@@tahira.7914 I totally understand what it's like to feel pressured to use a certain sort of technology just because lots of people use it. I've been there. You don't have to be a slave to whatever technology is common in your era. If something doesn't serve you well, you have every right to cut it out entirely. I've had my share of texting and text communication with friends and prospective dates on social media and dating sites, and it really is alienating. It doesn't carry the same sort of time and energy commitment or the same level of engagement that voice conversations have. I'm 31 and happily married. No, my husband and I were _not_ highly compatible according to the OKCupid algorithm, just FYI.
This shouldn't be limited to just men. This happens in both genders. I'm 47. Texting has taken the place of communication. Images has become such a big issue now. Ppl are afraid of being themselves. So they hide behind emails and texts. Face to face or hands-on communication. Is a thing of the past. Courtship maybe ole fashioned. But it's effective and still works. Everything NEW doesn't always mean it's BETTER!!
In most cases it applies to men! If a woman is doing this, she's not interested or attracted to the said suitor... most women can communicate.. if she struggles either you move on, or have patience and teach her... taking the lead in getting to know someone is a great quality
@@vanessacopland DAM! That's true. I forgot, she may not be interested. Hopefully after the third text. He'll get the message. Thanks for the knowledge.
Exactly. Recently got two numbers and texted back and forth. After a few texts, I suggested we meet for coffee or drink, something. And no reply back lol. I know if you text too much, too often comes off as too thirsty. But if text a lil and suggest we meet up, then I'm guessing it shows not trying too hard or not that interested. Its confusing. I admit my text game is weak lol.
When a man texts me "hey" or "hello" on a regular basis, I just ignore it. Or I respond ONCE and say something along the lines of "please don't text me if you have nothing to say. It's not my job to entertain you"
@@arc8696 Actually I am! But only with people who aren't socially lazy 😏 How can people just text "hi" everyday and expect the other person to carry a convo with them? I used to text "hi" right back to them in response, but got nothing back in return until the next day, then its "hi" again. You don't think that's annoying? They're certainly casting out a proverbial fishing rod to see who will bite. Its weird.
Remember a lot of men need to be trained. Men also don't communicate that well. My husband was never a texter or talk on the phone type, he still isn't, but he can talk my ear off face to face.
"Hey" is the easy to text. We live in this texting society where some people literally do not like personal interaction. I say move on sis! Fine a guy who can actually have a conversation with you besides "hey". This guy sounds immature.
@@showtime8968 Not always the case.. I use to always send thoughtful msgs to guys like this and still got dry responses. Ladies if a find yourself putting in more effort it's time to MOVE ON!💯
Some guys prefer texting over talking because it allows them to keep certain things private. Things like having a pre-existing relationship(I.e., girlfriend, wife, or child) Some do it simply because they haven’t learned the art of conversation. 😉
New potential tried it..on second day of not being able to talk for longer than 1mnt but wanting to text back and forth...i hit me with "let me get to cooking ..my man b home soon" he was OHHHH ..i dont block...i ignore yo ass and bin without schooling u...i aint yo mama nor yo therapist.
It's a problem that you even call texting a "game". You people play mind games with texting instead of just being natural. I text EXACTLY what I'm thinking. I'm too real for this world...
Then why don't girls have good text gaming and initiate instead if it's that bad? Also, I think the problem is that a lot of girls think of this as a "game"
I dated a guy who always texted me hey. Even after weeks of not talking to me. Needless to say I learned that lesson and we are no longer together. THANK GOD
Someone tell me if I am wrong but when someone message me "hey" I don't have an issue with it cuz he's simply saying hello. What happens if you don't like him like that or you do like him but it's kind of weird starting out a random conversation in the beginning. He is just simply greeting you. Don't you have to respond hello back before you can start more of a conversation/meaningful conversation? Starting with a "hey" is leaving room for conversation it's waiting to see would you actually even read that message and if you do read the message and reply then they can go further. I think some women over think it. If he always says "hey" and no response after you reply to him then I see the frustration.
Most women don't call back they'll text back if interested. She can entertain multiple dudes like that. There's not always gonna be some clever wity line that intrigues. Could you just text her setting up a date straight away lime that? Women aren't that direct with you.
What she says has exactly been happening to me at times. Just a hey every once in a while and disappearing. I cracked up with the way she described it, (he says Hola to mix it up 😆😆) this I have seen too. I feel her 😆😆
Exactly, if a man wants u , we will come to u and find out if u have free time to have a cup of coffee or r u available for relationship, If u r not then we r gone , u will never see us behind u any more , its so simple 🥴🤢
I agree I hate texting so bad mostly because no matter how careful I put my fingers on the keys it types the letter beside it above it and I'm sick of correcting it. But mostly is rather hear your voice. People can take you wrong through texting.
Just sayin ladies ... does go both ways. I noticed whenever I’m dating a girl and she starts just giving me the one word texts or just a emoji I just stop responding lol not worth wasting a mans time 🤷🏼♂️
Have u ever thought he might be shy and that he might be waiting for you to start a conversation with him in that way hell feel more comftable. Once again is always the guys fault
I had this same thing happen to me. It was a turn off. Day 1 he says hey. I responded back saying hey and I didn't hear anything back until the next morning when he said good morning. After a couple days I told him to feel free to call me for a conversation. He said ok, but never did and continued to text so I ignored him. We are grown, I don't want an elementary text exchange. A 40 year old shy man isn't cute.
You have to understand that a lot of men are trying to see several women and once, and trying to develop something with several other women also. They might be mass texting and messaging any number of women on Tinder also. They will put something out to a bunch of women and see who responds.
He was just saying "hey" like, I woke up and thought of you, what's up. I used to get a "hey" text every morning that turned into us texting back and forth all day until one of us passed out at the end of the night. It was like we spent every day together in a sense. She's just 37 and confused about this "new world", probably talking to dudes way younger than her. Can't date way younger unless you understand how they communicate. She over-complicated the whole thing. Steve should've asked the age range of the dudes, not just her.
Some people text hey or Hello because they are texting that to a lot of people at the same time. They don't want to get anyone's name mixed up with the others.
In my opinion, we all are guilty of this, even myself. I think the problem is that people don't actually take the time to learn conversation openers. People taught and told us that talking is important, but never actually took the time to break down the whole "world of conversation" to us. We as men and women start learning the art of conversation after high school on our own; forced to go out and learn it ourselves. That is why people usually ask advise from professional date doctors, purchase books on the internet, go on UA-cam and have UA-camrs give out tutorials and exercises on the matter, and even worse they spend money for either online or face-to-face tutors.
brandon ralph It’s not hard to communicate. It’s only difficult when someone does not understand themselves and then the opposite sex. Communication will be so easy for men and women alike and healthier once we get a better idea of who we are and what it is we want, need, and desire from our future spouses. And, of course other men and women outside of our future marriage valuing us as the men and women we were naturally born to be. Hope this helps.
I understand what you're saying Steve I've had guys tell me that texting was the equivalent of going on a date and that since we had two conversations he thinks he's going to get some
Who else is binge watching Steve TV Show UA-cam clips? xD
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Mee here...I mean me
I’m just getting started but they are all hilarious.
Me, it’s been about 2 weeks
That lady's laugh at 2:32 can't stop replaying it! 🤣
Good catch!
Tm Media lol 😂
@@producerk8247 thanks!
@@Stellathediamond 👐
that's my kind of laugh HAHAHAHAH
Or that "wyd".😒just ignore him
@Allen Reynolds -__-
Less be real EVERY women writes that to me and it gets on my nerves
Omg I hate that .. wyd 5 times a day
if i get wyd just sent 🙈🙊🙉
What's a wyd? I have gotten that a lot.
Steve doing emojis was the best thing ever 😂😂😂
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Steve(😜)
"I've been saying Ho-la my whole life" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣 I died
Just add an "L" and you got Holla! Maybe he's been saying that.
Texting is a whole lot of work in my opinion. Just call, talk, laugh and enjoy the moment
How difficult is that
Sixtarh Teennarh people under 25 most of them are horrible at holding phone conversations that’s why. I know because I’m under 25
Well im also under 25 but i disagree with you
@@tahira.7914 I totally understand what it's like to feel pressured to use a certain sort of technology just because lots of people use it. I've been there. You don't have to be a slave to whatever technology is common in your era. If something doesn't serve you well, you have every right to cut it out entirely. I've had my share of texting and text communication with friends and prospective dates on social media and dating sites, and it really is alienating. It doesn't carry the same sort of time and energy commitment or the same level of engagement that voice conversations have. I'm 31 and happily married. No, my husband and I were _not_ highly compatible according to the OKCupid algorithm, just FYI.
Texting is only a lot of work for people who are stupid or can't read and write.
Try getting thr number first.
The lady holding the microphone has the best laugh
I text hola, just to mix it up a bit too🤣
Daring, aren’t we?? -Squidward
Thank you for your service! 😂😂😂
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That is my next step😉
His face when he realized he's been pronouncing "hola" wrong his entire life 🤣
I love how the Spanish people in the audience are teaching Steve how to say "Hola" 😂😂😂
Lmao at least he's funny XD. That "Hola" killed me.
You Have To Be To Old For This I Love That
RCGIVENS18 hey
Yomi Dada Heyyyy
@@yomidada3760 omg it worked lol
Steve is freaking the BEST!!!!!!!! I wish all my girlfriends would see this 🙄🙄🙄
Send them the video
hey :)
Steve got me cracking up with them damn emojis 🙏🏾😂😂😂😂
This shouldn't be limited to just men. This happens in both genders. I'm 47. Texting has taken the place of communication. Images has become such a big issue now. Ppl are afraid of being themselves. So they hide behind emails and texts. Face to face or hands-on communication. Is a thing of the past. Courtship maybe ole fashioned. But it's effective and still works. Everything NEW doesn't always mean it's BETTER!!
In most cases it applies to men! If a woman is doing this, she's not interested or attracted to the said suitor... most women can communicate.. if she struggles either you move on, or have patience and teach her... taking the lead in getting to know someone is a great quality
@@vanessacopland DAM! That's true. I forgot, she may not be interested. Hopefully after the third text. He'll get the message. Thanks for the knowledge.
Anthony Word I agree!
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Exactly. Recently got two numbers and texted back and forth. After a few texts, I suggested we meet for coffee or drink, something. And no reply back lol. I know if you text too much, too often comes off as too thirsty. But if text a lil and suggest we meet up, then I'm guessing it shows not trying too hard or not that interested. Its confusing. I admit my text game is weak lol.
😁😂😂😂😂🤣. Steve you crack me up everytime. Continue to say holla. Let me Holla at you😁😜
Hey
Thank you Mr. Steve Harvey. I follow your suggestions to the letter and they have positively changed my 78 year old life. The vision board is perfect.
When a man texts me "hey" or "hello" on a regular basis, I just ignore it. Or I respond ONCE and say something along the lines of "please don't text me if you have nothing to say. It's not my job to entertain you"
You must be a joy to be with lol
@@arc8696 Actually I am! But only with people who aren't socially lazy 😏
How can people just text "hi" everyday and expect the other person to carry a convo with them? I used to text "hi" right back to them in response, but got nothing back in return until the next day, then its "hi" again. You don't think that's annoying? They're certainly casting out a proverbial fishing rod to see who will bite. Its weird.
@LiLi LiTHiUMM IKR! Lol!
Remember a lot of men need to be trained. Men also don't communicate that well. My husband was never a texter or talk on the phone type, he still isn't, but he can talk my ear off face to face.
Beeeotch you are.
Lmfao all the guy did was change the flavor of the bait! I want to die laughing!
I quit dealing with guys that text “hey” so immature and zero effort.
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😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 Steve Harvey always makes my day.
"Hey" is the easy to text. We live in this texting society where some people literally do not like personal interaction. I say move on sis! Fine a guy who can actually have a conversation with you besides "hey". This guy sounds immature.
Hola señorita bien dicho.
If a man is texting "hey" it's because he is matching the woman's level of input and enthusiasm which would be little to non.
Wouldn't "Hi" be easier to type? ;)
It was written Que lo que primo
@@showtime8968 Not always the case.. I use to always send thoughtful msgs to guys like this and still got dry responses. Ladies if a find yourself putting in more effort it's time to MOVE ON!💯
It's hard to strike a conversation though text message. Most of the time a guy approach you, he's using his environment to connect to you.
Steve is so Real..! all he said is true..
I use text when I can’t be on the phone . I text to set dates , to see you , not waste my time try to know you behind text .
Props to you. 👏
Don't answer back.
If a man wants you he'll call you & court you.
why don't you call him? its 2020, get with the times
Some guys prefer texting over talking because it allows them to keep certain things private. Things like having a pre-existing relationship(I.e., girlfriend, wife, or child) Some do it simply because they haven’t learned the art of conversation. 😉
New potential tried it..on second day of not being able to talk for longer than 1mnt but wanting to text back and forth...i hit me with "let me get to cooking ..my man b home soon" he was OHHHH ..i dont block...i ignore yo ass and bin without schooling u...i aint yo mama nor yo therapist.
Yes Uncle Steve I'm 39 and agree
That guy is a legend
NO Itachi is
She looks good for her age (37).
When she's 50 walking around with her ten year old, ppl guna be calling her a 'young mom'.
@@007Fusiion lol
she does
@Jeremy Honeycutt right? She even looks older
She looks her age.
Steve is in his element I ❤️love it.
She sounds like she should be on the radio.
I CANNOT WITH STEVE GOSHHHH
KING of comedy
Many guys have terrible text game. 🔥🔥🔥
It's a problem that you even call texting a "game". You people play mind games with texting instead of just being natural. I text EXACTLY what I'm thinking. I'm too real for this world...
Legend Gannicus I Agree ☝🏽 One Million Percent
@@monsterduo4038 be careful up there buddy, you might fall
@@beautifulmind1834 Glad I'm not alone in my thinking. My favorite saying in life is "Say what you mean, mean what you say"
Then why don't girls have good text gaming and initiate instead if it's that bad? Also, I think the problem is that a lot of girls think of this as a "game"
Gosh, I love Steve Harvey - such great energy
My uncle always told me....CONVERSATION RULES THE NATION!!
Steve is awesome can't stop watching his clips
😜😜😜 she nasty texting this steve🤣🤣
i'm dying,, *H* O L A
Yeah when I was on Hinge & if “hey,hello,hi” was their opening message I’d immediately unmatch. ✌🏾
I dated a guy who always texted me hey. Even after weeks of not talking to me. Needless to say I learned that lesson and we are no longer together. THANK GOD
Someone tell me if I am wrong but when someone message me "hey" I don't have an issue with it cuz he's simply saying hello. What happens if you don't like him like that or you do like him but it's kind of weird starting out a random conversation in the beginning. He is just simply greeting you. Don't you have to respond hello back before you can start more of a conversation/meaningful conversation? Starting with a "hey" is leaving room for conversation it's waiting to see would you actually even read that message and if you do read the message and reply then they can go further. I think some women over think it. If he always says "hey" and no response after you reply to him then I see the frustration.
How can Steve not know the H is silent about he been saying HHHola his whole life? 😂😂😂
Lol Steve that’s not a praying emoji, it’s a hi five 😂
Uncle Steve is THE man!
🙏 means 'thank you'.
Love steve binge watching
I equally hate texting. It’s so boring.
0:28 LMFAOOO I like himmm😂😂😂😂😂
Love the response
They want you to carry the conversation
Awe Steve!! That is so good
Steve it's okay I've been saying "hola" too and I'm mexican 😂
What I do is I also answer "hey" 😂
Real talk Steve
Those hands are high five emoji Stevie!😉😀😀😀
Most women don't call back they'll text back if interested. She can entertain multiple dudes like that.
There's not always gonna be some clever wity line that intrigues.
Could you just text her setting up a date straight away lime that? Women aren't that direct with you.
37 year old women don't have time for that.
What she says has exactly been happening to me at times. Just a hey every once in a while and disappearing.
I cracked up with the way she described it, (he says Hola to mix it up 😆😆) this I have seen too. I feel her 😆😆
I hate the wyd. Like. I dont know? Nothing? Texting you? Eating? Everytime the response is. Oh, cool. 😂😂
Exactly, if a man wants u , we will come to u and find out if u have free time to have a cup of coffee or r u available for relationship, If u r not then we r gone , u will never see us behind u any more , its so simple 🥴🤢
Lol Steve I love you!! Good laughs
I agree I hate texting so bad mostly because no matter how careful I put my fingers on the keys it types the letter beside it above it and I'm sick of correcting it. But mostly is rather hear your voice. People can take you wrong through texting.
These boys text hi to 20girls at the same time
Just sayin ladies ... does go both ways. I noticed whenever I’m dating a girl and she starts just giving me the one word texts or just a emoji I just stop responding lol not worth wasting a mans time 🤷🏼♂️
Grant Franchey My man, I do I too
Grant Franchey It’s always on the man to initiate the conversation but it’s sucks if a women just reacts and does nothing else.
It certainly does go both ways
It does go both ways, but SH is catering to women so he won't deal with her dirt.
See with those kind of dudes I send a boring ass hey back and then they stop sending them stupid ass heys lol
Lol steve didn't know the H in hola is silent 😆😆😆
Guy behind her got that 'smooth R Kelly' look
Have u ever thought he might be shy and that he might be waiting for you to start a conversation with him in that way hell feel more comftable. Once again is always the guys fault
I had this same thing happen to me. It was a turn off. Day 1 he says hey. I responded back saying hey and I didn't hear anything back until the next morning when he said good morning. After a couple days I told him to feel free to call me for a conversation. He said ok, but never did and continued to text so I ignored him. We are grown, I don't want an elementary text exchange. A 40 year old shy man isn't cute.
Ikdr 😂 💯 @@t.8409
Just Block him Girl its easy . stop wasting your time there are plenty of better fish in the sea.
True , bro should know there’s plenty of whales out there too
Steve's face when they say the h is silent. 😟
Again...THIS IS COMMON SENSE!!! What’s wring with these women that ask Steve these questions that have OBVIOUS ANSWERS 🤦🏽♀️🙄
It isn't common unfortunately.
5 seconds of fame is all.
T G that is very unfortunate
What did she mean "all men" that psychopath doesn't represent the rest of us.
When did she say "all men"? I'm too lazy to rewatch lol and I know she did say "why do men" but I don't remember "all men".
Text "hey" back. Problem solved.
It's called he's texting all his girls and the ones who respond are the ones he'll pay attention to.
Not only men text hey ,women do it too. A woman texted me hey three days in a row.
“and then they respond ‘hey how you doin‘ and they get engaged“ wtf 😂😂
Onika B engaged in conversation 😫
@@Hellcathoneeeyy 😂😂😂😂💀
Cursed by Beauty sorry for my bad English, I‘m not american
I Like this lady she cute and her voice...Olaa!!
Hay is for horses
I watched this video with no viewers 😂 first one 😂🙈
The girl that waved at the end ☺️😍
The hands together means “namaste”: it’a greeting of good wishes.
You have to understand that a lot of men are trying to see several women and once, and trying to develop something with several other women also. They might be mass texting and messaging any number of women on Tinder also. They will put something out to a bunch of women and see who responds.
New phrase: chumming. Definition - men fishing for women.
That's not a new phrase...there's already ba definition associated with that word.
He was just saying "hey" like, I woke up and thought of you, what's up. I used to get a "hey" text every morning that turned into us texting back and forth all day until one of us passed out at the end of the night. It was like we spent every day together in a sense. She's just 37 and confused about this "new world", probably talking to dudes way younger than her. Can't date way younger unless you understand how they communicate. She over-complicated the whole thing. Steve should've asked the age range of the dudes, not just her.
Ya too old school uncle Steve.
Some people text hey or Hello because they are texting that to a lot of people at the same time.
They don't want to get anyone's name mixed up with the others.
I get you Steve😂
And that’s when it’s time to clean out your phone contact list. Bye 👋🏾
I give men the same energy 🤷🏾♀️ probably why I'm still single 🤔🙄
I'm 24 and I adore this 37 year old shes beautiful. If only I could get to know her. I'll text her more than hey.
She has so much radio voice it hurts!
Me too !! Can't help myself
Most people don't communicate, it's almost out of style but it's not old-fashion. Ask for what you want, if you don't get it, move on.
That's young guys habit-
HOLA 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 I FREAKING LOVE ❤ STEVE
Her voice is nice
I been saying H-ola my whole life! 😂😂 3:53
In my opinion, we all are guilty of this, even myself. I think the problem is that people don't actually take the time to learn conversation openers. People taught and told us that talking is important, but never actually took the time to break down the whole "world of conversation" to us. We as men and women start learning the art of conversation after high school on our own; forced to go out and learn it ourselves. That is why people usually ask advise from professional date doctors, purchase books on the internet, go on UA-cam and have UA-camrs give out tutorials and exercises on the matter, and even worse they spend money for either online or face-to-face tutors.
brandon ralph It’s not hard to communicate. It’s only difficult when someone does not understand themselves and then the opposite sex. Communication will be so easy for men and women alike and healthier once we get a better idea of who we are and what it is we want, need, and desire from our future spouses. And, of course other men and women outside of our future marriage valuing us as the men and women we were naturally born to be. Hope this helps.
I understand what you're saying Steve I've had guys tell me that texting was the equivalent of going on a date and that since we had two conversations he thinks he's going to get some