Advice for the whole comment section: If they won’t give you their time. They’re not worth it. You are worth so much, and I promise you, you will find someone who values you as much as you value them. This is why it’s worth it to not give up. Everything is going to be so good so soon if you keep moving forward. The worst thing you can do is give up on yourself. Love yourself more than anyone else because you are the main character in your life, and when you have no one, you will have yourself. You are worth learning to love.
i actually needed this. it feels no one gives a shit about me other than my bf and idk..just feels weird to have him as the only person who seems to genuinely give a shit about me. not even my "friends" check in.
Aren’t we all a bunch of sad and depressed teenagers with a good taste of music? :/ Edit: thanks for the likes and I randomly commented this and i didn’t mean to limit the age or anything as u guys said Depression has no age im so sorry if i ever offended anyone 💕💕
he looks so down today. i was about to come up to him to check him out when i realized that it wasn't my responsibility to do so and that he's waiting for someone else to do it. i was the one who stayed beside him but he never saw me.
You were a good person for being with him, you truly cared for him, it was his mistake if he didn’t see you there. Keep your head up, things will feel better soon. ❤️
The same happened to me too he told me that he needed me, that he thinks about me every day and I couldn’t even count how many times he told me that he loved me.. but after that look he left
Same, and now I'm in a relationship with someone i really love and care, but i fucked up 2 times with him bc of my sense in self sabotage. I'm trying my best to not lost him, he's an angel and the love of my life i don't know if i can handle lose him 😭
Yeah I feel that. But if you feel like you self sabotaged it, it’s probably because they’re making you feel like you did. I felt that way until I realized my reasons were valid, but they threw the whole “I’m sorry but if you really feel that way then we shouldn’t be a thing anymore” kind of thing. We tend to overthink when somebody makes you feel that way when in reality it most likely isn’t your fault as to how things happen. People are just immature sometimes.
Im sorry.. I cannot tell you to forget him because that would just make you miss him even more. But It takes time. I promise you that you will find someone that will love you so much.
If it really means so much to you, you HAVE to tell him, itl be a weight off of your chest and you wont have anything to regret later on, but dont expect him to say yes, just to acknowledge
@@memereview7415 but then again though, it would be putting a strain on him and conflicting him which could possibly put more pain on all parties involved. While I agree, such strong feelings sometimes should be said, sometimes you gotta let them go and let them be happy even if it isn't with you. It's a painful part of life but you will have your own happiness later. It really depends on the circumstances but if it were me, I wouldn't tell him and let him go to his new happiness. My time will come. (again it varies from circumstance though)
Yeah I understand, I don't have an ex neither but i'm in a relationship and listening to this song makes me miss my bf like he doesn't like me anymore and i'm crying (like it's not real but I feel that way)
I'm not depressed... I look at the world from a different point of view... I have supportive parents I love myself. Life isn't easy ya know.. and valuing other people's opinions used to be my first priority but now I don't care.. we only live once and worrying about some people just looking at you is bs but sadly we overthink.. even though I don't know what you go through its gonna be okay in the end I promise you.. even though Im not in your life, if you try your best in something.. and NOT give up it'll get better you'll feel peace once in your life just try
@@sarahjoseph8646 please don’t think about committing suicide or self harm. Never let bad things make you feel like you have a bad life. We all go through pain sometimes but it’s not called life if there’s no pain :) I’m happy that you feel better now, but if it ever happens again always remember that there will always be better days ahead.
I’m in a happy relationship nearly 2 years, but this song still makes me cry. This is either going to be the guy I’m going to marry or my biggest heartbreak and that scares me so much.
Omg I'm literally in the same situation!! I'm just so scared, we're still so young so will we be able to marry each other really?? Or will we break up?? I'm so anxious😔
Please, don't take that time for granted. I was in the same boat and in the end, it was heartbreak. Cherish the time you have together and love him like it's your last day together. That is my biggest regret.
I've been with my loved one for three and a half years and I'm also really scared, even though there's literally no sign of us spliting. we are each others firsts too. if the breakup ever comes the world will never be the same
This is the perfect song for overthinking about how you are 26 in 4 days and don't have a career or anything meaningful in your life while other people you know and your exes have steady jobs, starting to move in together and having a family. Its like you're standing in some void and you cant move forward
This song is so well-written. It manages to be emotive, relaxing, and danceable, all at the same time. I love seeing guys like The 1975 come along and create pop music with actually meaningful lyricism and quality musical construction.
I was sexually assaulted by two people I trusted more than anything; I was in love with one of them. He helped me get through the pain of the first assault and then proceeded to do the same thing to me months later. Still trying to heal 4 years later.
i'm so sorry that happened to you. that's messed up... i can't promise you things will get better, but i really hope they do. you deserve to heal and i hope you can. i love you and i'm always her to talk if you want to. 💕
That's horrible im so truly sorry. I know you will heal and I hope one day you'll be okay. You have all the right to keep hurting. Im so sorry and i wish i could give u a hug :( ily❤
I'm so sorry to hear you've gone through that. I went through an eerily similar thing 4 years ago as well. Healing requires time, and love, and acceptance. It's terribly hard, but eventually you will make it through, and you will heal. 🌻
Finally met the person I relate to so deeply and when he confessed he liked me, he said he’s moving away for university so he wanted to be just friends. We haven’t talked in months :)
I know it sounds cliche but things happen for a reason. You never know how this interaction with this guy might turn out in the future. And even if he isn’t the one for you, plenty more will come and you will find someone, one day who is just as compatible with you, if not more. I know it hurts, but give it time. ❤️
SIKE nah thank you. It’s really hard for me to think of being compatible with other people, bc I feel like that’s so rare for me. But I think Im just subconsciously setting myself up for failure by thinking like that. I’ll try to be more open to possibilities. Thank you!
Hope M it’s such a rare thing to find someone who relates to you that deeply. i don’t think you want to lose that. even if you just stay friends, it’s good to keep in touch with him. a simple “hey, how you’ve been, long time no see” and maybe you can have a decent conversation. just some stupid advice from a stranger, but then again it’s your choice. do you really want to lose what you had?
They way u looked at her and danced with her makes me feel that shes the one for u. those months that i saw u staring at me and walking pass by me by accident makes me feel im just a somebody else for u. damn its hard to forget u.
jelle boerma You should tell her King you only live once and we both know you’ll regret it you don’t tell her how you truly feel about her and if she doesn’t feel the same don’t worry King you have your whole life to find your true Queen hope this helps
You should tell her how you feel! I told my crush and even though I didn't work out I have no regrets, it made me into a different person that I love even more
Same for me, I can’t even explain it , maybe my conscience feels that being alone is better but I think it’s worst and it hurts me :( I even don’t feel comfortable with the few friends I have , sometimes I juste think that there’s something wrong with me. I feel what you’re saying so much and hope everything will be soon good for u !
i swore that I didn’t want them anymore and maybe it was me being stupid again but when I realized how quickly you had moved on to a better healthier relationship, it just completely destroyed me
Not to be mean, but if they moved on to a better & healthier relationship, then that probably says something about you, if it is, then find that problem and make sure to fix it, take it from someone who’s had experiences just like this
Find the mistakes from this relationship, grow from it, learn. And give yourself time to heal, give yourself time to sort yourself look at what went wrong and where. I know you can improve, i believe in you❤️
@@catalinadog157 yeah, tbh i was in a pretty dark place and that made me think I wasn't 'relationship material' so I pushed the person away and everything literally went to hell, no worries tho, I got to learn and grow from the experience and your comment would've helped me a lot at the time
if you ever need to talk i can give you my instagram and just know that theres so many people who are going through the same thing and you arent in this alone and it gets better. head up your crown is falling 👑 :)
anyone else sad over people you never dated? ..i left without ever saying anything to my crush....literally felt magnetically attracted to him since he interviewed me last year, barely knew him really -- but his voice and gaze made me melt....i didn't want to cross professional boundaries and we worked in diff departments so avoiding him was easy...i left this january without saying a word because i always reject myself before others do ......(i don't know if i imagined hearing my name in his conversations with my managers who sat behind me and whether i imagined his gaze on me sometimes but i wish i hadn't left what i felt unspoken....)
It is better that way, some people are meant for only pit stop in our life. But your feelings are valid and you might learn something over your feelings for him. I hope you will find another guy and he will give you the same feelings you have for him ❤️
@@shaaadah4858 Thank you. I wouldn't feel bad if I had expressed interest and got rejected. The problem is that I don't KNOW if he WAS interested because I never gave made any move or gave him any opportunity. I failed to say anything the last week of work. I think rejection is better than regret. I really feel like he would have probably asked me out or asked for my number if I even bothered to talk to him the last week of work. Oh well.
I kissed mine and we never got to date cuz she supposedly said she didn’t have time for a relationship but soon after was dating someone..I’m not sure that was the reason.
In case anyone wants to know, that is Atsuko. She's mourning the death of her son and drowning it in alcohol. The anime is Yu Yu Hakusho. She's the main character's single mom.
My favorite thing about this type of videos is reading the comments and seeing how broken everyone is. We all have different reasons and backgrounds but then we feel the same emptiness and void that seems to never go away, until we feel that euphoric state. Everything seems so great and u want to hold onto it forever. Then some time after those lows you reflect on it and release it wasn’t that bad. Maybe you were just being dramatic and that’s supposed to make u feel better but it makes me feel dumb. To not know how to handle my emotions ,especially when it comes to another person. If it’s me, okay I get it sometimes I can be a pussy but at the end of the day that’s what life is, highs and lows. Learning from experience and realizing that we have less time in our hands each day. Well who knows we can die tomorrow or in 30 years and that’s a trashy move but for that same reason I decided to not give a fuck and do what I want. That was kinda long and ew feelings but you get me To whoever is reading this, I got you.
not crazy at all because kids these days are too retarded to understand that their life has just begun. disclaimer to everyone: dont do whatever you want bad fucking advice
@@heftymagic4814 yes I'll do whatever the fuck I want. You're mad cuz you probably made so many mistakes growing up, or probably didn't make any and regret it now because mistakes help you learn (not talking about killing someone obviously)
hey. all of you who are wondering why you have this “un fillable” void in your life.. it’s because Jesus is yet to fill that void. He will bring you happiness, pure joy, success, and He will be your definition of love. He never promised to take away the storm, but He did promise to be with you through it. Jesus is the only one who can fill that void. Sex, money, drugs, relationships, porn, social media, alcohol, partying will never be enough to fill that void. Only Jesus can.
he broke me. he emotionally drained me and manipulated me but the worse part is he called it love. he was my everything and now my biggest regret and heartbreak. but i cant hate him, i dont think i have the heart to. i just wish him the best and hope that he learns from the way he treated me.
my ex gf gave me a promise ring while fallingforyou was playing at the concert. i haven’t listened to the 1975 in a while for a reason, idk why i did this to myself ffs
oh this comment broke my heart, i hope someday you can listen to the 1975 without feeling any pain..i still think of my ex girlfriend when i hear “the night we met”, but it doesn’t hurt anymore, i don’t think of her during the entire song, she’s just a little thought in the back of my mind, you might not be able to stop her from popping up in your mind but i promise it will stop hurting someday💗💗💗💗
It’s not that I’m afraid to be alone, I’m great at it, it’s just I’m afraid to let someone that close to me again, anyone else relate? thanks for the likes guys but i finally did it, i got a gf again and hopefully this goes better than the last
There are 4 stages of getting over someone. 1: hurt and heartbreak. This stage is probably the most stressful knowing that this situation is a fresh wound and it still needs time to heal. 2: Overthinking/flooded thoughts. This stage tests your mental stability and really messes with your brain. You think of all the things that you could’ve been with that person. Personally, this is the hardest stage for me. It’s like a war inside your brain that makes you do things you never would normally do. 3: Memories and nostalgia. Now, you miss the feelings you had and you crave them. You still feel emotionally bruised and you almost forgot about the person, but you didn’t forget about the feelings you had. Now is the time that you might try to move on with someone else but in the end, nothing works out the way you want it. You just wanna forget about the person completely but feelings might still be there. The final stage (4) is accepting and moving on. This stage sometimes can last for a long time depending on how fast you are able to move on. This stage you most likely will try to focus on yourself and in general you will need self love and know your worth. You realize how badly the situation impacted you and you’re afraid to go through that again. Sooner or later, the right person will come into your life while you’re not even focused on it. When you learn to love yourself and not be so desperate to find someone, the right person will randomly come into your life without you expecting it.
I just miss the nights we would talk to each other for hours even some days going from 10pm to 5am i miss her but i don't want her back yet i do so much and its just wack man
she's prettier she's more curvy she trusted she's kind she's smart she's playfull she generous she everything im not... but I could never hate her... because.. she my sister
But youre also many things shes not. She doesnt have the amazing music taste you have for example ;) don't compare yourself to her its not fair. You're amazing in your own way. Start trying to love yourself a bit more :)
I can definitely recognize the envy of someone who seems better than you, and it's quite a complicated feeling to have, but I want to tell you that no-one is perfect, and this applies to all of us. Having our own flaws, like depression and anxiety, doesn't mean that we're bad people. While I believe that many people have gone through some dark times, including the majority of this comment section, I also believe that this is what makes them brave souls. Adversity is a horrible thing, but it can also have a positive impact on your character, and as such you can grow stronger from the experience. 😊
That’s okay, hopefully you’ll find someone better who won’t make you think of him. Most importantly ☝🏽, you don’t need nobody but yourself, remember that. But I understand the feeling of wanting something
Did you tell him you were in love? I am asking because it's amazing how many times people won't risk the pain of rejection. If you have ever truly loved someone the rest of the universe could crumble and fall away and as long as you were with them you'd be just fine with it. Also.. if a person is rude to you when they tell you they don't feel the same, they aren't worth the time anyways.
he obviously doesn't see how great you are, he's missing out. Wait tell the person that genuinely loves you for who you are to come around. I promise they'll be there on day.
I wish I was more attractive looking to people, because thats what people go for, NEVER THE PERSONALITY, NEVER FAITHFULNESS OR LOYALTY OR WHAT BUT ATTRACTIVENESS
Sometimes, I don't like how I look either, and I happen to experience some symptoms of body dysmorphia. For instance, sometimes I don't like my skinny arms or, especially, my height of 5'5" for a guy like me. That said, someday, we will find someone who will not only find us attractive in some way, but also love us for the people we were meant to become.
i'm sorry for whatever you're going through. you're extremely strong do you hear me? you'll get better. things will get better okay? please keep moving forward !! :)
it’s very beautiful if you can still be like that for her this comment made me cry, let times flow always remember change is never a bad thing in the long run❤️
Please don't look back and say, "oh no they are breaking and need me". They don't Please for the love of God become healthy and move on my parents made that mistake and I found out why my mom didn't like my dad, they will always seem like the one But do know we our hearts can break but become stronger. Hope everyone that reads this is healthy and loves themselves
You can tell someone how you feel because you're hoping to get what you want/think they'll reciprocate, or you can tell them because it feels damn good to be authentic and speak your truth. Fuck the rest 🙏💚💜💙
Lyrics: So I heard you found somebody else And at first I thought it was a lie I took all my things that make sounds The rest I can do without I don't want your body But I hate to think about you with somebody else Our love has gone cold You're intertwining your soul with somebody else I'm looking through you while you're looking through your phone And then leaving with somebody else No, I don't want your body But I'm picturing your body with somebody else Come on baby This ain't the last time that I'll see your face Come on baby You said you'd find someone to take my place I just don't believe that you have got it in you 'cause We are just gonna keep 'doin' it' and everytime I start to believe in anything you're saying I'm reminded that I should be getting over it I don't want your body But I hate to think about you with somebody else Our love has gone cold You're intertwining your soul with somebody else I'm looking through you while you're looking through your phone And then leaving with somebody else No, I don't want your body But I'm picturing your body with somebody else I don't want your body, I don't want your body I don't want your body, I don't want your body I don't want your body, I don't want your body Get someone you love? Get someone you need? Fuck that, get money I can't give you my soul 'cause we're never alone Get someone you love? Get someone you need? Fuck that, get money I can't give you my soul 'cause we're never alone Get someone you love? Get someone you need? Fuck that, get money I can't give you my soul 'cause we're never alone Get someone you love? Get someone you need? Fuck that, get money I can't give you my soul 'cause we're never alone I don't want your body But I hate to think about you with somebody else Our love has gone cold You're intertwining your soul with somebody else I'm looking through you while you're looking through your phone And then leaving with somebody else No, I don't want your body But I'm picturing your body with somebody else
everyone in this comment section talking about someone: i feel you. i’m here listening to this song for a reason lmao. but here’s what you’re gonna do. you’re gonna finish the video, and then you’re gonna go do a good thing for yourself, and move on. bc they aren’t worth it, whoever they are. go live your best life without them. you deserve it, and you’ll get to a place where you’re happy again. it takes a little time, but definitely worth the wait.
Everyone usually tells me this, but this one feels so much more genuine than all the others saying this. Like I really felt comforted when I read this. Thank u so much.
I saw everyone else doing this and I absolutely never comment on anything but she took her own life last year and I still miss her with everything I have. We had a daughter that we lost and things were never the same for either of us, I still wish she would’ve found somebody else who could’ve been stronger for her
I’m so sorry for your loss, I know you might not believe me when I say this but things will get better for you, I promise you that you’ll manage to find happiness somewhere in this dark world. Keep your head up or your crown might fall ❤️👑
I'm so sorry to hear this, I know it gets so hard it's almost unbearable but I swear a new sun will shine for you. I hope it all gets better soon, keep your head up champ
I’m sorry but also it’s not your fault and I bet you were strong and did your best. What happened is really sad and I can’t begin to understand the pain but I don’t want to place blame on yourself or think if you were better you could’ve stopped it.
falling deep in love and she says “you deserve someone who can give you everything” although i’m looking into the eyes of “everything” i’ve always wanted.
I’m in love with someone who doesn’t feel the same or at least won’t communicate how he feels towards me and there I am giving him my all and not knowing if he is gonna reciprocate the same.
So I fell out of love with him and now I feel empowered it’s such a great feeling and y’all it does suck but damn does it feel to be able to love yourself the way you loved them ✨🤍
When your emotionally unavailable because of trauma and having to bottle everything up and force your self to smile everyday and your whole life you feel like your the only one who’s really gonna know what it feels like to feel a certain way but are so afraid of showing emotion because your afraid of the rejection it may lead to, and then you meet people that want to know what you went through but your scared that they leave like the past other did, or they just don’t care anymore so you shut everyone out and they move on and they’re happy with out you and u just think about what could have been if you just opened up
sometimes it's really hard to open up, and that's okay. it's something everyone eventually has to have the courage to do, but it can take time to be ready. just know that there are people in your life who love and care about you and if they truly do, showing them emotion won't lead to rejection. if anything those people will receive you with open arms and accept the way you feel, hopefully prepared to help you through it. you matter! i know opening up is scary but bottling things up will probably only cause you pain, i've done it. trust the people you care about, you are so strong. truly you are. you are so important and special and i know we don't know each other but that doesn't change the fact that you matter immensely. please never forget your worth
One of the most important people in my life was & is like this ☺️ we weren’t able to keep our relationship because of those reasons, worries, and issues. It hurts on my end... cause for example- I want to be there her... the one I love but who struggles... but I couldn’t & can’t always be. Thus that is also the reason behind why we no longer talk... But you know what my biggest dream is? Which may definitely never become reality- it’s... that one day she finds the strength to make & build relationships- and to feel secure enough to do so. Then....maybe, just maybe, I can be in her life again ☺️ but I remain certain that my never happen... so even if it can’t be... I’ll still wish her all the best for her life & keep our memories deep in my heart.
This was my girlfriend and I in a toxic relationship. This song makes sense in a different way at different points of time. But now that I love her but I don't want her here anymore, it makes sense differently.
most times i listen to this song, i’m sad, it’s 3am and i’m crying myself to sleep again but today, it’s 12:21pm and this makes me happy, i’m vibing but i’m sad, maybe i’m getting better? finally getting better.
Im sorry that happened, you don’t deserve something like that to happen to you, no one does. You’ll push through the pain and the hurt, you’ll be ok. ❤️
I can’t have a real relationship because I’m too worried that the person I’m with isn’t supposed to be the person I’m with so I’m stuck longing for somebody I don’t even know exists and end up leaving every relationship I’m in because it doesn’t feel right.
Reminds me a lot of the dodie song “When”. In the song she sings, “I'd rather date an idea Something I'll never find...” In this case the idea would be the idea of soulmates. I’ve had quite a few good cries to this song. I recommend it if you guys ever want to let it all out every now and then!
I personally don't believe in this whole "the one" thing. There are billions of people in the world. Of course there isn't just one person that's meant for you. Like you said don't ruin something good that you have because of a fantasy that you don't even know exists.
It’s important to know the difference between when a guy is lost in your eyes rather than your body, I have a lot sexual frustrations but I would give up anything for a girl who thinks like me
i wanted a future with him, he was amazing. he was my best friend, but he needs to heal from the inside to learn how to reciprocate love and i had to leave. it hurts to know what we could’ve had and the potential we had, but i was giving and not recieving. i miss him and our good times but i knew our future would leave me empty if he never helped himself. the one time i did something for myself and now we out here having an ~existential crisis~
@@fryingpan7185 youre doing just fine how you are !! youre making more progress than you think good job today im proud of you, be kind to yourself okay? :** 😽😼
Lyrics: So I heard you found somebody else And at first I thought it was a lie I took all my things that make sounds The rest I can do without I don't want your body But I hate to think about you with somebody else Our love has gone cold You're intertwining your soul with somebody else I'm looking through you while you're looking through your phone And then leaving with somebody else No, I don't want your body But I'm picturing your body with somebody else Come on baby This ain't the last time that I'll see your face Come on baby You said you'd find someone to take my place I just don't believe that you have got it in you 'cause We are just gonna keep 'doin' it' and everytime I start to believe in anything you're saying I'm reminded that I should be getting over it I don't want your body But I hate to think about you with somebody else Our love has gone cold You're intertwining your soul with somebody else I'm looking through you while you're looking through your phone And then leaving with somebody else No, I don't want your body But I'm picturing your body with somebody else I don't want your body, I don't want your body I don't want your body, I don't want your body I don't want your body, I don't want your body Get someone you love? Get someone you need? Fuck that, get money I can't give you my soul 'cause we're never alone Get someone you love? Get someone you need? Fuck that, get money I can't give you my soul 'cause we're never alone Get someone you love? Get someone you need? Fuck that, get money I can't give you my soul 'cause we're never alone Get someone you love? Get someone you need? Fuck that, get money I can't give you my soul 'cause we're never alone I don't want your body But I hate to think about you with somebody else Our love has gone cold You're intertwining your soul with somebody else I'm looking through you while you're looking through your phone And then leaving with somebody else No, I don't want your body But I'm picturing your body with somebody else
I never wanted to break up with my last girlfriend. I wanted to get better for her ... but she was clearly done with me. And now she’s got a new girlfriend a cat and she’s training to be a fire fighter. And I’m just... like... okay.
Hang in there, I know how it feels.. you guys didn't work out for a reason, try to remember that even if you can't see it rn. You'll find someone right for you who will stick by you no matter what darkness you're going through
Isn’t life funny. It’s 5 days until my birthday, and I’m also crying over someone who I never dated. I’m crying a lot. I hope you still had a good birthday :)
I was supposed to start highschool this year. All my friends were in relationships and they all looked so happy. This was the year I was gonna be more presentable, in better shape, be a better person overall. I'm lonely. I see all of my friends talking and having genuine relationships and I want that dammit. I'm not a bad guy, I'm funny, I'm a good listener, I'm nice(ish), I'm not even that bad looking. Dammit I just want someone, someone to hold in my arms, someone to be with, someone who I can hug when I'm feeling rough and they can tell me, "It's all right". I can count the girls I've hugged on one hand, I haven't had my first kiss, I feel like I'm getting left behind. I don't know what to do, I just feel lonely. Some days I'm okay and some days it just hits like a wave of sad and empty. I've tried to cry, but I'm coming up on a whole year without crying. I've tried movies, I've tried sad music and TV shows. Nothing works. I've teared up so many times I can't even count, but nothing will come out. Why? Is there something wrong with me? I've suspected for a while I may have depression, but I don't have a diagnosis so nothing is set in stone. The amount of times I've been the therapist for my friends is unbelievable, I've pried their deepest darkest secrets out of them and helped them through so much, but no one pries anything out of me. I just want someone to care about me as much as I care about them. Dammit I want someone to coax my sadness out of me, to go, "Alright, no one says I'm fine and means it" like I've done to them oh so many times, I want someone to treat me how I treat them. And yet whenever I type this or say it I feel selfish, they're not obligated to care, I know that, but I want them to. Jeez that was long, sorry to rant but this seemed like the place to do it
i had just written a whole reply to this comment and then it autoplayed to a different song and deleted :( but ill just try to rewrite what I wrote before. I feel you. like I feel this in a way that I can't even describe. I want to cry. I want to cry SO badly. but, I just can't. sometimes I feel so empty and I have this overwhelming sense of sadness but its like not sadness its just emptiness because I don't have a reason to be sad. or at least, thats what I tell myself. I brush it off as nothing and tell myself that I shouldn't be sad and then it just happens again another night. I just feel these moments of deep emptiness and sadness that I don't even understand if im being honest. and I just, if I can't even understand it myself how am I gonna tell that to somebody else you know? and just like you said in the beginning, I want that type of relationship where you fall so hard. I want to love someone so badly that I just connect with. but every guy that ive encountered just hasn't been the type that I see myself with in the end. most of the guys ive liked have been just those stupid middle school crushes or I only thought I "liked" them because they liked me back. in the end, its never been the type of attraction I crave. I want that so badly but I know that its going to come at the right time. so I try to stay patient because I feel like God has the right person for me planned at just the right time, but sometimes I can't help but want that so badly. and one more thing, I care. I know idk you but I truly do care. sometimes we can get so caught up in worrying about everyone else, that in the end we just forget to worry about ourselves. and even if theres nobody who seems to check up on you and truly ask you how YOU have been doing, ill be that person. truly, if you need someone to talk to, im here. I relate to what you've said in a way I haven't truly even been able to phrase it myself. so yeah, sorry for my rant I just felt comfortable saying it here :)
i feel you. My life is so fucking unfair and i‘m crying all the time. My dad and my great-grandma passed recently and i don‘t know what’s real and what’s fake anymore. Everyone is doing so great in life except me. I‘ve never been in any relationship with a guy and i really fucking want to. Every guy i‘ve talked to just used me for my attention or body. I‘m fucking tired of it damn. I just need a hug from a special person and forget all my worries for the moment. I know how you feel. I commented on your video if you‘d like to talk. Here are my social medias for literally anyone who wants to talk and rant to me. If you need someone, i‘m always available. My IG is @elenaazhh so just text me there. And for everyone who‘s reading this: its gonna be okay i promise. God (or the universe, whatever you prefer) knows what its doing. Just wait, the perfect moment is coming believe me. Even if you’re at your lowest, you can’t end it. Theres always things that you‘d regret. So just keep your head up and try going forward. Love you
This might sound rough, but try going to a therapist if you can. It will help with the not being able to cry problem. Like most guys, I think you haven't learnt to deal with your emotions (it's not your fault, you've been taught this way) and this can be really harmful. It will also help you set boundaries with your friends. It's good to be there for your friends, but don't try to be their therapist: you don't have the knowledge or tools to help them or to handle it, you'll just all get harmed in the process. And please don't get in a relationship just to get healed. Don't involuntarily want another person to heal you: it's not their job, that's what a therapist is for. The right person can help you a little, of course, but be careful with healthy boundaries. The right person for you is there to love you, healing you these problems requires the right knowledge and it's not their job. Happy healing. 💖
You’re strong and you will be okay. You’re still so young, you will find your special someone when it is right and when it is time for you to do so. It’s okay to be alone, it gives you time to build on your own so that when you do find your special someone, you’re able to treat them right. Stop dwelling on what everyone else has, and see how much you have! You have a beautiful life. And I know it’s hard, but I promise you’ll be okay. You are loved. You are supported even by random strangers (evidenced in the replies to your comment). Please don’t forget that and remember your life is just beginning
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Advice for the whole comment section: If they won’t give you their time. They’re not worth it. You are worth so much, and I promise you, you will find someone who values you as much as you value them. This is why it’s worth it to not give up. Everything is going to be so good so soon if you keep moving forward. The worst thing you can do is give up on yourself. Love yourself more than anyone else because you are the main character in your life, and when you have no one, you will have yourself. You are worth learning to love.
i love you homie
i actually needed this. it feels no one gives a shit about me other than my bf and idk..just feels weird to have him as the only person who seems to genuinely give a shit about me. not even my "friends" check in.
You have no idea how much these words rescued me right in this moment. I really needed that.
„when you have no one, you will have yourself”. Wow. I needed that thank you. Hope I will get over her ASAP
i really needed to hear this i kinda wanna cry lol thank u sm
"......but it's even more heartbreaking"
*Clicks immediately*
Same...
pp
oops
Like immediately
sameeeeeee
i’m just a little ℎ𝑒𝑎𝑟𝑡𝑏𝑟𝑜𝑘𝑒𝑛 and 𝙡𝙤𝙣𝙚𝙡𝙮
Same girl honestly it's getting a little too much..
Same 😞😭
Your not alone...But don’t worry I’m here for you❤️😊
Me too 😞
I hope you’re doing just fine, girl. I know how you feel, I swear.
I don’t even have anyone to be sad over i’m just here to vibe
Knew I wasn't the only one
THE WHOLE MOOD OMG
same mate
I wish I were you
same tho
"𝘐'𝘥 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘸𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘮𝘢𝘳𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘥 𝘪𝘯 𝘢𝘯 𝘢𝘭𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘯𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘶𝘯𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘦. 𝘗𝘳𝘰𝘮𝘪𝘴𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶'𝘭𝘭 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘮𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘯𝘦𝘹𝘵 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦?"
Is that from a movie?
:(
This is so sad :c
this.
THE HAIKYUU STANS ARE WEEPING
do u ever feel that emptiness in your heart that you can’t explain
I've tried to explain it so many times... I just can't. Everyone asks what's wrong and I can't respond with anything but nothing I'm ok!
All the time
Yessssss
That’s called depression
Yeah its called post-nut depression.. At least that's my case.
I'm not even brokenhearted but these comments make my heart ache y'all T_T
Don't worry guys! It'll all be better
Sana pfp🥰
im mina woah Sana and Mina 🤣💕
Sana 😍
it actually never does but thx
Noice Sana
*cries in ᴀ ᴇ s ᴛ ʜ ᴇ ᴛ ɪ ᴄ *
ew
Just played danganronpa 2. Wanted to say I appreciate your profile picture
nice profile picture 😎
👁️💧👄💧👁️
😂
Aren’t we all a bunch of sad and depressed teenagers with a good taste of music? :/
Edit: thanks for the likes and I randomly commented this and i didn’t mean to limit the age or anything as u guys said Depression has no age im so sorry if i ever offended anyone 💕💕
I don't know why, but i love songs like this one but i'm not even depressed or sad
I'm 26 lol
Depression has no age tho 🤣
I'm 22 🤡 need to get it together
I think so
he looks so down today. i was about to come up to him to check him out when i realized that it wasn't my responsibility to do so and that he's waiting for someone else to do it. i was the one who stayed beside him but he never saw me.
You were a good person for being with him, you truly cared for him, it was his mistake if he didn’t see you there. Keep your head up, things will feel better soon. ❤️
ua-cam.com/video/Eeg0oKPk_9E/v-deo.html - listen to this song .... I think u may relate??
this hits close to home. no matter what i did, i wasnt the one he was looking at.
Shit man
omygod i want to hug you and your good heart, i hope someone will truly see you for who u are :(( yakaaaaaap
it’s so crazy how we all have different histories but somehow relate to the same song
we are all a lot more connected than we think
Everything that was said above my comment is a fact
everyone except maybe "Asexuals" or something have very bad relation problems i guess. XD
Julia noca machado this song is so powerful
All humans are made of the same thing
this song will never, and i mean n e v e r stop hitting different.
deadass
going on 7 years strong now
It is gonna be alright, i promise. 🌻
I hope you feel better soon xx
things will get better, sending u positive vibes
Wishing you an amazing future :)
Dont give up on yourself and stay strong. I believe in you
Please promise me that you won’t drink anymore
The same happened to me too he told me that he needed me, that he thinks about me every day and I couldn’t even count how many times he told me that he loved me.. but after that look he left
i think i speak for all of us when i say: ✨pain✨
yeah ok what half these kids in this comment section are going through isnt fucking pain lmao
Exactly it's all depression from love
Nah
For me it'd be more like ✨vibes✨
we're all in spain but the s is silent😔
I self sabotaged every relationship I've ever had. I don't know why I do it, and I usually don't realize I've done it until later
sameeee
Awww Im so sorry. I know you can learn from your mistakes and make things better, I believe in you.
Same, and now I'm in a relationship with someone i really love and care, but i fucked up 2 times with him bc of my sense in self sabotage. I'm trying my best to not lost him, he's an angel and the love of my life i don't know if i can handle lose him 😭
Yeah me too.. here I am 3am realizing most problems that occur in my relationship are because I get in my own way.
Yeah I feel that. But if you feel like you self sabotaged it, it’s probably because they’re making you feel like you did. I felt that way until I realized my reasons were valid, but they threw the whole “I’m sorry but if you really feel that way then we shouldn’t be a thing anymore” kind of thing. We tend to overthink when somebody makes you feel that way when in reality it most likely isn’t your fault as to how things happen. People are just immature sometimes.
he got engaged now and i still can't tell him how i feel about him, he looks so happy :)
Im sorry.. I cannot tell you to forget him because that would just make you miss him even more. But It takes time. I promise you that you will find someone that will love you so much.
it will get better♥️
If it really means so much to you, you HAVE to tell him, itl be a weight off of your chest and you wont have anything to regret later on, but dont expect him to say yes, just to acknowledge
@@memereview7415 but then again though, it would be putting a strain on him and conflicting him which could possibly put more pain on all parties involved. While I agree, such strong feelings sometimes should be said, sometimes you gotta let them go and let them be happy even if it isn't with you. It's a painful part of life but you will have your own happiness later. It really depends on the circumstances but if it were me, I wouldn't tell him and let him go to his new happiness. My time will come. (again it varies from circumstance though)
you HAVE TO tell him! in Roadkill they sing „if you don't shoot, then you'll never know
you should've learned that quite a while ago” soooo:)))
Never even dated anyone before but this still makes me miss my ex
Yeah I understand, I don't have an ex neither but i'm in a relationship and listening to this song makes me miss my bf like he doesn't like me anymore and i'm crying (like it's not real but I feel that way)
@@mooniy9252 just preparing yourself
lmao
@@mooniy9252
Same but backwards
Im falling out of it (it’s draining)
but I also dont want it to end
💯
He said "I wish I had a girl with your personality" I know that means he doesn't like how I look
Omgg🥺🥺your beautiful don’t let anyone say anything about you
hey beautiful, he’s not worth it❤️ don’t let your head down, your crown might fall bub
dude, she hates my personality too. :(
Fck 😔
I know exactly how that feels bb 💔
i just want to give this whole comments section a big hug 😔
I wish 😞
same i just want to bottle up and send all my love to everyone here 🥺💞
Thank you :(
❤️❤️🥺
Thanks really.
we are all just depressed and suicidal kids telling other kids to be happy .
i mean... yea.
Bruh why did I just-
I'm not depressed... I look at the world from a different point of view... I have supportive parents I love myself. Life isn't easy ya know.. and valuing other people's opinions used to be my first priority but now I don't care.. we only live once and worrying about some people just looking at you is bs but sadly we overthink.. even though I don't know what you go through its gonna be okay in the end I promise you.. even though Im not in your life, if you try your best in something.. and NOT give up it'll get better you'll feel peace once in your life just try
@@originaleslie thank you so much that really helped me .Thanks you all who actually care .Im better now so thanks :)
@@sarahjoseph8646 please don’t think about committing suicide or self harm. Never let bad things make you feel like you have a bad life. We all go through pain sometimes but it’s not called life if there’s no pain :) I’m happy that you feel better now, but if it ever happens again always remember that there will always be better days ahead.
i fell in love with someone who i wasn’t even dating. *a different type of pain :’)*
felt
Sameeee.
especially when they dont like you back, oh god.
same. it hurts so much
same!
I’m in a happy relationship nearly 2 years, but this song still makes me cry. This is either going to be the guy I’m going to marry or my biggest heartbreak and that scares me so much.
Omg I'm literally in the same situation!! I'm just so scared, we're still so young so will we be able to marry each other really?? Or will we break up?? I'm so anxious😔
same
Do whatever makes you happy because the days aren't coming back
Please, don't take that time for granted. I was in the same boat and in the end, it was heartbreak. Cherish the time you have together and love him like it's your last day together. That is my biggest regret.
I've been with my loved one for three and a half years and I'm also really scared, even though there's literally no sign of us spliting. we are each others firsts too. if the breakup ever comes the world will never be the same
i’m not sad or heartbroken right now, i’m just feeling empty
i hope things get better for you soon. hang in there, you got this. this too will pass. sending you love
related
I feel you
oh god same
Swag
This is the perfect song for overthinking about how you are 26 in 4 days and don't have a career or anything meaningful in your life while other people you know and your exes have steady jobs, starting to move in together and having a family. Its like you're standing in some void and you cant move forward
MarinaMars wow I felt this.. 28 and no idea what to do with my life.. hang in there
@@mmmmaite Also 28 about to turn 29. I don't think anyone really knows what they want out of life and what they want to do.
I know you, and others who have commented, will find their path. You're loved. As someone much older I know it's a marathon.
Are we living the same life??
Its currently 3am where I am, I'm only 23 and I completely relate to what you're saying.
This song is so well-written.
It manages to be emotive, relaxing, and danceable, all at the same time.
I love seeing guys like The 1975 come along and create pop music with actually meaningful lyricism and quality musical construction.
Jay Are if u like the 1975 you best listen to the neighbourhood
Yes!!!!
this comment passed the vibe check
They are so good :)
Exactly
my fav sad got even sadder... now my best fave... lol i can't even english
same
I cant english either
This kinda gave me a headache reading it
I think I just had a stroke
i love this comment haha...SAME
I really do be crying myself to sleep again tonight✌😪
hey, i love you. idk if you need it or smth. head up, the crown is falling
@@jumpofftheclive i--😔💞💕💗💖💓
Hel it’s part of my bedtime routine now-
Kinsley Isabelle same :3
Every single night :)
I was sexually assaulted by two people I trusted more than anything; I was in love with one of them. He helped me get through the pain of the first assault and then proceeded to do the same thing to me months later. Still trying to heal 4 years later.
i'm so sorry that happened to you. that's messed up... i can't promise you things will get better, but i really hope they do. you deserve to heal and i hope you can. i love you and i'm always her to talk if you want to. 💕
That's horrible im so truly sorry. I know you will heal and I hope one day you'll be okay. You have all the right to keep hurting. Im so sorry and i wish i could give u a hug :( ily❤
I'm so sorry to hear you've gone through that. I went through an eerily similar thing 4 years ago as well. Healing requires time, and love, and acceptance. It's terribly hard, but eventually you will make it through, and you will heal. 🌻
wtf, screw them never trust anybody
Wish you get peace and love
Finally met the person I relate to so deeply and when he confessed he liked me, he said he’s moving away for university so he wanted to be just friends. We haven’t talked in months :)
I know it sounds cliche but things happen for a reason. You never know how this interaction with this guy might turn out in the future. And even if he isn’t the one for you, plenty more will come and you will find someone, one day who is just as compatible with you, if not more. I know it hurts, but give it time. ❤️
talk to him
SIKE nah thank you. It’s really hard for me to think of being compatible with other people, bc I feel like that’s so rare for me. But I think Im just subconsciously setting myself up for failure by thinking like that. I’ll try to be more open to possibilities. Thank you!
sunshine garden I’d like to, it just seems a bit useless. I’d like to keep him as a friend but it’s intimidating due to how we left things
Hope M it’s such a rare thing to find someone who relates to you that deeply. i don’t think you want to lose that. even if you just stay friends, it’s good to keep in touch with him. a simple “hey, how you’ve been, long time no see” and maybe you can have a decent conversation. just some stupid advice from a stranger, but then again it’s your choice. do you really want to lose what you had?
They way u looked at her and danced with her makes me feel that shes the one for u. those months that i saw u staring at me and walking pass by me by accident makes me feel im just a somebody else for u. damn its hard to forget u.
he doesn't deserve u
men ain't shit. ladies, cheer up ⊂(・﹏・⊂)
You will find the right one and you deserve it and I can't tell you what to feel I just hope you find the right one soon.
Noone is "the right" person for someone. If you love them. Fight for them.
No matter how many days,nights, months have passed, he’s still, and will always be on my mind...
same.
I felt this .
same unfortunately
20 years old and I didn't know women struggle getting over men. I thought it was only men.
eventually everytime you remember that person, it wont hurt you anymore... it'll be a learning. i promise you
Sad when you’re building castles in your mind for someone who probably doesn’t even think about you.
u deserve more likes
I love your comment. I can feel it in my bones.
this hit so close to the heart............
Bae now im crying....this hits hard💔
ik
*I cannot compete with her. There’s no point.*
Same, damn. Wanna talk?
if you have to be in competition with someone, they aren’t worth it. you should be the only choice.
🥺
same. i mean, i'm not a "contender" to begin with. big yikes and big sad huh
Feel u
"You'll find the girl of your dreams someday" she tells me, unaware that I'm looking right at her as she talks of a man she'd been seeing recently
(I understand that's almost exactly like a lyric in this fucking song which is why I'm here, hurting lol)
i hope you find someone who is beyond what you could have ever dreamt about. = ]
That hit
She told me that I hadn't found the "one" yet. I didn't have the balls to tell her that the "one" was standing right in front of me.
jelle boerma You should tell her King you only live once and we both know you’ll regret it you don’t tell her how you truly feel about her and if she doesn’t feel the same don’t worry King you have your whole life to find your true Queen hope this helps
that lyric “i’m reminded that i should be getting over it” hits so hard every time i swear 2:43
“Damn we are kinda lonely...you’ll find that girl don’t worry” she says without her knowing she’s ‘that girl’
You should tell her how you feel! I told my crush and even though I didn't work out I have no regrets, it made me into a different person that I love even more
This how it feels when u like ur friend sad shit
Damn that's so fucking relatable exact thing I'm going through rn man
@@potatoyoutube9225 I fall for the people I spend more time with...so it seems becoming friends is always the problem...just can’t do anything right
I dont even have an excuse for feeling sad, it’s my fault for pushing everyone away
Same for me, I can’t even explain it , maybe my conscience feels that being alone is better but I think it’s worst and it hurts me :( I even don’t feel comfortable with the few friends I have , sometimes I juste think that there’s something wrong with me.
I feel what you’re saying so much and hope everything will be soon good for u !
@@meytrinity1543 REALLY THOUGH its like something in me wants to die alone
Someone hurt you before you began pitching everyone away.
It happened to all the best
I just got hit with a ton of bricks reading that... Damn... I'm the same.
dude literally like i want someone to love me but i also wanna die alone cause why not
i swore that I didn’t want them anymore and maybe it was me being stupid again but when I realized how quickly you had moved on to a better healthier relationship, it just completely destroyed me
Not to be mean, but if they moved on to a better & healthier relationship, then that probably says something about you, if it is, then find that problem and make sure to fix it, take it from someone who’s had experiences just like this
Find the mistakes from this relationship, grow from it, learn. And give yourself time to heal, give yourself time to sort yourself look at what went wrong and where. I know you can improve, i believe in you❤️
I relate to that sm
@@catalinadog157 yeah, tbh i was in a pretty dark place and that made me think I wasn't 'relationship material' so I pushed the person away and everything literally went to hell, no worries tho, I got to learn and grow from the experience and your comment would've helped me a lot at the time
5 years down the drain. He’s going to say those same words to another. I’m going to be better than this. One day.
I believe in u🥺
You will, we all get over him in the end. Stay strong, you'll get there x
You’re going to get through this, because you are *amazing*
if you ever need to talk i can give you my instagram and just know that theres so many people who are going through the same thing and you arent in this alone and it gets better. head up your crown is falling 👑 :)
Yes you are. Stay strong and look forward.
Everyone in the comments: going through a sad breakup
me: studying for an English exam...
anyone else sad over people you never dated? ..i left without ever saying anything to my crush....literally felt magnetically attracted to him since he interviewed me last year, barely knew him really -- but his voice and gaze made me melt....i didn't want to cross professional boundaries and we worked in diff departments so avoiding him was easy...i left this january without saying a word because i always reject myself before others do ......(i don't know if i imagined hearing my name in his conversations with my managers who sat behind me and whether i imagined his gaze on me sometimes but i wish i hadn't left what i felt unspoken....)
It is better that way, some people are meant for only pit stop in our life. But your feelings are valid and you might learn something over your feelings for him. I hope you will find another guy and he will give you the same feelings you have for him ❤️
i’m currently trying to get over my crush... it sucks :(
My crush kissed someone else and I’m mad at him for it... he has no idea I felt some way about him.
@@shaaadah4858 Thank you. I wouldn't feel bad if I had expressed interest and got rejected. The problem is that I don't KNOW if he WAS interested because I never gave made any move or gave him any opportunity. I failed to say anything the last week of work. I think rejection is better than regret. I really feel like he would have probably asked me out or asked for my number if I even bothered to talk to him the last week of work. Oh well.
I kissed mine and we never got to date cuz she supposedly said she didn’t have time for a relationship but soon after was dating someone..I’m not sure that was the reason.
I pride myself on being emotionally numb
same
I would love to be that, but I’m a very emotional person so those pesky emotions pop up all the time
@@sleepyontime5513 I used to be very emotional and I hated it, then I became emotionally numb and I miss being emotional.
I’m constantly fighting against my numbness
I wish
he dumped me. on quarantine. over text. worst thing is, we weren’t even properly dating, so i feel like i cant even be sad about it...
all ur feelings r valid thoo, losing someone always hurts but it gets better with time i promise💕
Sending hugs to you. I'm here if you want to talk bc I feel you. :((
this exact thing happened to me, it was the worst
omg I felt this..
you are entitled to your feelings. you are allowed to be upset. don't beat yourself up over it
In case anyone wants to know, that is Atsuko.
She's mourning the death of her son and drowning it in alcohol. The anime is Yu Yu Hakusho. She's the main character's single mom.
My favorite thing about this type of videos is reading the comments and seeing how broken everyone is. We all have different reasons and backgrounds but then we feel the same emptiness and void that seems to never go away, until we feel that euphoric state. Everything seems so great and u want to hold onto it forever. Then some time after those lows you reflect on it and release it wasn’t that bad. Maybe you were just being dramatic and that’s supposed to make u feel better but it makes me feel dumb. To not know how to handle my emotions ,especially when it comes to another person. If it’s me, okay I get it sometimes I can be a pussy but at the end of the day that’s what life is, highs and lows. Learning from experience and realizing that we have less time in our hands each day. Well who knows we can die tomorrow or in 30 years and that’s a trashy move but for that same reason I decided to not give a fuck and do what I want.
That was kinda long and ew feelings but you get me
To whoever is reading this, I got you.
not crazy at all because kids these days are too retarded to understand that their life has just begun. disclaimer to everyone: dont do whatever you want bad fucking advice
hefty magic climate change said no ❤️
hefty magic please don’t use the r slur :)
@@heftymagic4814 yes I'll do whatever the fuck I want.
You're mad cuz you probably made so many mistakes growing up, or probably didn't make any and regret it now because mistakes help you learn (not talking about killing someone obviously)
hey. all of you who are wondering why you have this “un fillable” void in your life.. it’s because Jesus is yet to fill that void. He will bring you happiness, pure joy, success, and He will be your definition of love. He never promised to take away the storm, but He did promise to be with you through it. Jesus is the only one who can fill that void. Sex, money, drugs, relationships, porn, social media, alcohol, partying will never be enough to fill that void. Only Jesus can.
he broke me. he emotionally drained me and manipulated me but the worse part is he called it love. he was my everything and now my biggest regret and heartbreak. but i cant hate him, i dont think i have the heart to. i just wish him the best and hope that he learns from the way he treated me.
I went through a very similar situation. Hang in there. You are strong ❤️
I feel u, same thing
this explains what I’ve been feeling. I don’t want him back but for some reason him with somebody else just...idk..it’s sad
Are you inside my head
as a boy in this comment section. if he is like that, he isn’t gonna change, just feel good that you managed to get away from him.
This song kinda wakes the depression in me and cleans it. The depression goes down as tears falls down my eyes.
i see the way he looks at her and my heart breaks every time.
my ex gf gave me a promise ring while fallingforyou was playing at the concert.
i haven’t listened to the 1975 in a while for a reason,
idk why i did this to myself ffs
oh this comment broke my heart, i hope someday you can listen to the 1975 without feeling any pain..i still think of my ex girlfriend when i hear “the night we met”, but it doesn’t hurt anymore, i don’t think of her during the entire song, she’s just a little thought in the back of my mind, you might not be able to stop her from popping up in your mind but i promise it will stop hurting someday💗💗💗💗
damn that honestly sucks. I hope you’re doing okay 💖
It’s not that I’m afraid to be alone, I’m great at it, it’s just I’m afraid to let someone that close to me again, anyone else relate?
thanks for the likes guys but i finally did it, i got a gf again and hopefully this goes better than the last
More than i care to admit
so damn afraid...
it ends in hurt again and i am so scared of this feeling :(
bingo
I feel you..
There are 4 stages of getting over someone. 1: hurt and heartbreak. This stage is probably the most stressful knowing that this situation is a fresh wound and it still needs time to heal. 2: Overthinking/flooded thoughts. This stage tests your mental stability and really messes with your brain. You think of all the things that you could’ve been with that person. Personally, this is the hardest stage for me. It’s like a war inside your brain that makes you do things you never would normally do. 3: Memories and nostalgia. Now, you miss the feelings you had and you crave them. You still feel emotionally bruised and you almost forgot about the person, but you didn’t forget about the feelings you had. Now is the time that you might try to move on with someone else but in the end, nothing works out the way you want it. You just wanna forget about the person completely but feelings might still be there. The final stage (4) is accepting and moving on. This stage sometimes can last for a long time depending on how fast you are able to move on. This stage you most likely will try to focus on yourself and in general you will need self love and know your worth. You realize how badly the situation impacted you and you’re afraid to go through that again. Sooner or later, the right person will come into your life while you’re not even focused on it. When you learn to love yourself and not be so desperate to find someone, the right person will randomly come into your life without you expecting it.
And then your ex texts you after all that saying they messed up and they want you back
This is so true been there for 17-18 years until now.
I just miss the nights we would talk to each other for hours even some days going from 10pm to 5am i miss her but i don't want her back yet i do so much and its just wack man
@@wassabro9527 Im sorry to hear that bro here ''picks up crown'' 👑 you'll need this. I know that feeling
Where’s the part where you are fine and then see them with someone else and cry?
she's prettier
she's more curvy
she trusted
she's kind
she's smart
she's playfull
she generous
she everything im not...
but I could never hate her...
because.. she my sister
swat home Alabama...
But youre also many things shes not. She doesnt have the amazing music taste you have for example ;) don't compare yourself to her its not fair. You're amazing in your own way. Start trying to love yourself a bit more :)
@@larisaioana6338 swat
@@Gabriela-x2t,
Word.
I can definitely recognize the envy of someone who seems better than you, and it's quite a complicated feeling to have, but I want to tell you that no-one is perfect, and this applies to all of us. Having our own flaws, like depression and anxiety, doesn't mean that we're bad people. While I believe that many people have gone through some dark times, including the majority of this comment section, I also believe that this is what makes them brave souls. Adversity is a horrible thing, but it can also have a positive impact on your character, and as such you can grow stronger from the experience. 😊
It sucks knowing he won’t ever love me back... but my brain still can’t get over him.
You are not alone
That’s okay, hopefully you’ll find someone better who won’t make you think of him. Most importantly ☝🏽, you don’t need nobody but yourself, remember that. But I understand the feeling of wanting something
Did you tell him you were in love? I am asking because it's amazing how many times people won't risk the pain of rejection. If you have ever truly loved someone the rest of the universe could crumble and fall away and as long as you were with them you'd be just fine with it. Also.. if a person is rude to you when they tell you they don't feel the same, they aren't worth the time anyways.
he obviously doesn't see how great you are, he's missing out. Wait tell the person that genuinely loves you for who you are to come around. I promise they'll be there on day.
You will, time heals everything.
Speaking by experience.
Led lights on blue, hoodie on, laying down looking at the ceiling and crying
Damn 1k likes thanks
pink leds make me saddest bc i used to always cry to them
I miss having LED lights omg
THIS
Girl same
...??? same 😭😭😭😂
and he’s getting married in july..
I‘m so sorry but you will get through this and you will be happy again💖
I wish I was more attractive looking to people, because thats what people go for, NEVER THE PERSONALITY, NEVER FAITHFULNESS OR LOYALTY OR WHAT BUT ATTRACTIVENESS
One day you'll find someone that sees right through looks and straight into your heart. Dont hurry it, start loving yourself a bit more :) ❤
Sometimes, I don't like how I look either, and I happen to experience some symptoms of body dysmorphia. For instance, sometimes I don't like my skinny arms or, especially, my height of 5'5" for a guy like me. That said, someday, we will find someone who will not only find us attractive in some way, but also love us for the people we were meant to become.
you’re beautiful
can you do girls like girl by hayley kiyoko but you’re in bar and just broke up
sTOP IT THIS HITS TOO CLOSE AT HOME
redf1are_ YESS!
Thats gay
@@emilysteinberg6524 lmao yeah that's their point innit💀
HELPSLK
no one: youtube: lol watch this
lol like they want you to be depressed....
UA-cam: I see you're depressed
also UA-cam: Let me recommend some more depressing content for ya
To my soon to be ex wife: I am sorry I couldn’t make our dreams come true.I’ll never stop remembering what we had - I love you.
i'm sorry for whatever you're going through. you're extremely strong do you hear me? you'll get better. things will get better okay? please keep moving forward !! :)
it’s very beautiful if you can still be like that for her this comment made me cry, let times flow always remember change is never a bad thing in the long run❤️
Please don't look back and say, "oh no they are breaking and need me". They don't Please for the love of God become healthy and move on my parents made that mistake and I found out why my mom didn't like my dad, they will always seem like the one But do know we our hearts can break but become stronger. Hope everyone that reads this is healthy and loves themselves
ugh it sucks when you can't tell someone how you really feel about them because you already know that they will not love you back.
You can tell someone how you feel because you're hoping to get what you want/think they'll reciprocate, or you can tell them because it feels damn good to be authentic and speak your truth. Fuck the rest 🙏💚💜💙
@@JulieMae i wish i have the courage :)
The worst part about it is when you do tell them and they say they love you too but were faking it all this time
Lyrics:
So I heard you found somebody else
And at first I thought it was a lie
I took all my things that make sounds
The rest I can do without
I don't want your body
But I hate to think about you with somebody else
Our love has gone cold
You're intertwining your soul with somebody else
I'm looking through you while you're looking through your phone
And then leaving with somebody else
No, I don't want your body
But I'm picturing your body with somebody else
Come on baby
This ain't the last time that I'll see your face
Come on baby
You said you'd find someone to take my place
I just don't believe that you have got it in you 'cause
We are just gonna keep 'doin' it' and everytime
I start to believe in anything you're saying
I'm reminded that I should be getting over it
I don't want your body
But I hate to think about you with somebody else
Our love has gone cold
You're intertwining your soul with somebody else
I'm looking through you while you're looking through your phone
And then leaving with somebody else
No, I don't want your body
But I'm picturing your body with somebody else
I don't want your body, I don't want your body
I don't want your body, I don't want your body
I don't want your body, I don't want your body
Get someone you love?
Get someone you need?
Fuck that, get money
I can't give you my soul 'cause we're never alone
Get someone you love?
Get someone you need?
Fuck that, get money
I can't give you my soul 'cause we're never alone
Get someone you love?
Get someone you need?
Fuck that, get money
I can't give you my soul 'cause we're never alone
Get someone you love?
Get someone you need?
Fuck that, get money
I can't give you my soul 'cause we're never alone
I don't want your body
But I hate to think about you with somebody else
Our love has gone cold
You're intertwining your soul with somebody else
I'm looking through you while you're looking through your phone
And then leaving with somebody else
No, I don't want your body
But I'm picturing your body with somebody else
everyone in this comment section talking about someone: i feel you. i’m here listening to this song for a reason lmao. but here’s what you’re gonna do. you’re gonna finish the video, and then you’re gonna go do a good thing for yourself, and move on. bc they aren’t worth it, whoever they are. go live your best life without them. you deserve it, and you’ll get to a place where you’re happy again. it takes a little time, but definitely worth the wait.
thank you for all this effort, you are truly amazing❣
I needed this. Thank you so much
@@h3neystars @kielee dowell thank u omg
@@pranavkrishna3541 go girlie!! glad it helped
Everyone usually tells me this, but this one feels so much more genuine than all the others saying this. Like I really felt comforted when I read this. Thank u so much.
"I always like walking in the rain, so no one can see me crying."-Charlie Chaplin
i like his name
it's even worse when that "somebody else" is your bestfriend 🥺
i looked at the replies, are you guys okay? I'm here if you need someone to talk to
same
The accuracy:(
True :(
Same :(
That hit too close to home
I just feel like i’m ruining things because i’m afraid of being treated the same as before.
I can't believe I found this comment and it literally describes my whole situation :((
Omg me too and idk what to do
You deserve the best bb
Same same same
😔
I saw everyone else doing this and I absolutely never comment on anything but she took her own life last year and I still miss her with everything I have. We had a daughter that we lost and things were never the same for either of us, I still wish she would’ve found somebody else who could’ve been stronger for her
I’m so sorry for your loss, I know you might not believe me when I say this but things will get better for you, I promise you that you’ll manage to find happiness somewhere in this dark world. Keep your head up or your crown might fall ❤️👑
I'm so sorry to hear this, I know it gets so hard it's almost unbearable but I swear a new sun will shine for you. I hope it all gets better soon, keep your head up champ
❤️❤️
I’m sorry but also it’s not your fault and I bet you were strong and did your best. What happened is really sad and I can’t begin to understand the pain but I don’t want to place blame on yourself or think if you were better you could’ve stopped it.
❤️
falling deep in love and she says “you deserve someone who can give you everything” although i’m looking into the eyes of “everything” i’ve always wanted.
i get high every night to drive away the thoughts that haven’t changed in years.
not alone
we are the same soul different body.
Same here
me too, we're in this together
woah
i’m not sobbing like a baby when i hear this song anymore so that’s improvement right?
You are numb
AbelTesfayeXO i just got a gf i’m so happy, a lot can happen in 2 weeks damn
im so happy for you🥺
Good for you mate. Clean your room. :D
good for youuuu
I’m in love with someone who doesn’t feel the same or at least won’t communicate how he feels towards me and there I am giving him my all and not knowing if he is gonna reciprocate the same.
Same
Same
same (3)
So I fell out of love with him and now I feel empowered it’s such a great feeling and y’all it does suck but damn does it feel to be able to love yourself the way you loved them ✨🤍
this video popped up right after i got cheated on and honestly...its helpin me grow a lil
sydney johnson i’m so sorry omg
I'm so sorry. I hope you're doing better :)
i'm sorry. sending u extra love!!
She chose to leave. I fought for us. I lost. Terribly. Also, UA-cam recommend is the worst.
When your emotionally unavailable because of trauma and having to bottle everything up and force your self to smile everyday and your whole life you feel like your the only one who’s really gonna know what it feels like to feel a certain way but are so afraid of showing emotion because your afraid of the rejection it may lead to, and then you meet people that want to know what you went through but your scared that they leave like the past other did, or they just don’t care anymore so you shut everyone out and they move on and they’re happy with out you and u just think about what could have been if you just opened up
sometimes it's really hard to open up, and that's okay. it's something everyone eventually has to have the courage to do, but it can take time to be ready. just know that there are people in your life who love and care about you and if they truly do, showing them emotion won't lead to rejection. if anything those people will receive you with open arms and accept the way you feel, hopefully prepared to help you through it. you matter! i know opening up is scary but bottling things up will probably only cause you pain, i've done it. trust the people you care about, you are so strong. truly you are. you are so important and special and i know we don't know each other but that doesn't change the fact that you matter immensely. please never forget your worth
LMAO NO NEED TO BE SO LOUD
I opened up. They opened up to me. Now they are my best friends.
Ailani Vega I pushed him away I just know he’s gonna move on I’m so fucking sad it’s always me
One of the most important people in my life was & is like this ☺️ we weren’t able to keep our relationship because of those reasons, worries, and issues. It hurts on my end... cause for example- I want to be there her... the one I love but who struggles... but I couldn’t & can’t always be. Thus that is also the reason behind why we no longer talk... But you know what my biggest dream is? Which may definitely never become reality- it’s... that one day she finds the strength to make & build relationships- and to feel secure enough to do so. Then....maybe, just maybe, I can be in her life again ☺️ but I remain certain that my never happen... so even if it can’t be... I’ll still wish her all the best for her life & keep our memories deep in my heart.
I'm slowly accepting the fact that you're already happy with her.
right when i thought this song couldn’t be more heartbreaking -
This was my girlfriend and I in a toxic relationship. This song makes sense in a different way at different points of time. But now that I love her but I don't want her here anymore, it makes sense differently.
Same
most times i listen to this song, i’m sad, it’s 3am and i’m crying myself to sleep again but today, it’s 12:21pm and this makes me happy, i’m vibing but i’m sad, maybe i’m getting better? finally getting better.
scrap that, my life’s a mess and i’m broken 😗
@@kellyrobinsonx665 nooooooo :
I feel like you, I hope to get better too everyday
Cristinavps i’m sorry 🥺🥺i just can’t handle stuff anymore
Milagros Montalvan i’m sorry you feel this way, good luck 🥺🤍
he said “i think i did lose feelings awhile ago but didn’t know how to tell you. i don’t wanna lose you.” the worst breakup i could’ve imagined.
im so sorry babe, itll get better
the way she literally left me for somebody else
Im sorry that happened, you don’t deserve something like that to happen to you, no one does. You’ll push through the pain and the hurt, you’ll be ok. ❤️
I can’t have a real relationship because I’m too worried that the person I’m with isn’t supposed to be the person I’m with so I’m stuck longing for somebody I don’t even know exists and end up leaving every relationship I’m in because it doesn’t feel right.
this is exactly how i feel. i’m so glad someone else feels exactly the same way as me, whoever you are
literally was just thinking this
love is never a waste of time. love is never the wrong thing to do.
Reminds me a lot of the dodie song “When”.
In the song she sings,
“I'd rather date an idea
Something I'll never find...”
In this case the idea would be the idea of soulmates. I’ve had quite a few good cries to this song. I recommend it if you guys ever want to let it all out every now and then!
I personally don't believe in this whole "the one" thing. There are billions of people in the world. Of course there isn't just one person that's meant for you. Like you said don't ruin something good that you have because of a fantasy that you don't even know exists.
The person I like doesn’t care about me, he just want to have sex. But I do love him and I feel so sad because I know he wants to be with other girls
I'm in the exact same situation as youuu
Charlotte Loh you don’t love him, you love the idea of him. Love does not hurt, it grows.
Felt this, he talks about all the things he wants to do to me..but he doesn’t even know my last name. Or my favorite color..
It’s important to know the difference between when a guy is lost in your eyes rather than your body, I have a lot sexual frustrations but I would give up anything for a girl who thinks like me
13eni I hope you find one ❤️
Damn this really does hit different after a break-up in comparison to just feeling empty on a Sunday night
i wanted a future with him, he was amazing. he was my best friend, but he needs to heal from the inside to learn how to reciprocate love and i had to leave. it hurts to know what we could’ve had and the potential we had, but i was giving and not recieving. i miss him and our good times but i knew our future would leave me empty if he never helped himself. the one time i did something for myself and now we out here having an ~existential crisis~
same thing is happening with me ...
azu fg Me too
Same
Wow this same thing happened to me stay strong ☹️💕
I felt this in my soul :(
this makes me want to be kissed on the forehead and told its gonna be ok
shut up
hefty magic no 😌❤️
hey, its gonna be okay. everything is going to be okay. keep holding on and please take care of yourself, because you deserve to be loved and happy.
@@fryingpan7185 youre doing just fine how you are !! youre making more progress than you think
good job today im proud of you, be kind to yourself okay? :** 😽😼
i don't have anyone to be sad about anymore i'm just ... sad.
:)
ruby issa mood
i was gonna say same but theres still some people..
i fell in love with him in a month and he promised me he wouldn’t leave me. he lied. this was our song
oh hey i’m back and i’m crying again lol
@@ajingalls83 Lol hey!
@@ajingalls83 same lol
:(
@@eleniex i completely forgot about this LMFAO
Face it we purposely looked this up to cry about the person we miss the most
Lyrics:
So I heard you found somebody else
And at first I thought it was a lie
I took all my things that make sounds
The rest I can do without
I don't want your body
But I hate to think about you with somebody else
Our love has gone cold
You're intertwining your soul with somebody else
I'm looking through you while you're looking through your phone
And then leaving with somebody else
No, I don't want your body
But I'm picturing your body with somebody else
Come on baby
This ain't the last time that I'll see your face
Come on baby
You said you'd find someone to take my place
I just don't believe that you have got it in you 'cause
We are just gonna keep 'doin' it' and everytime
I start to believe in anything you're saying
I'm reminded that I should be getting over it
I don't want your body
But I hate to think about you with somebody else
Our love has gone cold
You're intertwining your soul with somebody else
I'm looking through you while you're looking through your phone
And then leaving with somebody else
No, I don't want your body
But I'm picturing your body with somebody else
I don't want your body, I don't want your body
I don't want your body, I don't want your body
I don't want your body, I don't want your body
Get someone you love?
Get someone you need?
Fuck that, get money
I can't give you my soul 'cause we're never alone
Get someone you love?
Get someone you need?
Fuck that, get money
I can't give you my soul 'cause we're never alone
Get someone you love?
Get someone you need?
Fuck that, get money
I can't give you my soul 'cause we're never alone
Get someone you love?
Get someone you need?
Fuck that, get money
I can't give you my soul 'cause we're never alone
I don't want your body
But I hate to think about you with somebody else
Our love has gone cold
You're intertwining your soul with somebody else
I'm looking through you while you're looking through your phone
And then leaving with somebody else
No, I don't want your body
But I'm picturing your body with somebody else
Finally!! thx sm
mariam hamada SAME i literally feel sad for those other comments but they could’ve put the lyrics 👉👈
mariam hamada no problem !
I never wanted to break up with my last girlfriend. I wanted to get better for her ... but she was clearly done with me. And now she’s got a new girlfriend a cat and she’s training to be a fire fighter. And I’m just... like... okay.
Hang in there, I know how it feels.. you guys didn't work out for a reason, try to remember that even if you can't see it rn. You'll find someone right for you who will stick by you no matter what darkness you're going through
Get better for you
Going through the same thing
Get better for you. You deserve it. On a side note, you’re super pretty
We are all just depressed freaks, just vibe to the music weirdo. Let’s be freaks together
Buttt you did this for what ? 😭☹️
he was the worst thing in this world, but i'm still missing him. The heart is an idiot.
Its literally 5 days until my birthday but I'm here crying over someone who I never dated
is your birthday today? happy birthday!
HAPPY LATE BIRTHDAYYY.
@@emmagalloway1456 thank you 😀😄😁
Isn’t life funny. It’s 5 days until my birthday, and I’m also crying over someone who I never dated. I’m crying a lot. I hope you still had a good birthday :)
@@jasonparra9416 hope you have a good birthday. also only cry if you think theyre worth it. dont waste tears
This songs just makes me want to meet someone new that doesn’t even know my name
I really understand now why other people finds comfort in darkness when they are crying in pain
Idk if it only me but when the tear falls from the chin , the beat drops each time ??
I was supposed to start highschool this year. All my friends were in relationships and they all looked so happy. This was the year I was gonna be more presentable, in better shape, be a better person overall. I'm lonely. I see all of my friends talking and having genuine relationships and I want that dammit. I'm not a bad guy, I'm funny, I'm a good listener, I'm nice(ish), I'm not even that bad looking. Dammit I just want someone, someone to hold in my arms, someone to be with, someone who I can hug when I'm feeling rough and they can tell me, "It's all right". I can count the girls I've hugged on one hand, I haven't had my first kiss, I feel like I'm getting left behind. I don't know what to do, I just feel lonely. Some days I'm okay and some days it just hits like a wave of sad and empty. I've tried to cry, but I'm coming up on a whole year without crying. I've tried movies, I've tried sad music and TV shows. Nothing works. I've teared up so many times I can't even count, but nothing will come out. Why? Is there something wrong with me? I've suspected for a while I may have depression, but I don't have a diagnosis so nothing is set in stone. The amount of times I've been the therapist for my friends is unbelievable, I've pried their deepest darkest secrets out of them and helped them through so much, but no one pries anything out of me. I just want someone to care about me as much as I care about them. Dammit I want someone to coax my sadness out of me, to go, "Alright, no one says I'm fine and means it" like I've done to them oh so many times, I want someone to treat me how I treat them. And yet whenever I type this or say it I feel selfish, they're not obligated to care, I know that, but I want them to. Jeez that was long, sorry to rant but this seemed like the place to do it
i had just written a whole reply to this comment and then it autoplayed to a different song and deleted :( but ill just try to rewrite what I wrote before. I feel you. like I feel this in a way that I can't even describe. I want to cry. I want to cry SO badly. but, I just can't. sometimes I feel so empty and I have this overwhelming sense of sadness but its like not sadness its just emptiness because I don't have a reason to be sad. or at least, thats what I tell myself. I brush it off as nothing and tell myself that I shouldn't be sad and then it just happens again another night. I just feel these moments of deep emptiness and sadness that I don't even understand if im being honest. and I just, if I can't even understand it myself how am I gonna tell that to somebody else you know? and just like you said in the beginning, I want that type of relationship where you fall so hard. I want to love someone so badly that I just connect with. but every guy that ive encountered just hasn't been the type that I see myself with in the end. most of the guys ive liked have been just those stupid middle school crushes or I only thought I "liked" them because they liked me back. in the end, its never been the type of attraction I crave. I want that so badly but I know that its going to come at the right time. so I try to stay patient because I feel like God has the right person for me planned at just the right time, but sometimes I can't help but want that so badly. and one more thing, I care. I know idk you but I truly do care. sometimes we can get so caught up in worrying about everyone else, that in the end we just forget to worry about ourselves. and even if theres nobody who seems to check up on you and truly ask you how YOU have been doing, ill be that person. truly, if you need someone to talk to, im here. I relate to what you've said in a way I haven't truly even been able to phrase it myself. so yeah, sorry for my rant I just felt comfortable saying it here :)
i feel you. My life is so fucking unfair and i‘m crying all the time. My dad and my great-grandma passed recently and i don‘t know what’s real and what’s fake anymore. Everyone is doing so great in life except me. I‘ve never been in any relationship with a guy and i really fucking want to. Every guy i‘ve talked to just used me for my attention or body. I‘m fucking tired of it damn. I just need a hug from a special person and forget all my worries for the moment. I know how you feel. I commented on your video if you‘d like to talk. Here are my social medias for literally anyone who wants to talk and rant to me. If you need someone, i‘m always available. My IG is @elenaazhh so just text me there. And for everyone who‘s reading this: its gonna be okay i promise. God (or the universe, whatever you prefer) knows what its doing. Just wait, the perfect moment is coming believe me. Even if you’re at your lowest, you can’t end it. Theres always things that you‘d regret. So just keep your head up and try going forward. Love you
This might sound rough, but try going to a therapist if you can. It will help with the not being able to cry problem. Like most guys, I think you haven't learnt to deal with your emotions (it's not your fault, you've been taught this way) and this can be really harmful. It will also help you set boundaries with your friends. It's good to be there for your friends, but don't try to be their therapist: you don't have the knowledge or tools to help them or to handle it, you'll just all get harmed in the process. And please don't get in a relationship just to get healed. Don't involuntarily want another person to heal you: it's not their job, that's what a therapist is for. The right person can help you a little, of course, but be careful with healthy boundaries. The right person for you is there to love you, healing you these problems requires the right knowledge and it's not their job. Happy healing. 💖
idk what to say but we have the same situation and it hurts so bad
You’re strong and you will be okay. You’re still so young, you will find your special someone when it is right and when it is time for you to do so. It’s okay to be alone, it gives you time to build on your own so that when you do find your special someone, you’re able to treat them right. Stop dwelling on what everyone else has, and see how much you have! You have a beautiful life. And I know it’s hard, but I promise you’ll be okay. You are loved. You are supported even by random strangers (evidenced in the replies to your comment). Please don’t forget that and remember your life is just beginning
"𝑶𝒖𝒓 𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒆 𝒉𝒂𝒔 𝒈𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒄𝒐𝒍𝒅."
- me watching my girlfriend slowly drift away.
Why doesn't she want me...
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