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One thing that took me some time to realize is this, sometimes they absolutely know you are better than them, they have nothing to offer you so they just reject you. Fear of abadonment, getting close to people etc, insecurities, so they go deal with someone lesser than you, but someone they know they are better than so it keeps them on a high level. Rejection isnt always a bad thing! You deserve better.
I had this women come back to me after 8 months apart and talking about how the dudes she were dating were not adding up...I straight told her.....listen lady, I am not your damn insurance policy, beat it.....she will get run through for the rest of her life.
Shaun my man. You’re GOAT. My man, please keep making videos on dating life and money management. Loved your money management videos. I have improved a lot in money management by your videos. Coffee is on me brother.
Thanks for your perspective Shaun, we’ve gotta understand people out here don’t always have our best interests in mind, that’s why we put ourselves first.
💯% this girl I love❤so much treats me like a 2nd option. I watch her go from man to man and they all treat her like 💩 when I’m right in front of her face.
Great freaking video. Nearly 1 year ago to the day I went through this. The in difference set in because I was an option to her. Just like you said I used the rejection for motivation and started my business. It's starting to grow and I don't miss her. I won't take her back but I do speak nice to her when we do talk. She knows she lost the prize. It was with your videos that got me there. Can't thank you enough bro.
My guy man! You're on point with everything, and keep shining family. I fuxk w ya content heavily and it's unique, detailed, and informative. No doubt you're a positive impact.
I was married for 17 years. Completely faithful, and loyal. She decided she wanted out. I strongly suspect she was seeing someone else. Ended in divorce. It was devastating, and very hard to deal with. It took a long time to heal from that one.
Hey Fire blade. I would say approximately 1 year or so. Maybe a little, maybe a little more. Divorced in Sept., and the upcoming holidays were really hard to handle. I went through all of these emotions. First was a heavy sadness, loneliness, empty, confused, low self- esteem, etc... Then came extreme anger, and resentment at her. It started to soak in what she did, and how cold she did it. Gradually, slowly, My self esteem was built up, and I started to embrace my hobbies again. I started to feel like I wanted to meet women again. I went no contact with the ex. I to this day, never have looked her up on any social media, or online. I have no clue even if she is alive, or where she is. It has been 4 years now, and it all seems like a bad surreal dream. I will say that whatever you are feeling is completely normal, whatever emotion it is. People talk trash about how you should just move on, forget about it, and suck it up, and quit being a pansie. Do not listen to them. This may even include family members. Unless one has been through it themselves, they have no idea at all what it is like, none. Be patient with yourself, do not beat yourself up for how you feel, or what you could, or should have done. It is ok to talk to a counselor if you feel the need. Stay strong, and go easy on yourself. The process takes time.
@@williamconrad6561 thank you. I remember feeling anger towards her but now that feeling has gone now. I’m watching less and less red pill and now focusing on my business. 2024 will be a positive year for us single positive men.
What’s your timeline for her to pop the “what are we” question, before you decide it’s a waste of time bro? Not tryna be out here wasting all my time “getting to know” her. She don’t wanna rush things and neither do I but Im sure as hell not playing this waiting game forver. Good video brotha, another banger 💪🏽
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It’s important for us men to realize when a woman doesn’t put us as a priority, and more importantly when to walk away.
I agree
always be walked away
All day
That part
One thing that took me some time to realize is this, sometimes they absolutely know you are better than them, they have nothing to offer you so they just reject you. Fear of abadonment, getting close to people etc, insecurities, so they go deal with someone lesser than you, but someone they know they are better than so it keeps them on a high level. Rejection isnt always a bad thing! You deserve better.
You are right bro. A lot of women always think the grass is greener on the other side. Great content.💯
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I had this women come back to me after 8 months apart and talking about how the dudes she were dating were not adding up...I straight told her.....listen lady, I am not your damn insurance policy, beat it.....she will get run through for the rest of her life.
She let me walk out her life so I did it in style.. #moonwalk 😂
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The timing of this video was clutch
Always on time. Corner Coach Shaun with the TRUTH as usual. It's always a pleasure my guy. Peace to you and yours this weekend. ✌️
Have a great weekend my dude
Yup!
Shaun my man. You’re GOAT. My man, please keep making videos on dating life and money management. Loved your money management videos. I have improved a lot in money management by your videos. Coffee is on me brother.
Appreciate you bro! Will do
Thanks for your perspective Shaun, we’ve gotta understand people out here don’t always have our best interests in mind, that’s why we put ourselves first.
Yessir thanks for watching
In time as always 👊
My ex cheated went to be with Pookie and got Herpes warts, lol
@@ShaunZachary they hardheaded. I sleep good at night knowing she got her karma
😂😂😂😂 karma is real
bro wtf 😂😂😂😂
💯% this girl I love❤so much treats me like a 2nd option. I watch her go from man to man and they all treat her like 💩 when I’m right in front of her face.
Great freaking video. Nearly 1 year ago to the day I went through this. The in difference set in because I was an option to her. Just like you said I used the rejection for motivation and started my business. It's starting to grow and I don't miss her. I won't take her back but I do speak nice to her when we do talk. She knows she lost the prize. It was with your videos that got me there. Can't thank you enough bro.
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Keep in mind when she treats like an option it's because she was never your's it was only your turn
Really strong message here fam. Thanks again bro
My guy man! You're on point with everything, and keep shining family. I fuxk w ya content heavily and it's unique, detailed, and informative. No doubt you're a positive impact.
Appreciate you bro fr
The older I get, the easier it is to walk away from nonsense. Close friends are not even on the back burner....tried to play me, but I moved on quick.
Glad I found this channel 🙌
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Respect and Salute. Awesome Shared Advice, Perspective, and Guidance.
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I’m still hurting. My wife left me this year May. We have been married 13 years and 3 kids. She wants to explore
I was married for 17 years. Completely faithful, and loyal. She decided she wanted out. I strongly suspect she was seeing someone else. Ended in divorce.
It was devastating, and very hard to deal with. It took a long time to heal from that one.
@@williamconrad6561 how long did it take to heal?
Hey Fire blade. I would say approximately 1 year or so. Maybe a little, maybe a little more. Divorced in Sept., and the upcoming holidays were really hard to handle. I went through all of these emotions. First was a heavy sadness, loneliness, empty, confused, low self- esteem, etc... Then came extreme anger, and resentment at her. It started to soak in what she did, and how cold she did it. Gradually, slowly, My self esteem was built up, and I started to embrace my hobbies again. I started to feel like I wanted to meet women again. I went no contact with the ex. I to this day, never have looked her up on any social media, or online. I have no clue even if she is alive, or where she is. It has been 4 years now, and it all seems like a bad surreal dream. I will say that whatever you are feeling is completely normal, whatever emotion it is. People talk trash about how you should just move on, forget about it, and suck it up, and quit being a pansie. Do not listen to them. This may even include family members. Unless one has been through it themselves, they have no idea at all what it is like, none. Be patient with yourself, do not beat yourself up for how you feel, or what you could, or should have done. It is ok to talk to a counselor if you feel the need. Stay strong, and go easy on yourself. The process takes time.
@@williamconrad6561 thank you. I remember feeling anger towards her but now that feeling has gone now. I’m watching less and less red pill and now focusing on my business. 2024 will be a positive year for us single positive men.
Preach 💪🏿👐🏿... Let's gooooooo
My guy strikes again with some straight HEAT🔥🔥🔥🔥
It’s funny how curious they get after they dump you and you No contact them and they realize that absence.
Tru
Thanks for the wisdom Coach!
Love your content bro, helps boost my confidence
Glad I can help 💪🏼
he spittin
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Damn, it tooknlike 13 months for me to realize that I AM an option for her
Great insight once again!
If I get treated like an option then I turn to vapor 😂😂 FOH
⛽️ for the 🔥
Very nice bro thank u
It happens to us men out there
What’s your timeline for her to pop the “what are we” question, before you decide it’s a waste of time bro? Not tryna be out here wasting all my time “getting to know” her. She don’t wanna rush things and neither do I but Im sure as hell not playing this waiting game forver. Good video brotha, another banger 💪🏽
The girl I’m with hasn’t really shown me anything, she doesn’t even have a job and she has me use the money I work for and doesn’t give me anything
Show her how many you got! Classic
Good stuff. But I wouldn't try to prove anything to her. Cause you don't want
Her to be your focus.
I got friendzone
It’s true
The what are we talk is for the woman to initiate...don't bring it up first fellas
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real men don't measure their life via women. women are ephemeral
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Yup, she's gonna try to circle back to you.
True Shaun be cool, say no, because she has no value only a matter of time she do it again. Say goodbye.
Facts!!