Way more likely to cry and whine than to turn into a demon and act entitled. But maybe she's just like that anyway? My guess is her natural personality was just magnified
Like, for real though! If the average woman, or even the less than average woman had this kind of over-the-top reaction to what amounts to the most fundamental kindness from others, the human race would be doomed, and likely would have become extinct long before we developed rudimentary hand tools.
You know, Lucifer isn't Satan. The King of Babylon is called Morning Star, or Lucifer, which is connected to the Greek God Phosphorus, or Venus, the "Morning Star."
yeah im 7 months pregnant with diagnosed BPD…not even I would do that. that behaviour NEEDS to be addressed in therapy and she NEEDS a psychiatrist ASAP!! i wouldve been FLOORED with an offer like what G said and wouldve cried THANKING HIM!!! she seriously has some prenatal mental health problems and absolutely needs to be treated immediately.
Yeah man, I don't meet the criteria for BPD but I definitely have a bunch of borderline tendencies (so I'm basically borderline borderline 😂) and I've known many pregnant mentally unwell people in my life cause y'all are my people, I've got CPTSD. I don't know anyone in the world who would do that, pregnancy hormones or not. It's insane and her logic in her reasoning is inconsistent. I can't really understand the psychology on this one! Something going on there, tho. For sure. The entitlement she displayed is quite appalling...I would have probably responded by refusing because it was too generous (but secretly hoping they insist, of course lol).
Definitely. It could genuinely be that her hormones caused that behavior but then a doctor is even more necessary. Pregnancy hormones can even cause a psychosis.
Seriously! This is potentially a very real medical problem occurring that can become down right *dangerous* to herself, others, and her child. That is a life altering episode she just had, and is probably indicative of a much deeper issue. God forbid it turns into something like post partum psychosis. She needs to see her doctor.
Hey what's your due date? Mine is December 5th 😊 Yeah, prenatal mental health issues can be extreme but it's our responsibility to learn to manage and cope with them. Especially since we'll be bringing children into our lives so it will undoubtedly affect them if we ignore the problems.
Literally just gave birth two weeks ago to my second baby. I have never felt that amount of rage towards someone and lashed out. Rage can be something you feel in pregnancy but it's not uncontrollable. People need to stop blaming pregnancy for their bad behavior.
Congrats! I’m expecting my 2nd in a month, and I totally agree, I’ve never blown up at anyone (I am generally quite passive anyway) but it is easier for me to cry about things haha
@@kimmmy86 Congrats to you too!! I agree! I'm more likely to cry too!! But that's just me in general. I cry for every emotion I feel. 🤣 Pregnant or not pregnant!
Facts. People use pregnancy as an excuse for so many things, it's not okay. Yeah, hormones are tough and it sucks in general, but most people manage just fine.
My house is falling apart and the landlord wants to bump the rent up AGAIN. Which is just standard deplorable behaviour of a landlord. They are actually leasing from an angel, wtf is wrong with her? 🙃
@@Gwyllgiit’s definitely deeper than that. hormones can go crazy, but that’s way beyond, and that she’s acting like a cretin days after the situation seems to imply that she stands by what she said, or at least doesn’t feel particularly guilty for being such a rancid person to G.
@@SolarWaveOsc oh for sure. I just give grace to women that are pregnant for the first time. I've seen the nicest women randomly turn crazy for like 3-4 months in that process.
i'm actually wondering a bit if there's more to her situation. pregnancy fucks with your emotional regulation a lot, but (as daniel put it so succinctly) being pregnant doesn't turn you into Lucifer. i don't have much personal experience with it specifically, but as someone who experiences a lot of other Lady-Bit Associated Hormones and has issues with emotional regulation, there is no way i can view her reaction as normal. however... there are a lot of post-partem mental illnesses that someone can experience that practically turns them into a different person. these conditions suck a lot because they often get excused as "hormones" and the people experiencing them never consider that they might be abnormal, or that they are deserving of treatment to ease the symptoms. thus their life never gets better and people learn to stay away. misogyny in medicine. if OP truly believed in his wife's character and was completely shocked by her outburst, i'd advise him to consider that she might be dealing with some really rough shit under the hood. maybe even consider a psychological evaluation or therapy. nothing could excuse it, but something might be able to _explain_ it and tackling that cause might make her and her husband's life much better.
@@durdleduc8520right the story is legit crazy. There is no way hormones make you psychotic like that. This marriage isn't likely going to last specifically from this singular outburst. She needs to see a doctor for that. There has to be something seriously out of whack involved.
@@magpies_myth2206I mean, landlords, like G, drive up the price of rent up* by owning property they themselves do not use. *If every landlord was like G, there’d be little issue, problem is, there are very few landlords like G.
It sounds almost like that girl told her parents that he was the father... Because otherwise would why would they be telling him to step up like a man?
OP said in the comments that he’s confirmed her parents know he’s not the dad. They’re just desperate to not have to have anyone else take responsibility for their daughter.
Oh, I can totally see her parents saying "You know that doormat of a guy we have ALWAYS told you you should have settled for instead of the guy you chose?" Followed by a couple months of financial/spiritual terrorism and insistence that "hey, you should give him a chance, now! He is never going to get anything as good as you anyway, so he should be thankful and you had your fun, now get securiry". Pop up a few Hallmark movies for her to watch showing couples that worked out starting with the girl "setting down" with an "angel of a man", plus hormones and fear for her future... those parents were probably already organizing the wedding in their heads, never stopping to consider that life doesn't circle around their fanfic. A *lot* of Evangelical parents do this kind of thing.
Simultaneously he is a man because he knows how to not rush into this stupid decision that'll ruin his life and also not a man because he's literally not a man dude! He's still a kid himself, don't be forcing him to raise someone else's accident, he's a kid you can't just add that
Been pregnant and have two kids…this is the complete opposite of a typical response. Becoming a parent is so hard and gaining a support network is critical especially when money is tight. I can’t imagine responding like this.
After seeing a better view of Daniel's studio-office, I'm now convinced it doesn't have a door and he either comes and goes like a gremlin climbing through the windows-or he just never leaves.
There are cases where pregnant women will develop an irrational hatred for someone or something they previously had no issue with, or even loved. Their spouse, an existing kid, a longtime pet, a random coworker. Usually once the kid is born their hormones will even out and their feelings will return back to normal, but it doesn't excuse or undo the damage they cause when in that hormonal state, and I couldn't say if that's even what happened here. I'm as baffled as everyone else.
These cases have the person in question having issues OTHER than just being pregnant. Pregnancy alone doesn’t turn a woman into a monster. Mental instability will.
@@kristipearce4819 I mean, it’s not unheard of for pregnancy hormones to completely change a person. People with no history can develop PPD or even post-partum psychosis. A lot of things can trigger mental illness in someone who didn’t have the markers beforehand. Drugs, malnutrition, brain injuries, cancer. Obviously the risk is much higher for people who DO have the markers, but it’s not impossible for an outside force to trigger it. Just really rare. Not disagreeing with you entirely, just saying it can happen. It still doesn’t explain wtf this lady’s deal is tho.
That's true. But the thing is, this lady seems to knew what she was doing. Sure, the part where she went and cry / didn't want to talk about what happened after the fact might be from mental stress. But then she also agree to meet with the landlord again (that she should've still be angry to) and went as pale as ghost after learning about the consequences of her action, indicate she knew and remember about her outburst. Like then why didn't you try to resolve the mistake sooner? And only try to patch things up after learning that the landlord will normalize the renting fee? Remember, this story spans across days or weeks from her outburst to the landlord asking the couple to meet him Its almost as if, imo, that the wife think the landlord would take the insult right on his face because of how kind he is.
As much as I hate to say this I can kind of get this bipolar thing. I have bipolar 1 that was left untreated and undiagnosed for years, and in those years I have basically made quite a lot of the bridges with my own family quite thin due to my manic/depressive (especially vicious ones) episodes. So it is quite realistic especially if it's been left untreated
I don't think it's judgey to call a guy who knocks someone up and then ditches them a loser. That's some obvious loser behaviour right there. Now the parents and the young woman need to take that energy they were using on the OP to go after the actual father, not some other random guy.
I think that she seems to act on impulse without thinking things through, and her parents don't want to take care of another child so they just tried pushing all the responsibility onto someone else. I think she likely is an irresponsible young person who got in over her head, but those parents sound very... manipulative and selfish.
I have been pregnant three times. I have also been diagnosed with severe mental health disorders. If she does not have an underlying mental health disorder, then yeah that behavior was just her thinking that it's okay to blow up because everyone will understand. Since you're pregnant. She's probably been let off the hook one too many times. Even when I was in the worst places of my life, and pregnant/ dealing with post-pregnancy issues, I would never even dream of getting that angry and yelling at someone who was not within my immediate family.😅 Yes, unfortunately my most immediate family has has seen a worse side. But that's all over now anyway, point being pregnancy does not give you a license to be a meanie face. Hormones are raging, but if she's in her second trimester which is what it sounds like, her hormone changes shouldn't be affecting her as much
@madamemelone4947 You've actually proven my point, you have underlying mental health issues. Even though you weren't struggling with them right before you got pregnant, you are at a much higher risk of reoccurrence when you are pregnant or postpartum. When I was postpartum there were times I was scared the police would be called on me because I felt like I had absolutely no control over myself. It took a lot of time but I did learn how to control myself. I won't dismiss that this could happen to someone without underlying mental health issues, but that would be extremely bizarre. That's why I put the caveat of having pre-existing (whether currently experiencing or not) mental health issues. Like I am not experiencing the symptoms of what I've been diagnosed with right now, but I have been told that even with medication, even with the coping mechanisms I've learned, I have an extremely high chance of that reoccurring in pregnancy and postpartum. It could be that this woman has had issues but they were never addressed until now. Not trying to judge anyone, but whether we judge the person or not, you can judge the actions as being inappropriate. And if someone is unwilling to receive help, that is another issue entirely.
You know, actually I am reminded of a story from one of my high school teachers. She had a terrible freshman homeroom all year they were wild and rude. Near the end of the year/ end of her pregnancy, she was about to lecture her class and blacked out. When she came to, she was sitting at her desk and the kids were silently working with their heads down. She told us that she believes her daughter came out and gave them some sass. She could not remember at all. So she doesn't even know what she said or did. So I guess something like this is plausible. But even then she was under a lot of physical duress and being a teacher is no joke. So I don't know man. I guess anything's possible. But if I was that lady, I would not blame my husband at all, I would need to take responsibility for my actions and apologize so sincerely to the landlord and at least tell him what happened. Don't ask for anything and don't do it just to get something in rent. Just as the least I could do for repaying his kindness with such atrocious behavior.
10:45 nah that ain't hormones. hormones can heighten your emotions. like make you more sensitive, irritable, sick, and yes... rude. but that was not hormonal rage. that was hatred. if she yelled at that man for more than 30 seconds within realizing she was wrong, and then later STILL wouldn't admit it, then something else is going on
Pregnancy can make you moody. It can also make you psychotic, and assuming she has never been anything but pleasant and kind before, that’s what this is: psychosis. She’s actively hurting herself and her family, not unlike cutting herself or engaging in other risky behavior. If she was lashing out in a more tangible way, no one would question that something is psychologically wrong, but because “pregnant women be moody,” this sort of behavior gets written off and overlooked until something _really_ bad happens. She needs to see her doctor immediately. That or she’s actually not a nice person, and just a classic abuser. You know how abusers are, waiting until you move in together, or get married, or have a kid; waiting until the other person feels trapped.
Yeah this sounds like some sort of mental health episode. This was beyond the range of someone who's thinking rationally, hormones or no hormones. The fact that the husband was so stunned means this was not characteristic of her at all. She herself seemed shocked by her own behavior afterwards. She didn't sound unapologetic, just completely desperate and confused. She couldn't give a reason for her outburst. I suspect she can't even explain it to herself even if she still believes the emotions she was feeling then.
@@Jupiter-T Yup. I’ve only known 2 women that experienced this sort of thing to this degree, and they described it as being outside of their own body, witnessing their behavior, but being unable to stop it. Like a bad dream. 😬
Pregnancy hormones for me was more like "I'm crying over my sandwich not being as tasty as I wanted it to be." Being snappy is kind of expected but definitely not to the extent that she took it! Lol
The dude that hooked up with the married woman is an asshole, for hooking up with a knowingly married woman. However, he is not an asshole for not taking responsibility that ISN'T HIS. And he isn't an asshole for "ruining" her life, because if she hadn't cheated in the first place, her life wouldn't be ruined. Takes 2 to cheat, baby ✨ Also the story about the girl who found out her BF was cheating and then never showed him the proof of it, to make him not trust people in his life. That's not an asshole move, but it's petty as hell. I love it.
16:31 When you get mood swings in pregnancy it just amplifies your feelings, you might get unreasonably sad or angry at things. But there has to be a root for your feelings too. Like if you hear a story about a puppy that got killed you might bawl your eyes out like it was your own pet instead of just a sad story... So there is something behind it for sure. If she had one of the conditions where you have really outrageous outbursts for no reason he would have noticed it in other regards and mentioned it.
Heard that first story elsewhere and it's one of the most obvious NTA's for the OP I've heard in a while. Not his baby, not his problem. And on a related note: for the sex havers out there, please, _please, _*_please use protection,_* or just don't be intimate in a way that allows for pregnancy without also being ready to raise a child. I'm asexual and don't ever see myself being intimate, much less having a child, so I know I am biased by saying 'just don't have sex'... But for real, unless you've taken other measures to prevent conception, know that you're always running a risk. Consensual smooches are always fine, though. Always kiss the homies goodnight.
No this is so real. Although I’m not ace (nb transmasc), I & my aroace friends have IUDs or other implants & emergency shit on hand. Always gotta be ready for the worst case scenario yk?
Heya, fellow asexual here. Yeah I see myself similarly (I still possibly want kids in the future, however I don't have exact plans on how to go about that, whether it be adoption, intercourse, donors, etc). I don't really get how people feel lust, as it's just not really an emotion I feel. However using protection is just such an easy way to avoid these issues (there are other options but due to some states/countries taking away some alternative options, I'd probably say protection is a safe bare minimum)
I’m definitely not asexual and I still say “just don’t have sex” lol😅. That’s the only way you’ll be certain. Else, get on one of (preferably more, though) the many options we have, hormonal and non hormonal, for bc…
I disagree. Come on, we've been over the "STAY ABSTINENT" approach that specifically shames women for unwanted consequences. It just doesn't work that way for people who aren't asexual. You can absolutely have sex as long as you use protection. If you do end up pregnant, depending where you live, fortunately you have choices.
Both sides should take responsibility for their half of the equation. Double up on protection and double the chances of it NOT happening. (example, condom AND the pill or some variation thereof, this also makes it much less likely that the other person baby traps you by lying about using protection)
If the pregnant wife has never exhibited any behavior remotely close to her freakout before, I'm afraid it could be something like psychosis during pregnancy or something. Definitely not ordinary high-hormone behavior. If there have been red flags or hints before, then I think being pregnant just threw her filter out the window and she is 100% at fault for her behavior.
I mean... Let's say it was totally mental breakdown, mind having its own merry way and she had no control over it. Okie, we agree to that. What she was doing AFTER FOR DAYS IF NOT WEEKS does NOT look any better. I mean you'd assume she'd be horrified with herself, call every phychiatrist she knows to have her asap, begging on her kneel for the husband to forgive her, write a 100 pages apology with a 5 tier cake attached to it for the landlord. Instead she's fussy about husband being pissed off, demanding him to take more hours now that she screwed and sending him to fix the issue. Plus pissing off that landlord even more with a whole river of messages.
@ Definitely but it looks like psychosis can last weeks or even months in bad cases, and it’s usually not an “on/off” ordeal but rather a slow build and slow descent type thing. I’d love to know if there’s an update now or at least a year after the incident because yes if she’s not sobbing on her hands and knees and beside herself with her past behavior, I would be surprised and then obviously any psychosis theories are not looking good. Even in the best of circumstances pregnancy can be an absolute beast and hard to cope with but never an excuse to be a humongous a-hole 💀💀💀ESPECIALLY if accountability is not taken after.
Okay. I have learned four things about this: Pregnant women having no interest in you before, then liking you is a red flag. You can be a butthole without being THE butthole. Kick it 2 the curb is a great song And Daniel Thrasher, Thomas Sanders, and Markiplier all need to collab on a song.
As someone who was pregnant I wouldn’t have responded like that, I would break down in tears, and would blubber a thank you. Probably hug the guy to death… but there is something called pregnancy/postpartum rage. Hormones hit everyone differently.
For AITA #2 6:03 ; I've known and experienced more than one person during their pregnancy, having a complete 180° personality/mood shift abruptly. My sister vehemently hated my brother during one of her pregnancies. The mood switches can be insane and it can change a person's personality. One of my sister in-laws turned from sweetheart to unhinged for her last trimester. The nurses and doctors my family members have had say it can be due to hormonal fluctuations, nutrient deficiencies, or due to the pressure the baby is creating on the mom from the inside. It is truly a very frustrating situation, I hope that OP and his wife can work things out with their amazing landlord. Therapy and a doctor's visit for the wife is needed asap, because if the wife's changes are due to pressure etc. it can cause complications in the pregnancy.
3:23 I'm guessing she has told her parents that OP is the father. He needs to send a letter or something to the parents letting them know that he had nothing to do with making a baby with their daughter and they need to go bother bother the actual father.
the parents know he isnt, he confirmed in the comments they know someone else is the father but they want to pawn their kid and grandkid off to someone else so they dont have to take care of her and the child
Even if the parents genuinely thought he was the father I feel they should be talking to the son's parents. Pestering a teenager about that is almost as immature as them
I know that Daniel is a musician and everything, but every time he pulls something like the piano playing at 26:00 just seemingly out of his back pocket it just makes me dumbfounded 😂
I’ve been pregnant twice, and both times I had awful morning sickness for all nice months. It was the worst. But I STILL would never get angry at someone trying to help. I would be nothing but grateful and tearful and feel blessed. Honestly, women blaming bad behavior on hormones is such a scapegoat. We’re still in charge of ourselves, some women just don’t know how to recognize when they’re acting out from hormones, and reign themselves in accordingly. LEARN. The world will not bend to your hormones. You need to learn how to live with them.
"She made it sound like the divorce was already a done deal." "Her husband found out and immediately filed for divorce." So either she lied or he REALLY jumped to some conclusions based on her tone
I have dealt with rage issues since I was a kid, and that is one of the big indicators of pregnancy for me. with the baby I had a year ago, but when I was first pregnant, I had a major meltdown, and tore a cabinet off its hinges, not my proudest moment but a temporary insanity plea is appropriate I think. she does need to settle some things within herself additionally and that doesn't make it okay. but I can comprehend it
Honestly it'll go one of two ways, she'll either get help, or she'll traumatize her kid, whether it's random or she gets pregnant again it doesn't matter, she needs to get right or she is going to damage her kid, possibly irreparably
With 2 kids, I was emotional, but not a screeching succubus. It was tearing up watching commercials on silly things: greeting cards, medicine with sick children, or anything sentimental. I read the "G" story. It broke my heart. That poor man had his heart broken. Being pregnant does not give you a free pass to be a raging B.
Poor husband and poor G, I just can't comprehend why the wife reacted like that. I would be like the husband, immediately jumping for joy and thanking G. I genuinely think it was spontaneous insanity just like Daniel said, maybe with some added trauma about kindness or something like that, I don't know, it just doesn't make sense. I'm also a little worried about the change with G, I understand being angry and wanting to set boundaries, but don't cut off the husband, at least let him apologize and have a face-to-face conversation with the wife.
G is a landlord. They get rich by doing nothing. He'll be more than fine. If anything, the fact that one pregnant woman was enough to push him into exploiting people says everything about him.
@@LycanKai14 What? Who hurt you? I mean there are lots of scummy landlords, but this guy was renting to them at far below market value, just out of kindness. Landlords often do not just "do nothing", they provide maintenance or other agreed upon benefits. The only thing G asked after his kindness was treated with such verbal abuse was that he distance himself from them to a more professional relationship, and that they pay market value. Is that exploitative? Guy had his heart broken. And plus, G was NOT a landlord for a living. This was a unique situation because of a house he couldn't bear to part with.
@@Jupiter-T Just because it's "market value" doesn't mean it's not exploitation. Obviously when all landlords are exploiting people, it's going to be market value. Let me guess, you're a landlord? "G wasn't a landlord for a living" Exactly. One hurt feeling and he immediately turned to greed and exploitation. Sorry, but someone hurting your feelings doesn't justify becoming a terrible person.
@@LycanKai14 You're guessing I'm a landlord just because I'm defending the nicest guy ever? What??? No, I'm a renter. I've had my issues with renting companies and landlords. You're acting like G was doing the bare minimum by lowering the rate to something that probably wasn't giving him much income at all. The renters weren't entitled to that. Let's say you were a baker who would give a major family discount to your aunt whenever she needed a cake. What you charged barely covered the materials, but you did that because you felt a bond with your aunt. Let's say your aunt one day decides to explode in your face, insulting everything about you and acting like your discount was because you felt superior to her. Would you not feel it was quite natural to create space between her and yourself? And wouldn't it also make sense to say "I'm not going to make discounted cakes for you anymore. If you want some from me in the future, you have to pay what everyone else does."
Even if the pregnant woman did snap at the landlord due to hormones, she had multiple days to reach out and apologize before he contacted them to discuss the new rental agreement. The fact that she didn’t own up to the blow out makes me think it was not pregnancy/hormone related.
As someone who is 7 months pregnant and has a few mental health diagnosis, I can confirm hormones make a big difference, but if that man offered rent the way he did I would cry for about a week for the kindness G showed. I feel like intentionally putting my living situation like that would take some kind of crazy psychosis. That woman probably need serious help tbh, like for her safety
I'm not sure how to phrase this without sounding really creepy..but here it goes? Your eyes look absolutely gorgeous, like this is my new favorite color.
I would like to apologize for this it was a joke. I can clearly see that Daniel is putting a lot of stuff out it was just a joke I could never do what he does.
As someone that has prenatal and postpartum depression, i would have sobbed feeling like a failure but i would NEVER say anything like that to someone so kind.
Daniel Thrasher is my idol and comfort youtuber, he definitely inspired my piano playing thank you! The How Lin Manuel Miranda Pizza video is my favourite!
The pregnant lady going off on the old man had me laughing so hard!😭 I was not expecting her to be so savage, but also, it was how quickly she switched up, she said sone wild stuff.😂 I suspect she talked to her friends or something, and they convinced her that she deserved more than what that generous old man was giving.
I LOVE your more music heavy episodes, and your little dance at the end was fantastic. Keep up the good work Daniel! You look so good on that red carpet!
i have a explanation for story two! although I've never had children yet, a increased level of hormones like progesterone and estrogen can cause a decrease in emotional regulation due to constant fatigue and mental exhaust that a first child can put on your body, it's not the same for everyone but i believe she had a moment where sensibility went out the window and was thinking in the moment, in no way you should blow up like that OR blame it on you being pregnant its just a explanation for her behavior, little bit of therapy never hurt for communication!
I’ve had two kids. If she just lashed out for no reason there’s something else going on she MIGHT not notice. Really hope she is in therapy it sounds like the start of postpartum depression OR her pregnancy is bringing up undiagnosed mental conditions she wasn’t aware of. I’ve been there. But if she doesn’t understand this of course she can’t verbally explain which can cause someone to get upset when they can’t express the emotions. You really don’t truly know yourself until you learn how your brain works. ETA TLDR; op is AH for ignorance at beginning(NOTICE I MENTION AT THE BEGINNING, NOT AS A WHOLE), needs more understanding. Wife is also AH and needs to understand this is a potential warning of an undiagnosed mental condition. Therapy is definitely a useful tool that needs used here is main point of my comment. Landlord sounds pretty cool and understanding more than OP. Another edit: I definitely am not saying she isn’t in the wrong but to use this as motivation to understand she has to go to therapy. Whatever she is going through will only get worse if she doesn’t do something about it! Last edit: Y’all I’m tired. I’m neurodivergent and I don’t have the best writing skills I’m trying over here. If you have a question about what I wrote please read the replies first, I probably already answered. Better yet helenl3193 explains better than I ever could. Read their reply. On that note I have to finish painting now. Daniel asked for someone who’s had kids to chime in and I did. That’s it. Therapy helps. That’s the point.
Him calling it crocodile and fake tears makes him TAH. She's obviously hormonal and mortified, even before they even had been confronted with the consequences. He should be trying to support her and figure out WTF happened. Not just tossing her aside. Men need more education on pregnancy hormones. "Idk what got into her" you did, bro! You injected her with testosterone! She's got roid rage!
@@jarofbees-andsomewaspsI agree that the OP is definitely an a-hole for accusing her of crocodile tears, that's just a horrible thing to do. Belittling your life partner's feelings is grounds for an automatic ruling of you being an a-hole. However I don't think he set her aside. He gave her time to prepare so they could have a discussion about what happened, and largely depending on how that discussion goes changes if I think he was just a rude person in that moment or more of an a-hole all around. However despite the hormones, pregnancy doesn't excuse you from being a manipulative a-hole. She acted like a complete a-hole, and I can excuse that part for hormones (maybe some others that understand them more might not, but I don't really understand how hormones affect people that much, so I will give her the benefit of the doubt). However desperately calling him and trying to not face the consequences of her actions makes me feel icky about her. G was a good friend of their's it seems, and it looks to me she cared more about the discounts that they got rather than about G by the conduct she had. If she cared about him I think she should apologize for blowing up at him, accept the terms he laid out/reject them and look for a new place to stay, and then state that hopefully in time they can still be friends again.
@@jarofbees-andsomewasps in my opinion he is indeed the ah for ignorance but so is she. If she doesn’t work on it and accept accountability that she did wrong it’s a definite sign she’s not getting the point that her actions had consequences. There’s not much education given to both genders about pregnancy. I learned more during the experiences than through written/spoken education. There’s a reason people say no one’s ever actually prepared. The landlord sounds like a sweetheart who has way more understanding than OP. You can tell he understands but may not want to tell OP to stop and think about it. I am happy that Daniel kept asking about this though because it seems many users in that subreddit did not understand what really happens in your brain. It can go to such a dark place.
@@kyleeconrad my mother swore up and down she never experienced it until witnessing me experiencing it earlier this year. Some seriously don’t recognize while it’s happening. The lady could also have undiagnosed trauma that needs to be worked on. I experienced so much during the first that didn’t affect me until my second child three years later.
Daniel and I are probably twins who where separated right after being born and now live far far away from each other. Man, you think exactly what I think and do things I would absolutely do if I didn’t care about other people’s judgement! Keep going 💪🏻💪🏻
I have been pregnant 3 times. Only in my 1st pregnancy did I have wacky hormones that made me really mean to my husband, randomly, for a couple of weeks…and I had to apologize all the time because I felt so bad for being so grouchy. It was literally like I wasn’t myself. But then it passed. It was really frustrating.
Wow I already loved G but at 17:00 when decided this girl is going to get a rude awakening from the real world. I’ll just do it myself since she can’t appreciate my kindness. I hope G has all the love and support he needs and deserves. That tenant wife is straight up evil and spoiled. I’ve literally never had a landlord even be polite to me. 😂 they have ALL tried to rip me off though or lie about what I’ve paid or what’s owed though. Also your cheating husband cover song was beautifully done!
I was thinking, "Huh, I wonder when Daniel's next video will drop." I check my UA-cam notifs, and you wouldn't imagine the joy I felt from that. You never fail to make people happy, Daniel. 😄
Hi! Have been pregnant before and am pregnant again now. The worst I’ve done is made passive aggressive comments about dishes not being done, and burst into tears over little things. Never yelled at anyone, never called anyone an asshole, never felt the inclination to be exceptionally rude to someone giving me presents. She’s TA
I have done a bit of pregnancy and birth (4 kids, 3 pregnancies). One time I cried when my husband went out and didn’t buy me food (I didn’t ask him to 🫠), another time I put our cellotape in the bathroom cupboard and kinda blamed him, no screaming at anyone ever. Just a bunch of crying over nothing (I am autistic and have other mental health issues). Since living in our house, I’ve become disabled, the severity of our twins’ disabilities has become clearer (very high support needs) - every year our landlord tries to increase rent by £200. We get him down to £100 (it’s become a yearly fun dance we do). Once he told us we have too many shoes, that was weird. That poor dude, they met a unicorn of a landlord, and someone who could have been a great friend. That’ll never happen again
I've never been pregnant but I am a woman who's been through many periods and that woman is just nuts. You emotions as a pregnant woman/on your period are not "uncontrollable" their just harder to control. The best example I can think of is: Imagine your emotions are like someone pushing you and for 3 weeks when you feel sad - push You feel happy - push You feel mad - push Very easily controllable depending on what made you feel those feelings Suddenly, one day you see something that makes you sad and you're bracing for a push and you get hit by a bus. Your still in control over your emotions but it's just harder to fight them back. I've had a shorter temper to people being annoying/rude but I've never yelled at someone for being kind... Which leads me to believe, she's just a horrible human being.
I’ve had three babies, and pregnancy was me at my most chill and happy every time. Now, a week or two after each baby was born and I was running on little to no sleep and hormones off the charts… I was a wreck, but I still wouldn’t have lashed out at any gifts, I would have likely hysterically cried out of gratitude, but that’s all. That story was weird.
I was getting into this video really thinking "It would actually be surprising if he pulled out the surprise microphone at the start of the video, but since the video is already rolling and it hasn't happened yet I guess it's not going to happ-" SUPRISE MICROPH- AAAAGH
“When you’re pregnant, you don’t turn into Lucifer.”
Not words I expected to hear today, but words I’m glad I heard nonetheless.
Way more likely to cry and whine than to turn into a demon and act entitled. But maybe she's just like that anyway? My guess is her natural personality was just magnified
checked the comments directly after hearing that and this and the reply comment were the perfect first comment to see 👍
Like, for real though! If the average woman, or even the less than average woman had this kind of over-the-top reaction to what amounts to the most fundamental kindness from others, the human race would be doomed, and likely would have become extinct long before we developed rudimentary hand tools.
I suspected the story wasn't real and after looking it up I'm sure it didn't actually happen.
You know, Lucifer isn't Satan. The King of Babylon is called Morning Star, or Lucifer, which is connected to the Greek God Phosphorus, or Venus, the "Morning Star."
yeah im 7 months pregnant with diagnosed BPD…not even I would do that. that behaviour NEEDS to be addressed in therapy and she NEEDS a psychiatrist ASAP!! i wouldve been FLOORED with an offer like what G said and wouldve cried THANKING HIM!!! she seriously has some prenatal mental health problems and absolutely needs to be treated immediately.
Yeah man, I don't meet the criteria for BPD but I definitely have a bunch of borderline tendencies (so I'm basically borderline borderline 😂) and I've known many pregnant mentally unwell people in my life cause y'all are my people, I've got CPTSD.
I don't know anyone in the world who would do that, pregnancy hormones or not. It's insane and her logic in her reasoning is inconsistent. I can't really understand the psychology on this one! Something going on there, tho. For sure.
The entitlement she displayed is quite appalling...I would have probably responded by refusing because it was too generous (but secretly hoping they insist, of course lol).
Definitely. It could genuinely be that her hormones caused that behavior but then a doctor is even more necessary. Pregnancy hormones can even cause a psychosis.
@@strawberryfox8819 Never knew about the psychosis, good to know!
Seriously! This is potentially a very real medical problem occurring that can become down right *dangerous* to herself, others, and her child. That is a life altering episode she just had, and is probably indicative of a much deeper issue. God forbid it turns into something like post partum psychosis. She needs to see her doctor.
Hey what's your due date? Mine is December 5th 😊
Yeah, prenatal mental health issues can be extreme but it's our responsibility to learn to manage and cope with them. Especially since we'll be bringing children into our lives so it will undoubtedly affect them if we ignore the problems.
Help my guy G he did no wrong but was hurt in the worst way
I’m sure it broke his faith in people 😢
Dude was just trying to look after the couple as though it was his daughter and her husband
That wife is going to be seriously freaked out when she meets other landlords. If G upset her, wait until she sees how this shit usually goes
And reading the post it seems that mostly they are sorry about the money they lost and not how she treated him.
As a person who has birthed 2 babies not snapping like that more like hysterical crying for no reason
Exactly this. I’d burst into tears every time a dog food commercial or Hallmark holiday add came on the TV. Never had explosive rage/rants though…
read what you wrote and tell me if it makes sense.
Yeah. But. That vicious? I was bouncing up and down for the last 6months of both my pregnancies. But to go for for the jugular like that?
@@topasu9454she meant snapping from pregnancy hormones looks more like bursting into tears uncontrollably. Pregnancy isn’t an excuse to abuse anyone.
@@NAT20Ashes they mean grammatically if it makes sense, it's a little hard to read.
I was like “I’m not gonna get tricked by a surprise microphone today!” And then he pulled it out right when I let my guard down
Not me thinking it was gonna be pulled out of his pockets at the beginning
I was so ready for the surprise microphone, but nothing could have prepared me for the surprise camera.
Same😊
Constant vigilance, my friend! You can't let the surprise microphones sneak up on you!!!
At least there were no explosions
I feel so bad for G :(
@@dathkakashi1034 me too! I’d love to be his pseudo-daughter 🫠😢
Literally just gave birth two weeks ago to my second baby. I have never felt that amount of rage towards someone and lashed out. Rage can be something you feel in pregnancy but it's not uncontrollable. People need to stop blaming pregnancy for their bad behavior.
Hey congrats tho!
Congrats! I’m expecting my 2nd in a month, and I totally agree, I’ve never blown up at anyone (I am generally quite passive anyway) but it is easier for me to cry about things haha
@@kimmmy86 Congrats to you too!! I agree! I'm more likely to cry too!! But that's just me in general. I cry for every emotion I feel. 🤣 Pregnant or not pregnant!
@@Shoulderpads-mcgee Thank you!! 😊
Facts. People use pregnancy as an excuse for so many things, it's not okay. Yeah, hormones are tough and it sucks in general, but most people manage just fine.
The second story is a great example of looking a gift horse in the mouth, like they had the best scenario with a landlord and you wanted it free!
My house is falling apart and the landlord wants to bump the rent up AGAIN. Which is just standard deplorable behaviour of a landlord. They are actually leasing from an angel, wtf is wrong with her? 🙃
Nah that was definitely hormone blitz
@@Gwyllgi hormone blitz is not an excuse.
@@_letstartariot I wasn't excusing anything, I was explaining why it happened
@@Gwyllgiit’s definitely deeper than that. hormones can go crazy, but that’s way beyond, and that she’s acting like a cretin days after the situation seems to imply that she stands by what she said, or at least doesn’t feel particularly guilty for being such a rancid person to G.
the pregnant woman story is genuinely crazy
Horomones be wild, provided that she normally isn't lke this
@@darkriku12 imagine if she wasnt pregnant, that would be more of a nightmare then a marriage
@@SolarWaveOsc oh for sure. I just give grace to women that are pregnant for the first time. I've seen the nicest women randomly turn crazy for like 3-4 months in that process.
i'm actually wondering a bit if there's more to her situation. pregnancy fucks with your emotional regulation a lot, but (as daniel put it so succinctly) being pregnant doesn't turn you into Lucifer. i don't have much personal experience with it specifically, but as someone who experiences a lot of other Lady-Bit Associated Hormones and has issues with emotional regulation, there is no way i can view her reaction as normal. however... there are a lot of post-partem mental illnesses that someone can experience that practically turns them into a different person. these conditions suck a lot because they often get excused as "hormones" and the people experiencing them never consider that they might be abnormal, or that they are deserving of treatment to ease the symptoms. thus their life never gets better and people learn to stay away. misogyny in medicine.
if OP truly believed in his wife's character and was completely shocked by her outburst, i'd advise him to consider that she might be dealing with some really rough shit under the hood. maybe even consider a psychological evaluation or therapy. nothing could excuse it, but something might be able to _explain_ it and tackling that cause might make her and her husband's life much better.
@@durdleduc8520right the story is legit crazy. There is no way hormones make you psychotic like that. This marriage isn't likely going to last specifically from this singular outburst. She needs to see a doctor for that. There has to be something seriously out of whack involved.
New lore: surprise camera
Holy shi-
the DTSMCU
Daniel Thrasher Surprise Microphone Camera Universe
@@TCZ188 nailed it!
@@OhGreatPopeye thank you :D
Babe wake up there's new lore
I can’t believe she yelled at the landlord like that…. That’s so fucked up
He's a landlord, he'll get over it. He doesn't deserve people's kindness.
@@genderflu1dwh0r17who hurt you?
@@magpies_myth2206I mean, landlords, like G, drive up the price of rent up* by owning property they themselves do not use.
*If every landlord was like G, there’d be little issue, problem is, there are very few landlords like G.
@@magpies_myth2206a landlord i assume
@@genderflu1dwh0r17 Did you not listen to the story? Where is your sympathy, man?
That pregnant woman is out of her damn mind. I’ve been pregnant and her outburst is just demented.
I’m honestly not sure if I’d be able to stay with her after something like that. Have her go through therapy or something at the least.
@@TerpleDerp2600prenatal depression (to postpartum depression)? That’s my wonderings. Just a sad situation and everyone in it needs loads of patience
Right im on baby #2 but woah lolz
I thought the thumbnail said “AITAH for blowing up my wife?” For a second.
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I read it that way too!😂
It sounds almost like that girl told her parents that he was the father... Because otherwise would why would they be telling him to step up like a man?
OP said in the comments that he’s confirmed her parents know he’s not the dad. They’re just desperate to not have to have anyone else take responsibility for their daughter.
Oh, I can totally see her parents saying "You know that doormat of a guy we have ALWAYS told you you should have settled for instead of the guy you chose?"
Followed by a couple months of financial/spiritual terrorism and insistence that "hey, you should give him a chance, now! He is never going to get anything as good as you anyway, so he should be thankful and you had your fun, now get securiry".
Pop up a few Hallmark movies for her to watch showing couples that worked out starting with the girl "setting down" with an "angel of a man", plus hormones and fear for her future... those parents were probably already organizing the wedding in their heads, never stopping to consider that life doesn't circle around their fanfic.
A *lot* of Evangelical parents do this kind of thing.
Simultaneously he is a man because he knows how to not rush into this stupid decision that'll ruin his life and also not a man because he's literally not a man dude! He's still a kid himself, don't be forcing him to raise someone else's accident, he's a kid you can't just add that
@@silvanonsilverhorn8371I just made the same comment as Jessica because we both apparently missed that lol. Thanks for the info.
@@silvanonsilverhorn8371did he confirm it with her or the though? 😂
Daniel: “every relationship ends in either breakup or marriage”
Me: “…or death!”
Was thinking that exact same thing.
@@countjracula There are also happy couples that never get married. Marriage ain't a surefire recipe for success.
@@DerNiko yeah and in that case the relationship ends in death
@@DerNiko i think he meant marriage as in "person you spend the rest of your life with", not necessarily a signed document
or moving abroad.
Been pregnant and have two kids…this is the complete opposite of a typical response. Becoming a parent is so hard and gaining a support network is critical especially when money is tight. I can’t imagine responding like this.
After seeing a better view of Daniel's studio-office, I'm now convinced it doesn't have a door and he either comes and goes like a gremlin climbing through the windows-or he just never leaves.
Or secret hidden door in the bookshelf. But yeah he probably just never leaves.
I'm guessing it's a trap door under the rug. A surprise door, if you will.
BRO I WAS LOOKING FOR THE DOOR THE WHOLE TIME TOO HAHAHHAHAHHA
he doesn’t leave.
Ohmygoodness you’re right. Unless it’s a separate building from his house and the door goes directly outside
G is basically my landlord. She is a saint and a widow.
so the secret to good landlords is them experiencing loss. understood, find lonely sad landlords for good housing.
All you need to do is when you or a significant other get pregnant not fuck it up.
@@HaliaxOfTheChandrian _make_ lonely sad landlords for good housing...
@@notadev1590 I didn't wanna say it.. but yes.
@@notadev1590 Lmao, from manipulation to a legit crime
"Congratulations on meeting Garage!" Daniel's the best
There are cases where pregnant women will develop an irrational hatred for someone or something they previously had no issue with, or even loved. Their spouse, an existing kid, a longtime pet, a random coworker. Usually once the kid is born their hormones will even out and their feelings will return back to normal, but it doesn't excuse or undo the damage they cause when in that hormonal state, and I couldn't say if that's even what happened here. I'm as baffled as everyone else.
This does not seem like an *irrational* hatred. It seems rational, even calculated.
@@autopsyblue there was nothing rational about her reaction lol
These cases have the person in question having issues OTHER than just being pregnant. Pregnancy alone doesn’t turn a woman into a monster. Mental instability will.
@@kristipearce4819 I mean, it’s not unheard of for pregnancy hormones to completely change a person. People with no history can develop PPD or even post-partum psychosis. A lot of things can trigger mental illness in someone who didn’t have the markers beforehand. Drugs, malnutrition, brain injuries, cancer. Obviously the risk is much higher for people who DO have the markers, but it’s not impossible for an outside force to trigger it. Just really rare. Not disagreeing with you entirely, just saying it can happen. It still doesn’t explain wtf this lady’s deal is tho.
That's true. But the thing is, this lady seems to knew what she was doing. Sure, the part where she went and cry / didn't want to talk about what happened after the fact might be from mental stress.
But then she also agree to meet with the landlord again (that she should've still be angry to) and went as pale as ghost after learning about the consequences of her action, indicate she knew and remember about her outburst.
Like then why didn't you try to resolve the mistake sooner? And only try to patch things up after learning that the landlord will normalize the renting fee? Remember, this story spans across days or weeks from her outburst to the landlord asking the couple to meet him
Its almost as if, imo, that the wife think the landlord would take the insult right on his face because of how kind he is.
Other channels: *censors the swear in the subreddit name*
Daniel: *writes song about it uncensored*
16:32 Unless she has some kind of other mental thing (like bipolar) I wouldn't call that just a hormone thing
I was going to say the same thing. Mental illness hits hard during pregnancy because you can’t take your medication in most cases.
As much as I hate to say this I can kind of get this bipolar thing. I have bipolar 1 that was left untreated and undiagnosed for years, and in those years I have basically made quite a lot of the bridges with my own family quite thin due to my manic/depressive (especially vicious ones) episodes. So it is quite realistic especially if it's been left untreated
Speaking as someone who has bipolar...
That's not even bipolar, that's a borderline psychotic episode
I don't think it's judgey to call a guy who knocks someone up and then ditches them a loser. That's some obvious loser behaviour right there.
Now the parents and the young woman need to take that energy they were using on the OP to go after the actual father, not some other random guy.
That first story is... It's really upsetting wtf is wrong with her and especially her parents
Desperate
I think that she seems to act on impulse without thinking things through, and her parents don't want to take care of another child so they just tried pushing all the responsibility onto someone else.
I think she likely is an irresponsible young person who got in over her head, but those parents sound very... manipulative and selfish.
Theyre just trying to get that military spouse money
I have been pregnant three times. I have also been diagnosed with severe mental health disorders. If she does not have an underlying mental health disorder, then yeah that behavior was just her thinking that it's okay to blow up because everyone will understand. Since you're pregnant. She's probably been let off the hook one too many times. Even when I was in the worst places of my life, and pregnant/ dealing with post-pregnancy issues, I would never even dream of getting that angry and yelling at someone who was not within my immediate family.😅 Yes, unfortunately my most immediate family has has seen a worse side. But that's all over now anyway, point being pregnancy does not give you a license to be a meanie face. Hormones are raging, but if she's in her second trimester which is what it sounds like, her hormone changes shouldn't be affecting her as much
@madamemelone4947 You've actually proven my point, you have underlying mental health issues. Even though you weren't struggling with them right before you got pregnant, you are at a much higher risk of reoccurrence when you are pregnant or postpartum. When I was postpartum there were times I was scared the police would be called on me because I felt like I had absolutely no control over myself. It took a lot of time but I did learn how to control myself.
I won't dismiss that this could happen to someone without underlying mental health issues, but that would be extremely bizarre.
That's why I put the caveat of having pre-existing (whether currently experiencing or not) mental health issues.
Like I am not experiencing the symptoms of what I've been diagnosed with right now, but I have been told that even with medication, even with the coping mechanisms I've learned, I have an extremely high chance of that reoccurring in pregnancy and postpartum.
It could be that this woman has had issues but they were never addressed until now. Not trying to judge anyone, but whether we judge the person or not, you can judge the actions as being inappropriate. And if someone is unwilling to receive help, that is another issue entirely.
You know, actually I am reminded of a story from one of my high school teachers. She had a terrible freshman homeroom all year they were wild and rude. Near the end of the year/ end of her pregnancy, she was about to lecture her class and blacked out. When she came to, she was sitting at her desk and the kids were silently working with their heads down. She told us that she believes her daughter came out and gave them some sass. She could not remember at all. So she doesn't even know what she said or did. So I guess something like this is plausible. But even then she was under a lot of physical duress and being a teacher is no joke. So I don't know man. I guess anything's possible. But if I was that lady, I would not blame my husband at all, I would need to take responsibility for my actions and apologize so sincerely to the landlord and at least tell him what happened. Don't ask for anything and don't do it just to get something in rent. Just as the least I could do for repaying his kindness with such atrocious behavior.
10:45 nah that ain't hormones. hormones can heighten your emotions. like make you more sensitive, irritable, sick, and yes... rude. but that was not hormonal rage. that was hatred. if she yelled at that man for more than 30 seconds within realizing she was wrong, and then later STILL wouldn't admit it, then something else is going on
Pregnancy can make you moody. It can also make you psychotic, and assuming she has never been anything but pleasant and kind before, that’s what this is: psychosis. She’s actively hurting herself and her family, not unlike cutting herself or engaging in other risky behavior. If she was lashing out in a more tangible way, no one would question that something is psychologically wrong, but because “pregnant women be moody,” this sort of behavior gets written off and overlooked until something _really_ bad happens. She needs to see her doctor immediately.
That or she’s actually not a nice person, and just a classic abuser. You know how abusers are, waiting until you move in together, or get married, or have a kid; waiting until the other person feels trapped.
Yeah this sounds like some sort of mental health episode. This was beyond the range of someone who's thinking rationally, hormones or no hormones. The fact that the husband was so stunned means this was not characteristic of her at all. She herself seemed shocked by her own behavior afterwards. She didn't sound unapologetic, just completely desperate and confused. She couldn't give a reason for her outburst. I suspect she can't even explain it to herself even if she still believes the emotions she was feeling then.
@@Jupiter-T Yup. I’ve only known 2 women that experienced this sort of thing to this degree, and they described it as being outside of their own body, witnessing their behavior, but being unable to stop it. Like a bad dream. 😬
Pregnancy hormones for me was more like "I'm crying over my sandwich not being as tasty as I wanted it to be." Being snappy is kind of expected but definitely not to the extent that she took it! Lol
You worked hard on that sandwich, it should taste good.
The dude that hooked up with the married woman is an asshole, for hooking up with a knowingly married woman. However, he is not an asshole for not taking responsibility that ISN'T HIS. And he isn't an asshole for "ruining" her life, because if she hadn't cheated in the first place, her life wouldn't be ruined. Takes 2 to cheat, baby ✨
Also the story about the girl who found out her BF was cheating and then never showed him the proof of it, to make him not trust people in his life. That's not an asshole move, but it's petty as hell. I love it.
Yeah she isn't obligated to show him proof. He doesn't have the trust of anyone, anyway
16:31 When you get mood swings in pregnancy it just amplifies your feelings, you might get unreasonably sad or angry at things. But there has to be a root for your feelings too. Like if you hear a story about a puppy that got killed you might bawl your eyes out like it was your own pet instead of just a sad story... So there is something behind it for sure. If she had one of the conditions where you have really outrageous outbursts for no reason he would have noticed it in other regards and mentioned it.
Exactly, also if she has a mental health issue that she doesn't know about, that probably would affect her a lot while pregnant.
Heard that first story elsewhere and it's one of the most obvious NTA's for the OP I've heard in a while. Not his baby, not his problem.
And on a related note: for the sex havers out there, please, _please, _*_please use protection,_* or just don't be intimate in a way that allows for pregnancy without also being ready to raise a child.
I'm asexual and don't ever see myself being intimate, much less having a child, so I know I am biased by saying 'just don't have sex'... But for real, unless you've taken other measures to prevent conception, know that you're always running a risk.
Consensual smooches are always fine, though. Always kiss the homies goodnight.
No this is so real. Although I’m not ace (nb transmasc), I & my aroace friends have IUDs or other implants & emergency shit on hand. Always gotta be ready for the worst case scenario yk?
Heya, fellow asexual here. Yeah I see myself similarly (I still possibly want kids in the future, however I don't have exact plans on how to go about that, whether it be adoption, intercourse, donors, etc).
I don't really get how people feel lust, as it's just not really an emotion I feel. However using protection is just such an easy way to avoid these issues (there are other options but due to some states/countries taking away some alternative options, I'd probably say protection is a safe bare minimum)
I’m definitely not asexual and I still say “just don’t have sex” lol😅. That’s the only way you’ll be certain. Else, get on one of (preferably more, though) the many options we have, hormonal and non hormonal, for bc…
I disagree. Come on, we've been over the "STAY ABSTINENT" approach that specifically shames women for unwanted consequences. It just doesn't work that way for people who aren't asexual. You can absolutely have sex as long as you use protection. If you do end up pregnant, depending where you live, fortunately you have choices.
Both sides should take responsibility for their half of the equation. Double up on protection and double the chances of it NOT happening. (example, condom AND the pill or some variation thereof, this also makes it much less likely that the other person baby traps you by lying about using protection)
21:03
Daniel's piano teacher feels a disturbance where ever he is
If the pregnant wife has never exhibited any behavior remotely close to her freakout before, I'm afraid it could be something like psychosis during pregnancy or something. Definitely not ordinary high-hormone behavior. If there have been red flags or hints before, then I think being pregnant just threw her filter out the window and she is 100% at fault for her behavior.
I mean... Let's say it was totally mental breakdown, mind having its own merry way and she had no control over it. Okie, we agree to that. What she was doing AFTER FOR DAYS IF NOT WEEKS does NOT look any better. I mean you'd assume she'd be horrified with herself, call every phychiatrist she knows to have her asap, begging on her kneel for the husband to forgive her, write a 100 pages apology with a 5 tier cake attached to it for the landlord. Instead she's fussy about husband being pissed off, demanding him to take more hours now that she screwed and sending him to fix the issue. Plus pissing off that landlord even more with a whole river of messages.
@ Definitely but it looks like psychosis can last weeks or even months in bad cases, and it’s usually not an “on/off” ordeal but rather a slow build and slow descent type thing. I’d love to know if there’s an update now or at least a year after the incident because yes if she’s not sobbing on her hands and knees and beside herself with her past behavior, I would be surprised and then obviously any psychosis theories are not looking good. Even in the best of circumstances pregnancy can be an absolute beast and hard to cope with but never an excuse to be a humongous a-hole 💀💀💀ESPECIALLY if accountability is not taken after.
6:23 "G is too silly let's call him Gary" *calls him garage*
13:08 NGL i think that landlord would’ve sold them the house at a reasonable price or with a discount. All she had to do was be nice????
Okay.
I have learned four things about this:
Pregnant women having no interest in you before, then liking you is a red flag.
You can be a butthole without being THE butthole.
Kick it 2 the curb is a great song
And Daniel Thrasher, Thomas Sanders, and Markiplier all need to collab on a song.
As someone who was pregnant I wouldn’t have responded like that, I would break down in tears, and would blubber a thank you. Probably hug the guy to death… but there is something called pregnancy/postpartum rage. Hormones hit everyone differently.
Or psychosis
For AITA #2 6:03 ; I've known and experienced more than one person during their pregnancy, having a complete 180° personality/mood shift abruptly. My sister vehemently hated my brother during one of her pregnancies. The mood switches can be insane and it can change a person's personality. One of my sister in-laws turned from sweetheart to unhinged for her last trimester. The nurses and doctors my family members have had say it can be due to hormonal fluctuations, nutrient deficiencies, or due to the pressure the baby is creating on the mom from the inside. It is truly a very frustrating situation, I hope that OP and his wife can work things out with their amazing landlord. Therapy and a doctor's visit for the wife is needed asap, because if the wife's changes are due to pressure etc. it can cause complications in the pregnancy.
3:23 I'm guessing she has told her parents that OP is the father. He needs to send a letter or something to the parents letting them know that he had nothing to do with making a baby with their daughter and they need to go bother bother the actual father.
the parents know he isnt, he confirmed in the comments they know someone else is the father but they want to pawn their kid and grandkid off to someone else so they dont have to take care of her and the child
Even if the parents genuinely thought he was the father I feel they should be talking to the son's parents. Pestering a teenager about that is almost as immature as them
surprise mic is getting out of control
And it's amazing every time haha
I know that Daniel is a musician and everything, but every time he pulls something like the piano playing at 26:00 just seemingly out of his back pocket it just makes me dumbfounded 😂
SUPRISE CAMERA?? WHAT???
I’ve been pregnant twice, and both times I had awful morning sickness for all nice months. It was the worst. But I STILL would never get angry at someone trying to help. I would be nothing but grateful and tearful and feel blessed. Honestly, women blaming bad behavior on hormones is such a scapegoat. We’re still in charge of ourselves, some women just don’t know how to recognize when they’re acting out from hormones, and reign themselves in accordingly. LEARN. The world will not bend to your hormones. You need to learn how to live with them.
surprise camera is crazy
Feels like a POV
I was pregnant WITH TWINS, hormones and physical pain through the roof, and NEVER would I snap like that at anybody!!
"She made it sound like the divorce was already a done deal." "Her husband found out and immediately filed for divorce." So either she lied or he REALLY jumped to some conclusions based on her tone
I have dealt with rage issues since I was a kid, and that is one of the big indicators of pregnancy for me. with the baby I had a year ago, but when I was first pregnant, I had a major meltdown, and tore a cabinet off its hinges, not my proudest moment but a temporary insanity plea is appropriate I think. she does need to settle some things within herself additionally and that doesn't make it okay. but I can comprehend it
Honestly it'll go one of two ways, she'll either get help, or she'll traumatize her kid, whether it's random or she gets pregnant again it doesn't matter, she needs to get right or she is going to damage her kid, possibly irreparably
That jam and dance at the end was the best part 😄
With 2 kids, I was emotional, but not a screeching succubus. It was tearing up watching commercials on silly things: greeting cards, medicine with sick children, or anything sentimental.
I read the "G" story. It broke my heart. That poor man had his heart broken. Being pregnant does not give you a free pass to be a raging B.
Always love your spontaneous musical compositions. Kick 'em to the curb deserves to be released as a single. I would give you a dollar for it.
I need to see a video about AITA with Daniel and Charlotte Dobre, that would be the type o chaos that I would love 😂😂😂
Came here from her video and genuinely thought the same myself! 😏
The fact that the pregnant woman lost it but then doubled down on some “ a real gift would be no rent” entitled shit is WILD
Poor husband and poor G, I just can't comprehend why the wife reacted like that. I would be like the husband, immediately jumping for joy and thanking G. I genuinely think it was spontaneous insanity just like Daniel said, maybe with some added trauma about kindness or something like that, I don't know, it just doesn't make sense. I'm also a little worried about the change with G, I understand being angry and wanting to set boundaries, but don't cut off the husband, at least let him apologize and have a face-to-face conversation with the wife.
G is a landlord. They get rich by doing nothing. He'll be more than fine. If anything, the fact that one pregnant woman was enough to push him into exploiting people says everything about him.
@@LycanKai14 What? Who hurt you? I mean there are lots of scummy landlords, but this guy was renting to them at far below market value, just out of kindness. Landlords often do not just "do nothing", they provide maintenance or other agreed upon benefits. The only thing G asked after his kindness was treated with such verbal abuse was that he distance himself from them to a more professional relationship, and that they pay market value. Is that exploitative? Guy had his heart broken. And plus, G was NOT a landlord for a living. This was a unique situation because of a house he couldn't bear to part with.
@@Jupiter-T Just because it's "market value" doesn't mean it's not exploitation. Obviously when all landlords are exploiting people, it's going to be market value. Let me guess, you're a landlord?
"G wasn't a landlord for a living" Exactly. One hurt feeling and he immediately turned to greed and exploitation. Sorry, but someone hurting your feelings doesn't justify becoming a terrible person.
@@LycanKai14 You're guessing I'm a landlord just because I'm defending the nicest guy ever? What??? No, I'm a renter. I've had my issues with renting companies and landlords. You're acting like G was doing the bare minimum by lowering the rate to something that probably wasn't giving him much income at all. The renters weren't entitled to that.
Let's say you were a baker who would give a major family discount to your aunt whenever she needed a cake. What you charged barely covered the materials, but you did that because you felt a bond with your aunt. Let's say your aunt one day decides to explode in your face, insulting everything about you and acting like your discount was because you felt superior to her. Would you not feel it was quite natural to create space between her and yourself? And wouldn't it also make sense to say "I'm not going to make discounted cakes for you anymore. If you want some from me in the future, you have to pay what everyone else does."
@@LycanKai14G has literally exploited NOBODY in the story as told. In Fact, you are saying that he should BE EXPLOITED by this psychotic woman.
Homie.. I really needed your goofy ass today. Thanks for being hilarious.
I've been pregnant several times and never have I ever turned into Lucifer. This woman was mentally unstable before she was pregnant
bro 22:50 the fact he improvised that melody pretty much made a song and knew exactly what keys to hit to make it sound good is freaking insane
well he's a pianist, that helps with knowing what notes to hit
Even if the pregnant woman did snap at the landlord due to hormones, she had multiple days to reach out and apologize before he contacted them to discuss the new rental agreement. The fact that she didn’t own up to the blow out makes me think it was not pregnancy/hormone related.
"I don't know pregnant women like that"
That last piano solo was so jazzy and gave me strong Tim Minchin vibes. Could have watched a full video of that alone!
As someone who is 7 months pregnant and has a few mental health diagnosis, I can confirm hormones make a big difference, but if that man offered rent the way he did I would cry for about a week for the kindness G showed. I feel like intentionally putting my living situation like that would take some kind of crazy psychosis. That woman probably need serious help tbh, like for her safety
I'm not sure how to phrase this without sounding really creepy..but here it goes? Your eyes look absolutely gorgeous, like this is my new favorite color.
daniel the second story maybe she just wasn’t herself and needed a snickers
whats next? suprise headset?
Unsurprise microphone? Just start the video using both mics
So much music this video! Love the grinch dance at the end Daniel 🙌
0:52 The fact that I didn't see that coming is crazy
He’s back I’ve been deprived for so longggg
it's been 6 days from the last upload, you are not deprived
@@tinttiboi it’s a joke dude
@@Harpergrace4528he posts shorts on his main channel like 72 times a day
@@tinttiboi DEPRIVED >:(
I would like to apologize for this it was a joke. I can clearly see that Daniel is putting a lot of stuff out it was just a joke I could never do what he does.
This is the earliest I've clicked on a video since it uploaded
As someone that has prenatal and postpartum depression, i would have sobbed feeling like a failure but i would NEVER say anything like that to someone so kind.
Daniel Thrasher is my idol and comfort youtuber, he definitely inspired my piano playing thank you! The How Lin Manuel Miranda Pizza video is my favourite!
The pregnant lady going off on the old man had me laughing so hard!😭 I was not expecting her to be so savage, but also, it was how quickly she switched up, she said sone wild stuff.😂
I suspect she talked to her friends or something, and they convinced her that she deserved more than what that generous old man was giving.
I LOVE your more music heavy episodes, and your little dance at the end was fantastic. Keep up the good work Daniel! You look so good on that red carpet!
Daniel's ad lib dance at the end... That was something I didn't know I needed 😂❤
i have a explanation for story two! although I've never had children yet, a increased level of hormones like progesterone and estrogen can cause a decrease in emotional regulation due to constant fatigue and mental exhaust that a first child can put on your body, it's not the same for everyone but i believe she had a moment where sensibility went out the window and was thinking in the moment, in no way you should blow up like that OR blame it on you being pregnant its just a explanation for her behavior, little bit of therapy never hurt for communication!
I’ve had two kids. If she just lashed out for no reason there’s something else going on she MIGHT not notice. Really hope she is in therapy it sounds like the start of postpartum depression OR her pregnancy is bringing up undiagnosed mental conditions she wasn’t aware of. I’ve been there. But if she doesn’t understand this of course she can’t verbally explain which can cause someone to get upset when they can’t express the emotions. You really don’t truly know yourself until you learn how your brain works.
ETA TLDR; op is AH for ignorance at beginning(NOTICE I MENTION AT THE BEGINNING, NOT AS A WHOLE), needs more understanding. Wife is also AH and needs to understand this is a potential warning of an undiagnosed mental condition. Therapy is definitely a useful tool that needs used here is main point of my comment. Landlord sounds pretty cool and understanding more than OP.
Another edit: I definitely am not saying she isn’t in the wrong but to use this as motivation to understand she has to go to therapy. Whatever she is going through will only get worse if she doesn’t do something about it!
Last edit: Y’all I’m tired. I’m neurodivergent and I don’t have the best writing skills I’m trying over here. If you have a question about what I wrote please read the replies first, I probably already answered. Better yet helenl3193 explains better than I ever could. Read their reply. On that note I have to finish painting now. Daniel asked for someone who’s had kids to chime in and I did. That’s it. Therapy helps. That’s the point.
Him calling it crocodile and fake tears makes him TAH. She's obviously hormonal and mortified, even before they even had been confronted with the consequences. He should be trying to support her and figure out WTF happened. Not just tossing her aside. Men need more education on pregnancy hormones. "Idk what got into her" you did, bro! You injected her with testosterone! She's got roid rage!
That's a good point. They should look into her family history to see if her mother and such ever went thru PPD. That shit ain't nothing to eff with!
@@jarofbees-andsomewaspsI agree that the OP is definitely an a-hole for accusing her of crocodile tears, that's just a horrible thing to do. Belittling your life partner's feelings is grounds for an automatic ruling of you being an a-hole.
However I don't think he set her aside. He gave her time to prepare so they could have a discussion about what happened, and largely depending on how that discussion goes changes if I think he was just a rude person in that moment or more of an a-hole all around.
However despite the hormones, pregnancy doesn't excuse you from being a manipulative a-hole. She acted like a complete a-hole, and I can excuse that part for hormones (maybe some others that understand them more might not, but I don't really understand how hormones affect people that much, so I will give her the benefit of the doubt). However desperately calling him and trying to not face the consequences of her actions makes me feel icky about her. G was a good friend of their's it seems, and it looks to me she cared more about the discounts that they got rather than about G by the conduct she had. If she cared about him I think she should apologize for blowing up at him, accept the terms he laid out/reject them and look for a new place to stay, and then state that hopefully in time they can still be friends again.
@@jarofbees-andsomewasps in my opinion he is indeed the ah for ignorance but so is she. If she doesn’t work on it and accept accountability that she did wrong it’s a definite sign she’s not getting the point that her actions had consequences. There’s not much education given to both genders about pregnancy. I learned more during the experiences than through written/spoken education. There’s a reason people say no one’s ever actually prepared. The landlord sounds like a sweetheart who has way more understanding than OP. You can tell he understands but may not want to tell OP to stop and think about it. I am happy that Daniel kept asking about this though because it seems many users in that subreddit did not understand what really happens in your brain. It can go to such a dark place.
@@kyleeconrad my mother swore up and down she never experienced it until witnessing me experiencing it earlier this year. Some seriously don’t recognize while it’s happening. The lady could also have undiagnosed trauma that needs to be worked on. I experienced so much during the first that didn’t affect me until my second child three years later.
@10:42 NO! don't make up excuses for this woman! there is no excuse for this disgusting behavior. NONE!
Just so you know... I'm rocking out with you every time you make up random songs in these videos. And this time we had a full on dance party.
Daniel and I are probably twins who where separated right after being born and now live far far away from each other. Man, you think exactly what I think and do things I would absolutely do if I didn’t care about other people’s judgement! Keep going 💪🏻💪🏻
These get more unhinged every time and I love it
Is it weird that I spent too long vibing in the mirror to that intro song?
A little bass right off the bat bruv.
I have been pregnant 3 times.
Only in my 1st pregnancy did I have wacky hormones that made me really mean to my husband, randomly, for a couple of weeks…and I had to apologize all the time because I felt so bad for being so grouchy.
It was literally like I wasn’t myself.
But then it passed. It was really frustrating.
the musical impros were especially fantastic in this video
Wow I already loved G but at 17:00 when decided this girl is going to get a rude awakening from the real world. I’ll just do it myself since she can’t appreciate my kindness. I hope G has all the love and support he needs and deserves. That tenant wife is straight up evil and spoiled. I’ve literally never had a landlord even be polite to me. 😂 they have ALL tried to rip me off though or lie about what I’ve paid or what’s owed though. Also your cheating husband cover song was beautifully done!
Oh boy, a new Daniel Thrasher video! Surely there will be no Surprise Microphone in this!
polite request: pls use that intro AITA song for every intro in future AITA vids
bc, its an absolute banger 😍
I was thinking, "Huh, I wonder when Daniel's next video will drop." I check my UA-cam notifs, and you wouldn't imagine the joy I felt from that. You never fail to make people happy, Daniel. 😄
I love these Reddit videos. I’ve watched all of them. I need moreee lmao
Hi! Have been pregnant before and am pregnant again now. The worst I’ve done is made passive aggressive comments about dishes not being done, and burst into tears over little things. Never yelled at anyone, never called anyone an asshole, never felt the inclination to be exceptionally rude to someone giving me presents. She’s TA
Garage is a nice man
The lean on me parody is great
I have done a bit of pregnancy and birth (4 kids, 3 pregnancies).
One time I cried when my husband went out and didn’t buy me food (I didn’t ask him to 🫠), another time I put our cellotape in the bathroom cupboard and kinda blamed him, no screaming at anyone ever. Just a bunch of crying over nothing (I am autistic and have other mental health issues).
Since living in our house, I’ve become disabled, the severity of our twins’ disabilities has become clearer (very high support needs) - every year our landlord tries to increase rent by £200. We get him down to £100 (it’s become a yearly fun dance we do). Once he told us we have too many shoes, that was weird.
That poor dude, they met a unicorn of a landlord, and someone who could have been a great friend. That’ll never happen again
EXACTLY
Daniel, this is so good! Love the chat and the musical interludes are ah-mazing and so on point! Thank you for sharing! 😊
I've never been pregnant but I am a woman who's been through many periods and that woman is just nuts.
You emotions as a pregnant woman/on your period are not "uncontrollable" their just harder to control.
The best example I can think of is:
Imagine your emotions are like someone pushing you and for 3 weeks
when you feel sad - push
You feel happy - push
You feel mad - push
Very easily controllable depending on what made you feel those feelings
Suddenly, one day you see something that makes you sad and you're bracing for a push and you get hit by a bus.
Your still in control over your emotions but it's just harder to fight them back.
I've had a shorter temper to people being annoying/rude but I've never yelled at someone for being kind...
Which leads me to believe, she's just a horrible human being.
I’ve had three babies, and pregnancy was me at my most chill and happy every time. Now, a week or two after each baby was born and I was running on little to no sleep and hormones off the charts… I was a wreck, but I still wouldn’t have lashed out at any gifts, I would have likely hysterically cried out of gratitude, but that’s all. That story was weird.
G garage is a person that we need more of in this world ❤
Three pregnancies here, and you can still control yourself. Unless you're also REALLY HUNGRY. I will take no questions on this stance.
I was getting into this video really thinking "It would actually be surprising if he pulled out the surprise microphone at the start of the video, but since the video is already rolling and it hasn't happened yet I guess it's not going to happ-"
SUPRISE MICROPH-
AAAAGH
Love your creative singing in general, but the parody of lean on me killed me 😆
I definitely started car dancing and singing Kick them to the curb one third higher along with you 😂 ❤
I feel like Dan would do a great Kermit the frog impression