A Sex Therapist’s Husband Explains: What Is A Facial?

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  • @kkttss1928
    @kkttss1928 Рік тому +18

    Ive given three women facials. All three were long term relationships. Two i asked if i could do, one asked for it constantly.

  • @user-pt-au-hg
    @user-pt-au-hg 2 роки тому +45

    I think mostly they both missed the mark, guys like it because the act to him means, she's accepting him in a most personal way, like dogs we like to mark what we love and think we own, for the female it's the same, to let someone do such an intimate act is accepting him and taking the relationship even further in intimacy and closeness, one reason some girls like to be photographed or make a video of such a thing, it means she's willing to get close to some lucky guy, she's willing and showing that she can and wants to be intimate with a male, so this shows her love for this unique relationship, between a man and women.

    • @jimklemens5018
      @jimklemens5018 2 роки тому +2

      Yes, acceptance.

    • @TheNomad2727
      @TheNomad2727 2 роки тому +5

      .... And You should never "miss the mark" in regards to facials...

    • @PAJA63
      @PAJA63 Рік тому +3

      Agree on your take. Much of it could often be the bonding and accepting, as a very intimate thing. But it's also tied to the dom/sub, besides being very visual.

    • @generalconsensus2518
      @generalconsensus2518 11 місяців тому

      @@jimklemens5018I’ve given a few to a few women. The thing about it is visual and psychological. You can see her face, ass and breasts at once and also it’s very psychological because she’s letting you dominate her in a certain way. A French guy wrote about it 500 years ago. It’s hot if she’s into it

    • @tomnewham1269
      @tomnewham1269 7 місяців тому

      I think they both got it right. It is only since it has been in porn films that it has become a thing for a couple to do. A guy can still cum on a girl to "mark his territory" without doing a facial.

  • @jsusna1972
    @jsusna1972 2 роки тому +22

    Initially I thought he was pointing to her breasts, and they were named Winston and Maggie!

  • @LisaHastings888
    @LisaHastings888 Рік тому +52

    My boyfriend prefers this way more than any other. His love language is acts of service, and he has said how much it turns him on that i'm willing to sacrifice my makeup job for this act. If it's before we go out in public it's all the more hot to him, since I'll have to wash up and reapply.
    Then he also loves the added bonus of knowing his recent hot load was just all over the prettiest part of my body- the part I am now greeting the rest of world with. He loves knowing that secret when I'm talking to someone with the same face he had coated 20 minutes ago.
    I'd never done it before him, but I've grown to love it. I love to please him, sure. But I never felt like my face was that pretty before. He gazes at me with such adoration, calls me beautiful and makes me feel so gorgeous when I do this.
    It's not the the only time he compliments my looks, but there's something specific about coming on the most beautiful part of me that really gets him off, and that makes me feel so proud that it's my face to him. Staring into my eyes just before I have to close them, then gently holding my face when I'm able to look up again. It's so sweet. We're very much in love.
    Has nobody else ever explained it that way...?? That's hard to believe

    • @strydyrhellzrydyr1345
      @strydyrhellzrydyr1345 Рік тому +3

      May I ask.. u say none before him. . Only him.. about how old are you guys.. just roughly I don't wanna be rude

    • @strydyrhellzrydyr1345
      @strydyrhellzrydyr1345 Рік тому +3

      You have no idea how perfect everything you said is..
      Nooooo.. I had this big long text for you... And it just erased it all.. lmao.. o well I guess.
      But you say everything I dream of finding. And getting to experience.. any of it..

    • @strydyrhellzrydyr1345
      @strydyrhellzrydyr1345 Рік тому +1

      I'd love to know you guys age . Just roughly... Of course. I wouldn't ask directly for your age...
      Both of your ages..
      I'm just still in shock.. of what I read... It was all to good.. it really kinda feels to good to be true.. lol

    • @LisaHastings888
      @LisaHastings888 Рік тому +1

      @@strydyrhellzrydyr1345 we're both late thirties. I hope you do find it! It's lovely.

    • @LaughterCigar
      @LaughterCigar Рік тому

      Nice Violent Femmes pic!

  • @edal1179
    @edal1179 2 роки тому +27

    Cis married male here. Yes it is very much a powerful move. It makes me feel good and strong. My wife and I don’t do this every Tuesday night. But on special occasions yes and when we do it lites a fire in me. To the comment where they said it was degrading. I don’t think so at all. It’s a moment where my wife is completely vulnerable to me and trusts me. I say when I’m about to pop so she is ready. I know this isn’t for every couple and that’s fine. But it’s a really really good feeling if you get to do this.

    • @chingron
      @chingron 2 роки тому

      The number one sign of a beta male is a male that uses the term cis

    • @dougeing6521
      @dougeing6521 2 роки тому +14

      What is a cis married male? Why not just say that you’re a husband?

    • @chingron
      @chingron 2 роки тому

      @@dougeing6521 Because he is a beta male who pretends to be a woke feminist ally.
      And if he isn’t pretending but willingly supports the woke feminist movement, then he is even lower than a beta male.

    • @kbanghart
      @kbanghart Рік тому +1

      ​@@dougeing6521because those could be two different things.

  • @user-nh4tm6hh4j
    @user-nh4tm6hh4j 2 роки тому +16

    "What is a facial?" Well, do you know what a glazed dough nut looks like.
    Lol

  • @drSamovar
    @drSamovar 5 місяців тому +1

    I have no desire to do this, but would be more than happy to please a lover this way if it was something she desired....or needed.....😅

  • @alanmcdaniel4771
    @alanmcdaniel4771 2 роки тому +9

    Not degrading...acceptance of you.

  • @coutyl28
    @coutyl28 2 роки тому +50

    I think you two should be more careful about saying things to the extent of "this [sexual activity] mostly comes from porn." I'm pretty sure porn has invented absolutely no new sex acts; humanity has been fucking for a LONG time. lol. There's no way the first facial happened after the camera was invented.
    Perhaps a better way to clearly explain that would be something along the lines of "adult imagery and pornography may have had a role in popularizing this sexual act." That way, if your audience members hate the topic at hand, they don't get to justify blaming pornography because Vanessa and Xander said "porn made your partner want to do this thing."

  • @strydyrhellzrydyr1345
    @strydyrhellzrydyr1345 Рік тому +4

    Gosh.. that a woman could think... Oh does he wanna disrespect me.. omg... It sucks that women might think that.. I would never think such a thing.. kinda makes some sad to think that women might think that

    • @seeingtheforest9529
      @seeingtheforest9529 Рік тому +2

      Hey, it's marking the woman as his property, displaying how little he respects her.

  • @walkerb1734
    @walkerb1734 2 роки тому +11

    Oh yes!….I’ve given my girlfriend facials from time to time. Got to be honest….it’s pretty hot!!

  • @phina8392
    @phina8392 Рік тому

    Gee, not only have I got to double check when I go for a massage while on holiday,, now this, give me a break…..

  • @jeremykoch1559
    @jeremykoch1559 2 роки тому +4

    Is the seamen good for her skin!

    • @PAJA63
      @PAJA63 Рік тому +6

      Yes, with a whole bunch of seamen, there are many hands that can caress her and make her feel real nice. Semen, on the other hand…

    • @kbanghart
      @kbanghart Рік тому

      ​@@PAJA63I wouldn't mind my wife with a seaman

    • @sweetindigo1
      @sweetindigo1 4 місяці тому

      Hey, I like to put it where I can absorb the hormones, especially testosterone, which is between my legs and all over lower belly, then no sticky face!

  • @DKSorg
    @DKSorg 2 роки тому

    REALLY.... We need an explainer video for this?

  • @AH-cl1gt
    @AH-cl1gt 2 роки тому

    What is a facial

  • @amyj.4992
    @amyj.4992 11 місяців тому +1

    Yes and yes 😂

  • @JuncTown-
    @JuncTown- 2 роки тому

    what? thats all,...what about the benefits?

  • @mikecamps7226
    @mikecamps7226 9 місяців тому

    umm PPE protocols....

  • @Sidecontrol1234
    @Sidecontrol1234 7 днів тому

    What's the difference between "guys and a penis owner"? I think coming on a woman is quite gross, it's gross in porn and real life for me personally.

  • @anthonyfigueroa7869
    @anthonyfigueroa7869 2 роки тому +1

    No I love kissing my girl to much to waste it that way.

    • @TheNomad2727
      @TheNomad2727 2 роки тому +1

      I dont think you are supposed to start kissing straight afterwards..... much like I wouldnt go down on her afterwards, but each to their own

    • @kbanghart
      @kbanghart Рік тому +1

      ​@@TheNomad2727I would! But yes to each their own 😊

    • @TheNomad2727
      @TheNomad2727 Рік тому +1

      @@kbanghart LOL fair enough