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  • @lrbolotin1227
    @lrbolotin1227 26 днів тому +16

    I’m a Dominican woman. You spoke for a million years. This video is a big service to a majority of Dominican women. Most men have missed out on the real Dominican woman for the lack of common sense that you are describing, then they go around discrediting the whole country.

  • @juniorabad2618
    @juniorabad2618 26 днів тому +8

    Bro good dating tips , I always say vetting the women for some time will reveal her true nature but a lot of us including myself ignore the red flags until too late

  • @jersonsw
    @jersonsw 25 днів тому +8

    Couldn't agree more.
    As a dominican man I can confirm that it's hard to find a woman that's not really focused on getting money from a man (doesn't matter if you met her last night). There are good women here, but you need to be careful and pay close attention to the detals.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  25 днів тому

      👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

  • @larryford8558
    @larryford8558 26 днів тому +13

    Like Denzel said; growling older is a privilege denied to many .. I’m gratefully growing older gracefully

  • @calikari66
    @calikari66 26 днів тому +13

    I am a white woman (English, Italian, Native) and I married a WONDERFUL black man from Miami. He lived and died making me happy... Which in turn made him happy. It wasn't money that made me happy, no. He treated me like his queen and loved me I intensely for 38 years until he passed away at age 61 two years ago. What a gorgeous, loving, wonderful man who fulfilled me completely. So much so that I desire no other man and will wait until the resurrection to be wth him again.
    THAT is what it's all about. Not paying someone's rent you're not married to or you feel you have to in order to keep her. Follow God's laws and you can't go wrong. Otherwise, expect to keep it moving without true happiness.
    ❤❤❤❤❤
    Thanks Jay. Loved this video.

    • @joseheredia9275
      @joseheredia9275 26 днів тому

      Jesus said in the resurrection there will be no marriage. We will be like the angels, unmarried.

    • @calikari66
      @calikari66 26 днів тому

      @@joseheredia9275I'm still married to him in my heart and I'll find out when I get there. My goal is to get there first. Thanks for the uplifting comment 🙄

    • @IT-hx2lk
      @IT-hx2lk 25 днів тому +1

      Hi sis!!! ❤

    • @calikari66
      @calikari66 25 днів тому

      @@IT-hx2lk HELLO THERE!! YHWH. Please always remember I love you dearly!!

    • @calikari66
      @calikari66 25 днів тому

      @@joseheredia9275 you need to keep up wth your bible studies. This was not an encouraging comment.

  • @Victorpena-eu8yg
    @Victorpena-eu8yg 25 днів тому +3

    I love going to the barbershop have a conversation with my barber and listen to the music is like therapy for me.
    Try to record a day in a Dominican Barbershop so your followers will know what is like to have a Dominican barber.

  • @MabelRD08
    @MabelRD08 25 днів тому +2

    Thank you for adressing the YT channels that only talk about dominican women; they make me uncomfortable cause some record anything and make them look like trash, regardless of their "street job"
    I like how real you are about everything that you see and think. It's insane how we gotta be careful at all times. I'm dominican, born and raised, and your thoughts also apply to me as I'm always doubting men and their real intentions.
    Anyway, we keep vibing and thriving. Gracias Jay.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  23 дні тому

      You're welcome. I appreciate you.

  • @DaProfessional21
    @DaProfessional21 10 днів тому +1

    Respect Brother! Those conversations are a waste of time. Ya tu sabes.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  10 днів тому +1

      Yes, a complete waste...lol!

  • @sylviamichaud4759
    @sylviamichaud4759 25 днів тому +2

    Haircut is very nice. I agree that deciding where to live can be challenging for a couple.

  • @lenny364
    @lenny364 25 днів тому +1

    Great topic Jay. A lot of men lack discernment and often think with the wrong head. Show me a woman who didn’t run when adversity knocks on the door and I will show you a keeper for life. Guys know your worth. Keep pressing Jay. Salute🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🤛🏾.

  • @pedroluisalcantara-yd2gz
    @pedroluisalcantara-yd2gz 25 днів тому +2

    Im Happy bro, I have good News jjjj Juan Valdez, the Colombian🇨🇴 coffee brand, after its first branch in Santo Domingo, announces that it will open 12 stores in the Dominican Republic, yeahhh 12!!! and in the next 6 months that's a lot, many people believe that only American brands are in DR but there are brands from all over the world. I'm happy cause we r growing 🇺🇸❤️🇩🇴

    • @DCampusano1
      @DCampusano1 23 дні тому

      What does this have to do with the topic of the video??

  • @mr6foot687
    @mr6foot687 26 днів тому +2

    I feel you bro, the older I get the cooler I get! 😎💪🏾

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  25 днів тому

      💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

  • @actionvj
    @actionvj 26 днів тому +3

    “Not real easy on the eyes.” 😂😂 Listen, that’s probably the one he should be with though.

  • @semperfi6512
    @semperfi6512 26 днів тому +5

    Never ignore the red flags people. Some flags by themselves aren't deal breakers, but others are.

  • @nikki4911
    @nikki4911 6 днів тому +1

    Thank you for your videos and your right. The videos talking about RD woman all the time gets old. I love you and your wife's videos. You two are well rounded.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  4 дні тому

      We appreciate that. Thanks you for the support🙏🏾

  • @clytchan
    @clytchan 26 днів тому +3

    Great topic and video, Jay! There are so many things to consider when traveling/and or relocating to other countries. For us men, women can be a priority wherever we go. I hope your words of wisdom resonate with guys who are looking to go to D.R. You’ve had boots on the ground for a few years now, so I know you’re speaking truth. Keep educating, my brother.
    🤜🏾💥🤛🏾💯

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  26 днів тому +1

      I agree. Brothers need to take their time in pursuit of a quality woman.

  • @TheDominicanRoute
    @TheDominicanRoute 26 днів тому +4

    Awesome Video Brother 🙌🏽💪🏽

  • @TheDominicanRoute
    @TheDominicanRoute 26 днів тому +4

    Great Topic Well Said brother . Dominican Republic Itsso much more than Women

  • @CryptocurrencyTheory
    @CryptocurrencyTheory 24 дні тому +1

    You are very wise Jay.

  • @LovingFreedom
    @LovingFreedom 26 днів тому +2

    Yes Sir 🫡 I’m almost 60 so I’m living my Best life 🙏🏿❤️
    Been with my Mexican wife for 29 years 💯

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  25 днів тому +1

      Congratulations, bro💪🏾💪🏾

    • @LovingFreedom
      @LovingFreedom 25 днів тому

      @@JayAbroad I appreciate it Bro!

  • @bboss7712
    @bboss7712 26 днів тому +2

    lol 😂 look 👀 at Jay up there giving good advice to his fellow men. haha 😆 thats whats up.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  25 днів тому +1

      You already know!💪🏾💪🏾

  • @kemi1486
    @kemi1486 26 днів тому +1

    Jay, Kudos to your barber because your hair always looks well groomed. Those are very interesting scenarios and very good advice for those men and their DR love interest.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  26 днів тому

      I appreciate that brother. 💪🏾💪🏾

  • @TvZae
    @TvZae 26 днів тому +2

    I agree with this whole video. Thanks for sharing. Can we take a second to compliment how beautiful their home is? Bendiciones 🙏🏾

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  25 днів тому +1

      Thanks bro, I appreciate that✊🏾

  • @kevinwalker8695
    @kevinwalker8695 26 днів тому +1

    Great subject matter my brother

  • @Dee-pj7hh
    @Dee-pj7hh 26 днів тому +1

    You said it James. I can not add anything to what you’ve said except. If money conversions comes up or a woman start telling you all her problems at the start of you meeting her, make sure that’s the last time you meet or see that woman. Your barber did a great job brother. 👍👍👍

  • @AphrooneRichardson
    @AphrooneRichardson 26 днів тому +2

    Teach Uncle Jay Teach! ASE!

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  26 днів тому

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @AphrooneRichardson
    @AphrooneRichardson 26 днів тому +2

    Greeting Uncle JAY! Shout out from CHI-TOWN CHICAGO, IL, USA!

  • @vernonedmonds8596
    @vernonedmonds8596 26 днів тому +1

    Wow,,,, just when you thought you saw it all , there's always something new 🙄
    Your cut looks good as always, nephew 👌🏾

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  26 днів тому +1

      💯👍🏾👍🏾

  • @rfmaurone
    @rfmaurone 14 днів тому +1

    I am 66,and yes I am cool! Hair 95% white, beard too!

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  12 днів тому

      💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

  • @FUTUREWORLDFILMS
    @FUTUREWORLDFILMS 26 днів тому +1

    YOU ALWAYS DROPPING GEMS 💪🏾💪🏾

  • @luiscruz3698
    @luiscruz3698 26 днів тому +1

    Nice cut jay and very accurate video as always 👏👏👏👏👏

  • @nelsoncaro8224
    @nelsoncaro8224 26 днів тому +1

    Great content as always. We think alot alike. I will be in Piantini next week, 6th trip this year Im learning alot from your content. Keep up your great work. I rock a white beard now and its fine with me

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  26 днів тому +1

      I see you enjoying yourself here💪🏾💪🏾

    • @nelsoncaro8224
      @nelsoncaro8224 26 днів тому +1

      @@JayAbroad for sure and learning alot. But im not acting crazy and leaving them woman for the streets alone. Met some nice people and just waiting to retire to make a move. W

  • @filmjunkie4034
    @filmjunkie4034 26 днів тому +2

    4:14-4:18 very powerful. Great video 😊

  • @luisabramson4957
    @luisabramson4957 26 днів тому +1

    Hi, Dr Jay; motivational speaker and red flag spotter. That title suits you just fine 😅. Great video, very helpful to those still with blinders on. When it comes to women, you gotta "think" with your heart, and never listen to your brain. Good luck

  • @gigcleveland9740
    @gigcleveland9740 26 днів тому +1

    more distinguished with salt and pepper look, i rock it as well lol--

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  26 днів тому

      I agree💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

  • @walteranderson2507
    @walteranderson2507 21 день тому +1

    Good video 👍🏿

  • @antoniothomas3862
    @antoniothomas3862 26 днів тому +1

    Really good video bro. Like you said we're getting older.

  • @admiralreefer
    @admiralreefer 26 днів тому +2

    Dam Huntsville Jay! Simping aint easy! 😂😂😂😂 those fools tripping... let them go

  • @oreochannel7918
    @oreochannel7918 26 днів тому +4

    SAD as a Dominican Woman working all my life. Good and bad all over the world. More respect for us 🇩🇴🇩🇴🇩🇴🇩🇴🇩🇴🇩🇴

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  26 днів тому

      Not sure I understand this correctly 😕

  • @jozue04
    @jozue04 26 днів тому +2

    First time I found someone thinking like me I just don't like to spend hours in barber shop my time is more than that

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  25 днів тому

      It's the worse. A lot of wasted time👎🏾

  • @mozartz73
    @mozartz73 26 днів тому +1

    100% Facts Spoken I'm in a situation now 😂 trying to decide if it's right for me lol

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  26 днів тому +1

      I feel ya bro. Don't ignore red flags in the beginning.

    • @mozartz73
      @mozartz73 26 днів тому +1

      @@JayAbroad Exactly

  • @Bronx_Yankee
    @Bronx_Yankee 26 днів тому +1

    My mother told me after I got spurned by a girl that “women are like buses, if you miss one another one will come in five minutes, and after midnight the buses don’t come as often, but when you catch one they go fast”

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  26 днів тому +1

      That's a smart woman.

  • @miguelcamacho269
    @miguelcamacho269 26 днів тому +1

    Like the new chandelier.

  • @charliea1641
    @charliea1641 25 днів тому +1

    Like pimp said be with the one that likes you not the one you like

  • @neoavant6984
    @neoavant6984 24 дні тому +1

    Nice hair cut!...

  • @CreativepreneurJourney
    @CreativepreneurJourney 26 днів тому +2

    I agree ☝️ women are the same everywhere. I believe are men the same.

  • @knight3131
    @knight3131 26 днів тому +3

    Any women, it doesn't have to be one from DR, ask you how much you make or ask you for money then you should move on period don't give her a chance no matter how beautiful she looks. About a month ago I was talking to this female who lives in Santo Domingo, but she is from Nagua. She had a job, which she told me she was planning on leaving because she doesn't make enough. She then told me how she needed to buy her 4 year old son his uniform for school. Then out of nowhere she comes out asking me to lend her the money. I immediately told her NO. I told her I didn't know her and that we are just getting to know each other. If I do meet her when I do got there I would be willing to take her out to eat at a restaurant. I told her that it was her responsibility and the father of her son to make sure their son has was he needs. She then came out saying that any man who wants to be with her has to also take care of her son, I told her, she should have made sure whoever she decided to give a child to was able to take care of their child and not go around giving anyone a child. She then told me that she will pay me back if I do lend her the money. I told her I know she is never going to repay the money because she was leaving her current job without having another job ready. The last advice I gave her was that any man who has their life in order is not going to accept her conditions if when they are getting to know each other, if she immediately is expecting him to take up the responsibility of a dad for a child that is not his. Also, I told her because it will happen in the future especially since she has a son, that one day when her son is around 12 - 17 years old, her bf or husband is going to get into argument with her son because her son refused to obey him. Her son is going to tell him what every step father has heard thousands of times before "You are not my real father". If a woman's ex-husband still stays with her then they are still together. And the fact that this woman's own mother is ok with her daughter's ex-husband staying there tell you that is one crazy family you don't want anything to do with.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  26 днів тому

      Thanks for sharing this perspective.

  • @CryptocurrencyTheory
    @CryptocurrencyTheory 24 дні тому +1

    Yeah, I need a haircut. Nice cut!

  • @Bronx_Yankee
    @Bronx_Yankee 26 днів тому +2

    Dominican barbers are the best

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  26 днів тому

      💯

    • @whit6444
      @whit6444 26 днів тому

      Yes. I’m still a super nervous when the straight razor comes out but getting used to it 😅

  • @ONYXCON
    @ONYXCON 26 днів тому +3

    We duh coolest! 40+ SKWAD !

  • @guillermogouldburn763
    @guillermogouldburn763 24 дні тому

    Brother, make a video of your thoughts on the treatment Haitians are receiving in DR. Would be very interesting and could be your biggest video view-wise.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  24 дні тому

      I have no thoughts about it nor do I have any interest speaking on it therefore nothing to do a video on.

    • @guillermogouldburn763
      @guillermogouldburn763 24 дні тому

      @@JayAbroad Understood!

  • @iamafrederic9358
    @iamafrederic9358 26 днів тому +1

    Many times, male or female, we tend to pass over the people who are great for us because we get wrapped up in image and want to impress people in our circle so we date the "banger." What looks good TO you isn't always what's good FOR you.

  • @ITravelSale
    @ITravelSale 26 днів тому +3

    Good Morning from Nakhon Ratchisima Thailand, Ive been Coming here To Thailand since 1998 Ive been permanetly retired here since 2012 before UA-cam figured out monetization for content creators , is also why i avoid the hanging with the New generation of Brothers or Greyboys That like to put everything on blast
    who have only really recently discovered intrest in Thailand since Pandemic , before these past 4 Yrs many only primarily focused on The Dominican Republic , because of the party images they were presented about 1 particular town on the North coast
    But its now the same here in Thailand. with YT money thirsty Focus on 1 world famous redlight Town. Although I've never been to the D.R
    But i know The New Digital Generation in this new-age economy Promotes the same stereotypical Content topics because it generates traffic **Viewship watch time is what brings revenue and sponsorship. But this Same Smut Topic Stereotyping all women of any given Country based upon thier limited experiences in the Tourist zones that caters to this, "But It's rapidily approaching Subject digital Market saturation " which will Force Google into another Alorgorithm adjustment a little more stringent than the one made 2 months ago surrounding political matters or vax subjects .

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  26 днів тому

      I hear ya brother. And I agree. Thanks for sharing your perspective 💪🏾💪🏾

  • @manny1up
    @manny1up 26 днів тому +1

    What most of these men would not tell you is that most of these "marriages" end in divorce, because most Dominican women are quite culturally sound and will eventually marry a Dominican.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  25 днів тому +3

      I'm assuming you are referring to "most" men you know. I have a hard time believing you know every foreigner married to a Dominican woman and the outcome of their relationship. Of the 10 to 15 couples I know that are married and have been married for years this hasn't been the case. So I could also say most men married to a Dominican woman have a successful relationship, but that wouldn't be100% true because i dont know most men that are married to Dominican woman. And neither do you. Throwing out these blanket statements is wild.

  • @puyatecla9903
    @puyatecla9903 26 днів тому +1

    I am one of those who believe there are just two type of women too, I even avoid certain hair colors and nails length because of that

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  26 днів тому +1

      Facts. Those long nails, colorful hair, long eye lashes, ect belongs to the streets. I draw the line.

  • @miguelcamacho269
    @miguelcamacho269 26 днів тому +1

    I fallow you and your wife. I have been married for over 40 years. We travel to the DR once or twice a year. I do not have any friends except for my wife’s family and friends. I would like to make friends that are not related to my wife. So we would like to meet you guys when we go the DR.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  26 днів тому

      Send me an email next time you are in the country iamjayabroad@gmail.com

  • @RodolfoHernandez-m8b
    @RodolfoHernandez-m8b 26 днів тому +1

    Hey jay nice video . ever you make the video never forget put the Dominican flag on video front . to get More sub. good job .

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  26 днів тому

      Thanks bro. There is no evidence that shows adding the flag increases views or subs.

  • @Coolie-High
    @Coolie-High 26 днів тому +4

    I'm curious did the guy listen to you and got rid of the $2000 a month chica, OR did those Dominican lips hips & thighs win again 😬. Wouldn't be the 1st time a man felt victim to the carribean madness and fell victim to what I call Lady Sharks😮

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  26 днів тому +2

      Lol. That's a good question. I don't know the answer.

  • @maxmx767
    @maxmx767 26 днів тому +1

    1200 for a cut? Damn! That’s a good deal.
    I pay 4000 to my barber.
    Top notch service I got to say

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  26 днів тому +1

      Please don't tell me your paying 4000 in DR, no say it ain't so🤦🏾

  • @richesmethod
    @richesmethod 25 днів тому +2

    😂 You're wayyyyyy too politically current than I am.. DR trend to attract SIMPs in general and their approach is always the same

  • @adamjiminez9605
    @adamjiminez9605 21 день тому +1

    Yeah don’t hide the white hairs Jay😅

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  20 днів тому

      👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾

  • @nevonthedaily
    @nevonthedaily 26 днів тому +1

    Some of them common sense is left in the over head section of the airplane!! The part where they put the carry on luggage. If they use their common sense and know that women are the same and that they can’t be 1 and looking for a 10 then you would have to hear less stories. ✌🏽peace James

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  26 днів тому +1

      Lol😅🤣....you said it, I didn't 😂😂

    • @nevonthedaily
      @nevonthedaily 26 днів тому +1

      @@JayAbroad 😂

  • @Passport_Junkie
    @Passport_Junkie 26 днів тому +1

    Can you share who your barber and they contact information

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  26 днів тому

      Let me check with him tonsee if it's OK to do so.

  • @Iaintbrokenomo
    @Iaintbrokenomo 26 днів тому +1

    Mannnn. Barber on demand. Wow. What would you pay for that in the states.

  • @jas-n-motion
    @jas-n-motion 26 днів тому +1

    I do have a question about dating... are there dating apps for singles in DR?

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  26 днів тому

      Good question. Maybe someone here in the comments can answer that.

    • @jas-n-motion
      @jas-n-motion 26 днів тому +2

      @@JayAbroad It seems as tho dating here is very hard because everyone that is not American is looking for a come up.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  26 днів тому +2

      I can imagine it being even harder for a woman here. Don't know what part of the island you in but Santo Domingo has more of a professional population where many people do well for themselves and not all are looking for a come up

  • @patrickjlouis6651
    @patrickjlouis6651 26 днів тому +1

    Bro you dropped Jewels, Grown man talk..And Red flags, usually are screaming at us, but we overlook them and make excuses.. By the way, Your barber laced you up, and I'll add nothing wrong with darkening the salt and making it more pepper...I might need his services..

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  26 днів тому +1

      You know imma give you the plug if you need his services.

    • @patrickjlouis6651
      @patrickjlouis6651 26 днів тому +1

      @@JayAbroad Yes Sir....

  • @Levelupmedia2.0
    @Levelupmedia2.0 26 днів тому +1

    Fam got the fresh cut 👊🏾💯, i promise you i just came from barber shop myself !!

  • @olea
    @olea 25 днів тому

    No hay nada que buscar en ese asunto.. problema por todos lados

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  24 дні тому

      🤔🙄

    • @olea
      @olea 24 дні тому

      @@JayAbroad hablo de la mujer a la que le pagan el alquiler de la casa..

  • @leoaraujo2677
    @leoaraujo2677 5 днів тому

    Tu no puedes embromar con mujeres eres casado 😅

  • @ricoyoung8373
    @ricoyoung8373 26 днів тому +14

    Great video sir and great advice. But with all due respect them dudes do sound like they have zero common sense 🤣🤣🤣

  • @ONYXCON
    @ONYXCON 26 днів тому +1

    Great facts for the single fellaz that need real women and wanna stay out of ‘the pig pen’ and ‘live their best life!’ Salute! 🫡

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  25 днів тому

      💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾