Jab ek aurat kama sakti hai fir use shadi ki koi Khas jarurat nahi, adopt a baby only. Jab marriage ke bad bhi divorce hi milta hai aur sath me baby, tab bhi to use single parent bankar child raise karne hote hai to yahi kam bina marriage ke adopt baby and raise them, it is much better dicision than marriage. You will be safe from torture.
@@sallymannu37478 easy to say but not easy to nourishing. First of all which will grow from your body and from others is different thing. For a little mistake of adopted , u may regret for adoption.
Financial independence is very important for both men and women. Because you can trust no one, not even your own family when it comes to money . Sounds cruel but it's true
Well financial independence is a broad term and it generally signifies that if you have a set amount of money then you can live of it for your whole life and which turned out to be about a million dollars or about 8.7cr and the number of millionaire in India is about 5 lakh so 99% of indian population would never be financial independent so the appropriate term here is financially stability/
Am glad i broke my barriers n lived on my feet .having ur own money not depending on any n not having to strech ur hands before anyone fr money really matters . And wen u dnt have to do it it gives you a pleasant inner feeling of satisfaction.
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused. I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
Actually it's not just financial independence that enables women to walk away, it is support of family and society. I have seen so many women in my mothers generation, earning high salary but giving it to mother in law and getting pocket money for house maintenance and then giving mil the accounting of expenditure. They have horrible in laws but they put up with it and stay with them even though husband is also patriarchal. And do all the housework after work while husband lounges on sofa and asks for tea. If their family stood up for their daughters, they would have left. Emotional support just as important as financial independence...
So true. Financial stability does add a huge plus ngl but social support is very important. My mom earn3d more than dad but she wouldn't even consider leaving him, it wasn't even a love marriage, just because of social construct n taboo
@@divyasasidharan2960 क्या चाहती हो कि तुम्हारी माँ तुम्हारे पिता को सिर्फ इसलिए छोड़ दे क्योंकि वो उनसे ज्यादा कमाती है? थोड़ा अपनी माँ से ही सीख लो कि शादी कैसे निभाई जाती है। 🤭
You are absolutely right, financial independence doesn't provide strength to take decision, it is family's and parents support which makes a woman able to take decision. But on the other hand it is more important to become able to be financially independent it is not necessary for anyone to do job, if she is trained enough or eligible enough to get job she is empowered.
@@Nt-nc9ps it's never easy to walk out of a marriage even when it's toxic. I think it will help if you see a therapist maybe who can help you to resolve the problem or walk out. And society is more accepting of women moving on now. My friend left her husband 1 yr after love marriage, his family was toxic. She even found love again.
Superb decision. My mum left her in laws when I was 6 months. It was a very tough road. Today she owns her own home and I own my own home fully paid off. I have my own family we are just above average lifestyle. Thanks to my mum for her courage and determination through our difficult times. I'm now 59 years retired. And happy to see my family grow with love and respect for humanity. Jai Shree Raamji.
Going through comments, there are comments about oh i am very lucky ,fortunate and blah blah .... chill if one's marriage didn't work it doesn't mean they are less fortunate... I think this is the root cause of log kya kahenge... it's good that you are having a good life.... Ye bhi toh dekho kaha kya kaisa comment krna hai... appreciate her guys for her boldness .. don't compare your life with her and made her feel like she is not lucky..
Ma'am log yahan par kabhi kisi women ko age nahi bhadne nhi de sakte isiliye ye log negatives comments pass karte hai .... hmari society positive kam aur negative kuch jyada dikhati hai tabhi toh Ek aurat ko piche fek diya jata hai .....
Well said. This is about her, not about how lucky one is. Listen to what she is saying, wish her well, admire her guts in standing up for herself and her child🙏🙏🙌🙌
No matter what they say, as a woman, our primary goal should be to secure a job and be financially independent. You never know what your future will be.. Study hard, get a job THEN ONLY should u think of settling down.
I have seen many unfortunate incidents in love marriages. People should realize it's more about the person you're marrying, not about whether it's a love or arranged marriages.
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused. I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused. I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
@@enasnirercos7626 Your blindness to challenges of modern women is apathetic! Abuse happens only in rural areas shows how small your brain is and how limited your knowledge is. Abuse can happen anywhere, with anyone but children and women are prime victims. You rather than shredding on this woman's story,can think how to help victims and be a solution to the problem.
@@asmaaziz6380 Your partial and biased belief is very evident and a disgrace to mankind. You also have a partial blindness problem, which is very evident in your statement, not once I mentioned, "Abuse happens ONLY in rural areas", you really need to eat carrots, it's really good for eyesight and even eat almonds, that will help your brain to think more logically. From my statement, it's very evident that anything is possible in today's world, even a man could be a victim in this case(50% possibility), that's why we need to hear the story from both the sides. Regarding rural areas, it's more prominent than cities but that doesn't mean it doesn't happen in cities. When I say, Alia Bhatt is very beautiful doesn't mean Sara Ali Khan is ugly. It's not my fault that your comprehension skills are very poor and limited. Abuse can happen anywhere and with anyone, and the person who got abused without any fault is THE PRIME VICTIM AND IT CAN BE A MAN, A WOMAN, A CHILD AND EVEN AN ANIMAL.... this is called equality, which you have no idea about. The solution to this problem is, to get the husband too on the stage and hear his side of the story too and not just blindly believe a girl who's shedding tears here without any proof. Will you believe if I say, my ex girlfriend treated me very bad, deceived me, stole my money, physically abused me, abused my family, cheated on me, slept with 10 guys while being with me and started crying and playing like a victim, when I stopped her? Will you believe my story?
@@abhahimani5188 My thoughts are based on facts of the past. There have been many cases where educated girls have falsely accused boys but I am not saying, this girl is also falsely accusing her husband, all I am saying is, we need to hear both side of the story and not just one side. But after reading your comment, I am 100% sure, what kind of thinking you have.
I have gone through the first, second and third trigger points in my marriage. Now I'm a single parent with a 2 years old daughter. I've moved to Canada and life is getting better
I married a guy it's purely arrange marriage. I'm 5 months pregnant. my husband left Canada when I'm 1 month pregnant. he fought with me due to dowry issue. he is not answering my calls. he blocked my phone number.i don't know how to move on. I'm in the mid of the ocean
@@mycanindianlife he is not answering my calls of messages he is blocking all my number. Before he said that he applied for citizenship so he can't register marriage bcz it affects his citizenship. Is it true. ? He says Only after citizenship I will register marriage.
Agree financial independence is a must for women but as a woman who's currently working trust me even jobs in India can make you get depressed, the culture and toxic managers....its a different hell !!!!
Rightly said that's why husbands come home pissed off and throw their negativity on their family, I am not justifying this but just showing a perspective , Also u see today's women are more TOXIC than previous Gen women because now they are relatively more open to all the negativity that is there in the environment/society.
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused. I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
People often have this false mentality that arranged marrage is dangerous because, we dont even know the person whom we are sharing our life with.. But sometimes we may not even know the true face of a person whom we blindly fall in love with.
IMO Arrange marriage ka +ve he ki usme samnevale ke pure khandan ki history mil jaati he..parents agr izzatdar (Sanskari)he to bacche wese hi honge..aur bich me arbitrator( Common relatives) mil jaate he...to Aek mature way se decision le sakte he..jaha Love marriage(Without Financial independence) me toss ki tarah he .puri responsibility khud pe...aur sirf love se insan ko nahi samja jata uske sath real me time spend karo tab pata chalta he..
@@DhruvPatel-pe1ns well every case is not the same ...its very easy to say this but let me tell you even the Arbitrar doesn't know the sachai of the house .....they can let you know the external things not what is happening inside the house.
@@DhruvPatel-pe1ns Parents sabke hi Izzatdar hote hai Mr. Patel ye toh logo ki soch bohot choti haii tabhi a women is not able to take a step for herself
Moral of the story :Always get a detective check, even if it is a love marriage. Think of what she must have put her parents through, cause it was a love marriage. She has a lot of emotional healing to do.
Women are extremely bad at choosing male partener. Women should ask the advice of father in selecting male partners. Men easily judge eachother and think logically. Men know how to classify women and find the right partner, women also know this but since they are more emotional they fall for the bad boys. Boys or men classify females into two : Madonna or h0 , we cannot love a h0. We would use them $x but choose to marry a Madonna. Some girls also do something similar, have $x with bad boys but settle down with nice guys (this is really dangerous the toxic bad boys might throw acid on your face or do any other form of harm, don't spoil your life for fun). Women have more observational power than men, but since they are emotional and wants drama most of the time they choose bad boys instead of good guys. Good guys should choose good women instead of bad boys leftover
When I saw how she was literally fighting back with her tears i was reminded of my situation when I was in a relationship of 3.5 years. The only good thing that this happened even before the marriage thing happened..but the mental scar left behind is very painful..
@abhi what a shameful cheap comment in response to someone sharing their difficult life journey and experience. You have a long way to learn empathy and respectful communication. You should apologise to the person for your creepiness
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused. I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
Woman and scars are synonyms in our society and we are battling it over a period of time!!! Time and again...sadness has taken over us cause nobody has been able to bring that change that will empower woman to live a dignified life.
Proud of you, my dear. Working women should not give up their jobs when they marry. It is good to be independent. I admire this girl. Please listen to her and plan your lives accordingly. Do not be bullied, treated badly and be subservient to anyone. Keep your pride and strength to face anything intact.
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused. I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
This is an eye opener for those girls who are in love, boys will love you until their parents say something agasint you, most of the boys don't even say a word infornt of their parents, parents are not dumb to say no to love marriages...It's not only the boy, the in laws also matter, you can choose your husband or partner but your child doesn't have choice..he is the only dad and grandparents for their whole life
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused. I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
Now a days girls are more intelligent than boys, every women try to separate her husband from parents This is one side story No one follow completely her husband No one love any child more than their parents Wife sister brother all love are below parents love so don't fall trap under women love
@@srinivasraaj5421 but you seperated her from her parents by marriage, then how should a girl feel by leaving everything only for a boy, and so if even in laws doesn't give her respect she wanted, she obviously wants to live separately to atleast have some peace in her life...she left everything for you and if she asks to live seperately she is a bad wife ... 😏...if no love is more than parents love , then why u should marry?? , Ok I agree , oarents love is greatest, then why she should leave parents, allow her to stay with her parents
These talks are motivating me not yo get married , my goal now is to secure a good job and taking care of my parents ,,, will start ngo to help women .. and adopt a girl child ,..and will encourage other same ,, may my all wishes come true😊😊
This happens when you ignore red flags. Certain traits are always there but we as girls being in love choose to ignore. But bravo to you for taking such step and making a bright future for you and your daughter.
When you get married to someone (thinking you both love each other) but your partner has some hidden plans of their own just breaks my heart to core. I wish people saw marriage as a means of love and support to each other and not just as a business deal or lottery or something. When she mentioned about her father in law calling her daughter a "product of their hawas" it left me with no words. Had it been a male child I wonder how different his words would have been. Please before marrying someone realize and build your own worth and status... so that one does not have to cheat and other doesn't have to feel betrayed. 🙁
Remembering my best friend who committed suicide coz of inlaws torture....I had begged her never to leave her job.....but she had to leave coz of excess work at home.....I remember her everyday .....She was my first friend too from nursery
Because of no of false accusations from females, even if somebody has really suffered in thier domestic, always a doubt starts creeping to whether she is telling truth or not.
Because of no of false accusations from females, even if somebody has really suffered in thier domestic, always a doubt starts creeping to whether she is telling truth or not.
When she said we are living in 21st century, the sad part is 22 years already passed away of a century but the situation and thinking of the society regarding is still same 😶
Before my marriage, I hardly spoke to my husband who lived in Dubai n I m in maharashtra. Yet shen my marriage failed just in three months, my own mother blamed me and asked me - being spoke over call, how could not you recognize ur husband's nature ? My mom , who had marriage of 43 years yet do not know that these things are not undstnd just over few calls
Never adjust and compromise for a man and his family if they aren't willing to adjust and compromise with you. Don't idealise your husband and treat in-laws like deities, they are just humans - they can be good, bad, flawed, cruel just like anyone else. Be realistic and leave at the 1st attempt of abuse while you are young. Heed her words "anything can happen anytime" this is very, very true.
Men and their families compromise as long as the speech lasts. As soon as the ceremony is over, the woman is toast. A man's word means nothing. Get your education, get a good job and then build your life. Being "alone" is better than living in Hell. I was married twice. Never again. I've said I'd wash toilets for a living before I'd get married again. At least it's only 8 hours a day. Marriage is washing toilets 24/7. No breaks, no paid leave.
Rightly said, a woman can do everything in her life. Why not to come forward and take such bold steps to live independently alone. I don’t know why humans are behaving inhumanly. Can’t we live happily together? Is it really hard to spread happiness among others, specially with ones who already loves u alot? Is money everything in life? I don’t, I myself sometimes feel like how can we make people believe that being human is the most important thing. I hope every daughter in law gets the same respect, love, care as their own son.
Yes love is blind. What still pains you is that despite you're so smart, intelligent, you have a great job, you made an emotional blunder. Something you find hard to accept. Self blame is your worst enemy... Forgive yourself and move on.
No everyone has supernatural power to see through a person, people normally show u the better side of themselves, u only get to know someone when u live with them. She did not make an emotional blunder, that's harsh
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused. I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
All Josh talks are super inspiring but for me, this one is best till dates, it gave me chills. Anything can happen with anyone and anytime. She simply showed how being independent is so important without extra exaggeration of speech.
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused. I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them. It's a paid platform, where the speaker just have to pay and speak. Even I can pay and come up with a made up story and make myself look like a victim. Please do your due diligence before trusting anybody. Thanks.
Live-in is so much taboo in India....but actually it gives both the person a chance to observe n know the other's real character ,personality ,habits,etc.
Marriage is one of the biggest responsibility in any one's life. before marriage everyone should be financially independent and confident to face to stand up on their own 👍
Well the one thing that you said is something that I totally agree with, is that you cannot completely know a person unless you live with them or their family. After marriage you definately get to see a personality whom you actually do not know at all. All of what you saw until now was a mirage. The feeling is something like, had I known this earlier I would have just walked past this person without looking back. It comes as a shock and it takes a hell lot of time to digest the fact that this is it. This is what it is.
Priya Yadav said something very practical at 5:40 : _Till the time you don’t live with the family or the person, you can’t know that person._ Absolutely true! This applies to both Arranged and Love Marriages! Take the example of Katrina Kaif & Ranbir Kapoor. They were in a Live-in relationship but which broke after 1.5 years or so. No one knows what happened, but this is another proof of what Priya said. Isn't? It's better to be Practical & Straight-forward in certain things before marriage, rather than, take things for granted and get a Shock after Marriage. Marriages should be based 70% on Practicality and 30% on Emotions. Unfortunately, that is NOT the case in many Marriages.
Very true ....if i had gt a chance to knw the person my life wud hv never been spoiled . Still regret it .my parents arranged it thinking i will b happy but my life turned to b a big disaster n still am unable to cope up with it . Think before choose sumone , knw them n then decide
You are such a brave lady... Your parents and your daughter is so blessed to have a daughter and a mother like you.. All the very best for your coming bright future❤
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused. I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
Divorce is always going to be profitable. There is too much money to annull a marriage. Remove the financial incentives, and divorces are less likely, and less contentious.
I think you have a sick mind. What other side of the coin do you want to hear. Suppose your daughter went through this. You seem to have a problem with educated women.
Please invite mother’s of successful women and successful working mother also . Because if these homemakers mums are not there it wouldn’t be possible to get motivated and feel free from their kids sides. 😊😊
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused. I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them. It's a paid platform, where the speaker just have to pay and speak. Even I can pay and come up with a made up story and make myself look like a victim. Please do your due diligence before trusting anybody. Thanks.
@@Abhilasha_Ayansh According to me, you cannot comprehend English. First learn English and then come talk to me. Don't have time for Educated Illiterates like you.
@@Abhilasha_Ayansh Ab achanak say tumhara baath karnay ka tarika theek hogaya. Hosaktha hai ke, is ladki ka bhi baath karnay ka tarika pehlay galath ho aur jiskay vajah say usnay issay chod diya ho. Aur rahi baath uskay video bananay ki, Kya patha iskay Ex Husband ko patha he nahi ke uski Ex Wife nay yeh video banaya ho, yeh bhi hosakta hai ke voh bahuth khush ho apni zindagi may aur ussay yeh video say koi farak na padtha ho, yaa fir hosaktha hai ke voh bimar ho isliye video nahi banaya ho, yeh bhi hosakta hai ke voh margaya ho aur yeh bhi hosakta hai ke usnay video banayi ho aur aap ko patha naa ho, honay ke liye bahuth kuch ho sakta hai, yeh ladki sach bol rahi ho yeh bhi hosaktha hai aur jhoot bol rahi ho, yeh bhi hosakta hai aur yeh pura drama ho, yeh bhi hosakta hai.
@@Abhilasha_Ayansh Tho fir yeh video kyu dekh rahi hai? Yeh tho English may he bak bak kar rahi hai. Yahan doglapan math dikha. Hindi India ki bhaasha hai laykin aaj bhi 50% Indians Hindi nahi boltay hai. English India ki bhasha nahi hai, fir bhi aapne apna naam English may likha hai, aap comment English ke alphabets use kar ke Hindi may Transliteration kar rahe ho, naa ke Devanagari akshar use kar rahi ho aur mujhe gyan dae rahi ho, tho apna doglapan kidar aur dikhao, yahan nahi. Ladka hotha tho aur acha jawab detha, filal apni galti maano.
@@Abhilasha_Ayansh Jab tujay English samaj he nahi aarahi thi tho English may likhnay ka kya faida? Aur tu Devanagari may Hindi kyu nahi likh rahi hai? hahahaha
Really appreciate your courage and the ability to make the right decisions to end toxic relationships. You are truly an inspiration to many who are stuck in wrong marriages. Keep going!..
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused. I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
Agree..anything can happen after marriage. Mine too is a love marriage and I'm going through the same thing 😓 Worse part is from the 2nd day of marriage, we are staying seperately with our parents (him with his parents and me with my single parent) Coz husband is giving false promises of moving out and I'm here waiting for that move from him. Although i realised their ( in-laws) intention in several instances during my visit to inlaws house. They just need my money (as I'm working) and don't even care for anything else. I'm ashamed of my decision and loosing the trust that my single parent had on me 😭. But I'm greatful for the support I'm getting from my family.💝
I would be interested in knowing how she gauged her relationship before the marriage. A lot of people get caught in the heap of feeling love and romance that blurs their ability to see through the other person. It is always good to get married based on similar values, ethics, approach towards life etc. Not just romance and feeling of love. Cuz romance fizzles out pretty quickly in a marriage.
All men are not same. .we had love marriage ,its our 7th year and we are parents to 2 children ,still my husband treats me like child in sense of caring and love &value my words,choices ,my in-laws treats me like their daughter ,every time I think I made right choice by leaving my caste drunk parents ,
We're a society of mama's boys. I was unfortunate enough to meet two such mama's boys, one of whom I was married to, the other who couldn't even take that step. I'm gladly rid of these chomus who only cared about their own standing with their parents, no matter how it impacted their own life and their partner's. Even when the parents were wrong, or the guy himself did not agree with the parents. Sadly, my own mother also chose to take the 'society's' side and not support me emotionally. But I wouldn't regret the decisions I took to leave these relationships behind!
More strength to you Priya.. love or arrange marriage doesnt matter if you have right partner.. girls shud nt bear the abuse any more. lot of love n hugs to you🤗
Arrange marriage is good but love marriage is best and most prevalent in the world.. Society where your rights is being control by your parents and relative goes for arrange marriage.. Sorry to learned this woman has a terrible experience..
You are an asset to our Country Priya. Hats off to your courage and interest in uplifting downtrodden Women community. And a piece of advice to the young girls, Never stretch your hand for a Rupee before your husband. Be Empowered and understand that you are an independent individual. Learn to live with dignity & pride. 👏 ✌ 💛
Happens to many. Lesson for all is to educate yourself and hold a job. There is no easy marriage for anyone lady.. And no point being emotional. You should consider yourself lucky you had a home to go back to and parents who accepted you! Not all are lucky like u.
The thing with marriages today is that people don't clearly communicate their expectations. It's fairly common for love to completely vanish and the people to show ALL facets of their personality. And the ugly side is sometimes intolerable. Ma'am, since you only have a daughter, she may become eligible for "single girl child scholarship" if she does well in school.
SELF RESPECT IS MORE AND MOST IMPORTANT THING IN YOUR LIFE ....YOU ARE VERY BRAVE MAAM....EACH AND EVERY SENTENCE TOUCHES MY HEART ..SUCH SITUATIONS ARE VERY COMMON IN INDIAN WOMEN'S LIFE ....BUT ITS OUR UNFORTUNATE THAT ...JUST BE QUIET......HATTS OFF TO YOU ..
I had love marriage and lucky to have a loving husband.We had caste issues before marriage, but was accepted at the end when both parents got to know that we are happy in our relationship and that is more important than anything else.
I am very lucky girl in this case..We had a love marriage but my husband loves me more than anything..My inlaws are so supportive and understanding..They treat me like their own daughter..my life was good before marriage but after marriage it bacame beautiful..I love my life even my life turned beautiful after marriage...touchwood🥺
How can you take pride and proclaim how good how lucky your life is going under this kind of vedio??? Such a selfish woman. Have sympathy and empathy for your felow beings, they have come so far to get your kind of privilege. Yk women history is dark and it is still sadly continuing, remember worst things are still happening. You dont need rejoice your happy life to someone who has it worst.
You may be Lucky But this talk isn't about being lucky in marriage,its about mental and physical strength of this women and how she hasn't just got her life back but also working for other women and children You are Lucky but not an inspiration like Priya Yadav for other women, children and people
So sorry what you went through..clearly a huge lack of EQ on the part of the husband and his parents..thank you for sharing your story..it will help and inspire countless people 👍
Arrange marriages mein there is dowry..u don't have an iota of knowledge about your inlaws to some extent even ur husband..if the marriage is not working they will ask the girl to adjust saying log kya kahenge In love marriage u are not sure of if u even know that person inside out. and on the top of it many parents don't support their children for the marriage is not working.. Sometimes I wonder who started this system of marriage at the 1st place
In a remote village in Bihar where I lived , I have seen Parents accepting their daughter's choice for leaving her husband days after her marriage. It's a matter of perspective all changes doesn't take place overnight. Maine too pahle hi soch rakhha hai meri Beti ko padhana likhana mera kaam hai , Wo shadi kare naa kare.Humare saath rahe naa rahe wo uski choice hogi. My responsibility is to educate her
@@Robin-il4ev happy to hear that sir.. But i think such instances are very rare today... My parents have provided me with the best education but still I know they will question my choice if my marriage doesn't work...Definitely such practices will cease to exist in future as and when our generation becomes parent generation
I want this video to be displayed in every TV channel for a whole day..or atleast make everybody in this so called "HEALTHY SOCIETY" to watch this. There are still parents who marry off a their daughter without knowing what that person is. I'm sorry for this lady cuz she loved him and it was a fricking LOVE MARRIAGE 😭
It takes a lot of courage to stand up to people who mean the world to you.... Kudos to you for breaking the norms and standing up for what is not acceptable 👏.
This is 100% True 👍....because we haven't developed the mentality to support the women's...its always the women who is seen with bad eyes and is never trusted till the time she is dead...I am happy that I took this step without wasting the time..
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused. I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
It's a paid platform, where the speaker just have to pay and speak. Even I can pay and come up with a made up story and make myself look like a victim. Please do your due diligence before trusting anybody. Thanks.
@@enasnirercos7626 U seem quite negatively moved by my comment...i dint mean to offend any persons sentiments!!My hearty apology if i go wrong anywhere..
@@swarnamallikamazumdar4499 No darling, I am not negatively moved by your comment, all I am saying is, this is a paid platform, where anyone can speak anything as they please, it maybe the truth or may not be. So, we need to do our own due diligence. And you don't have to apologize because it was just a statement with incomplete information about the entire situation, we don't know what is story of the husband. I am sure, you wouldn't like if any girl falsely accuses your brother, dad, uncles or males whom you love. I have personally seen videos on these platforms, where people just made up stories, which were not making any logical sense. You have to understand, these platforms are not charity making companies, they're a business and for business they need more views and for more views, they need some sentimental stories which people can relate to. You tell me, how many of your known people will go around talking about their personal lives and get into an embarrassing situations? I think none, so, majority of these stories are made up stories FOR VIEWS AND MONEY. Media is the only place where lies sells like hot cakes.
@@enasnirercos7626 yes!!but why wud anyone lie about her own husband if looking soo shattered and emotionally broken due to the happenings she has faced...you may have ur own opinion but i don't think she is making up stories or this platform is paid..
You were LUCKY. Everyone is not LUCKY. Right time to take the decision is very important. I am 56 years old realizing my mistakes and I NEVER HAD FAMILY SUPPORT AND I REGRET NOT TAKING THE RIGHT DECISION IN MY LIFE.
I will never marry a women until I come to a point that I am sure that I can fulfill my wife's needs, my family's need and my needs, people feel bad for me to for not having a GF, today I am proud I took the right decision! I am okay to not have a women in my life for rest of my life rather than ruining someone else's dream! Jai Shree Rama!
In our upper middle class families, educated people commit more such crimes like mentally harassing their daughter in law's, and so many other things we rarely utter. Kudos to you for taking such a strong step.... All the best for your future....God bless
When in love...you like the traits of the person that is going to be a problem later on. Choosing the right person with an open mind is more important than just dating. The trigger point should have been when you are dating the person.
Exactly. I agree with your point. People don't change 100% completely after the marriage. There are always tell tale sign of the person way before marriage which people consciously ignore when there are dating. The persons dark traits are often overlooked or even worse, people get attracted to it. I highly emphasize on having clear and honest communication, not ignoring red flags and choosing someone based on shared values. Unfortunately, a lot of people tend to ignore this as they simply hurry to get married based on Romance and marriage excitement. Remember the feeling of 'Romance' dies pretty quickly in marriage.
It completely represent s me...i faced each n every step...big mistake is ..i left the job. ..even now i repent for that...but the step that u have taken ..is apreciatable...
Great things to learn from people like us who don’t get support from anyone . God bless you and your daughter and give good health to do lot more service
I know there are people who pretend otherwise, they portray a different image and eventually that mask falls off after the marriage but as women you know the red flags even before marriage. No man can pretend for a long period and eventually you can always feel things in your gut. When you feel something is off, when you are the one in relationship making all the efforts, ignoring the signs, you always know. So never make excuses for the mistakes of your partners and hold them accountable. Women don't be bob the builder assuming you can change him or he treats you special.
True i agree, Because broken love is better than broken marriage. i was in love with a person since 3 years at first I thought he was a guy with time passing he started avoiding me for silly reasons and used to manupulate that he is busy even though I know he is not as we had mutual friends, also he is drug addict, so finally i took a strong step i broke up with him, I did not falled for his manipulation even though i was still in love with him, Time changes and heals everything.
Bravo Priya. Proud of you. You are a motivational woman. My sister too is going through a horrible marriage. I will forward this video to her. God bless you.
Firstly I appreciate your boldness in sharing your marriage life. I am so sorry that you had to through so much. Yes it’s important to stand on our own , have job security. Now-a-days life itself has become so insecure cannot depend on anyone. We have become bold, independent and confident to face the challenges coming on our way.
I am surprised that most people are not getting the point. They are turning it into love and arranged marriage situation. The culprits are the family , it happens in both type of marriages. And love marriages morally occupy higher ground , but the couple must be left alone. They must have privacy and power to take decisions independently. Which doesn't happen in india. Whenever there is a love marriage, the family starts to break their marriages by their vicious tactics.
We should listen to the other side of the story before concluding like culprits are the family members.. Let her in-laws speak what she did, how she treated them..
Respect for you mam. You took a great decision. and a lot of times people like your in laws are extremely educated have not gained anything from education apart from a paying job.
You are very brave and hats off to you for sharing your story.. I could tell you are still in the process of healing and you had a lump in your throat while talking.. proud of you for giving back to society!! We need more women like you..
You’re amazing woman, I can’t imagine what you must have gone through. These men are like without remorse, greedy, without empathy, no love of goodness, they do not deserve woman like you . You’re great , intelligent and well educated , you’re the woman who can achieve your goals . You have highlighting some very good points this can no longer can be tolerated by women .or society. You my dear concentrate on your self and well being. I think your very smart and can cope with the challenges these may present , I hope it gives you strength in knowing that many women are going through the same challenges. God bless you and your child xx Please continue to put your post on and let us know how things are for your.
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused. I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
Life is what you make it. Live the life beyond relationships because people & relationships will come and go, don't attach too much from all these things. If people are unable to carry on the relationship & humiliated over frivolous things it is better to get out from these relationships and discover the new ways to live happily. One thing needs to remember that you have come alone in this world & will go alone from this world, then why we should mind over these pity things. People & relationships are coming in your life is like a journey not a destination. Always strengthen yourself & keep above from all these things. At the last enjoy yourself. Zindagi na milegi dobara. ❤️ you zindagi!!
> life is what you make of it . - Half truth .Eventhough , you have the ability to take individual decisions , devoid of external pressures ( peers ,family , friends , co - worker ) , but the real challenge lies in the fact that how often do you get to exercise your decision and autonomy .because in our societal structuring ( i am taking about indian society ) , Even if the man or woman is 18 years or elder , they are treated as " un - knowledgeable " or " inexperienced " about matters which concern them ( whether career , finances or relationships ) .Therefore , the possibility of " you making whatever you want of life " is slim to none .
In the circumstances you were unfortunately in, it's unbelievable that you could think of helping others while going through such a hard time personally. Sincere respect!
I totally agree with you on the point that we won’t know the other person until we start living with them. That’s why we say ‘he has changed after marriage’.
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Financial independence is sooo much essential, especially for women.
Just wanto say, todays girls become too much Gold diggers fall in relationship for that / or honey talks of boys (not men) and rest is history.
Very true
Agree
Jab ek aurat kama sakti hai fir use shadi ki koi Khas jarurat nahi, adopt a baby only. Jab marriage ke bad bhi divorce hi milta hai aur sath me baby, tab bhi to use single parent bankar child raise karne hote hai to yahi kam bina marriage ke adopt baby and raise them, it is much better dicision than marriage. You will be safe from torture.
@@sallymannu37478 easy to say but not easy to nourishing.
First of all which will grow from your body and from others is different thing. For a little mistake of adopted , u may regret for adoption.
Financial independence is very important for both men and women. Because you can trust no one, not even your own family when it comes to money . Sounds cruel but it's true
Yes, its the fact
Well said!
Well financial independence is a broad term and it generally signifies that if you have a set amount of money then you can live of it for your whole life and which turned out to be about a million dollars or about 8.7cr and the number of millionaire in India is about 5 lakh so 99% of indian population would never be financial independent so the appropriate term here is financially stability/
True
Fact
You're a woman with self respect. That's all i would like to say.
And dear girls, financial empowerment is basic human dignity.
That's true
Am glad i broke my barriers n lived on my feet .having ur own money not depending on any n not having to strech ur hands before anyone fr money really matters . And wen u dnt have to do it it gives you a pleasant inner feeling of satisfaction.
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused.
I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
@@enasnirercos7626
@@arpitasingh9534 Yes????
Actually it's not just financial independence that enables women to walk away, it is support of family and society. I have seen so many women in my mothers generation, earning high salary but giving it to mother in law and getting pocket money for house maintenance and then giving mil the accounting of expenditure. They have horrible in laws but they put up with it and stay with them even though husband is also patriarchal. And do all the housework after work while husband lounges on sofa and asks for tea. If their family stood up for their daughters, they would have left. Emotional support just as important as financial independence...
So true. Financial stability does add a huge plus ngl but social support is very important. My mom earn3d more than dad but she wouldn't even consider leaving him, it wasn't even a love marriage, just because of social construct n taboo
@@divyasasidharan2960 क्या चाहती हो कि तुम्हारी माँ तुम्हारे पिता को सिर्फ इसलिए छोड़ दे क्योंकि वो उनसे ज्यादा कमाती है? थोड़ा अपनी माँ से ही सीख लो कि शादी कैसे निभाई जाती है। 🤭
You are absolutely right, financial independence doesn't provide strength to take decision, it is family's and parents support which makes a woman able to take decision. But on the other hand it is more important to become able to be financially independent it is not necessary for anyone to do job, if she is trained enough or eligible enough to get job she is empowered.
Even in this generation i am doing this. I earn but don't have the courage to walk out
@@Nt-nc9ps it's never easy to walk out of a marriage even when it's toxic. I think it will help if you see a therapist maybe who can help you to resolve the problem or walk out. And society is more accepting of women moving on now. My friend left her husband 1 yr after love marriage, his family was toxic. She even found love again.
Superb decision.
My mum left her in laws when I was 6 months. It was a very tough road.
Today she owns her own home and I own my own home fully paid off. I have my own family we are just above average lifestyle. Thanks to my mum for her courage and determination through our difficult times. I'm now 59 years retired. And happy to see my family grow with love and respect for humanity. Jai Shree Raamji.
Jai Sri Ram 🙏
Going through comments, there are comments about oh i am very lucky ,fortunate and blah blah .... chill if one's marriage didn't work it doesn't mean they are less fortunate... I think this is the root cause of log kya kahenge... it's good that you are having a good life....
Ye bhi toh dekho kaha kya kaisa comment krna hai... appreciate her guys for her boldness .. don't compare your life with her and made her feel like she is not lucky..
Thank you for putting the words down 🙏 In India people don't understand till the time the women suicide's ...
Ma'am log yahan par kabhi kisi women ko age nahi bhadne nhi de sakte isiliye ye log negatives comments pass karte hai .... hmari society positive kam aur negative kuch jyada dikhati hai tabhi toh Ek aurat ko piche fek diya jata hai .....
@@kanha_Ki_kahaniya right
Well said. This is about her, not about how lucky one is. Listen to what she is saying, wish her well, admire her guts in standing up for herself and her child🙏🙏🙌🙌
Agreed
No matter what they say, as a woman, our primary goal should be to secure a job and be financially independent.
You never know what your future will be..
Study hard, get a job THEN ONLY should u think of settling down.
Totally agree
Lol 😆
Agree
True for everyone not just women.
@Potassium Syndicate yess
I have seen many unfortunate incidents in love marriages. People should realize it's more about the person you're marrying, not about whether it's a love or arranged marriages.
Also their family
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused.
I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
Shakira, Shakira..
Oh, baby, when you talk like that
You make a woman go mad
True
Striked at d root of relationship problems...more about d person one is marrying or married to..
This lady has a long way to go in terms of emotional healing. All the best
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused.
I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
@@enasnirercos7626 Your blindness to challenges of modern women is apathetic!
Abuse happens only in rural areas shows how small your brain is and how limited your knowledge is.
Abuse can happen anywhere, with anyone but children and women are prime victims. You rather than shredding on this woman's story,can think how to help victims and be a solution to the problem.
@@asmaaziz6380 Your partial and biased belief is very evident and a disgrace to mankind. You also have a partial blindness problem, which is very evident in your statement, not once I mentioned, "Abuse happens ONLY in rural areas", you really need to eat carrots, it's really good for eyesight and even eat almonds, that will help your brain to think more logically. From my statement, it's very evident that anything is possible in today's world, even a man could be a victim in this case(50% possibility), that's why we need to hear the story from both the sides.
Regarding rural areas, it's more prominent than cities but that doesn't mean it doesn't happen in cities. When I say, Alia Bhatt is very beautiful doesn't mean Sara Ali Khan is ugly. It's not my fault that your comprehension skills are very poor and limited. Abuse can happen anywhere and with anyone, and the person who got abused without any fault is THE PRIME VICTIM AND IT CAN BE A MAN, A WOMAN, A CHILD AND EVEN AN ANIMAL.... this is called equality, which you have no idea about. The solution to this problem is, to get the husband too on the stage and hear his side of the story too and not just blindly believe a girl who's shedding tears here without any proof.
Will you believe if I say, my ex girlfriend treated me very bad, deceived me, stole my money, physically abused me, abused my family, cheated on me, slept with 10 guys while being with me and started crying and playing like a victim, when I stopped her? Will you believe my story?
@@enasnirercos7626 the fact that you have mentioned "educated" women in accusations like these, shows what you actually think.
@@abhahimani5188 My thoughts are based on facts of the past. There have been many cases where educated girls have falsely accused boys but I am not saying, this girl is also falsely accusing her husband, all I am saying is, we need to hear both side of the story and not just one side. But after reading your comment, I am 100% sure, what kind of thinking you have.
I have gone through the first, second and third trigger points in my marriage. Now I'm a single parent with a 2 years old daughter. I've moved to Canada and life is getting better
I'm sure it'll get the bestest for you and your child!
I married a guy it's purely arrange marriage. I'm 5 months pregnant. my husband left Canada when I'm 1 month pregnant. he fought with me due to dowry issue. he is not answering my calls. he blocked my phone number.i don't know how to move on. I'm in the mid of the ocean
@@sharon1220f I would say look for a way to come to Canada. Life will be much better here. Try to talk to him in an open manner and move here
Which visa I can apply. Tourist visa? He didn't register the marriage so I can't come as spouse visa.
@@mycanindianlife he is not answering my calls of messages he is blocking all my number. Before he said that he applied for citizenship so he can't register marriage bcz it affects his citizenship. Is it true. ? He says Only after citizenship I will register marriage.
Agree financial independence is a must for women but as a woman who's currently working trust me even jobs in India can make you get depressed, the culture and toxic managers....its a different hell !!!!
True
Yes true but one reality is this can make women independent else the life become hell without having money in hand
Rightly said that's why husbands come home pissed off and throw their negativity on their family, I am not justifying this but just showing a perspective , Also u see today's women are more TOXIC than previous Gen women because now they are relatively more open to all the negativity that is there in the environment/society.
But still you have a choice to change a job. Marriages sre complicated
there are so called family is most toxic think ever
Maam, You are motivation for every divorced women who are mentally tortured after marriage.. You are so brave..
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused.
I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
People often have this false mentality that arranged marrage is dangerous because, we dont even know the person whom we are sharing our life with..
But sometimes we may not even know the true face of a person whom we blindly fall in love with.
100% True 👍
IMO
Arrange marriage ka +ve he ki usme samnevale ke pure khandan ki history mil jaati he..parents agr izzatdar (Sanskari)he to bacche wese hi honge..aur bich me arbitrator( Common relatives) mil jaate he...to Aek mature way se decision le sakte he..jaha Love marriage(Without Financial independence) me toss ki tarah he .puri responsibility khud pe...aur sirf love se insan ko nahi samja jata uske sath real me time spend karo tab pata chalta he..
Arrange mrg is full of dahej.....and love mrg me tum sirf 1rs dena....🥰 Arrange me tum pr kharcha ho rha h....love mrg me Sara kharcha me uthaunga😊
@@DhruvPatel-pe1ns well every case is not the same ...its very easy to say this but let me tell you even the Arbitrar doesn't know the sachai of the house .....they can let you know the external things not what is happening inside the house.
@@DhruvPatel-pe1ns Parents sabke hi Izzatdar hote hai Mr. Patel ye toh logo ki soch bohot choti haii tabhi a women is not able to take a step for herself
Moral of the story :Always get a detective check, even if it is a love marriage.
Think of what she must have put her parents through, cause it was a love marriage. She has a lot of emotional healing to do.
Agree 😥
Yes, you always have to really know the person very well both the good and bad. Everyone wear masks these days. Cannot trust anyone.
What's a detective check?
Women are extremely bad at choosing male partener. Women should ask the advice of father in selecting male partners. Men easily judge eachother and think logically. Men know how to classify women and find the right partner, women also know this but since they are more emotional they fall for the bad boys. Boys or men classify females into two : Madonna or h0 , we cannot love a h0. We would use them $x but choose to marry a Madonna. Some girls also do something similar, have $x with bad boys but settle down with nice guys (this is really dangerous the toxic bad boys might throw acid on your face or do any other form of harm, don't spoil your life for fun).
Women have more observational power than men, but since they are emotional and wants drama most of the time they choose bad boys instead of good guys. Good guys should choose good women instead of bad boys leftover
@@jimmoriarty4530 woah your all sort of things women deal in day to day life.
You sound like a misogynist to me :?
When I saw how she was literally fighting back with her tears i was reminded of my situation when I was in a relationship of 3.5 years. The only good thing that this happened even before the marriage thing happened..but the mental scar left behind is very painful..
@abhi what a shameful cheap comment in response to someone sharing their difficult life journey and experience. You have a long way to learn empathy and respectful communication. You should apologise to the person for your creepiness
@@godsown4459 Damn girl you really are bad at comprehension
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused.
I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
Woman and scars are synonyms in our society and we are battling it over a period of time!!!
Time and again...sadness has taken over us cause nobody has been able to bring that change that will empower woman to live a dignified life.
@@sguptaa8930 Women and scars are only synonyms in villages and not in cities. In cities, men and false accusation by women are synonyms.
Proud of you, my dear. Working women should not give up their jobs when they marry. It is good to be independent.
I admire this girl. Please listen to her and plan your lives accordingly. Do not be bullied, treated badly and be subservient to anyone. Keep your pride and strength to face anything intact.
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused.
I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
@@enasnirercos7626 ok conservative political party supporter.
@@Bharatwasi7 Which one is the conservative political party?
This is an eye opener for those girls who are in love, boys will love you until their parents say something agasint you, most of the boys don't even say a word infornt of their parents, parents are not dumb to say no to love marriages...It's not only the boy, the in laws also matter, you can choose your husband or partner but your child doesn't have choice..he is the only dad and grandparents for their whole life
The in laws matter the most half the psychological drama and mess and depression is caused by horrible in laws !!!
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused.
I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
Now a days girls are more intelligent than boys, every women try to separate her husband from parents
This is one side story
No one follow completely her husband
No one love any child more than their parents
Wife sister brother all love are below parents love so don't fall trap under women love
@@srinivasraaj5421 but you seperated her from her parents by marriage, then how should a girl feel by leaving everything only for a boy, and so if even in laws doesn't give her respect she wanted, she obviously wants to live separately to atleast have some peace in her life...she left everything for you and if she asks to live seperately she is a bad wife ... 😏...if no love is more than parents love , then why u should marry?? , Ok I agree , oarents love is greatest, then why she should leave parents, allow her to stay with her parents
@@swetha6555 kyunki ye india ki cheap society h...uha ladke ko uske maa baap se alg krna cruelty hai aur ladki ko uske ghrwalo se alg krna riwaz
These talks are motivating me not yo get married , my goal now is to secure a good job and taking care of my parents ,,, will start ngo to help women .. and adopt a girl child ,..and will encourage other same ,, may my all wishes come true😊😊
Nice😊👌
I kicked a parasite from my life... But I still believe that not all are same.
They will.
Be strong and never compromise on your happiness.
I am happily single and have taken care of my mother for 25 years now. All the best for your future.
@@birdofforest1313 stop false motivating others, u might not be interested in man, that may be the reason u dont married, who knows
Actually you are unmature
Marriage is not a wrong decision its a need
This happens when you ignore red flags. Certain traits are always there but we as girls being in love choose to ignore. But bravo to you for taking such step and making a bright future for you and your daughter.
True. Certain traits are always there. It's girl's call to ignore or not.
When you get married to someone (thinking you both love each other) but your partner has some hidden plans of their own just breaks my heart to core. I wish people saw marriage as a means of love and support to each other and not just as a business deal or lottery or something.
When she mentioned about her father in law calling her daughter a "product of their hawas" it left me with no words. Had it been a male child I wonder how different his words would have been.
Please before marrying someone realize and build your own worth and status... so that one does not have to cheat and other doesn't have to feel betrayed. 🙁
Remembering my best friend who committed suicide coz of inlaws torture....I had begged her never to leave her job.....but she had to leave coz of excess work at home.....I remember her everyday .....She was my first friend too from nursery
sorry to hear and hope you heal and take help if needed to get the grief out
I'm crying right.
Marriage is literally a curse in india.
@@bitterbutbetter4809 true bro 👍🏻👍🏻
Because of no of false accusations from females, even if somebody has really suffered in thier domestic, always a doubt starts creeping to whether she is telling truth or not.
Because of no of false accusations from females, even if somebody has really suffered in thier domestic, always a doubt starts creeping to whether she is telling truth or not.
When she said we are living in 21st century, the sad part is 22 years already passed away of a century but the situation and thinking of the society regarding is still same 😶
Badlegi bhi nahi... Raja ram mohan roy... Eshwar chandra vidyasagar... Jyotiba phule... Fatima sheikh... sabitribai phule... Inko calendar mein bhi jagah nahin mili jabki inhonne aurto k liye kya kuch nahin kiya... Aurto ki bheed farji babao aur maulaviyo k darbar mein jama hai... Punar jagran ki zarurat hai bade level par
Right. Our society will never change. especially a country like India
True when she said " till the time you don't live with that person you don't know them" agreed. More power to you Priya.
Before my marriage, I hardly spoke to my husband who lived in Dubai n I m in maharashtra. Yet shen my marriage failed just in three months, my own mother blamed me and asked me - being spoke over call, how could not you recognize ur husband's nature ? My mom , who had marriage of 43 years yet do not know that these things are not undstnd just over few calls
it is ok to leave a bad marriage. sooner the better.. starting over takes courage.. very inspiring.. kudos..
Never adjust and compromise for a man and his family if they aren't willing to adjust and compromise with you. Don't idealise your husband and treat in-laws like deities, they are just humans - they can be good, bad, flawed, cruel just like anyone else. Be realistic and leave at the 1st attempt of abuse while you are young. Heed her words "anything can happen anytime" this is very, very true.
Men and their families compromise as long as the speech lasts. As soon as the ceremony is over, the woman is toast. A man's word means nothing. Get your education, get a good job and then build your life. Being "alone" is better than living in Hell. I was married twice. Never again. I've said I'd wash toilets for a living before I'd get married again. At least it's only 8 hours a day. Marriage is washing toilets 24/7. No breaks, no paid leave.
Rightly said, a woman can do everything in her life. Why not to come forward and take such bold steps to live independently alone. I don’t know why humans are behaving inhumanly. Can’t we live happily together?
Is it really hard to spread happiness among others, specially with ones who already loves u alot?
Is money everything in life?
I don’t, I myself sometimes feel like how can we make people believe that being human is the most important thing.
I hope every daughter in law gets the same respect, love, care as their own son.
Exactly.
Society try to deprive and put huge expectations more like burden on women.
Yes love is blind. What still pains you is that despite you're so smart, intelligent, you have a great job, you made an emotional blunder. Something you find hard to accept. Self blame is your worst enemy... Forgive yourself and move on.
No everyone has supernatural power to see through a person, people normally show u the better side of themselves, u only get to know someone when u live with them. She did not make an emotional blunder, that's harsh
Smart comment
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused.
I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
All Josh talks are super inspiring but for me, this one is best till dates, it gave me chills.
Anything can happen with anyone and anytime.
She simply showed how being independent is so important without extra exaggeration of speech.
Thank you so much Dear ✌ Be positive always ❤
@@kanha_Ki_kahaniya bless your heart. Now you're free, live your life like there's no tomorrow. Fuck society always do what's right for you.
@@Allahisadicksuckingmosquito 100% dear and thanks alot for your blessings ...Means alot 🙏
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused.
I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
It's a paid platform, where the speaker just have to pay and speak. Even I can pay and come up with a made up story and make myself look like a victim. Please do your due diligence before trusting anybody. Thanks.
Live-in is so much taboo in India....but actually it gives both the person a chance to observe n know the other's real character ,personality ,habits,etc.
There are many cases were live in partners are used and exploited, atleast marriage has some legal bonding, they can't just escape.
Marriage is one of the biggest responsibility in any one's life. before marriage everyone should be financially independent and confident to face to stand up on their own 👍
Well the one thing that you said is something that I totally agree with, is that you cannot completely know a person unless you live with them or their family. After marriage you definately get to see a personality whom you actually do not know at all. All of what you saw until now was a mirage. The feeling is something like, had I known this earlier I would have just walked past this person without looking back. It comes as a shock and it takes a hell lot of time to digest the fact that this is it. This is what it is.
Indeed,👌 you even wished you never had met the person,,,..
Exactly what I am going through
Priya Yadav said something very practical at 5:40 : _Till the time you don’t live with the family or the person, you can’t know that person._ Absolutely true! This applies to both Arranged and Love Marriages!
Take the example of Katrina Kaif & Ranbir Kapoor. They were in a Live-in relationship but which broke after 1.5 years or so. No one knows what happened, but this is another proof of what Priya said. Isn't?
It's better to be Practical & Straight-forward in certain things before marriage, rather than, take things for granted and get a Shock after Marriage. Marriages should be based 70% on Practicality and 30% on Emotions.
Unfortunately, that is NOT the case in many Marriages.
100% Right.
Very true ....if i had gt a chance to knw the person my life wud hv never been spoiled . Still regret it .my parents arranged it thinking i will b happy but my life turned to b a big disaster n still am unable to cope up with it . Think before choose sumone , knw them n then decide
Inspirational for millions women to leave toxic and abusive relationship
You are such a brave lady... Your parents and your daughter is so blessed to have a daughter and a mother like you.. All the very best for your coming bright future❤
I got chills hearing this …we should definitely take our financial independence seriously n works towards to it
1. Never write judgemental comments by listening to one side only
2. Be financially independent
3. Make both marriage and divorce easy.
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused.
I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
Divorce is always going to be profitable. There is too much money to annull a marriage. Remove the financial incentives, and divorces are less likely, and less contentious.
I think you have a sick mind. What other side of the coin do you want to hear. Suppose your daughter went through this. You seem to have a problem with educated women.
The only comment i was searching for, btw i felt her story less detailed.
Media trails is another powerful weapon
@@tomz1daful You spoke the truth.
It takes a lot of courage to come out and speak of what u r doing , hats off to u Priya ❤️
Please invite mother’s of successful women and successful working mother also . Because if these homemakers mums are not there it wouldn’t be possible to get motivated and feel free from their kids sides. 😊😊
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused.
I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
It's a paid platform, where the speaker just have to pay and speak. Even I can pay and come up with a made up story and make myself look like a victim. Please do your due diligence before trusting anybody. Thanks.
@@Abhilasha_Ayansh According to me, you cannot comprehend English. First learn English and then come talk to me. Don't have time for Educated Illiterates like you.
@@Abhilasha_Ayansh Ab achanak say tumhara baath karnay ka tarika theek hogaya. Hosaktha hai ke, is ladki ka bhi baath karnay ka tarika pehlay galath ho aur jiskay vajah say usnay issay chod diya ho. Aur rahi baath uskay video bananay ki, Kya patha iskay Ex Husband ko patha he nahi ke uski Ex Wife nay yeh video banaya ho, yeh bhi hosakta hai ke voh bahuth khush ho apni zindagi may aur ussay yeh video say koi farak na padtha ho, yaa fir hosaktha hai ke voh bimar ho isliye video nahi banaya ho, yeh bhi hosakta hai ke voh margaya ho aur yeh bhi hosakta hai ke usnay video banayi ho aur aap ko patha naa ho, honay ke liye bahuth kuch ho sakta hai, yeh ladki sach bol rahi ho yeh bhi hosaktha hai aur jhoot bol rahi ho, yeh bhi hosakta hai aur yeh pura drama ho, yeh bhi hosakta hai.
@@Abhilasha_Ayansh Tho fir yeh video kyu dekh rahi hai? Yeh tho English may he bak bak kar rahi hai. Yahan doglapan math dikha. Hindi India ki bhaasha hai laykin aaj bhi 50% Indians Hindi nahi boltay hai. English India ki bhasha nahi hai, fir bhi aapne apna naam English may likha hai, aap comment English ke alphabets use kar ke Hindi may Transliteration kar rahe ho, naa ke Devanagari akshar use kar rahi ho aur mujhe gyan dae rahi ho, tho apna doglapan kidar aur dikhao, yahan nahi. Ladka hotha tho aur acha jawab detha, filal apni galti maano.
@@Abhilasha_Ayansh Jab tujay English samaj he nahi aarahi thi tho English may likhnay ka kya faida? Aur tu Devanagari may Hindi kyu nahi likh rahi hai? hahahaha
Really appreciate your courage and the ability to make the right decisions to end toxic relationships. You are truly an inspiration to many who are stuck in wrong marriages. Keep going!..
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused.
I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
Agree..anything can happen after marriage. Mine too is a love marriage and I'm going through the same thing 😓 Worse part is from the 2nd day of marriage, we are staying seperately with our parents (him with his parents and me with my single parent) Coz husband is giving false promises of moving out and I'm here waiting for that move from him. Although i realised their ( in-laws) intention in several instances during my visit to inlaws house. They just need my money (as I'm working) and don't even care for anything else.
I'm ashamed of my decision and loosing the trust that my single parent had on me 😭. But I'm greatful for the support I'm getting from my family.💝
I would be interested in knowing how she gauged her relationship before the marriage. A lot of people get caught in the heap of feeling love and romance that blurs their ability to see through the other person. It is always good to get married based on similar values, ethics, approach towards life etc. Not just romance and feeling of love. Cuz romance fizzles out pretty quickly in a marriage.
All men are not same. .we had love marriage ,its our 7th year and we are parents to 2 children ,still my husband treats me like child in sense of caring and love &value my words,choices ,my in-laws treats me like their daughter ,every time I think I made right choice by leaving my caste drunk parents ,
Oh.. I say you are lucky but try to win your parents
Good ... bless you
That's what choosing right men
❤
Happy for you and thank god that atleast someone is in favor of girls
".. and I never looked back".. 🌹well done! A survivor helping others - Kudos 🌹
Oh my god she’s my senior. We were in same college. I’m so proud of her 😇
Support her mam
She's a fictional novel reader used to live in fantasies, failed to face real world
We're a society of mama's boys. I was unfortunate enough to meet two such mama's boys, one of whom I was married to, the other who couldn't even take that step. I'm gladly rid of these chomus who only cared about their own standing with their parents, no matter how it impacted their own life and their partner's. Even when the parents were wrong, or the guy himself did not agree with the parents. Sadly, my own mother also chose to take the 'society's' side and not support me emotionally. But I wouldn't regret the decisions I took to leave these relationships behind!
Proud of you Girl.💕
Nothing more important than Self Respect and Self Worth.
Long way ahead. 🙌🙏
Priya you are a very strong lady.....Your decision must have been very difficult but worth it....Difficult to change mindset .All the best !
Thank you so much ✌ Indeed the situations in our life makes us strong
Such a beautiful and well educated woman . A True gentleman would never do such things to her.
May god bless you with happiness and success.
More strength to you Priya.. love or arrange marriage doesnt matter if you have right partner.. girls shud nt bear the abuse any more. lot of love n hugs to you🤗
Arrange marriage is good but love marriage is best and most prevalent in the world.. Society where your rights is being control by your parents and relative goes for arrange marriage.. Sorry to learned this woman has a terrible experience..
@@mlsiliang Marriage love or arranged both can become bad or good, ultimately what matters is person and persons thoughts and ideology about life•
You are an asset to our Country Priya. Hats off to your courage and interest in uplifting downtrodden Women community.
And a piece of advice to the young girls, Never stretch your hand for a Rupee before your husband. Be Empowered and understand that you are an independent individual. Learn to live with dignity & pride. 👏 ✌ 💛
So motivating.... Very helpful for people like us who go through toxic relationship and planning for divorce... Thanku
Happens to many. Lesson for all is to educate yourself and hold a job. There is no easy marriage for anyone lady.. And no point being emotional. You should consider yourself lucky you had a home to go back to and parents who accepted you! Not all are lucky like u.
stop victim blaming
@@gandalfthegray7425now go back and read again
I want her in laws should watch this. You are a brave lady❤️
More Strength to you Madam. Really inspiring.
The thing with marriages today is that people don't clearly communicate their expectations. It's fairly common for love to completely vanish and the people to show ALL facets of their personality. And the ugly side is sometimes intolerable.
Ma'am, since you only have a daughter, she may become eligible for "single girl child scholarship" if she does well in school.
SELF RESPECT IS MORE AND MOST IMPORTANT THING IN YOUR LIFE ....YOU ARE VERY BRAVE MAAM....EACH AND EVERY SENTENCE TOUCHES MY HEART ..SUCH SITUATIONS ARE VERY COMMON IN INDIAN WOMEN'S LIFE ....BUT ITS OUR UNFORTUNATE THAT ...JUST BE QUIET......HATTS OFF TO YOU ..
You took a very bold step my dr frnd and I respect you from bottom of my heart for that 👍🏻
I had love marriage and lucky to have a loving husband.We had caste issues before marriage, but was accepted at the end when both parents got to know that we are happy in our relationship and that is more important than anything else.
Depends on society..arrange marriage doesn't work in most society.. I believe it's only in Indian society mostly arrange marriage is prevalent.
I am very lucky girl in this case..We had a love marriage but my husband loves me more than anything..My inlaws are so supportive and understanding..They treat me like their own daughter..my life was good before marriage but after marriage it bacame beautiful..I love my life even my life turned beautiful after marriage...touchwood🥺
Made me happy reading you comment. God bless you and keep you happy :)
How can you take pride and proclaim how good how lucky your life is going under this kind of vedio??? Such a selfish woman. Have sympathy and empathy for your felow beings, they have come so far to get your kind of privilege. Yk women history is dark and it is still sadly continuing, remember worst things are still happening. You dont need rejoice your happy life to someone who has it worst.
@@worldasylum643 no you just cannot help yourself feel good about someone who is having good in life . She is just being grateful to life .
@abhi who said it's right ?
You may be Lucky
But this talk isn't about being lucky in marriage,its about mental and physical strength of this women and how she hasn't just got her life back but also working for other women and children
You are Lucky but not an inspiration like Priya Yadav for other women, children and people
She is so brave and confident because she is " independent " 💯 So girls please go and study for your goals 🙂
So sorry what you went through..clearly a huge lack of EQ on the part of the husband and his parents..thank you for sharing your story..it will help and inspire countless people 👍
Arrange marriages mein there is dowry..u don't have an iota of knowledge about your inlaws to some extent even ur husband..if the marriage is not working they will ask the girl to adjust saying log kya kahenge
In love marriage u are not sure of if u even know that person inside out. and on the top of it many parents don't support their children for the marriage is not working..
Sometimes I wonder who started this system of marriage at the 1st place
True yaar, these were exactly my thoughts
In a remote village in Bihar where I lived , I have seen Parents accepting their daughter's choice for leaving her husband days after her marriage. It's a matter of perspective all changes doesn't take place overnight. Maine too pahle hi soch rakhha hai meri Beti ko padhana likhana mera kaam hai , Wo shadi kare naa kare.Humare saath rahe naa rahe wo uski choice hogi. My responsibility is to educate her
@@Robin-il4ev happy to hear that sir..
But i think such instances are very rare today... My parents have provided me with the best education but still I know they will question my choice if my marriage doesn't work...Definitely such practices will cease to exist in future as and when our generation becomes parent generation
After listening the story of priya.
Literally my eyes full of tears 😢
This is why you should never believe blindly on anybody.😑
So glad that there isn't a blur on the person's face as it's usually is, he is wrong so he should be shown
I want this video to be displayed in every TV channel for a whole day..or atleast make everybody in this so called "HEALTHY SOCIETY" to watch this. There are still parents who marry off a their daughter without knowing what that person is. I'm sorry for this lady cuz she loved him and it was a fricking LOVE MARRIAGE 😭
It takes a lot of courage to stand up to people who mean the world to you.... Kudos to you for breaking the norms and standing up for what is not acceptable 👏.
No matter who you are, People gonna judge you always.
This is 100% True 👍....because we haven't developed the mentality to support the women's...its always the women who is seen with bad eyes and is never trusted till the time she is dead...I am happy that I took this step without wasting the time..
It's a real platform which speaks about real people....i appreciate this initiative from the core of my heart...keep up the good work... ❤️😊!!
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused.
I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
It's a paid platform, where the speaker just have to pay and speak. Even I can pay and come up with a made up story and make myself look like a victim. Please do your due diligence before trusting anybody. Thanks.
@@enasnirercos7626 U seem quite negatively moved by my comment...i dint mean to offend any persons sentiments!!My hearty apology if i go wrong anywhere..
@@swarnamallikamazumdar4499 No darling, I am not negatively moved by your comment, all I am saying is, this is a paid platform, where anyone can speak anything as they please, it maybe the truth or may not be. So, we need to do our own due diligence. And you don't have to apologize because it was just a statement with incomplete information about the entire situation, we don't know what is story of the husband. I am sure, you wouldn't like if any girl falsely accuses your brother, dad, uncles or males whom you love.
I have personally seen videos on these platforms, where people just made up stories, which were not making any logical sense. You have to understand, these platforms are not charity making companies, they're a business and for business they need more views and for more views, they need some sentimental stories which people can relate to. You tell me, how many of your known people will go around talking about their personal lives and get into an embarrassing situations? I think none, so, majority of these stories are made up stories FOR VIEWS AND MONEY. Media is the only place where lies sells like hot cakes.
@@enasnirercos7626 yes!!but why wud anyone lie about her own husband if looking soo shattered and emotionally broken due to the happenings she has faced...you may have ur own opinion but i don't think she is making up stories or this platform is paid..
Independent rho and jaldi decision lena chahiye
It was very brave of you to come out and talk about your experiences! More power to you 👏👏👏
You were LUCKY. Everyone is not LUCKY. Right time to take the decision is very important. I am 56 years old realizing my mistakes and I NEVER HAD FAMILY SUPPORT AND I REGRET NOT TAKING THE RIGHT DECISION IN MY LIFE.
I will never marry a women until I come to a point that I am sure that I can fulfill my wife's needs, my family's need and my needs, people feel bad for me to for not having a GF, today I am proud I took the right decision! I am okay to not have a women in my life for rest of my life rather than ruining someone else's dream! Jai Shree Rama!
In our upper middle class families, educated people commit more such crimes like mentally harassing their daughter in law's, and so many other things we rarely utter. Kudos to you for taking such a strong step.... All the best for your future....God bless
Parents educate your daughters especially more so they can survive in the similar situations
When in love...you like the traits of the person that is going to be a problem later on.
Choosing the right person with an open mind is more important than just dating.
The trigger point should have been when you are dating the person.
Exactly. I agree with your point. People don't change 100% completely after the marriage. There are always tell tale sign of the person way before marriage which people consciously ignore when there are dating. The persons dark traits are often overlooked or even worse, people get attracted to it. I highly emphasize on having clear and honest communication, not ignoring red flags and choosing someone based on shared values. Unfortunately, a lot of people tend to ignore this as they simply hurry to get married based on Romance and marriage excitement. Remember the feeling of 'Romance' dies pretty quickly in marriage.
It completely represent s me...i faced each n every step...big mistake is ..i left the job. ..even now i repent for that...but the step that u have taken ..is apreciatable...
You r a inspiration to lakhs of women around d world. Go ahead.
God bless
I can totally resonate your situation. The only thing is that even my family is not in support. God bless you girl! Keep growing 💗❤️
May God bless you with his grace strength and give you courage
Absolutely you are too inspiring big appluse for you. Mental torture is not less then physical torture ! You go Girl too proud of you.
Be Strong Priya. YOUR Self- Respect, seil- motivation and self- help are the tools to take all you fantastic Indian Women FORWARD. GOD BE WITH YOU..
lessons learnt ,not just you ... even me and many other women. learnt how important being financial independent is..thank you ❤
Great things to learn from people like us who don’t get support from anyone . God bless you and your daughter and give good health to do lot more service
I know there are people who pretend otherwise, they portray a different image and eventually that mask falls off after the marriage but as women you know the red flags even before marriage.
No man can pretend for a long period and eventually you can always feel things in your gut. When you feel something is off, when you are the one in relationship making all the efforts, ignoring the signs, you always know.
So never make excuses for the mistakes of your partners and hold them accountable.
Women don't be bob the builder assuming you can change him or he treats you special.
True i agree,
Because broken love is better than broken marriage.
i was in love with a person since 3 years at first I thought he was a guy with time passing he started avoiding me for silly reasons and used to manupulate that he is busy even though I know he is not as we had mutual friends, also he is drug addict, so finally i took a strong step i broke up with him, I did not falled for his manipulation even though i was still in love with him, Time changes and heals everything.
@@Miniflower25 your mistake first.. drug addict ko choose hi kyu kiya..
All we know the consequences.
Yaah toh drug chodo ya muje .. so simple
Bravo Priya. Proud of you. You are a motivational woman. My sister too is going through a horrible marriage. I will forward this video to her.
God bless you.
Firstly I appreciate your boldness in sharing your marriage life. I am so sorry that you had to through so much. Yes it’s important to stand on our own , have job security. Now-a-days life itself has become so insecure cannot depend on anyone. We have become bold, independent and confident to face the challenges coming on our way.
What a powerful testimony 👏 best wishes to you and your daughter
I am surprised that most people are not getting the point. They are turning it into love and arranged marriage situation.
The culprits are the family , it happens in both type of marriages.
And love marriages morally occupy higher ground , but the couple must be left alone. They must have privacy and power to take decisions independently. Which doesn't happen in india.
Whenever there is a love marriage, the family starts to break their marriages by their vicious tactics.
We should listen to the other side of the story before concluding like culprits are the family members.. Let her in-laws speak what she did, how she treated them..
@@girishgk395 Unless their claims are backed by complete evidence we can't believe anyone.
Respect for you mam. You took a great decision. and a lot of times people like your in laws are extremely educated have not gained anything from education apart from a paying job.
You are very brave and hats off to you for sharing your story.. I could tell you are still in the process of healing and you had a lump in your throat while talking.. proud of you for giving back to society!! We need more women like you..
You’re amazing woman, I can’t imagine what you must have gone through. These men are like without remorse, greedy, without empathy, no love of goodness, they do not deserve woman like you . You’re great , intelligent and well educated , you’re the woman who can achieve your goals . You have highlighting some very good points this can no longer can be tolerated by women .or society.
You my dear concentrate on your self and well being. I think your very smart and can cope with the challenges these may present , I hope it gives you strength in knowing that many women are going through the same challenges.
God bless you and your child xx
Please continue to put your post on and let us know how things are for your.
There's a saying, "Every Coin Has Two Sides." This is just one side of the story, we are yet to hear the other side of the story. There have been many cases in the recent years, where educated girls have falsely accused their husbands, boyfriends, in laws and even strangers for their own gains. Some of the Men even went ahead and committed suicide for being falsely accused.
I do agree, in some parts of Rural India, some Men still commit such atrocities on their uneducated wives and girlfriends but such cases hardly even come in the limelight. So, before you jump into the conclusion, please do your due diligence of at least knowing the facts. I am not saying, this lady is lying, all I am saying is, this is an incomplete story because there are two people involved and we need to hear both of them.
You're truly incredible woman. Much Power to you ❤
अगर आपके ससुराल वाले आपको परेशान कर रहे उनसे दूर हो जाना समाधान नहीं है उनको फांसी में लटका ना समाधान है.
Life is what you make it. Live the life beyond relationships because people & relationships will come and go, don't attach too much from all these things. If people are unable to carry on the relationship & humiliated over frivolous things it is better to get out from these relationships and discover the new ways to live happily. One thing needs to remember that you have come alone in this world & will go alone from this world, then why we should mind over these pity things. People & relationships are coming in your life is like a journey not a destination. Always strengthen yourself & keep above from all these things.
At the last enjoy yourself.
Zindagi na milegi dobara.
❤️ you zindagi!!
Exactly 🌼
> life is what you make of it .
- Half truth .Eventhough , you have the ability to take individual decisions , devoid of external pressures ( peers ,family , friends , co - worker ) , but the real challenge lies in the fact that how often do you get to exercise your decision and autonomy .because in our societal structuring ( i am taking about indian society ) , Even if the man or woman is 18 years or elder , they are treated as " un - knowledgeable " or " inexperienced " about matters which concern them ( whether career , finances or relationships ) .Therefore , the possibility of " you making whatever you want of life " is slim to none .
Thank you so much, Maam
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My child I feel for you and your daughter. Well done for having the courage to walk away from this toxic people god bless you and your family.
In the circumstances you were unfortunately in, it's unbelievable that you could think of helping others while going through such a hard time personally. Sincere respect!
I really wanna thanks her and congratulations on her success
I totally agree with you on the point that we won’t know the other person until we start living with them. That’s why we say ‘he has changed after marriage’.
Arrange marriage ho ya love , loyalty and compatibility matters the most
Now a days really financially independent is very important for a women....