WHY WEDDINGS ARE/AREN'T IMPORTANT TO US?||The Nook||FT Lydia KM, Clare Karatu & Coco Vanveen||Part 1

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  • Опубліковано 28 чер 2023
  • On the debut episode of the Nook we explore the role of Weddings in Women's Socialisation: Traditions, Expectations, and Identity.
    Follow our guests:
    Lydia KM: / _lydiakm
    Clare Karatu: / clare_karatu
    Vanessa Coco: / coco_vanveen
    Article link: www.southernliving.com/weddin....

КОМЕНТАРІ • 102

  • @bettykanjatv
    @bettykanjatv 11 місяців тому +173

    Team Lydia like this 😂 where you go we go love love this conversation

    • @nymome8089
      @nymome8089 11 місяців тому +6

      Where Lydia and Jules go I am there ❤

    • @margaretnjenga3358
      @margaretnjenga3358 10 місяців тому

      ​@@nymome8089 me tooo

  • @lillykananatv9172
    @lillykananatv9172 11 місяців тому +45

    Lyd wherever you go I go just love you mamiii

  • @teresiamiruru8531
    @teresiamiruru8531 11 місяців тому +14

    On the question about shinning more on the wedding day … i think men shine more on the proposal and traditional wedding kwaito ,ruracio etc…coz it shows them more in a bold way and in commitment and responsibility .. so the wedding the bride shines more coz of the “price” paid she is the prize to be celebrated aririririri 😅😅.

  • @beautylandboutique4976
    @beautylandboutique4976 11 місяців тому +57

    Team Lydia....we follow you everywhere Lydia ♥️♥️
    I'd listen to you all day!

  • @ashleyadewa6593
    @ashleyadewa6593 11 місяців тому +33

    Claire is/was such a gem. The nook is something I didn't know I needed in my life. Well done Joyride ❤

  • @themuyabliss
    @themuyabliss 11 місяців тому +20

    Lydia in Joyride???? MAGIC😮🎉❤

  • @florahgathoni4648
    @florahgathoni4648 11 місяців тому +48

    Time to make a 'Joyride Home Game' cards/questions. Would sell easy. Great conversations ❤

  • @melissagitts
    @melissagitts 11 місяців тому +24

    This was such a well balanced conversation. The fact that you did not lock out the unmarried, absolutely perfect.
    Coco is a complete reflection of me, the awareness, the wholeness and the need to have men that are respectful and are confident enough in their masculine without having to let us to bring out our survival mode.
    Regardless, there was so much to learn from All the Ladies..💐🌹

  • @christineokumu5200
    @christineokumu5200 11 місяців тому +11

    This was a nice conversation but it lacked a woman who "has a Pinterest board" and was super passionate about her wedding

  • @wawanjohi
    @wawanjohi 11 місяців тому +11

    I saw Lydia and screamed....almost broke my fingers nikikimbia huku, too much love for Lyd😊

  • @juotton
    @juotton 11 місяців тому +21

    Clare is so interesting and she just really captures your attention with whatever she says ❤❤❤...love love her ❤

  • @user-dr9rd2ok6m
    @user-dr9rd2ok6m 11 місяців тому +11

    Clare smiled throughout the conversation...she's absolutely stunning 😍😍

  • @kendiivonne3095
    @kendiivonne3095 11 місяців тому +10

    Clare is so pretty 😍😍.... beautiful smile , gorgeous voice ❤

  • @njukisperspective
    @njukisperspective 11 місяців тому +13

    It's beautiful to see these smart, opinionated and powerful women together. ❤️❤️

  • @wambuinderitu2461
    @wambuinderitu2461 11 місяців тому +5

    Claire's English 😢 it's perfect ❤i love it from pronunciation of words 😊

  • @reginahwaithira8684
    @reginahwaithira8684 11 місяців тому +4

    I keep on listening to this podcast ❤️ It is so educative, especially the realness with Claire Karatu 💯...every lady needs (The Nook) in her life .

  • @yvonnewanjiru3962
    @yvonnewanjiru3962 11 місяців тому +19

    Hey Wanjiru. Can MAUA solve our wedding dresses pain point?
    Had trauma as a child and didn't want a wedding. I thought the dress must be white and I felt unworthy. Did therapy later. I want a lilac dress when my time comes.
    Would be honoured to get a MAUA wedding gown.

  • @TalithaCumi1
    @TalithaCumi1 11 місяців тому +10

    Just like the den, the nook is on fire 🔥🔥.. Everything about Joyride is just perfect👌 kudos guys for the great wisdom, knowledge and enlightment we get from your wonderful conversations for free.❤❤

  • @brendahatito7848
    @brendahatito7848 11 місяців тому +6

    Claire you resemble Maureen waititu and I love your voice

  • @itsWanza
    @itsWanza 11 місяців тому +11

    Wow! That lady on the furthest right is so pretty!!!😍😍
    Such a great conversation!🙌🙌

  • @kaihuramercy1673
    @kaihuramercy1673 11 місяців тому +6

    This was so beautiful cant wait for part 2

  • @bettykanjatv
    @bettykanjatv 11 місяців тому +7

    Wanjiru hii nayo umetuspoil eeeei ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @halimaprecious8038
    @halimaprecious8038 10 місяців тому +2

    I'd love a black wedding myself,and i would love to attend also

  • @wanjiku_her
    @wanjiku_her 11 місяців тому +7

    Loooooving the conversation 🎉❤ giving me wedding fever😂

  • @ms.sonnie3000
    @ms.sonnie3000 11 місяців тому +4

    Claires voice and eloquence 😍

  • @dianamutanu3796
    @dianamutanu3796 11 місяців тому +2

    The love I have for this podcast is too much I love the conversation 😍

  • @edinahkendi9871
    @edinahkendi9871 11 місяців тому +1

    The Nook🎉❤
    Love love the conversation
    I'm seeing marriages on a whole new perspective now

  • @YoungShiro
    @YoungShiro 11 місяців тому +1

    What a wholesome conversation. I enjoyed watching this ❤

  • @brendahatito7848
    @brendahatito7848 11 місяців тому

    Amazing conversations and ladies. I love it. Am learning everyday Good job Nook

  • @bancynthamba4719
    @bancynthamba4719 11 місяців тому +2

    Such an amazing episode am loving this🎉🎉

  • @nimohke7961
    @nimohke7961 11 місяців тому +4

    Great conversation ladies❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @user-qw1vx2oc7h
    @user-qw1vx2oc7h 11 місяців тому +3

    Clare' s smile🥰🥰🥰🥰 ....she's so beautiful ❤️❤️❤️

  • @SakeKasir
    @SakeKasir 11 місяців тому +4

    Great conversation. Am glad to see that am not the only one that has never envisioned having a wedding.
    I like the idea of a marriage setting, and the dowry ceremony + going to the AG will do for me.

  • @adelinemalemba1276
    @adelinemalemba1276 11 місяців тому +2

    I've kept saying aaaaauw all through this episode..❤❤

  • @lillykananatv9172
    @lillykananatv9172 11 місяців тому +11

    Among the first one the comment section..
    Atleast I need a like button to niice🥰

  • @talesofkiki5099
    @talesofkiki5099 11 місяців тому +7

    Team lyddd heeeeeyyyyyyy❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ndanumue7137
    @ndanumue7137 11 місяців тому +3

    Even i want a black wedding dress! I also wanted a black themed wedding but change of plans after hearing Clare's pov😂Only i will be in black, every other person can be colourful😂

  • @Grow_with_Mercy
    @Grow_with_Mercy 11 місяців тому +6

    I LOOOOOOOVE the conversation ❤,
    Lots of eye openers here
    I have been reminded about so much.
    And I like what @lydia mentioned on marriage and kids....
    I have been learning this morning of how it is very important to have the two as key then Kids will just flow when you two are GOOD
    the Triangle
    God, Husband, wife ....... Kids come after that but let them know you value them😊😊

  • @carolinenjoroge1195
    @carolinenjoroge1195 11 місяців тому +1

    Lovely ladies
    Just this morning I was wondering when will lydia come to the podcast 🎉🎉

  • @eunicenzuki9219
    @eunicenzuki9219 11 місяців тому +4

    Lydia all the wayyyy❤🎉

  • @BHS_Africa_Pod
    @BHS_Africa_Pod 11 місяців тому +4

    I have never thought of my wedding, lol, like at all. It has never occurred to me that I should have one 🤣 I was more committed to being a kick ass doctor, which i imagined way too many times, eish

  • @trendingentertainment2544
    @trendingentertainment2544 11 місяців тому

    Beautiful ladies am such a big big fun of clair from when she was doing the cooking show at switch tv

  • @lamuriasworld
    @lamuriasworld 11 місяців тому

    Ooh yes girl power💞❤️❤️i am so happy 🥺🤗🤭

  • @variniawandere4468
    @variniawandere4468 11 місяців тому +1

    I love to see this❤

  • @TerryKaranja-vi9dd
    @TerryKaranja-vi9dd 11 місяців тому

    Congratulations guys!!!!!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @sallykhasoha9413
    @sallykhasoha9413 11 місяців тому

    loving this!!!!!

  • @gracegift7994
    @gracegift7994 11 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤ it's like breathing in freeeeeesh pure air phew 🎉

  • @Lavvvvvyyyyy
    @Lavvvvvyyyyy 11 місяців тому +1

    Claire's smile 😩😩😩🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • @lillieGatz
    @lillieGatz 11 місяців тому +7

    Team Lydia Km❤❤❤🎉

  • @Linnfinity
    @Linnfinity 11 місяців тому +7

    Yaani kuna watu wanafanyiwa ruracio mara twice😁 Lovely podcast Njiru

  • @brendahatito7848
    @brendahatito7848 11 місяців тому +2

    Claire I love the way your pronounce Barack

  • @_wawira
    @_wawira 11 місяців тому +7

    Congratulations 🎉 JoyRide
    Feeling safe in the Nook!!
    Had reflective session..
    Literally answering the questions from an honest personal perspective with the girls,,,
    Well, I must say I should have done better.
    I remember being a flower girl severally.
    But unlike most girls I never thought about my own wedding ever😒..
    Maybe if I did,I'd have chosen better life partner Just maybe or let's say made better life choices
    I actually thought about a wedding when life gave me a second chance for a "life time commitment" but kinda felt like it was too late considering the circumstances around it...but...who knows 😅
    Waiting for more rides❤❤

    • @mercykirugu8371
      @mercykirugu8371 11 місяців тому

      Same here being a flower girl to so many weddings I never thought of mine..though I did mine but didn't work

  • @coca3845
    @coca3845 11 місяців тому +1

    just wow!😍

  • @sharonjepchumba2547
    @sharonjepchumba2547 11 місяців тому +1

    I just saw Lyd and I had to click
    Hey babes am here

  • @justamummy6598
    @justamummy6598 11 місяців тому +3

    Please work on the sound or is it the gentle voices of the girls? I had 🎧 but I found the sound low. Fan numero uno 1

  • @annkibe5506
    @annkibe5506 11 місяців тому +3

    I love me some Lydia ❤

  • @valentinembuthia5564
    @valentinembuthia5564 11 місяців тому +3

    Here for lydia KM!!

  • @shirokuriah
    @shirokuriah 11 місяців тому

    This was really nice

  • @GivenMvula
    @GivenMvula 11 місяців тому +2

    Now I want to see Barak😊

  • @ajnawangari
    @ajnawangari 11 місяців тому +2

    My wedding song right now is Conversations in the dark by John Legend

  • @mekales8596
    @mekales8596 11 місяців тому +1

    Walking down the aisle song from this moment by Shania Twain

  • @eunicevetu8955
    @eunicevetu8955 11 місяців тому

    I love this ❤❤

  • @goodgalgonebadchannel3718
    @goodgalgonebadchannel3718 11 місяців тому +2

    Mukamiiii❤

  • @mekales8596
    @mekales8596 11 місяців тому

    The black wedding dress is like miss Tina Turner's wedding color theme

  • @gracesamuel9136
    @gracesamuel9136 11 місяців тому +2

    Ben was just chilling 😂

  • @woniwa
    @woniwa 11 місяців тому +13

    A white wedding i.e. dresses, 'decor, function etc isn't even a day, it's only a matter of hours!!! My hope is that the same favor and intricate detailing that goes into those few hours, continues into the marriage/partnership. Otherwise save your money, you will need it for therapy in the near future.

  • @riyahshamar2222
    @riyahshamar2222 11 місяців тому +6

    Lyd 😍😍😍

  • @LauraPosh247
    @LauraPosh247 11 місяців тому +3

    ❤❤❤

  • @gatituedwin
    @gatituedwin 11 місяців тому +2

    Team lydia km here

  • @wanguichristine5461
    @wanguichristine5461 11 місяців тому

    @Clare your husband bringing the cows is so significant.

  • @kindoreen7887
    @kindoreen7887 11 місяців тому +2

    ❤❤

  • @irenekeseu1840
    @irenekeseu1840 11 місяців тому

    Coco ❤

  • @justamummy6598
    @justamummy6598 11 місяців тому

    Yesssssssssssss

  • @sambawellnesshub
    @sambawellnesshub 11 місяців тому +1

    Interesting conversation. Lots of open-minding AHA and Mm-hmm moments... Can you talk about Polygamy? It's clear in modern society a modern man is can't commit to one woman.

  • @user-tl7uo5xk9q
    @user-tl7uo5xk9q 11 місяців тому +1

  • @greatness23FL
    @greatness23FL 11 місяців тому +9

    Is it weird that I am ready for marriage that pertains a wedding I even have it set out like I have the songs and all...However, NO MAN 😢 😂😂😂I don't know why deep down I feel I am going to have a wedding latest next year like I am so sure na akuna mtu eiiii God I trust in you ju these thoughts have never been in my mind😢

    • @stacythondi7353
      @stacythondi7353 11 місяців тому +2

      Woow, it all starts in the mind, pray about it and God will make it happen dear 🙏😊❤

    • @YoungShiro
      @YoungShiro 11 місяців тому +1

      Pray about it dear. Our God performs miracles.

    • @riswanjiru8682
      @riswanjiru8682 11 місяців тому

      It's the biological clock that one 😅

    • @greatness23FL
      @greatness23FL 11 місяців тому

      @@riswanjiru8682 I'm only 24 😂 clock iko sawa

  • @carol76798
    @carol76798 11 місяців тому

    😍😍😍😍🔥🔥🔥❤

  • @bettykanjatv
    @bettykanjatv 11 місяців тому

    🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

  • @salina9033
    @salina9033 11 місяців тому

    When Wanjiru Njiru said she's a rebel without a cause especially with her family i was liiiike yessssssssssss!!!!!!😂i'm definitely being a rebel to some degree when it comes to my wedding

  • @maureenchepkemoi4880
    @maureenchepkemoi4880 11 місяців тому

    Early 20s joyriders 😂👋

  • @sharzykish502
    @sharzykish502 11 місяців тому +3

    clara and barack😛

  • @carolinemarangu8174
    @carolinemarangu8174 11 місяців тому

    I identify with Coco on the kind of guy I want

  • @risperkariuki1459
    @risperkariuki1459 11 місяців тому

    😂😂😂

  • @outshanklod6028
    @outshanklod6028 11 місяців тому +3

    Its interesting having clare ..her reality verses expectations is on point .Please give us her insta

  • @Qoieli
    @Qoieli 11 місяців тому +3

    Lydia🎉🎉

  • @SuhailaKoki254
    @SuhailaKoki254 11 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @LisaM007
    @LisaM007 11 місяців тому

    ❤❤

  • @LisaM007
    @LisaM007 11 місяців тому

    ❤❤