Hi Tab I know exactly how you feel. Most of my class thinks I’m a joke and they don’t care that I have feelings, they call me a freak and disgusting to my face. I agree, someone doesn’t need to attempt to be hurt. The world has gone too far But Tab, no matter what, even though you don’t know me I’ll still be here for you no matter what 😊 Lots of hugs Mothwing, aka Maya
I... I feel the same... I'm crying right now and... I don't know how I feel... Most people feel comforted that they aren't alone, but I just get upset that there are so many people that feel this way... Hurt just like me...
I loved that, like genuinely. That's a perspective with allot of love, it shows how well you understand the world and how much empathy you have for those around you. X
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Right now I don’t even have a best friend. My old one absolutely broke my heart and I can’t find that same relationship we had with anyone else. I’m dreading for summer to come because it’s only fun if you have friends but when alone summer just feels like an endless cycle of days remembering that you are alone and no one feels like hanging out with your pathetic self.
Hey don’t worry okay? I know it’s hard sometimes but it’s okay. Everything will be better eventually, and trust me there are people out there who will support you and be there and won’t care about your mistakes. I know it can be difficult sometimes but please don’t give up, I’m proud of you for making it this far okay? Don’t give up and don’t push yourself down oki?
Listen ml, you may go through a lot, but I’m here for you, and I know I’m not standing alone. Please let yourself be different. Other people push you down because they’re afraid to be “too” much. No one is “too much”. I understand what you’re going through, we will get through it together. Life is fucking tough, and you’re still going. Never give up, my friend. You are beautiful, nice, gorgeous, kind, and smart. Even if I haven’t seen you! I know everyone is absolutely stunning. Please, stay strong.
Hey its okay... Dont worry. I know its hard. Life is hard. But eventually, you will find happiness and the person you're looking for. I understand it. I know how it feels. It will get into order. I know its easy to just say things such as "It will be okay" or "Just socialize more". Its way harder than other poeple think, and I know it. But try to make a friend, a real friend, even if its hard. I really hope that atleast some of my words might help you and make you feel better. Im so proud of you! Keep going! Stay strong!
I can’t even begin to describe how much I relate to this. I am and always have been nothing more than a therapist friend. My entire life has consisted of helping others. Though I’ve saved so many lives it still hurts to know that they’re only my friend for the therapy. And once they find out about my issues they pity me and stay. Although I love helping others it still hurts sometimes knowing sometimes it doesn’t work. But more importantly it gets better no matter what has happened. You’ll deserve the world. ❤️
It’s so true. My friends rant to me about their small feelings, and when I told them I had attempted suicide multiple times, coming seconds away from dying, and had hurt myself, hated myself, wanted to be thinner, had annorexia, and that I was neurodivergent, they brushed it off saying “you’re just making stuff up to make us feel bad for you, stop being so jealous that I have problems and you don’t.”
I thankfully stopped myself from truly be coming the therapist friend but it took so long to gain the courage to tell them to stop venting to me but now I feel like I can't vent to them and not let them vent to me. It's like I'm stuck between two areas, drowning or burning.
i feel this. hope you’re doing okay and that whoever you’re worried about gets well soon. ❤️ vent below my own twin sibling was struggling with sh (they’ve been clean for over a year) and terrible anxiety and it’s excruciating that i can’t help them enough. i can’t imagine a world without them, I’ve known them the very second i was born. but, they’ve been so distant recently because shes always so exhausted. even more so because i’ve been struggling with depression most of my life and I haven’t always been there for her. i just wish we could be little kids again when we were both happy. i love them to pieces and just want them to have a good life. so, i rarely tell them things that bother me anymore, i don’t want them to worry about me. they need help more than i do. at least both of us have therapy now, and i can actually let out my feelings to my therapist and occasionally as an anonymous person online😂. i think i need to tell them, to get it off my chest. oh wow, this was helpful to type it out lol :0 i hope everyone has a lovely day, stay strong 💪💖
It’s hard when you always feel like the second choice… “If I don’t answer now are they still gonna miss me” Don’t worry tab, we love you ❤ (not in a weird way tho)
This song is what my life feels like. Many people see themselves as the main character of their lives, but I just feel so distant. And I’m sorry for anyone else who feels like this as well. I’ve come seconds away from suicide, I’ve self harmed, I’m recovering from annorexia, and I’m neurodivergent. But I’m the therapist friend, so when I told my friends about this, hoping for words of kindness, my problems were brushed off as ‘jealousy’. And just know, 50datab, you are the best character in a story. You are brave, true to yourself, not afraid of haters, and I think that you are a role model for everyone out there, young or old.
Tab, We love you, we all do. You deserve respect love and compassion, and we’re so incredibly proud and privileged to have someone like you take time out of their day to post videos for us, even though you’re struggling. You’re a strong, strong person and we all appreciate you so much! We’re incredibly proud and grateful for you, and I hope you understand that :)
Guys. Im here to let you know that Im here to support you, you are so strong to be here at this moment reading this. Im so proud of all of you, I know life is hard and unfair, but surround yourself with the people you love. Get ridbof toxic relationships. I'm making a song called "Therapist Friend" and I will post it when its finished. Love y'all, stay safe ❤
Tab, your literally my favorite person ever. It's so sad seeing people like you feel so badly about yourself. :( i know you don't even know me, but i love you and care about you so much. Your such a creative, talented, beautiful person. Your so insanely kind and caring. I promise, no matter how much hate you get, there is so many people out there you love you. Never change.
I truly feel like the comic relief in a story. The character just there to add a bad joke sometimes. The character that doesn’t get anything ok. The character treated like a plot device to embarrass the main character.
As a person that has been through a lot, like self harm and fake friends: It’s hard to keep on going, all these 12 years have been so hard for me, at just at least 4 years old I had the most traumatic experience ever. Involving my trampoline, and at 10 I had another rlly traumatic experience, I will not say. But I get it, it can be tough. Especially when there’s anti therians and bullies out there. My opinion is that I love therians and I would love to be one. The community seems so nice, but I know that you can’t just “choose” to be a therian. Anywho! I hope you’re doing okay, you pretty girl/boy/they/them. Being insecure is hard, it rlly is. Especially when you’re about to turn 13 (for me im 13 in at least a few weeks) but I know that you can do this, you can get through it. Whenever you need to cry, don’t let it bother you. Just let it out. You’ll be okay, you’re okay. We’re all humans but some anti therians don’t accept that. 😢 Anyway, you’ll get through it, ml! -a stranger. ❤️
I've felt this way before. It's important to put yourself first sometimes, though. You aren't their therapist. I'm going to repeat something my aunt told me; you aren't their only lifeline, and if you're worried, tell a helpline for them. Get professionals involved. It doesn't have to just be you. Stay safe, stay strong, and take care, Tab. ❤
I've been clean for 4 weeks And I'm honestly just trying to get through the weeks. Shit keeps getting worse but i gotta stay alive to spite the world. I've always been a spiteful person. Not rude, just stubborn. It's one thing i love AND hate at myself! 😅
Saw Vent Area. ❤ So, I have a friend named A. A had a girlfriend who’s K. K cheated on A to the point A wanted to commit. So, I spent at least an hour sobbing trying to get them to not while they just yelled at me through test until I got them to not do it. We hung out, and they said they had feelings for me. In which I agreed to date them because I was scared they’d get upset again since this was only a month after what happened. Then, A got really toxic and abusive and even caused problems between me and my friend E. I broke up with A and they said they were gonna cheat anyways. Then E’s birthday came and A and K were there. I found out that A and K got back together. … like, WHAT?! WHY MAKE ME SPEND ALL THAT TIME CRYING TRYING TO GET YOU NOT TO COMMIT IF 1. YOU WERE NEVER GOING TO. AND 2. YOU WERE GONNA GET BACK WITH K?! I held back tears until the end of the party when they finally went away. When I told E that I broke up with A, all they said was: “Okay, cool. You’re my girlfriend now.” Even though I broke up with A to heal. I kept telling E to not call me their girlfriend, but they kept doing it. So, they convinced me into having a sleepover after the party, and they kept touching me. I haven’t talked to them since and I’m not excited for the school year to start because I’m not sure what they’re gonna do and also I don’t have any friends there. So… But anyways. We’re all here for you Tab, even if this was a while ago.
I hate being the backup friend, the friend that sits at the end of the table while the others talk. The friend that’s only talked to when everyone else leaves. I hate being the friend that always seems happy. Because when you really need help you seem like the attention seeker. I hate being the “Side-character”.
Having a suicidal friend is so exhausting.. Like I wanna help and support her, but it's non-stop the same thing. I'm not a therapist, she needs professional help. But I don't wanna say anything cuz that's rude:(
DONT VENT PLEASE. IM NOT SURE WHAT YOU WANT TO VENT ABOUT. BUT BE YOUSELF❤ AND DONT LET HATERS LET YOU DOWN❤❤❤❤ ITS SAD TO SEE PEOPLE DIE LIKE THIS. WERE ARE ALL HERE! IM NOT A FURRY OR THERIAN BUT I SUPPORT YOU!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
It’s ok tab even when you’re feeling like sh¡t your never truly alone. Your helped me through a really hard time in my life I’m so sorry I can’t do much to help you :( love you tab ❤️
Your worth isn't depicted by how other people see you. There are people out there that are like you, many in fact, and many people out there are there for you in whatever you're going through. Though it may seem like people are hiding things from you, it's important to remember that everyone is their own person, and the view that other people have of you, isn't related to the view you should have on yourself. Really sorry if this seems unrelated. It's just what I gathered from this. Please keep yourself safe.
As the therapist friend this hits home especially when I told all my friends that I was going to a behavioral health center they were all like “what you always seemed so healthy and good?”
Me and my best friend have supported each other through everything. It's so refreshing to have a friend who knows how I'm feeling and how to help, we can be proud of each other with out being jealous, call each other pretty without degrading ourselves or others, I want everyone to have a friend like her and remember- if your friend makes you more sad than happy, consider removing them from your life. I love you all
I know this is the vent area and I should be venting but I’m not gunna, and I’m gunna say this instead YOU GUYS ARE ALL AMAZING THE FACT THAT YOU HAD THE ENERGY TO PICK UP YOU PHONE/DEVICE TO EVEN BE ABLE TO SEE THIS MEANS ALOT AND IM SO PROUD OF YOU REMEMBER THAT JUST CUZ IT MIGHT NOT SEEM LIKE IT PEOPLE WOULD MISS YOU IF YOU REALLY WENT ❤❤❤❤ Also remember this as well. Everybody is suffering. Could be worse or less worse than urs but even that random kid who has a bunch of friends who seems perfectly fine is also suffering. ❤
vent area? My whole family is Christian and thinks I am too. I’ve never felt any beliefs towards Christianity. Even when I went to a Christian school. My friend group was all LGBT kids. Everyone thinks I’m just the perfect kid of the family, that I’ll be the one to continue the legacy. My mom confronted me about a note she found that I was going to give my crush. (Lesbian at the time) She said since I was just a kid, I didn’t know what I wanted. I couldn’t speak up since it would change everything. I have been forced to attend church but every time I did, I would always never pay attention. I’m still looking into religions but I’m thinking that I’m going to convert to Hinduism or I might just be an atheist. I don’t know at the time. Nobody except you guys know. Even the only girl I told abt me being a therian knows. If I come out as non binary, trans, and bi, my mom and i’s relationship will drastically change. During serious talks she yaps so much lol ;-;. But it makes me so uncomfortable. In December 2024 I had a realization that I was pretending to be this perfect straight homophobic girl. I can’t tell anyone but my closest friend. I would even ask my mom to take me to a furry convention if she knew I was one. I’ve had to hide my gear, hide my therian henna, hide all the pride pins, and even use private browsing. I’m trapped in this fake body who isn’t me. I don’t even go by my government name. Every where but in real life, I go by Saturn as it helps me with my gender identity. Thank you so much tab for letting us vent. I’m crying rn. Ur my comfort UA-camr (TEH TEAR ARENT BAD DWW)
I’m literally crying rn bc I go through the same thing with people saying don’t be yourself and never be happy or stop being so stupid or stuff like that I lost my grandma a week ago and I’m just trying to be myself to bay get so sad over my grandma leaving me❤I hope you get better to🤍☁️🐺🐾❤️🩹🌸🦊
Im so sorry that you're struggling. It seems like everyone says it, but it does get better. But it will suck. Its sh*tty, yes. But some days are better, cherish those. Your make for this video is incredible! Its beautiful!
sending lots of love and support, you don't deserve that sort of toxic dynamic whatsoever vent: going in for an ultrasound in the next week to see what's wrong with me, what the pain has been for years, and idk im just terrified.. ik it's probably silly
I saved my crush from suicide. Now, every time I vent to him I feel guilty for it, thinking I shouldn't do it, and I shouldn't vent to him because he actually tried to commit suicide (well, planned to) and it might bring up stuff to him.
I’ve always hid emotion, I’ve learned how to not cry in situations and to smile instead. I don’t want others to pity me. I don’t want to tell them my struggles because then it becomes theirs to worry about. I just want the best for others, not me, I don’t deserve it.
(To everyone whos reading this)Hey!You seem tired,please get rest..! Im just here to say, you will be alright! Stop worrying! (If you need someone to talk to then im open..)
Honestly this song hits my soul in a way many songs try but just don't quite do, and it hurts loll Hope you feel better, or at least get to a point where it hurts less, because everyone deserves to feel okay, and wanted, no matter how little they feel like they deserve it
I feel like I'm not ok- I literally start crying if someone gives me a complement or says their proud, everyone will someday get through this hopefully❤
This literally almost made me cry, Tab, just know that every one of your subs loves you and cares about you, we are not here for the videos, we are here for you ❤️
This is so relatable,I just feel like being an animal is more fun you can roam the forest and play with nature it’s just….much more fun then struggling as a human,I’m proud of you tab,u are the best and only comfort UA-camr I have❤😊
Ive been friends with a girl named Hailie for eight years and I keep panicking that she has just been "friends with me" since she knew me but then I realize that whenever im sad or she sees new scars she tries her best to comfort me or get my mind off of it. We had a school dance a few weekends ago and my mom saw my scars right before the dance and I started to have a panic attack during the dance and Hailie emediatly texted her mom and asked if I could stay at her house so I didnt have to go home. Sometimes im so greatful to have her as one of my friends.
It’s ok to have scars. It’s ok to be unsure in friendships. It’s ok to have panic attacks. Just because your feelings are different from normal doesn’t mean they’re not justified. You can feel however you need to feel. If someone is holding you back from that. Let. Them. Go. Much love
your perfect as you are, your short made me cry, i feel the same ...people ignore me a bunch and i cant think im pretty or theyll think im a "pick me" Cant be proud because theyll think im the ain character "
Ur important to a lot of people don't stress yourself like this we all love your videos and ur a inspiration to a lot of ur followers and ur so confident and talented, pretty, you have a good fashon sense and we're all proud of you❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
i throw myself on the floor for pain. i believe i dont deserve this life. i hurt myself 24/7. i am sore everywhere i feel like pain. but im happy, i think
It is okay to feel pain. It’s okay to have hurt yourself even though you shouldn’t. People deal with emotions differently and you are completely accepted. It will be okay. Inflicting pain on yourself isn’t good but sometimes it’s just how you cope with strong difficult emotions. I understand what you’re going through. Trust me you will me okay.
Dang,this world is effed up..I know how you feel.your not alone…you will get through whatever ur going through.its not your whole story it’s a chapter your loved please remember that
Remember tab we’re all here for you and I know on a personal level that not attempting ≠ not stuggling we all love you and who you are you are one of my comfort UA-camrs you make me super comfortable and happy we love YOU
you are pretty and im proud of you!! i have cried like 7 times a week and my granfather died last week! we always think that we are not enouf and ugly, but everyone is realy beautiful on ther own way❤️♾️🫶 you got this! love from findland🇫🇮🫶
guys, please stay strong. many of you in the comment section are going through a lot, it’s honestly hard for me to read. just remember, every time you get stressed or overwhelmed, you add a bit of air to this imaginary balloon in your mind. when the balloon slowly fills up with air, you need to reduce the stress and let out the air from that balloon. try new things, live ur life and do things that *you* enjoy. it doesn’t matter if people think your weird, it might hurt but it does not matter because i can assure you that you will find someone to comfort you. a best friend that can hold you and listen to you. it will get better. i promise :)
We’re hear for u ❤️ Don’t even think about doin it What helps the best usually is to think of ur friends and fans and family or any pets u have think of how sad they would be
I always felt like im judged and made fun of behind my back,i got into a argument with my family today bc i started crying over a bad grade (6),mum said it's a good grade but i have horrible grades at romanian and math(yes I'm romanian) i have only 5,7 and 6's,im sensitive and afraid of everything and everyone,I'm so fucking two faced and that makes my personality 10× worse. I wish i could be different. I never wanted to be like this,im insecure of my body,i know I'm fat,i know my acne is horrible,my older brother always points out my weight to me,he always hits me,that's why i flinch so much when he playfully wants to hit me,i don't want to feel this way anymore. I want to be different.
Honey, you are allowed to feel all these things. You are allowed to be worried academically you are allowed to be afraid of being hurt. You’re allowed to act differently around different people and it does not mean you are two faced. All these emotions you’re experiencing are 100% okay. Your allowed to feel everything even if you feel it more that other people. Much love
Fr…when I’m scared or I have anxiety attacks you’re here even though you don’t know it….your my comfort person I watch ur shorts and they make me so happy I’m so glad you post tbh I have no idea what would happen if u WERNT here❤
I feel the same sometimes maybe sometimes hurts to read cuzz i don’t experience this everyday but others like me feel the same you are loved by your fans and hate is normal just keep going and you can do this!❤❤❤
Tab your the best 👍💯 keep on going in life and I think ur beautiful, silly, creative, definitely NOT cringe and ur also many ppls idol, we are here for u 🫶❤️
(TW: VENT) I cried when seeing these comments. It's so hard to vent and it took me alot of courage to write this: I fight with my mom everyday, I'm sad and heartbroken, she blames everything on me and tells me I'm spoiled and an ungrateful child. I love all my things, I'm grateful to live under a roof. But she can't see it.. never. She says all the things that traumatised me and I'm burning with anxiety, I've barely had anyone to be with me nor connect to me. I'm just a weak thing, I know... but I hate it. I was verbally abused by a teacher, physically attacked (choking to get attention, pulling my hair which is sensitive) and it hurts. I go to therapy because she's fed up but nothing is working. When I told my mom I think there is a possibility I may have schizophrenia, she automatically assumed I was trying to self-diagnose (please don't do that guys) even though I was simply telling her my feelings. She constantly puts up her life and compares it to mine, saying her mom (my grandma) hit her and she was starved sometimes because they couldn't get food. I don't think she knows how I starved myself, did sh, and attempt suicide and I just want to kill myself. I wish every night I die and pass away in bed, I hate life, I hate myself. I'm dumb and a piece of bulshit, I can't stand up for what's my undeserved rights. People live more shit then I do, I live a good life and I need to be grateful. Why am I venting in the first place? I'm an attention seeker yk.. I might delete this comment soon... (crying rn) Thanks for reading and I hope everything you guys are struggling with gets alot better! :)
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vent area :>>
just because i haven't attempted, doesn't mean i'm not struggling
Im always here for you tab
Hi tab!
Hii ❤❤
I wish I was you....
I’m here for u tab
Im so sorry you feel like that. You are loved. You are allowed to feel and be whoever you want to be.
Gecko?! 0 likes and replies?! Lets fix that
HOW DO YOU HAVE TWO REPLIES!!! Jokes aside love ur vids!❤
GECKOO hey pookie 🦎
The antlers look real nice❤❤
I agree ❤
hi tab, just to let u know, we’re here for you.
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wrong she’s a furry
EMBRACE THE CRINGE IDC AT THIS POINT!
@@georgia35 she's a Therian actually
@@Lezbian._.therian it’s the same thing. dressing up as an animal 🤷♀️
Hi Tab
I know exactly how you feel. Most of my class thinks I’m a joke and they don’t care that I have feelings, they call me a freak and disgusting to my face. I agree, someone doesn’t need to attempt to be hurt.
The world has gone too far
But Tab, no matter what, even though you don’t know me I’ll still be here for you no matter what 😊
Lots of hugs
Mothwing, aka Maya
I... I feel the same... I'm crying right now and... I don't know how I feel... Most people feel comforted that they aren't alone, but I just get upset that there are so many people that feel this way... Hurt just like me...
I feel the same why as you.. am always “the backup friend”..
I loved that, like genuinely. That's a perspective with allot of love, it shows how well you understand the world and how much empathy you have for those around you.
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I LOVE YOU 100% your my fav therian yt!!♡♡ (i dont mean by love like romantic i dont mean it like that)
Ee
Right now I don’t even have a best friend. My old one absolutely broke my heart and I can’t find that same relationship we had with anyone else. I’m dreading for summer to come because it’s only fun if you have friends but when alone summer just feels like an endless cycle of days remembering that you are alone and no one feels like hanging out with your pathetic self.
I feel the same..... Am always........ The background character
YES. 100% TRUE. (Or at least for me :P)
This actually hits hard when you're the quiet friend in the group 💔
Ifykyk
We’re all here for you tab 💗
Yes we are and I’m little late but cngrats on 100000 subs
The ”do they just keep me around to make their flaws look silly?” really hit hard…
(i saw vent area so.. thank you so much for the support, all of you
Im therapist friend to… i feel the pain.
Hey don’t worry okay? I know it’s hard sometimes but it’s okay. Everything will be better eventually, and trust me there are people out there who will support you and be there and won’t care about your mistakes. I know it can be difficult sometimes but please don’t give up, I’m proud of you for making it this far okay? Don’t give up and don’t push yourself down oki?
I’m sorry, I also feel the same way😓
Listen ml, you may go through a lot, but I’m here for you, and I know I’m not standing alone. Please let yourself be different. Other people push you down because they’re afraid to be “too” much. No one is “too much”. I understand what you’re going through, we will get through it together. Life is fucking tough, and you’re still going. Never give up, my friend. You are beautiful, nice, gorgeous, kind, and smart. Even if I haven’t seen you! I know everyone is absolutely stunning. Please, stay strong.
Hey its okay... Dont worry. I know its hard. Life is hard. But eventually, you will find happiness and the person you're looking for. I understand it. I know how it feels. It will get into order. I know its easy to just say things such as "It will be okay" or "Just socialize more". Its way harder than other poeple think, and I know it. But try to make a friend, a real friend, even if its hard. I really hope that atleast some of my words might help you and make you feel better. Im so proud of you! Keep going!
Stay strong!
I feel the same way Tab we are all here for you❤
I can’t even begin to describe how much I relate to this. I am and always have been nothing more than a therapist friend. My entire life has consisted of helping others. Though I’ve saved so many lives it still hurts to know that they’re only my friend for the therapy. And once they find out about my issues they pity me and stay.
Although I love helping others it still hurts sometimes knowing sometimes it doesn’t work.
But more importantly it gets better no matter what has happened. You’ll deserve the world. ❤️
DUDE ARE YOU MY TWIN OR SOMETHING- THATS EXACTLY MY SITUATION 😢
I’m glad I was able to put it into words for you ❤️
It’s so true. My friends rant to me about their small feelings, and when I told them I had attempted suicide multiple times, coming seconds away from dying, and had hurt myself, hated myself, wanted to be thinner, had annorexia, and that I was neurodivergent, they brushed it off saying “you’re just making stuff up to make us feel bad for you, stop being so jealous that I have problems and you don’t.”
I thankfully stopped myself from truly be coming the therapist friend but it took so long to gain the courage to tell them to stop venting to me but now I feel like I can't vent to them and not let them vent to me. It's like I'm stuck between two areas, drowning or burning.
im so sorry you are going through this right now. we all love you for who you are and who you are gonna be. we are here for you
i feel this. hope you’re doing okay and that whoever you’re worried about gets well soon. ❤️
vent below
my own twin sibling was struggling with sh (they’ve been clean for over a year) and terrible anxiety and it’s excruciating that i can’t help them enough. i can’t imagine a world without them, I’ve known them the very second i was born. but, they’ve been so distant recently because shes always so exhausted. even more so because i’ve been struggling with depression most of my life and I haven’t always been there for her. i just wish we could be little kids again when we were both happy. i love them to pieces and just want them to have a good life. so, i rarely tell them things that bother me anymore, i don’t want them to worry about me. they need help more than i do. at least both of us have therapy now, and i can actually let out my feelings to my therapist and occasionally as an anonymous person online😂. i think i need to tell them, to get it off my chest. oh wow, this was helpful to type it out lol :0
i hope everyone has a lovely day, stay strong 💪💖
I’m so sorry please don’t harm Urself we are here for you
It’s hard when you always feel like the second choice…
“If I don’t answer now are they still gonna miss me”
Don’t worry tab, we love you ❤ (not in a weird way tho)
This song is what my life feels like. Many people see themselves as the main character of their lives, but I just feel so distant. And I’m sorry for anyone else who feels like this as well. I’ve come seconds away from suicide, I’ve self harmed, I’m recovering from annorexia, and I’m neurodivergent. But I’m the therapist friend, so when I told my friends about this, hoping for words of kindness, my problems were brushed off as ‘jealousy’. And just know, 50datab, you are the best character in a story. You are brave, true to yourself, not afraid of haters, and I think that you are a role model for everyone out there, young or old.
Tab : 😭😔😞🥲😢
Crocodile in the background : 🤭🫢🫣🫨😝😜🤪😄
we will always support you tab
Tab,
We love you, we all do. You deserve respect love and compassion, and we’re so incredibly proud and privileged to have someone like you take time out of their day to post videos for us, even though you’re struggling. You’re a strong, strong person and we all appreciate you so much! We’re incredibly proud and grateful for you, and I hope you understand that :)
I'll be your friend, don't worry, we all will ❤
I love the mask it’s so pretty ❤❤
Tab you are so pretty don’t listen to the haters they are just jealous on how beautiful you are!
Guys. Im here to let you know that Im here to support you, you are so strong to be here at this moment reading this. Im so proud of all of you, I know life is hard and unfair, but surround yourself with the people you love. Get ridbof toxic relationships. I'm making a song called "Therapist Friend" and I will post it when its finished. Love y'all, stay safe ❤
The mask is too pretty but just remember everyone is here for you ❤❤❤
Who else love her❤
Me
Me
Tab, your literally my favorite person ever. It's so sad seeing people like you feel so badly about yourself. :( i know you don't even know me, but i love you and care about you so much. Your such a creative, talented, beautiful person. Your so insanely kind and caring. I promise, no matter how much hate you get, there is so many people out there you love you. Never change.
we are all here for you tab ❤
I truly feel like the comic relief in a story. The character just there to add a bad joke sometimes. The character that doesn’t get anything ok. The character treated like a plot device to embarrass the main character.
Remember that we love you tab!
I’m sorry that you feel like this, this vid just hits so hard
This just really made me want to give u a hug 😭
*virtual hug*
im sorry you have to go through this, tab. we’re all here for you, okay?
I’ve been dealing with body image issues I’m starting to learn to except it
same it's hard for me because my friends are hunters so I have to stay away from them and do quads
As a person that has been through a lot, like self harm and fake friends:
It’s hard to keep on going, all these 12 years have been so hard for me, at just at least 4 years old I had the most traumatic experience ever. Involving my trampoline, and at 10 I had another rlly traumatic experience, I will not say. But I get it, it can be tough. Especially when there’s anti therians and bullies out there. My opinion is that I love therians and I would love to be one. The community seems so nice, but I know that you can’t just “choose” to be a therian. Anywho! I hope you’re doing okay, you pretty girl/boy/they/them. Being insecure is hard, it rlly is. Especially when you’re about to turn 13 (for me im 13 in at least a few weeks) but I know that you can do this, you can get through it. Whenever you need to cry, don’t let it bother you. Just let it out. You’ll be okay, you’re okay. We’re all humans but some anti therians don’t accept that. 😢
Anyway, you’ll get through it, ml!
-a stranger. ❤️
This is so true..❤️🩹
Also give me that mask one of my theriotypes is a reindeer 😖
I've felt this way before. It's important to put yourself first sometimes, though. You aren't their therapist.
I'm going to repeat something my aunt told me; you aren't their only lifeline, and if you're worried, tell a helpline for them. Get professionals involved. It doesn't have to just be you. Stay safe, stay strong, and take care, Tab. ❤
i’m so so sorry for you tab! :( but remember that u are best and we all love u so much!
I've been clean for 4 weeks And I'm honestly just trying to get through the weeks. Shit keeps getting worse but i gotta stay alive to spite the world. I've always been a spiteful person. Not rude, just stubborn. It's one thing i love AND hate at myself! 😅
Ilysm and I’m here if you need to vent know that you are NOT alone and I am so proud of you, it REALLY does get better
Tab you’re my comfort UA-camr FOR SURE!! But we arn’t just here for your comfort. You can get comfort from us, too! ❤❤❤
Saw Vent Area. ❤
So, I have a friend named A. A had a girlfriend who’s K. K cheated on A to the point A wanted to commit. So, I spent at least an hour sobbing trying to get them to not while they just yelled at me through test until I got them to not do it. We hung out, and they said they had feelings for me. In which I agreed to date them because I was scared they’d get upset again since this was only a month after what happened. Then, A got really toxic and abusive and even caused problems between me and my friend E. I broke up with A and they said they were gonna cheat anyways. Then E’s birthday came and A and K were there. I found out that A and K got back together.
…
like, WHAT?! WHY MAKE ME SPEND ALL THAT TIME CRYING TRYING TO GET YOU NOT TO COMMIT IF 1. YOU WERE NEVER GOING TO. AND 2. YOU WERE GONNA GET BACK WITH K?! I held back tears until the end of the party when they finally went away. When I told E that I broke up with A, all they said was: “Okay, cool. You’re my girlfriend now.” Even though I broke up with A to heal. I kept telling E to not call me their girlfriend, but they kept doing it. So, they convinced me into having a sleepover after the party, and they kept touching me.
I haven’t talked to them since and I’m not excited for the school year to start because I’m not sure what they’re gonna do and also I don’t have any friends there. So…
But anyways.
We’re all here for you Tab, even if this was a while ago.
I hate being the backup friend, the friend that sits at the end of the table while the others talk. The friend that’s only talked to when everyone else leaves. I hate being the friend that always seems happy. Because when you really need help you seem like the attention seeker.
I hate being the “Side-character”.
Having a suicidal friend is so exhausting.. Like I wanna help and support her, but it's non-stop the same thing. I'm not a therapist, she needs professional help. But I don't wanna say anything cuz that's rude:(
DONT VENT PLEASE. IM NOT SURE WHAT YOU WANT TO VENT ABOUT. BUT BE YOUSELF❤ AND DONT LET HATERS LET YOU DOWN❤❤❤❤ ITS SAD TO SEE PEOPLE DIE LIKE THIS. WERE ARE ALL HERE! IM NOT A FURRY OR THERIAN BUT I SUPPORT YOU!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I dont think ive ever seen anything i can relate to more, like at all.
It pains me so much to see everyone going through this much hurt
It’s ok tab even when you’re feeling like sh¡t your never truly alone.
Your helped me through a really hard time in my life I’m so sorry I can’t do much to help you
:( love you tab ❤️
My “friends” will like insult me and I have to like play it off and act like I’m okay and not struggling
Your worth isn't depicted by how other people see you. There are people out there that are like you, many in fact, and many people out there are there for you in whatever you're going through. Though it may seem like people are hiding things from you, it's important to remember that everyone is their own person, and the view that other people have of you, isn't related to the view you should have on yourself.
Really sorry if this seems unrelated. It's just what I gathered from this. Please keep yourself safe.
As the therapist friend this hits home especially when I told all my friends that I was going to a behavioral health center they were all like “what you always seemed so healthy and good?”
Me and my best friend have supported each other through everything. It's so refreshing to have a friend who knows how I'm feeling and how to help, we can be proud of each other with out being jealous, call each other pretty without degrading ourselves or others, I want everyone to have a friend like her and remember- if your friend makes you more sad than happy, consider removing them from your life. I love you all
I know this is the vent area and I should be venting but I’m not gunna, and I’m gunna say this instead
YOU GUYS ARE ALL AMAZING THE FACT THAT YOU HAD THE ENERGY TO PICK UP YOU PHONE/DEVICE TO EVEN BE ABLE TO SEE THIS MEANS ALOT AND IM SO PROUD OF YOU REMEMBER THAT JUST CUZ IT MIGHT NOT SEEM LIKE IT PEOPLE WOULD MISS YOU IF YOU REALLY WENT ❤❤❤❤
Also remember this as well. Everybody is suffering. Could be worse or less worse than urs but even that random kid who has a bunch of friends who seems perfectly fine is also suffering. ❤
Thanks so much. I was about to tear up reading this❤❤❤
@@Archer_fox I hope ur ok!!!🤝🫶
Please don’t attempt Tab, so many people love and care about you. I’m so proud of you. Just don’t attempt. God bless you ❤
I can relate. I’m in tears. I don’t really have anyone to talk to. Lots of people struggle with mental health
It'll be okay. I love your deer mask btw! I don't know much about deer types so idk which one it is.. but it's beautiful, just like you❤
vent area?
My whole family is Christian and thinks I am too. I’ve never felt any beliefs towards Christianity. Even when I went to a Christian school. My friend group was all LGBT kids. Everyone thinks I’m just the perfect kid of the family, that I’ll be the one to continue the legacy. My mom confronted me about a note she found that I was going to give my crush. (Lesbian at the time) She said since I was just a kid, I didn’t know what I wanted. I couldn’t speak up since it would change everything. I have been forced to attend church but every time I did, I would always never pay attention. I’m still looking into religions but I’m thinking that I’m going to convert to Hinduism or I might just be an atheist. I don’t know at the time. Nobody except you guys know. Even the only girl I told abt me being a therian knows. If I come out as non binary, trans, and bi, my mom and i’s relationship will drastically change. During serious talks she yaps so much lol ;-;. But it makes me so uncomfortable. In December 2024 I had a realization that I was pretending to be this perfect straight homophobic girl. I can’t tell anyone but my closest friend. I would even ask my mom to take me to a furry convention if she knew I was one. I’ve had to hide my gear, hide my therian henna, hide all the pride pins, and even use private browsing. I’m trapped in this fake body who isn’t me. I don’t even go by my government name. Every where but in real life, I go by Saturn as it helps me with my gender identity. Thank you so much tab for letting us vent. I’m crying rn. Ur my comfort UA-camr (TEH TEAR ARENT BAD DWW)
Tab
I hope my that we all love you and always will❤️ love you tab and stay strong
I’m literally crying rn bc I go through the same thing with people saying don’t be yourself and never be happy or stop being so stupid or stuff like that I lost my grandma a week ago and I’m just trying to be myself to bay get so sad over my grandma leaving me❤I hope you get better to🤍☁️🐺🐾❤️🩹🌸🦊
Im so sorry that you're struggling. It seems like everyone says it, but it does get better. But it will suck. Its sh*tty, yes. But some days are better, cherish those.
Your make for this video is incredible! Its beautiful!
sending lots of love and support, you don't deserve that sort of toxic dynamic whatsoever
vent:
going in for an ultrasound in the next week to see what's wrong with me, what the pain has been for years, and idk im just terrified.. ik it's probably silly
I saved my crush from suicide. Now, every time I vent to him I feel guilty for it, thinking I shouldn't do it, and I shouldn't vent to him because he actually tried to commit suicide (well, planned to) and it might bring up stuff to him.
We're here for you tab! You're not alone in this, we love you 💛
i relate to this for the reason that i put all of my effort into the people/person whose not sick of my bullshit or the other way round
My dad… died today. We have to go to LA to say goodbye. I am crying rn. Thank you @50datab for this video.
Hey, it’s okay. We all love you Tab
I’ve always hid emotion, I’ve learned how to not cry in situations and to smile instead. I don’t want others to pity me. I don’t want to tell them my struggles because then it becomes theirs to worry about. I just want the best for others, not me, I don’t deserve it.
THAT MASK IS JUST ABSOLUTELY AMAZING
(To everyone whos reading this)Hey!You seem tired,please get rest..! Im just here to say, you will be alright! Stop worrying!
(If you need someone to talk to then im open..)
Honestly this song hits my soul in a way many songs try but just don't quite do, and it hurts loll
Hope you feel better, or at least get to a point where it hurts less, because everyone deserves to feel okay, and wanted, no matter how little they feel like they deserve it
I feel like I'm not ok- I literally start crying if someone gives me a complement or says their proud, everyone will someday get through this hopefully❤
Hey I don’t know you very well but you are worth life and you are a beautiful person and I hope you know that. If you need a person we are all here. ❤
I'm so sorry you feel this way ml.
This literally almost made me cry, Tab, just know that every one of your subs loves you and cares about you, we are not here for the videos, we are here for you ❤️
This is so relatable,I just feel like being an animal is more fun you can roam the forest and play with nature it’s just….much more fun then struggling as a human,I’m proud of you tab,u are the best and only comfort UA-camr I have❤😊
Ive been friends with a girl named Hailie for eight years and I keep panicking that she has just been "friends with me" since she knew me but then I realize that whenever im sad or she sees new scars she tries her best to comfort me or get my mind off of it. We had a school dance a few weekends ago and my mom saw my scars right before the dance and I started to have a panic attack during the dance and Hailie emediatly texted her mom and asked if I could stay at her house so I didnt have to go home. Sometimes im so greatful to have her as one of my friends.
It’s ok to have scars. It’s ok to be unsure in friendships. It’s ok to have panic attacks. Just because your feelings are different from normal doesn’t mean they’re not justified. You can feel however you need to feel. If someone is holding you back from that. Let. Them. Go.
Much love
@@-WholeLottaNothin- Thank you this means a hell of a lot
@@gabriellas9181 ofc xx
I love your mask❤❤❤
We are on your side tab ❤
Can't be too weird, cant be myself. Cant think im something important. Cant be a therian. Cant be happy . . . 💔
your perfect as you are, your short made me cry, i feel the same ...people ignore me a bunch and i cant think im pretty or theyll think im a "pick me"
Cant be proud because theyll think im the ain character "
Ur important to a lot of people don't stress yourself like this we all love your videos and ur a inspiration to a lot of ur followers and ur so confident and talented, pretty, you have a good fashon sense and we're all proud of you❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
i throw myself on the floor for pain.
i believe i dont deserve this life.
i hurt myself 24/7.
i am sore everywhere
i feel like pain.
but im happy, i think
It is okay to feel pain. It’s okay to have hurt yourself even though you shouldn’t. People deal with emotions differently and you are completely accepted. It will be okay. Inflicting pain on yourself isn’t good but sometimes it’s just how you cope with strong difficult emotions. I understand what you’re going through. Trust me you will me okay.
Dang,this world is effed up..I know how you feel.your not alone…you will get through whatever ur going through.its not your whole story it’s a chapter your loved please remember that
DW girl, we’re here for you, you can always tell us
I'm sorry you have to go through that❤
I'm sorry for everyone :
Your so beautiful ❤
Remember tab we’re all here for you and I know on a personal level that not attempting ≠ not stuggling we all love you and who you are you are one of my comfort UA-camrs you make me super comfortable and happy we love YOU
you are pretty and im proud of you!! i have cried like 7 times a week and my granfather died last week! we always think that we are not enouf and ugly, but everyone is realy beautiful on ther own way❤️♾️🫶 you got this!
love from findland🇫🇮🫶
guys, please stay strong. many of you in the comment section are going through a lot, it’s honestly hard for me to read. just remember, every time you get stressed or overwhelmed, you add a bit of air to this imaginary balloon in your mind. when the balloon slowly fills up with air, you need to reduce the stress and let out the air from that balloon. try new things, live ur life and do things that *you* enjoy. it doesn’t matter if people think your weird, it might hurt but it does not matter because i can assure you that you will find someone to comfort you. a best friend that can hold you and listen to you. it will get better. i promise :)
I'm the friend who is always there for u. Remember that u are always loved...
Tab im always here for you even if you get cancelled, i do not care🤍
We’re hear for u ❤️
Don’t even think about doin it
What helps the best usually is to think of ur friends and fans and family or any pets u have think of how sad they would be
I always felt like im judged and made fun of behind my back,i got into a argument with my family today bc i started crying over a bad grade (6),mum said it's a good grade but i have horrible grades at romanian and math(yes I'm romanian) i have only 5,7 and 6's,im sensitive and afraid of everything and everyone,I'm so fucking two faced and that makes my personality 10× worse. I wish i could be different. I never wanted to be like this,im insecure of my body,i know I'm fat,i know my acne is horrible,my older brother always points out my weight to me,he always hits me,that's why i flinch so much when he playfully wants to hit me,i don't want to feel this way anymore. I want to be different.
Honey, you are allowed to feel all these things. You are allowed to be worried academically you are allowed to be afraid of being hurt. You’re allowed to act differently around different people and it does not mean you are two faced. All these emotions you’re experiencing are 100% okay. Your allowed to feel everything even if you feel it more that other people.
Much love
Fr…when I’m scared or I have anxiety attacks you’re here even though you don’t know it….your my comfort person I watch ur shorts and they make me so happy I’m so glad you post tbh I have no idea what would happen if u WERNT here❤
I LOVE UR VIDS I'M A BIG FAN❤❤
im always here for u.. u can tell me anything ill be here
I feel the same sometimes maybe sometimes hurts to read cuzz i don’t experience this everyday but others like me feel the same you are loved by your fans and hate is normal just keep going and you can do this!❤❤❤
Tab your the best 👍💯 keep on going in life and I think ur beautiful, silly, creative, definitely NOT cringe and ur also many ppls idol, we are here for u 🫶❤️
(TW: VENT)
I cried when seeing these comments. It's so hard to vent and it took me alot of courage to write this:
I fight with my mom everyday, I'm sad and heartbroken, she blames everything on me and tells me I'm spoiled and an ungrateful child. I love all my things, I'm grateful to live under a roof. But she can't see it.. never. She says all the things that traumatised me and I'm burning with anxiety, I've barely had anyone to be with me nor connect to me.
I'm just a weak thing, I know... but I hate it. I was verbally abused by a teacher, physically attacked (choking to get attention, pulling my hair which is sensitive) and it hurts. I go to therapy because she's fed up but nothing is working.
When I told my mom I think there is a possibility I may have schizophrenia, she automatically assumed I was trying to self-diagnose (please don't do that guys) even though I was simply telling her my feelings. She constantly puts up her life and compares it to mine, saying her mom (my grandma) hit her and she was starved sometimes because they couldn't get food.
I don't think she knows how I starved myself, did sh, and attempt suicide and I just want to kill myself. I wish every night I die and pass away in bed, I hate life, I hate myself.
I'm dumb and a piece of bulshit, I can't stand up for what's my undeserved rights. People live more shit then I do, I live a good life and I need to be grateful. Why am I venting in the first place? I'm an attention seeker yk..
I might delete this comment soon... (crying rn)
Thanks for reading and I hope everything you guys are struggling with gets alot better! :)