@Natasha Williams naw. I have to have spent enough time getting to know you to be that comfortable. I don't even big my mother much. Much less for other people. So yeah. It's a real thing.
@Natasha Williams I'm sorry 1. I was hoping that I didn't come off rude so I'm sorry that I didn't recognize you weren't talking to me since its a comment section and all. But ok.😊 That's great your upbringing don't affect you in that way as well. Not everyones the same as your initial comment also points out. My understanding is off naturally. I typing from a phone not inside your head. I'd lick my woman in all the right places when to chips are down so yeah. 🙂
@Natasha Williams clearly it made no sense to you. 😂 Oh. Well such is life. You are right that you're assuming I'm bringing gender into this. When that was one of the furthest things from my mind. It's all just perception of each other's statement sense you see it as me being off topic and I get where you're coming from when you say I spoke as though we spoke about those things. So you are correct in that regard. My comment plain and simple was aimed at the whole idea, that display of affection is affected by upbringing. Though we didn't discuss what I spoke about. The basis still stands. At least I think so. 😕
@Natasha Williams ok. So most times people go into talks with some kind of preconceived notion. So it affects how we approach things one way or the other. You could try to curtail it but ultimately that's just how it is. Unless some how you perceive exactly where that person is coming from.
If he loves her he's not going anywhere. Maybe they complement each other. The fact that she put it out there shows she cares and wants to change for him. I think they'll be fine.
Girl you found you a polite RESPECTFUL man with an ACTUAL CAREER with money where he also helps people too??? Girl you better learn how to show affection and quite playing!!!
She knows how - she just can't bring herself to because she's not attracted to him. She better get over herself and just do it because she will have some stiff competition at some point and they won't hesitate.
I know that's right because it should be easy to show him some affection. What is she talking about? Even if he is not a.Doctor it would not be hard since it is a natural thing. Especially if you like the person a lot like she said she does. Hmmmm watch out b4 somebody in Steve"s audience tackle the Doctor and really show him some real affection! LOL!!
On second thought it doesn't seem like she is attractive to the Doctor. It is easy to show affection when you are attractive to them. Yes he has a great career with prestige but she does not seem to let that go to her head. I was feeling that it should be easy but you cant say that based on what a person does for their career. You have to be drawn to more than money. That may not be what she is interested in altogether. And she wants to feel chemistry on a deeper level not the visual of what he can buy for her materialistically.
Omg I love Steve!! As a person who never received affection as a kid I can completely relate to her. It's like having feelings but not knowing how to show them. It can also be overwhelming trying to receive love from others.
It can. I used to be.like that too. I'm much improved now. My cure? Babysitting. Kids will teach you how to express your emotions because they give love wholeheartedly and you cannot in turn deny them your affection. You'll learn to give back what they give to you real quick lol
This my best "Hey Steve!" of all times. Steve's reaction when he learnt the man is a doctor is priceless! First drops his paper and walks off stage. Came back and screamed at the lady: "Are you crazy? Are you out of your mind?"😂😂😂😂😂
I love affection. I cannot get too much. There is probably a reason she feels that way. She needs to explore that and deal with it. Otherwise, doctor or not, maybe he is not the one for her, because people that love affection don’t feel that they are in a relationship without it. It’s that important.
There probably is a reason she feels that way yes, but some of us aren't affectionate people no matter how hard we try, because that just isn't our love language. Steve says don't blame her parents, but if she didn't experience it growing up, it may come as strange or odd to her. I feel the same way but my husbands love language is physical touch so I try to be more affectionate but he knows it's just not something I personally like and that's ok. Doesn't mean I don't love him.
@@prncessbaby16 If you are able to overcome it to give him what he needs, that's great for you guys. As an affectionate person whose husband was not, I feel that that was a major problem in our relationship.
@@fayepatrice1672 thank you. I feel like the least I can do is compromise a little. It's not the end of the world if he wants to cuddle or wants one extra kiss. I can tolerate it but when I'm feeling like it's affection overload, I let him know in a nice way I can't handle anymore and he understands. He said he just appreciates that I even try to be more affectionate because I know that's his love language. You can't love a person the way u want to love them, you need to love them the way they need to be loved I believe. It sucks that your husband didn't realize that. I'd rather give my husband affection instead of strain the Marriage over something so simple that could eventually lead to divorce. I'm not going to melt or my skin won't peel off if I cuddle with him lol. Yeah it's hard being affectionate for me, but like Steve said, she can still try and she can let her boyfriend know when it's getting too much at that moment for her.
True. Took me some time to realize I'm not cold and unemotional. I just haven't allowed myself the appreciate, acknowledge and express the positive feelings inside of me to the world
Pearll Jewels she better do it quick, he’s settling honestly. With his status he could do better and be spoiled with affection and probably whatever else she gives if not more, without even asking. He’s the prize here.
@@BaseballKing44 the fact that he's crazy about her probably means he's not selling himself short. She has a career, can probably stimulate and challenge him. She is also actively seeking ways to be better for him.
I disagree with Steve. If you were not raised around or shown how to be affectionate, there isn't just some switch you can flip to go opposite. You can see that clearly with her when doc put his arm around her @ 1:42, it is EXTREMELY awkward for her to receive affection.
Doesnt have to be public display. But the privacy in your own home no excuse for that. She trying to force herself to feel attracted to him. That is called settling.
@Jeremy Honeycutt thank god you said it! She dont want him no point in sugar coating it. She dont want to take the time to look else where cause he is a doctor with money.
@Jeremy Honeycutt after looking back I see your point. The audience laughs at him @ 1:15. But their response changes @1:58 as if he is Idris Elba when they find out he is a doctor. But I still disagree with Steve's broad opinion that people in general can just "all of a sudden" become affectionate if they change their mindset. That is not true at all
I agree with you totally, but if she keeps that up she won't have dude...it's good she asked Steve, but she might need a therapist to help get her to the point of showing affection to him.
LMFBO, he did snap tho! I think because of "I can't" especially when the I can't is to something so natural/human and the person is a grown woman still blaming the behavior on childhood. Doctor or not, I'm not sure if she's that into him. I used to think I wasn't affectionate until I met the man I liked ;-)
Some people tend to think you're being weak when you show affection and others grew up in families where they were not shown displays of affection like hugs, kisses, and affirmations. It's completely foreign to them. Whatever the case may be counseling can help and allowing yourself to be loved by someone who is patient and loving enough to show you helps too. Usually women tend to put up with not receiving the affection back that they give so it's interesting to see a man going through this. l'm really impressed with brotha man and l am happy for her. He seems like he really loves her and is willing to work through this. A man has to really love you in order to be patient like this. Looks like you got a keeper girl! l pray everything works out for them.
I was just like her when I started dating in my twenties. I wasn't raised being affectionate either. By the time my parents tried to incorporate affection (huggs/I love u's/etc.) it was too late. It was awkward receiving it by them (in my late teens to early twenties). Which followed into my dating life. However, over time it improved... I'm talking many many years. At 40, there are still moments where it can feel awkward... Especially during initiation!!! But I come to find, the right person brings it out naturally. Now I find myself asking, "Is it too much?" because he's NOT use to affection... Go figure😌😄.
Its not about someone professional that u have to secure him/her it’s all about character love and loyalty that should matter money is not everything in life it’s all about happiness don’t love for money
It's not about the money, it's about security and money contribute to it. After all money is one of top 3 reasons for divorce so money matters and that is just fact.
I used to be the same way lol but if you love him enough you will become affectionate for sure! Steve a fool though😂😂😂 my brother probably still got student loans
I LOVE steve and his advice are usually solid but not today. The power of the mind works on everything EXCEPT trauma... you can't heal illnesses from power of positivity... and coming from a broken home is surviving trauma.... people who had a poor image of marriage or saw abusive/toxic marriages from their parents become TRAUMATIZED. I come from a broken home, my father had multiple affairs, we all knew including my mom and she stays thinking it's "for us"... they never curse or hit but they bicker A LOT,,, there's NEVER affection or romance between them it's like a boring routine room-mate relationship.... my parents never told us they loved us or owned up when they did something wrong and because of that we all had issues apologizing after messing up or saying "i love you"... till this day i can't say i love you but i'll show it in actions... it's not going to be fixed from "positivity"...i had to swallow my pride to apologize after mistakes so i don't lose people i care about and taught my damn self to express my feelings more but it's still hard. please understand in cases of kids with broken families it's not gonna be fixed this easily and this is a poor advice.
An actual helpful advice for this woman is: 1)baby steps... try one affectionate comment/gesture a day and it will eventually become a habit it may take time but it'll get more comfortable for you 2)if you're not already try talking to a professional about how your parents' marriage made/makes you feel bc it's the source of the problem and still affecting your current relationship(s) 3) don't compare yourself to your partner or other people who had different experiences bc that makes it worse... understand that you're different people with possible different love languages and it can still work but you'll BOTH need to understand and speak the other person's love language... 4) her partner needs to only be more supportive of her trying and understand she had a traumatic experience as a kid with poor example of a relationship so it's not as easy for her and if he cares for her he needs to be supportive of that 5)keep a journal on you and write down how you feel if it's hard to vocalize it just start with getting it out of your system through letters/diary then slowly start with talking in front of a mirror then to someone (your spouse)
True but let’s be honest...your only seeing it from a woman’s side just because Steve took the guys side on this one...😂😂😂 for example...what if a guy wasn’t showing his woman affection because of “traumatic experiences” EVERY GIRL WOULD SAY “LEAVE HIS ASS!!!” And you wouldn’t think twice to hear him out on his “traumatic experience “ of why he’s not showing his wife/girlfriend affection lol but as soon as the roles are reversed and Steve takes the guys side “ STEVE YOUR WRONG YOU SHOULD BE UNDERSTANDING SHE HAD TRAUMATIC EXPERIENCES!! 🙄😂😂😂😂
@@hawaiianrussian1047 no that's not true at all, anyone who thinks this way doesn't understand what its like coming from a broken home or isn't mature enough to be supportive regardless of. like i said,i come from a broken home and it made me fearful of relationships/marriage... i don't want kids bc i don\t want to end up like my folks. the last guy i dated had the exact same experiences, same issues with family and he was also broken bc of it but it made me like him even more, that he gets it... we talked about personal things we wouldn't usually share and it bonded us further. if your partner knows your past and uses it against you or doesn't at least TRY to be understanding and supportive then they're not the one for you.
@@ohheyitssoumy5959 I get what you're saying and the advice you gave is great advice for the abused. The problem is that for someone who came from a healthy affectionate happy home...they can demonstrate what healthy looks and feels like. They can be patient to an extent... But if you can't jump on board the happy healthy train while it has pulled into your station...it WILL eventually go away cuz healthy people don't want to turn into dysfuctional people by staying with unhealthy people that won't change. Yes, it's scary... But ya ain't gonna die from a hug, or love. You survived hell on earth but the real test is can you leave it behind and enjoy heaven when it is offered. I dated 2 dudes from unhealthy childhoods that were marriage material but couldn't let go of their old mindsets to embrace happy change. My parents were happily married and madly in love for 65 years. I totally knew the ropes of how to have a healthy dynamic but whenever the bf would start to veer us toward hell, I would redirect toward a heavenly type of approach and they would not listen or change. They tried yelling and screaming insults instead of trying the calm, kind, positive communication that I was demonstrating. So I had to cut 'em each loose even though I cared...or we BOTH would have been living in hell and not just one of us. Point: Change the mind as Steve says and jump on healthy mindsets and people when they come...or they will soon be gone.
This was just simply the best 🤣😂☺ Steve had to bring the audience back the woman was like hey I gotta hug in kiss for you Dr. Lol the best... let the church say Amen!!!!!!!
Then you must get with a similar person. To be a naturally affectionate person and being with someone who isn't, is hell. I once had a boyfriend like that. I would call him cold fish. He would only touch me when he was horny. That experience taught me what I needed in man. I crave affection. I kiss and hug up on my children freely. My husband does the same.
Yes yes she will get it soon enough. I hope! She's just so independent that she can only see her forrest before the trees. He has to present to her that he can help make it more greener. That's what it takes for a woman who has been the Ranger over her Forrest.
Lmao steve is not only a hilarious bond builder for could be couples & actual couples but he's also a wise man that has grown logically & spiritually 🙏🏼
Either she's not attracted to him, or she doesn't like to be touched. It sounds weird but I actually have an acquaintance who told me that she would cringe at the thought of being rubbed or caressed. She loves her husband very much. I'm a massage therapist, regardless of it many benefits, there are people who hate to be massaged as well. Its unfortunate.
@herkeda I dont know, but anything is possible. Whatever it is, it's not normal. 🤷♀️ Her husband is not very understanding of her loss for affection. I hope they seek counseling or something.
She gonna lose him. All its gonna take is for one woman to look him in the eyes while he's feeling lonely and tell him that he's the greatest man she's ever known. He'll be out of that female's reach the very next day. But I think its for the best. If she's that distant with a man who loves her, she just need to be by herself. He's a doctor. He'll find another woman in *NO TIME*
OMG! I have seen so many Steve Harvey shows/ clips. I love you Steve! My favorite part of the Steve Harvey TV Show are the "Hey Steve" segments. This clip had me laughing out loud and participating with the audience! Amen! Ha! Steve always gives such great advice. He reminds me so much of my late husband, Thomas.
At 2:35 it sounds like someone called her stupid and Doc immediately turned around like he was ready to defend his boo! Girl you better hug 🤗 and kiss 😘 that man! Use the app called “love nudge”! It’s actually very helpful for couples especially those with this problem!
Uncle Steve so dramatic! LOL I love him
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😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Too dramatic 😉
Steve was showcasing his Leo Moon 😂💛
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Steve done took us to church!!! LOL!!!😂
Amen
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Amen to that
I was sitting in my living room shouting along with the audience like we was at Church 😭😭😭😭🤣
He had me about to go in...LOL
"We trying to secure the doctor"
*doctor claps for himself*
He's probably like "wtf is goin on" lol
@@silverdragon5507 LMAOO I was dying at that part
😂 😂 🤣 🤣
The way Steve throws his card and walks behind the platform will never get old this by far is one of my favorite episodes 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
AMEN!
my favorite part!!!!!!🤣
Bless her heart!!! Affection is hard when you aren't use to receiving or giving it, but it's a learned behavior so damn it, PRACTICE!!!
@Natasha Williams naw. I have to have spent enough time getting to know you to be that comfortable. I don't even big my mother much. Much less for other people. So yeah. It's a real thing.
@Natasha Williams I'm sorry 1. I was hoping that I didn't come off rude so I'm sorry that I didn't recognize you weren't talking to me since its a comment section and all. But ok.😊 That's great your upbringing don't affect you in that way as well. Not everyones the same as your initial comment also points out. My understanding is off naturally. I typing from a phone not inside your head. I'd lick my woman in all the right places when to chips are down so yeah. 🙂
@Natasha Williams clearly it made no sense to you. 😂
Oh. Well such is life. You are right that you're assuming I'm bringing gender into this. When that was one of the furthest things from my mind.
It's all just perception of each other's statement sense you see it as me being off topic and I get where you're coming from when you say I spoke as though we spoke about those things. So you are correct in that regard.
My comment plain and simple was aimed at the whole idea, that display of affection is affected by upbringing. Though we didn't discuss what I spoke about. The basis still stands. At least I think so. 😕
@Natasha Williams ok. So most times people go into talks with some kind of preconceived notion. So it affects how we approach things one way or the other. You could try to curtail it but ultimately that's just how it is. Unless some how you perceive exactly where that person is coming from.
@Natasha Williams same to you. 😊
Sis better secure that doctor, they ain easy to come by
Angel Bee Amen!!!!
If he loves her he's not going anywhere. Maybe they complement each other. The fact that she put it out there shows she cares and wants to change for him. I think they'll be fine.
True
Amen and he's Black one justing, I would know what do.
@@SJ-tb2wq she trying get help cause there might be somebody watching how she treat him and he's complying just saying affection go alone way.
Girl you found you a polite RESPECTFUL man with an ACTUAL CAREER with money where he also helps people too??? Girl you better learn how to show affection and quite playing!!!
She knows how - she just can't bring herself to because she's not attracted to him. She better get over herself and just do it because she will have some stiff competition at some point and they won't hesitate.
I know that's right because it should be easy to show him some affection. What is she talking about? Even if he is not a.Doctor it would not be hard since it is a natural thing. Especially if you like the person a lot like she said she does. Hmmmm watch out b4 somebody in Steve"s audience tackle the Doctor and really show him some real affection! LOL!!
On second thought it doesn't seem like she is attractive to the Doctor. It is easy to show affection when you are attractive to them. Yes he has a great career with prestige but she does not seem to let that go to her head. I was feeling that it should be easy but you cant say that based on what a person does for their career. You have to be drawn to more than money. That may not be what she is interested in altogether. And she wants to feel chemistry on a deeper level not the visual of what he can buy for her materialistically.
Right!!!Ha, ha, ha.
@@geremymason5936 what made you believe she’s not attracted to him ?? So y’all assume anything now ??
*I can't, I won't, I'm not. These words should be removed from your vocabulary.*
U cant but the grace of Goddess in u can
But I can’t 😂😂
what?
They are important when confronted by negative situations I won't get a bribe, I won't sleep with you I can't cheat.....I can't accept failure.
I'm not is aggressive I like that one 🙍
We trying to secure the Doctor! Preach Pastor Steve! 👏😂❤ Sending love to my fellow single women and men. May you find God's very best. ❤
Amen Sista!!
RoyalMasterpiece Amen Sister!!❤️
Back to ya beautiful!
Amen! Let me Recieve it💝😍💯💎
RoyalMasterpiece amen!
PLACE YOUR FEET ON SOLID GROUND....I'm dying 😂😂😂
As in, just so funny.
"And let the church say amen". Lmao.
I Was Dying At That Part Too Like 🤣🤣🤣
That the old black pastor sayin!😂😂😂😂
Won’t you come! 😂😂
If you grew up in a Black American denomination or church, you have heard this many times.
I love Steve's reactions to finding out the guys have some sort of science degree/job
Same
He's a doctor!!!! Stop downgrading his profession.
Confirm 😍😍😭
Yess, I love it
The man is a doctor! Respect the level of dedication, discipline and hard work for his achievement. He earned the title.
He hugs .. she pats his belly🙄
Like seriously though 😑
😂
😂😂😂😂😂 "there there" basically
vanessa copland po’ thang🤔
Like a dog!
Steve A WHOLE fool!!! 😂😂😂😂
Anne Day for real. 😂😂
This man gives me life😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Omg I love Steve!! As a person who never received affection as a kid I can completely relate to her. It's like having feelings but not knowing how to show them. It can also be overwhelming trying to receive love from others.
It can. I used to be.like that too. I'm much improved now. My cure? Babysitting. Kids will teach you how to express your emotions because they give love wholeheartedly and you cannot in turn deny them your affection. You'll learn to give back what they give to you real quick lol
@@zazabrown732 Thats a really good tip very true
@@Shewas-kathybates 👍
@@zazabrown732 That's so true because since having my child I've softened up ALOT! Still a working process though
@@zazabrown732 True statement. Children do have a way of turning a heart of stone, into a heart that is pliable.
Gurrrrl if you don't. . . Another woman will fo sho
Over50andFantabulous Preach!!!!!
Thank you. Steve should had said that to her.
Sho nuff!!!
If she don't I will.
Yes. She not used to this calaber i dont think
She needs to practise letting go, she is holding onto something.
Steve harvey is the GOAT!!!!!!
U said that right he's a absolute GOAT
Steve is the man!!! If you listen closely you will laugh and learn something at the same time!!! I absolutely love him and his messages!!!!
Yup right ..were you from shanetta
The doors of affection are open , won't you come?
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AMENNN!
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I LOVE ME SOME STEVE HARVEY 😍😍
Me Too Girl ❤
Same here 😂 🤣
I wasn't the most affectionate person either until I met the right guy
lailah lyn facts
lailah lyn yeah! Simple and to the point without being preachy. 😊
Pastor Harvey just walked in 4:02
This my best "Hey Steve!" of all times. Steve's reaction when he learnt the man is a doctor is priceless! First drops his paper and walks off stage. Came back and screamed at the lady:
"Are you crazy? Are you out of your mind?"😂😂😂😂😂
I agree. The best part.
I've laughed so hard. 🤣🤣
I love affection. I cannot get too much. There is probably a reason she feels that way. She needs to explore that and deal with it. Otherwise, doctor or not, maybe he is not the one for her, because people that love affection don’t feel that they are in a relationship without it. It’s that important.
There probably is a reason she feels that way yes, but some of us aren't affectionate people no matter how hard we try, because that just isn't our love language. Steve says don't blame her parents, but if she didn't experience it growing up, it may come as strange or odd to her. I feel the same way but my husbands love language is physical touch so I try to be more affectionate but he knows it's just not something I personally like and that's ok. Doesn't mean I don't love him.
@@prncessbaby16 If you are able to overcome it to give him what he needs, that's great for you guys. As an affectionate person whose husband was not, I feel that that was a major problem in our relationship.
@@fayepatrice1672 thank you. I feel like the least I can do is compromise a little. It's not the end of the world if he wants to cuddle or wants one extra kiss. I can tolerate it but when I'm feeling like it's affection overload, I let him know in a nice way I can't handle anymore and he understands. He said he just appreciates that I even try to be more affectionate because I know that's his love language. You can't love a person the way u want to love them, you need to love them the way they need to be loved I believe. It sucks that your husband didn't realize that. I'd rather give my husband affection instead of strain the Marriage over something so simple that could eventually lead to divorce. I'm not going to melt or my skin won't peel off if I cuddle with him lol. Yeah it's hard being affectionate for me, but like Steve said, she can still try and she can let her boyfriend know when it's getting too much at that moment for her.
@@prncessbaby16 Sounds like you have a mature attitude about this. Wish you guys the best.
Patrice guarantee she was raped. My mom is same way even with me
I can understand where she is coming from...it's just going to take a little time that's all. And before she knows it she'll be right there.👍
Right
My thought exactly
True. Took me some time to realize I'm not cold and unemotional. I just haven't allowed myself the appreciate, acknowledge and express the positive feelings inside of me to the world
Pearll Jewels she better do it quick, he’s settling honestly. With his status he could do better and be spoiled with affection and probably whatever else she gives if not more, without even asking. He’s the prize here.
@@BaseballKing44 the fact that he's crazy about her probably means he's not selling himself short. She has a career, can probably stimulate and challenge him. She is also actively seeking ways to be better for him.
Just because he’s a doctor does not make it a perfect relationship. Some times showing affection takes time.
That was the most epic Steve Harvey moment towards the end!!!!
This couple is just darling! I love Steve's advice and he's so genuine. xo
That awkward pat on the chest
I like when Steve said we trying to secure the doctor 😂
I disagree with Steve. If you were not raised around or shown how to be affectionate, there isn't just some switch you can flip to go opposite. You can see that clearly with her when doc put his arm around her @ 1:42, it is EXTREMELY awkward for her to receive affection.
Doesnt have to be public display. But the privacy in your own home no excuse for that. She trying to force herself to feel attracted to him. That is called settling.
@Jeremy Honeycutt thank god you said it! She dont want him no point in sugar coating it. She dont want to take the time to look else where cause he is a doctor with money.
@Jeremy Honeycutt after looking back I see your point. The audience laughs at him @ 1:15. But their response changes @1:58 as if he is Idris Elba when they find out he is a doctor. But I still disagree with Steve's broad opinion that people in general can just "all of a sudden" become affectionate if they change their mindset. That is not true at all
I agree with you totally, but if she keeps that up she won't have dude...it's good she asked Steve, but she might need a therapist to help get her to the point of showing affection to him.
KJig5 I used to think that too. Until I met and married my second husband. Now I am all kind of affectionate.
i died at 4:26 when the woman stood up
Lmaooo ! She was filled with so much joy and might
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OMG...Steve took us all to church tonight..."Let the church say Amen!!!!" 😂😂😂😂💗🙏🙏🙏
Steve's so hilarious man, i'm addicted of watching his show here!
Keep on going Steve, you the man for real =)
we tryna secure the doctor 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😭🤣😂 can’t stop laughing! Definitely one of my favourite Hey Steves
@4:04 where the organ player steve harvey done turned into revereand harvey
Ok... but did he have to start at level 10, yelling 👀. Poor thing was like 😬😬
I noticed he does that often
I know right 😂😂
Lol I was kinda thinking the same thing. Why was his response so aggressive? 😂
LMFBO, he did snap tho!
I think because of "I can't" especially when the I can't is to something so natural/human and the person is a grown woman still blaming the behavior on childhood. Doctor or not, I'm not sure if she's that into him. I used to think I wasn't affectionate until I met the man I liked ;-)
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Amen. That was a hallelujah moment Steve. Doctor!! Oh Doctor !!. 😂😂
When he pretends to lick a neck..... I DIED🤣🤣🤣
Thank you Steve for adding captions for your deaf and hard of hearing viewers!
And, thank you for brightening my day!
The part where he said lick his neck is killing me😂😂😂😂😂🤣😅🤣👍👍💗
Steve is so dramatic... I love it lol.
Some people tend to think you're being weak when you show affection and others grew up in families where they were not shown displays of affection like hugs, kisses, and affirmations. It's completely foreign to them. Whatever the case may be counseling can help and allowing yourself to be loved by someone who is patient and loving enough to show you helps too. Usually women tend to put up with not receiving the affection back that they give so it's interesting to see a man going through this. l'm really impressed with brotha man and l am happy for her. He seems like he really loves her and is willing to work through this. A man has to really love you in order to be patient like this. Looks like you got a keeper girl! l pray everything works out for them.
Steve has left the building yall!!😂😂
I was just like her when I started dating in my twenties. I wasn't raised being affectionate either. By the time my parents tried to incorporate affection (huggs/I love u's/etc.) it was too late. It was awkward receiving it by them (in my late teens to early twenties). Which followed into my dating life. However, over time it improved... I'm talking many many years. At 40, there are still moments where it can feel awkward... Especially during initiation!!! But I come to find, the right person brings it out naturally. Now I find myself asking, "Is it too much?" because he's NOT use to affection... Go figure😌😄.
Its not about someone professional that u have to secure him/her it’s all about character love and loyalty that should matter money is not everything in life it’s all about happiness don’t love for money
Exactly and he would not even be attracted to some of those thirsty overly affectionate women screaming just because he's a "Dr."
But people think money is everything
@Casandra Young stop living to just pay bills.... *LIVE FOR OTHER MEANS*
It's not about the money, it's about security and money contribute to it. After all money is one of top 3 reasons for divorce so money matters and that is just fact.
Was looking for a comment like this. I completely agree with you.
I want to go to this church!😉😂💓
Best 2 minute service I've ever been to! #secureTheDoctor
I used to be the same way lol but if you love him enough you will become affectionate for sure! Steve a fool though😂😂😂 my brother probably still got student loans
I LOVE steve and his advice are usually solid but not today. The power of the mind works on everything EXCEPT trauma... you can't heal illnesses from power of positivity... and coming from a broken home is surviving trauma.... people who had a poor image of marriage or saw abusive/toxic marriages from their parents become TRAUMATIZED. I come from a broken home, my father had multiple affairs, we all knew including my mom and she stays thinking it's "for us"... they never curse or hit but they bicker A LOT,,, there's NEVER affection or romance between them it's like a boring routine room-mate relationship.... my parents never told us they loved us or owned up when they did something wrong and because of that we all had issues apologizing after messing up or saying "i love you"... till this day i can't say i love you but i'll show it in actions... it's not going to be fixed from "positivity"...i had to swallow my pride to apologize after mistakes so i don't lose people i care about and taught my damn self to express my feelings more but it's still hard. please understand in cases of kids with broken families it's not gonna be fixed this easily and this is a poor advice.
An actual helpful advice for this woman is:
1)baby steps... try one affectionate comment/gesture a day and it will eventually become a habit it may take time but it'll get more comfortable for you
2)if you're not already try talking to a professional about how your parents' marriage made/makes you feel bc it's the source of the problem and still affecting your current relationship(s)
3) don't compare yourself to your partner or other people who had different experiences bc that makes it worse... understand that you're different people with possible different love languages and it can still work but you'll BOTH need to understand and speak the other person's love language...
4) her partner needs to only be more supportive of her trying and understand she had a traumatic experience as a kid with poor example of a relationship so it's not as easy for her and if he cares for her he needs to be supportive of that
5)keep a journal on you and write down how you feel if it's hard to vocalize it just start with getting it out of your system through letters/diary then slowly start with talking in front of a mirror then to someone (your spouse)
True but let’s be honest...your only seeing it from a woman’s side just because Steve took the guys side on this one...😂😂😂 for example...what if a guy wasn’t showing his woman affection because of “traumatic experiences” EVERY GIRL WOULD SAY “LEAVE HIS ASS!!!” And you wouldn’t think twice to hear him out on his “traumatic experience “ of why he’s not showing his wife/girlfriend affection lol but as soon as the roles are reversed and Steve takes the guys side “ STEVE YOUR WRONG YOU SHOULD BE UNDERSTANDING SHE HAD TRAUMATIC EXPERIENCES!! 🙄😂😂😂😂
@@hawaiianrussian1047 no that's not true at all, anyone who thinks this way doesn't understand what its like coming from a broken home or isn't mature enough to be supportive regardless of. like i said,i come from a broken home and it made me fearful of relationships/marriage... i don't want kids bc i don\t want to end up like my folks. the last guy i dated had the exact same experiences, same issues with family and he was also broken bc of it but it made me like him even more, that he gets it... we talked about personal things we wouldn't usually share and it bonded us further. if your partner knows your past and uses it against you or doesn't at least TRY to be understanding and supportive then they're not the one for you.
@@ohheyitssoumy5959 I get what you're saying and the advice you gave is great advice for the abused. The problem is that for someone who came from a healthy affectionate happy home...they can demonstrate what healthy looks and feels like. They can be patient to an extent... But if you can't jump on board the happy healthy train while it has pulled into your station...it WILL eventually go away cuz healthy people don't want to turn into dysfuctional people by staying with unhealthy people that won't change. Yes, it's scary... But ya ain't gonna die from a hug, or love. You survived hell on earth but the real test is can you leave it behind and enjoy heaven when it is offered. I dated 2 dudes from unhealthy childhoods that were marriage material but couldn't let go of their old mindsets to embrace happy change. My parents were happily married and madly in love for 65 years. I totally knew the ropes of how to have a healthy dynamic but whenever the bf would start to veer us toward hell, I would redirect toward a heavenly type of approach and they would not listen or change. They tried yelling and screaming insults instead of trying the calm, kind, positive communication that I was demonstrating. So I had to cut 'em each loose even though I cared...or we BOTH would have been living in hell and not just one of us.
Point: Change the mind as Steve says and jump on healthy mindsets and people when they come...or they will soon be gone.
damn Steve almost want to marry ´the doctor himself xD🤣🤣🤣
Ezoism !! YUP!!🙌🏽🤣😂
I'm so glad this show is still on television! Omg!!!!!
Oh Steve hahahah , too funny...if u open a church, am flying all the way from the UK to attend
I love this segment Steve was a blessing to her and her boyfriend!
Too funny!! Hysterical like always. Steve Harvey is in a class all of his own👍🏼💓🎩
This was just simply the best 🤣😂☺ Steve had to bring the audience back the woman was like hey I gotta hug in kiss for you Dr. Lol the best... let the church say Amen!!!!!!!
Steve!!! You're the best!
This is one of the best hey Steve everrrr!
Steve got me in tears. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Steve Harvey you are not obsolete but so on spot and relatable. I enjoy your shows
They are good for laughter 😄 knowledge and motivation and much more
This woman on Steve Harvey, look like Eartha Kitt.
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Yes
When he said absolutely, i had tears in my eyes.
Artist + Doctor = You Can Never GO broke lol
It’s not in my nature to be affectionate either and any time I initiate it, I feel hella awkward 🤷🏼♀️
Same
Then you must get with a similar person. To be a naturally affectionate person and being with someone who isn't, is hell.
I once had a boyfriend like that. I would call him cold fish. He would only touch me when he was horny. That experience taught me what I needed in man. I crave affection.
I kiss and hug up on my children freely. My husband does the same.
Good way to learn
Yes yes she will get it soon enough. I hope! She's just so independent that she can only see her forrest before the trees. He has to present to her that he can help make it more greener. That's what it takes for a woman who has been the Ranger over her Forrest.
2022 and I still come back to this
She's not blaming her parents she's acknowledging that there's a mental block bc of not being around affection and when she tries things feel
awkward.
Laughed so loud, no one like Steve we Love from South Africa
She's probably uncomfortable being affectionate right now. But I think she'll learn from Steve's piece of advice.
@1:26 smart answer, in the back of his mind he like naw but he trying to make this relationship work.........respect
Uncle Steeeeeeve!😂😂😂😂
We went to church on this one! Secure the doctor!🤣🤣🤣
audience sounds like the track to Sunday service.
🤣😂🤣😂 I'm convinced something is wrong with Steve!!! I'm over here crying!!!😭🤣😭😂
Society treat doctors like they are all great people.
He had a momemt 😂
Lmao steve is not only a hilarious bond builder for could be couples & actual couples but he's also a wise man that has grown logically & spiritually 🙏🏼
First time am actually proud to be a doctor
I love Steve man ! Can watch his videos every time and feel good :)
Either she's not attracted to him, or she doesn't like to be touched. It sounds weird but I actually have an acquaintance who told me that she would cringe at the thought of being rubbed or caressed. She loves her husband very much. I'm a massage therapist, regardless of it many benefits, there are people who hate to be massaged as well. Its unfortunate.
@herkeda I dont know, but anything is possible. Whatever it is, it's not normal. 🤷♀️ Her husband is not very understanding of her loss for affection. I hope they seek counseling or something.
@Jeremy Honeycutt Wow 😳🤔
I don't know why but I got the feeling that she was not attracted to him.
You better preach Uncle Steve!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I don't think I've smiled so wide in my life till my cheeks hurt.
Pastor Steve Harvey... preaching!
Plot twist
Steve : Are you crazy about this women ?
Guy : mmm not really.
Lmaoooo
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Affection is something every women wish for if he is showing it to u, my dear that's a blessing make him show more
Steve is over here preaching to women all across America with this one 😂😂
Amen church. One of the best of Steve. I love you uncle Steve.
"Let's
Change
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Steve is crazzzzzyyyyy lmaooooo! I love this man!
She gonna lose him. All its gonna take is for one woman to look him in the eyes while he's feeling lonely and tell him that he's the greatest man she's ever known. He'll be out of that female's reach the very next day. But I think its for the best. If she's that distant with a man who loves her, she just need to be by herself. He's a doctor. He'll find another woman in *NO TIME*
I don’t blame her. Not everyone is comfortable being physical. It just takes time. Doesn’t matter if he’s a physician or not
Steve took us to church! Lmao 😂
OMG! I have seen so many Steve Harvey shows/ clips. I love you Steve! My favorite part of the Steve Harvey TV Show are the "Hey Steve" segments. This clip had me laughing out loud and participating with the audience! Amen! Ha! Steve always gives such great advice. He reminds me so much of my late husband, Thomas.
Preach Steve 🙌 preach
Really funny
Man! Steve Harvey. Is so valuable! Such great man! If people understand what he just did there.wow!!!! Live u bro.
This too good to be true 😂😂😂😂
@1:59 😭😭😭😭🤣👏🏾 Steve THREW the paper 🙏🏾
At 2:35 it sounds like someone called her stupid and Doc immediately turned around like he was ready to defend his boo! Girl you better hug 🤗 and kiss 😘 that man! Use the app called “love nudge”! It’s actually very helpful for couples especially those with this problem!
I said it but I don't think they heard me from the TV screen.
I love me some Steve Harvey 🔥🔥that reaction to the guy's profession was priceless.