Chin up Man, I hope it gets easier. I thought I would never get over her. It took me about two months to fully get over her. Work on your purpose and hit the gym hard.
7 months is a very long time to not have experience some relief from a breakup. Sounds like you’re depressed and with too much free time on your hands. Accept it and move on. Also put yourself back out there, maybe not romantically or sexually. But having a plutonic friend immediately following a breakup can be helpful. Good luck & hope this helps
I was best friends with a psychopath. I always admired how calm he was. Cool and calm. He was a nice guy. Former preacher. He always drove as fast as he could. Drove in the left lane. He faked empathy. He future-faked me all the time. He betrayed me in the end. After 12 years of friendship. I now realize, after reading it in a book, that psychopaths want to see you beg. It makes them feel powerful. He did the same thing to his ex wife. He abandoned her when she was pregnant with their baby. He refused to help her. I now understand why she despises him so much. He has no conscience. He lies to everyone. He steals every chance he gets. I had to learn this all the hard way. If you meet someone who shows little emotion, watch out!
Never had it explained so bluntly like that before but I thank you for saying it. I have been in NC with my ex boyfriend 24 days now. I broke up with him and blocked him on everything. I have been working on the mental aspect . I have landed a new job. I have been working on inner peace. However I need to start working on the "physical" aspect. You have given me the motivation to focus on that also. Great post .. even better advice. 🙂
You broke up with him. And excepting him to chase you? What kind of prize you think of yourself as? The simple rule is dumper must chase dumpee. Dumper must prove themselves to the dumpee if they want the dumpee. If he cheated/ disrespected you that another type of case.
@@tanvirhussain7355 Exactly. If you would have asked that question first.. I would have told you that answer and you wouldn't have had to assume I think I'm a " prize". Also, I have broken up with him before and I didn't expect him to come back trying to be with me again...but he did. I'm not looking for him either way which is why he's blocked and I don't come up with fake #'s to reach out to him...He does to reach out to me. I have told him before that Disrespect ..Lies.. Cheating.. Not being appreciative of Me and the Loving and Hard working Woman that I Am....will get him a 1 way ticket out of my life . I Dumped Him and he KNOWS what he has lost. That's why He Can't Let Go and He wants the " Prize " ( Me) Back. God bless.
First I was not happy so I requested a space to move out from her place for a month she said no and if I move out we are done so I STAYED after a 2 months she broke up with me and blamed everything on me that I destroyed the relationship which was correct and I agreed to make the necessary changes but she does not listed anymore I chased her for a month through no luck had a call with her after a month same again cried to me ad told me the same story about the mistakes I made which I agreed to that I will change and work on things but he always mention that you wont do the same error with your next gf now I do not know what to do been in no contact for about a week
Can you do a video on how to handle post-NC when ex messages asking to see you again. Im in 3rd round of NC cause I wasn't prepared when ex reached out.
Can no contact / radio silence work after you spend 2 months chasing them , begging them, pleading them , calling them , texting them , e mailing them and a huge fight? Especially if they tell you they don't love you?
There’s no guarantee but if that’s what you were doing then you need to absolutely give them that space and distance. Go into no contact and you don’t reach out for any reason whatsoever until if and when they reach out to you.
our break up was logically, and not emotional so i doubt he cares or misses me, plus we had closure which i think helps. alot. its his birthday in few days but im keeping no contact. i hope he doesnt get too upset with me because i wont message on his birthday. i just want to move on to be honest. its been 31 days NC lol. i hope it gets better.
They can’t miss you if you’re not gone. Stop contacting them and get help if you can’t stay away.
Every day feels like 1000 days it’s been 7 months and it isn’t getting any easier. 😢
Chin up Man, I hope it gets easier. I thought I would never get over her. It took me about two months to fully get over her. Work on your purpose and hit the gym hard.
7 months is a very long time to not have experience some relief from a breakup. Sounds like you’re depressed and with too much free time on your hands. Accept it and move on. Also put yourself back out there, maybe not romantically or sexually. But having a plutonic friend immediately following a breakup can be helpful. Good luck & hope this helps
Thank you, you're a wise man. My wife left me after 22 years of marriage, but I hope she changes her mind...
I was best friends with a psychopath.
I always admired how calm he was. Cool and calm. He was a nice guy. Former preacher.
He always drove as fast as he could. Drove in the left lane. He faked empathy.
He future-faked me all the time.
He betrayed me in the end. After 12 years of friendship.
I now realize, after reading it in a book, that psychopaths want to see you beg.
It makes them feel powerful. He did the same thing to his ex wife.
He abandoned her when she was pregnant with their baby.
He refused to help her. I now understand why she despises him so much.
He has no conscience. He lies to everyone. He steals every chance he gets.
I had to learn this all the hard way.
If you meet someone who shows little emotion, watch out!
Never had it explained so bluntly like that before but I thank you for saying it. I have been in NC with my ex boyfriend 24 days now. I broke up with him and blocked him on everything. I have been working on the mental aspect . I have landed a new job. I have been working on inner peace. However I need to start working on the "physical" aspect. You have given me the motivation to focus on that also. Great post .. even better advice. 🙂
Appreciate it! Sounds like you’re doing the right things. I wish you success in you’re new job
@@Jordan-Maille Thank you
You broke up with him. And excepting him to chase you? What kind of prize you think of yourself as? The simple rule is dumper must chase dumpee. Dumper must prove themselves to the dumpee if they want the dumpee. If he cheated/ disrespected you that another type of case.
@@tanvirhussain7355
Exactly.
If you would have asked that question first.. I would have told you that answer and you wouldn't have had to assume I think I'm a " prize".
Also, I have broken up with him before and I didn't expect him to come back trying to be with me again...but he did.
I'm not looking for him either way which is why he's blocked and I don't come up with fake #'s to reach out to him...He does to reach out to me.
I have told him before that Disrespect ..Lies.. Cheating.. Not being appreciative of Me and the Loving and Hard working Woman that I Am....will get him a 1 way ticket out of my life .
I Dumped Him and he KNOWS what he has lost.
That's why He Can't Let Go and He wants the " Prize " ( Me) Back.
God bless.
First I was not happy so I requested a space to move out from her place for a month she said no and if I move out we are done so I STAYED after a 2 months she broke up with me and blamed everything on me that I destroyed the relationship which was correct and I agreed to make the necessary changes but she does not listed anymore I chased her for a month through no luck had a call with her after a month same again cried to me ad told me the same story about the mistakes I made which I agreed to that I will change and work on things but he always mention that you wont do the same error with your next gf now I do not know what to do been in no contact for about a week
Love the video brother 🤟 !! This is as authentic as it gets
Appreciate it!!
I did and he moved on
I know how that feels because my ex never came back either, unfortunately that’s what happens sometimes and not all ex’s do comeback
Can you do a video on how to handle post-NC when ex messages asking to see you again. Im in 3rd round of NC cause I wasn't prepared when ex reached out.
I tried , it got loud and dark affff
Can no contact / radio silence work after you spend 2 months chasing them , begging them, pleading them , calling them , texting them , e mailing them and a huge fight? Especially if they tell you they don't love you?
There’s no guarantee but if that’s what you were doing then you need to absolutely give them that space and distance. Go into no contact and you don’t reach out for any reason whatsoever until if and when they reach out to you.
our break up was logically, and not emotional so i doubt he cares or misses me, plus we had closure which i think helps. alot.
its his birthday in few days but im keeping no contact. i hope he doesnt get too upset with me because i wont message on his birthday. i just want to move on to be honest.
its been 31 days NC lol. i hope it gets better.