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I really really believe in this point you are making- and I have been having the same thoughts. I truly feel in my heart the next cultural era of Asia and the West meeting more in the middle is coming. And it's needed. We have so much to learn from each other.
@@MonkeyHero Indeed. I'm happily married with someone who has the best of both worlds and wish more people have the chance to meet people like that. They are quite rare though.
Impressive, self taught, and she sounds like a native English speaker. I Love her energy, she is so much fun, I could totally see myself hanging out with her. I love that she’s open minded, and comfortable in her own skin.
Well done Riko! Firstly, your grasp of the English language is brilliant! It is better than many British people from my country, the United Kingdom! Secondly, good on you for not conforming with family traditions and instead, doing what you would like to do in your life e.g. not having to get married and have children like everyone else! I wish many people from my Indian culture would do the same! Lastly, good on you for being and acting western and not conforming with traditional norms even if society does not like it and prefers you to be a typical Japanese breed! Good luck, all the best for the future and god bless!
OM, love this interview! I can totally resonate with her stories of Japanese school and social rules and people not speaking up or questioning! And the whole story around not being so good at setting boundaries even while at the same time being bolder than average Japanese
It’s crazy she was born and raised in japan but just 1 year in America and you wouldn’t even tell the difference. On first impressions, i thought it was the reverse.
@@Sol_Calibre Nah, nah. Nice story. You might live in the UK but where are you really from? All she's doing is impressions of Americans, kinda like mediocre-level karaoke.
@mato_fato_ma-ah-fala-falafel you don't know what you're talking about. I'm from the Bay and most people i know are Asian. This girl in the podcast would fit right in.
I've been living and teaching English in Kagoshima since 1999. I'm sooooo happy to know that this young woman exists! I've definitely noticed change in Kagoshima. It's slow but steady...
2:45 - you say that Japan's collective society is what leads to depression. People say the same thing all the time about America's individualist society.
Some people are suited to collective society, some people are suited to individualist society. However, most Japanese who appear on these western podcasts are westernized so they tend to dislike Japanese collectivism.
@@russellchan7700 appreciate the comment! Really pushed to make these like my old style with more excessive editing. Glad you like it and hope you get some good takeaways :)
I mean, my wife is Japanese, and is kind of like this girl when we met. Recently, we decided that it was better for her to take our kids back to Japan (from the USA) to avoid indoctrinating them into more USA culture. We would rather our kids be more conservative in the Japanese way than how Americans are.
@@robto He's prolly talking about how he doesn't want his kids to be around furries in schools being allowed to come with their costumes... shit like that(just a guess ofc)
@@robtoyeah that shit was sus as hell, if they don’t like conservative values they could move to fucking Minnesota or Oregon which is the land of lesbian homesteaders
People think Japanese people are so different they're from other worlds when they're just the same people with the same emotions, personalities, and characters wrapped through a united (isolated) culture. I don't see much difference when I am with them, but when I encounter one, I make sure that it's okay. :) ps. A lot of Japanese friends are out-going too!
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This was an excellent and very insightful conversation. As an American moving to Japan in a few months, it helps to understand how things are changing in the younger generation.
Ahh riko and i re abiut the same age and similar-ish background. I was in japan when younger living between that and philippines, and moved to US. We act a little similar, more bold in personality. Im not really gyaru though. When she pulled out the gyaru from back then it threw me back lmao. I have the filipino warmth easygoing-ness, japan's gamanshite energy and patience (tatemae is 2nd nature), then the american energy. Americans definitely are strong on boundaries its pretty difficult to learn from the background i understand. How she switches from jp and english is such a whole mood. Its so refreshing to hear someone talk similar 😂 This video helps me feel less lonely.
I'm on the opposite side of the spectrum relative to Riko san. 黒人です。でも、日本の文化けんが大好きですけど。In my case, I'm overwhelmed by the extreme individuality and the crazy pressure that can come with Capitalism. The excess, waste, carelessness, lack of respect for elders, each other and Ancestors, as well as* the Hedonism.. all these things are commonplace here. I lean a lot into Shinto, Zen and Confucianism. I do balance this with my own philosophies as well. I try to see that the individual is taken care of as well. Strong Individuals make a strong community. And during the hardest times, strong communities will produce strong individuals. 3 strong arrows are harder to break than 3 defective ones. 🙇🏾♂️
The United States, especially the major metropolitan areas like Los Angeles embody the hell of extreme individualism, hedonism and consumerism. This cancerous culture and lifestyle needs to be contained and stopped.
@@krakmynutz 文化圏. But that really doesn't make sense in Japanese. Don't translate. In that context, almost all Japanese are going to say 日本の文化が大好きですけど or 日本文化が大好きですけど
"Japan shouldn't change.... but get new ideas" That IS change and Japan SHOULD change, the question by HOW MUCH In my opinion, I put the USA in the extreme side of individualism and Japan in the extreme side of collectivism Japan should go around 15% to the other side, they should learn WHEN to stand out instead of "standing out is bad"
Japan should keep its uniquely good aspects, but do away with the cultural (and literal) suicidal parts. Some people fear that Japan will cease being Japanese, and foreigners will completely transform the country and culture into something unrecognizable. If they can remove the semi- Confucian (or maybe Bushido) influence that strangles the modern Japanese mindset, that might be the key. I'm not saying I hate that kind of philosophy inherently, but there is a common issue that all Confucian influenced cultures share. My understanding and opinion of course
@@whycantihaveanumber00000I don’t think that will ever happen foreigners or migrants have a lack of understanding when it comes to Japan even if they have lived here for years they’re politically unaware ! They believe Japanese culture will cease to exist if more foreigners migrate or tour here they have no idea that this includes them ! Our government and society is still functioning by imperialistic laws and will do everything in their power to keep Japanese bloodline as racist as it sounds the Conservative Party that has most of power in our government still believes in this ideology that our Japanese blood is superior than any !
@@whycantihaveanumber00000 I've commented this before in many other places but not here.. The suicidal parts are partly due to the culture that "suffocates" them and doesn't let people be people but instead robots who "always" have to conform to the collective. Always afraid of being labeled as not "part of the team" is they simply stand out by not going to the drinking party after work for eample. Hence my comment, they should learn WHEN to stand out and not worry about it. You're tired? Just don't go to that drinking party and EFF what they think about you.
Agree with you 100%. IMO they key is to understand how dehumanizing extreme collectivism and individualism are, which is less more trivial than "culture". Healthy individualism with some of the support of collectivism is ideal. Individualism without support from collectivism or collectivism without room for individualism are unsustainable.
Brother I live in Japan and totally agree. I’m going to move some agricultural/more traditional town because I hate that the brain rot I left in America is popping up here now.
Thoroughly enjoyed this episode. I gather your channel focuses more on hafu, both within and exterior to Japan. Have you any episodes dealing with Japanese Americans from Hawaii in Japan?
Some historical blogs state that 'Gyaru' was adopting mainstream USA female trends of the time (90s). Hence using the English word 'Girl' adopted to Japanese phonetics. USA female trends have changed since then, and it seems Gyaru trends have changed with them.
now that is a women with drive and ambition. Just from the sheer fact that she taught herself english to THAT level. excellent interview Max. I live in rural Thailand, nothing but rice fields and temples. LOL
Very good, Riko. Your English is very good in a sense you are fully able to express your views in English language. I myself am Japanese from Yamaguchi prefecture currently living in Florida. Having said that, Kagoshima is more like Texas, not Florida.😂
Yeah, she's complaining that people are annoyed because she sounds "American", but that's not American, it's L.A. specifically and even other Americans will find that annoying.
I like it when a Japanese girl has a blend of traditional Japanese and western influences. And speaking flawless English is attractive..Look at Anna Sawai, speaking fluent English actually helped her career!
I really enjoyed this video.👍🏼👍🏼 Thank you. 😍 I had to pause to first look up Kagoshima, so maybe next time you can briefly show where the location is on a map of Japan. Also, I had to pause to look up Gojo Sensei & am still not quite sure what it is. Also who is this other UA-camr you talked about, Cameo or Kamio?! I still can’t find it. Thanks again. I was glad to see a full Japanese person like Riko, speaking English.
Yaaay! Rikodonworld! I click so fast since I follow her instagram😆 And my dad is from Kagoshima too🩷 I love people from Kagoshima! They are so sweet and funny✨
It would be great if you could have Japanese subtitle on this video interview so that young people can hear what she is talking about and be inspired to make them feel it’s ok to get out of the box sometimes and to encourage them to learn English 日本人の視聴者さん達の為に日本語の字幕があるといいね。
If you think that the western sense of individuality and 周りを気にしない is healthy, I can assure you this is not the case. The entire western world is suffering a mental health crisis with skyrocketing suicide rates, drug use, and incidence of depression and anxiety all brought on by the crushing sense of social isolation that is the natural reward of excessive individualism. No doubt Japan has its own social issues that will need to be dealt with, but please, PLEASE don’t look at the west as a social model to emulate.
First of all, your English is remarkable!!!! my english proficiency can not even come close to your even though I am nikkey and studied from high school throughout college in english native country, living in homestay and boarding housing on campus. My father was from Kagoshima so I feel an affinity and whenever I visit there I feel like home, even the scenery remind me of my birth place in south America. What I like about japanese culture is how it emphasizes on "maintaining harmony and order" above oneself, this is also (indirectly) reinforced in the book " How to influence people and win friends" by Darne Carnage. Also there are thing in life that are absolute like gravity, time and biology. My point is, unfortunately, age matter when looking for a quality partner; over the year you could have noticed that attention from opposite gender have diminished that means that every year that passes by, your options will diminish as well. Statistically, women that achieves career success at the cost of starting a family regret it later in life.
She is definitely not your average Japanese. More like the type we see on Japanese variety shows. There's a chance that she was an I.B.S. student in Kagoshima. DON'T visit Kagoshima in summer. Its insanely hot and humid. Anytime from October to the beginning of June is better. Kagoshima is on the low side for foreigner presence. Youll see more foreigners in one minute in Tokyo than you will in a week in Kagoshima. I sometimes see foreign workers at convenience stores in Kagoshima. Its not as prevalent as in Tokyo. More often they are working at McDonald's. Quite a few are Nepalese. I see Vietnamese who work in many rural labour intensive jobs.
Maybe there is a precedent in traditional mythology as well. There is the Russian princess frog fairytale… where a boy kissed a frog and she turned into a beautiful princess!
the frontal cortex may not be fully developed in some cases but once you hit a certain age (18,19,20) you're an adult capable of making adult decisions...25 is not bad...but like riko says the earlier the better...that clock is ticking away...
Being a Japanese-American growing up in America, it's interesting to see how Gen Z is shifting the culture and it's really sick to see 🙌 And huge shoutout ITO EN 🙌🙌
Oh man, I thought I couldn't understand my GenZ kids in English, I just realized I don't know any of these Japanese terms either.. LOL まじかいな。。レッスンありがとう御座います。まいった、自分もう終わってる。（笑）
16:00 I live in Japan, but I've never heard of Christmas cake things around me. In the first place, the average age of marriage in Japan today is 31, and it's normal to be unmarried at 25, so I think no one would care. The story about Christmas cake sounds like something from the bubble era, and it's not common in Japan today.
No...as i remember "christmas cake" is a woman who reach 25 yrs old still a *virgin* and a deadline of being a young girl lol this pressure a girls to lose their v-card in their younger days.... yes girls who are 14 or 16, 18 they lose that card to someone they didn't love...ahh the depression. its a good thing i grow up in a christian family so my conscience is base on christianity in the bible(not catholic ok).
WRONG. The whole point is the Japanese think we celebrate Christmas with cake in the West. (Fried chicken too, so KFC is huge.) But a cake made for Christmas, the 25th, is bad the next day, the 26th, so this is where the expression came from to match with the culture of the time. Married by 25 as a female, then, or you're past your prime.
Actually, a half Japanese guy in Vegas was found by the police eating a man on the sidewalk. I knew it couldn't have been Max since he is based in Japan.
i can be wrong but having seen how some people get overconfident i feel she has an edgy part in her that she got from being in LA. She gave me the vibes of someone who doesn't mess around & got some street attitude. Obviously you can take anything to the extremes or just use it when needed
I want to live in Tokyo as a cutie gyaru. It’s so clean and so many fun things. Also, people leave me alone there besides uncles in conbini hitting on me or being so strict. lol.
This is so good! I think this is why Anna Sawai said she got so emotional when japanese girls came up to her telling her they feel good to see more outspoken, bold and strong women. It must feel good to not feel like an outcast simply because you have a different personality and be able to relate to someone.
Her character is more resonnated to English Langauge. I think she chosed what her soul correctly aligned with her expression. I think Japanese langauge is not suitable for her. Best to talk in English if she would like to stay with her character. Thats perfectly suit her.
Stereotypical American "valley girl" accent, "content creator", lived abroad a year, jokes and expressions that sound like they come from a netflix series... No she's not unique or special she just traded a cliché for another. But yeah at least it shows people Japanese people and especially women are not a monolith. Yet it has to be said that she's also very good looking and from n economically privileged background with an international resume so she definitely doesn't represent the people of Japan, whom like most in the world don't travel outside of their borders and struggle to live decently.
Mediia in Japan is no different than media in the Philippines when it comes to Hiding the Real True Ugly Evil side oof the Filipinos, but on other topics specially vital and relevant to who the Japanese are Better than most cultures worldwide, which is why I love Japan compared to any other country 🎉
So, a different language can reshape even a mind from a conservative background. This explains a lot why most Japanese simply can't speak English or almost no other language other than theirs. It is more than a language barrier it looks like a narrow minded lifestyle of staying in a comfort zone.
Western girl goes to Asian country to learn foreign language: Comments: That’s amazing. Great for her! She will surely succeed in life. Japanese girl goes to America and self teaches herself English and learns to speak incredibly fluently after 1 year: Comments: She’s so westernized. She should have stayed Japanese. This is bad for Japan. Jokes aside I think most people are supportive 😂 I also found it funny.
I'm a black guy. Born and raised in Florida and one of our most famous bands is Cannibal Corpse. It isn't all I listen to but because of my musical tastes and tendency to use English that people can understand, I can sympathize with Riko who gets judged as being strange because of others' inability to perceive individuals out of stereotypical preconceptions. ムカツクよな！そして惚れてないけどリコの英語と日本語組み合わせる喋り方大好き！ギャル最高じゃない？
Very interesting to watch new Gyaru, Gen Z. I am delighted to see there are some of you. I left Japan because of too much conformity of Japan. Not all conformity is bad but Japan still overall do not accept independence. 出る釘は打たれる。Unless you are like Ohtani of Dodgers or Sanada who acted and also became producer of recent Emmy winning Shogun. It took Sanada long time to have his independence thinking recognized. In my days, it was Ozawa Seiji, the world famous conductor. He was not accepted initially in Japan. Don’t give up, Gen Z, gyaru of Japan.
I don’t get the insisting on making Florida look bad. We say that for memes, everywhere has stories like those(not that one though). She’s cool though so far.
From what I have seen women like her are not popular with most Japanese guys and most of them stay single, leave Japan or marry a foreigner in Japan. Which is fine of course.
Is next gen going to push Japan government to make reparations to East Asia for WWII or is it really just like the old gen and current gen that don't care?
Do people actually like the "sumimasen" over-coy japanese friend/gf? I've met more people wanting the opposite haha. When I meet japanese friends in the states, usually they are all rowdy and fun (notice I never said disrespectful); I love that, but it's sad when the go back and overpolite-nize as soon as the go back home. TL; DR: Namara menkoi gyaru, doko? lol. Shout out to the cool party who invited to karaoke with them on my last visit~.
Funny how she says adopting other cultural norms/personal traits could help adapt to a modern society. From what I can tell having spent a decent amount of time in Japan, the country adopted the things it wanted and left the things it didn’t. And part of the reason Japan was so economically successful was exactly because of Japanese personality and cultural traits. Honestly she just comes across like a likeable yet slightly immature young person who has a bit of a fetish for another culture and way of being and wishes her own country could be more like that. She needs to travel more. She’ll stop viewing elsewhere with rose tinted glasses and hopefully stop basing her whole persona on being a contrarian
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Hello Max, I’ll be traveling to Japan June 2025, I can speak a little Japanese. Do I need an interpreter to have the best experience?
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Too much collectivism and to much individualism cause serious issues. Balance is the key.
I really really believe in this point you are making- and I have been having the same thoughts. I truly feel in my heart the next cultural era of Asia and the West meeting more in the middle is coming. And it's needed. We have so much to learn from each other.
@@MonkeyHero Indeed. I'm happily married with someone who has the best of both worlds and wish more people have the chance to meet people like that. They are quite rare though.
She's like every other hip-hop sass and no substance American girl in the US, especially the west coast.
That's why interracial relationships and kids are dope (conflict ridden, but dope)
Impressive, self taught, and she sounds like a native English speaker. I Love her energy, she is so much fun, I could totally see myself hanging out with her. I love that she’s open minded, and comfortable in her own skin.
Yayy thank you so much for having me!!😍❤️🔥
Love you Riko!!! ❤
Well done Riko! Firstly, your grasp of the English language is brilliant! It is better than many British people from my country, the United Kingdom! Secondly, good on you for not conforming with family traditions and instead, doing what you would like to do in your life e.g. not having to get married and have children like everyone else! I wish many people from my Indian culture would do the same! Lastly, good on you for being and acting western and not conforming with traditional norms even if society does not like it and prefers you to be a typical Japanese breed! Good luck, all the best for the future and god bless!
You are a ray of sunshine ☀️
Cool interview, I'm in Kagoshima now for a few months..yeah not too much English around Tenmonkan, which is fine with me :)
Hey Riko we are the same age! Fellow zillenials ;)
Great interview and inside look into Japanese culture! Thank you! Also adored the code switching. 日本語が大好きです❣️
OM, love this interview! I can totally resonate with her stories of Japanese school and social rules and people not speaking up or questioning! And the whole story around not being so good at setting boundaries even while at the same time being bolder than average Japanese
It’s crazy she was born and raised in japan but just 1 year in America and you wouldn’t even tell the difference. On first impressions, i thought it was the reverse.
You wouldn't? You are obviously not American.
@@songandwind72 nope! I'm from the UK 😂
@@Sol_Calibre Nah, nah. Nice story. You might live in the UK but where are you really from? All she's doing is impressions of Americans, kinda like mediocre-level karaoke.
Minus the accent, she’s pretty much like every Asian California girl lol
Facts esp if they been abroad 😮
This statement is in fact from a YT man. You must not know Cali. Asian cali girls are way more abrasive.
@@mato_fato_ma-ah-fala-falafel tf? I’m pinoy from the Bay. TF you from? 🤨
Yep
@mato_fato_ma-ah-fala-falafel you don't know what you're talking about. I'm from the Bay and most people i know are Asian. This girl in the podcast would fit right in.
This was very insightful. I appreciate the hard work, Max!
I've been living and teaching English in Kagoshima since 1999. I'm sooooo happy to know that this young woman exists!
I've definitely noticed change in Kagoshima. It's slow but steady...
Is khagoshima a village or it is not suitable for foreigners students
This is so cool! I'm going to Japan (from Ireland) for the fourth time, and chose Kagoshima as my main place to go this time. This is some good hype!
I am also going khagoshima for language school
So jellyyyyyy I didn’t manage to go on my second Japan trip and I have such regret. Sighhh
Have a fab time!
Cool interview, great to know people like this exist in japan 😎
Hearing the thoughts of people living at the boundary of two very different cultures is interesting. This is a great episode, thank you.
2:45 - you say that Japan's collective society is what leads to depression. People say the same thing all the time about America's individualist society.
I think both countries take it to extremes
Some people are suited to collective society, some people are suited to individualist society. However, most Japanese who appear on these western podcasts are westernized so they tend to dislike Japanese collectivism.
Yep, either extremes are bad. It needs to have a good balance, some community work with a some boundaries for yourself.
Great video and editing as always Max! I love how you touch on many relevant topics in modern Japan.
@@russellchan7700 appreciate the comment! Really pushed to make these like my old style with more excessive editing. Glad you like it and hope you get some good takeaways :)
Yet another banger, man. This and Pele are my top fav episodes so far.
I mean, my wife is Japanese, and is kind of like this girl when we met. Recently, we decided that it was better for her to take our kids back to Japan (from the USA) to avoid indoctrinating them into more USA culture. We would rather our kids be more conservative in the Japanese way than how Americans are.
"indoctrinating" sounds like a conspiratorial word, bro. Do you hate so much American culture?
@@robto He's prolly talking about how he doesn't want his kids to be around furries in schools being allowed to come with their costumes... shit like that(just a guess ofc)
@@ashishbarthwal6961 🤣🤣🤣
@@robtoyeah that shit was sus as hell, if they don’t like conservative values they could move to fucking Minnesota or Oregon which is the land of lesbian homesteaders
@@ashishbarthwal6961 おもろ😂日本に行ったこと無いの？
People think Japanese people are so different they're from other worlds when they're just the same people with the same emotions, personalities, and characters wrapped through a united (isolated) culture. I don't see much difference when I am with them, but when I encounter one, I make sure that it's okay. :) ps. A lot of Japanese friends are out-going too!
I'm from Florida and the funny thing to do is google Florida man and your birthday to see what crazy thing Florida man did on your birthday and it will never disappoint.
This was an excellent and very insightful conversation. As an American moving to Japan in a few months, it helps to understand how things are changing in the younger generation.
34:30 some of us do save the wrapping paper so we can re use it lol
Ahh riko and i re abiut the same age and similar-ish background. I was in japan when younger living between that and philippines, and moved to US.
We act a little similar, more bold in personality. Im not really gyaru though. When she pulled out the gyaru from back then it threw me back lmao. I have the filipino warmth easygoing-ness, japan's gamanshite energy and patience (tatemae is 2nd nature), then the american energy. Americans definitely are strong on boundaries its pretty difficult to learn from the background i understand.
How she switches from jp and english is such a whole mood. Its so refreshing to hear someone talk similar 😂
This video helps me feel less lonely.
I'm on the opposite side of the spectrum relative to Riko san. 黒人です。でも、日本の文化けんが大好きですけど。In my case, I'm overwhelmed by the extreme individuality and the crazy pressure that can come with Capitalism. The excess, waste, carelessness, lack of respect for elders, each other and Ancestors, as well as* the Hedonism.. all these things are commonplace here. I lean a lot into Shinto, Zen and Confucianism. I do balance this with my own philosophies as well. I try to see that the individual is taken care of as well. Strong Individuals make a strong community. And during the hardest times, strong communities will produce strong individuals. 3 strong arrows are harder to break than 3 defective ones. 🙇🏾♂️
The United States, especially the major metropolitan areas like Los Angeles embody the hell of extreme individualism, hedonism and consumerism. This cancerous culture and lifestyle needs to be contained and stopped.
What is 文化けん?
@@songandwind72 I was trying to say "cultural sphere", (ぶんかけん).
@@krakmynutz 文化圏. But that really doesn't make sense in Japanese. Don't translate. In that context, almost all Japanese are going to say 日本の文化が大好きですけど or 日本文化が大好きですけど
@@songandwind72 Thank you for your help🙇🏾♂️
"Japan shouldn't change.... but get new ideas"
That IS change and Japan SHOULD change, the question by HOW MUCH
In my opinion, I put the USA in the extreme side of individualism and Japan in the extreme side of collectivism
Japan should go around 15% to the other side, they should learn WHEN to stand out instead of "standing out is bad"
Japan should keep its uniquely good aspects, but do away with the cultural (and literal) suicidal parts. Some people fear that Japan will cease being Japanese, and foreigners will completely transform the country and culture into something unrecognizable.
If they can remove the semi- Confucian (or maybe Bushido) influence that strangles the modern Japanese mindset, that might be the key. I'm not saying I hate that kind of philosophy inherently, but there is a common issue that all Confucian influenced cultures share.
My understanding and opinion of course
They should copy philippines style lol
@@whycantihaveanumber00000I don’t think that will ever happen foreigners or migrants have a lack of understanding when it comes to Japan even if they have lived here for years they’re politically unaware ! They believe Japanese culture will cease to exist if more foreigners migrate or tour here they have no idea that this includes them ! Our government and society is still functioning by imperialistic laws and will do everything in their power to keep Japanese bloodline as racist as it sounds the Conservative Party that has most of power in our government still believes in this ideology that our Japanese blood is superior than any !
@@whycantihaveanumber00000 I've commented this before in many other places but not here..
The suicidal parts are partly due to the culture that "suffocates" them and doesn't let people be people but instead robots who "always" have to conform to the collective. Always afraid of being labeled as not "part of the team" is they simply stand out by not going to the drinking party after work for eample.
Hence my comment, they should learn WHEN to stand out and not worry about it. You're tired? Just don't go to that drinking party and EFF what they think about you.
Agree with you 100%. IMO they key is to understand how dehumanizing extreme collectivism and individualism are, which is less more trivial than "culture". Healthy individualism with some of the support of collectivism is ideal. Individualism without support from collectivism or collectivism without room for individualism are unsustainable.
Loved this conversation!
The west is going to hell in a hand basket, hearing Japan going the same direction instead of staying away from it is honestly depressing.
Bruh, you're not even Japanese. Do you actually havea fair assessment of the situation in the country?
Brother I live in Japan and totally agree. I’m going to move some agricultural/more traditional town because I hate that the brain rot I left in America is popping up here now.
Max's biju is exploding
Thoroughly enjoyed this episode. I gather your channel focuses more on hafu, both within and exterior to Japan. Have you any episodes dealing with Japanese Americans from Hawaii in Japan?
Some historical blogs state that 'Gyaru' was adopting mainstream USA female trends of the time (90s). Hence using the English word 'Girl' adopted to Japanese phonetics. USA female trends have changed since then, and it seems Gyaru trends have changed with them.
now that is a women with drive and ambition. Just from the sheer fact that she taught herself english to THAT level. excellent interview Max. I live in rural Thailand, nothing but rice fields and temples. LOL
Great! Nice content and info about Kagoshima!
Being involved in the wagyū industry I loved the “Kobe…..that’s all marketing” hahah😂😂
That's the first time I hear that specific culture shock. めっちゃ面白い！🤣🤣
Very good, Riko. Your English is very good in a sense you are fully able to express your views in English language. I myself am Japanese from Yamaguchi prefecture currently living in Florida. Having said that, Kagoshima is more like Texas, not Florida.😂
of all the accents she could have picked, she went with valley girl, crap
sounds black tbh
Yeah, she's complaining that people are annoyed because she sounds "American", but that's not American, it's L.A. specifically and even other Americans will find that annoying.
I like it when a Japanese girl has a blend of traditional Japanese and western influences. And speaking flawless English is attractive..Look at Anna Sawai, speaking fluent English actually helped her career!
@@Trace7173 Anna Sawai is from New Zealand too, so she’s definitely international. Went to school with her at Sophia University too!
@@MaxDCapoanna said in interview she actually learnt english in singapore and philipines, that's why she doesnt have kiwi accent
And how would you craft her face, desires, how smart she was, would she like cats or dogs better.
Smh
this girl broke out of the Japanese Matrix bravo 👏🎉
She reminds me of the girls raised in Okinawa, who hang out with military dudes, and into black culture.
Love you Riko ❤❤❤
Max switched up the hair! Got them tom cruise locks flowing 😂😂😂 mission impossible ghost protocol for halloween!
Ikr he looks like Tom Cruise! 😂
I loved the japanglish 😂 Very cool content
I really enjoyed this video.👍🏼👍🏼 Thank you. 😍 I had to pause to first look up Kagoshima, so maybe next time you can briefly show where the location is on a map of Japan. Also, I had to pause to look up Gojo Sensei & am still not quite sure what it is. Also who is this other UA-camr you talked about, Cameo or Kamio?! I still can’t find it. Thanks again. I was glad to see a full Japanese person like Riko, speaking English.
I assume Gojo Sensei is Satoru Gojo, the character from the manga and anime Jujutsu Kaisen, since it has to be someone that isn't real.
Kemio. @mmkemio
Yaaay! Rikodonworld! I click so fast since I follow her instagram😆
And my dad is from Kagoshima too🩷
I love people from Kagoshima! They are so sweet and funny✨
It would be great if you could have Japanese subtitle on this video interview so that young people can hear what she is talking about and be inspired to make them feel it’s ok to get out of the box sometimes and to encourage them to learn English
日本人の視聴者さん達の為に日本語の字幕があるといいね。
If you think that the western sense of individuality and 周りを気にしない is healthy, I can assure you this is not the case. The entire western world is suffering a mental health crisis with skyrocketing suicide rates, drug use, and incidence of depression and anxiety all brought on by the crushing sense of social isolation that is the natural reward of excessive individualism. No doubt Japan has its own social issues that will need to be dealt with, but please, PLEASE don’t look at the west as a social model to emulate.
First of all, your English is remarkable!!!! my english proficiency can not even come close to your even though I am nikkey and studied from high school throughout college in english native country, living in homestay and boarding housing on campus. My father was from Kagoshima so I feel an affinity and whenever I visit there I feel like home, even the scenery remind me of my birth place in south America. What I like about japanese culture is how it emphasizes on "maintaining harmony and order" above oneself, this is also (indirectly) reinforced in the book " How to influence people and win friends" by Darne Carnage. Also there are thing in life that are absolute like gravity, time and biology. My point is, unfortunately, age matter when looking for a quality partner; over the year you could have noticed that attention from opposite gender have diminished that means that every year that passes by, your options will diminish as well. Statistically, women that achieves career success at the cost of starting a family regret it later in life.
her english is really good!
Riko reminds me of my younger sister, choooo yabai!!! w
She should stay in LA.
she is dope,
love her spirit.
Keep on keeping on!
Bijuu generation, I was like "what" Naruto Bijuu " Bijuu damaaa!!!"
wow what a brilliant mind is she!
こんな人もいるんだね、、、
wow Gen Z👏
She is definitely not your average Japanese. More like the type we see on Japanese variety shows. There's a chance that she was an I.B.S. student in Kagoshima.
DON'T visit Kagoshima in summer. Its insanely hot and humid. Anytime from October to the beginning of June is better.
Kagoshima is on the low side for foreigner presence. Youll see more foreigners in one minute in Tokyo than you will in a week in Kagoshima. I sometimes see foreign workers at convenience stores in Kagoshima. Its not as prevalent as in Tokyo. More often they are working at McDonald's. Quite a few are Nepalese. I see Vietnamese who work in many rural labour intensive jobs.
You mean those braindead ones on variety shows?
I’ve been to Tokyo and definitely saw a lot of Japanese people in コーヒー。 quite a few Indian people at McDonalds though.
Max got a poster of Bucciarati :D the goat !!!
Sticky fingers! 🤣
日本語を勉強しています。りこさん、英語がほんとじょうず！
My best guess for the origin of kaeruka カエル変 (turn into a frog) is Final Fantasy, where it's a status affliction inflicted by grotesque monsters.
Maybe there is a precedent in traditional mythology as well. There is the Russian princess frog fairytale… where a boy kissed a frog and she turned into a beautiful princess!
I love Rico chan ❤
love her!
the frontal cortex may not be fully developed in some cases but once you hit a certain age (18,19,20) you're an adult capable of making adult decisions...25 is not bad...but like riko says the earlier the better...that clock is ticking away...
Being a Japanese-American growing up in America, it's interesting to see how Gen Z is shifting the culture and it's really sick to see 🙌
And huge shoutout ITO EN 🙌🙌
Rikooooo
Her code switching in this reminds me of mflo.
Ask verbal or lisa from mflo for an interview. They might do it!!
Oh man, I thought I couldn't understand my GenZ kids in English, I just realized I don't know any of these Japanese terms either.. LOL まじかいな。。レッスンありがとう御座います。まいった、自分もう終わってる。（笑）
she is barely gen-z by definition (the first year of gen-z 1997), but she is more gen y in practicality. like she said, "she is not high school (age)"
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I live in Japan, but I've never heard of Christmas cake things around me. In the first place, the average age of marriage in Japan today is 31, and it's normal to be unmarried at 25, so I think no one would care. The story about Christmas cake sounds like something from the bubble era, and it's not common in Japan today.
Yeah, it's changed. It was definitely a thing in the late 80s, 90s. The pressure was tangible.
No...as i remember "christmas cake" is a woman who reach 25 yrs old still a *virgin* and a deadline of being a young girl lol this pressure a girls to lose their v-card in their younger days.... yes girls who are 14 or 16, 18 they lose that card to someone they didn't love...ahh the depression. its a good thing i grow up in a christian family so my conscience is base on christianity in the bible(not catholic ok).
WRONG. The whole point is the Japanese think we celebrate Christmas with cake in the West. (Fried chicken too, so KFC is huge.) But a cake made for Christmas, the 25th, is bad the next day, the 26th, so this is where the expression came from to match with the culture of the time. Married by 25 as a female, then, or you're past your prime.
えーおーいお茶こんなスポンサーしてるんだ。でも話しの内容とあんまり関係なくない？笑
2人の話の内容はとても共感出来るものばかりでした。しっかり子供達に伝えていきたいです。
Actually, a half Japanese guy in Vegas was found by the police eating a man on the sidewalk. I knew it couldn't have been Max since he is based in Japan.
i can be wrong but having seen how some people get overconfident i feel she has an edgy part in her that she got from being in LA. She gave me the vibes of someone who doesn't mess around & got some street attitude. Obviously you can take anything to the extremes or just use it when needed
I want to live in Tokyo as a cutie gyaru. It’s so clean and so many fun things. Also, people leave me alone there besides uncles in conbini hitting on me or being so strict. lol.
I recommend Chichibu
She is gen z sensie ❤
This is so good! I think this is why Anna Sawai said she got so emotional when japanese girls came up to her telling her they feel good to see more outspoken, bold and strong women. It must feel good to not feel like an outcast simply because you have a different personality and be able to relate to someone.
Kareru ka is coming from the fairy tail The frong Prince but reversed. Your bf was a prince but did something that turned you off and became a frog.
I think she would be an example for a lot of young Japanese girls. To follow their own path
Her character is more resonnated to English Langauge. I think she chosed what her soul correctly aligned with her expression. I think Japanese langauge is not suitable for her. Best to talk in English if she would like to stay with her character. Thats perfectly suit her.
Stereotypical American "valley girl" accent, "content creator", lived abroad a year, jokes and expressions that sound like they come from a netflix series... No she's not unique or special she just traded a cliché for another. But yeah at least it shows people Japanese people and especially women are not a monolith. Yet it has to be said that she's also very good looking and from n economically privileged background with an international resume so she definitely doesn't represent the people of Japan, whom like most in the world don't travel outside of their borders and struggle to live decently.
The bigger question is why women don’t want to get married and have kids. To see Japan fall culturally as Europe has would be devastating.
I like it...I like it...❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Mediia in Japan is no different than media in the Philippines when it comes to Hiding the Real True Ugly Evil side oof the Filipinos, but on other topics specially vital and relevant to who the Japanese are Better than most cultures worldwide, which is why I love Japan compared to any other country 🎉
Max's biju is exploding 🥵🤤😜
It does like Florida
SAURRR SLAY!!!🎉
She pretty cool
I need a friend like her. She'd make a great Japanese teacher.
Japan toward casshern world
Hopefully, in the future almost Japanese girls gonna be like her. 😊
So, a different language can reshape even a mind from a conservative background. This explains a lot why most Japanese simply can't speak English or almost no other language other than theirs. It is more than a language barrier it looks like a narrow minded lifestyle of staying in a comfort zone.
Riko is Awesome! Would love to have such a wonderful friend as Riko Chan! 😊❤Yeah Xmas Cake 25 years old! Expired!
27years old is Generation Y and Generation Z is13 years old between 22years old
The comments here are hilarious lol! Let the girl live her best life 😂 Typical Americans telling other countries how to be.
Western girl goes to Asian country to learn foreign language:
Comments: That’s amazing. Great for her! She will surely succeed in life.
Japanese girl goes to America and self teaches herself English and learns to speak incredibly fluently after 1 year:
Comments: She’s so westernized. She should have stayed Japanese. This is bad for Japan.
Jokes aside I think most people are supportive 😂 I also found it funny.
I'm a black guy. Born and raised in Florida and one of our most famous bands is Cannibal Corpse. It isn't all I listen to but because of my musical tastes and tendency to use English that people can understand, I can sympathize with Riko who gets judged as being strange because of others' inability to perceive individuals out of stereotypical preconceptions.
ムカツクよな！そして惚れてないけどリコの英語と日本語組み合わせる喋り方大好き！ギャル最高じゃない？
Very interesting to watch new Gyaru, Gen Z. I am delighted to see there are some of you. I left Japan because of too much conformity of Japan. Not all conformity is bad but Japan still overall do not accept independence. 出る釘は打たれる。Unless you are like Ohtani of Dodgers or Sanada who acted and also became producer of recent Emmy winning Shogun. It took Sanada long time to have his independence thinking recognized. In my days, it was Ozawa Seiji, the world famous conductor. He was not accepted initially in Japan. Don’t give up, Gen Z, gyaru of Japan.
2:50 - this is where every western man stops watching.
..time to find something better.
lol western men hentai
I don’t get the insisting on making Florida look bad. We say that for memes, everywhere has stories like those(not that one though). She’s cool though so far.
From what I have seen women like her are not popular with most Japanese guys and most of them stay single, leave Japan or marry a foreigner in Japan. Which is fine of course.
Even foreigner don’t want girls like her, because she’s too focused on herself.
MGTOW was there because of this.
Is next gen going to push Japan government to make reparations to East Asia for WWII or is it really just like the old gen and current gen that don't care?
Do people actually like the "sumimasen" over-coy japanese friend/gf? I've met more people wanting the opposite haha. When I meet japanese friends in the states, usually they are all rowdy and fun (notice I never said disrespectful); I love that, but it's sad when the go back and overpolite-nize as soon as the go back home.
TL; DR: Namara menkoi gyaru, doko? lol.
Shout out to the cool party who invited to karaoke with them on my last visit~.
More women in Japan need the independence, i like that answer... "learn how to say no"
Funny how she says adopting other cultural norms/personal traits could help adapt to a modern society. From what I can tell having spent a decent amount of time in Japan, the country adopted the things it wanted and left the things it didn’t. And part of the reason Japan was so economically successful was exactly because of Japanese personality and cultural traits. Honestly she just comes across like a likeable yet slightly immature young person who has a bit of a fetish for another culture and way of being and wishes her own country could be more like that. She needs to travel more. She’ll stop viewing elsewhere with rose tinted glasses and hopefully stop basing her whole persona on being a contrarian
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