What an empowering feeling is to have the ability to recover your relationship. It means that you are no longer consigned to the emotional trashcan of life but now the power is in your hands. What an amazing breakthrough for me personally.
Lovely video content! Apologies for chiming in, I would appreciate your initial thoughts. Have you considered - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now)? It is a great one off guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the hard work. Ive heard some super things about it and my mate after many years got great results with it.
Bruce you're amazing! This works ..as he entered the door I told I said "Did I ever tell you that you're an amazing guy and Im so glad we met?" It def melted his ♡
It's going to be very hard, but I will try this: I will tell him how wonderful he is, how much I love him and am grateful to have him...When we start to have a fight. And keep saying kind things relentlessly, not responding to the mean crap he says, until he calms down. And then we can deal with whatever the fight was about, when he's calm. He has borderline personality, so he really isn't steering when those reactions hit. I was looking for something else to try besides just going silent, mutually. This might work.
o my gosh thank you sur for this video ive been having problems with my girlfriend she is making desions out of the blue with me and hers relationship and i will take your advise that you gave the world and i thank you and please put up more videos god bless you.
I think where you going with this is beautiful. An issue which comes up Alot is when someone very specifically complements their partner - is that their partner takes this as a cue to wage war - "Well, that's lovely - but you don't do it for me! I remember my birthday when you...ect." and they focus on all the negatives they dredge up from the beginning of time...deleting the positives, and in a way making themselves more significant - but in a really negative way? I wonder have you any suggestions when people come back with that response?
Thank you for this amazing video how do I get to be a positive influence to a guy I just met I don't know much about him but I think he is amazing to without sounding too anxious to please him
I have been doing this, often, from the beginning of our relationship. Unfortunately my partner receives the appreciation, but has never learned to return it to me. At first I didn't notice because it felt so good to be giving out all of that wonderfulness. But now a couple of years in I'm feel unappreciated, ignored and disrespected. I have pointed out the discrepancy and how it makes me feel. He just refuses to give me any acknowledgement or praise. Any ideas?.
My partner dosent want to learn this. He is constantly saying he isnt hat type,accept me as I am is everything he says and want. It breaks my heart , because I miss it so Munch,and at the same time there is som same because I dont accept him and his avoindant personality. I am so very depressed.
I think this might work in some professional couples with no kids case scenario, but its far from the truth of common marriage life. Also, every video I've seen so far seems to fix everything with sex rather than reasoning. With that said I appreciate the video and thank you for trying.
Sad ,, who knows whar her issues are,, my guy does same (words of appreciation ) but does nothing for me , I preffer kisses hugs and compliments ,, he loves me a lot ,,different love languages
What an empowering feeling is to have the ability to recover your relationship. It means that you are no longer consigned to the emotional trashcan of life but now the power is in your hands. What an amazing breakthrough for me personally.
Very nice! I love the way you taught us to appreciate with more description and specificity. Your way of teaching is truly a gift I appreciate.
Thanks for the first message. Damn i truly need it
Lovely video content! Apologies for chiming in, I would appreciate your initial thoughts. Have you considered - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now)? It is a great one off guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the hard work. Ive heard some super things about it and my mate after many years got great results with it.
I did this to my girlfriend for our anniversary and she loved it :D thanks so much bruze
I would cry tears of joy if someone told me that.
Bruce you're amazing! This works ..as he entered the door I told I said "Did I ever tell you that you're an amazing guy and Im so glad we met?" It def melted his ♡
How beautiful was the message in the beginning. What a lovely man
Thanks. I felt appreciated at the beginning of the video. I am gonna try this out with my partner. Thank you.
The background music during the samples cracked me up.
Amazing videos! I love them all and has tremendously helped my relationship with my girlfriend. Thank you Bruce, you are awesome!!!
excited to find these words. I use them. in my own words. never take anyone for granted!
Thanks for the compliment
I'm laughing by how much true words you have said, thank you very much :)
It's going to be very hard, but I will try this:
I will tell him how wonderful he is, how much I love him and am grateful to have him...When we start to have a fight.
And keep saying kind things relentlessly, not responding to the mean crap he says, until he calms down.
And then we can deal with whatever the fight was about, when he's calm.
He has borderline personality, so he really isn't steering when those reactions hit.
I was looking for something else to try besides just going silent, mutually.
This might work.
In the middle of this video, I sent a text to my GF using this approach and it's true! It made a difference.
I like the oil, gear, metaphor
Superb video. really helpful tip.👍👌❤
Great video and topic. If you're being sincere when you give praise its a powerful addition to any relationship.
I like this...I do this to him often.
o my gosh thank you sur for this video ive been having problems with my girlfriend she is making desions out of the blue with me and hers relationship and i will take your advise that you gave the world and i thank you and please put up more videos god bless you.
Great advice!
Thank you for sharing these videos
Great video, finally a how to be specific video.
Thank you. approaching repairing our separation.
This is perfect!!!! Thank you.
You are appreciated so very much for sharing your thoughts and guidance with us. Thank You.
I think where you going with this is beautiful.
An issue which comes up Alot is when someone very specifically complements their partner - is that their partner takes this as a cue to wage war - "Well, that's lovely - but you don't do it for me! I remember my birthday when you...ect." and they focus on all the negatives they dredge up from the beginning of time...deleting the positives, and in a way making themselves more significant - but in a really negative way?
I wonder have you any suggestions when people come back with that response?
great idea.
You are amazing. thank you
Love it, thank you for sharing these wisdoms.
At the start of this video, I was literally answering everything he says like "Thanks, Thanks"
Really applicable , I'll always remember this. Thanks & God bless you more:)
Yeah, we are learning to grown up from you. Thanks Bruce :)
Bruze, you're amazing! Thanks for these tips. We are learning from you. :)
Great video! You have earned my like and subscription!
I love your videos... Thanks 😊
THANK YOU
Thank you
thank you so much you are so helpful and amazing to offer help
Great.
Make your loved ones feel special like a kid eating cake...yum
Thank you for this video! ☺
what if they think you're too clingy for saying that or that you're trying too hard and not being genuine?
Thank you 😏
Should I be watching this alone or with my partner?
Thank you for this amazing video how do I get to be a positive influence to a guy I just met I don't know much about him but I think he is amazing to without sounding too anxious to please him
Love Love Love
U r Amazing really.
I had a fight with my wife a few weeks ago so am just here to practice some new techniques i will use on her to welcome me back😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I have been doing this, often, from the beginning of our relationship. Unfortunately my partner receives the appreciation, but has never learned to return it to me. At first I didn't notice because it felt so good to be giving out all of that wonderfulness. But now a couple of years in I'm feel unappreciated, ignored and disrespected. I have pointed out the discrepancy and how it makes me feel. He just refuses to give me any acknowledgement or praise.
Any ideas?.
+Kathy J Show him this video.
Kathy J Check out the five love languages. Sounds like words of affirmation is one of yours but not his.
Kathy J Kathy please date me
You should get the book the 5 love languages. Your wife is not speaking your love language and your lobe tank is empty.
Or husband
can i acknowledge two spesific traits in the same conversation?
Thank you Bruce ! You are Awesome coach and I am going Implement this technique with all the people who I love including my girlfriend and children.
u r amazing
Me and my gf are together for 3 weeks now , we had fights more than married couples.
Joker
Run now bro. It won't get better!
Bam!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My partner dosent want to learn this. He is constantly saying he isnt hat type,accept me as I am is everything he says and want. It breaks my heart , because I miss it so Munch,and at the same time there is som same because I dont accept him and his avoindant personality. I am so very depressed.
I know that I am amazing but I can grow to be better
I just need some background music now.
wow
Great intro - I just don't think that it will be good for me to read of the text from a teleprompter....
I think this might work in some professional couples with no kids case scenario, but its far from the truth of common marriage life. Also, every video I've seen so far seems to fix everything with sex rather than reasoning. With that said I appreciate the video and thank you for trying.
I'm single I don't know why I'm here
I've done this exact thing. Didn't work!!!
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I've said that exact thing to my girl many times, but she still treats me like shit.
lol
Kyle Galiano
I've done this for the past 4 years. Does nothing to her!
Kyle Galiano thats means shes shit and you deserve better. Simple.
Sad ,, who knows whar her issues are,, my guy does same (words of appreciation ) but does nothing for me , I preffer kisses hugs and compliments ,, he loves me a lot ,,different love languages
Kyle Galiano Exactly
Will this won't work if he treats me bad , im sorry but this is'nt helpfull at all
Thank You I wish my husband would express himself like that.
The MORE sex part...😁😄😄😄😄😄😅
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