Bts imagine: Jungkook - comforting your overweight insecurities
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- Опубліковано 13 чер 2020
- !Trigger Warning!: this video contains angst scenarios and content about eating disorders. If you're not comfortable with this topic, please do not watch the video.If you find yourself in a situation where you are a threat to either yourself or the people around you, please call your country's hotline!!
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I hope I can help some of you with this video. If you need someone to talk to, feel free to ask, I'm always here for you. You're not alone even though it might seem so. There is an end to this and there are ways that can help you cope with eating disorders or self-consciousness. Have a great day and don't forget: you nice keep going! I purple every single one of you
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Omg thank you so much for mentioning feeling bad for not having a thigh gap and for having stretch marks 🥺
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL THE WAY U ARE :)
Same with me I have Been bullied so yea🥺
Im not over weight but i still have a hard time loving my body
I was over 260 pounds and lost 100 pounds and was at 160. I hated myself for at 160. So even losing the weight won't make a difference. You have to actually love yourself. And accept yourself as a person. That way when you lose weight you'll still love who you see in the mirror. This really hit hard.
His smile just makes me happy its amazing how just seven korean guys have changed my life
i dont understand how the fuck you have some physic ability that posts this exact video when i need it but thank you
This is my problem right now
Omg thanks this is something I've been struggling with love you kira💜
I love this one because it’s really similar to what my bf tells me when I talk about my weight, which makes me realize how lucky I am to have him 🥺
Also, to everyone reading this: It’s okay to lose weight if you really want to, as long as it’s in a healthy way and for yourself - not for others! But don’t have your happiness depend on it, enjoy the process and love yourself no matter what. 💜💜💜💜
i have been struggling with insecurities recently and letting the voices in my head control me, i've been forcing myself to throw up so much other the last couple of days. anyways i love this video, you nice and keep going 💜💜💜
You're not alone, im here, we are fighting with the same monster :)
Lately I’ve been really insecure about weight thinking I’m fat (I’m actually underweight) so I’ve been starving myself during breakfast and lunch and I only eat a little bit of dinner but this gave me so much comfort so thank you 💜
Don’t starve urself I don’t know u but ur perfect just as u r so please don’t starve yourself and take care of yourself 💜
Thank you so much for saying that I really needed it 💜🥺
@@staygold4023 u shouldnt starve urself pls dont Im sure u are a very beautiful girl 💜💜💜💜💜💖💗
Just out of interest how much weight did u lose
xhsisbsjsn i was writing but got the notification so let’s goooo i’m so ready to watch thisss. dude this is like exactly what i needed ? how did you know :(
I love how jungkook gives her advices, support her, its right in Korea when we are skinny its a beauty standard but sincerely you all are perfect, don't change, stay like you are, even if you take kilos its not voie, you have the body many people wanna have
nice video bro
I really needed this, thank you for posting I love your videos !!!!
omg thank you so much for making these videos! i really need this
i don't say that often but thx for that video... it really comforted me and there's only few videos who are actually able to do that! Love you
I started crying I’ve struggled with body image allot and this rlly helped
It´s going to be okay, you are amazing the way you are!!
@@viljavaananen8544 that's so kind of you thank you so much, same to you
Its okay...... Your perfect just the way you are
*Starts singing*
♫︎cause your amazing just the way you are♫︎ (the song is stuck in my head and i forgot the tittle ehehe)
I love you so much!💜🤗 You nice keep going!💜
It is so comforting to a girl like me who is really insecure for being overweight . Thank you so much for creating this video 😄
I love how I actually see/imagine jungkook saiding this 💗💗
Sometimes we let our inside voice took control of us but sometimes we should also try to overcome those voices because we are amazing lovely and just dan gorgeous 💕💕🙈🙈🙈💚💚💚💜💜💜💜
Thank you for making this. I've been struggling with eating disorders myself for years (even got hospitalized in the past, i was quite close to death really and it's terrifying to think about that) and i'd say that this video was made in a way that isn't actually offensive to us; eating disorders are horrible things that like to take offence in the slightest, tiniest details, so it is easy to feel attacked or insulted by people talking about EDs in general, even though other people mean no harm. Yet you managed to make it seem kind and smooth, so good job and thank you! It's also beautiful that you try to create videos in which we can imagine ourselves talking with they boys about such struggles. It's really comforting, and very sweet of you. Take care ARMY x
I love you. You are really an angel. You don't have to read the rest, it's just some boring stuff that I needed to tell someone even if they wouldn't be listening, thank you anyway. (I'm not sure, if you considered the thing I wrote before or just knew.) THIS... this came right at the time I need it. Sadly, I feel the thought process Y/N has in this, but in my case I see what comes next in my head. I've been stuck lately. I got better and than I got worse again. I got out of the cycle and now I'm getting back. I know I am. A can feel it. I never threw up. I never liked doing that, I hate it. But I threw up today and yesterday and few days before. I cried yesterday so much that my eyes were bloody today. And today.. today I just feel so lost. I lost my motivation to do anything really. I don't know what to do with myself. I don't want to do anything really. I pretty much haven't left my room. And now it feel all empty. I feel empty, colors feel empty, things feel empty, my body doesn't feel mine. The food I ate, when I got a bit better suddenly didn't feel worth anything really. I hate this feeling. It's like all I want to do is sleep, but I've been having bad dreams lately, so I don't even want to sleep. I just want o go to sleep, have a nice dream and never wake up again. And I don't even know, if what is going on again is something, or if I'm just being drama queen and overthinking things. I don't really like myself, so I'm always sceptical about what I do and think. But this state I'm in right now doesn't feel right. I am sometimes afraid of what I might do in this state of nothing. I've never been diagnosed with anything or actually talked about it with anyone so except my mom worrying when she doesn't see me eat (I think she's suspicious, but she doesn't know anything at all) enough. So I don't know if I have a problem or not. It always feels so bad and heavy on my chest, it hurts sometimes, but when I try to talk about it, it gets even worse. It's like the feeling goes somewhere to the back, it's still there but it seems it's much easier and do it seems like I'm lying about feeling bad. But as soon as I stop trying or writing about my feelings their back. I know I'm getting worse and I know I won't go to anyone. I feel so hopeless and so stupid. Ahhhhh... it wasn't for long that I was happy, but I sincerely enjoyed the few months and I'm very grateful for them. It was enough. It was worth living even if just for these when I felt okay with myself and happy with my few friends. It sounds like I'm dying, doesn't it? 😂 Who knows, maybe I am. Maybe it'll go just down from here, but I have to keep trying... doing whatever I am doing. Just survive. I just want to have to survive this somehow till the next moment I will be happy. I will surely... feel well again, right? Sometime... I want to cry now. I kind of saw I was going downhill for some time now. Not deleting images from my phone after relapse, not stopping following the ed accounts, throwing up, pretending like nothing happened when it actually did and I should've talked about it with someone. But it was never the right time. I feel so worthless honestly. I feel so not worth anyone's attention and I know if I keep thinking that, I will feel even worse but I just can't stop. I don't deserve it. If I didn't have so many plans for the future and so many things I still want to do like go to BTS's concert, travel, get tattoos, sleep with someone, fall in love, marry someone, have kids (adopted or not)... If I didn't have that, I, would probably just want to die. So if anyone feeling similar is reading this, just know that making plans helps you, at least a little bit to not go too far with your thoughts or well... actions.
Thank you for the video very much, it was great. I wish there was more creators like you. 💜
Thank you both so much. I'm so grateful I could talk to you. It actually helped a lot.
Ahh.. I have to boost myself somehow. Maybe I can change my hair color? Hehe, I wanted to do that for a long time now. I woke up feeling better, I think writing it here helped me. I can do it. I'll be okay.
I purple you both, please stay healthy 💜
@@user-ds6qf8un8d I read it all I know I am late but how are u feeling now has it gotten better or worse?I am also battling depression right now so I sort of know what u are going through but u
Sound a bit worse I have never made myself throwup although I want too I hope u are feeling better we will get through this together sis
💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
UGH THANK YOU SO KUCH FOR THIS IT REALLY HITS HARD!!🥺🥺💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
Your videos always make my day. This actually made me feel better, thank you 💜
That's what it means to be pretty to you? A thigh gap?
Wow, idk why but it hit differently. pretty is not just about your body you know, it's also your mind and your heart, how you treat others, how hard you work.
This is something I didnt realize how much I needed until I watched it, so thank you 😊💖
" I never understood why there was this one beauty - standard" and I also don't understand..
Btw loved it
I love you. Thank you.
I am kinda chubby around my legs/thighs and tummy...But my friends always comfort me about it..They always lay on my tummy😅😂
#HiJeonJungkook i miss you
And Are you bangBangCon plase
Im upset because before everything closed down i was quite active and was like 114 lbs but now that ive been stuck inside with a bunch of food im back up to like 135 lbs. I wasn’t even happy being 114 lbs and I am even more unhappy with my weight now. (For reference im 5 ft 3 in)
I just don't my some girls are just like "Oh I'm so fat!😩" be in reality they have the most curvy a** body ever.
I have weight problem too now i am a no sugar diet it is so hard i get judged cause i am not skinny enough
That you need to be happy with yourself was the whole point of the "Love Yourself" Era.
It's true that there are multiple ways to be considered pretty but if you're not loving yourself, no compliment from someone else is going to be acceptable even when it is honestly how the other person feels.
It's fine to lose some weight as long as it is a healthy weight for your body and not too much to the point where you are sickly and unable to function.
Set baby step weight loss goals and see how you feel.
Just because a BMI says that you should be a certain weight for yourself based on your height doesn't mean that it will be the right weight for you.
If you're not feeling well, try gaining a bit and see if the feeling of unwellness goes away.
If so, than the gained weight is what is actually healthy for YOU.
Remember you are not "everyone". 😉💛
💛 It's how I honestly feel. 🤷♀️
Quarantine did a number on my weight loss goal and now I feel sluggish so I know I'm not at a healthy weight for me and am working to get to mine.
I was close before because I felt more energetic and had fewer issues moving around so I know I can get there again.
That's made difficult for me though because I love food so much, particularly the meals with 4+ courses. 😋
I've changed what I choose to eat for those though which is helping.
For my appetizer I go with soup or salad with extra veggies and protein added and for my dessert fruit.
I do indulge with my side being something that has carbs but eat a small portion in a dish separate from the main plate. It does make more work with dishes but that way I don't feel like I'm depriving myself and can release my attention on food and direct it to something else.
For me it's a combination of food choices and movement that works.
I can't physically do a lot of exercises because of my injuries but I do the ones that I can more often just to move.
I'm doing my best for sure.
I enjoyed life more when I felt like going out more often in Florida's heat and humidity.
My treats of late have been putting the money that I would've spent on a food treat towards a trip to visit family out of state.
I actually just returned from a trip to see my family and it was worth the sacrifice of delicious but unhealthy foods leading up to it. 😁
Thanks. Working on it for sure! 💃🏼
See i’m like this right now I let people get to me but Now I realized I’m better then them and that I will always be better then them regardless💜💜💜
Thank u i really needed needed this
Can u make the next one about dark skin insecurities plz?
Sigh. Another insecurity that some girls have that break my heart. I hate how for some stupid reason some people, even our own families tend to hate darker skin color. I'm tan, but my cousin it's a dark black color and people judge him and even family make comments. Our different skin is what makes us all so unique and beautiful to look at. I love dark skin. It's so freaking beautiful and I had to love myself for my skin because for a long time I wished I was darker. If you're dark skinned it doesn't matter. Because you are beautiful to many people and the ones who hate it are ignorant and childish.
Im 125pounds and im tall. Im 1,70.. i feel so disgusting and fat its missing everything up. My mental healrh and my relationship with my family i hate it
You are not fat at all. You are beautiful the way you are. Don‘t Listen to others. You are really not fat.
"I will never understand your obsession with Overwatch". Same.
I used to play video games all the time...until I played The Sims 2, then it was game over for video games and all about computer games.
Can you do a part 2? Because that was really motivating!💜💜
Can u make one for underweight girls it would be interesting...so that I can use the ff for my weight increasing motivation 😁😇
Korea: land of beauty fascism, especially for women. I'm Korean American traveled extensively see body image issues from global perspective. Constantly punish yourself with fat paranoia lose life more than lose pounds. Besides, body fat matters way more than kg. Was on French cigarette and coffee meal plan, never went gym. Started working out, switched thin, squishy, weak marshmallow body to lean, firm, gentle curves. But have to work for it. Notice most skinny Korean women thin but flabby. Work out. Feel better, exercise get to eat more. Never be afraid putting on too much muscle or getting six pack. That takes so much work won't happen unintentionally, gotta earn it like mofo.
thank you so much for this kira💜
yeah all food Korean my fovorite
I'm not worried about my weight I'm happy with it...I'm just insecure about my height 😢...like I'm not even 5 ( I'm 4f 8in and I'm 14 yes) I feel really insecure about it. I don't wanna be hell tall but just want to be a little note tall ( like atlreast 5) I'm not even growing. Though I'm not FAT ( Like im normal) about my weight my height makes me look like a little wired
@@kiRa13 yeah...tbh no one really judges a lot but when I meet new people and I go like I'm in class 9 they go like really I thought u were in 6th...that really annoys me 😂...and like I feel so small around my classmates 😅 . anyways thanks for ur words 😁
I was like freaked out how accurate this was. Then I remembered that I have requested a video like this. Probably coincidence but hey could be.. I think that we need more people who talk about this matter... Like the only reason when being to thin or having to much weight is when it's affecting your health. But really if I have a diet plan it's because I feel ugly and want to look better. And what was the result? Ending in pro eating disorder groups which destroyed any body confidence and having a false body picture of myself. But of course it's not taken seriously because I'm not visible unhealthy. Like being super skinny and fit is a trent which actually is really dangerous. OK maybe it wound throw you in an eating disorder but it can harm you mentally if you always are at war with your body. I hope someday I can be satisfied with mine. I hope you who reads this can someday look in the mirror and thin. Hey, I am perfectly fine the way I am.
*maybe it wouldn't throw you in an eating disorder
Your not just skin and bones believe me 🤣
Can you make one for skinny bodies cause I'm really skinny but not that skinny and I'm insecure about it
Ya eatting disorder is serious and I didnt even know I had one until I was told so I was only eatting 500 calories a day for some time now i eat more than that but still afraid to eat a lot and when i do i feel guilty I already gained most of my weight back and my yk uh period- is not even coming anymore
I’m very sorry to hear that. i hope that now that you’ve realised what’s going on you can take measures against it and start trying to be healthier again. you’re not alone, we’re in this together so feel free to ask for help if you need anything.
lots of love ♡
Hey there… I know it‘s a hard topic… I was there once. I didn’t have my period for over a year… but I fought against not eating and now I have it again. I believe in you. You can do it. Feel free to message me, if you need support, okay?
Here again 💜
thank you for this :)
You obviously don't have to but can you pls make one for asthmatics my has been acting up alot recently. Also I love your videos💜!! "You Nice Keep Going" - Park Jimin 💜
I’ve missed u Ki
i wishes my future husband Korean just kidding
is it me or did my adiuo cut off at 7:58?
I can't watch more than 4:50
This video is helpful. I know I am fat. However, I can't really lose the weight because I am under so much stress and it's just really hard for me to just...let go. I am practically facing one huge mega situation and it only made my mental health worse, so in turn, I cannot see myself in a bright light. I am not even a curvy person, since I have hip dips so there goes that. On top of that, I also have to deal with my mom trying to force me to get a lap band surgery (if I have to, I'll choose liposuction (the non-invasive form) but only if it comes down to that). Like what parent, in their right mind would try to force their child into surgery? I get her intention behind it, but it's really fucking annoying. I really don't want to live with this body, so I will try to change it. I have tried doing diets, but it never works because, like Y/N, I want it to work fast and will become frustrated with little progress. I have been through times where I cannot look at myself in the mirror because of how chubby my face is and of course, mom's constant reminder of how I am "expanding." I am seriously tired of life. I am tired of shit about my weight and everything being shoved down my throat daily. It also doesn't help that my shoulders are broad and I am kinda big around the mid-upper area (ladies you get it). It's very uncomfortable to look at myself in the mirror without thinking about that one time when someone who I used to be friends with told me that my "head is unproportionately smaller than the rest of my body." I hate people sometimes *face palm*
New army here can somebody tell me who jungkook is talking to?
Y/N 他的未來女孩
Y/N which means "your name"
so basically this is a fan fiction (which is made up and they just put fake subs) but the video is originally from a livestream on an app called VLive where kpop idols livestream with fans (which they usually read comments and respond to some)