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  • @TriksOfTheTrade
    @TriksOfTheTrade Місяць тому +33

    I’m NEVER dating again. That’s it, I’m checking out. These women are toast

  • @dirtiestbird2
    @dirtiestbird2 Місяць тому +27

    Why do women think marriage is about being HAPPY. Marriage is work, dedication, responsibilities. Marriage isn't about being happy.

    • @also3254
      @also3254 Місяць тому +1

      Ding . . Ding . . Ding . . .

  • @DFreezerecords
    @DFreezerecords Місяць тому +59

    Do men care about being happy? Or do we care more about other peoples happiness more than our own? I never woke up in the morning and asked myself am i happy, When will i be happy, what makes me happy etc

    • @szn1580
      @szn1580 Місяць тому +9

      Facts

    • @DFreezerecords
      @DFreezerecords Місяць тому +13

      @@szn1580 Awhile ago a friend of mine was talking about how he wanted to be happy etc and i noticed how much he was chasing after it im thinking to myself, this dude had an easy life,what more do you want? Men are not supposed to be happy or even try to attain it, reality is it doesnt exist. Its a feeling that comes and goes!

    • @szn1580
      @szn1580 Місяць тому

      @@DFreezerecordsyes very fleeting women today will destroy a family to chase it. Marriage is f#%ked

    • @rosiecherry7211
      @rosiecherry7211 Місяць тому

      You should. Seek happiness

    • @scitec6166
      @scitec6166 Місяць тому +5

      Peace is better than happiness

  • @Corehaven22
    @Corehaven22 Місяць тому +13

    I was with a woman I didn't really want to be with but she got pregnant. I guess I should have run away for my own happiness. Then I raised a family with her that I didn't really want but I guess I should have run off and left them alone for my own happiness. Then my wife divorced me and left me alone with our kids to raise by myself I guess I should have abandoned them for my own happiness. According to these women. But I'm a man and I guess we're just built different. Oh yea, it's called having honor.

    • @Lancealot3553
      @Lancealot3553 Місяць тому +1

      Same bro. Men will fight to keep doing the right thing.

  • @slimgym45
    @slimgym45 Місяць тому +31

    "I feel like..." = emotions
    "I think..." = Logic
    Notice how women always start with "I feel like..."

  • @JYouing-t6k
    @JYouing-t6k Місяць тому +56

    Women complicate the f out of dating relationships I promise 😂

    • @szn1580
      @szn1580 Місяць тому +12

      Facts they’re so replaceable too lmao

    • @spade1ace7
      @spade1ace7 Місяць тому +7

      You ain't kidding!

  • @str43ew2
    @str43ew2 Місяць тому +12

    Social media ruined women. They see everyone posting pictures of themselves enjoying life and it gives an illusion that everyone is "happy" so they try to emulate what others do. what they dont understand is life sucks for everyone and a moment of happiness captured in a picture doesnt mean theyre happy all the time. "comparison is the thief of joy" is a very powerful expression.

    • @and1ballerz36
      @and1ballerz36 Місяць тому

      Wow, that's a pretty good analysis there 👏💯💯

  • @frisco40niners
    @frisco40niners Місяць тому +12

    “I was 13 yrs old and he was 29 yrs old!”
    Does she realize that she just said that out loud to the world? 🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @davonjackson5033
      @davonjackson5033 Місяць тому

      thats fucking insane that she used that in an argument that wasnt even coherent, we did not need to know that information and if that is true that man should be in fucking jail not some anecdote you use for sympathy to win an argument on a podcast

  • @damienkirksey7026
    @damienkirksey7026 Місяць тому +28

    She was all over the place with her feelings!! SMH

  • @LoveVersusLogic
    @LoveVersusLogic Місяць тому +46

    How are they single and spewing that Happy Wife Happy Life rhetoric!?

    • @samnedumedja5323
      @samnedumedja5323 Місяць тому

      Well, with that logic no one should give advice or teach since no one is perfect or knows it all. What you have to do is analyze the message and determine by yourself if it's valid.

    • @5hOuR3n3rGy619
      @5hOuR3n3rGy619 Місяць тому +2

      Battered and tarnished women

    • @The3LeggedMan
      @The3LeggedMan Місяць тому

      @@samnedumedja5323it’s actually even easier than that lol just listen to their answers no analysing needed and you’ll automatically hear how stupid they are lol

    • @MrDjamison
      @MrDjamison Місяць тому

      @@samnedumedja5323no dummy…while you’re ATTEMPTING to sound smart. You can possibly determine what life a happy wife brings if you’ve never been one. You sound like them

    • @123redrasta
      @123redrasta Місяць тому

      @@samnedumedja5323 the message went straight over your head 💀

  • @djDontcare8462
    @djDontcare8462 Місяць тому +19

    I hate hearing the way they think it’s ignorant men always choose family (duty or responsibility ) over happiness that’s the only way the majority of relationships exist

  • @drewls529
    @drewls529 Місяць тому +3

    Have you ever noticed that a relationship is only in jeopardy when the woman is unhappy.. Men all around the world are unhappy too but men thug it out for his family

  • @pinotwinelover
    @pinotwinelover Місяць тому +6

    Any woman that had a decent father in their life, was taught to regulate their emotions and realize that life is not the pursuit of happiness. It's a pursuit of fulfillment, but without that direction, they end up like this.

  • @bakedotf8361
    @bakedotf8361 Місяць тому +7

    A problem with them speaking on abuse is the fact that men aren't just out here randomly punching and beating on women. This relationship was an actual relationship something happened and they never tell whether they're the ones putting their hands on the man and he retaliate or they're pushing him to actually be hit. I don't condone hitting women, but you definitely should stay in your place as a woman being that men Handle anger differently. And depending on the kind of man that you're with you know exactly what buttons to push and what you're doing when you push them.

    • @bakedotf8361
      @bakedotf8361 Місяць тому

      A woman will scream of you in a minute when she's antagonized him even when he's tried to walk away we've seen this on baby boy lol. Some women put their hands on man expecting not to get hit back because of how men were raised not to do so.

  • @stealthvirus1462
    @stealthvirus1462 Місяць тому +4

    This is why the State Department has been inundated with Passport applications.

  • @NEWYORKSTATEOFMIND-e1s
    @NEWYORKSTATEOFMIND-e1s Місяць тому +2

    Happiness is an emotion that is fleeting it comes and goes

    • @SuburbanoidMisfit111
      @SuburbanoidMisfit111 Місяць тому

      Happenstance is a poor metric to base good mental feelings upon. Contentedness is better and requires maturity and insight. Some ppl lack the ability to mature and examine life deeply...

  • @scubbasteve6627
    @scubbasteve6627 Місяць тому +2

    It's crazy not only do women not know how to pick men .. but they also sacrifice for the wrong men .. The abused woman won't leave and the woman who is being taking care of will.. This ish don't make sense smh

  • @BennieSuggs-nb4uz
    @BennieSuggs-nb4uz Місяць тому +8

    You have to be good internally when their saying the house isn’t happy what is the happiness that their seeking stop being unrealistic in thinking you have to be “happy” 24/7 women need a level of contentment you can’t party all day everyday the struggles the fight of life is what defines a strong home females these days feel like when their called out for being wrong in a situation their offended and get defensive and run

  • @BiggFoe638
    @BiggFoe638 Місяць тому +3

    They lying. So you getting beat everyday? Everytime this question is asked, women paint the picture of the guy being abusive.

  • @kingkernals
    @kingkernals Місяць тому +6

    GET EM!!

  • @americadivided2564
    @americadivided2564 Місяць тому +3

    Men get a dog and stay single,you'll be happier 😂❤

  • @malikgriffin9872
    @malikgriffin9872 Місяць тому +1

    Choosing happiness over the family when they ones that chose the guys that creates the unhappiness 😂😂😂😂 walkin contradictions

  • @CeeWorld69
    @CeeWorld69 Місяць тому +15

    THAT’S the problem nowadays!! We DON’T CARE what you FEEL like, just say what you have to say!
    “I feel like” was THE most OVERUSED phrase of 2023 and 2024!
    In 2025 people won’t even be able to speak for 10 seconds without saying, “I feel like” 12 times, AND IT’S NOT EVEN BEING USED IN A CORRECT CONTEXT! It’s just used JUST BECAUSE!!!
    Women today just be like, “I feel like I need to breathe right now, because I feel like if I don’t I’ll die, but I feel like my breath is smelly though and I feel like people may smell it so I feel like I should just breath through my nose…. I feel like that should work.”

    • @Stat541
      @Stat541 Місяць тому

      🎯🎯🤣🤣

  • @DeaconSabali
    @DeaconSabali Місяць тому +4

    1:01 it’s called better self control and not take it out on your kids. Go to counseling or something if you want take out your “unhappiness “ or trauma on your kids.
    Instead to taking accountability you rather run.

  • @shawmeck9323
    @shawmeck9323 Місяць тому +1

    This was a really good gotcha question. I can't believe they did not catch it. One has to be feelings to justify the wrong answer. Much like abortion, some of them brought up physical abuse as the worst case scenario 😮

  • @mrhersh7189
    @mrhersh7189 Місяць тому +14

    Why bother in 2024 with relationships?? Just cut to the chase get to the sex part and be friends only. It's not worth it to be all in and after the kids and marriage you here: Oh I changed my mind, not worth it anymore.

  • @ricbradley5323
    @ricbradley5323 Місяць тому +1

    Pink bandana looks RIDICULOUS

  • @gironda11
    @gironda11 Місяць тому +1

    If you need to focus on yourself, you have no business starting a family. Stay single if your own personal happiness trumps your family.

  • @s.e.productions6882
    @s.e.productions6882 Місяць тому +1

    Ladies, what if your kid or kids don't make you happy? What are you going to do, leave them too? It seems like they only think of themselves and that shyt is shellfish. This is disheartening that a lot of women think this way.

  • @BlackkRiot
    @BlackkRiot Місяць тому +1

    They would all sacrifice their families for happiness but yet they don't have families and NONE of them look happy sitting on this podcast lol

  • @chevy454dg
    @chevy454dg Місяць тому +1

    You think I want to be a single father I don't walk around point any fingers or blaming any women I just handle my business as a man

  • @mauricerobinson3184
    @mauricerobinson3184 Місяць тому

    Yo stepdad! Brad thanks you.😂😂

  • @themacadime
    @themacadime Місяць тому

    She believes people who aren’t happy everyday of their lives then they aren’t free aren’t able to strive and live in danger lol wow that’s a large jump!

  • @ripper_blade64
    @ripper_blade64 Місяць тому +1

    Bro talking about single mothers and he got a kid with one the double standards are crazy 😂

  • @lazjunior712
    @lazjunior712 Місяць тому +1

    Life is not about happiness

  • @clemondbrown
    @clemondbrown Місяць тому

    What's the point of staying even though you're not happy? Loyalty, family, community. The issue that women have is compartmentalizing their feelings and not showing their kids what they're going through. But being the communal beings they are they like to gather the troops and destroy them.

  • @BrooklynMayor718
    @BrooklynMayor718 Місяць тому +1

    Why do they never just come out with a straight answer 😂😂😂

  • @joegott9391
    @joegott9391 Місяць тому

    I know a mom/grandma that chooses happiness over family, being a non worker, video gamer layabout, who for some reason pays the bills with husband's check, but can't get out of her ex-stepdads basement in the past 23 years. Also a pack a day habit over that time cost her over $100,000 in cigarettes.

  • @chadrainternational7777
    @chadrainternational7777 Місяць тому

    4:35 - The prettiest is the one who understands what marriage is, all the others are for the streets. Marraige is about duty and not Happiness, 80% of the families in America chose Happiness and so Destroy their Community and the very children they are saying would rather have them see mom happy. If you live for yourself you are by right selfish and then teach your children to be selfish and selfish communities break down.

  • @and1ballerz36
    @and1ballerz36 Місяць тому

    Perfect example of accountability being kryptonite to women

  • @fatbomb2338
    @fatbomb2338 Місяць тому

    What's the point of having bank accounts and owning property without understanding and having a sense of responsibility.

  • @ComeOnSonStopIt
    @ComeOnSonStopIt Місяць тому +3

    Hold up.. Cooley are you with a white woman with 3 kids from another relationship tho 👀… That’s what we gotta figure out asap my guy.

  • @zeanu2015
    @zeanu2015 Місяць тому

    What being happy look like
    I can be happy for a minute and then life goes on , happiness is not a permanent State of been
    That's why a lot of women regret their divorcing

  • @2K5W9M1
    @2K5W9M1 Місяць тому +1

    This dude wants to be cool so bad he even put it in his name. He’s trying way too hard

  • @noway464
    @noway464 Місяць тому

    You should include the full video in the description.

  • @pinotwinelover
    @pinotwinelover Місяць тому

    Yes, they lost their focus on the fleeting moments of happiness, right it's about fulfillment, duty commitment. If you're chasing happiness, you'll never find happiness.

  • @huhgangmenace3553
    @huhgangmenace3553 Місяць тому +1

    Sad af. And these aint no spring chickens!

  • @davidburton3275
    @davidburton3275 Місяць тому

    These are the forever single women. They chose the wrong man.

  • @jesseduke203
    @jesseduke203 Місяць тому

    Saying you would choose your own happiness over your kids is selfish, if your being abused, then yes, get out of that situation.

  • @datboiiitreytoofresh5345
    @datboiiitreytoofresh5345 Місяць тому

    Bro, why do women use sacrificing their own safety only for the kids as an excuse to stay in an abusive relationship but leave a "broke man" then become single mothers. 🤔

  • @biiiggame9139
    @biiiggame9139 Місяць тому +2

    Coley thinks he always rt!!! He asks complex things & expects simple answerzzz... like an ultimatum!!! 😮

  • @luu7492
    @luu7492 Місяць тому

    Now we can get on the plane and dip😂

  • @Adam-links
    @Adam-links Місяць тому +1

    You stay in a marriage when you’re not happy because happiness is an emotion and emotions are fleeting. Marriage is about duty and children not your feelings!

  • @bakedotf8361
    @bakedotf8361 Місяць тому

    This girl said she was 13 talking to a 29-year-old. Meaning not only did. She probably lie about her age and carried herself different even still he's wrong either way, but her and her parents should be punished and addressed. She says he took advantage of her when in Reality we know, she thought she had a winner because he was older and had money so she was OK with it until it didn't go her way.

  • @gerikiss1306
    @gerikiss1306 Місяць тому

    They are so clueless. 😂
    Let’s see how happy would they be if they’d be divorced with 2 kids try to date on Tinder and they get rejected on the spot because of that. 😂
    I know, because I did 4 time in one year.
    Those women were furious. 🤣

  • @patrickmulumbaofficial
    @patrickmulumbaofficial Місяць тому +1

    Women always put themselves first. The first girl doesn't realize that divorce always messes kids more than an "unhappy" mother.

  • @cartier2312
    @cartier2312 Місяць тому

    a 13 year old teenager should not be talking to and seeing a 29 year old man and secondly why would a 29 year old man trying to talk to a 13 year old girl in the first place? That 29 year old man should be talking to someone his own age

  • @Generik_
    @Generik_ Місяць тому

    She doesn’t want to take her issues out on her kids or family. Aren’t women the ones that have emotional intelligence?

  • @hameesmohamed9236
    @hameesmohamed9236 Місяць тому

    I love that all the time you ask women why did they leave thair former relationship, they say they were cheated on 😂😂😂😂

  • @ADMTyRenn
    @ADMTyRenn Місяць тому

    The one gurl that started on about the age difference relationship. Obviously the man was wrong but her parents/guardians were far more in the wrong.
    How is a 13yo getting treated that way? She is looking in the wrong enemy's eyes.

  • @MartavianThigpen
    @MartavianThigpen Місяць тому

    That’s why they all gone remand single

  • @Iam123-i5j
    @Iam123-i5j Місяць тому +1

    Happy happy
    Joy joy

  • @ADMTyRenn
    @ADMTyRenn Місяць тому

    And Ez wearing the shirt again! 😒
    Want mine!

  • @themacadime
    @themacadime Місяць тому

    When their children don’t make them happy they are done with them lol they don’t care to deal with anyone who doesn’t make them happy 😃 interesting logic

  • @Sheree-Sheree
    @Sheree-Sheree Місяць тому +1

    Majority of men sign up for SEX not a child and what mans turning down raw sex. If you allow it having a baby hurts women more- You will be primary care taker it will be all on YOU - so who should be prioritizing using protection ??????????????????

  • @Lancealot3553
    @Lancealot3553 Місяць тому

    😂 they think leaving for their happiness isn’t sacrificing their family!? Sorry ladies when you break up your family you turn those kids into a statistic!! This is fact!! Sorry it is what it is, all kids are worse off
    When coming from a broken home.

  • @ManuelMartinez-mu9np
    @ManuelMartinez-mu9np Місяць тому

    This just hit home … my daughter is worth the sacrifice

  • @Yacht27
    @Yacht27 Місяць тому

    This proves they will be horrible mothers, they will always put their happiness above there child, then wonder why the child’s father is not around and the child ends up with mental health issues 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @RonXX
    @RonXX Місяць тому

    Nooo Esmy why would you come on this 😭😭

  • @apatino1995
    @apatino1995 Місяць тому

    The broad preaching about being happy looks absolutely miserable lol

  • @RP.Warrior
    @RP.Warrior Місяць тому

    Men sacrifice happiness for family, women sacrifice family for happiness

  • @TheWhiteHouse856
    @TheWhiteHouse856 Місяць тому

    Bro you need a female cohost that’s real with hers!

  • @germtheory1257
    @germtheory1257 Місяць тому

    accountability is a four letter word ......landwhale wants a pass for putting kids at risk

  • @Druxluxe
    @Druxluxe Місяць тому

    Grown ass kids. Can't be without their phone for a couple hours. Women bruh, smh.

  • @lordheaven237
    @lordheaven237 Місяць тому

    If Men was to tell Women..."I'm not happy and you don't make Me happy and I don't think we should continue on.." Women will crash out. Guys, always remember...Women do not like their logic and ideologies used on them so please stop listening to them

  • @Thenochillofcomedy
    @Thenochillofcomedy Місяць тому

    Whew chile

  • @twstws7221
    @twstws7221 Місяць тому

    I'm in a relationship and I'm not 100% happy I do 100% care and love the lady I'm with but I have kids and there happiness means more to me than my own happiness I made a choice to have kids so my happiness is not as important now and these women think it's ok just to be with man after man not cool get cing something you make it work you should have thought about that before you have kids because you should have thought about it before the kids if you r in and abusive relationship that understandable but if they person you r with is a good person you make it work

  • @ribsybrown510
    @ribsybrown510 Місяць тому

    For the woman that was under age when she got into her situation,where were her parents?

  • @ronaldwalker2622
    @ronaldwalker2622 Місяць тому

    It's always abuse but the statistics say another thing

  • @OkayJayy_
    @OkayJayy_ Місяць тому

    Women are like frustrating projects thats not easy to work on

  • @DonDon-ge5dg
    @DonDon-ge5dg Місяць тому +2

    Proverbs 14:1 Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.
    Biblical thots 🤡

  • @terralecoutain3056
    @terralecoutain3056 Місяць тому

    She was 13 with someone that 29 jus let dat sit in 4 awhile

  • @MarthaSuarez-e2q
    @MarthaSuarez-e2q Місяць тому

    This happy wife, happy life is destroying families. Happy spouse, happy house should be.
    NOTICE THE WEDDING VOWS SAY, OR SHOW NOTHING ABOUT HAPPINESS.
    Please show me.

  • @PinkskullTheMultiboxer
    @PinkskullTheMultiboxer Місяць тому +1

    Eh, like, eem like. Like eeh, you know what im saying. Like eee like en like, know what in saying, like eeh like em like

  • @JuliaGojo2024
    @JuliaGojo2024 Місяць тому

    The single mom got daddy issues! She was definitely raised by a single mom..
    With a father in the house the pedo situation would never happen.

  • @Crimson-Ox
    @Crimson-Ox Місяць тому

    Damn… fellaz these chicks are dangerous and they’re telling you that family means nothing to them! These same chicks put up with all types of bullshit everyday but in a relationship they only care about themselves 💯

  • @silviusebs
    @silviusebs Місяць тому

    no joke, but the only one choosing family over happiness, woman or transformer? slightly confusing:))

  • @kookookala6251
    @kookookala6251 Місяць тому +1

    My opinion, do your own research! I am a God fearing person and God's laws state a woman should never be over a man. God's laws, not mine and here is the proof! Please do your own research.
    1 Timothy 2:9-15
    9 I also want the women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, adorning themselves, not with elaborate hairstyles or gold or pearls or expensive clothes,
    10 but with good deeds, appropriate for women who profess to worship God.
    11 A woman should learn in quietness and full submission.
    12 I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet.
    13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve.
    14 And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner.
    15 But women will be saved through childbearing-if they continue in faith, love and holiness with propriety.

  • @Gnsloso
    @Gnsloso Місяць тому

    1:55 they sound like children already

  • @bakedotf8361
    @bakedotf8361 Місяць тому +1

    Cooley you should've stuck to your guns and tell them no they don't need their phones because they don't need to be distracted from the podcast that smart Ass woman wouldn't have never made it on fresh and fit she would've gotten put out for Mouthing off. If her phone was that important then she was welcome to leave and she can be on it as much as you want, but these are the rules of the respect it or get out.😒

  • @Hennybear600
    @Hennybear600 Місяць тому

    Terrible just terrible it’s like talking to children

  • @Hassan-t4s
    @Hassan-t4s Місяць тому

    I just want to say Cooley they tricked you with the abuse argument, and here is how: Remember the question is IF the woman decided to leave the family after a long time relationship 10 to 25 + years ( so the key word here is long time) ..so ladies you should not be in abusive long relationship and you should not procreate with an abusive man you should left the marriage early ...but if you gonna stay that long in this " abusive" marriage and continue pop out kids, that's on you, you can't complain now searching for happiness, its your fault.

    • @everretwilliams8215
      @everretwilliams8215 Місяць тому

      Also... in the majority of "abusive" relationships women and men are mutually responsible, the trick is when women bring up an "abusive" relationship she will always omit her hand in the abuse, leaving the listener to assume "a big bad man was slapping around a sweet little princess".

    • @Hassan-t4s
      @Hassan-t4s Місяць тому

      @@everretwilliams8215 that's also true women overused the word abusive and became ambiguous... You can just ignore loud yelling woman in she still call it abuse ...that is why any women say I was abused I ask what do you mean by that explain what happened ?

  • @999KBC
    @999KBC Місяць тому

    Marriage is about sacrifice. All men do is sacrifice in relationships. Shame these women are that selfish and will never experience and proper family because of it.

  • @frankpizarro6285
    @frankpizarro6285 Місяць тому +2

    Is Cooley with a woman who already has 2 Kids? Somebody answer this

  • @kingofcontroversy7925
    @kingofcontroversy7925 Місяць тому

    Women need to stop with this women right stuff...acting like the color purple actually happen on a high percentage 😅....women understood their roll at that time vs yall want to be independent but want a man to take care of a independent woman.😅

  • @chefcoreycooks
    @chefcoreycooks Місяць тому +1

    Cooley has lost all credibility. How is that redymade famuly working out high value man??

  • @WindowSeat84
    @WindowSeat84 Місяць тому

    The moment he argue with a chic theyre gonna bring up his situation

  • @bobbyjones2911
    @bobbyjones2911 Місяць тому +1

    All I hear from these ladies is blah blah blah!

  • @ferrarirf1
    @ferrarirf1 Місяць тому

    No mames que triste 😢

  • @patrickmulumbaofficial
    @patrickmulumbaofficial Місяць тому

    And most black men that leave their women were also raised by single mothers. They have the spirit of their mothers.