Unscripted E08: Why one should not settle // Finding purpose in marriage

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  • @harrietbwiire4989
    @harrietbwiire4989 25 днів тому +1

    But honestly, your podcasts are addictive.i sleep @ 3-4 am
    Eeeee
    So inspiring spiritually, thank you

  • @ia2906
    @ia2906 Рік тому +30

    Hmm Shana, we were on campus together, same years:) I hear you! I got married in my 40s too and frankly I had stopped and started absolutelty enjoying my own company and a good career trajectory.. but God had other plans. He always does! I prayed for marriage and God said "seek first the kingdom..." I was like God, what have I been doing all this time lol..

    • @kabeehodebrah5015
      @kabeehodebrah5015 Рік тому +4

      ❤😂😂I asked for a financial breakthrough for my family some years ago and he said " seek ye first the kingdom ". That's not the pleasant message to hear when you are broke but I did and it worked.

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  Рік тому +6

      When God asks of/instructs us to seek first His kingdom and righteousness and the rest will be added unto us, He is really calling our attention to that which is most important and is eternal. The things we often seek are temporal.

  • @magezimesuseera9158
    @magezimesuseera9158 Місяць тому

    I am learning alot Mr and Mrs Kitaka that total submission to God
    Is every important in Life without putting strings attached, and especially when you add strings with Gods plans . I believe God has brought you in my life right in the right timing in most positions am carrying out especially God has a reason to put my gts low so he can elevant me at the right time. 👌Let me keep my eyes onto him untill the promised land.

  • @khebasymue1892
    @khebasymue1892 Рік тому +8

    Banange tusiima🙌 you guys are doing some of us well. These are very expensive yet free classes. Blessings 🙌🙌🙌

  • @ireneochola181
    @ireneochola181 Рік тому +7

    Your podcasts are becoming addictive. Thanks for pouring out your lives to us.

    • @sheillaanyoda6823
      @sheillaanyoda6823 3 місяці тому

      You could say that again, I actually just started last week but any minute I get free I run to go
      Watch from where I stopped, indeed they have blessed us with these podcasts.

  • @flavianabweteme5454
    @flavianabweteme5454 4 місяці тому +2

    Really, I think people just have fears about age. At 38 for my life looks like it has just began. I feel God still has a lot to do in me. And I am looking forward to it.

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  4 місяці тому

      I like that you are very positive about life regardless especially since your perspective seems to be driven by a clear anticipation of Gods work in you. Most people’s fears make when you consider where they are rooted 🤔 and the yardstick used to assess the pros and cons. -RK

  • @masetenicholas4520
    @masetenicholas4520 Рік тому +4

    Am a software engineer but i just like how Eng Kitaka explains his concepts on faith and marriage as though he is explaining multi label classification using neural networks. I would love to be your student.

  • @dorcusmubeezi9269
    @dorcusmubeezi9269 2 місяці тому

    Eeeh This Man is very very intelligent.
    You're blessed Woman of God❤❤

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  2 місяці тому

      I am more than blessed indeed! -RK

  • @paskaziatumwesigye1534
    @paskaziatumwesigye1534 Рік тому +4

    @Ruk I will be glad to listen to a podcast on ‘while waiting on God for a spouse....’

  • @nagawajovita784
    @nagawajovita784 Рік тому +14

    My prayer is to have these sessions atleast on a weekly basis, am glad this came in soon...
    Always expectant..... Thank you so much dear ones

    • @nakittohellen3934
      @nakittohellen3934 Рік тому +2

      U are not alone at least weekly . Though I rest in peace as the Holy Spirit guides them

    • @faithmutamba1333
      @faithmutamba1333 Рік тому +3

      For Me, I'm praying for a live session in a hall, just being blessed in the audience section.. asking questions and getting their feedback ❤️

  • @rachellorna5109
    @rachellorna5109 Рік тому +5

    "Keep your eyes on God. He will lead you, guide you, order your steps and He'll get you into the promised land to posses your possessions." Amiina ❤

  • @namatovujackline9825
    @namatovujackline9825 Рік тому +1

    Every bit of this session is worth all the attention...am glad my friend Jessie recommended the Kitaka's❤😊

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  Рік тому

      We are glad Jessie led you here and you willingly came 🙏! May the Lord continue to minister to you as only He can. -RK

    • @namatovujackline9825
      @namatovujackline9825 Рік тому

      Amen,thanks so much

  • @mugalajosephine5610
    @mugalajosephine5610 Рік тому +4

    Thanks the Kitakas for blessing us always. Thought l'd share that l also got to that point where l felt it was taking longer than l had expected. And l remember sharing my frustration with my bosom friend l was praying with at the time and to date her response comes to mind when l start to despair. She told me " Yes, you think it's taking longer and your feelings are valid. But Mukama agambaki? Has He told you to stop presenting your desire for marriage to him? Why are you in a hurry to quit? Wait on God and expand your perspective to include how God can help you become a better version of you. Prepare yourself to be that person who the gentleman would be glad to recieve when the time comes".

  • @solatim2142
    @solatim2142 Рік тому +1

    Expeditious Shana. I am your no. 2 fan. I salute the Kitaka's. Merci!!

  • @rukundoolivianakalyango714
    @rukundoolivianakalyango714 Рік тому +5

    This indeed is an eye opener😊, "desire a vision bearer you can help beyond desiring marriage" am 29yrs and was starting to get worried. Thank you so much🤝

  • @mukizasamuel4486
    @mukizasamuel4486 10 місяців тому

    Indeed unscripted and unfiltered hard conversations.

  • @Heavenly-Citizen
    @Heavenly-Citizen 4 місяці тому

    I can't stop watching your podcasts, what have i been doing all along. I love people of God.😍

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  4 місяці тому

      You are just in time 😊. -RK

  • @rebeccaikilai8673
    @rebeccaikilai8673 Рік тому +2

    Oh my God! I had never known this beautiful God-fearing side of Rukh-shana! I am blessed viewing this!

  • @faithmutamba1333
    @faithmutamba1333 Рік тому +3

    I would pay to listen to these two on a live podcast... I love you dearly..

  • @suziephaphie7019
    @suziephaphie7019 Рік тому +1

    Ooh yes.. strongly being grounded..

  • @babirye.mariah
    @babirye.mariah Рік тому +2

    This is so good keeping our eyes on God so we don’t sink

  • @lornakigozi1747
    @lornakigozi1747 Рік тому +1

    Too much Wisdom here, "being given and possessing what you have been given , are two different things" this is Deep!
    Blessings to yo' Marriage Ministry

  • @victoriabyoona4445
    @victoriabyoona4445 Рік тому +2

    Confidence in God is key.

  • @kayvin9841
    @kayvin9841 Рік тому

    I am challenged as a man. I need to be grounded in my walk with God

  • @louisekanyiginya6352
    @louisekanyiginya6352 Рік тому

    "The cause is not enough for you to ignore the blueprint of marriage"... That's deep

  • @MalaaKivilaOdera
    @MalaaKivilaOdera Рік тому +1

    Kudos to you Mr & Mrs Kitaka on actualizing this podcast.
    I had so many light bulb moments throughout the 1 hour + discussion.
    God bless you abundantly.
    Keep at it as you submit to the assignment giver - Yeshua!
    Baraka!

  • @sandran1291
    @sandran1291 Рік тому +3

    Woow, Mr kitaka has opened my eyes abt fitting in someone's purpose/ vision. More blessings 🎉 to you The Kitakas

  • @paskaziatumwesigye1534
    @paskaziatumwesigye1534 Рік тому +1

    The steps of a just man are ordered by God. The Just man shall live by faith. Thanks Man...ahh...Gad

  • @evelyneniwagaba1666
    @evelyneniwagaba1666 Рік тому +3

    This came in time it was a good listen. Spoke to many other things am working thru with the holy spirit

  • @glohriah2444
    @glohriah2444 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for these words of knowledge and Truth. You have saved me from something my ignorance would have caused. I love the fact that these are Kingdom principles and that God is speaking to me through this.
    Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Keep changing lives and restoring Kingdom marriages.

  • @busingyeemmanuel208
    @busingyeemmanuel208 Рік тому

    Its always a great pleasure to listen to these two souls deeply rooted into God's kingdom especially the man additionally keeping eyes on God,he will lead you,guid n order your footsteps into promised land to possess your possessions, OMG so powerful to be held by my mind.thanks so much blessings to your marriage

  • @namboozespecy2004
    @namboozespecy2004 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for the word of wisdom, the kitakaz

  • @bazimbyeevans7420
    @bazimbyeevans7420 Рік тому +1

    The best for the season....

  • @nannozistella1045
    @nannozistella1045 Рік тому +1

    Waoooo. Am fitting in.

  • @nakittohellen3934
    @nakittohellen3934 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for the insightful message of purpose being led by the Spirit not circumstances may God bless you.

  • @noeliakukundakwe1846
    @noeliakukundakwe1846 8 місяців тому

    Powerful

  • @jennifermugisha-
    @jennifermugisha- Рік тому +2

    I love this podcast ❤ I love how calm and mature it is ❤ I love the wisdom here too. Ok I’m summary .. I love this ❤

  • @Patty_k
    @Patty_k Рік тому

    24 year old here and praying for a rooted spouse. Thank you for the conversation. 💜

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  Рік тому +2

      Great decision Trish. May the Lord grant you the desires of your heart as you delight in Him!

    • @Patty_k
      @Patty_k Рік тому

      @@thekitakas Amen🙏

  • @sharonelizabeth5167
    @sharonelizabeth5167 Рік тому +1

    Keep your eyes on God, I love your podcast

  • @annetnassolo708
    @annetnassolo708 Рік тому +1

    Too much wisdom here, thank you omwami no mukyala for sharing.. Watching from Addis Ababa

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  Рік тому

      Thanks for watching all the way for Addis!

  • @mukizasamuel4486
    @mukizasamuel4486 10 місяців тому

    The last segment, in contextualising the lights going off, if you had the vision for something in beginning and something shakes you then you may fall of course.

  • @romanogonza2128
    @romanogonza2128 Рік тому +1

    Thank you againg for this podcast. Veey niice. Bless you🙏

  • @jennifermugisha-
    @jennifermugisha- Рік тому +1

    There is a relationship between passion and purpose ❤

  • @purplegreenpearl
    @purplegreenpearl Рік тому +1

    Love your sharing the nuggets of Christian living.

  • @nagalonasandrajudith5702
    @nagalonasandrajudith5702 Рік тому

    Mwebale kujja
    I needed this

  • @sarahnamwanje
    @sarahnamwanje Рік тому +1

    Thank you for the words of wisdom I also thank God for leading me here

  • @jackieasiimwe2574
    @jackieasiimwe2574 Рік тому +1

    Waooo, so lovely and beautifully said. A lot of wisdom being poured👏👏👏

  • @ainomugishaglorias7221
    @ainomugishaglorias7221 Рік тому +1

    Love you guys, follow every episode posted here.

  • @mariamkabagandale4041
    @mariamkabagandale4041 Рік тому +1

    This is amazing, thank you the Kitakas

  • @stevemiracle5375
    @stevemiracle5375 Рік тому +1

    Cant wait to watch this😊, thanx the Kitakas’

  • @makenakiki946
    @makenakiki946 Рік тому +1

    Wow wow what a powerful, revelation filled session. God bless you the Kitakas. Taken so much from this.

  • @leahMa94
    @leahMa94 Рік тому

    It's a journey of learning and unlearning Each day a light is drawn in our future intended marriages. What a honor and blessing. In times when I personally searched for that couple to speak to my marital destiny and guess what God answered. Thank you

  • @phillipmoggie2035
    @phillipmoggie2035 Рік тому +1

    Thanx for the great insights @The Kitakas.

  • @flaviakamahoro4353
    @flaviakamahoro4353 Рік тому +1

    Always waiting to watch and listen to the kitakas

    • @musiimegloria4344
      @musiimegloria4344 Рік тому +1

      If he gave us the whole bread we would eat it all and lose ourselves along the way.

  • @fionanassaka4222
    @fionanassaka4222 Рік тому

    Wow wow the word of God is indeed new every morning. Every day I get to listen to your podcast I learn something new .may the God lord richly bless you "The kitaka's"

  • @rhonahm8243
    @rhonahm8243 Рік тому

    Waooooo.....This is great....Thank you....
    You have really ministered to me, I love love love the last bit of keeping my eyes focused on Christ, I have been blessed.

  • @teddy7786
    @teddy7786 Рік тому

    Wonderful shana .. u are a blessing to your generation.. u will do well. We are so very proud of u .. always .. your friends .. Isaac and teddy ..

  • @chisechechijingu1614
    @chisechechijingu1614 Рік тому

    So deeep❤

  • @prossyzalwango9107
    @prossyzalwango9107 Рік тому

    I love listening to the Kitakas.

  • @patricianakigudde1579
    @patricianakigudde1579 Рік тому

    I was looking forward to another podcast on Easter but hey alot took me up.
    But here I am .
    I am addicted to them and i love them both.

  • @mukizasamuel4486
    @mukizasamuel4486 10 місяців тому

    The enemy can only distruct you enough and you go off course.

  • @amutuheirenina6178
    @amutuheirenina6178 Рік тому

    Thank you so much The Kitakas.
    May God continue to use you!

  • @annettewere4843
    @annettewere4843 Рік тому +3

    Hahahaha you two please it's OK
    to touch affectionately, its part of the art of communication in marriage.
    But anyways, it's good to listen to you
    two again& particularly refreshing to hear Mr. Kataka on these issues (& the way he passes by some deep messages yet in a subtle way), because the men's hearts are often missing in most conversations. May I be found to be relevant (indispensable) in our marriage, so help me God.

  • @susankamugasa8155
    @susankamugasa8155 Рік тому

    Hey, you guys are doing a great job. Blessings, of course , you are already blessed.

  • @charlesisabirye9128
    @charlesisabirye9128 Рік тому

    Thank you so much. Have been blessed!

  • @sherrywilliams3691
    @sherrywilliams3691 Рік тому +2

    Happy Easter my role models

  • @prossynambooze
    @prossynambooze Рік тому

    The kitakaz i love your messages may God contiue to give u wisdom.

  • @landry.irambona
    @landry.irambona Рік тому +1

    Happy Easter the Kitakas🎉🥳

  • @MiaAnena22
    @MiaAnena22 Рік тому

    Love love love you guys😁

  • @akundatezra7472
    @akundatezra7472 Рік тому +5

    Shana u dnt luk 40 actually u luk 20's banange when ur in Christ he even makes u young greater is he that is in mi and u than who dat is in the world

  • @joannambi2263
    @joannambi2263 Рік тому

    Thank you so much

  • @gordonmoguljb
    @gordonmoguljb Рік тому

    Let me ask Mr. Kitala. Have you ever been or grown up in kazo past bwaise past St. Luke church, you look like some one i have ever seen from kazo west, my mind has not settled and i need to know if i know you, any idea about kazo west, kazo parents, besides that, I love you the Kitakas

  • @ninsiimajosephine5881
    @ninsiimajosephine5881 Рік тому

    I thank God I am not settling. ❤

  • @kijjambumosesouma
    @kijjambumosesouma Рік тому

    So inspiring

  • @nambisusan9412
    @nambisusan9412 Рік тому +1

    Wulululu olunaku mulindwa

  • @Abahoalex840
    @Abahoalex840 Рік тому

    Small small question to Mr.Kitaka.
    Can I 'kutambula' to Aristoc or anywhere in Kampala that's nearer than the 'Amazon'?

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  Рік тому

      Not yet :) but when you are able to, we will definitely let you know.

  • @akundatezra7472
    @akundatezra7472 Рік тому

    The Kitakas one thing i wana tell u is dat God knos about u and he will cme for u

  • @mwebazecharles
    @mwebazecharles Рік тому

    Assignments are changed it’s only gifts that are without repentance!
    Physical laws(Ugandan)are changed only spiritual and natural laws are solid but besides that you people are mantled❤️✊

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  Рік тому

      Thank you, Ssebo, for the insight regarding the mutability of assignments. Any examples of men in the Bible whose assignments were changed?
      When a law is passed I understand decisions are made on it as a foundation. If the law gets amended, would it invalidate the prior decisions or would they remain valid on the basis of the prior state of the law?

  • @lutaayam
    @lutaayam 5 місяців тому

    Sounds like there was a lot of taming that Rukshana had to go through

  • @violahyusufu1966
    @violahyusufu1966 Рік тому +1

    I wanted to attend the class but the English is not my level 😅😅

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  Рік тому

      But Viola :), you do know you can do all things through Christ who gives you strength! What is a little English?

  • @MsGratefulgal
    @MsGratefulgal Рік тому +3

    Thank you so much for engaging us😊
    Could it be an assignment/purpose in Ecclesiastes 12:13-14 & Matthew 28:18-20?
    If we are not sure of our purpose, God is willing to teach us step by step as He took time to teach Moses. We spend a whole life learning and unlearning. Daily/hourly/moment by moment surrender/submission to the Great teacher and trust in Him will enable us to be positioned in our places. (Position of Obedience/Position of sitting at the feet of Jesus for all children of God: young and old, gentiles and jews)
    To Zacchaeus on top of the tree🌳, Jesus said to him to come down/calm down. To busy Martha, Jesus asked her to sit and enjoy the Heavenly Manna that gives everlasting life.
    Some of the Be's🐝 and other small pollinators🐞 below help us to open the floodgates of blessings:
    Be obedient, Be respectful, Be reverent, Be humble, Be grateful, Be thoughtful
    Song: Trust And Obey
    When we walk with the Lord, in the light of His Word,
    What a glory He sheds on our way!
    While we do His good will, He abides with us still,
    And with all who will trust and obey.
    Chorus:
    Trust and obey, for there’s no other way
    To be happy in Jesus, but to trust and obey.
    ...
    Thank you once again. More grace upon you.

  • @ms-amm
    @ms-amm Рік тому +1

    what a blessed opportunity for me to listen to you before I join the institution of marriage. I do not take this lightly. Thank You For blessing me🤍

    • @ainez6464
      @ainez6464 Рік тому +2

      Talk about it, we are blessed.
      I am on it again, I am plugged 😅 into the Kitakas'

    • @ms-amm
      @ms-amm Рік тому +2

      @@ainez6464 I am working as it is playing in the background. not me rewinding and rewinding to make sure I do not miss anything!

    • @ainez6464
      @ainez6464 Рік тому +2

      @@ms-amm Just know I had to pause my work, such that I absorb everything.
      I am not leaving my seat💺 (Mr. Kitaka), We are not to observe any lying vanities around because God's promises for us have not changed. Jeremiah 29:11.
      Let me fix my seat

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  Рік тому +2

      I hope you were all able to finish with your work in time :). We are honored that you choose to plug into our conversations. May you be blessed more than you could ever ask for!

    • @ainez6464
      @ainez6464 Рік тому +1

      ​ Amazingly I finished my work😅, I hope @iam__endless also did the same.
      we are surely blessed by the work of God through you, Then comes in your character, discipline, curiosity and confidence, full package Mr. Kitaka.
      Just know we are tapping into too much