💜 READ ME! 🌞 ⬇️ As K-pop fans we're probably all a bit familiar with the dark side of this industry, how it's so amazing, encouraging and often features positive messages about self love, but the beauty ideals can be a bit skewed especially when it comes to diversity. The norm for what is acceptable especially when it comes to female idols is pretty onedimensional, it's seen as normal to constantly be on a diet and I'm sure this affects a large portion of us, no matter if subconsciously or not. I remember watching Yoongi's vlive once and coincidentally he revealed his current weight, and I thought I misread. Surely he can't be that slim, surely he can't weigh less than me, someone so much younger who is also a female? It affected me negatively, if only for a brief moment. If you find yourself comparing yourself to BTS or any other K-pop idols for that matter and feeling bad and self-conscious, remember that you don't have to fit this narrow ideal. You don't have to compare yourself to BTS, they wouldn't want you to compare yourself, they want you to be healthy and feel confident that you're unique and perfect just as you are. Don't go on overly restrictive diets or think you're worth less because you don't look a certain way; LOVE YOURSELF, as Yoongi said in his recent vlive! And please; remember: 🌞 Eating disorders are more than just anorexia nervosa. Bulimia is not the "ugly" or "gross" eating disorder. There is nothing shameful about bulimia or about any other type of eating disorder, no matter if it's restrictive/binge/purge/or any other type. 🌞 You don't have to meet a certain weight criteria or be skinny to be suffering from disordered eating; if someone tells you differently or belittles your problems because of your weight or appearance, don't listen. ED's are primarily disorders of the mind and all cases and variations are serious no matter if they result in rapid weight loss or not! 🌞 You are not vain or self obsessed just because you're dealing with an eating disorder or feel pressure to lose weight, don't let anyone shame you into believing this. Eating disorders are not "first world problems" they're complicated and serious mental health illnesses that may be triggered by societal pressure but they can stem from a variety of different reasons 🌞 You're not bad for not being able to just "snap out of it" or "just eat" (or "stop eating"). People around you won't always understand how difficult it is and how much these harmful ideas affects a person and healing will take time. You're doing great. 🌞 Your body is always worthy of food and nutrition no matter what weight you are, underweight or overweight! Food is a life-upholding necessity that you are allowed to consume and enjoy, so please, please don't deprive or starve yourself. You deserve to eat. 🌞 You're allowed to carry yourself with pride and self-confidence and "flaunt your body" no matter what weight you are or how you look! It doesn't matter if you're obese, overweight, medium-sized, thin or underweight; SELF LOVE DOESN'T DEPEND ON YOUR APPEARANCE 💜 health is one thing, it's always good to strive towards being healthy, but don't damage your body in the process. Remember you deserve to love your body no matter what, and you NEVER deserve to be harassed or bullied for your size, appearance or any other exterior aspect. And don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise See description for links to resources, I 💜 you, and please stay healthy and happy
(Read if u want to) I have a older sister who is fat, she was thin when she was younger. I saw her pictures and videos where she was thin and since I was like a baby, I was of course a bit chubby. After she reached at like: 8th or 9th grade, she started becoming fat. And now that it's quarantine, it made her get more fat(I still love her and she is really pretty to me) And that's when our dad started making fun of her for being big. He would tell her to become thin but not in a nice way, instead in way that shows that he is mocking her body. And he does that to me, too for being thin, calling me: "pencil" "stick". When dad makes fun of her she would feel annoyed and mad but in the inside I know she is hurting and feels like crying... she has been tyring to hard to become thin but she just can't and that's fine with me, I don't want her to change for someone else, I want her to be her and be happy with her own body. It hurts and makes me sad when I hear her call herself "watermelon" "big fat balloon" I always say that she is pretty, almost every day I say "I love you" and "you cute" Bcoz she really is. When Yoongi said 'you are the cutest potato' that was wht I told my sis that if she is a watermelon or a balloon she is a pretty one.
This is what I needed, these days I've been struggling with how I look and I have an inner critic which is annoying asf and so yesterday I gave myself motivation like "you don't need to be skinny you are perfect as along as you are healthy don't stress about it, not everyone has to be skinny to love themselves, like for example your mom she's not a very fit person but she loves herself, and anyways being normal weight is healthy" And when I was younger I used to be skinny and whenever I would go in holidays some family members would say "why are you so skinny?", "are you fasting", "you need to eat more", or "I'm gonna make sure you eat more", and I let it slide it was annoying and I kept telling them "I eat alot but I don't gain weight", and when I was younger ( in grade 2) I didn't eat that much idk why but I had to go to a doctor about it, then as I grew up puberty started and I began to gain weight has I eat but those family members still call me "skinny" and the funny thing is whenever I think of going on a diet my mom starts cooking my fav food, although I used to get annoyed, now I'm starting to think maybe it's her mom instincts.... I'm soooo grateful for BTS and Army and my family just think being a kpop Stan is a distraction and it's nonsense but they don't know how much all the groups I stan help me when I'm sad or insecure, like you guys made my life is 10x better then before💜💜
This means a lot. Nobody really knows about my ed and even if they suspect they don't know how to approach me. I often imagine yoongi being there for me as sad as that is ... so thank you.
Aww, it's not sad at all, quite understandable and I'm absolutely certain Yoongi would approve of the thought of you using him as emotional support figure 💕 I'm beyond delighted this video helped you, hope you take care and feel free to write if you need someone to talk to x
@@taky1329 are you an angel ? you sure do sound like one. Thank you for your kind words, your response made me so happy. Whenever you feel down just remember that you help so many others and you put smile on their faces while they're at their lowest. Yoongi would be so proud to call you his fan.
The nice thing about beeing part of this fandom is that most are willing to listen.. we are family. Binge Eating was my eating disorder sp feel free to talk to me too
this did mean a lot for me. ed is a dark place for me and knowing that someone undertood that & caried of me is just sO great and makes me happy and thankful. ♡ yoongi is my utt so listening him talk about that/with me was very relieving and it took a huge weight off my back. you're a lil angel & blessed, thank you. 🎀🤍
Love your username 🙈 I'm sorry you've been feeling like this but at least we're all here on this planet together and thinking about each other 🤗 hope you remember that your body is amazing and deserves food and love
I haven't eaten for the past 20 hours. This is a new record for me.. to be honest I'm just too insecure about my body. 90% of the people where I live are like skinny.. I'm the other 10% who are overweight.. I tried doing exercise but I knew that I would stop after a few days.. my stomach hurts a little bit right now but I'm just in bed trying to sleep even though it's 3:22 p.m. I just don't want to be heavy.. I have double chin which makes my face look chubby.. I have stomach.. my legs and arms are kinda alright.. it's just that my stomach and my chubby face is what makes me insecure.. I'm looking like a potato while BTS are so fit.. I'm heavier than RM which makes me feel so so fat.. This video is so relatable.. but one thing that is not relatable is to have someone who cares about my situation :")
I do care about your situation, YOU'RE NOT ALONE, YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL ❤️ YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE SKINNY TO BE BEAUTIFUL! One of my friends is chubby and that made her feel bad with herself, so we started to say that her “extraweight” is because your body can't handle the much love you have inside!! ❤️ So, please go and eat something you like, our bodies need all those nutrients... If you want just try to make your food portions a bit smaller and try to eat some veggies and fruits in your daily meals, that'll help a bit! Sorry for my lack of writing skills :)
@@mrsmochi6326 Hi ♡ I know it's hard, but as I said earlier, try not to compare yourself to the boys regarding weight. You have probably different body structure, muscle mass and many other factors that makes the two of you different so your weight in regard to JK weight means nothing. They keep themselves pretty slim.but I know for sure they don't want ARMY to feel bad just because they're heavier because they want to spread the message of appreciation for all bodies. Don't reduce yourself to weight ♡ you're so much more than that and and you're gorgeous and I'm certain JK would tell you the same.
Hey please go and eat some food... honestly speaking starving yourself actually results in you gaining weight instead of losing...since your body goes into starvation mode...and hey please do not compare weights because it differs and should depend based on the person's age and height...I promise you that you're beautiful the way you are, perfect the way you are, YOU being YOU is MORE THAN ENOUGH! Love, please go have some food?
Honestly reading this particular story reminds me of when I used to skip eating lunch during my freshman year of highschool solely because I was a chubby girl who was already physically challenged ( walked using crutches) and therefore was extremely insecure about my physical appearance & what guys would think whenever they saw me walking in the hallways.
Hey..uh this really helped me..I was planning to quit eating...but this made me feel really light I mean all the bad thoughts are out of my mind..thank you so much for making this amazing video and hope you have an amazing day..and I am fine now and I feel happy in my own body thanks To BTS and you 💜
Please don’t stop💕 You need energy to be this wonderful person that you are okay? Promise me, even though you don’t know me, that you’ll try. Have a nice day and remember that you are amazing
I know I'm late but I'm here for you, *we're* here for you. Please don't ever stop eating you are beautiful, amazing, strong, and important. I'm soooo glad you're okay now and please take care of yourself. Bts, army, and I love you 💜💜
When Y/N told potato I immediately thought of my sister and almost started crying knowing that she calls herself that(when I want to feel calm and comfort myself, I am going to watch this video.) 😄💜purple you!
This got me in my feels now I'm all crying 😢 I know what's it like to struggle years with an eating disorder n depression. I didn't realize how bad I got till I was hospitalized weighing less then 70 pounds It took me weeks to recover n I still have those thoughts but I made it this far n BTS has help me realize I should love myself. My fav all time song is Epiphany. Whenever I feel those thoughts I listen to Epiphany. I hope they know how much they mean to army because to us they don't just make music they touch souls and hearts.
I'm so glad that you were able to recover 💜 ARMY and BTS share a special bond and I'm certain they're aware of how much they mean to us 💜 I love Epiphany too 💗
Hello, I come back here to release a bit of my bottled emotion. I recently trying to lose my weigh in healthy way by doing exercise and start to do a healthy diet. But ... I don't know, I became impatient and start to eat once a day since yesterday. I know it's totally stupid and unhealthy, that's why I am here today, to rearrange my mind and emotion again. Thank you so much!
I hope you get better soon! Make sure you get lots of rest and eat well. I totally feel you, being sick sucks. But it's okay! We're here for you! We love you! Also sorry if you're a different type of sick but all the same, I hope you're okay 💜
Bruhh yesterday I visit my doctor because Im not feeling well, But she said that Im having eating disorder, she give me like pills to make your blood more red because Im so pale, But now Im okay🥰
I was starving myself for 3 day because I'm an ugly potato and then suddenly this came out. I cry my ass out while eating after everything the sub say 😭
this helps me on an amount of levels you don’t even know I have an eating disorder due to ballet I have to keep a very thin shape and I never have time to eat or sometimes just don’t want to because I’m so scared of gaining weight it’s something that frightens me to my core, I developed Anemia recently due to the fact that I’m not enough Vitamin B-12 and I’m pretty sure it was caused by my eating disorder I have a bunch of people to talk to but some of them just don’t understand, my mental health is so shitty right now and plus the fact that my best friend recently moved to a private school and it’s a k-12 school so I’m extremely scared that I will never see him again, and this worry is just putting more weight on my back, I have BTS but they can only help me up to a certain point and at this point their there but they just don’t seem to help me as much as you would think, I need so much reassurance, I need to get told that my life will be okay, that this is just a phase of life and that this would pass, I just want a friend.
Sorry for late reply 💗 I've seen documentaries about the lives of ballerinas and it's such an amazing art form but also really seems like such a stressful environment when it comes to being thin 😔 I can understand how you must be struggling with the pressure of keeping a lean form. And probably you also love to dance, if it's your passion, but remember that nothing is worth risking your health for. You deserve to eat and enjoy food 💜 also sorry to hear your best friend isn't around. It's true that BTS can offer some help but nothing beats a real life person who can listen and support you. I know it's not the same but if you want you can use my comments as a safe space to write whatever you feel, or DM me on Instagram if you ever need to vent to someone. I hope you'll take care of your health cause you're precious 💗 and for what it's worth, I think it will work out, and be okay in the end. Much love 💜
@@Crym3ar1v3rx don't worry about this person's comment, they don't know you and are in no position to judge you. Feel free to vent and comment whatever you want on my videos 💜
Me who had anorexia and was struggling to gain weight. I've been eating a lot but still don't gain weight. Can you do a video which is completely opposite of this. I might become comfortable with my skinny body structure. Atleast I won't be insecure about it.
I wanna be skinny cause I'm so insecure all the time, but all I do is eat, sleep, and be lazy..what do I expect? I compare myself with others, and I feel so bad about myself. I was overweight ever since I was like 2 years old. I try to stop eating but it's just not happening. I get jealous when my friends are with better looking people cause I don't feel good enough. I had so many fake friends, so I wanna keep the 2 irl friends I have now. I'm so confusing, I'm sorry. I get judged all the time so I barely talk about it, so I'm sorry if you feel like I'm attention seeking,, but I love this upload and almost cried
Oh 😢 believe me I understand, as someone who's been at both ends of the spectrum; severely underweight and also overweight. Just quitting eating isn't easy if you perhaps regard food as comfort or even because of genetics or the environment you grow up in, or any other reason, we're all designed differently and some lose weight easily and others struggle so much with it. It's normal and human to compare yourself to others, everyone does, a little bit, but this sounds so awful, that you had to deal with these crippling thoughts for so long. Just remember all these feelings are valid and you're not attention seeking just bc you feel like this or express it. Most people would feel exactly the same. I know it won't help much coming from me - but you're good enough 💜 you can vent in my comments ANYTIME. About anything, this is a safe space where we don't judge each other. Sending you a lot of love and good vibes 💜💜💜 and hope I can make more videos on this topic in the future that might be helpful to you 💜
@@taky1329 oh okay, I was just wondering because this is really well written. Like REALLY realistic in some points. If you get what I mean. Wishing you the best!💜
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💜 READ ME! 🌞 ⬇️
As K-pop fans we're probably all a bit familiar with the dark side of this industry, how it's so amazing, encouraging and often features positive messages about self love, but the beauty ideals can be a bit skewed especially when it comes to diversity. The norm for what is acceptable especially when it comes to female idols is pretty onedimensional, it's seen as normal to constantly be on a diet and I'm sure this affects a large portion of us, no matter if subconsciously or not. I remember watching Yoongi's vlive once and coincidentally he revealed his current weight, and I thought I misread. Surely he can't be that slim, surely he can't weigh less than me, someone so much younger who is also a female? It affected me negatively, if only for a brief moment. If you find yourself comparing yourself to BTS or any other K-pop idols for that matter and feeling bad and self-conscious, remember that you don't have to fit this narrow ideal. You don't have to compare yourself to BTS, they wouldn't want you to compare yourself, they want you to be healthy and feel confident that you're unique and perfect just as you are. Don't go on overly restrictive diets or think you're worth less because you don't look a certain way; LOVE YOURSELF, as Yoongi said in his recent vlive!
And please; remember:
🌞 Eating disorders are more than just anorexia nervosa. Bulimia is not the "ugly" or "gross" eating disorder. There is nothing shameful about bulimia or about any other type of eating disorder, no matter if it's restrictive/binge/purge/or any other type.
🌞 You don't have to meet a certain weight criteria or be skinny to be suffering from disordered eating; if someone tells you differently or belittles your problems because of your weight or appearance, don't listen. ED's are primarily disorders of the mind and all cases and variations are serious no matter if they result in rapid weight loss or not!
🌞 You are not vain or self obsessed just because you're dealing with an eating disorder or feel pressure to lose weight, don't let anyone shame you into believing this. Eating disorders are not "first world problems" they're complicated and serious mental health illnesses that may be triggered by societal pressure but they can stem from a variety of different reasons
🌞 You're not bad for not being able to just "snap out of it" or "just eat" (or "stop eating"). People around you won't always understand how difficult it is and how much these harmful ideas affects a person and healing will take time. You're doing great.
🌞 Your body is always worthy of food and nutrition no matter what weight you are, underweight or overweight! Food is a life-upholding necessity that you are allowed to consume and enjoy, so please, please don't deprive or starve yourself. You deserve to eat.
🌞 You're allowed to carry yourself with pride and self-confidence and "flaunt your body" no matter what weight you are or how you look! It doesn't matter if you're obese, overweight, medium-sized, thin or underweight; SELF LOVE DOESN'T DEPEND ON YOUR APPEARANCE 💜 health is one thing, it's always good to strive towards being healthy, but don't damage your body in the process. Remember you deserve to love your body no matter what, and you NEVER deserve to be harassed or bullied for your size, appearance or any other exterior aspect. And don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise
See description for links to resources, I 💜 you, and please stay healthy and happy
I am fatter than a potato and still call myself pretty but this makes me feel better thank you💜💜💜💜
@@yoona9 I'm glad you do because you are pretty 💓
@@yoona9 you are pretty:) and love yourself
(Read if u want to) I have a older sister who is fat, she was thin when she was younger. I saw her pictures and videos where she was thin and since I was like a baby, I was of course a bit chubby. After she reached at like: 8th or 9th grade, she started becoming fat. And now that it's quarantine, it made her get more fat(I still love her and she is really pretty to me) And that's when our dad started making fun of her for being big. He would tell her to become thin but not in a nice way, instead in way that shows that he is mocking her body. And he does that to me, too for being thin, calling me: "pencil" "stick". When dad makes fun of her she would feel annoyed and mad but in the inside I know she is hurting and feels like crying... she has been tyring to hard to become thin but she just can't and that's fine with me, I don't want her to change for someone else, I want her to be her and be happy with her own body. It hurts and makes me sad when I hear her call herself "watermelon" "big fat balloon" I always say that she is pretty, almost every day I say "I love you" and "you cute" Bcoz she really is. When Yoongi said 'you are the cutest potato' that was wht I told my sis that if she is a watermelon or a balloon she is a pretty one.
This is what I needed, these days I've been struggling with how I look and I have an inner critic which is annoying asf and so yesterday I gave myself motivation like "you don't need to be skinny you are perfect as along as you are healthy don't stress about it, not everyone has to be skinny to love themselves, like for example your mom she's not a very fit person but she loves herself, and anyways being normal weight is healthy"
And when I was younger I used to be skinny and whenever I would go in holidays some family members would say "why are you so skinny?", "are you fasting", "you need to eat more", or "I'm gonna make sure you eat more", and I let it slide it was annoying and I kept telling them "I eat alot but I don't gain weight", and when I was younger ( in grade 2) I didn't eat that much idk why but I had to go to a doctor about it, then as I grew up puberty started and I began to gain weight has I eat but those family members still call me "skinny" and the funny thing is whenever I think of going on a diet my mom starts cooking my fav food, although I used to get annoyed, now I'm starting to think maybe it's her mom instincts....
I'm soooo grateful for BTS and Army and my family just think being a kpop Stan is a distraction and it's nonsense but they don't know how much all the groups I stan help me when I'm sad or insecure, like you guys made my life is 10x better then before💜💜
"The cutest potato I ever saw.." that's honestly so cute, good job with the video
Aww 🤭 thank you 🥰
My mom calls me a potato cause of my chubby cheeks 😌
This means a lot. Nobody really knows about my ed and even if they suspect they don't know how to approach me. I often imagine yoongi being there for me as sad as that is ... so thank you.
Aww, it's not sad at all, quite understandable and I'm absolutely certain Yoongi would approve of the thought of you using him as emotional support figure 💕 I'm beyond delighted this video helped you, hope you take care and feel free to write if you need someone to talk to x
@@taky1329 are you an angel ? you sure do sound like one. Thank you for your kind words, your response made me so happy. Whenever you feel down just remember that you help so many others and you put smile on their faces while they're at their lowest. Yoongi would be so proud to call you his fan.
@@idkmelinda7267 oh my how sweet are you ♡ you're welcome, you made me smile too, I'll remember this ♡ please take care x
The nice thing about beeing part of this fandom is that most are willing to listen.. we are family. Binge Eating was my eating disorder sp feel free to talk to me too
You look a little pale
Says the man who is pale as a ghost
🤣🤣
yes! he's almost as pale as me and I am a white goth haha
4:08 did the Min Yoongi just say EDUCATION IS IMPORTANT tf
i said the same thing in my head lol
Where is Min Yoongi and what did you do to him!?
I do not have a ed but i kinda go through this... so it feels good to have yoongi comfort me
Glad to hear 💓
I know i dont have an ed but went through a simliar thing
hope you are feeling better :)
this did mean a lot for me. ed is a dark place for me and knowing that someone undertood that & caried of me is just sO great and makes me happy and thankful. ♡ yoongi is my utt so listening him talk about that/with me was very relieving and it took a huge weight off my back.
you're a lil angel & blessed, thank you. 🎀🤍
ngl i needed this, i’ve been feeling so lonely lately and unhappy with myself and my body that i forgot to love and take care of myself
Love your username 🙈 I'm sorry you've been feeling like this but at least we're all here on this planet together and thinking about each other 🤗 hope you remember that your body is amazing and deserves food and love
I've been struggling with certain thoughts and eating lately but this brought a smile to my face. Thank you
Thanks for that! Can you do some about self-harm or depression? I think it could help alot🙏
I absolutely could! I had been thinking about it already. Ty for the suggestion and comment ♡
@@taky1329 Thank you🖤
Or on social anxeity i think i would help me alot
Omg I don’t understand why this video is so underrated
Btw you got yourself a new subscriber 😊😊
Looking forward to more....
aw! Thank you I'm glad 💕
I haven't eaten for the past 20 hours. This is a new record for me.. to be honest I'm just too insecure about my body. 90% of the people where I live are like skinny.. I'm the other 10% who are overweight.. I tried doing exercise but I knew that I would stop after a few days.. my stomach hurts a little bit right now but I'm just in bed trying to sleep even though it's 3:22 p.m.
I just don't want to be heavy.. I have double chin which makes my face look chubby.. I have stomach.. my legs and arms are kinda alright.. it's just that my stomach and my chubby face is what makes me insecure.. I'm looking like a potato while BTS are so fit.. I'm heavier than RM which makes me feel so so fat..
This video is so relatable.. but one thing that is not relatable is to have someone who cares about my situation :")
I do care about your situation, YOU'RE NOT ALONE, YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL ❤️ YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE SKINNY TO BE BEAUTIFUL! One of my friends is chubby and that made her feel bad with herself, so we started to say that her “extraweight” is because your body can't handle the much love you have inside!! ❤️
So, please go and eat something you like, our bodies need all those nutrients... If you want just try to make your food portions a bit smaller and try to eat some veggies and fruits in your daily meals, that'll help a bit!
Sorry for my lack of writing skills :)
In 13 and about the same weight as Jungkook and I fucking hate it.
@@mrsmochi6326 Hi ♡ I know it's hard, but as I said earlier, try not to compare yourself to the boys regarding weight. You have probably different body structure, muscle mass and many other factors that makes the two of you different so your weight in regard to JK weight means nothing. They keep themselves pretty slim.but I know for sure they don't want ARMY to feel bad just because they're heavier because they want to spread the message of appreciation for all bodies. Don't reduce yourself to weight ♡ you're so much more than that and and you're gorgeous and I'm certain JK would tell you the same.
Please eat! I promise your beautiful enough. Your good enough, I care about you 🥰
Hey please go and eat some food... honestly speaking starving yourself actually results in you gaining weight instead of losing...since your body goes into starvation mode...and hey please do not compare weights because it differs and should depend based on the person's age and height...I promise you that you're beautiful the way you are, perfect the way you are, YOU being YOU is MORE THAN ENOUGH! Love, please go have some food?
Honestly reading this particular story reminds me of when I used to skip eating lunch during my freshman year of highschool solely because I was a chubby girl who was already physically challenged ( walked using crutches) and therefore was extremely insecure about my physical appearance & what guys would think whenever they saw me walking in the hallways.
Hey..uh this really helped me..I was planning to quit eating...but this made me feel really light I mean all the bad thoughts are out of my mind..thank you so much for making this amazing video and hope you have an amazing day..and I am fine now and I feel happy in my own body thanks To BTS and you 💜
Please don’t stop💕 You need energy to be this wonderful person that you are okay? Promise me, even though you don’t know me, that you’ll try. Have a nice day and remember that you are amazing
I know I'm late but I'm here for you, *we're* here for you. Please don't ever stop eating you are beautiful, amazing, strong, and important. I'm soooo glad you're okay now and please take care of yourself. Bts, army, and I love you 💜💜
Watching this while really struggling with eating and having no one with me makes me feel so much better
Sorry you're struggling but glad that the fictional Yoongi could comfort you somewhat 💗
That was amazing I’m struggling to eat and listening to such a caring man is beautiful
I love it thanks 😊
I'm glad, thank you for the sweet comment ♡
I'm sorry... But thank you for this video... I watched it and it shows how I am with food and stuff
When Y/N told potato I immediately thought of my sister and almost started crying knowing that she calls herself that(when I want to feel calm and comfort myself, I am going to watch this video.) 😄💜purple you!
This got me in my feels now I'm all crying 😢 I know what's it like to struggle years with an eating disorder n depression. I didn't realize how bad I got till I was hospitalized weighing less then 70 pounds It took me weeks to recover n I still have those thoughts but I made it this far n BTS has help me realize I should love myself. My fav all time song is Epiphany. Whenever I feel those thoughts I listen to Epiphany. I hope they know how much they mean to army because to us they don't just make music they touch souls and hearts.
I'm so glad that you were able to recover 💜 ARMY and BTS share a special bond and I'm certain they're aware of how much they mean to us 💜 I love Epiphany too 💗
HOW YOU DOING NOW ?
This really helped me I suffered an ed for 2months but I’m ok now but this comforts me so much ! Thank you so much
So glad you're okay now ❤️
taky 💗I recently found your account and I love it so I subscribed!^^ . And my parents helped during my Ed I’m ok now !
@@skysky_1 thats so great having the support of your parents 💜 and tyvm for subscribing 🤗
taky np 💗
Hey, how's everything going?
4:22 his smile literally lit up my mood
As someone who suffers with an Ed this rly helped
this is very sad ... but i wish i would just starve myself still even though i like this video😪😪😔😔😔😔
i like the video cause....its sad😥😥😥
Hello, I come back here to release a bit of my bottled emotion. I recently trying to lose my weigh in healthy way by doing exercise and start to do a healthy diet. But ... I don't know, I became impatient and start to eat once a day since yesterday. I know it's totally stupid and unhealthy, that's why I am here today, to rearrange my mind and emotion again.
Thank you so much!
bit off topic but uh DAMN his skin-
I know right 😮 smooth af
@@taky1329 i need his skincare ASAP
I subscribed
thank you 💕 working on a new vid rn 🥳
it matches the video perfectly-
I'm sick while watching this
I hope you get better soon! Make sure you get lots of rest and eat well.
I totally feel you, being sick sucks. But it's okay! We're here for you! We love you! Also sorry if you're a different type of sick but all the same, I hope you're okay 💜
I love this one as well 😄💜
Bruhh yesterday I visit my doctor because Im not feeling well, But she said that Im having eating disorder, she give me like pills to make your blood more red because Im so pale, But now Im okay🥰
I was starving myself for 3 day because I'm an ugly potato and then suddenly this came out. I cry my ass out while eating after everything the sub say 😭
Good because Yoongi thinks you're a beautiful potato who deserves to eat 💜
HOW YOU DOING NOW ?
@@medicalstudent-n5g I still struggling with my ED and I just starve myself again lmao and my psychiatrist scold me 🙃
@@zahraa3396 just why 💔💔💔 I know that losing weight is good for health but not in this way stop 💔💔💔💔
@@zahraa3396 since ur name is zahraa can you speak arabic just asking 👀
nd LOVE YOURSELF by bts-
this helps me on an amount of levels you don’t even know I have an eating disorder due to ballet I have to keep a very thin shape and I never have time to eat or sometimes just don’t want to because I’m so scared of gaining weight it’s something that frightens me to my core, I developed Anemia recently due to the fact that I’m not enough Vitamin B-12 and I’m pretty sure it was caused by my eating disorder I have a bunch of people to talk to but some of them just don’t understand, my mental health is so shitty right now and plus the fact that my best friend recently moved to a private school and it’s a k-12 school so I’m extremely scared that I will never see him again, and this worry is just putting more weight on my back, I have BTS but they can only help me up to a certain point and at this point their there but they just don’t seem to help me as much as you would think, I need so much reassurance, I need to get told that my life will be okay, that this is just a phase of life and that this would pass, I just want a friend.
*getting
Sorry for late reply 💗 I've seen documentaries about the lives of ballerinas and it's such an amazing art form but also really seems like such a stressful environment when it comes to being thin 😔 I can understand how you must be struggling with the pressure of keeping a lean form. And probably you also love to dance, if it's your passion, but remember that nothing is worth risking your health for. You deserve to eat and enjoy food 💜 also sorry to hear your best friend isn't around. It's true that BTS can offer some help but nothing beats a real life person who can listen and support you. I know it's not the same but if you want you can use my comments as a safe space to write whatever you feel, or DM me on Instagram if you ever need to vent to someone. I hope you'll take care of your health cause you're precious 💗 and for what it's worth, I think it will work out, and be okay in the end. Much love 💜
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No cause someone that doesnt even know me is a comfort person to me
I haven’t eaten in 24hrs or more ...... and I don’t plan on eating anytime soon. I’m fine I don’t need help lol. This sounds bad sorry.
Sounds a little bad...remember to take care of yourself, you deserve it x
taky thanks. But I rly don’t deserve it :/
@@Crym3ar1v3rx a little late. But you deserve it! ♡ I hope you're taking care of yourself
@Graciela Montano I don’t use shit for attention ty I was struggling a lot at that time and still am.
@@Crym3ar1v3rx don't worry about this person's comment, they don't know you and are in no position to judge you. Feel free to vent and comment whatever you want on my videos 💜
I really have an eating disorder 😕
I'm sorry 💗 I hope you can manage to get better 💗
Yes i hope so 💗 thank u💗
I’m insecure the way today I’ve ate about 3 things but this made me feel kinda sad if you get what I mean
You deserve to eat 💜 but I can fully relate
@@taky1329 yea I don’t really want to eat lots so I’m literally eating my breakfast and the rest is water all day
@@taky1329 my friend told be to eat my mum bought me noodles I’m probaly gonna eat the tiniest bit but yeah also I live your video thank you 💜💜
@@ilovebtsiamapartofarmy6822 if you can at least eat a little that's good x be nice to your body, BTS wouldn't want you to starve it. And thank you 💜
@@taky1329 yes I know they would your welcome I will always support your videos 💜
Me who had anorexia and was struggling to gain weight. I've been eating a lot but still don't gain weight. Can you do a video which is completely opposite of this. I might become comfortable with my skinny body structure. Atleast I won't be insecure about it.
I have a lot of requests lined up so might take a while but I will write it down and get to it asap 💜
@@taky1329 I'll be waiting 💜
I wanna be skinny cause I'm so insecure all the time, but all I do is eat, sleep, and be lazy..what do I expect? I compare myself with others, and I feel so bad about myself. I was overweight ever since I was like 2 years old. I try to stop eating but it's just not happening. I get jealous when my friends are with better looking people cause I don't feel good enough. I had so many fake friends, so I wanna keep the 2 irl friends I have now. I'm so confusing, I'm sorry. I get judged all the time so I barely talk about it, so I'm sorry if you feel like I'm attention seeking,, but I love this upload and almost cried
Oh 😢 believe me I understand, as someone who's been at both ends of the spectrum; severely underweight and also overweight. Just quitting eating isn't easy if you perhaps
regard food as comfort or even because of genetics or the environment you grow up in, or any other reason, we're all designed differently and some lose weight easily and others struggle so much with it. It's normal and human to compare yourself to others, everyone does, a little bit, but this sounds so awful, that you had to deal with these crippling thoughts for so long. Just remember all these feelings are valid and you're not attention seeking just bc you feel like this or express it. Most people would feel exactly the same. I know it won't help much coming from me - but you're good enough 💜 you can vent in my comments ANYTIME. About anything, this is a safe space where we don't judge each other.
Sending you a lot of love and good vibes 💜💜💜 and hope I can make more videos on this topic in the future that might be helpful to you 💜
I'm so sorry, but are you okay?
Hi, not all the time, but mostly. Hope you're okay 💜
@@taky1329 oh okay, I was just wondering because this is really well written. Like REALLY realistic in some points. If you get what I mean. Wishing you the best!💜
@@MusicLover-po1et I have some experience with this but happy to say I am doing better, thank you 💜 stay safe
@@taky1329 oh I'm glad to hear your doing better💜
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