Will Jay - Never Been In Love (Official Video)

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  • Опубліковано 5 кві 2018
  • I have a new song out called "Nights Like These" You can listen to it here on your favorite music service. ingroov.es/nights-like-these Please be sure to add it to your playlists. Thank you for your support. It means everything!
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    Directed by Ernie Vasquez and Animation by Bruno Gowtham

КОМЕНТАРІ • 8 тис.

  • @WillJay
    @WillJay  4 роки тому +1877

    I have a new song out called "Nights Like These" You can listen to it here on your favorite music service. ingroov.es/nights-like-these Please be sure to add it to your playlists. Thank you for your support. It means everything!

    • @harrilahti-luopa5953
      @harrilahti-luopa5953 4 роки тому +7

      Marvelous and great

    • @lozzymagoo
      @lozzymagoo 4 роки тому +11

      Just found your channel. Thanks for this song! 😊

    • @poonam2726
      @poonam2726 4 роки тому +3

      I enjoy your every music 🎶 song ❤️❤️🎵🎶🎼❤️❤️🎤❤️❤️❤️

    • @mxsoon
      @mxsoon 4 роки тому +5

      I love this song.. it's so relatable and it gets stuck in my head so many times..

    • @whiskskers
      @whiskskers 4 роки тому +1

      thank you for choosing to pursue music, you're a wonderful artist!

  • @yeehawbabeyy6029
    @yeehawbabeyy6029 4 роки тому +8560

    When my parents tell me "You'll understand when you have a husband and family"
    *A w h a t*

    • @crispcinamonroll2310
      @crispcinamonroll2310 4 роки тому +427

      Yeap. I'm sure that'll "fix" everything.

    • @alinagolovach7125
      @alinagolovach7125 4 роки тому +466

      Crisp Cinamon Roll I once put mascara on and my mom was like ‘is it cause (male friend) is going to be here?” Like can I just wear makeup for me??

    • @crispcinamonroll2310
      @crispcinamonroll2310 4 роки тому +284

      @@alinagolovach7125 Oh yeah that's another thing. Not just us but every women probably dealt with something like that at least once in their life. Why can't we just exist for ourselves you know?

    • @user39104
      @user39104 4 роки тому +149

      Alinka Golovach my mom doesn’t believe that girls can have guy friends because they always always want more so she always acts like that

    • @kaho6129
      @kaho6129 4 роки тому +181

      my grandmother one year ago:"i bet you'll have a boyfriend when you wil be 15" me now, finally 15 but an aro:

  • @dumbfridge7576
    @dumbfridge7576 4 роки тому +7399

    “I’m alone with no loneliness”
    - sincerely, aro/ace people in general and introverted people during quarantine

    • @Mia-vp6xl
      @Mia-vp6xl 3 роки тому +30

      @@Midnight-br3jw feel u. I want that too, yeah I am probably moving in with my best friend lol

    • @annikafalco1405
      @annikafalco1405 3 роки тому +15

      Ima introvert I hate peple

    • @plut0_blu3
      @plut0_blu3 3 роки тому +20

      Yes to both of them! Pretty sure I'm greyromantic asexual and I'm very introverted at times.

    • @plut0_blu3
      @plut0_blu3 3 роки тому +21

      @@Midnight-br3jw thank you! All I need in life is chocolate, good books and movies, dogs, and a great friend. And sleep, you know I'm tired 24/7

    • @Midnight-br3jw
      @Midnight-br3jw 3 роки тому +3

      @@plut0_blu3 mood and 4 halves

  • @thelemondropgirl2140
    @thelemondropgirl2140 4 роки тому +3213

    An aromatic song?!
    And it’s a good song!!
    Wow!!! You can NOT IMAGINE HOW HAPPY THIS MAKES ME!!
    Edit: this was a while ago and I don’t actually identify as Aromantic anymore but I still love this song and I’m happy it exists

    • @vanpheonix1276
      @vanpheonix1276 2 роки тому +180

      Right?! There's too many songs that are just about sex and romance and that just annoys me

    • @bananabanana484
      @bananabanana484 2 роки тому +75

      I mean, I think those songs will always have their place. But yeah, this song is pretty dang refreshing

    • @glorialewis8566
      @glorialewis8566 2 роки тому +21

      It really is a great song :3

    • @clearsky466
      @clearsky466 2 роки тому +3

      Aros when they hear this song:
      (•o•)
      ٩(^◡^)۶
      (/•-•)/ \(•-•\) ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ ヾ( ͝° ͜ʖ͡°)ノ♪
      ᕕ(⌐■_■)ᕗ ♪♬

    • @lilianden3510
      @lilianden3510 2 роки тому +2

      sameee

  • @justarose
    @justarose Рік тому +441

    I also love the attitude to romantic feelings in this song. Like, it's not, "I hate love I'll never fall in love because I don't need it one bit and it's disgusting"; it's "I've never been in love, and I'm okay with that. I might fall in love one day, who knows, but I haven't so far and I don't feel the need to. I don't really care".

    • @borealernadelwald
      @borealernadelwald 11 місяців тому +51

      That's why the song speaks to me. I'm aroace, never been in love and I'm perfectly fine with staying single all my life if it continues to be like this. But I do support my friends with their relationships and it warms my heart whenever my best friend talks about his girlfriend. He is so in love and I'm so happy for him!

    • @dakotamartinez8310
      @dakotamartinez8310 10 місяців тому +4

      I like it too.

    • @Penguinbeast1957i
      @Penguinbeast1957i 23 дні тому

      ​@@borealernadelwald
      For me, I feel maybe I am missing things in life, but by far, never felt love

  • @lolkomi612
    @lolkomi612 4 роки тому +2678

    Older people when a 17 year old kid has a gf/bf: NO! YOURE TOO YOUNG STOP THAT!
    Them when the kid turns 18: So, where is your partner hmm? I want grandkids!!

  • @Lightning-ik3so
    @Lightning-ik3so 4 роки тому +6259

    This song has become a jam for all aromantics.

  • @buttercupsandbreakfast
    @buttercupsandbreakfast 4 роки тому +2616

    Are you sure your aromantic? It could just be a phase, your only *insert age*!
    Me: well for starters,
    1.) never had a crush, fictional, celebrity or anyone in my life
    2.) never been in an relationship and don’t have a desire and don’t think it would be fun
    3.) have tried to force myself to love and can’t imagine myself getting married. I can imagine what would happen, but not the person. Blank face. I have no “type”
    So Karen, shut it.

    • @chaoticaroace4680
      @chaoticaroace4680 4 роки тому +90

      I feel the exact same way, that kinda lives just too boring

    • @ehehehehe2815
      @ehehehehe2815 4 роки тому +5

      so youre asexual

    • @horcruxhailey
      @horcruxhailey 3 роки тому +15

      Aromatics still very sexually attracted to someone and have have sexual desires. They still feel love and can love someone their just not romantic. I think your asexual

    • @gregoriusaxelle2406
      @gregoriusaxelle2406 3 роки тому +29

      OMG i matched all of them
      edit: ive been confused cuz i havent got crushes and i force my self to fall in love but still cant

    • @Self-je9ve
      @Self-je9ve 3 роки тому +11

      Oh flip that fits me perfectly I don't want to be aromantic :( I'm ace but I don't want to be aro, I want love :(

  • @teritt
    @teritt 4 роки тому +4414

    As a pansexual and demiromantic, I respect all you asexuals and aromantics out there, love y’all platonically 💕

  • @noelharris5294
    @noelharris5294 4 роки тому +4226

    Me: *is single*
    Friends: "What? You don't want a boyfriend?"
    Me: "I never said that. I just don't want it RIGHT NOW."
    *I need to focus on my own crap before I take care of someone else*

    • @rainbowflowerpower4464
      @rainbowflowerpower4464 4 роки тому +170

      Noël Harris yes I broke up with my boyfriend because my depression became so bad that I just couldn’t give someone love and support if I can’t even do that yet for myself, a lot of people didn’t understand this which made me sad and quite surprised, it’s not such a hard thing to understand, I just feel like I need and honestly want to work on loving myself before I try to romantically love anyone else

    • @sodafizz5613
      @sodafizz5613 4 роки тому +34

      That's why I broke up with my first and so far last gf, I feel you.

    • @myagirl1997
      @myagirl1997 4 роки тому +7

      Yes love it!

    • @danielle2577
      @danielle2577 4 роки тому +16

      Thank you for uttering my thoughts

    • @Alicepiccc
      @Alicepiccc 4 роки тому +14

      Louder for the people in the back!!

  • @Jazz-qg6tl
    @Jazz-qg6tl 5 років тому +11039

    UA-cam recommendation: Never been in love
    Me: Welp I guess youtube knows me well lol

  • @random-jz9zc
    @random-jz9zc 4 роки тому +4570

    Friends: you'll find a right person
    me a closeted aroace:👁️👄👁️
    update: turns out im just a lesbian. It doesnt mean that it was a "phase" for me it just wasnt me yk. I think i was dealing with internalized lesbophobia to realize im actually one. But all of you, aroace people are valid as fuck and you all have my love💖

    • @cherryspice1011
      @cherryspice1011 3 роки тому +53

      ikr moood

    • @Mia-vp6xl
      @Mia-vp6xl 3 роки тому +32

      Aro-ace hm. But Like were you ever in Love Then? Because I never was and I am pretty confused xD

    • @random-jz9zc
      @random-jz9zc 3 роки тому +46

      @@Mia-vp6xl no never been in love

    • @sherlockhart2817
      @sherlockhart2817 3 роки тому +38

      @@Mia-vp6xl (first, I'm not the best educated person ever so someone correct me if im talking crap ^^' this is just meant to be helpful I guess :)) so, I think depending on how old you are it might be normal to never have been in love before.
      Being aro or ace means the lack of romantic or sexual *attraction.* I think there might be loads of people out there who do experience those kinds of attraction and never have been in love.
      As a fellow ace being I can't really explain how attraction works xd but yeah, bare in mind, you can be allosexual and not be in love :)

    • @countgeekd
      @countgeekd 3 роки тому +62

      @@Mia-vp6xl Take it this way. Aromatic means you don't feel any or little romantic attraction. And Asexual is you have little to no sexual attraction to anyone. Put those 2 together and you get Aroace!
      -Take this from an Aroace! ^^

  • @morethanjustromantic
    @morethanjustromantic 4 роки тому +1662

    when i grew up i always thought that everyone was faking that they had crushes so i did it too... little did i know.. i was the only one
    (edit) hello fellow aroace people

    • @blue_jay582
      @blue_jay582 3 роки тому +25

      Sameeee

    • @alinagolovach7125
      @alinagolovach7125 3 роки тому +50

      Lmaooo same, I also thought they were platonic (crushes) and I- I’m so ducking stupid

    • @Mia-vp6xl
      @Mia-vp6xl 3 роки тому +110

      Yeah, same. Well i faked one because of that "who is your crush?" "Nobody." "Come onnn, Tell me" this Situation is so fucking dumb god

    • @sushiik7179
      @sushiik7179 3 роки тому +5

      Saammee

    • @happypanda117
      @happypanda117 3 роки тому +6

      Your not the only one. My friend did that too

  • @JustCallMeBo1
    @JustCallMeBo1 6 років тому +10678

    "Don't mean to rain on your happiness, but I'm alone with no loneliness." My new favorite line 🎈

    • @kylies4053
      @kylies4053 6 років тому +50

      JustCallMeBo Same!!

    • @WillJay
      @WillJay  6 років тому +577

      my favorite too :)

    • @lisaryplanski4921
      @lisaryplanski4921 5 років тому +18

      JustCallMeBo me too. Me and you are just too happy on our own. We do not need any guy to cause us grief and trouble. Because thats what boys / guys are.

    • @ogpeelson5717
      @ogpeelson5717 5 років тому +9

      I can relate!

    • @nck.968
      @nck.968 5 років тому +4

      YESS!!

  • @ConejitoPequenito
    @ConejitoPequenito 6 років тому +5032

    "I'm not missing someone that I've never met"
    "For me there just ain't enough hours in the day"
    "I'm alone with no loneliness"
    AROMANTIC ANTHEM

  • @jolibearts7787
    @jolibearts7787 4 роки тому +3385

    Finally, the song UA-cam recommended me that describes my asexuality to a tee qwq I love this community

    • @xwxnum
      @xwxnum 4 роки тому +224

      Is Aromantic not asexual
      Aromantic means u lack romantic attraction
      Asexual means u lack sexual attraction which are whole different things

    • @Whosmaggie
      @Whosmaggie 4 роки тому +114

      Yeah I think you mean aromantic not asexual :)

    • @communist_oranges
      @communist_oranges 3 роки тому +146

      why are you guys trying to correct them on THEIR sexuality? They know themselves best and you don't know what they meant. They could be aroace. They could just be ace and relate to this song in a different way. You don't know

    • @Whosmaggie
      @Whosmaggie 3 роки тому +91

      Psycho_with_the_ slica_slicas. Sorry i don’t mean it in a negative way and I’m not saying that they couldn’t be either but that this song relates a bit more towards aro rather then ace. As an ace I can still relate to this song too tho

    • @tvhead1299
      @tvhead1299 3 роки тому +71

      @@communist_oranges yeah they can identify as asexual but this song is more like about demisexuals/aromantics. Like the song isn't about the guy that don't want sex it's about a guy that don't want relationship or just don't want to be in relationship with someone they never met so saying that you can relate as asexual is misunderstanding the song.

  • @Zeppelin7567
    @Zeppelin7567 2 роки тому +493

    As an ace who's never dated a single person, I've basically accepted that I will probably never find anyone. And I'm slowly getting more okay with it. This song really helps me feel better about it.

    • @emmasartandanimation2857
      @emmasartandanimation2857 2 роки тому +19

      Same here

    • @GreyScaleArtist
      @GreyScaleArtist 2 роки тому +14

      That's exactly what I'm going through! Didn't know I'd find another person who felt exactly like me! 😊

    • @psl2278
      @psl2278 2 роки тому +10

      @@GreyScaleArtist we're not alone with these feelings!

    • @thatbluecat1015
      @thatbluecat1015 Рік тому +3

      Aro maybe?

    • @lily_like_a_flower
      @lily_like_a_flower Рік тому +7

      ✨I'm glad I'm not alone✨
      When I say that I'm asexual nobody understands me. They all say that I just haven't met 'the right person'. A w h a t??
      Anyway, I'm soooo glad I'm not alone in this world❤️✨

  • @lauryvandeven3114
    @lauryvandeven3114 5 років тому +4268

    me literally five minutes ago: **googling "how to know if you're aromantic/asexual**
    me rn: *youtube wtf is this a sign*

    • @gwenh-m1298
      @gwenh-m1298 5 років тому +37

      Laury van de Ven literal the same thing happened to me

    • @TheTripleABattery
      @TheTripleABattery 5 років тому +107

      I'm Aro Ace so if you figure you are then welcome to the community! You're valid any way you are.

    • @lauryvandeven3114
      @lauryvandeven3114 5 років тому +12

      @@TheTripleABattery thank you :)

    • @gwenh-m1298
      @gwenh-m1298 5 років тому +21

      Entity 170404 question, how do you know? Like people always tell me that you just know, but idk. Help

    • @thequakevids6827
      @thequakevids6827 5 років тому +37

      @@gwenh-m1298 Mostly decide what label you want to use, try it out, and see if it still works for you a bit later! It's perfectly okay to change a bit and there's no great way to know what labels are actually you right off the bat, so just see if it fits you and decide when you're ready! Just don't shy off at first and you're figure it out eventually! No matter what, you're still valid and important and you are more than your labels!

  • @madelinegrace7295
    @madelinegrace7295 5 років тому +4071

    as a college freshman who still has yet to have my first kiss, thanks for making a song i can finally relate to. it shouldn't be weird in our society to say that you've never been in love. keep making music! you've got so much to give.

    • @earthling-liliac
      @earthling-liliac 5 років тому +58

      I'm in the same case of you and agree at 100%

    • @eline7207
      @eline7207 5 років тому +94

      same! people also put so much pressure on it and it just makes me feel bad about myself.

    • @aylsrei
      @aylsrei 5 років тому +16

      Madeline Grace same girl

    • @sophiaariola9808
      @sophiaariola9808 5 років тому +90

      Same! I'm on my senior year in college and still never been on a date, never had a boyfriend, never been in love. There's so much pressure to be in a relationship but I'm all good!

    • @toadplatypus8893
      @toadplatypus8893 5 років тому +18

      uhm are you sure...? has anyone actually ever looked at you? i looked at your profile picture and i'm like *but frick you're so beautiful* and your name too! There has got to be someone out there for you who is probably to shy to tell you!
      also i looked at ur subscriptions *and i'm quaking* give me a momENT TO SAY *A BEAUTIFUL COLLEGE GIRL WHO WATCHES ABROAD IN JAPAN, JAIDEN ANIMATIONS, THOMAS SANDERS AND SO MANY MORE ******WHO IS ALSO A FELLOW ARMY AND KPOP LOVER****** MEANS TO TELL ME SHE HAS BEEN SINGLE ALL HER LIFE?!?!??!??!?!?!???! I AM FRICKETY FRACKETING SHOOK
      lol sorry have a nice day

  • @jackkwok5197
    @jackkwok5197 4 роки тому +1115

    Reading these comments really shows the power of music, everyone can have their own interpretation of songs, it's awesome. Aro and aces can relate and younger people can probably too. Even though I'm straight and in a relationship (with an ace), this really makes me reflect on the concept of love and when it became such a important and necessary part of my life because there was a time where it was the last thing on my mind and finding it felt so far away...

    • @evelyngrace8396
      @evelyngrace8396 3 роки тому +8

      This!! Amazing!!

    • @jackkwok5197
      @jackkwok5197 3 роки тому +13

      @@evelyngrace8396 well... she dumped me a couple months ago:(

    • @evelyngrace8396
      @evelyngrace8396 3 роки тому +20

      Jack Kwok I’m sorry that’s hard, but I still believe in everything you said, I love the different interpretations of the songs and I think that it’s great that you got to experience a different type of relationship then probably normal or what you’re used to, stay strong, even though it was a couple months ago, I know it’s really hard but someone amazing will come into your life eventually

    • @lalita9428
      @lalita9428 2 роки тому +3

      @@jackkwok5197 she dumped?? Damn that's kinda crazy. Because getting a great partner for ace is really difficult 💁

    • @augusto7681
      @augusto7681 15 днів тому

      @@lalita9428 Maybe she didnt think it was fair to him. Or he made some sexual advances and she dumped before it become too serious.

  • @miehald3115
    @miehald3115 4 роки тому +175

    Ah, the aro/ace is strong in this one...

  • @dragonsarecool9368
    @dragonsarecool9368 5 років тому +2514

    Love how he's wearing a greenish shirt. The official aromantic color. Also, the bow and arrow. Best reference and I love it.

    • @laurynk4209
      @laurynk4209 4 роки тому +113

      It's opposite to pink/red (love colors) on the color wheel

    • @danxie9176
      @danxie9176 4 роки тому +15

      Wait he intended this song to be written for aromantic people?

    • @Avi2Nyan
      @Avi2Nyan 4 роки тому +70

      @@danxie9176 it's literally about never having fallen in love, but not being frustrated with it. It's widely regarded as an aro anthem, even

    • @kisimegacha5218
      @kisimegacha5218 4 роки тому +4

      @@danxie9176 what wompy said

    • @samanthahello
      @samanthahello 4 роки тому +4

      I didn't even notice that dragons are cool. Well done for spotting them and it is awesome.

  • @zionmesa673
    @zionmesa673 5 років тому +6646

    I'm 19.
    Never been in love.
    But people are like... Are you crazy?
    Why don't you want a girlfriend?
    I just want friends, why complicate things.

    • @dosheeta6034
      @dosheeta6034 5 років тому +49

      same 😂😂

    • @ella-en5gs
      @ella-en5gs 5 років тому +26

      sameee

    • @excuseme5086
      @excuseme5086 5 років тому +91

      Welp I don't have friends so a boyfriend might cheer me up? Pfft, dafuq? I'm fine......

    • @esotericbliss5887
      @esotericbliss5887 5 років тому +155

      I've been saying this for months now. People don't get it. I'm just 19, why rush ? I just want friends tbh. . . So same

    • @MICSI_C
      @MICSI_C 5 років тому

      Same!

  • @justwhy4450
    @justwhy4450 2 роки тому +195

    FINALLY! A song that actually acknowledges that we don’t all need romance to be happy, we can feel whatever we want and still be whole.

  • @queen_meat
    @queen_meat 3 роки тому +636

    I'm aromantic, I've never felt feelings of love for someone else, even with past boyfriends or "crushes". I was always trying to trick myself so maybe I could be normal and maybe even eventually feel these things.
    Well I've finally come to terms with my sexuality and I'm happy with it! I'm only a little scared for my future because I WANT a relationship, I like kissing and cuddling and stuff like that yknow.. but uh I'll just vibe for now and see where life takes me haha
    Love this song! Aros rise for our national anthem

    • @Mia-vp6xl
      @Mia-vp6xl 3 роки тому +28

      Same but I am Not really sure what I actually am because I don't want to be aro because I Like those stuff too and Like some say I am aro but had crushes but i never were actually in Love. And it's Like, I never even had a crush so well

    • @intellectualcow
      @intellectualcow 3 роки тому +46

      I really relate to this. I always found myself having "curshes" on people that i thought were really cool, that's always how I thought it was supposed to be. And I've been in a couple relationships now, and each time, I have found that I like the person way more as friends, and that bringing romance into things was a chore, and that honestly, it made me more uncomfortable that anything.
      I really get what you mean about being scared for the future. I more not be attracted to people romantically, but I still enjoy affection, and the idea of being close with someone. I don't know if I'll ever find someone who want to stick around with me. Cause while I don't want to get married, nor have a romantic partner, I still want someone that I can share my life with, maybe move in together, but still go to our separate rooms at night, and have no expectation of romance. I'm scared that if I find someone that I want to share my life with, they will see it as a temporary thing, or expect romance, or find a partner and leave. It's scary, but like you said, I'm just going to vibe for now and see where life decides to take me.
      (I'm sorry for the mini rant here, but what you said really hit home for me)
      Happy pride month everyone :]

    • @1evonvielen
      @1evonvielen 3 роки тому +17

      @@intellectualcow will you marry me (platonically)?

    • @blubbie7736
      @blubbie7736 3 роки тому +26

      You could have a QPP (queer platonic partner) which is someone who is basically dating but platonically. You can even get married platonically

    • @blubbie7736
      @blubbie7736 3 роки тому +20

      @@intellectualcow I feel the EXACT same way. I have never dated anyone, but I have always liked people more platonically. But I want to have all the same things marriage has like the cuddling and loving each other unconditionally and sharing a house , (No s£x though). Basiclly living my life with, of that but just as friends. Which is what I think is called a Queer Platonic Relationship. I’m also afraid that if I don’t offer romance on the table they will see it as an opportunity to leave. Or that just because we don’t “move up to romance” that our friendship is seen as less than a romantic relationship. I think it’s important for people to view romantic and platonic love as the same AMOUNT of love, just in different ways, because people always think romance is worth more :/

  • @burnsa868
    @burnsa868 4 роки тому +635

    1:28 he’s literally shooting a bow and arrow that is such a good pun

    • @ilovemybf122
      @ilovemybf122 3 роки тому +14

      ;0 Omg yesss

    • @puzzledtoby
      @puzzledtoby 3 роки тому +8

      i would like the comment but theres already 69 likes

    • @gretavanzo5850
      @gretavanzo5850 3 роки тому +9

      oh my god yes i noticed too

    • @Iemonic
      @Iemonic 2 роки тому +12

      hehehe bow and aro

    • @Hiroto340
      @Hiroto340 2 роки тому +7

      Bow and ARO

  • @plznfanku
    @plznfanku 5 років тому +1738

    the Ace/Aro community is forever internally screaming and claiming this as our national anthem now.

    • @thequakevids6827
      @thequakevids6827 5 років тому +34

      Why not international anthem? Maybe I'm missing something...

    • @anthonysmith7659
      @anthonysmith7659 4 роки тому +3

      @@rehanaparvin7320 thats not- you cant just choose to be

    • @aidenflame1576
      @aidenflame1576 4 роки тому +3

      YAAAAAS

    • @wbanaenae
      @wbanaenae 4 роки тому +4

      I agree with you, this is yours :3

    • @Hugo-uj1sv
      @Hugo-uj1sv 4 роки тому +2

      ikr

  • @littlesapphire7926
    @littlesapphire7926 Рік тому +110

    As an Aroace this is my anthem 🤩🤩

  • @uselessbean9845
    @uselessbean9845 4 роки тому +221

    This screams aro/ace pride!

    • @adi4032
      @adi4032 3 роки тому +10

      I am heter-romantic so can i still be here?

  • @WillJay
    @WillJay  6 років тому +12849

    truly blown away by all the love so far. there's such a stigma in our society that happiness only comes from loving someone else, when actually it's loving yourself that makes you the happiest. please keep sharing the song and reminding yourself, even if you've never been in love, that's it's all good :) thank you for listening

    • @shanelleforbes1889
      @shanelleforbes1889 6 років тому +128

      Will Jay I love this song and I relate to it 100% I've never been inlove either. 🤷🏽‍♀️unless we are counting food 😂

    • @Sam-yj9is
      @Sam-yj9is 6 років тому +49

      Aww i just luv ur positivity and view on life, Will Jay ❤ keep doin what ur doin! We need more artists like u!! 😉😚

    • @christine5252
      @christine5252 6 років тому +24

      Aww ur songs are all so meaningful, love it:))

    • @dialtenhof
      @dialtenhof 6 років тому +41

      first song I've heard of yours and I am (pun not intended) in love! can't wait to check out more ♥

    • @nicoleroman1247
      @nicoleroman1247 6 років тому +13

      Wow here he is blowing me away with his fantastic music, I love all your music your such a great singer :) keep smiling!! You truly are very talented!!

  • @samsy426
    @samsy426 4 роки тому +5328

    MY FELLOW ACE AND AROS WHERE Y'ALL AT

  • @user-lv2cr5oj6q
    @user-lv2cr5oj6q 4 роки тому +511

    I’m neither asexual nor aromantic, but still the song spoke to me. I don’t believe that i will only be “complete” once I’ve found a partner. Also i consider being in love only, once you’ve got to know the other person for real, not just some crush. Since I’ve never had that till now, and I don’t really long for it, this song was just so refreshing because it’s finally about sth else for a time

    • @random_youtuber8095
      @random_youtuber8095 2 роки тому

      Agree!

    • @alexislennon4973
      @alexislennon4973 Рік тому +11

      I know there is a title for that in the LBGTQ+ community only loving someone after a connection but I can't remember the name of it right now😅

    • @Hayaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
      @Hayaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Рік тому +1

      @@alexislennon4973 demisexual/demiromantic! they are in the aro/ace spectrum

    • @nightowl408
      @nightowl408 Рік тому

      @@alexislennon4973 demisexual perhaps?

    • @arcade0896
      @arcade0896 Рік тому +11

      @@alexislennon4973 demiromantic

  • @CiejeandCreate
    @CiejeandCreate 3 роки тому +49

    Oh its valentines day? Time to listen to all my aro anthems

    • @nereidadpg6746
      @nereidadpg6746 3 роки тому +4

      Yeah dude. I had been spending all the day listening the aro vibes songs 😂

    • @badlifechoices6771
      @badlifechoices6771 3 роки тому

      Could you share some? I only have one ace anthem (D&D + Asexuality by Skull Puppies) and one aro anthem (this one)

    • @CiejeandCreate
      @CiejeandCreate 3 роки тому +4

      @@badlifechoices6771 here's some that i think have aro vibes:
      Between My Teeth by Orla Gartland
      Kalmia kid by Chloe Moriondo
      Myself by Bazzi
      My future by Billie Eilish
      I Am Not a Robot by MARINA
      Love Love Love by Of Monsters and Men
      Crush Culture by Conan Gray
      This is Home by Cavetown
      Hopefully you like at least one of them :D

  • @maria-ld5ly
    @maria-ld5ly 5 років тому +1807

    this and conan gray's "crush culture" kinda have the same energy

    • @user-fl7bq7pg4g
      @user-fl7bq7pg4g 5 років тому +7

      Yes 💖

    • @navayikes
      @navayikes 5 років тому +16

      Love conan

    • @umaimah5271
      @umaimah5271 5 років тому +14

      @@navayikes they need to collab

    • @aleia2561
      @aleia2561 5 років тому +66

      mm crush culture has more chaotic energy (except for the end)

    • @laurapan6124
      @laurapan6124 5 років тому +9

      Omg like especially when he breaks the heart with a bat🤩

  • @Tessa_Que
    @Tessa_Que 4 роки тому +486

    Happy ace and aro awareness week to everyone! If you’re ace or aro and are reading this remember that you’re wonderful and valid! you don’t need to be in a relationship or have sex to be happy!

    • @venuscastrovia5024
      @venuscastrovia5024 3 роки тому +7

      Thanks I'm not sure I'm ace but I've never wanted to have sex Its just not appealing to me. And I'm not boy crazy like all the other girls my age. Can I like just enjoy me life being independent like why not society?

    • @enigmaticlizard9476
      @enigmaticlizard9476 3 роки тому +4

      Happy AroAce awareness from a year after your comment was posteddddd

    • @venuscastrovia5024
      @venuscastrovia5024 3 роки тому +2

      @@enigmaticlizard9476 Yasss proud single Ace rocking it.

    • @Mariiilume
      @Mariiilume 3 роки тому +4

      Awww thank you so so much! Everyone’s feelings are theirs! Nu one else, AroAce Pride! And too everyone I hope you find what you need to be yourself! Becuz you deserve love, Friend, family, or a partner ^^

    • @aztrolivr
      @aztrolivr 3 роки тому +1

      EVERYONE HERE IS VALID!
      (except Karen's who tell us We're "JusT too yOuNG"

  • @brennan-the-python
    @brennan-the-python 2 роки тому +15

    Whoo hoo, a lovely song for Aroaces. I henceforth declare this the Anthem of the Aroaces!

  • @ElLe-ie5um
    @ElLe-ie5um 4 роки тому +121

    Okay serious here for a moment: I have SERIOUS appreciation for Will because he looks at topics that you never hear about in mainstream music. You don't hear a lot of songs that sound this down to earth but still happy, or songs about racism, or about losing touch with your culture, or about lying in your songs.
    But they're real things and I always appreciate Will addressing them in a real light and not something romanticized or prideful.
    That's my rant about why I think Will deserves the world thank you.

  • @cosmic7621
    @cosmic7621 5 років тому +2390

    I thought it was love, but it was just my wanting to not be lonely.
    2 years later, still asexual.

  • @seekyourfate4497
    @seekyourfate4497 5 років тому +2163

    To be honest I've had several crushes with people but none of them has developed to love. Never kissed anyone yet too so yay I guess.
    Hopefully someday I find someone but today I shall love myself and be happy that I haven't fallen to false love. Probably will fall for something but not today atleast.

    • @eval4495
      @eval4495 5 років тому +21

      seek your fate Same, for now I can say this is my song too :)

    • @leticiasirio
      @leticiasirio 5 років тому +28

      Yeah, I know what are you talking about. I even got out recently of a relationship, because I figured out that I DON'T want to be in one.
      I've never kissed, not even my ex. I don't want to kiss, really, instead of all my friends.
      I discovered that I may be aromantic yesterday :) so you may be too

    • @silverisshiny
      @silverisshiny 5 років тому +9

      They might be squishes

    • @chloe-xe9xz
      @chloe-xe9xz 5 років тому +7

      Silver シルバ that is my favourite term to use! I’m so happy to find someone else that says squish😂

    • @-csotanypure-5106
      @-csotanypure-5106 5 років тому +14

      I've had intense crushes for few weeks and then it always disappeared. So I guess I join the squad.
      But I Really Wanna Fall In Love With THE Right Person.

  • @nomisunrider6472
    @nomisunrider6472 3 роки тому +110

    I never understood why “you’re just a late bloomer/you’ll find the right person” was meant to be a rejection. Like, sure, the future is full of possibilities but we’re in the present and right now this is how I feel. Just because things change doesn’t mean that what you are in the moment isn’t valid, anymore than saying a child isn’t really young because they’ll be an adult someday.

    • @user-ug2fu8mj2j
      @user-ug2fu8mj2j 11 місяців тому +1

      Aro/acs: * Whisper chatting. * One of us! One of One of us!us!

  • @Anontravlr
    @Anontravlr 3 роки тому +68

    When he smashed the heart at 2:21 i felt happy...
    Finally i found a song i can truly relate to!!!

  • @mimphussw8834
    @mimphussw8834 5 років тому +1374

    I swear, Will and Conan Gray should be best friends.

  • @glassesvoices5097
    @glassesvoices5097 4 роки тому +1292

    Google: *So you think you’re asexual right?*
    UA-cam: _ALLOW ME TO INTRODUCE M Y S E L F_

    • @xleg4956
      @xleg4956 4 роки тому +13

      Ive been searching for stuff liek this for ages and NOW google decides to throw smth my way

    • @meredithclontz
      @meredithclontz 4 роки тому +1

      JENSJDHSJS RELABLE

    • @xwxnum
      @xwxnum 4 роки тому +49

      Aromantic not asexual
      Aromantic = Lack of romantic attraction
      Asexual = lack of sexual attraction
      They are both different

    • @Cloverfr
      @Cloverfr 4 роки тому +38

      @@xwxnum Thank you for clarifying, is just that asexuals also relate to this song.

    • @lovvlovv4028
      @lovvlovv4028 3 роки тому +3

      Aromantic not asexual

  • @dianadjumanazarova7026
    @dianadjumanazarova7026 3 роки тому +11

    Where my fellow Aromantics are 💚💚💚

  • @sapphstial2859
    @sapphstial2859 3 роки тому +104

    Aroace or not, we can all agree this is amazing

  • @hirjeta2674
    @hirjeta2674 5 років тому +758

    *editor: how many effects?*
    *will jay : yes*

    • @rawiahsaleh8906
      @rawiahsaleh8906 5 років тому +1

      3 doller lifeu Jhope army. Sorry 😐 I had too say this

  • @marcymcehrenhaft6834
    @marcymcehrenhaft6834 4 роки тому +502

    Sum dude: HaVe YoU eVeR bEeN iN LoVe?
    Me: *…does myself count?*

    • @philosofa6767
      @philosofa6767 4 роки тому +26

      You are your own best company ♡

    • @raefrater4172
      @raefrater4172 4 роки тому +15

      hell yeah!! that's really sweet!!

    • @daisydodger
      @daisydodger 4 роки тому +5

      narcissus wrote this

    • @froggyboy1200
      @froggyboy1200 4 роки тому +20

      @@daisydodger Self-love is not narcissism.

    • @daisydodger
      @daisydodger 4 роки тому +2

      Froggy Boy it was a joke

  • @LB0206
    @LB0206 2 роки тому +20

    "I'm alone with no loneliness" - EXACTLY.

  • @vanpheonix1276
    @vanpheonix1276 2 роки тому +46

    "I'm not missing someone I've never met"
    My words exactly!

  • @andreaiturbe5584
    @andreaiturbe5584 6 років тому +275

    You know what I absolutely love about this? Red is the color of romance, which is the background as it would presumably be, but Will is wearing green. Green is opposite to red on the color wheel, hence the color opposite to romantic love. AND in the aromantic flag (all three versions), green is included for that exact reason--lack of romantic attraction. Then at the end he tears down the background, thus tearing down society expecting him to fall in love.
    And that my friends is another reason why this sing is an ideal aromantic anthem.

    • @mirandabee2323
      @mirandabee2323 6 років тому +4

      + Astute observation!

    • @Jem_80s
      @Jem_80s 6 років тому +5

      AROMANTIC ASEXUAL OVER HERE YASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

    • @Jem_80s
      @Jem_80s 6 років тому +11

      THIS IS WHAT IM BEEN SAYING!! ITS AN AROMANTIC ANTHEM SPREAD THE WORD HUN!!

    • @jalocasia8089
      @jalocasia8089 6 років тому

      i hate how everyone is linking this song with ace and aro, why do people have to label themselves anyway?

    • @AliSquish
      @AliSquish 4 роки тому +2

      Andrea Iturbe He also shoots a bow and ARROW (Aro)

  • @jonathanalfred446
    @jonathanalfred446 5 років тому +2092

    Ever had crush?
    Yeah.
    Ever been in love?
    Nope!
    Anyone??

    • @rae8961
      @rae8961 4 роки тому +130

      Yep, I'm 17 and I've only had one crush. But I've never been in love or even had my first kiss yet.

    • @wafflemenulol6971
      @wafflemenulol6971 4 роки тому +9

      Demi?

    • @ashteal3499
      @ashteal3499 4 роки тому +1

      Me

    • @TwofoldEthics
      @TwofoldEthics 4 роки тому +25

      Gonna be 21 soon, same story

    • @rogelioines1668
      @rogelioines1668 4 роки тому +6

      Yeah
      One-sided love.

  • @proudally6662
    @proudally6662 2 роки тому +46

    In media , there is an overwhelming amount of romance and love related stuff , and it's very rare to find gems like this . Eventhough I am straight and feel attraction and stuff , I dont feel the " need " to be with someone rn , maybe in the future ,but not now . I have to work on myself and my issues and be able to love my self before I go try to love someone , so this song just home . Lots of appreciation 💕

  • @moo9238
    @moo9238 3 роки тому +75

    Finally we get an anthem. No break ups, no falling in love. *Just aro/ace vibes*

  • @toriwong8363
    @toriwong8363 5 років тому +974

    I'm so mad at myself cuz this came up in my recommendations and I hecka judged it, thinking it would be about being sad about never being in love BUT IT'S THE EXACT OPPOSITE AND I LOVE IT AND GAH I SHOULD'VE LISTENED TO IT SOONER

  • @josiemak3137
    @josiemak3137 6 років тому +2579

    Who else is here before this goes big?? *I love this song, I listen to this song everyday*

  • @karydaen
    @karydaen Рік тому +19

    As an aromantic girl who throughout her life thought she was broken for not feeling that kind of love that everyone talks about with someone, this song makes me slowly understand that I'm not broken or alone. I'm aromantic, and it´s okay. Thanks for creating this song 🌲🍏☁🐺🖤

  • @alhassanekeita5585
    @alhassanekeita5585 3 роки тому +93

    Can I just say this song just slapped all the love songs in the face

  • @Deryasvoice
    @Deryasvoice 6 років тому +183

    FINALLY A SONG ABOUT LOVE WHICH I CAN ACTUALLY RELATE TO

  • @lynxhart101
    @lynxhart101 6 років тому +210

    I'm quaking rn. I've never ever seen a song thats described this feeling?¿ In a non-sad way?? And I'm absolutely blown away. It's thrillingly perfect

  • @szaahhh
    @szaahhh Рік тому +9

    AN AROACE ANTHEM THATS A BOP 🎉❤

  • @fairytea9303
    @fairytea9303 5 років тому +3514

    Family: sO yOu GoTtA bOyFriEnD YEt?
    Me:*hits play*
    Edit: Wow I’ve never gotten so many likes 😁

    • @okayty4085
      @okayty4085 5 років тому +8

      Oml i love that

    • @nektariak4212
      @nektariak4212 5 років тому +2

      😂😂😂

    • @mielychia
      @mielychia 5 років тому +2

      I'm happy to say that I was the 666th like

    • @ambie7437
      @ambie7437 5 років тому +1

      XD I would play this so my dam wouldn't know I was dating a girl

    • @justintime416
      @justintime416 5 років тому +2

      Well, you must have been in love but a one-sided

  • @kendallpedersen7067
    @kendallpedersen7067 6 років тому +2606

    I don’t think i’ve Ever related to something more in my life. I’m 16, and most of my friends are in relationships, or at least have crushes. And I don’t. I don’t mind love and I definitely would like to get married sometime - but i’m NOT ready now. I’m perfectly happy spending my time doing school work (#homeschooled) , developing a hobbie, or blowing bubbles while babysitting neighbor kids. Everyone try’s to give me Sympathy, but I honestly prefer it this way right now. You hit the nail on the head again Will!

    • @silverriolu2705
      @silverriolu2705 6 років тому +27

      YES that was literally me when I was 16 !!

    • @laurenbirch6698
      @laurenbirch6698 6 років тому +18

      100% me right now

    • @jessikafray3623
      @jessikafray3623 6 років тому +9

      Kendall Pedersen wtf..me too tbh.

    • @sophiaa.4538
      @sophiaa.4538 6 років тому +17

      It's honestly amazing how similar our stories are. I'm both homeschooled and 16 too. I get you girl, we can be awesomely single together!

    • @julianabv3451
      @julianabv3451 6 років тому +24

      You don't even know how perfectly this describes me. I'm 16 too and just went on my first date today. All I kept thinking was "nope, this is too early and just not for me". All I can say is, well, I've never been in love and I'm just not bothered.

  • @Crimsonmonsoon
    @Crimsonmonsoon 3 роки тому +254

    Yes! A song that’s actually relatable to me for once!
    🖤🖤🖤🖤
    🤍🤍🤍🤍
    🤍🤍🤍🤍
    💜💜💜💜

  • @seineevee
    @seineevee 5 місяців тому +4

    Listening to this on Valentine’s Day

  • @reginaa9867
    @reginaa9867 5 років тому +764

    I really don’t care if I’m single my whole life. I just want true, genuine friends and my family at my side.

  • @faemischief
    @faemischief 4 роки тому +472

    My friends: she's really pretty
    Me: yea i like her style
    My friends: and there's the aromantic

    • @annab7631
      @annab7631 4 роки тому +161

      Me: oh they're cute
      My friend: YoU GoT A CrUsH?
      Me: I'm aro, not blind

    • @katkamachalova5609
      @katkamachalova5609 4 роки тому +23

      @@annab7631 that's so me... :D

    • @river446
      @river446 4 роки тому +37

      @@annab7631 big mood right there! i'm like, oh, that person's really beautiful
      "yeah, they're hot right?"
      hot? what's that

    • @paksgarrion3252
      @paksgarrion3252 4 роки тому +48

      Friends: He's hot!
      Me: He has a nicely shaped face.

    • @lp9458
      @lp9458 4 роки тому +44

      My friend: He's so cute!! OMG!!
      Me: Yea, I like his hair.
      My friend:....His hair.....?
      I'm always the one friend who just likes the eye color, hair style etc. 😓😂

  • @victoriarosenthal7423
    @victoriarosenthal7423 3 роки тому +10

    I LOVE SEEING ALL MY FELLOW AROS AND ACES HERE YOU HAVE NO CLUE, THOUSANDS OF US HAVE GATHERED HERE AND I AM SO HAPPY

    • @blue_jay582
      @blue_jay582 3 роки тому +1

      Same here! It's nice to see how many people out there are like me. It makes me feel less alone

  • @Wizdabest2
    @Wizdabest2 3 місяці тому +6

    It makes me happy seeing so many aroace people in 1 comment section :)

    • @owihl3110
      @owihl3110 2 місяці тому +3

      Fr, like, HELLO FELLOW AROACES

    • @Wizdabest2
      @Wizdabest2 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@owihl3110 Hello! 👋

  • @autumnmcclellan51
    @autumnmcclellan51 5 років тому +871

    My relationship status
    Boyfriend: 0
    Kisses: 0
    NEVER BEEN IN LOVE AND IT ALL GOOD

    • @magicallydelicious1673
      @magicallydelicious1673 5 років тому +5

      Autumn Mcclellan
      same!

    • @janikafernando7241
      @janikafernando7241 5 років тому +1

      Sameeeeee

    • @enoisa3315
      @enoisa3315 5 років тому +1

      Me too

    • @TrangNguyen-yo1hj
      @TrangNguyen-yo1hj 5 років тому

      Lol same

    • @edenn1278
      @edenn1278 5 років тому +2

      My relationship status :
      Boyfriend : 4
      Girlfriend : 1
      Kisses : some
      still never been in love :T and it all good :)
      doesn't matter how many people you dated, or didn't, how many times you kissed or made out, or how many times you went on dates..

  • @emilygales9549
    @emilygales9549 6 років тому +921

    the sass in this video is perfect😂

  • @luco663
    @luco663 2 роки тому +152

    Hello everyone on the aro/ace spectrum. Your sexuality is valid. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. There's more to love than just romantics and sex. And if you feel like your alone or you feel like your weird for having these feelings, well just know that you are not alone, and your not weird.

  • @dragonfly3411
    @dragonfly3411 4 роки тому +45

    I stumbled upon this video by mistake...
    BEST MISTAKE EVER!!!

  • @coughedfeathers1292
    @coughedfeathers1292 6 років тому +68

    Im crying. Finding a cheerful non-romantic song these days is just. My God.
    My aroace ass is so happy right now. I'm so glad I found this.

  • @Faithtasticness
    @Faithtasticness 6 років тому +2126

    I like when your hair does the thing where it flips and flops and then wooooshes

    • @haesol16
      @haesol16 6 років тому +38

      I agree the woosh is nice

    • @OhTiaChannel
      @OhTiaChannel 6 років тому +7

      Hello againn

    • @WillJay
      @WillJay  6 років тому +286

      wow that's exactly what I told my hairdresser: I want hair that flips and flops and then woooshes

    • @OhTiaChannel
      @OhTiaChannel 6 років тому +9

      Will Jay omg faithtasticness!!! He repliedd

    • @Faithtasticness
      @Faithtasticness 6 років тому +5

      Will Jay yet another vision of yours shining through wow buddy

  • @klaudiachebdowska9996
    @klaudiachebdowska9996 3 роки тому +75

    My aromantic heart is jumping from happiness😂😂😂😂

  • @simonestevenson-hough7771
    @simonestevenson-hough7771 4 роки тому +9

    This is my aroace anthem. I love all of my fellow aroaces 💚🖤💜

  • @henaal-mirtaha29
    @henaal-mirtaha29 6 років тому +169

    “Don’t mean to rain on your happiness, but I’m alone with no loneliness “♻️🤸🏽‍♂️

    • @orangejuice775
      @orangejuice775 6 років тому +7

      That's like the coolest thing ever to say & it's so relatable
      "Alone with no loneliness"😃😃😃

    • @aariciawiesen2839
      @aariciawiesen2839 6 років тому +1

      That's my favourite part as well

  • @matteagrace6255
    @matteagrace6255 6 років тому +578

    YOU 👏🏻 DONT 👏🏻 NEED 👏🏻 A👏🏻 PARTNER 👏🏻 TO 👏🏻 FEEL👏🏻 FULFILLED 👏🏻👏🏻
    As a person who’s happily single and tired of being pestered about it, thank you for this song 😂💕

    • @laurentate8949
      @laurentate8949 6 років тому

      honestly though. I wish people would stop telling me I'm going to find "the one" lol. that shit is so annoying.

    • @flightneedsanupgrade381
      @flightneedsanupgrade381 5 років тому

      Thank you

  • @ellielawson2953
    @ellielawson2953 5 місяців тому +4

    I love this song, especially the fact that so many aro or ace songs are sad songs and I really wanted one that shows that there’s more to these identities than mourning

  • @faithg5250
    @faithg5250 3 роки тому +25

    Finally! An song about being single that's super upbeat and happy!

  • @xcherrykinsx
    @xcherrykinsx 6 років тому +1299

    honestly such a bop??? and, as someone who identifies as aromantic, it's so refreshing to hear a song that's not only not about romance but is about how someone can be happy without romantic love!! that may not have been your intent but it's certainly hit home for me. thanks so much - definitely added to my playlists to be listened to over and over again

    • @brandtvanaardt1121
      @brandtvanaardt1121 6 років тому +19

      You put my thoughts into words😁 fellow aromatic here btw😊

    • @jadaboyer7197
      @jadaboyer7197 6 років тому +7

      Another aromantic here! Love this song!

  • @mochibunnyan6556
    @mochibunnyan6556 4 роки тому +1377

    Me, an aromantic asexual: heh mood

    • @supercalime
      @supercalime 4 роки тому +11

      Ace Error same

    • @kawaiibonbon8476
      @kawaiibonbon8476 4 роки тому +14

      My best friend is a asexual and honestly it's so nice to finally trust someone to not steal my boyfriend.
      Me not likeing humans wishing I was asexual sometimes
      My sexuality: 🤤🤤🤤🤤how could I say no to that cake

    • @gayghst2877
      @gayghst2877 4 роки тому +38

      @@kawaiibonbon8476, just because you're asexual doesn't mean that you can't be in a relationship. And, if anything, it's very hard being asexual (coming from an Asexual) because we get told we're just late bloomers, that it's not real, we get r*ped, ect ect..

    • @diharaj5358
      @diharaj5358 4 роки тому +2

      me too hehe

    • @rebekahrose884
      @rebekahrose884 3 роки тому +9

      Fr like me bi friends talk about sweater weather and my lesbian friend talks about girl in read now I’m gonna talk about this song

  • @runeseaks
    @runeseaks Рік тому +7

    An aroace anthem, truly! 💜

  • @susisblusis
    @susisblusis Рік тому +6

    It's Valentines day and I'm celebrating it solo and this song is todays anthem

  • @OatmilkMoon
    @OatmilkMoon 6 років тому +607

    Honestly I love this. Defying the over romanticized, puppy love standards for music these days. I have a lot of ace friends, or just friends who aren’t looking for relationships in general who complain about how hard it is for them to find unromantic songs to jam out to, and I will most certainly turn them to this song. Love it ☺️💕 keep up the good work, Will

    • @_blank___
      @_blank___ 6 років тому +16

      Anika Dauber as an aro, I’m absolutely thrilled to have found this song. I’m sure your friends will appreciate it ^^

    • @ryn2844
      @ryn2844 6 років тому +10

      Yes, I've just posted it to AVEN for all of our aro members to enjoy. An an ace I am SO excited about this song, I can't even begin to describe it! I've had it on repeat for an hour now XD

    • @_blank___
      @_blank___ 6 років тому +4

      Laurann same 😆

    • @WillJay
      @WillJay  6 років тому +49

      this comment makes me so happy. there are enough songs about love but not enough about loving yourself :) thanks for listening!

    • @Rin_Evans
      @Rin_Evans 6 років тому +9

      Part of the ace community myself and this is amazing

  • @mirandaschusler5518
    @mirandaschusler5518 4 роки тому +327

    This song gives of big aro/ace vibes and I’m living for it

    • @raefrater4172
      @raefrater4172 4 роки тому +15

      I think we've claimed it as an anthem at this point!!

  • @candarus_collective
    @candarus_collective 3 роки тому +109

    romance-repulsed aro here, blasting this on repeat in my earbuds to keep me feeling okay while my parents play their romance playlist. bless this song

    • @Trees...
      @Trees... Рік тому +9

      I've never seen another romance repulsed aro! Have a wonderful day! :)

    • @AgentFulgoreBasedDepartment
      @AgentFulgoreBasedDepartment Рік тому +2

      ayyy, another romance-repulsed aro! you're among good company :)

  • @patience4368
    @patience4368 3 роки тому +10

    my AroAce heart is screaming of happiness rn

  • @thefandomfish3071
    @thefandomfish3071 6 років тому +137

    this is the closest i’ve ever gotten to an asexual/aromantic bop
    PLEASE REC ME MORE ACE/ARO SONGS

    • @LeyCarnifex
      @LeyCarnifex 5 років тому +2

      I Don't Wanna Be In Love by Good Charlotte is one of my personal faves

    • @ingerrn6798
      @ingerrn6798 5 років тому

      @Flower YiYi conan gray

  • @laurenyork6095
    @laurenyork6095 6 років тому +176

    I don't know if you know about aromanticism - you might after this video, lol - but you've just made so many people so happy, and I'm one of them. Thank you for this.

  • @justarose
    @justarose Рік тому +27

    I love this. This is a perfect representation of how I feel about romance: I've never had it, I feel a bit like I should, but not really. Maybe one day I'll fall in love, but so far it hasn't happened and I don't really care

  • @poxlovebird1217
    @poxlovebird1217 4 роки тому +150

    Everyone in the comments:ace/aro
    Me: pan and very confused

    • @hita9866
      @hita9866 4 роки тому +2

      I'm pan to

    • @poxlovebird1217
      @poxlovebird1217 4 роки тому +3

      @@hita9866 noice
      And you're a gacha so extra awesome points
      🙃

    • @hita9866
      @hita9866 4 роки тому +1

      @@poxlovebird1217 awwww thank chu

    • @poxlovebird1217
      @poxlovebird1217 4 роки тому

      @@hita9866 I don't have enough editing skills for that shiz uwu

    • @hita9866
      @hita9866 4 роки тому

      @@poxlovebird1217 it took me a long time just to figure out how to make a video

  • @izzyfriedman7
    @izzyfriedman7 6 років тому +274

    Bless you, my aro ace heart is so happy right now

    • @teatea2113
      @teatea2113 6 років тому +10

      Same! This is a wonderful song I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR A SONG LIKE THIS FOR SO LONG! Okaybye 🏹♠️

    • @sparkac480
      @sparkac480 6 років тому +1

      I know! I'm too overjoyed!

    • @miiiwu1999
      @miiiwu1999 6 років тому +1

      sAME SAME SAME

    • @lexi219
      @lexi219 6 років тому +9

      I don’t think a song has ever made my aro ace heart dance like this one! It’s definitely my pride anthem this year.

  • @LED2ify
    @LED2ify 6 років тому +930

    I'M AROACE AND I PLATONICALLY LOVE YOU FOR MAKING THIS

  • @Lyla1987
    @Lyla1987 Рік тому +7

    Aromantic anthem 💪💪🔥🔥🔥

  • @Richcatwithstacks
    @Richcatwithstacks 5 років тому +351

    Animator: how many doodles do you want?
    Will Jay: *Yes*

  • @videosbyem6849
    @videosbyem6849 6 років тому +94

    Version of Love: I want to be in love
    Never Been in Love: I don't need to be in love
    Now that's character development

  • @gxjggyfdfvuhfdt
    @gxjggyfdfvuhfdt Рік тому +5

    what an anthem!

  • @luxury2092
    @luxury2092 Рік тому +7

    I'm aroace, but I love watching, writing and reading romance (and the occasional smut, as long as it's well-written xDD) stories, it makes me feel all warm and tingly inside, it's just that I have no urge to participate in it myself.
    I always feel guilty whenever someone says they like me because I don't think I'm capable of reciprocating that kind of attraction. I get "crushes", sure, but they're more of a "you're so freakin pretty and I'd like to stare at you all day" thing. Just pure aesthetic attraction.
    Though I like the idea of being special to someone, just not in a romantic sense. I'm very thankful for my close friends, and that's all they'll ever be.

  • @hansolbling8141
    @hansolbling8141 6 років тому +451

    The aromantics have officially claimed this song