Would you support your husband getting a tattoo of his deceased wife? | Dear Future Wifey S5, E517

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  • @theelesliejean
    @theelesliejean 2 роки тому +360

    I’m looking at Laterras getting emotional and I’m praying GOD PLEASE… don’t let him be a second too late or a moment too soon. Send him the desire of his heart to the last detail. God bless you for waiting, Sir. I can imagine how hard it is to watch couples tell their love story and dying to one day share yours. She’s coming sir! You have so many people praying for you. Keep standing keep praying keep preparing. ❤️

  • @naomihugh
    @naomihugh 2 роки тому +256

    This episode was absolutely beautiful.
    My husband and I watched together. We know Cheyenne and Shavon personally.
    God has truly mastered their marriage. From the very first time Chey told me his side of their meeting and the very first time I watched Shavon give her testimony, I KNEW God was in control!
    I will forever cry tears of sorrow and tears of joy when I hear their story. You see, I had to say goodbye to my friend, Ebony, in order to say hello to my new friend, Shavon.
    I praise God for the example of His grace, love, kindness, and restorative power that works through Pastor Chey and Prophetess Shavon.
    They are truly His humble servants.
    We love them dearly and thank God for the vehicle of this podcast to carry their story across the globe!
    Truly, well done!
    Kelvin & Naomi Hugh

    • @MsLi-ef1xp
      @MsLi-ef1xp 2 роки тому +16

      wow! Beautiful comment. I truly believe that even marriage takes a village.

    • @deniseburns2296
      @deniseburns2296 Місяць тому

      I Call Him FAITHFUL!!!! God is soooo intentional, purposeful, and STRATEGIC ABOUT HIS CHILDREN!!!!👏👏👏👏👏🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌❤❤❤❤

  • @flo-dd5sw
    @flo-dd5sw 2 роки тому +205

    "I love being a wife. I love serving a man." THANK YOU LORD ❣ I truly thought I was the only one who felt this way. 🙌🏾

    • @IAmJamieAlexander
      @IAmJamieAlexander 2 роки тому +14

      Definitely not the only one. I LOVE to serve and I'm excited about getting to serve my future husband.

    • @flo-dd5sw
      @flo-dd5sw 2 роки тому +2

      @@IAmJamieAlexander yazzz Queen

    • @juliarandall869
      @juliarandall869 2 роки тому +1

      Same 🙋🏽‍♀️

    • @missqlalah
      @missqlalah 2 роки тому +5

      The right man Sis. Yes!!

    • @nanaosei1555
      @nanaosei1555 2 роки тому +2

      @@juliarandall869 This is love!

  • @ImTalithaJohnson
    @ImTalithaJohnson 2 роки тому +223

    She is anointed and graced for him, that’s why the tattoo wasn’t a big deal 🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @Joy_LaFaye
      @Joy_LaFaye 2 роки тому +2

      That part!! 💯💪🏾

    • @walkingministries5803
      @walkingministries5803 2 роки тому +1

      Amen!!!!!

    • @ttatum7101
      @ttatum7101 Рік тому +6

      Amen. We don’t have to understand, God did it, that’s understood!

    • @walkingministries5803
      @walkingministries5803 Рік тому +6

      @@ttatum7101 exactly! It wasn’t for everybody to understand and that’s ok ♥️

    • @keepthechange1
      @keepthechange1 10 місяців тому +1

      @@izealliaeldridge1441 I stand firm with you on this. He may as well continue to wear her ring.

  • @kejuanlynette8531
    @kejuanlynette8531 2 роки тому +335

    This episode was almost too much to handle but it’s an incredibly beautiful story 😢 Every episode Laterras. Every episode of DFW is 🙌🏽 This podcast is like a digital hospital. Healing is taking place weekly ❤

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  2 роки тому +22

      Messed me up

    • @4LADYSWEET
      @4LADYSWEET 2 роки тому +7

      Very well said, this show is just good for the soul ❤

    • @rrnn6472
      @rrnn6472 2 роки тому +8

      I love that - digital hospital! You need to copy right that!

    • @kejuanlynette8531
      @kejuanlynette8531 2 роки тому +10

      @@DearFutureWifey Laterras, may I? You remember in Job (3:25) when what he feared actually happened to him? Don't fear! Perfect love casts out fear. Just say a prayer in faith and don't make an idol of your wife. And maintain the position that even if God allows her to pass, He has the right (think Abraham/Isaac). God allowed an idol I had to be taken, and it was pretty bad. I realized that if it wasn't an idol to me, maybe He wouldn't have allowed it to be taken😒 When I can handle it, I'll get it back. . .don't want that to happen to you or anyone else🙏🏽Sorry for the long post 🤗

    • @zanelemsibi8038
      @zanelemsibi8038 2 роки тому +7

      This has been an inspiring episode. Man u got a strong woman there.please pray for me not to miss my partner when God sends me one. I am also a widow & wish to marry again.🙏

  • @tsanders6021
    @tsanders6021 2 роки тому +64

    A widower of 14 years from Detroit Michigan this story touch my heart. I was looking at this in my meditation space. I smiled, I laughed, I got lost in thought and I cried that lead me start praise God. 💚💚💚

    • @ninamarie3836
      @ninamarie3836 Рік тому +3

      Touch my Heart ❤️ Also ❤️❤️

  • @NYCAppl3
    @NYCAppl3 2 роки тому +77

    I'm tickled pink just seeing this bold and strong woman soften when she looks at her man and grin from ear to ear when she's talking about him. I just love it!

  • @sandyaramkisson595
    @sandyaramkisson595 2 роки тому +63

    I am so thrilled Whitney’s wig fell off!! (Sorry girl) Cause the blessings I have received since subscribing to this podcast have been beyond belief. Thank you for your service 🙏🏾

  • @lesliekenion7540
    @lesliekenion7540 Рік тому +35

    She represents what loving & respectfully honoring your husband looks like 💚

    • @8DG8
      @8DG8 5 місяців тому

      🎉🎉lckblljjjbjbcbhcjklbvlbljlbcblvvnkvljkvv .

    • @8DG8
      @8DG8 5 місяців тому

      .

  • @Tvly2011
    @Tvly2011 5 місяців тому +3

    This is that “more than you can ask or imagine.” He said, “She is my gift and my restoration.”

  • @brandi_w
    @brandi_w 2 роки тому +40

    Whew, as a young widow of 2yrs (15 yrs married), this is soooo DEEP!!
    God moves DIFFERENT yall. 💕🙏🏽

  • @faith2faithconnections448
    @faith2faithconnections448 2 роки тому +34

    One of the things that strikes me here is the importance of hearing the voice of God and the power of OBEDIENCE! Father loves us soooo much, he will go to any length to come and see about us❤❤❤ God bless you both! Thanks so much for this LIT show 🙌🏽

    • @monicasoyombo3360
      @monicasoyombo3360 Рік тому +1

      I am witnessing this in real time GOD SPEAKS and his voice is clear for those who are STILL enough to listen. 🙌🏾

  • @blessbeloved
    @blessbeloved 2 роки тому +74

    This blessed my romantic spirit😁! I am so happy for them. For me, I'm weary and leery of people's prophecies over me. Wish I had a dollar for every, "your husband will be here by _____ time". Someone even told me my husband was a well known gospel singer... deep sigh. I gave my heart to the Lord as a pregnant, single 21 year old in 1988. My "baby" is grown and married... I am still single. I have run the gamut of emotions over the years. I'm approaching 55 in a lil over a month. I am now at the if it happens it'll be a blessing, if it doesn't happen I'm already blessed. I finally have peace about the situation😁.

    • @leamberwilliams6983
      @leamberwilliams6983 2 роки тому +6

      Sister, God bless you. When I think of your story, I think of Sarah and Abraham. Sister hold on and trust God.

    • @prisca2774
      @prisca2774 Рік тому +3

      Continue to put your eyes to Jesus sister! God is faithful and in due time he will fulfill his promises. We sometimes miss the mark because of our disobedience, as you could listen to this testimony…..she didn’t question God! She was obedient to the voice of God and never question despite of the naysayers. The prophecies always comes with conditions that involves walking in faith. Anyways, I know that God haven’t leave you or forsaken you. He is still doing something new in your life today. God bless you woman of God!

    • @keepthechange1
      @keepthechange1 Рік тому +1

      Not everyone is born to be a husband or wife. It also annoys me to hear so many people speaking on your life stating “God told me”. God didn’t tell you a thing about me, He speaks directly to me. As for Laterras, it pains me to witness soooooo many people speaking into his life and over him. This has caused him to recently trust the wrong woman, who broke his heart to shreds. I personally believe she did it purposely. I also believe she is a WITCH! He thought she was his wife because his Pastor friend and wife said they were aligned. All the while, the woman was turning a knife in his heart. Continue to listen to God and be ok with being single. That may be where your peace resides.
      Be well. 🌺🙏🏽

    • @meyokon4101
      @meyokon4101 Рік тому +1

      @Keep The Change According to other subscribers & comments that I've read, the womans name is Armoni & they have reconnected again. Apparently he is refusing to let her go! But I don't know!

  • @tiahill8120
    @tiahill8120 2 роки тому +23

    I was at the gym and I heard don't deal with no one who will take you away from your relationship with Him (God). I began to praise Him in the gym yet there was no one else there. The I get home and this video shows up and I knew I had to watch this. Thank you Latteras 😊

  • @hopemcintosh6998
    @hopemcintosh6998 2 роки тому +85

    He's still in mourning. A 20yr marriage that ends abruptly in death does not just leave your heart in 2yrs. I'm not saying that this marriage is not ordained. I can't make that call. This may have needed more nurturing and time though.
    Memorializing his former wife in this way AFTER remarrying is definitely something that needs some attention. His grief has not truly settled in yet and once it does, she is going to have to be ready to do some serious ministering to her husband because it could make or break the marriage. His pain is deep and so is his love in reference to his former wife. This man was and is still very much in love with his former wife. My prayers are FOR them. I just hope that when they have to sit in the reality, which will happen at some point, that they'll remember the vows.❤️❤️❤️

    • @shanettaforbes1788
      @shanettaforbes1788 2 роки тому +30

      With all due respect we need to get to a point where we just got to understand that we do not understand the working of God. God's ways are higher than ours. Whatever god's will let it be done. It's all on him n them n their process.

    • @rrnn6472
      @rrnn6472 2 роки тому +9

      Interesting take on this. I just heard from someone whose sister died 2 years ago, that her brother-in-law is engaged. I understand that he (and a preteen daughter) had counseling, as the wife's death was sudden. Still, everyone heals differently. I'm wondering if it's a case of men not wanting to be lonely?

    • @clareathawilliams1819
      @clareathawilliams1819 2 роки тому

      It was a True BLESSING

    • @nomvulankoro2109
      @nomvulankoro2109 2 роки тому

      I wonder what you would have said to God directly(if afforded a chance) when he asked a prophet to go after a prostitute and love her. God is just too big to can figure out. You dont have the slightest idea of what he is cooking, you are out here taking orders 🤔🤔

    • @hopemcintosh6998
      @hopemcintosh6998 2 роки тому +13

      @@shanettaforbes1788 I understand. I just think that too many times we fall in love with the idea of love or the euphoria of God's great miracle in bringing the pieces together. And we SHOULD celebrate that. This story was amazing to me. On the other hand, we are not honest about what it looks like when you settle into it. I knew my comment wasn't going to be popular with many (lol) but I have lived through this and I know what it can look like after you settle into the work associated in love. I don't think she isn't his wife, I just believe that God can show you and tell you but still not be prompting you to jump in. Their situation may end up totally different. I'm not against that. I wish them all the best. ❤️

  • @nakazybamusiimenta
    @nakazybamusiimenta 2 роки тому +44

    This episode gave me goosebumps, I smiled. I laughed. I felt encouraged to wait for God's way. Thank you 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @timbawangu3038
    @timbawangu3038 2 роки тому +59

    I rolled my eyes, my mouth opened in awe, I cried, I laughed and I praised God for just being who He is in His people's lives.
    What a testimony 🙏
    Thank you once again DFW, I have never had so many favorites on one show😊

  • @valoriechesney1787
    @valoriechesney1787 Рік тому +10

    I am watching your story today 5/22/2023. My husband died 26 years after we were married. Cheyenne, I felt your pain. I was for a moment so angry at God when my husband died. I had to work through that, it was so hard. But today, God is so amazing and I am truly blessed. I had to ask God to forgive me for the anger and I'm glad He did. I am in the ministry and I won't sacrifice it for relationship! You two really blessed me! Thank you!

  • @sandrablake3679
    @sandrablake3679 Рік тому +10

    This blessed me so much . The husband gave me hope that there are men out there that are willing to love and cherish his wife.

  • @queenajahirving5880
    @queenajahirving5880 3 місяці тому +4

    Hello, I just recently discovered this podcast and this episode was right on time for me. I am a widow, and honestly have not always handled my journey as most thought I should. I was married for only 8 months, 11 days. My husband and I were one so when he passed away I honestly had to learn how to breathe again. It has been a journey in 2 months it will be 5 years. I have not given up on love because I know that God called me to be a wife. Blessings everyone and May God bless

  • @GinaGina1029
    @GinaGina1029 Рік тому +102

    My husband died 6 1/2 months after we married. That was my greatest fear and it happened. I know for a FACT that without God I would have NEVER made it. I am a wife and will be married again someday.

    • @therealworldofnanni
      @therealworldofnanni Рік тому +5

      Same here! But with God and prayer one day we will be the proper wives 💕

    • @briannaje5419
      @briannaje5419 Рік тому +4

      I’m so sorry for what you two have had to go through. May God continue give you all strength and continue to cultivate you all as wives for his glory.

  • @wmenofdestiny
    @wmenofdestiny 2 роки тому +7

    This woman of God right here, Shavon Smith. The maturity and faith she had in Christ to walk with him through his season of morning is something absolutely spectacular!

  • @QueenNeLee
    @QueenNeLee 2 роки тому +75

    I don’t like the whole tattoo part because I believe that he could have still honored his deceased wife in a different way 😩😩😩 BUT I do believe that this is a God ordained marriage & their story is absolutely BEAUTIFUL!!! I also agree with what she said single women should be doing as far as traveling, starting a business, etc. God bless you both ❤

    • @thessysasa
      @thessysasa 2 роки тому +6

      Agreed

    • @angelagibb642
      @angelagibb642 2 роки тому +8

      Yeah cause I’m not looking at that.

    • @denisebigsbee5488
      @denisebigsbee5488 2 роки тому +12

      Agreed! Was looking for this perspective.

    • @HEReIAM829
      @HEReIAM829 2 роки тому +17

      I was looking for this comment toocuz I'm like getting a tattoo of ur widow now ur remarried is disrespectful to ur current as well as still living in the past. If he already had it before they met, is another story. As long as he's healed

    • @LadyV7
      @LadyV7 Рік тому +19

      Exactly. This is like idolism to me. Dead wife, child, whoever. I don't believe we should be permanently inking an ode to ANYBODY on our body. Period.

  • @ralphaneelove7679
    @ralphaneelove7679 Рік тому +23

    Facts! Literally now living through the trauma of losing my husband. Widow at 37. Talk about trauma staying up all night until the sun comes up to thank God for seeing another day. Standing in fear for the other shoe to drop. Horrible place to live in. Chest pain, heart pain, etc. lord heal us all!

    • @tashatasha7988
      @tashatasha7988 Рік тому +3

      My husband died 3 years and 2 months ago. I can understand and relate about the chest pain. For 24 years My husband took the responsibility seriously of caring for my heart, mind, and spirit. He was truly a man of God. We poured into each other. My relationship with him NEVER felt like work but it indeed felt like a fairytale that I experienced each day. He was proof that I God was looking after my heart. For 24 years, I was happy. The only time that I was sad was when I watched him die right in front of me. When he died, I went immediately to my body experiencing a nervous breakdown. I was actually hospitalized because the doctor told me that I could possibly have a heart attack. My husband died the day before Valentine's Day. It was the very first time that I didn't have his physical presence but I had the memories of his heart. Each day I would ask God to just give me strength for the day.. To hold me and guide my feet adjusting to a new norm. I miss my husband in every part of life because we shared life with each other. In life we never know when it's going to be our last day with our husbands or loved ones. I am thankful to have experienced such great love. I smile because I love him and cry because I miss him. This particular story lets me know that I can be blessed with someone that will understand that I will always honor my husband's legacy while honoring the gift of loving the new person that God sends. Because truly I couldn't be who I am without all that my husband poured into me. So my future is still being blessed by him. My sincerest condolences and prayers are with you. I am living witness that God will give you everything that you need on this journey. He keeps the promise of comforting us as we mourn. This episode helped me realize that all the love that I inside of can still be poured into giving whomever God sends all they need. My deceased husband always told me that my love was the connection to his strength and I know that I still have that love within me. Even in our grief God will never forsake us. He is always a present help. Grief counseling is a blessing because it gives us healthy tools to navigate the journey.

  • @crystaledwards7146
    @crystaledwards7146 2 роки тому +61

    “This is Restoration Season” this episode had me smiling at what God can do and crying at the same time due to what he/they went through. They gave so many good nuggets and at this point I am standing on the words that was spoken “THIS IS RESTORATION SEASON” 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @tylynn256
      @tylynn256 2 роки тому +4

      Your comment is confirmation to ME! I'm so thankful for seeing it. Amen! #restorationseason

    • @teachandinspire437
      @teachandinspire437 2 роки тому

      Amen!!🙌🏾🙏🏽

    • @keepthechange1
      @keepthechange1 Рік тому

      Amen indeed! This is Revelation and Restoration Season. BUT GOD! 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

  • @jakimathews4115
    @jakimathews4115 2 роки тому +35

    What a fabulous story. How respectful, loving, and understanding can two people be. This is the MOST incredible story I've ever heard.

  • @deeb8060
    @deeb8060 2 роки тому +28

    One story came to me, Ruth and Boaz. It's like the story is just being relived. May the Lord continue to bless this couple.

  • @joywbrown25
    @joywbrown25 Рік тому +11

    Her smiles are so authentic and the way he looks at her!!!! I can't wait for my season of restoration!!!!

  • @sscott504
    @sscott504 2 роки тому +157

    I will listen shortly but judging by the title alone the answer is no...if it isn't there already, he'd have to memorialize her some other way...just my opinion

    • @TashaMBell
      @TashaMBell 2 роки тому +2

      I agree

    • @QueenSugar72
      @QueenSugar72 2 роки тому +2

      Same

    • @commonsenseprevails1433
      @commonsenseprevails1433 2 роки тому +1

      👍🏽

    • @susandodson1234
      @susandodson1234 2 роки тому +6

      Agree 👍🏽

    • @quanlynn6128
      @quanlynn6128 2 роки тому +25

      Sis strong bc everyone not built like that. I can help you grieve but we can only be friends until you have healed completely from your ex wife. God bless their marriage!

  • @zakila2cute
    @zakila2cute 8 місяців тому +2

    I watched this episode because of the recent episode that was posted with Megan Ashley where you touched on the misconception of men being emotional. Laterres, you listen King, keep being obedient and don’t compromise when it comes to finding a wife. God will send you the queen that He has for you whom will fit you like a glove..

  • @mindiachieng8033
    @mindiachieng8033 2 роки тому +8

    The way Shavon looks at her husband with so much love and grace 😍😍 I stan!!!!

  • @HoneyBees555
    @HoneyBees555 Рік тому +2

    I love her empathy with allowing him to grieve his former wife. That is so amazingly beautiful of her to show so much patience without pride and jealousy 💗

  • @hbracero14
    @hbracero14 Рік тому +10

    God is faithful!!!❤️ This story is almost like the story of my husbae and i!!! I have goose pimples!!! My husbae also lost his wife of almost 25yrs ( has 2 sons) and i am divorced ( a son and two daughters). We started talking 3/6/2020, he proposed 6/21/2020, and got married 8/8/2020! God brought us together because we all needed each other. Thank you for showcasing this beautiful couple and their story!🙏🏽❤️

  • @tashaclark1194
    @tashaclark1194 8 місяців тому +2

    Life changing! My takeaway was when Shavon said I would not compromise my calling/ purpose for companionship.

  • @nikcam76cn
    @nikcam76cn 2 роки тому +9

    OMG! My girlfriend sent me this video around 5 in the morning. I was hesitant at first but I started to watch and couldn't stop watching. I never knew that God could show up like this and now I really just want to trust God and not compromise what he has in-store for me regarding a husband. I didn't even know about the Proverbs 31 women. This was such a blessing for me this morning. I cried, smiled, laugh and was just in awe of how God brought these two individuals together so perfectly.... ......but God. Thank you💓🔥

  • @shericashanklin98
    @shericashanklin98 2 роки тому +7

    This episode truly blessed me. I’m engaged to be married next month and I know God sent my fiancé to me. I thank God for him daily even when he gets on my nerves.
    Bless you and thank you for sharing your story with the world.

  • @cleopatraingram2901
    @cleopatraingram2901 2 роки тому +43

    This was by far one of the best episodes I’ve watched thus Far! Their story was amazing!!! The message within the Testimony was powerful!!❤❤❤ Thank You All!!

  • @ninaoffthegrid
    @ninaoffthegrid 2 роки тому +25

    Any time Laterras says “I’m trying not to get emotional” or he gets emotional you know it’s about to be a bomb episode🥰💕

  • @drleciaS
    @drleciaS 2 роки тому +8

    I started following Shavon immediately before this relationship started and it was like SUDDENLY! The jewel of the conversation was when she said he had a vision large enough to encompass the plans God has for her ministry. Whoa! I needed that reminder. Many of us can't connect with any man or partner. They must have the capacity to steward the powerful ministries many of us have.

  • @blountsuzette31sb
    @blountsuzette31sb 2 роки тому +6

    This episode was for me. I just recently started following Shavon on Facebook and saw this on UA-cam. I was also married at 21 and the Lord released me from a very chaotic marriage after 19 years. When He released me he also showed me my husband. I'm in this in between stage where I am just preparing myself for the time when we come together. God is bringing His people in alignment!! It's amazing!!! God keeps bringing me confirmation and affirming me. I thank the Lord for those who are sharing their testimony.

  • @iniobongekereke4647
    @iniobongekereke4647 2 роки тому +12

    Mr. Laterras, I see "Dear Future Wifey" podcast go beyond half a million subscribers before end of 2022. This ministry will grow bigger than what you thought or imagined. God bless you!

    • @annettep30
      @annettep30 2 роки тому +1

      I totally agree with you!

  • @Sandra-ly1ss
    @Sandra-ly1ss Рік тому +7

    Laterrias, we need an 100K update on Pastors, Cheyenne and Shavon Smith! This was so good.❤

  • @jamelewalden7254
    @jamelewalden7254 10 місяців тому +2

    This was AMAZING! Praying God send me a story as beautiful as this.

  • @sylviawinfrey4218
    @sylviawinfrey4218 2 роки тому +11

    Woman of God, I believe that it was no coincidence that I watched this episode. I hadn’t watched DFW in a while. When you spoke of ‘pastoring a church’ with your new husband, in a new city, my heart leaped. Thank you both for sharing & in the mean time, I don’t mind waiting. My prayer is for women to remain healthy & whole as the First Lady until God is ready to reveal our next season of love.

  • @NadiaCa3rine
    @NadiaCa3rine Рік тому +1

    I used to judge people who don't desire or want marriage, but after this I think I understand very well and I will learn to be more understanding. And it's true that watching this video wasn't a coincidence. God bless y'll

  • @melaningoddessevolution4167
    @melaningoddessevolution4167 2 роки тому +30

    Although I wouldn't want my husband to do what this man did, I must agree that God put these two people together. They're in complete unison with one another and have such a strong love that it just fits. This shows just how God works in mysterious ways and how He knows to send just the right person. Love on ❤

  • @msbosslady1029
    @msbosslady1029 2 роки тому +3

    This episode truly spoke to my heart as a single woman. I thank God for the Smiths and for their story. Thank you for being obedient and transparent. Also thank you for bringing couples to the forefront who love God and who are called and are living according to his purpose.

  • @racyahnadab5589
    @racyahnadab5589 2 роки тому +29

    You guys made me cry so yard, I had to share this podcast with my husband.

  • @AlisonSpringer
    @AlisonSpringer 2 роки тому +12

    No good thing will I withhold for those who walk upright. I receive that. This episode was so inspiring. Thank you.

  • @20LOL14
    @20LOL14 2 роки тому +34

    LAWD!! I should NOT have watched this while at work lol I've been crying AND laughing out loud 😭 🤣 I'm soo proud of Shavon!!! I'm one of her faithful weekly Cyber Church viewers. I know this episode is going to bless sssooo many!! 🤗❤️🔥💃

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  2 роки тому +1

      It was so powerful! Thank you for watching

    • @deejames7031
      @deejames7031 2 роки тому

      Listennnn....I am at work and I had to leave and come in the restroom to get myself together. My God my God my God🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾♥️♥️

  • @aliahstinnett
    @aliahstinnett 2 роки тому +13

    I love their union. Shavon is such an amazing woman. But this story is absolutely wonderful, so many emotions.

  • @marieturner4709
    @marieturner4709 2 роки тому +27

    ❤ Powerful and Encouraging!!! Continue to be his vessels of honor!!!
    He’s still working miracles ❤

  • @SaraSmile70
    @SaraSmile70 Рік тому +3

    I say no. Not because he can’t honor his late wife’s memory but because the Bible specifically says “do not put markings for the dead on your body”!!! I’m anti-tattoos. I would fully support my husband and his children in grieving and honoring his late wife and their mother.

  • @la-nekabrown6825
    @la-nekabrown6825 2 роки тому +10

    I’m from Portsmouth and even watched your wedding online but I did not know this part of your testimony. The impact of anxiety and stress on your physically body… I just left the doctor and had a similar conversation. It was definitely was a confirmation about how I’m living my life. I’m still processing it all. Thank you for sharing.

  • @stephaniemorriar7578
    @stephaniemorriar7578 2 роки тому +4

    I can't tell you how many times I've listened to this particular episode. In several months I'll be 60 yrs old. I've been divorced since I was 24yrs old. Dated and come close to marriage. In the last few yrs two of these gentlemen passed away and my heart was broken beyond words ( some days are still very difficult). Your podcast has been my saving grace since April of 2020. I've watched you grow and this has given me hope. Thank you for being transparent and allowing God to show us your growth under a microscope. Keep following the direction of the Lord. The future Mrs. Whitfield will be and is a blessed woman. GOD BLESS

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you for joining me on this journey. So sorry about your loss

  • @alyana6885
    @alyana6885 2 роки тому +4

    I can relate to the trauma. 😔 I was 26 and pregnant with my first child when my mother passed away talk about devastating. She passed of a heart attack, and a month after her passing I start to experience exactly what this gentleman experienced. It took me three years to fully overcome the anxiety and panic I experienced. That is when I turned my life over to Christ and allow him to guide my footsteps. I still trying to process this episode, I'm in tears with how GOD works. You are amazing Jesus 🙏🏽

  • @paulamartin9507
    @paulamartin9507 2 роки тому +3

    As a former pastors wife for 25 years. We divorced but i still honor him as a Man, father of our 4 grown children. There’s blessing in HONOR! Love this episode. ❤️

  • @BreenyLee
    @BreenyLee 2 роки тому +4

    Very touching ❤
    She was a wife before she became a wife for the second time. I think it’s important to know the destiny God has for you, it helps with the waiting, very moving story, strong man, strong woman, strong God.

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  2 роки тому

      @breenylee This episode brought tears to my eyes

  • @jadat4944
    @jadat4944 2 роки тому +4

    OMG Laterras, how can each episode keep getting better and better. This was so encouraging!! Continue your obedience to our Heavenly Father! You are helping so many of us.

  • @shellasaintcyr7570
    @shellasaintcyr7570 2 роки тому +6

    It has been an extremely hopeless season. This right here flipped opened the lid to so much sunshine! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

  • @sfreeman417
    @sfreeman417 2 роки тому +15

    Such a beautiful love story! I was in tears, my heart ached but felt the blessing and message in their story. Message I received: Be able to hear the voice of God, and have faith in his instruction regardless if it doesn't make sense and take action. I was so inspired by this couple's story. God loves us so much and knows exactly what we need! You did it again Laterras..another amazing and blessed episode!

  • @mitchella5954
    @mitchella5954 2 роки тому +9

    This episode wrecked me and put me back together at the same time. This is truly and example of God Ordained! They way they listen to God is something to strive for!

  • @michelledunican5238
    @michelledunican5238 2 роки тому +6

    This episode is encouraging me so much, God is telling me to relax because He got me and He has my ordained husband for me! Thank y’all for your transparency! 🙏🏾💗

  • @monaedawson4523
    @monaedawson4523 2 роки тому +9

    On my 4th go round watching this blessed couple. There were so many highlights to live by as a woman called to be a wife. Thank you Laterras for your platform 👑 Hallelujah...your guests have changed my life🙌🏾. Definitely sharing this blessing. God bless you Mr. and Mrs. Smith 🤗🙏🏾

  • @kgclark34
    @kgclark34 3 місяці тому +1

    I’m new to this podcast and this episode really gave me encouragement. I suddenly suffered the death of my partner and father of my son two years ago. God has truly restored my heart and I’m prayerful that He will send me my husband.

  • @lynettesatterwhite1433
    @lynettesatterwhite1433 2 роки тому +11

    Such a beautiful God-fearing couple. I thank God for putting the both of you together. This is the most powerful testimony I have ever heard. I think this should be in a book. God Bless!!! Hallelujah!!!

  • @tamerawright5452
    @tamerawright5452 Рік тому +2

    I needed this episode. The love of my life, my husband passed 4 months after our 1yr anniversary. I desire to be a wife again and needed this inspiration to be obedient to what GOD called me to do. HE is faithful and worthy to be praised.

  • @nakenyiasheree
    @nakenyiasheree 2 роки тому +6

    This message gave me chills . Tears flowed & all I could hear was the spirit of God saying “ I will not leave you uncovered 😭😭🙌🏾❤️❤️❤️ thank you both for your pour

  • @elliotsmith-v1v
    @elliotsmith-v1v Рік тому +2

    I remember you sharing this testimony Pastor Shavon you guys weren’t even married yet. I was at the services in Michigan when you preached and I too was in a season of transition. Meeting you changed my life and I’ve been following your ministry ever since.

  • @katrinafletcher4965
    @katrinafletcher4965 2 роки тому +8

    This was so impactful. Thank you to the Smiths. A timely reminder that waiting is not being stationary but it’s actively waiting. Just had a conversation with a dear friend that as we wait we are going to live; we are going to travel and develop ourselves in every area of our lives. It was so good to hear these same things expressed on the podcast. I pray God continues to lead you Laterras. You are doing a great job.

  • @msreeree65
    @msreeree65 2 роки тому +7

    I love how they look at each other with such genuine love and passion 💗

  • @takialawson705
    @takialawson705 2 роки тому +5

    Back watching this again… All I can say, is this interview really is blessing me… As a single Christian woman this interview really challenged some of my perspectives about dating/ courting; even marriage perspectives. Overall, this interview is really really really good. It did something to me… I can’t explain. I thank God for my friend sending it to me.

  • @Aoneify
    @Aoneify Рік тому +1

    Man, my heart is so full watching this. God is truly amazing.

  • @sandrabarrett7837
    @sandrabarrett7837 2 роки тому +10

    No tattoo of dead wife. If he didn't get it while she was alive you don't need to now!!!

  • @LynnetteButler
    @LynnetteButler Рік тому +2

    4/12/23. I wasn’t going to watch this episode and felt a tug on my heart to do so. I’ve always been a believer but just this year have really handed my life over fully to God. A few weeks back I heard a voice telling me to “go”. Now, I’ve lived within 20 miles of the same place my entire life. I call it my “Byron Center” bubble. I feel God working things in me to pop that bubble. I’m listening and ready to “go” where ever he sends me.

  • @nonikaallen2030
    @nonikaallen2030 2 роки тому +19

    This testimony was truly extraordinary and awesome. Thank you Laterras. I continue to grow as you continue to walk into your purpose.🙌🏽❤🙌🏽

  • @Abra-Doves
    @Abra-Doves Рік тому +1

    Um Sis, I REALLY need to speak to you guys! I’m just going to say, the Lord sent me here to Dallas, TX two months ago from VA and I was born and raised in Queens, NY- He had me sell and mainly give away everything, pack up and leave and I did not know where I was going. I only heard TX and that He would reveal every step of the way. God did lead me to stop at a specific place that is dear to my heart to pray when I first Got here and I obeyed! Our stories are so very similar and my cousin said I needed to see and hear you and your husband’s testimony, and it blessed me sooooo much especially while waiting on God here. There is so much more to my story but I believe we were sent here at the same time for a much greater purpose! Please pray about it, not get spooked about me and respond. I trust you will because this is what the Lord had me to write to you three days after watching at 7:45am on Sat. Morning in the midst of sitting in His presence, so therefore, I trust He’s got this!!! I love you guys already! May Blessings of the Lord overtake you and thank you so very much for sharing this wonderful love story!!!

  • @katherinekamaria
    @katherinekamaria Рік тому +9

    Marriage is custom made. Thank You Father for this couple and what You have done through them. Hallelujah! ♥️🙌🏽

  • @mercyedith1383
    @mercyedith1383 Рік тому +2

    This spoke to my heart so deep,don't compromise ministry for companionship.
    Pray and continue doing what you are called to do as you wait.

  • @herfamiller139
    @herfamiller139 2 роки тому +12

    This episode is on a DIFFERENT LEVEL!!! Just look at God...IS THERE ANYTHING TOO HARD FOR GOD TO DO?? My take away from this one is trust the process. God bless you bro L cant wait to see what God have got in store for you.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @candicane1
    @candicane1 Рік тому +1

    I had a terrible headache before I started watching this. After tears and feeling the peace of God while hearing their story, my headache went away. The love of God avails! What a beautiful love story and testimony! 🙌🏽

  • @ttatum7101
    @ttatum7101 Рік тому +18

    This is my 5th or 6th time watching this episode. It literally speaks to my soul for so many different reasons. I have to tap into every word. It’s healing certain parts of me, and it is helping me so much. Thank you Laterras❤
    I come back to this episode to watch it, just because I feel a sense of peace that I need right here on this episode. I wish them all that God has to offer, God bless those babies! My heart went out to his late wife as well, that last tear, it got me. She didn’t want to go nowhere, she had a husband and young children who needed her, but God had different plans. We all have to remember, we can pray the gates off of Heaven doors for a miracle, but Gods WILL will ALWAYS be done. God bless you all❤

  • @keishac484
    @keishac484 4 місяці тому +1

    I watched this video when it first came out and it popped up on my newsfeed again so I decided to rewatch it and although I appreciated it back then I really appreciate it now especially in the season I’m in of desiring, wanting and hoping for my husband
    This gives me so much hope that he’s coming soon 🙏🏽🙌🏽❤️

  • @latasha8581
    @latasha8581 Рік тому +3

    They got me at work crying..
    My God, if you did it for them, I know you will do it for me, Amen!

  • @divinedestiny2774
    @divinedestiny2774 Рік тому +2

    Oh my GOD! 🤯🤯🤯 I'm blown away by their testimony because it's definitely not a story but a testimony of GOD working in their life!

  • @Havilah86
    @Havilah86 2 роки тому +16

    Another anointed episode! 🙌🏽 I wish we could have heard more about Shavon’s “journey of transition”. How she managed holding that information of her future husband until she actually met Cheyenne and what her spiritual preparation looked like. 🌸

    • @keepthechange1
      @keepthechange1 Рік тому +1

      I said the same. There is so much missing. It all sounds wonderful, but where is the rest? Is she saving it for a book? I have so many questions.

    • @Anti-democratChick
      @Anti-democratChick Рік тому +1

      I wanted to know the same thing...ending a 17 year marriage had to be traumatic

  • @msandream
    @msandream 2 роки тому +1

    This is such a POWERFUL episode. Not only did I learn more about my service, but about how I should be served. May God continue to bless this couple.

  • @kimredmond4695
    @kimredmond4695 Рік тому +3

    I am in Va and visited her church she had in Portsmouth. This is such a blessing to see her journey. In 😢.

  • @ShantaHutchins
    @ShantaHutchins Рік тому +1

    This episode gave me chills. I am reminded to whom much is given, much is required. We often think in finances or tangible things when it comes to this scripture but I am reminded of faith. To whom many blessings are given, MUCH faith is required. God is doing a great work through "Dear future wifey podcast".

  • @theresacooper2883
    @theresacooper2883 2 роки тому +3

    This episode blessed me beyond words! I couldn’t stop crying. The Holy Spirit sent this to me just when I was ready to give up. Thank you for obeying God and walking in your purpose.

  • @denisesmith4986
    @denisesmith4986 2 роки тому +1

    I appreciate her empathy towards her husband and children in his time of grief.
    This spoke volumes on her character as a woman.
    How she dropped those nuggets on what single women should do while waiting. Was very helpful. I shall continue in ministry while I wait.
    Thank you Smith’s

  • @lifecoachmsstarr
    @lifecoachmsstarr 2 роки тому +10

    This episode was so great. I could have definitely watched for another hour. The way the Smiths look at each other and are so in tune with one another is absolutely beautiful. To answer the question I absolutely would allow my future spouse to get a tattoo of their deceased spouse Absolutely God bless everyone!

  • @Shefightsdifferent
    @Shefightsdifferent 2 роки тому +2

    This episode wrecked me in the best spiritual way! I remember the instructions to sow into her ministry a while back and seeing all God is doing is a blessing to see!! Hearing what God has done is also such a blessing to my life!!

  • @brittanymaria3708
    @brittanymaria3708 2 роки тому +6

    God is doing something monumental through your platform. I pray more young women watch these last several shows and truly listen intentionally…
    To hear all of these strong powerful women who can still be feminine and submissive to their husbands and don’t have to choose…that’s big. The enemy is attacking these young women into thinking they need to be strong & don’t need a man or husband. Some may be called to be single, but I pray they find the message.
    As always, their story is beautiful. That’s such a special woman. ❤

  • @mari_Clau
    @mari_Clau Рік тому +2

    This right here is why I wait with so much joy for the man God has for me. What a powerful union. ❤

  • @lyndashannon6662
    @lyndashannon6662 2 роки тому +5

    This was a great testimony for them. Like someone said this worked for them, doesn't mean it's for everyone else.

  • @alecialynch-wilson1949
    @alecialynch-wilson1949 2 роки тому +2

    I receive it. My Husband was killed last year April and it's been hard, very hard, but God. God brought me through that Season. What keeps me also is that, prior to that, God placed in my Spirit that i am a part of a "Power Couple" for God...and I am still believing Him for that Promise. I don't do single or alone very well, so I really have to stay focused and fixed on God. I keep hearing "wait", so I am waiting. I was led to start watching "Dear Future Wifey" and it has made a difference. Truly a Blessing. Thank you for sharing Shavon & Cheyenne, every Blessing on your Union. On Sunday, October 2nd, I'll celebrate 11yrs walking with the Lord and I can honestly say, "I come thus far, I find no fault, I feel like going on".

  • @nadinerobinson5278
    @nadinerobinson5278 Рік тому +3

    I am going through my 2nd Divorce and l do have the desires of my heart to share life with the man God has for me to serve 🙏🏼
    All I need to do is to have my eye & ear gates open & be obedient to HIS directions 🙏🏼

  • @patricebethea9369
    @patricebethea9369 6 місяців тому +1

    The way God speaks through your videos is amazing to me!! But what is even more interesting, is the order he has me watch them! Wheww Jesus! I receive it all...the word from this couple was needed and on time. Blessings to you all! ❤

  • @denielladickenson1276
    @denielladickenson1276 2 роки тому +6

    This is another EVERYTHING episode! I am so grateful that I listened to this because I was almost feeling "abnormal" when I wasn't interested in dating. I just couldn't do it no matter how much I told myself "to go with the flow". It's official, I believe that I'm called to be a wife. In Jesus name. Amen.