00:00 Intro 00:28 Carl at his job 01:19 Helpless Carl 02:11 Carl follows rules in his personal life too. 02:46 Yaya’s approach to work and personal life 04:09 Yaya easily adapts to new circumstances 05:06 Yaya messing with Carl’s head 07: 58 Carl’s mind and why he can’t let go 08:41 Why Yaya can’t be honest with Carl 11:11 Courtship
I think Carl actually starts to like Abigail, as she sees him as 1) something good & exclusive 2) as a real person. And,unlike Yaya she has some realness and real qualities to her
Why is Carl even with Yaya? They have nothing in common They don't share the same beliefs or ideologies. Their relationship is all business? The power dynamics in the relationship is interesting because there is no equality in the relationship besides the fact that Carl has to foot the bill all the time. Carl seems to do things for her to appease her. He may call her out on her behavior, but he still seems to be under her spell & allows himself to be used by her. We see this when he smuggles pretzel sticks to her. It's obvious that Yaya is in control of this relationship and emasculates Carl. She likes knowing that she has this power over men, and she knows how to play with their emotions.
I think the main thing is that they are very young and attracted to each other physically. Also, Carl loves having discussions and Yaya always gives him food for thought :) I talk more about Carl in part 2: ua-cam.com/video/K43WxcgR4Y8/v-deo.html
Your whole diatribe about courtship is bizarre and outdated. You should relisten…i can’t imagine that someone as intelligent as you really can say that. Jeeeez.
00:00 Intro
00:28 Carl at his job
01:19 Helpless Carl
02:11 Carl follows rules in his personal life too.
02:46 Yaya’s approach to work and personal life
04:09 Yaya easily adapts to new circumstances
05:06 Yaya messing with Carl’s head
07: 58 Carl’s mind and why he can’t let go
08:41 Why Yaya can’t be honest with Carl
11:11 Courtship
Piss me off
I think Carl actually starts to like Abigail, as she sees him as 1) something good & exclusive 2) as a real person. And,unlike Yaya she has some realness and real qualities to her
Why is Carl even with Yaya? They have nothing in common They don't share the same beliefs or ideologies. Their relationship is all business? The power dynamics in the relationship is interesting because there is no equality in the relationship besides the fact that Carl has to foot the bill all the time. Carl seems to do things for her to appease her. He may call her out on her behavior, but he still seems to be under her spell & allows himself to be used by her. We see this when he smuggles pretzel sticks to her. It's obvious that Yaya is in control of this relationship and emasculates Carl. She likes knowing that she has this power over men, and she knows how to play with their emotions.
I think the main thing is that they are very young and attracted to each other physically. Also, Carl loves having discussions and Yaya always gives him food for thought :) I talk more about Carl in part 2: ua-cam.com/video/K43WxcgR4Y8/v-deo.html
Your whole diatribe about courtship is bizarre and outdated. You should relisten…i can’t imagine that someone as intelligent as you really can say that. Jeeeez.
ironic coming from you