checks. Both parties MUST be transparent.

  • @rosettemarshall3024
    @rosettemarshall3024 5 років тому +13

    I checked my husbands phone because my intuition told me he was cheating. I was right!

    • @Mar.x-r7s
      @Mar.x-r7s 5 років тому

      John philly?

    • @johnwilson5248
      @johnwilson5248 4 роки тому

      Yeah but even if you are right I can guarantee if somebody is up to no good they can get caught red-handed without having to invade their privacy is not always about if they are cheating or not sometimes it get can boil down to they have private conversations between family members that should be just between family there's endless reasons do not go through someone's phone without their permission at least let them know you're about to go through their phone they can hide whatever they want to but they can't hide how they act so just stay patient you will catch them red-handed anyways because now you're going to feel justified in going through everybody's phone and wonder why nobody wants to stay in that relationship just give it some time

    • @rosettemarshall3024
      @rosettemarshall3024 4 роки тому +4

      @@johnwilson5248 when you marry me, you have no privacy.

    • @neldalaw7369
      @neldalaw7369 4 роки тому

      I was able to track & monitor my partner's activities from a location entirely different from the mine using just my phone, all thanks to @hackerskydiver on Instagram for the installation.

    • @rosettemarshall3024
      @rosettemarshall3024 4 роки тому

      @Blue Kid I have nothing to hide. If I let him have sex with me, how much more into my privacy can he get???

  • @brownsugar5191
    @brownsugar5191 4 роки тому +1

    I’m a very curious person
    I ask my boyfriend if I can go through his phone..
    He freak out, and yell at me.
    So he never did.. on day I caught him with another woman, I took pictures and ask him about it the next day. He say that wasn’t him, it was a guy look like him 😂 I took clear pictures his face , her face, the kissing part and he denied it all... so I left....He contacted me because he needs money.. 😡

  • @justright6457
    @justright6457 3 роки тому +5

    If she hiding her phone she cheating bro straight facts 💯

  • @troyspain7073
    @troyspain7073 3 роки тому +1

    I got accused of cheating, my ex and our daughter are 8 hours away, I care for both of them deeply but we ran our course. We share a daughter! This is petty and shows red flags too me. And destructive.

  • @bahduh1
    @bahduh1 Рік тому

    I love only one my wife but if she always check my phone i feel hurt ....
    It's let me sometimes things my wife don't trust me ...
    Because always checking.

  • @jennyl.2689
    @jennyl.2689 4 роки тому +5

    A man should not let his wife feel she has to check his phone to begin with. Stop cheating and love the one you are with. If it never changes, move on. There are good people out in the world

  • @gabydaye21
    @gabydaye21 2 роки тому

    I have a question, I did go through my gf's phone once and found out she's talking badly about me infront if her friends while she's not saying any of these things to my face..
    So I decided not to talk about it and check if it's happen another time cause maybe she was just angry that day,, found out she does that casually and when I brought it up she started fighting me that I'm wrong for checking the phone but didn't say a word or apologized for what she was saying about me (which part of them was lies and the other part was sensitive/insecurity stuff i trusted her with)..
    PS: she's 38 years old and her bestfriends are 19-22 Years old.. and I'm 27..
    Can anyone help I'm just tryna understand because she even called me a narcissist and I'm tryna be self aware if that makes sense

  • @jll9697
    @jll9697 2 роки тому +1

    Its not ok.
    We all need some privacy.

  • @e24089
    @e24089 3 роки тому +1

    Felt stress free of checking spouse phone

  • @Joseph-k8n
    @Joseph-k8n Місяць тому

    If you are in a serious relationship, and your partner finds it hard to let u have their phones, it means they are having other affairs outside that relationship.

  • @shodan198
    @shodan198 6 років тому +14

    I think there should be openness tranceprancy in relationship it shouldn't be a problem either way no hidden things if u love ur partner shouldn't be. A problem

    • @c0d3x12
      @c0d3x12 6 років тому +3

      shodan dragon soo you think it should be okay to go through someone's personal things even though they did not permit you to?

  • @lizawork1093
    @lizawork1093 6 років тому +55

    Let them cheat and watch them suffer the consequences 😂

    • @onlyme6662
      @onlyme6662 6 років тому

      Liza Work ...you nailed it gf !!

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      @sandimarielavati2354 4 роки тому

      Have gained all access i needed to be convinced she wasn’t being faithful. It’s okay, there are always ups and downs in every relationship and also know that no relationship is perfect and thus not all
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    • @AwesomeSauceToys21
      @AwesomeSauceToys21 4 роки тому +1

      But the point is to catch them early on before it’s too late. Like before you guys sign a mortgage together, joint bank accounts and have KIDS.

    • @Sumsulsulsususj
      @Sumsulsulsususj 4 роки тому

      What so you like going through people's privacy which creates trust issues? Like that's sign of a toxic relationship if you dont trust your boyfriend that much just break up

  • @lornakellier982
    @lornakellier982 2 роки тому

    I went in my ex phone and i regret it to this day. I see him communicating with is ex with lot of love text .So what you dont know won't hurt you .He left me for his ex.I will never go back in any man that i am with phone

  • @mrs.liabletuhpostanythang4224
    @mrs.liabletuhpostanythang4224 2 роки тому

    Yes it is… if you’re married of course

  • @leopardrockssherrylemeille1192
    @leopardrockssherrylemeille1192 4 роки тому +2

    I trusted my first husband who never had a cell phone. Didn’t stop him from fkn someone but I still found out cus men are predictable and my gut knew he was screwing around so I divorced him

  • @bajo408
    @bajo408 3 роки тому +5

    Thank you for this video. Tonight I wanted to go through my wife’s phone due to a past issue. But your video spoke to me and has shown me that doing so would still show to her that I’d not trust her. I want to rebuild that trust and going through her phone would hinder that

  • @freddiecantdance2043
    @freddiecantdance2043 6 років тому +4

    Well me my phone is always open I mean I never locked or use password to unlock it so my GF always reading my messages and who's been calling me cause I had nothing to hide to her but I'm still a bad liar in a different manner especially in financial things..

  • @samalldredge3536
    @samalldredge3536 7 місяців тому

    She keeps saying that it's you that the issue lies with. You chose to stay in the relationship and you need to build it back up. That language isn't correct, the correct languages both people need to build it back up. And if you are still having these intuition and feelings after your partner betrayed you, then you and your partner together haven't done the work to build that trust back.

  • @doubtfuldreamer
    @doubtfuldreamer 3 роки тому

    the answer is yes

  • @drew1980ish
    @drew1980ish 3 роки тому +2

    1st off its boundary , anyone who does that is a red flag , should work on themselves

  • @ملاك-ح5م2ث
    @ملاك-ح5م2ث 5 років тому +7

    I don't check my boyfriend's phone and I don't like him to check mine, cuz I write some negative feelings and thoughts about him when I'm mad :)

  • @francescabucci3040
    @francescabucci3040 2 роки тому +4

    This is not the truth at all. There’s plenty of good loyal women like myself who trust themselves to the fullest. I never cheated in any of my relationships. But I tend to attract men who always do me dirty. Narcissists, liars, cheaters, etc.. Because a part of me wants to save them. Of course we all have our own insecurities but I can assure you 9 out of 10 it’s the Man giving you reasons to be insecure

  • @gilbertnolazco6998
    @gilbertnolazco6998 4 роки тому +4

    Why not agree to swap phones for a few days?

  • @Themarleymarie
    @Themarleymarie 3 роки тому +3

    And privacy ?.. in a relationship?.. how and why is that?.. you're supposed to share everything with them what form of 'privacy' do you speak of ?.. they don't need privacy isn't that the whole reason you have a partner to share all of yourself and everything with them ?

    • @smoothmentalitysmooth9226
      @smoothmentalitysmooth9226 3 роки тому +1

      i agree as a man 10/10 every relationship my partner was texting other people after a well. When in the beginning of the relationship we use to share each other phones social medias etc we were in love we felt like one until . 2 years later she told me her friends told her its wrong we share things it was a lie I caught her texting my close male friend behind my back he told me. Trust me from experience they are 10/10 cheating on you when they proclaim privacy

    • @brothsipper-h5o
      @brothsipper-h5o 3 роки тому +1

      @@smoothmentalitysmooth9226 Bro if they want privacy, let them have privacy, it doesn’t automatically mean they’re cheating on you, idiot.

  • @bleh2590
    @bleh2590 Рік тому

    Is crazy but even when i can , i don't check my spouse's phone but by letting him to check mine im called a liar, shady.... i think that the paranoic have to go to therapy first

  • @EYES2CU
    @EYES2CU 2 роки тому

    But she brings her past to a new relationship and well I got to cut and let go. It’s hard but I rather my sanity.

  • @tashawilliams8093
    @tashawilliams8093 4 роки тому +6

    I don't believe in checking phones because you surely ain't checking mine. I've always liked my privacy therefore I wouldn't invade his.

  • @26TptCoy
    @26TptCoy 4 роки тому +2

    i am a man and I have seen people doing this, discussing this and argue about. It's a personal item that belongs not to you so leave it alone. It's not yours, it's none of your business. If you cant trust the person you are with or have normal conversation with them then your relationship is doomed. If you have issues put them on the table for sensible discussion, dont throw them at each other.

  • @reactionpods8954
    @reactionpods8954 4 роки тому +1

    It’s not ok

  • @animation_king5644
    @animation_king5644 2 роки тому

    Whills_world, your content is so high quality. The field of cyber security is so saturated with grifters. But it seems like your very rarely miss. Your channel was an excellent find.

  • @RobertQuintero-j1q
    @RobertQuintero-j1q 3 місяці тому

    Great video! More Please!

  • @devin4329
    @devin4329 3 роки тому +4

    Going through their phone to validate your intuition is imperative because if it comes down to trusting a liar to tell you the truth you’ll end up looking like bad guy who was crazy and paranoid and lost a good man and you’ll end up believing that yourself .

  • @MyroneAmericaan
    @MyroneAmericaan 7 місяців тому

    What privacy?? Becoming one has nothing to do with privacy.. becoming one is having nothing to hide and nothing prive

  • @ericmartinez4869
    @ericmartinez4869 2 роки тому

    She check my phone once,and i asked her if i Can check hers and she said “no is my phone”. If this ok???

    • @SupaChupa64
      @SupaChupa64 2 роки тому

      Not a counselor, but that doesn’t seem healthy. It is something you should open a dialogue about.

  • @elcolin_
    @elcolin_ 9 місяців тому

    What about a potential double standard... the girl has gone through your phone... has reviewed almost 10yrs of like, Google Photo app history, sees your texts, sees your social media, asks for your password, expects complete transparancy on your part, but is extremely hesitant about showing you hers? But keeps telling you like, "Babe I just want you to trust me, you're the only man for me, I promise you, I want to feel comfortable to show you my phone I really do, but I just don't delete things and I don't want you getting mad about anything in the past" and you say, "yeah that's fine I'm not trying to judge you or care AT ALL about anything that happened (within reason) before you met me. What I care about is what's CURRENTLY happening. Who's CURRENTLY "sliding in your DMs" and who's messaging you that you're not telling me about?" - because ever since we started dating, it's like every week there's a new guy either some random stranger or some dude she used to talk to or might have dated before re-hitting her up seeing what's up and she gives the "haha sorry I have a boyfriend!" response?

  • @marshallduke1728
    @marshallduke1728 2 роки тому

    Nah wrong. If a woman breaches my trust then says it won't happen again, I have to know if it will or won't. That way I'll know how to deal with the situation. Leave or stay. I'm not about wasting time.

  • @prettydoll8690
    @prettydoll8690 2 роки тому +2

    I trust not to be stupid! Lmao

  • @essiesdancevidsandtravels6917
    @essiesdancevidsandtravels6917 4 роки тому

    One cheap way to find stuff put is through an app called What's can WhatsApp Web.... U need a few mins of access to his phone bc u will need to use it to scan in signing into your side of the Whatscan WhatsApp Web app

  • @mngo10
    @mngo10 5 років тому +13

    Thank you for a sane logical point of view....very rare...and DEEPLY Appreciated..!!

    • @jennyaverydfwrealestate-ex6218
      @jennyaverydfwrealestate-ex6218 4 роки тому +1

      This is some of THE WORST relationship advice I’ve ever heard. Transparency is a core value that builds trust in a relationship and should always be a priority in a healthy relationship.

  • @iwinzeazy
    @iwinzeazy 18 днів тому

    Or when they really don't want to see the phone but to start an argument lol, if you let them see it they will make a big deal out of nothing and if you say no you make it easier for them🇺🇸

  • @kathyle949
    @kathyle949 6 років тому +6

    This channelis so under rated!! I love this channel so much❤️

  • @tashafaith3713
    @tashafaith3713 7 років тому +18

    While I don’t think it’s okay or acceptable to go through your SO’s phone, I have crossed that boundary a few times myself ... the way you explained it makes perfect sense! I needed to hear that, and I also need to take hold of that responsibility and heal from past mistakes both parties have made years and years ago 🙂

    • @Theladiescoach
      @Theladiescoach  7 років тому +2

      Thank you for sharing Tasha, we are so glad that this video made sense to you and was helpful!

  • @she_sings_delightful_things
    @she_sings_delightful_things 5 років тому +4

    INTERESTING........I haven't seen her reply to any of the comments asking, "but what I found something".

    • @johnwilson5248
      @johnwilson5248 4 роки тому

      Yeah but even if you are right I can guarantee if somebody is up to no good they can get caught red-handed without having to invade their privacy is not always about if they are cheating or not sometimes it get can boil down to they have private conversations between family members that should be just between family there's endless reasons do not go through someone's phone without their permission at least let them know you're about to go through their phone they can hide whatever they want to but they can't hide how they act so just stay patient you will catch them red-handed anyways because now you're going to feel justified in going through everybody's phone and wonder why nobody wants to stay in that relationship just give it some time

    • @neldalaw7369
      @neldalaw7369 4 роки тому

      I was able to track & monitor my partner's activities from a location entirely different from the mine using just my phone, all thanks to @hackerskydiver on Instagram for the installation.

    • @user-dr5jv1wk4j
      @user-dr5jv1wk4j 3 роки тому

      @@johnwilson5248 that can take years

  • @musicsnob4226
    @musicsnob4226 2 роки тому

    You can't go looking for an act of betrayal while committing an act of betrayal. Deal breaker.

  • @lynnvs6372
    @lynnvs6372 6 років тому +15

    Carsons mom here! I didnt chk my husbands phone for yrs. It dawned in me in 2016 that I was living w a Narcissist. And I began to look into alot of things. And I did find out he was texting other women. This is a dumb video! I pay half the Bill's. Including the phone bill. And I needed concrete proof before I spent anymore time supporting this person. So plz dont encourage ppl to keep sticking their head in the sand. This can cost them health or their life

    • @polisheddiamond6317
      @polisheddiamond6317 6 років тому +2

      You are so right.

    • @marilyngazelle6947
      @marilyngazelle6947 5 років тому +1

      I never looked too. If i am played i ain't giving no 2nt chances. Women that let men cheat and stay they have no self respect. I someone cheat and tell you to stay fuck them.

    • @dorap1993
      @dorap1993 5 років тому

      Polished Diamond you stupid for paying half the bills anyway. You wouldn’t of gave a fuck if you were getting a free ride. You need to get that priority straight first.

    • @johnwilson5248
      @johnwilson5248 4 роки тому

      That is not necessarily true just because you don't check your phone doesn't mean you won't find out not only that you take away from them using the option to realize what they are doing is wrong and stopping it before it goes too far

  • @jonathonthebarber494
    @jonathonthebarber494 6 років тому +3

    I am on the other side I’m very loyal and never have demonstrated any untrustworthy behaviors but she constantly snoops through my IG account because as it’s growing I get messages all the time and I’m always nice but never flirt or keep talking to whoever dms me I answer a question and move on but every day she’s fighting with me and I get a lot of Buisness on IG being a barber 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @olytee2142
      @olytee2142 6 років тому +5

      jonathonthebarber liar!!! That's how you start cheating. Replying everyone's dms🙄

  • @leopardrockssherrylemeille1192
    @leopardrockssherrylemeille1192 4 роки тому +5

    Both of you should feel free to do it
    If you have nothin to hide why the hell not ?

    • @sababajwa93
      @sababajwa93 4 роки тому +2

      Blue Kid in marriage there’s no privacy that’s how men flirt with women by texting them then they date them and abandon their wife. Same goes for a man who’s wife’s cheating he’s allowed to see what sees up to they’re married

    • @AwesomeSauceToys21
      @AwesomeSauceToys21 4 роки тому +1

      Blue Kid why do you want privacy when you’re married? Lol when you get married you become ONE. Don’t get married thenn

  • @oscarvaladez6407
    @oscarvaladez6407 2 роки тому

    No…and it goes both ways…he should never check her phone as well .

  • @Theladiescoach
    @Theladiescoach  7 років тому +3

    Do you think it's okay to go through your significant other's phone? Let's get a conversation started below this comment!

    • @sabrini99
      @sabrini99 7 років тому +7

      The Ladies Coach YES - My husband and I have each other's passwords. We both believe it keeps one another accountable and and firmly believe neither of us has anything to hide so there is no issue.

    • @sahilisgonzalez8152
      @sahilisgonzalez8152 6 років тому

      Thanks it’s helped a lot

    • @Lalala-fz2ci
      @Lalala-fz2ci 6 років тому +3

      The Ladies Coach *NO* . If you can’t trust your partner to be responsible, faithful and hold themselves accountable so you feel the need to infantilize and constantly check up on them, you have much bigger problems and shouldn’t even be together. Also, just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you have to lose all autonomy and privacy!! People don’t know what a healthy relationship looks like that’s why so many can’t get/keep one.

    • @polisheddiamond6317
      @polisheddiamond6317 6 років тому +4

      When the behavior patterns change and they always turn the phone downward, always carry it around with them. I'M CHECKING FIRST CHANCE I GET. Been there done that and I probably saved MY VERY OWN LIFE! #MEN or should I say #SOMEMEN.

    • @polisheddiamond6317
      @polisheddiamond6317 6 років тому

      @@sabrini99 LUCKY YOU ❤