She is a total Red Flag!! She acts closer to 13 than 23, all the comment about babies, the lack of empathy. But really, both are too young, too immature. Another very bad date!
Yeah sometimes I can’t help but think that women who really want to have their biological babies and do one million rounds of IVF are a bit narcissistic and want the babies to fulfill their own needs
Jess is attracted to people who are “cool”, much like someone in high school would. Also, she wants babies right away. Damien should gladly accept the rejection.
ANYONE who's thinking about dating this woman needs to watch this so he can see what she's really like on the inside. If he decides to date her anyway, then he deserves the wreck that awaits him. No class, no manners, no elegance. At all.
No offense basically means your going to say something factual which is going to make someone feel offended but because it’s a factual opinion or statement there’s no need to actually be offended that’s what “no offense” means in figure of speech. It doesn’t literally mean you aren’t going to offend someone. It means don’t take the offensive criticism offensively.
@@Who-cu9eu People should be honest, regardless, it is not their fault when others are sensitive and often too sensitive on something so regular as basic facts.
It was really funny seeing him try to stomach that rose. She was incredibly mean by that short, sharp “no” and suggesting he wasn’t manly. Likely that people aren’t intimidated by her, they find her rude.
omg!! she was just plain rude,on tv saying he s not manly nd why did she embarrass him by asking to see thr dance then! it was obvious when she paid the bill but come on,instant No nd in front of his face i need someone manly!! eww what a behavior
I don't think I've ever seen the woman on a first date insist on paying the whole bill! Also, when being asked whether they want to see each other again, she was rude to the point of being brutal. Saying "no" immediately and harshly, then saying very bluntly to his face that she needs someone more "manly" than him - that was uncalled for on her part and showed a lack of class and manners. On the other hand, the guy is immature, conceited, and doesn't know how to treat a woman like a lady imho.
I've had it before. Its usually be women who are feminists and they want to see how strong your male ego/traditional gender role mentality is. I actually let her pay (I paid for drinks at the next place). It wasnt a trap and she later even told me the reason why she did it.
@@jackcannon3511 so true. If I pay, that's your death sentence. I usually let the guy pay for food and then if I like him, proceed to go for drinks and pay for those (I like when it is back and forth, equal).
At least she did the right thing by paying for the meal when she knew she would never see him again. Saying he wasn't "manly enough" was brutal though. Just say you didn't feel a romantic spark, it's honest while not making the guy need therapy lmao
also thought it was telling and creepy how she said something to the effect of "wanting lots of babies because they can't run away and reject her like people normally do."
she was trying her hardest to make him feel ill at ease too. when a person basks in the discomfort of another individual and actually instigates it too, they're not a nice person.
Pays the bill to assert her independence and basically emasculates her date. Then says she wants a manly masculine man 🤷🏻♀️ if you are in your masculine, you are not going to attract a masculine man because similar energies repel, rather than attract. Going half if she didn’t like him, would have been enough, and more respectful towards him.
"You look so exotic"... he's not a zoo animal! If anyone is ever considering saying something like that on a date, just don't. It is not as complimentary as you think it is and should probably be kept to yourself.
When someone has to announce what they are saying with the statement starting with "Honestly..." It tells you that this person is not always telling it like it is ...only when she clarifies it .
Only 1/3 through and I feel so embarrassed for both of them. They are both so utterly weird. I guess this is the universe sorting out all the undesirables ... natural de-selection !
He's handsome, she's barely average. He's sweet, manly enough, she's mean without a drop of sensual allure. He's polite, she's rude. He's tolerant, she's arrogant without reason. He tries to get along, she tries, successfully, to make him nervous. He deserves a better match, she deserves time alone to introspectively evolve.
@@supremennn3829 bias? I am a woman who thinks that this young woman is quite rude and self-absorbed. Not sure where bias enters that perception. If you are a fan of hers or of her behavior, you have a right to your opinion, as well. 100%.
it was her way of finding out what his ethnicity was and i think him saying that he is indian (he does not look french at all) turned her off and then it got worse with the banter.
That girl is gonna look back at that video in 10 years time and cringe. I do recognise it's edited but she clearly needs to work on her speaking skills. She emasculates the guy and disrespects him.. If the other guy said something similar, there would have been an guardian article written about him.
I think she is a sociopath. It's not normal to seek to destroy your dates self esteem and confidence for literally no reason- other than because you aren't attracted to him.
These two were well suited. Thought highly of themselves. She thought she was much more attractive and a catch than she is and he thought he was more confident than he is. Either way, he was higher than her league.
As a girl…girls can be so judgemental so quick and don’t give guys enough of a chance….all these dates I watch the guy is nearly always the one to give things a chance regardless of little dislikes
I don't normally feel an instant dislike for someone, but she just instantly made me retract. I feel like she has BPD or something. She reminds me of my ex friend - the red flags were there from the beginning. The two months I was friends with her were so insane - she put me through a lot. I can't believe I was friends with someone like that.
.. he was actually really polite the way that he responded to her drunken tattoos... he was quite polite actually. i hope he finds a nicer girl to go out with. she might be masking insecurities with her behaviors. i have in the distant-ish past gone out with people i shouldn't hav,e in thinking that i should be more open minded. i have literally pulled my own arm to and then found out later that i should never have made those types of passes and mostly regretful for associating myself with someone who was badly mannered, looking and behaved. she sort of did him a favor because it seemed like he was going to go out with her again at first glance, which was not a good idea- even if he's going through something. it's not always "you" sir, just remember that ...
i concur. i know that there are some indians who immigrated to french-speaking Mauritius (a french colony) and i kind of think that's what he means which is kind of misleading because it's not "france proper."
Their whole date is wild but I’m so confused about the rose thing. “I’m judging you” weird thing to say and then very weird to choose rose, that is the last thing to not be “judged” on but like ok, maybe in france rose is considered cool idk… but then he doesn’t even like it?? So did he think rose was the most impressive drink? What did he actually want to drink? What would she not have judged him on? Why tf is she judging him anyway? I know there’s so many worse things wrong with this date but I’m just baffled at the wine part 😂
I think Damien needs to sit and reflect on what her really wants and who he truly is. Seems like he’s actually a nice guy but he’s having an identity crisis.
Hey stop haha he has much better charisma than Rajesh ffs. He was nicer than her too. She wanted a manly man but insisted in paying herself not allowing him to even look at the bill???
NZ had a couple of good ones but gotta say this was not one of them. I do not even believe these were real daters. Seemed like an act like watching The Hills
Wow, she acted liked she was in grammar school. Scary. she got a long way to go to be a mom.. He needed to grow up too. Oh well young people nowaday!!! How many girls like her are out there?
Choose your punchline : A date told me that I wasn’t manly enough so I: 1- Took my hunting knife, left the elk on the table and left. or 2- I didn’t even bother for my nails to dry and left.
He has zero dating experience with women. He was completely out of his depth and was very cringe. It was all down hill after Rose-gate and ice-gate. She needs an older guy who is more experienced, has more confidence and who is able to handle her.
Man, the host guy is too attractive. On one hand better to find out now she only cares about looks, but this guy steels the attention of so many woman!😂 if I wasn’t wearing one of my best suits I would feel inferior to this guy
There nowt wrong with the lad. She had no chat, at least he was trying. He was gentleman. She wants a boyo, partying ect He was too nice of person for her.
If he’s a player, confident and half French I’m James Bond. He lacked confidence massively, better to underplay it on these shows no? The girl was rude, hope she gets a guy who puts her in her place, she’s nothing special and no guy will be intimidated.. she’ll soften up soon as she meets a confident guy.
She is a total Red Flag!! She acts closer to 13 than 23, all the comment about babies, the lack of empathy. But really, both are too young, too immature. Another very bad date!
Fr she's scary!!
She's still in kindergarten. 😅. He dodged a bullet!
Yeah sometimes I can’t help but think that women who really want to have their biological babies and do one million rounds of IVF are a bit narcissistic and want the babies to fulfill their own needs
Guy is the total opposite of a player, and the girl ain’t no prize, one of the most awkward dates I’ve watched
It was embarrassing to watch. 😳😳
Spot on😂
but every girl is programmed to believe they are a perfect princess deserving of only the best
Well said!
Both nerds
Jess is attracted to people who are “cool”, much like someone in high school would. Also, she wants babies right away. Damien should gladly accept the rejection.
☝️ this!
😂
great description! "like someone in high school..."
😁
is everyone in new zealand so weird
they have something in common with canada lol
It's literally the end of the universe, cut them some slack lol.
we know there's weird everywhere.
Yes we are😂
That’s an Indian and a European who stay in New Zealand
"Guys are intimidated by me..." oh geeezzz not another one smh
Exactly.
It's obviously an excuse... as guys are not interested in her because of her immaturity and weirdness.
...naw, they find you off putting...& are correct. ! girl get some kittens!
Did this guy have his first drink ever on a show? 😂😂😂
Seems like it🤣
Looks like it
Not everyone fond of wine taste tho!
I’d say he doesn’t drink or drinks beer. Anyways, he was nicer than her imo
Damn that girl was a savage telling him she needs someone more manly
She's would know.
ANYONE who's thinking about dating this woman needs to watch this so he can see what she's really like on the inside. If he decides to date her anyway, then he deserves the wreck that awaits him. No class, no manners, no elegance. At all.
"I just need someone more manly -- no offense." I wonder if she knows what the word "offense" means.
when they either preface or end the sentence with "no offence" or "i'm not racist", etc...they're about to say something offensive and/or racist.
In your opinion it means?
Why would someone be offended by honesty anyways? Weird.
No offense basically means your going to say something factual which is going to make someone feel offended but because it’s a factual opinion or statement there’s no need to actually be offended that’s what “no offense” means in figure of speech. It doesn’t literally mean you aren’t going to offend someone. It means don’t take the offensive criticism offensively.
@@Who-cu9eu People should be honest, regardless, it is not their fault when others are sensitive and often too sensitive on something so regular as basic facts.
Think she was offended by the “have you met my girlfriend” comment.
It was really funny seeing him try to stomach that rose. She was incredibly mean by that short, sharp “no” and suggesting he wasn’t manly. Likely that people aren’t intimidated by her, they find her rude.
Yeah v mean! And to not even elaborate as to why straight after
She’s got the crazy eyes. He dodged a bullet there. He deserves to meet someone nice.
Couldn't agree more
...yes, hope he gets another better match...
omg!! she was just plain rude,on tv saying he s not manly nd why did she embarrass him by asking to see thr dance then! it was obvious when she paid the bill but come on,instant No nd in front of his face i need someone manly!! eww what a behavior
They both dodged the bullet she could have said no to the date
He was veeeeerrrryyyyyy nervous . Also not authentic coz he didn’t get the drink he really wanted
This episode was CRINGE!!!! "You're so exotic looking..."
That was such an ethnocentric thing to say!
I can’t look away though..every New Zealand ‘first dates’ couple I’ve seen,seems insane! has any couple even had a second date?
out the GATE!! lool
@@deadeyes4626 There have been good ones, but never if one or both are under 23. There's even one couple who were up to 10 dates by the update!
it's an indirect way of finding out what someone's ethnicity is.
I don't think I've ever seen the woman on a first date insist on paying the whole bill! Also, when being asked whether they want to see each other again, she was rude to the point of being brutal. Saying "no" immediately and harshly, then saying very bluntly to his face that she needs someone more "manly" than him - that was uncalled for on her part and showed a lack of class and manners. On the other hand, the guy is immature, conceited, and doesn't know how to treat a woman like a lady imho.
Yeah same
I've had it before. Its usually be women who are feminists and they want to see how strong your male ego/traditional gender role mentality is. I actually let her pay (I paid for drinks at the next place). It wasnt a trap and she later even told me the reason why she did it.
she's no lady
sometimes they do it if they know they are not interested and wont have a second date
@@jackcannon3511 so true. If I pay, that's your death sentence. I usually let the guy pay for food and then if I like him, proceed to go for drinks and pay for those (I like when it is back and forth, equal).
Very lucky escape, mate!
At least she did the right thing by paying for the meal when she knew she would never see him again. Saying he wasn't "manly enough" was brutal though. Just say you didn't feel a romantic spark, it's honest while not making the guy need therapy lmao
True. Many women have no problem letting the guy pay knowing they don’t want to see the guy again but and many times giving him the wrong idea
@@lunarsabbatical7906common... Let us have some fun for once...
Meh, many Indian men seem to be particular about money and are likely to go half on the bill anyway.
Tbh it seemed like her way to make him feel less manly
She is no prize. He’s a sweet one. 💜
That's a nice way of saying she's busted 😂
Shes foul
I love to hear the line, "guys are intimidated by me because ...."
We all know where this is going.
also thought it was telling and creepy how she said something to the effect of "wanting lots of babies because they can't run away and reject her like people normally do."
She needs to see a therapist and heal some traumas before having a relationship let alone multiple children.
@@vintagesupermarkets5210🤣🤣👏🏼👀
DEFINATLEY need to heal some underlineing issues and basically learn some maturity befor opting for children may be learn some manners as well
I love to see the word sigma in an username. We all know where this is going
I was cringing through this entire video. I've never seen such and awkward date!
I've never felt worse watching a date, if only I could unwatch it! LOL!!
she was trying her hardest to make him feel ill at ease too. when a person basks in the discomfort of another individual and actually instigates it too, they're not a nice person.
Agreed. I was getting narcissist vibes from her. I cross the street to avoid people like that.@@lowkeyconvert8971
...agree!
that fist bump/high five at the end said everything.
😂😂😂😂 --> chrmez
true that!
Pays the bill to assert her independence and basically emasculates her date. Then says she wants a manly masculine man 🤷🏻♀️ if you are in your masculine, you are not going to attract a masculine man because similar energies repel, rather than attract.
Going half if she didn’t like him, would have been enough, and more respectful towards him.
EXCELLENT POINTS!!!! :))))
He saved money 😂
"In your masculine" what? It's an adjective.
I guess she felt bad for what was about to come: her rejection. She likely didn’t want to give him any ounce of false hope.
Yeah she didnt make sense, but i get her point@@jones2277
When there's no chemistry, there's no chemistry.
"You look so exotic"... he's not a zoo animal! If anyone is ever considering saying something like that on a date, just don't. It is not as complimentary as you think it is and should probably be kept to yourself.
She is unhinged
That goodbye was so awkward, like something out of peepshow
she was deliberately chastising him though.
They both are something else……..
People from New Zealand are socially awkward.
She was SO RUDE
And she De-masculated him at every opportunity.
She didn't deserve to have a date with Such a sweet and lovely Man
Oh from how he introduced himself, he’s not as lovely as you make him out to be.
It’s just that the player got played.
@@zoejordan7876 judgemental
@@zoejordan7876 and seriously (liking your own comment is So Sad)
When someone has to announce what they are saying with the statement starting with "Honestly..."
It tells you that this person is not always telling it like it is ...only when she clarifies it .
great point! just got me realise i have quite few people around me and in my life, saying that too often. --> einjonasson
✌️
It’s weird how she acts laid back but is so uptight in reality
Both equally incredibly cringe
Only 1/3 through and I feel so embarrassed for both of them. They are both so utterly weird. I guess this is the universe sorting out all the undesirables ... natural de-selection !
He's 21 and she's 23, of course they are going to be awkward. I would've been much worse at that age.
They're immature and learning how to adult
law sakes...then don't do it on tv....go to a social or something !
"Why did she pay the bill? I don't understand." To emasculate you, my friend. To emasculate and humiliate you. Good riddance to her.
not quite
He's handsome, she's barely average.
He's sweet, manly enough,
she's mean without a drop
of sensual allure.
He's polite, she's rude.
He's tolerant, she's arrogant without reason.
He tries to get along, she tries, successfully,
to make him nervous.
He deserves a better match,
she deserves time alone to introspectively evolve.
All just my opinion, of course.
@@cbeautifulworld11 not bias at all
@@supremennn3829 bias? I am a woman who thinks that this young woman is quite rude and self-absorbed.
Not sure where bias enters that perception.
If you are a fan of hers or of her behavior, you have a right to your opinion, as well. 100%.
He’s Indian that’s why she wasn’t interested in him
@@treyyg-rt5kz I see in him both the Indian and French which he claims to be.
I disagree , don't think that was a reason.
He got lucky on that one, he was going to say yes, I'm afraid. She was awful. How many men will she castrate, she's no prize.
The paying for the bill means she doesn't want anything to do with you.
My mans ordered a drink he knows nothing about
She acts like a 13 yr old.. the minute she said he was “exotic” that date was over 😂😂 he was too fast on the dumb jokes.!
I dont see why you thought it was over? doest she like darker guys and " exotic" sorry I dont see it
it was her way of finding out what his ethnicity was and i think him saying that he is indian (he does not look french at all) turned her off and then it got worse with the banter.
@@lowkeyconvert8971 Ok I see what you mean
wow the Host is so bad and bartender isn't the best either. The UK crew set the bar.
Unpleasant girl...
That girl is gonna look back at that video in 10 years time and cringe. I do recognise it's edited but she clearly needs to work on her speaking skills. She emasculates the guy and disrespects him.. If the other guy said something similar, there would have been an guardian article written about him.
No, personality disorders get worse with age.
@@nineteenfortyeightunfortunately.
living hell.
He dodged a bullet
“My French accent gets girls in bed”… girl run. Mr Promiscuous capital P.
Why are they all a bit nuts on the nz version... Are they a fair representation of people there..?!
I think she is a sociopath. It's not normal to seek to destroy your dates self esteem and confidence for literally no reason- other than because you aren't attracted to him.
These two were well suited. Thought highly of themselves. She thought she was much more attractive and a catch than she is and he thought he was more confident than he is. Either way, he was higher than her league.
Always that phone call.......🙈
Half indian half french. Still dont know where he's from though.
He lost me at rosé, she lost me at being obsessed with babies.
What a Muppet with the wine 😂
🤣
Wow she has some issues 😅
Shes got sociopath vibes.
I caught narc vibes. Those poir future kids.
As a girl…girls can be so judgemental so quick and don’t give guys enough of a chance….all these dates I watch the guy is nearly always the one to give things a chance regardless of little dislikes
He doesn’t look half French at all😂 funny how dna sometimes work haha
No need for the not manly enough comment.
Please give this lovely guy another chance at the show ❤
He’s not into getting to know her either…
"This broad has lotsa growin' up to do. You'll get there luv...lol
I don't normally feel an instant dislike for someone, but she just instantly made me retract. I feel like she has BPD or something.
She reminds me of my ex friend - the red flags were there from the beginning. The two months I was friends with her were so insane - she put me through a lot. I can't believe I was friends with someone like that.
I’m so intrigued what happened?
.. he was actually really polite the way that he responded to her drunken tattoos... he was quite polite actually. i hope he finds a nicer girl to go out with. she might be masking insecurities with her behaviors.
i have in the distant-ish past gone out with people i shouldn't hav,e in thinking that i should be more open minded. i have literally pulled my own arm to and then found out later that i should never have made those types of passes and mostly regretful for associating myself with someone who was badly mannered, looking and behaved.
she sort of did him a favor because it seemed like he was going to go out with her again at first glance, which was not a good idea- even if he's going through something. it's not always "you" sir, just remember that ...
This lady a little crazy and not in a good way. Needs to filter her thoughts before speaking.
The guy is definitely full Indian, dont see the French in him
i concur. i know that there are some indians who immigrated to french-speaking Mauritius (a french colony) and i kind of think that's what he means which is kind of misleading because it's not "france proper."
"french" doesn't have a look anymore
This was painful to watch.
They’re two immature people looking for someone mature 😅 it was sad too watch almost.
He was kinda creepy talking about her butt like so many times. Its like calm down my guy. 😅😂
She is constantly making him feel bad, and she knows this and she likes doing it to him. She is a narcissist. He is an empath. He has beautiful eyes.
Wow she was more manly than him 🤔
She has no healthy feminine role model 🥀
Their whole date is wild but I’m so confused about the rose thing. “I’m judging you” weird thing to say and then very weird to choose rose, that is the last thing to not be “judged” on but like ok, maybe in france rose is considered cool idk… but then he doesn’t even like it?? So did he think rose was the most impressive drink? What did he actually want to drink? What would she not have judged him on? Why tf is she judging him anyway? I know there’s so many worse things wrong with this date but I’m just baffled at the wine part 😂
He was trying to play on the whole "half French" and classy thing. Clearly doesn't know rosé's a chick drink.
Yes true@@slevinlindsay3624
@@slevinlindsay3624 what do you mean?
The French do not drink rosé
The ice is broken. 😂
This is sad as he is a really nice guy and very attractive, just is shy. The female is hmmmm ...... He will meet the right lady for him.
He definitely never had Rose before lol 😂 both were immature and this date was very cringe
She did him a favor.
This girl was rude! ❤️🇺🇸
Really polite and handsome guy
I think Damien needs to sit and reflect on what her really wants and who he truly is. Seems like he’s actually a nice guy but he’s having an identity crisis.
Spot on
I like how impish and spontaneous he was
She needs to “assert her independence” while also needing someone more manly 😆 I hope they are paid actors because this was weird!
I think she escaped from an asylum, I feel sorry for the man who ends up with her.
No man will end up with her. But I feel sorry for the kids.
Omg this woman is a beast. Watch out for your children!
she's a bit special, isn't she..
Thanks goodness those two didn't have children together.
She got him a little tipsy and he got too comfortable with her.
"Confident" aka Obnoxious vs Damian aka Rajesh Koothrapali.. 😂
is that his name?
@@zacatkinson3926 "Rajesh Koothrapali" is a goofy nerdy guy from The Big Bang Theory tv series..
Hey stop haha he has much better charisma than Rajesh ffs. He was nicer than her too.
She wanted a manly man but insisted in paying herself not allowing him to even look at the bill???
At least she learnt that just having a caramel one doesn't mean he's your type LOL.
Oh my god, who is this rude and abnouxious female? 🤦♀️ Good on him she said no.
NZ had a couple of good ones but gotta say this was not one of them.
I do not even believe these were real daters. Seemed like an act like watching The Hills
Wow, she acted liked she was in grammar school. Scary. she got a long way to go to be a mom.. He needed to grow up too. Oh well young people nowaday!!! How many girls like her are out there?
They're both cray cray 😅
They both have wild expectations 😂
Choose your punchline :
A date told me that I wasn’t manly enough so I:
1- Took my hunting knife, left the elk on the table and left.
or
2- I didn’t even bother for my nails to dry and left.
He has zero dating experience with women. He was completely out of his depth and was very cringe. It was all down hill after Rose-gate and ice-gate. She needs an older guy who is more experienced, has more confidence and who is able to handle her.
Yeah his 21 very young and new to dating. Will take some time. Nice guy though bit cringe though. He will learn we all been through it
Man, the host guy is too attractive. On one hand better to find out now she only cares about looks, but this guy steels the attention of so many woman!😂 if I wasn’t wearing one of my best suits I would feel inferior to this guy
There nowt wrong with the lad. She had no chat, at least he was trying. He was gentleman.
She wants a boyo, partying ect
He was too nice of person for her.
That's ok love, your face freaks me out 🤣
So much weird stuff going on here
U are pretty cool - "yeah I am"... conceded much!!
Red flags forever.
I remember being in a training provider, the person I met again knew her from secondary school, she said don't you mean girlfriend.
If he’s a player, confident and half French I’m James Bond. He lacked confidence massively, better to underplay it on these shows no? The girl was rude, hope she gets a guy who puts her in her place, she’s nothing special and no guy will be intimidated.. she’ll soften up soon as she meets a confident guy.
WEIRD