As a combat veteran I've lost some brothers. But, honestly, all I can think about while I listen to this song is the dog that helped me through the years following. She was my best friend and I walk with her everyday, despite the fact she died three years ago. Thanks, Arlo. For speaking for my soul.
My wife passed away in July as I held her close. She was very aware of everything and no meds. This song describes how I feel 4 months afterward. Spouses really are our best friends aren't they!?
Went through the same thing in May 2017. They say time heals all wounds, but I hate to tell ya, that's only the ones that bleed or break. I wish ya well, cause it gets easier, just not better.
My Best friend and I used to listen to this beautiful song often, and say how we played it for the many friends we'd lost to addiction. We had Lost so many at that point that we couldn't keep count anymore. Lost her this past June when she went back down that dark road one night, while mourning her sister who'd lost to her own demons just a week prior. I asked her to make me a playlist shortly before they both left this world. I hadn't opened it until now, because there were just too many emotions. I'm alone for Christmas and wanted to open it in her memory. Of course, this song is at the top of the playlist. I should have known. Miss you everyday, Tam. Thanks for the wonderful memories.
Raise your glasses to the fallen ones and the ones that are still fighting the unseen battles. No matter what background you have or where you come, if you feel some one is struggling mentally, physically, emotionally etc. Don't be that guy and turn your back on em. Get down in that hole with them and get out together. Some times just making that call or asking in person can change the outcome. RIP SPC. Joshua Brown you're still here with me brother.
Ive lost my son, his best friend, and my beautiful husband all in the past 3 years. I sobvto this song. Love you Big Spider, Jakey poo, and Diz forever in my heart...
My father passed away one month ago, my three best friends lost their lives to drug addiction along the way. When I hear this song I can feel them with me. I hope everyone stays safe this year. God bless.
Strap the fuck in. If your still here, it only gets harder. The longer your alive the more lives your gonna lose. That's the hardest part of living. Make sure you tell the people around you that they matter, that you appreciate them. One day it'll be your turn. Say it now before it's too late. P.L.U.R.
Im sorry about your Dad. I Lost My Dad just under 3 weeks ago and its so Fucking Hard that unless U have been there you cant understand. Take Care & remember " When a Man Cries its not that hes weak its just hes tried to stay strong for to long"
Must be providence. I rarely am on you tube. I was looking for something today and noticed this song on my recommendations. I am going to visit my best friend in hospice this afternoon. Likely to be the last time I see him alive as he is passing quickly. Like so many who have commented, the song brought me to tears, in a beautiful way. Thank you Arlo.
I know this might not sound so bad but I am still shattered by the loss of my dog 3 months ago. She was my best friend ever. And even though she and I never got high on gasoline together, I see her ghost all over the house. This song brought me to tears. Beautiful.
Don't be silly. Our pets ate our family. I really don't know what I'd do if something happened to my girl. Shes truly my best friend. She's always there for me good times and bad.
I lost one of my best friends to cancer 8 months ago. I needed a song like this. I'm sure I'm not the only one. Great job on a very well written, and sang song , and I thank you for it.
When the world stomped me down and it felt I was towing the line alone feeling like none to talk to my dad would be there I miss and love him like hell
Don't know how to say this but I'm gonna try. My best friend that was a brother to me lost his battle with his demons. Been a long 4 years and this song just makes it all a little easier to cope with him being gone. Thank you so much for this beautiful song. Love you Jack. No day goes by that I don't think about you.
Oh wow. Lost my son a while back. Wow. We were more friends than we should have been. I miss him so much. I was listening to punk rock and this came up "Recommend for you" really? I love it.
I have 3 sons and I can't imagine the feeling of not having them on this Earth with me .. My Heart feels for you Beth.. Truly a sad song for those who have loved and lost.. yet, I know that you will always have love for your son till you leave this Life.. I send you much love and Healing Energies.. my Dear Friend.. We are all in this together.. walking each other Home .. Your Son is always with you in Spirit.. Take good care of you.. for those who leave us.. want nothing less for us.. than to go on knowing that love has touched our Souls.. I lost my husband back in 1989.. We were young.. only 23.. tragically he died at home, alone.. and I still think of him and miss him to this day.. Love Never Dies when it is True .. Big Hugzzz from me for you Sweet Soul.. Beth Xo
Beth, my heart goes out to you. I dont have any children, but Ive lost a lot of friends and people I loved over the years. I also have a mother that I am not ashamed to say is easily one of my best friends. Tomorrow she will drop me off at detox/mental health institution for the fifth time in my life. Her love is unconditional and boundless, as I'm certain yours was for your son. Best wishes and cry your sorrows out while you still can.
@@melaniemarshall6942 Beautifully stated. It's always a breath of fresh air seeing people reach out to others with kindness. Thanks for showing how it should be done.
Still feels like I'm in the hospital watching you fade away but Ill never forget the good times we had and all you did for me mom. You truly were my best friend and you go with me everywhere.
This song really hits home. I lost my little brother last yr. He was only 33yrs old and went way before his time. I can't thank you enough for this song or honestly tell you what it truly means to me.
Dear Will Kateley, my heart aches for you. I know the loss you speak of. Some times we don't get to understand the reason why. Please know they are free, and the pain is gone for them. We have to remember their beauty and joy they brought to our lives. It's hard to let go, we are better for knowing them. So sorry for the pain. Take Care friend. 💜💙Namaste 🙏
@@triciaagnew3278 I do, to friends, parents and mental health professionals. Talking only accomplishes so much. I already have the plans for when my parents are no more. So long as I outlive my parents I'll have kept my promise to them. After that, I'd welcome death as I doubt anything will change markedly enough to make me want to keep struggling. Thank you for the sentiment Tricia, and sincere condolences on your loss also as saying that slipped my first post.
Man I was 16 when I lost my two best friends in a car accident. I had a dream a few weeks ago and it seemed so real, I woke up crying like the day I lost them.. I’m 42 years old and there hasn’t been a day that I have thought about them.. Kelly and Regina I love you and I’ll see you one day and we’ll set and talk about it all
My little brother whos having hard times right now just sent me this. I know its hard little brother but hang in there. I miss being your brother and would have changed our lives together but i cant.just know I love you and will never be ashamed to say it. ✊
Lost a lot of my friends an my best friend since kindergarten to war. What I would do to have a sit with their ghost . This song literally made my heart hurt. Excellent song.
Strange how I found this for I had a dream about my best friend last night, we built barges together on the Tennessee rvr for years & would meet each other halfway to work & ride our Harleys 20 miles to jobsite, man I miss Mike Pekarchick.....a true friend.
Rest in paradise Ian Walsh. I had a son since you left us, his name is Ian as well. So in theory you were only gone a short period of time. I pray he's half the man you were, and twice the man you turned me into. Miss you brother.
Just found out a friend of mine passed away. He was only 28 and his time was cut short. One of the best memories I have with him is jumping off of a bridge into a muddy river. He was such an amazing young man and a true friend. I love you and I'll miss you brother! RIP Aaron
Arlo recorded this song 8 days before my son passed away. I love this musician so much. My son was a blues man (Tennesseejohn Hunt) and Arlo captures so much of his essence in his music. Thank you so much Arlo for speaking from your heart and sharing your innermost thoughts with us. Feel so much less alone when I listen to your music!! Burning tires and drinking beer underneath the Bullrun Bridge, weekends at Norris lake with Fewell, tagging fish in the Tennessee river with Misty Huddleston. So much love......
I appreciate that brother you just hit a mark with me and a old friend I've missed for 18 yrs this oct 2020 That he haunted my dreams with good memories things we left undone till he finally faded and i guess don't visit but i definitely ! Appreciate this i cause it reminds me of a bottle we said we was finish next time and a river bend i still have that bottle half empty
My best friend died last year. April 19th 2020. We been best friends for along time. We met in school and we hung out everyday after school and we even would stay the night at each other's place is on the weekends just having a blast. And he was always there to help out. He helped me get through some tough times like when both of our friends name Dylan passed away. He helped me move and he was there supporting me when my little brother passed. he did a lot of drugs it messed up his brain and it ended up putting him in jail for a while and he ended up getting clean. But then he had mental issues due to the past drug use and ended up slipping into a psychosis when is brain chemistry went off balance and while he was unconscious he went wandering into the woods and then got lost and died of hypothermia. I miss him so much he was one of my soal brothers.
Dreams you knew you’d never see, swear you’ll see them now with me, traveling with the ghost of my best friend! 25 years ago I sat at that exact river bend with my best friend high on gasoline and whatever else we could ingest. Matt lost his life shortly after and has travelled every day sense right along with me! Dammit Arlo why does your music make me wanna get into a relationship,love deeply, get my heart shattered and then repeat the process. Hands down one of this generations best lyricist!
My best friend died at 23 12/18/09 on his way to my house, 10 months later my other bestfriend died at 21. In 2015 our bestfriend shot himself, 2 weeks later 3 of my friends were in a car wreck one of my bestfriends survived, his girlfriend and his bestfriend died. This song hits hard
On the question of how to grieve I can't answer that one. I'm still mourning a father a sister my two best friends and a little kitten that stole my heart. Each one takes a piece that never comes back..
Arlo, this one hits deep, bud. My best friend shot himself a couple years ago. Still think about him all the time when something nice happens in life and I can't tell him about it. Just wanted to let you know that your music touches people. Im sure you hear it all the time, but let this be yet another reminder. Love you, brother. Keep doing what you do, and don't ever stop.
My best friend shot himself July 7th 2021. Im still in shock and guilt stricken because I didn't call him a couple of weeks earlier when I thought about him. We had lived in Alabama together. I moved to Wyoming and he moved to Oklahoma. I keep wondering if a call could have made a difference...or if he had moved to Wyoming like he thought about if he'd still be here. You don't listen to this song... you feel it.
@@donodom3441 Sorry to hear that. You know, I often think a call could have changed things, but in the end the cards were played. The best we can do is keep moving on down the line and keep them in our hearts. I still joke about my buddy Matt all the time, and he comes up at nearly every outing we attend. Keep him alive and learn from what we've seen. Much love to you and yours. Hope it all ends up well for you.
I'm from a rust belt town 100 miles upriver from Cincy. I've lost about 20 friends and family members in the last 25-ish years of the opoid crisis. My little town was ground zero, where the pill mill pain clinic was invented, by my hcildhood doctor, Proctor. I feel this song on a gut level that's hard to put into words, along with many of Arlos other songs. 😞
And just found out today I lost another 2 days ago. 49 is too yound to die like that. Sitting on the banks of the Ohio, summer nights sticky and warm, drinking beer, smoking shitty weed, and laughing it up with my HS/early 20s best friends. Felt like we would live forever and a day. R.I.P You're missed old buddy.
I lost my best friend a couple years ago.. each day is harder than the day before. I lost a big piece of myself when i lost her. Its hard to figure out who you are supposed to be when you can't be the person you once were.
Makes me think of and remember my friend Pete. We lost touch after high school, I joined the service and went away. Married, two kids, found out he'd lost his mind off his meds and pulled a gun on a cop. Can't blame the cop. Pete visited me a few times. Led me through a maze that was a bar, didn't say a word, I just followed. At the end of the bar, he let me know everything was okay. So, thanks, Arlo 🙏🏻🤍💛
Wow! I can't stop crying...... I've never heard of Arlo McKinley, but boy he hit me hard. The anniversary of when I found my mom, she went to the other side, is coming up. To hear this song for the 1st time, I don't believe in coincidence. She was the best of everything. And I often do find myself with her spirit around me, like she never left. But then I wake up..............
arlo & i losy out mother like 2&1/2 yrs ago but few months before, we lost a close family friend, HERES TO THE DYING on the nrw cd MESS WITH WERE IN is another bout lost family members, I MISS MY MOM TO DEATH BRO
Sgt. Joseph Bovia, Lcpl. Josh Twigg, Cpl. John Bishop, Cpl. Jacob Tate, Lcpl. Sam Htaik, Lcpl. Ryan Giese. Guys like you and I are never alone. Semper Fi
My uncle was murdered over ten years ago. He was like the father I never had. I still remember the phone call I got off my mother. I'll always hold u in my heart Neil, and I'll always look after ur kids like they was mine
Thanks for writing this song. Lost my best friend a few years ago, still have dreams about him alot. Never been able to articulate how those dreams feel to folks but this song does it better than I ever could. Thanks again.
As a combat veteran I've lost some brothers. But, honestly, all I can think about while I listen to this song is the dog that helped me through the years following. She was my best friend and I walk with her everyday, despite the fact she died three years ago. Thanks, Arlo. For speaking for my soul.
Sometimes dogs are much better people than the people we know best. I feel you. And thank you for your service 🙏
Thank You for your service and I am sorry for your loss... I feel your pain in regards to 4 legged best friends. I Hope You are well
Can't help but think of my old kitty myself. Sometimes our pets are better friends than humans. ❤️
Got my old boys collar and lead next to me now.
Thank you for your service sir. God gives glory to our fallen + Love this song Arlo #1. Recovering addict here. 1 day at a time!
My wife passed away in July as I held her close. She was very aware of everything and no meds. This song describes how I feel 4 months afterward. Spouses really are our best friends aren't they!?
Sorry about your wife.
They ought to be... Sorry for your loss... 🙏💗🦋
May she rest in peace.
Went through the same thing in May 2017. They say time heals all wounds, but I hate to tell ya, that's only the ones that bleed or break. I wish ya well, cause it gets easier, just not better.
Sorry for your loss brother
My Best friend and I used to listen to this beautiful song often, and say how we played it for the many friends we'd lost to addiction. We had Lost so many at that point that we couldn't keep count anymore. Lost her this past June when she went back down that dark road one night, while mourning her sister who'd lost to her own demons just a week prior. I asked her to make me a playlist shortly before they both left this world. I hadn't opened it until now, because there were just too many emotions. I'm alone for Christmas and wanted to open it in her memory. Of course, this song is at the top of the playlist. I should have known. Miss you everyday, Tam. Thanks for the wonderful memories.
Goodbye dear friend by Deerhunter is one of my favs
I don't know if Arlo ever reads comments, but I sure hope he knows how many people he's touched with this song.
I lost my momma, almost 48 hours ago....
I don't know where to even go from here.
Or even if I'll be able to ever again.
Raise your glasses to the fallen ones and the ones that are still fighting the unseen battles. No matter what background you have or where you come, if you feel some one is struggling mentally, physically, emotionally etc. Don't be that guy and turn your back on em. Get down in that hole with them and get out together. Some times just making that call or asking in person can change the outcome. RIP SPC. Joshua Brown you're still here with me brother.
Sgt Juan Navarro
I feel ya brother.
This song gave me the closest thing to closure about my best friend I'll get.
I hear ya.... tilt one up for the missing ones today
@@Champino443 that's the plan.
Thats how i feel.. Jan 9th will be 2 years since my bestfriend passed
Currently sitting here in tears over the same thing. I don't know you but I love you.
Me too
Ive lost my son, his best friend, and my beautiful husband all in the past 3 years. I sobvto this song. Love you Big Spider, Jakey poo, and Diz forever in my heart...
My father passed away one month ago, my three best friends lost their lives to drug addiction along the way. When I hear this song I can feel them with me. I hope everyone stays safe this year. God bless.
I'm,sorry for your loss man. Lost mine in,highschool. Cant say it hurts any less. Just gotten more,calluses on,my,emotions.
I’m sorry for your loss man. Im just getting to know my father at 40 and I can’t imagine losing him.
Strap the fuck in. If your still here, it only gets harder. The longer your alive the more lives your gonna lose. That's the hardest part of living. Make sure you tell the people around you that they matter, that you appreciate them. One day it'll be your turn. Say it now before it's too late. P.L.U.R.
Im sorry about your Dad. I Lost My Dad just under 3 weeks ago and its so Fucking Hard that unless U have been there you cant understand. Take Care & remember " When a Man Cries its not that hes weak its just hes tried to stay strong for to long"
God bless bro
Must be providence. I rarely am on you tube. I was looking for something today and noticed this song on my recommendations. I am going to visit my best friend in hospice this afternoon. Likely to be the last time I see him alive as he is passing quickly. Like so many who have commented, the song brought me to tears, in a beautiful way. Thank you Arlo.
I know this might not sound so bad but I am still shattered by the loss of my dog 3 months ago. She was my best friend ever. And even though she and I never got high on gasoline together, I see her ghost all over the house. This song brought me to tears. Beautiful.
I lost my best dog ever at twelve years old on December 18th, 2012. I miss you every day, Casey, you were amazing.
Don't be silly. Our pets ate our family. I really don't know what I'd do if something happened to my girl. Shes truly my best friend. She's always there for me good times and bad.
Got high on gasoline.
I believe you
Sound so bad? Brother I lost my gear friend, Momo, on Jan 1st... And it's hands down the hardest thing I've ever dealt with.
I lost one of my best friends to cancer 8 months ago. I needed a song like this. I'm sure I'm not the only one. Great job on a very well written, and sang song , and I thank you for it.
When the world stomped me down and it felt I was towing the line alone feeling like none to talk to my dad would be there I miss and love him like hell
Don't know how to say this but I'm gonna try. My best friend that was a brother to me lost his battle with his demons. Been a long 4 years and this song just makes it all a little easier to cope with him being gone. Thank you so much for this beautiful song.
Love you Jack. No day goes by that I don't think about you.
Oh wow. Lost my son a while back. Wow. We were more friends than we should have been. I miss him so much. I was listening to punk rock and this came up "Recommend for you" really? I love it.
I have 3 sons and I can't imagine the feeling of not having them on this Earth with me .. My Heart feels for you Beth.. Truly a sad song for those who have loved and lost.. yet, I know that you will always have love for your son till you leave this Life.. I send you much love and Healing Energies.. my Dear Friend.. We are all in this together.. walking each other Home .. Your Son is always with you in Spirit.. Take good care of you.. for those who leave us.. want nothing less for us.. than to go on knowing that love has touched our Souls.. I lost my husband back in 1989.. We were young.. only 23.. tragically he died at home, alone.. and I still think of him and miss him to this day.. Love Never Dies when it is True .. Big Hugzzz from me for you Sweet Soul.. Beth Xo
@@melaniemarshall6942 Thank you. That's was beautiful and kind. People like you prove this world isn't all bad
@@melaniemarshall6942 You are awesome Melanie
Beth, my heart goes out to you. I dont have any children, but Ive lost a lot of friends and people I loved over the years. I also have a mother that I am not ashamed to say is easily one of my best friends. Tomorrow she will drop me off at detox/mental health institution for the fifth time in my life. Her love is unconditional and boundless, as I'm certain yours was for your son. Best wishes and cry your sorrows out while you still can.
@@melaniemarshall6942 Beautifully stated. It's always a breath of fresh air seeing people reach out to others with kindness. Thanks for showing how it should be done.
Still feels like I'm in the hospital watching you fade away but Ill never forget the good times we had and all you did for me mom. You truly were my best friend and you go with me everywhere.
Miss You Charles Pickard. Goodtimes on the acoustic wish you could seen Arlo get famous!
This song really hits home. I lost my little brother last yr. He was only 33yrs old and went way before his time. I can't thank you enough for this song or honestly tell you what it truly means to me.
For my dad who loved playing on the guitar n hanging on the boat,,God i miss u
Love it Brother ❤
Give heaven some hell boys :( weird without ya guys this song holds a deep place for you both in my heart
Christ, Arlo. Ten minutes since your song ended, still sitting here stunned, leaking at the eyes, with a dodgy heart rhythm.
Thanks so much. So happy John led me to Jason isbell sturgill Simpson Tyler Childers. Tre Burt And now Arlo McKinley. Great stuff.
That is almost exactly how I found Bag o Pills LOL
You should check out Zach Bryan as well if you like this.
Colter Wall foo
Never heard of Tre Burt. Thank you.
B
❤❤
This song truly helped a part of me thats broken tape itself up.
21 friends I've had took their lives and this brings back memories of everyone of them 💔
Dear Will Kateley, my heart aches for you. I know the loss you speak of. Some times we don't get to understand the reason why. Please know they are free, and the pain is gone for them. We have to remember their beauty and joy they brought to our lives. It's hard to let go, we are better for knowing them. So sorry for the pain. Take Care friend. 💜💙Namaste 🙏
Tears and LOVE
NAMASTE 🕉️💜
Sometimes I feel like I can't keep going, but I know I can't give up. If it wasn't for my niece and a few good friends, I wouldn't be here today.
Lost my best friend July 11, 2020. My heart will never be whole again.
I lost my 18 year old sister to brain cancer on that day too 😔..sorry for your loss.
Lost mine to suicide January 4th 2019. He took half of me wherever he went and I'd probably follow if it weren't for my parents.
@@Blueswailer You are important. Please talk to someone about any self harm thoughts you might be having. You matter to the world. I promise
@@triciaagnew3278 I do, to friends, parents and mental health professionals. Talking only accomplishes so much. I already have the plans for when my parents are no more. So long as I outlive my parents I'll have kept my promise to them. After that, I'd welcome death as I doubt anything will change markedly enough to make me want to keep struggling.
Thank you for the sentiment Tricia, and sincere condolences on your loss also as saying that slipped my first post.
@@Blueswailer I'm here to tell you that you're wrong! You matter to someone you may have not even met yet!
Man I was 16 when I lost my two best friends in a car accident. I had a dream a few weeks ago and it seemed so real, I woke up crying like the day I lost them.. I’m 42 years old and there hasn’t been a day that I have thought about them.. Kelly and Regina I love you and I’ll see you one day and we’ll set and talk about it all
I'm thankful for 14 years with mine. He just passed March2nd,2023. 39 years old. I will never get over losing him. He was my heart and soul.
I miss my best friend. 4 years and I still cant believe hes gone. RIP Michael until we can meet again.
I hear this with my heart thru my ears.
Rest in peace my friend Karlie Rayne Lopez I love you always I miss you terribly every day wish you were here
This hits hard... 17 when I lost my mom.. She’s still the best friend I’ve ever had or will ever..
I miss my best friend. It's been a few months since he passed but I still just want one more night of driving around the city with him.
This song hits me way too hard. God bless you brother.
This guy deserves to be heard everywhere
Congrats on joining Oh Boy Records 👏
I lost my little brother to alcohol at 24 two months ago. This song makes me think of him so much
I remember when I found this song a week after it hit UA-cam and I can easily say that I’m at least one thousand of its views
My little brother whos having hard times right now just sent me this. I know its hard little brother but hang in there. I miss being your brother and would have changed our lives together but i cant.just know I love you and will never be ashamed to say it. ✊
Lost a lot of my friends an my best friend since kindergarten to war. What I would do to have a sit with their ghost . This song literally made my heart hurt. Excellent song.
He is an unrecognized TALENT! I love his Music!
He's not unrecognized ur crazy he's just real and ant gonna change for nobody
Strange how I found this for I had a dream about my best friend last night, we built barges together on the Tennessee rvr for years & would meet each other halfway to work & ride our Harleys 20 miles to jobsite, man I miss Mike Pekarchick.....a true friend.
Makes me think of my brst freind louise I miss her so much love you always 💗 x
..I still have images in my head of walking in.. and finding my friend slumped over and already turning blue.. Fly high my guy....
Sorry bro. That's how I woke up to my best friend. Horrible thing. Hard to move on like normal.
Dying inside. Living this song, but dammit he never stays too long. And if it's all in my head. Lost in the was..
This song reminds me of missing my old best pal. rip Nathan Johnson. I miss you every day brother. Hope we meet again N8Dawg
Rest in paradise Ian Walsh. I had a son since you left us, his name is Ian as well. So in theory you were only gone a short period of time. I pray he's half the man you were, and twice the man you turned me into. Miss you brother.
Just found out a friend of mine passed away. He was only 28 and his time was cut short. One of the best memories I have with him is jumping off of a bridge into a muddy river. He was such an amazing young man and a true friend. I love you and I'll miss you brother! RIP Aaron
Arlo recorded this song 8 days before my son passed away. I love this musician so much. My son was a blues man (Tennesseejohn Hunt) and Arlo captures so much of his essence in his music. Thank you so much Arlo for speaking from your heart and sharing your innermost thoughts with us. Feel so much less alone when I listen to your music!! Burning tires and drinking beer underneath the Bullrun Bridge, weekends at Norris lake with Fewell, tagging fish in the Tennessee river with Misty Huddleston. So much love......
My gf passed in her sleep in April 2019 I heard this not to long after her passing and I still cry till this day and it's been just over 4yrs now
Thank you!!
I could practically cry listening to the comments... Tyler is similar....
This song just takes me to a tone when.... good old memories of a friend gone to early. I'll leave it there.
Lost the best friend I ever had last year and I’m trying to dry my eye right now. Amazing song!
This reminds me of John Prine in all the best ways
High praise
Agreed, how appropriate to run into this at this time..
That's high praise and I concur.
Love John Prine
It is on Oh Boy label (John Prine's)
I appreciate that brother you just hit a mark with me
and a old friend I've missed for 18 yrs this oct 2020
That he haunted my dreams with good memories things we left undone till he finally faded and i guess don't visit but i definitely ! Appreciate this
i cause it reminds me of a bottle we said we was finish next time and a river bend i still have that bottle half empty
Today is the 20th anniversary of losing my best friend in our accident. Thanks for the songs that touch my soul
My dad passed 18may20 this is the first time I've heard this Arlo you got me sir
My best friend died last year. April 19th 2020. We been best friends for along time. We met in school and we hung out everyday after school and we even would stay the night at each other's place is on the weekends just having a blast. And he was always there to help out. He helped me get through some tough times like when both of our friends name Dylan passed away. He helped me move and he was there supporting me when my little brother passed. he did a lot of drugs it messed up his brain and it ended up putting him in jail for a while and he ended up getting clean. But then he had mental issues due to the past drug use and ended up slipping into a psychosis when is brain chemistry went off balance and while he was unconscious he went wandering into the woods and then got lost and died of hypothermia. I miss him so much he was one of my soal brothers.
Arlo is the best . I love this song .
Dreams you knew you’d never see, swear you’ll see them now with me, traveling with the ghost of my best friend! 25 years ago I sat at that exact river bend with my best friend high on gasoline and whatever else we could ingest. Matt lost his life shortly after and has travelled every day sense right along with me! Dammit Arlo why does your music make me wanna get into a relationship,love deeply, get my heart shattered and then repeat the process. Hands down one of this generations best lyricist!
Filmed in Ludlow along the banks of the Ohio? Fabulous song and video. This NEEDS to be a hit!!!!
@cliff hooper Ludlow would be Ludlow, KY, and the skyline would be Cincinnati, Arlo's home town.
@cliff hooper Cincinnati
@@patrickseymour123 thank youuu
@@patrickseymour123 I’m the neighbor in oldham county and that river sure is up right now
Ahhheeeehhhmmm...whew...yessir, I do believe that's a wrap. Geez, that one hurt.
His music touches my soul knowing that we've been down similar paths. It's nice that hes playing in my hometown tonight
That fits so well with john prines style of music,I love it!
My best friend died at 23 12/18/09 on his way to my house, 10 months later my other bestfriend died at 21. In 2015 our bestfriend shot himself, 2 weeks later 3 of my friends were in a car wreck one of my bestfriends survived, his girlfriend and his bestfriend died. This song hits hard
That's because it sounds like sam stone
love this man born and raised in Ky
Makes me miss my friend. I want to bawl with this song
On the question of how to grieve
I can't answer that one. I'm still mourning a father a sister my two best friends and a little kitten that stole my heart. Each one takes a piece that never comes back..
Speechless is what I am
I feel the emotions of the word
And the voice behind this song.
Your comment was so beautiful
I cried. Thank you
For sharing
Arlo, this one hits deep, bud. My best friend shot himself a couple years ago. Still think about him all the time when something nice happens in life and I can't tell him about it. Just wanted to let you know that your music touches people. Im sure you hear it all the time, but let this be yet another reminder. Love you, brother. Keep doing what you do, and don't ever stop.
My best friend shot himself July 7th 2021. Im still in shock and guilt stricken because I didn't call him a couple of weeks earlier when I thought about him. We had lived in Alabama together. I moved to Wyoming and he moved to Oklahoma. I keep wondering if a call could have made a difference...or if he had moved to Wyoming like he thought about if he'd still be here.
You don't listen to this song... you feel it.
@@donodom3441 Sorry to hear that. You know, I often think a call could have changed things, but in the end the cards were played. The best we can do is keep moving on down the line and keep them in our hearts. I still joke about my buddy Matt all the time, and he comes up at nearly every outing we attend. Keep him alive and learn from what we've seen. Much love to you and yours. Hope it all ends up well for you.
Amazing!!! Makes me wish my best friend was still here.. ..😔 RIP Sean Snider..
Listening to this you realize this is soul music in the best way..real
I'm from a rust belt town 100 miles upriver from Cincy. I've lost about 20 friends and family members in the last 25-ish years of the opoid crisis. My little town was ground zero, where the pill mill pain clinic was invented, by my hcildhood doctor, Proctor. I feel this song on a gut level that's hard to put into words, along with many of Arlos other songs. 😞
And just found out today I lost another 2 days ago. 49 is too yound to die like that. Sitting on the banks of the Ohio, summer nights sticky and warm, drinking beer, smoking shitty weed, and laughing it up with my HS/early 20s best friends. Felt like we would live forever and a day. R.I.P You're missed old buddy.
Man I miss my best friends
Me to brother
I lost my best friend a couple years ago.. each day is harder than the day before. I lost a big piece of myself when i lost her. Its hard to figure out who you are supposed to be when you can't be the person you once were.
AMEN...
Ikr....
Beautifully haunting.
I am literally in love with Arlo's voice and style. His music makes my broken heart smile.
John started oh boy to publish whatever the hell they wanted to, this song reflects johns love and wisdom beautiful song thank you Arlo, thank
😭😭😭😭😭 miss you and love ya trina!!!!
Nice. Very nice
Thank you brother...
After hearing bag of pills i had to learn your songs on guitar. Your songs really make me feel good singing them❤
MISS YOU JOHN I LOVE YOU ...THINGS WILL NEVER BE THE SAME EVER..IF THIS IS A DREAM DONT WAKE ME
Fantastic song and talented musician, need to listen to more of his song, great find.
definitely Prine sounding. beautiful song.
Good stuff. As usual!
Makes me think of and remember my friend Pete. We lost touch after high school, I joined the service and went away. Married, two kids, found out he'd lost his mind off his meds and pulled a gun on a cop. Can't blame the cop.
Pete visited me a few times. Led me through a maze that was a bar, didn't say a word, I just followed. At the end of the bar, he let me know everything was okay.
So, thanks, Arlo 🙏🏻🤍💛
Wow. That hits the heart so hard. Wonderful song and fantastic performance of it.
wonderful song. very touching.
What s great testament to the rivers power and beauty
Wow! I can't stop crying...... I've never heard of Arlo McKinley, but boy he hit me hard. The anniversary of when I found my mom, she went to the other side, is coming up. To hear this song for the 1st time, I don't believe in coincidence. She was the best of everything. And I often do find myself with her spirit around me, like she never left. But then I wake up..............
arlo & i losy out mother like 2&1/2 yrs ago but few months before, we lost a close family friend, HERES TO THE DYING on the nrw cd MESS WITH WERE IN is another bout lost family members, I MISS MY MOM TO DEATH BRO
@@horror_punk_gamer9932 so sorry for your loss. Since this post, I've lost my dad. Cherish your parents.
SPC Ryan N. Kettell. Miss you brother, this song is absolutely amazing and made me break down. Thank you sir
Sgt. Joseph Bovia, Lcpl. Josh Twigg, Cpl. John Bishop, Cpl. Jacob Tate, Lcpl. Sam Htaik, Lcpl. Ryan Giese. Guys like you and I are never alone. Semper Fi
This song saved my life….❤ thank you for this and f@#k cancer…😔
cheers for the upload 👍🇬🇧
My uncle was murdered over ten years ago. He was like the father I never had. I still remember the phone call I got off my mother. I'll always hold u in my heart Neil, and I'll always look after ur kids like they was mine
Thanks for writing this song. Lost my best friend a few years ago, still have dreams about him alot. Never been able to articulate how those dreams feel to folks but this song does it better than I ever could. Thanks again.