@@biancadoss11 That's the saddest part. After I split up with my ex wife I did get behind occasionally on child support. I never went a month without giving her anything but I was supposed to pay $350 and I paid $150 or $200 a few times. I did make it up the next month. But one thing I never did was miss even one single minute with my son. And I had my other son from my first marriage who lived with me full time because his mother left us when he was 3 months old. And she didn't see him until he was old enough to pretty much take care of himself and she didn't pay child support until he was about 5 or 6 and she got remarried. Her husband is a good guy and made sure the child support came. Now all my kids are grown up but they can never look at me and say I wasn't there because I was every chance I got.
@1967davethewave I love to hear it. More men need to step up and be like you. Also, more women need to put self aside and do what's in the best interest of the child and stay out of their personal feelings. Your kids didn't have to miss a beat
@@biancadoss11 Thank you, that is very kind. I think more men need to make their kids first. I bet the majority of us would look at our mom's and say they put us first when we were growing with very few exceptions. But so many dad's just leave and move on as if the kids don't matter. Very sad.
I dated a young man over a decade ago, basically a lost soul who had his parents divorce and both start new lives and new families of which he was not welcome. He became something of a relic of a past failed marriage. He wound up taking care of his grandfather with Alzheimer’s until he passed and then struggled with homelessness off and on in his early 20s. By then we had long since broken up. He was one of the sweetest most brilliantly intelligent humans Ive ever known and drop dead gorgeous as well. We once ran into his mother in a store and they interacted like coworkers off the clock rather than family. I always find it odd when parents just emotionally abandon their first children when they start new lives. It was definitely their loss(and mine now that I think about it)
I have known many men, who move on to have another family, forgetting about the children they had in the first marriage - leaving them out in the cold. 😢 Sad indeed.
Too often. I Said that to my husband, no matter what happens between us, and a New woman comes along... please don't forget about our daughter, she should trumph over New women and potential New child you choose to produce later.
WHAT the hell does that have to do with this case ? ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. This case is about a loan. If her daughter couldn't pay the rent. Why would the plaintiff give her daughter's ex-husband money, so he can (turn around) and give it to his ex-wife. Instead of her mother loaning her (OWN) deadbeat daughter the money. This lawsuit is stupid and doesn't make any sense. He's being sued over a loan. Not what you think of him as a father. Damn, stop being so ridiculous and dumb... SMH.
A few thousand dollars is not thousands of dollars pay for arrearage of child support he will still have to pay on the older children, for that will add up again and when he divorces the latest wife and has to pay child support on the other children. Men, do not make children for you are responsible for them as soon as they are made.
Not new wife, he has two children with the latest one. He will leave them also when he divorces the lates one, he needs to stop getting married and making babies he does not want to pay for.
I could only pray for this, I’m so jealous. I just filed for a modification of our parenting plan which he and his mother are trying to deny. He only lets me see our Son 4 days a month, he won’t allow him to be with me overnight and there’s no reasons for it either. He lives with and works for his parents, I have a full time job at the hospital and am happily married. Now I’m trying to find a lawyer.
@@lilywillis4655girl bless you..he's trying to make you look unfit..I'd say record everything every conversation every text everything..he's jeaoulos you moved on and are happy and using your child as leverage..disgusting ..I'm praying for you
I don't believe him.... he has thrown his children away..... he has not been helping support those children for a long time, nor has he asserted himself for visitation.
Not liking the Mother is not a reason to ask for custody, that’s why he didn’t win. You have a new wife & she is raising “her” own children. Spend more time being a Father, and less being a financial bully. 🙏🏿🙌🏾
He uses that as an excuse not to see his children and pay child support. He is a bum and will do it to his younger two child when he gets another divorce. He just a bun.
I would never allow myself to be impregnated by a guy who has basically abandoned his former children for fear that he might do this very same thing to me one day. It is one thing to date an irresponsible individual but it is an entirely different issue to allow yourself to be impregnated by an irresponsible lover/boyfriend. In Canada, the child support owed, whether by father or mother, is deducted straight out of your wages before you even get paid by your employer & so this prevents the children from the former relationship from being "ignored" & also prevents the payee from falling into arrears & thus accruing a $14.000.00 in back child support bill. Do they not have such a policy/program in America?
You did not watch the beginning, this was his former first wife and has children with another wife, and he is one that complains about not being able to see his children, but he has the court order. He is a bum and makes lame excuses not the pay his obligations. And when he gets divorce from the present wife and children, he will owe child support on these children as well.
@@trekgirl65 She definitely watched and clearly understood the family dynamic here. Everything she said made perfect sense in accordance to the case. She was speaking hypothetically as if she were in the position as the new wife to this man, knowing that he's a deadbeat to the children he already has, and that she has wouldn't have children with a man like that. Therefore, she's acknowledging that he's a bum and you are in agreement with her. The only other thing she said, was her asking a question about how child support works in the U.S. because where she's from in Canada, the Government automatically takes the money out of the parent's paycheck, which doesn't allow for these large child support debts to rack up. So maybe you need to reread her comment or hopefully my comment helped to clear that up for you.
Adding to Canada, (live here) they will take your license. I was going to seek my support from ex but it was getting blood from a stone. Was not worth my time. Sad, but my kids will not speak to him, they are not idiots. Cost him a lot more than money
@@michelledelios6403 That's the real tragedy of it all... The children feeling hurt, abandoned and that leading to a lifetime of disappointment and resentment. The breaking of that bond between a parent and their child, is one of the greatest and most impactful losses that one can experience in life. Children NEED love and stability in their life, which requires the parent to not only provide financially but to actually be there for them, be actively present in their lives. And when the kids see a parent not even doing the absolute bare minimum, by just paying child support for them, that resentment will build and destroy whatever relationship you had with them. Kids pick up on EVERYTHING, especially if they're teenagers. So if you're dodging their other parent to avoid paying them and/or treating that parent unfairly or disrespectfully, they will eventually pick sides and guess who side they will take... It's so heartbreaking to see so many broken families and deadbeat parents these days. These children didn't ask to be born or for them to be their parents and yet, so many children are treated as a burden. Children are supposed to be a wonderful blessing and should be cherished and loved but our society is just so warped and broken and unfortunately, it's mostly the children that pay the price. Here in the US, we also have a system in place that will suspend your license if you are behind on child support and not paying. The Government will also take any income tax returns, to try and recover some of the child support debt that you have. But the problem is, they let the debt get wildly out of control before they even implement these consequences and there's always a way around it. Although, the one thing I do not like about suspending people's license over a debt, is that it only really works to inconvenience and hopefully put pressure on the people who can afford to actually pay up. As for the parents who are genuinely struggling to catch up or are behind because they are looking for employment, taking their license will only further hinder their ability to pay and can put them in an even more dire situation. Not to mention, it has absolutely nothing to do with the Family Court system and also feels like a huge overreach for the Government to have that kind of power and control in our lives. So I've always kind of struggled with that one a bit.
The lady outside with Harvey told him!! He is pathetic wow sad how these men and sometimes women decide which children they want to take care of or more convenient to take care of smh He is also disgusting to actually countersue. Pay the lady!! In my JM voice. Then he trashed the plaintiff in the hallway. Why would she help you sir if she wanted to make things hard for you. Make it make sense.
My dad remarried twice and had children in each new marriage. He never stopped being a part of any of our lives. He loved us all dearly and made sure we knew it. I now realize how special that was.
So he makes over 6k after taxes and yet couldn't send a few hundred her way every month for his kids? Evil, evil dude. He just didn't give a dmn and used excuses about her not allowing him to see them to be a deadbeat.
Defendant in 2017: "The truth will prevail in the future. I am a good dad." Suffolk County Sheriff's Department in 2020: "WANTED - Name: Carlo Sorce Date of Birth: 10/28/1974 Date of Warrant: 01/21/2020 Height: 5' 9" Weight: 220 lbs brown eyes, brown hair The subject is wanted on a Suffolk County Family Court arrest warrant for child support. Subject is known to frequent the Lindenhurst and Babylon area." 😂
Why are so many of you assuming that the deadbeat dad is being honest about the mom making it difficult to see his kids? She said at the end on national television she has an "open door policy" for the father of her children. That sounds a lot more plausible than the man who fell almost 15k behind in child support and tried to weasel his way out of this loan 🙃 My heart does go out to men who deal with vindictive baby mamas! Just sayin this is not one of those cases
@clovermccombs8597 I'm just saying she's much more credible than the baby daddy that left her and her kids in the dust. She could be lying but it definitely doesn't seem like defendant was trying very hard regardless
Oh please ,he doesnt even pay child support No exusrs for not paying for you children,and one can NOT say one are a good dad,if mother are paying everything to keep kids alive. Really . He havent seen his kids for a looong time,and you still feel tvats a good dad ?!? Blaming it onn"mother making it hard"? I bet the "hard part", is that she ask him to help pay for childrens keeps. I cannot even with the short thinking comments getting likes! Is it all because men exuse other men?? Are you so shallow?
The only times I know of personally that a mother ever tried to keep the children from their father was when abuse was involved. Those are rare. Almost all the instances I know of the mother wants the father to be involved with the children.
I'm only like a few mins into the episode and I love JMs take on being a parent. spot on. I work with children and she has her own and it's a soft spot that's really hard to be unbiased towards.
Those asking ' what is the mom's responsibility, isnt having the kids 24/7 responsibility enough? This guy just doesn't want to see his kids or oay for them. dont make excuses for him.
@@jamesbrantley9468 if he paid then that could be and argument but he didn't pay 14 THOUSAND and going , so where did the money come to support the kids? The mom so where did her money go for her rent? To fill in his gap to take care of those kids. If your employer was 14 thousand dollars behind on paying you so you can take care of ongoing responsibilites you'd probably end up evicted too
@@jamesbrantley9468 to spite who? herself? She's the one who was evicted lol. Also, he didn't pay it in the first place so why conjecture about what she would or wouldn't do with it?
My deadbeat ex owes me over $40,000 from 10 years ago. I will never see it as child support loopholes in Aust are horrible for the single parent. My ex also moved on with a wife young enough to be his daughter and never saw and made an effort to have his children.
I hope her daughter took the time to increase her Education and Skills to never have to ask to loan anything despite him being late on child support. Once I seen how these Men can be I made sure to live amongst my means and to have an emergency fund!
A good father at least pay for the kid to get some food and supply. Blaming it on mother who have ALL responsibility, and pay EVERYTHING? And the "good father dont have the kids,dont see them, dont pay anything ,and it all HER fault? Thats just too stupid !! . What kind of idiot would buy the story ?!
@@Palmstreet-u7x they should get child support no matter whether they work or not, because they share a child with someone who needs to supply their fair share
@@Peepeepoopoo5543 But why must taxpayers' money be used to feed the lazy parents, go look in all countries which give social grants -the parents are too lazy to work, rather feed off taxpayers' money, and that money is in any case not used for the kids, yes i agree all kids should be looked after, but not with taxpayers money, go look in Germany at those who get social grants, thy are mostly fat, overweight, smoke ,drink, kids are not fed ,
I would have been dead if the paper proving he already paid $2000 of the debt was on toilet paper written in crayon. I would dare the judge to say, the paper is not valid!!
He is the louse, no doubt, but I wonder why any woman would find him attractive. If I found out some guy ignored his children and owed back child support, I would RUN. Bad moral character that will never change.
Do people in these comments really not understand why the mother didn't have rent money? She's been the sole provider for two children for a long time. If he had been paying that $14,000 the whole time, she would have had that much for rent instead of using it to cover expenses for the kids. It's not that 'the father has to pay the mother's rent'. It's that she didn't have enough to cover rent anymore after all that time paying for everything else.
He claimed that $2100 loan towards his arrearage. The plaintiff is acting like he’s a victim “it’s been made very difficult to see my children” but he hasn’t taken legal steps to remedy that situation, if it’s even true.
The Defendant has no excuse not to pay back the Plaintiff. He's the worst father to his 1st 2 children. Eventhough the children are young, they're going to remember that he does not want to see his 1st 2 children.
Jm did to much with the age thing in the beginning, he still got their ages right I feel like she was just trying to make him look bad from the jump, BUT that was a bull shit excuse for him to say the kid’s mother makes it hard for him to see his kids. Put your big boy pants on & go to court to see your kids!! & with the daughter not being able to pay rent on time because she’s solely relying on the child support then she should’ve been found a different place with cheaper rent if he was already that much behind.
@@blessedtobealive Well if she is threatening him or the children, then he really should be going to court. Not going to the police or court when his children are being threatened is child neglect.
As a Single Dad, I worked so hard to get a good life for my Son I. At 1 point 3 jobs, 1 full time and 2 part time. I coached his hockey team as well as his baseball team, plus I played tennis in the evenings We were busy, but I liked it. We were busy but it was fun!
Judge Judy would have chewed him out about child support as someone who has 9 half siblings because of a deadbeat im glad i had a good mom and grandparents
My ex-husband did the same thing he left our two kids for someone 12 years younger than him. That didn’t last and now he’s living four states away with another gal and her two kids. I could never imagine waking up to someone else’s children and not my own. Who on earth could live with themselves doing that? But so many do.
I can’t comprehend how this defendant proceeded to have more children by another when he can’t take care of his own first children… smh Deadbeat at its finest.
My ex did nothing to raise his kids, but remarried and raised his 4 step kids like they were his own. I hated that for my kids, but I made sure they had everything they needed! And I don’t begrudge his stepkids at all. They are good kids.
NO, you absolutely ARE NOT a good dad. If he HAD "spent thousands of dollars " in family court to see his kids, he would have said so in court. He's a liar!
Oh man... I love this Judge usually but this time she really jumped on this guy. He was calm and humble and it seemed like she was going overboard. He *was* careful not to say anything about the mother when it sounds like he could have. Do better! Not all dads are bad!
Really...!? The man is a piece of shit.. He OWED $14,000 in back Child Support.... He gotta loan from his ex MIL and completely ignored repaying her.. AND then counter sues for havin to come to court .. LUDICROUS...!! He says to Doug... "The truth will pervail....." YuP will show wotta AHole he is...!! BtW courts do NOT favour Mothers or are prejudiced against fathers..!! The NON CUSTODIAL parent... Pays Child Support to the CUSTODIAL parent.. Simple as that..!!
I see where he is confused, the mother-in-law needed to be reimbursed directly from his pocket and he seems to think it's up to her daughter to pay it back out of the child support payments. It is confusing.
I worked in family law. The court is a neutral party and will help mothers and fathers for FREE. If you want to see your kids, go to the court and quit making excuses including not paying your child support!! Tired of dead beat parents blaming everything under the sun for not seeing their kids when its their own fault. Try harder and do better for those innocent kids! It's not their fault they were brought into this world. 😢
I mean… if they were calling him for money that he owed for child support so that she could pay rent, and he gave that money plus more, then shouldn’t it be the daughter that owes the mom?
He borrowed the money in Jan. Around $20k was owed at that time. Then this was filmed in June. So that payment he made, was around six months after this money was owed. It still left him approximately $10k in arrears. The money was borrowed from the plaintiff… to pay towards the child support.
Okay, here to be a differing voice of reason. There are a LOT of men who want to see their kids but whom are unable because "mom" hates dad more than she loves the kids. My husband is proof, and he's got friends who experience it as well. When mom convinces the kids that their father is terrible, they exhibit fear, the family court doesn't push it, therapists get suckered by mom, therapists tell judges "the kids aren't ready yet". It's been 6 years since we've seen my stepkids. We've been trespassed from mom's house for dropping off cookies, gifts, notes, etc. Police called... trespassed. He's literally legally barred from going to their home because SHE doesn't want him around "her" kids. . Nothing bad happened. No loss of care for the "first kids". It's been hell and fury trying to see them. And when normal people are emotionally exhausted, it can come off as anger in court- which feeds the judge's unfounded reasons to keep the kids away from dad/us/their half-siblings. So no. Not every dad who isn't involved does it out of needing to "do better". The family court system is a failure and they see fathers as sperm donors and child support. Please stop assuming dads are deadbeats if they don't see their kids. The law is not kind to farhers. PS "Mom" lives with a boyfriend, has all their bills paid, goes on vacations, kids have had braces 2x each, collects welfare because she's "single". We struggle every month, and we'd HAPPILY take the kids.
You’re right. Except I AM the mom in this case. And it’s been an open door policy for him. He’s been invited to every school function, birthday party, sports event, etc. he chose not to come. And cries “poor me” trying to shift the blame for his behavior. My SO has been kept from his children. His ex moved them to another state and refused to let him see them or speak to them… even after going to court etc…. Yet he still pays his child support every week. He put ZERO effort into seeing our children. Didn’t call them etc. there’s a novels worth of stories I could tell. But enough of my business has been aired. Hope you have a wonderful evening.
How irritating is it to hear that someone has to fight for their children, why dont we talk about the lame moms that are intentional when they make it difficult for fathers
Exactly!! I personally been there. It’s so easy to blame all men but ignore there’s so many bad women. Ppl act like it’s so black and white but it’s not always the case.
@@prairierider7569 monetarily? Because i see alot of fathers getting the short end of the stick, these moms want their money but could care less about their presence in their childs lives, if some moms want to ease the burden then give them to their dads and have them take care of them, oh wait, they wouldnt do that
As crazy as it is I see his point. He agreed to pay this child support in exchange for rent money. To bad that is not the agreement he mad with the mother nor did he honor the agreement he had in his head. “Do better”
My birth father abandoned my mother and I while she was still pregnant. Back then, they saw fluid on my brain and didn’t know if I was going to be born with disabilities or not. He found that out and dipped. He moved to another state, married another woman and helped raise her kids. Well, that didn’t work out, he came back here and I tried to have a relationship with him.. unfortunately, that didn’t work out either. He is best friends with my ex, even went to his bachelor party & wedding. Fun times. I definitely feel for the children in this case. It’s disgusting to have children and abandon them and RAISE OTHER KIDS.
"I'm a good dad" says the guy who owes $14k in child support
And MORE importantly doesn't see his kids or try
@@biancadoss11 That's the saddest part. After I split up with my ex wife I did get behind occasionally on child support. I never went a month without giving her anything but I was supposed to pay $350 and I paid $150 or $200 a few times. I did make it up the next month. But one thing I never did was miss even one single minute with my son. And I had my other son from my first marriage who lived with me full time because his mother left us when he was 3 months old. And she didn't see him until he was old enough to pretty much take care of himself and she didn't pay child support until he was about 5 or 6 and she got remarried. Her husband is a good guy and made sure the child support came. Now all my kids are grown up but they can never look at me and say I wasn't there because I was every chance I got.
@1967davethewave I love to hear it. More men need to step up and be like you. Also, more women need to put self aside and do what's in the best interest of the child and stay out of their personal feelings. Your kids didn't have to miss a beat
@@biancadoss11 Thank you, that is very kind. I think more men need to make their kids first. I bet the majority of us would look at our mom's and say they put us first when we were growing with very few exceptions. But so many dad's just leave and move on as if the kids don't matter. Very sad.
@@1967davethewave very true
I loved the woman outside with Harvey laying into the defendant about needing to be a better father. Preach, sister!
MIL from hell, probably why they got divorced. He was *so* humble and took responsibility.
@@FamilyKeepsakesVideo Carlo? That you? Do better!
I dated a young man over a decade ago, basically a lost soul who had his parents divorce and both start new lives and new families of which he was not welcome. He became something of a relic of a past failed marriage. He wound up taking care of his grandfather with Alzheimer’s until he passed and then struggled with homelessness off and on in his early 20s. By then we had long since broken up. He was one of the sweetest most brilliantly intelligent humans Ive ever known and drop dead gorgeous as well. We once ran into his mother in a store and they interacted like coworkers off the clock rather than family. I always find it odd when parents just emotionally abandon their first children when they start new lives. It was definitely their loss(and mine now that I think about it)
I hope that young man is doing okay today
How is he doing now ?
Sad story, I hope he found a new family of his own and is happy.
go back and get him. we may be injured, but some of us know through how the parents treated us how to handle people in real lfie.
Sounds like a nice guy. If you’re single, you should look for him.
I have known many men, who move on to have another family, forgetting about the children they had in the first marriage - leaving them out in the cold. 😢 Sad indeed.
Too often. I Said that to my husband, no matter what happens between us, and a New woman comes along... please don't forget about our daughter, she should trumph over New women and potential New child you choose to produce later.
And he is taking care of another man’s child!! Smh
Sad that I know this personally 😢
WHAT the hell does that have to do with this case ? ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. This case is about a loan. If her daughter couldn't pay the rent. Why would the plaintiff give her daughter's ex-husband money, so he can (turn around) and give it to his ex-wife. Instead of her mother loaning her (OWN) deadbeat daughter the money. This lawsuit is stupid and doesn't make any sense. He's being sued over a loan. Not what you think of him as a father. Damn, stop being so ridiculous and dumb... SMH.
Men providing and being actively involved as fathers is sometimes influenced by their relationship or feelings towards the mother of their children.
Doug nailed it that if he has spent thousands of dollars in court then he should have been able to pay the woman back! 🙄
Yes, while Doug can sometimes be rude and impertinent, sometimes he hits the nail squarely on the head...
A few thousand dollars is not thousands of dollars pay for arrearage of child support he will still have to pay on the older children, for that will add up again and when he divorces the latest wife and has to pay child support on the other children. Men, do not make children for you are responsible for them as soon as they are made.
No "Thank you Douglas" 😢
His new wife is no better!!!! How are you going to have kids with a man who neglects his other kids 🤦🏻♀️
AGREE! I can't stand women who have children with terrible fathers already
Too many women like when their new men abandon their children for their new ones. It’s sad and pathetic
Same way you have kids with a woman whose aborted her other kids
RIGHT!!!
Not new wife, he has two children with the latest one. He will leave them also when he divorces the lates one, he needs to stop getting married and making babies he does not want to pay for.
Doug loves pouring salt into an open wound. Straight savage! 😆
I’ve always said Doug is fucking savage
Doug is my dad.
That’s what I said! Messy
@@Rocket5150same 😂😂😂
@@Rocket5150in such a kind way too lol
Thankful for my ex. We 100/100 co-parent our kids.
I could only pray for this, I’m so jealous. I just filed for a modification of our parenting plan which he and his mother are trying to deny. He only lets me see our Son 4 days a month, he won’t allow him to be with me overnight and there’s no reasons for it either. He lives with and works for his parents, I have a full time job at the hospital and am happily married. Now I’m trying to find a lawyer.
How was your wife's relationship with her father?
@@lilywillis4655girl bless you..he's trying to make you look unfit..I'd say record everything every conversation every text everything..he's jeaoulos you moved on and are happy and using your child as leverage..disgusting ..I'm praying for you
Excellent!
@@lilywillis4655why don’t you have your kid?
You aren't in your children's life so it a great idea to make more kids? This is a great idea!😊
I don't believe him.... he has thrown his children away..... he has not been helping support those children for a long time, nor has he asserted himself for visitation.
That "dad" is so full of it.
Not liking the Mother is not a reason to ask for custody, that’s why he didn’t win. You have a new wife & she is raising “her” own children. Spend more time being a Father, and less being a financial bully. 🙏🏿🙌🏾
He uses that as an excuse not to see his children and pay child support. He is a bum and will do it to his younger two child when he gets another divorce. He just a bun.
I would never allow myself to be impregnated by a guy who has basically abandoned his former children for fear that he might do this very same thing to me one day. It is one thing to date an irresponsible individual but it is an entirely different issue to allow yourself to be impregnated by an irresponsible lover/boyfriend. In Canada, the child support owed, whether by father or mother, is deducted straight out of your wages before you even get paid by your employer & so this prevents the children from the former relationship from being "ignored" & also prevents the payee from falling into arrears & thus accruing a $14.000.00 in back child support bill. Do they not have such a policy/program in America?
We do but dead beats just job hop, work under the table so they only get paid in cash or they simply just don’t work to avoid child support.
You did not watch the beginning, this was his former first wife and has children with another wife, and he is one that complains about not being able to see his children, but he has the court order. He is a bum and makes lame excuses not the pay his obligations. And when he gets divorce from the present wife and children, he will owe child support on these children as well.
@@trekgirl65 She definitely watched and clearly understood the family dynamic here. Everything she said made perfect sense in accordance to the case. She was speaking hypothetically as if she were in the position as the new wife to this man, knowing that he's a deadbeat to the children he already has, and that she has wouldn't have children with a man like that. Therefore, she's acknowledging that he's a bum and you are in agreement with her.
The only other thing she said, was her asking a question about how child support works in the U.S. because where she's from in Canada, the Government automatically takes the money out of the parent's paycheck, which doesn't allow for these large child support debts to rack up.
So maybe you need to reread her comment or hopefully my comment helped to clear that up for you.
Adding to Canada, (live here) they will take your license. I was going to seek my support from ex but it was getting blood from a stone. Was not worth my time. Sad, but my kids will not speak to him, they are not idiots. Cost him a lot more than money
@@michelledelios6403 That's the real tragedy of it all... The children feeling hurt, abandoned and that leading to a lifetime of disappointment and resentment. The breaking of that bond between a parent and their child, is one of the greatest and most impactful losses that one can experience in life. Children NEED love and stability in their life, which requires the parent to not only provide financially but to actually be there for them, be actively present in their lives. And when the kids see a parent not even doing the absolute bare minimum, by just paying child support for them, that resentment will build and destroy whatever relationship you had with them. Kids pick up on EVERYTHING, especially if they're teenagers. So if you're dodging their other parent to avoid paying them and/or treating that parent unfairly or disrespectfully, they will eventually pick sides and guess who side they will take... It's so heartbreaking to see so many broken families and deadbeat parents these days. These children didn't ask to be born or for them to be their parents and yet, so many children are treated as a burden. Children are supposed to be a wonderful blessing and should be cherished and loved but our society is just so warped and broken and unfortunately, it's mostly the children that pay the price.
Here in the US, we also have a system in place that will suspend your license if you are behind on child support and not paying. The Government will also take any income tax returns, to try and recover some of the child support debt that you have. But the problem is, they let the debt get wildly out of control before they even implement these consequences and there's always a way around it. Although, the one thing I do not like about suspending people's license over a debt, is that it only really works to inconvenience and hopefully put pressure on the people who can afford to actually pay up. As for the parents who are genuinely struggling to catch up or are behind because they are looking for employment, taking their license will only further hinder their ability to pay and can put them in an even more dire situation. Not to mention, it has absolutely nothing to do with the Family Court system and also feels like a huge overreach for the Government to have that kind of power and control in our lives. So I've always kind of struggled with that one a bit.
$400 a day is what he makes and he's neglected his kids? His real kids will see this video one day.
The lady outside with Harvey told him!! He is pathetic wow sad how these men and sometimes women decide which children they want to take care of or more convenient to take care of smh He is also disgusting to actually countersue. Pay the lady!! In my JM voice. Then he trashed the plaintiff in the hallway. Why would she help you sir if she wanted to make things hard for you. Make it make sense.
you were right to say men and thats it. how often does a mother get to fo this be real
Doug does nothing but that's his job to humiliate people coming out of the court room but he's still a Trip! 😂😂
My dad remarried twice and had children in each new marriage. He never stopped being a part of any of our lives. He loved us all dearly and made sure we knew it. I now realize how special that was.
Same with my dad, tho he only remarried once.
So he makes over 6k after taxes and yet couldn't send a few hundred her way every month for his kids? Evil, evil dude. He just didn't give a dmn and used excuses about her not allowing him to see them to be a deadbeat.
Defendant in 2017:
"The truth will prevail in the future. I am a good dad."
Suffolk County Sheriff's Department in 2020:
"WANTED -
Name: Carlo Sorce
Date of Birth: 10/28/1974
Date of Warrant: 01/21/2020
Height: 5' 9"
Weight: 220 lbs
brown eyes, brown hair
The subject is wanted on a Suffolk County Family Court arrest warrant for child support.
Subject is known to frequent the Lindenhurst and Babylon area."
😂
😮 is this for real? I hope they catch him smh
Wow! If not made up this is a real gem to know!
@@tangelabedford8083 it's real! Google his name.
This 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😂
You too invested
The audacity to counter sue for wages when you wouldn't be there if you paid her back
That lady wanted us to KNOW he's A LIAR in regards to him "not being able to" visit his kids
Why are so many of you assuming that the deadbeat dad is being honest about the mom making it difficult to see his kids? She said at the end on national television she has an "open door policy" for the father of her children. That sounds a lot more plausible than the man who fell almost 15k behind in child support and tried to weasel his way out of this loan 🙃
My heart does go out to men who deal with vindictive baby mamas! Just sayin this is not one of those cases
How can you take HER word as gold? There are a lot of parents out there that just want the child support.
@clovermccombs8597 I'm just saying she's much more credible than the baby daddy that left her and her kids in the dust. She could be lying but it definitely doesn't seem like defendant was trying very hard regardless
Wow, what a great reason for him not to pay it, not!@@clovermccombs8597
Oh please ,he doesnt even pay child support
No exusrs for not paying for you children,and one can NOT say one are a good dad,if mother are paying everything to keep kids alive.
Really .
He havent seen his kids for a looong time,and you still feel tvats a good dad ?!?
Blaming it onn"mother making it hard"?
I bet the "hard part", is that she ask him to help pay for childrens keeps.
I cannot even with the short thinking comments getting likes!
Is it all because men exuse other men??
Are you so shallow?
The only times I know of personally that a mother ever tried to keep the children from their father was when abuse was involved. Those are rare. Almost all the instances I know of the mother wants the father to be involved with the children.
I'm only like a few mins into the episode and I love JMs take on being a parent. spot on. I work with children and she has her own and it's a soft spot that's really hard to be unbiased towards.
This is every deadbeats favorite story she wont let me see the kids. Even though they're the ones who push the kids away.
"sounds like a mess.."
that damn DOUG 🤦🏾♀️🤣
Those asking ' what is the mom's responsibility, isnt having the kids 24/7 responsibility enough?
This guy just doesn't want to see his kids or oay for them. dont make excuses for him.
Behind $14,000 but magically had $10,000 when they threatened him with jail. If anyone makes excuses for this man, they ARE this man.
@@rattailjimmy2247well put
I pray for those kids who father doesn't love them enough to see them. This is heart crushing.
Sometimes they don’t want to be a parent that’s why Is easy for them to leave
@@Arrozconhabichuelas If that was the case, he wouldn’t have gone and had two more children.
@@lilywillis4655 that dosent mean nothing u can have kids with someone you don’t love & you can have kid with someone u actually care 🤷🏼♀️
Yes, it is.
Good dads dont let their kids get evicted because you werent doing your part😊
What if she doesn't decide to pay the rent out of spite. How can he control that
Good dads raised their kids to be responsible adult that don't need rescuing
@@TopherGrant yesss 10 and 12 year Olds are far too old to be kids, they're DEFINITELY adults 😅😉
@@jamesbrantley9468 if he paid then that could be and argument but he didn't pay 14 THOUSAND and going , so where did the money come to support the kids? The mom so where did her money go for her rent? To fill in his gap to take care of those kids. If your employer was 14 thousand dollars behind on paying you so you can take care of ongoing responsibilites you'd probably end up evicted too
@@jamesbrantley9468 to spite who? herself? She's the one who was evicted lol. Also, he didn't pay it in the first place so why conjecture about what she would or wouldn't do with it?
I hate deadbeats too, judge
The amount of times Greg would’ve called this man sorry is what I never knew I needed watching this episode
My deadbeat ex owes me over $40,000 from 10 years ago. I will never see it as child support loopholes in Aust are horrible for the single parent. My ex also moved on with a wife young enough to be his daughter and never saw and made an effort to have his children.
I'm sorry you chose a partner like that
Those poor kids. Bet anything he doesn’t really try to see them 😢
Parents , you have the right to move on, but seriously , forgetting about your first responsibilities CURSES your new chapter. Don’t be stupid!
During the walk-in, that plaintiff looked like she was having a meltdown when the announcer started telling hers daughter’s business.😂
I hope her daughter took the time to increase her Education and Skills to never have to ask to loan anything despite him being late on child support. Once I seen how these Men can be I made sure to live amongst my means and to have an emergency fund!
Very smart
A good father at least pay for the kid to get some food and supply.
Blaming it on mother who have ALL responsibility, and pay EVERYTHING? And the "good father dont have the kids,dont see them, dont pay anything ,and it all HER fault?
Thats just too stupid !! . What kind of idiot would buy the story ?!
Irresponsible adults like the defendant should just keep their pants on instead of wrecking havoc in the lives of others...
Only Doug keep it real 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
doug keeps it realer than reality !
Doug: Shuda given her $2000 and you wouldn't be here. Ok, good luck to you. Hope you can work this out. Sounds like a mess🥴🤯😂😂
Hear me out, if he would have been paying from the start this wouldn’t even be an issue. 😱
He thought he could just slink away and leave his family behind as if they are a used car that doesn't shine any more.
If he calls himself a good dad I would hate to see you what a bad dad looks like
Seriously man
the lady that spoke at 9:00 was talking directly into the camera to her own ex lol
No, the courts are in favor of the child it is not about either parent it has always been about the children!
JM isn’t perfect but I love how she gets on deadbeat parents everytime😍
i always say courts are quick to judge the man, but many mothers just dont go work,stay at home, and just wany child support,
@@Palmstreet-u7xsure that’s not made up at all
@@Palmstreet-u7x they should get child support no matter whether they work or not, because they share a child with someone who needs to supply their fair share
@@Peepeepoopoo5543 But why must taxpayers' money be used to feed the lazy parents, go look in all countries which give social grants -the parents are too lazy to work, rather feed off taxpayers' money, and that money is in any case not used for the kids, yes i agree all kids should be looked after, but not with taxpayers money, go look in Germany at those who get social grants, thy are mostly fat, overweight, smoke ,drink, kids are not fed ,
@@Palmstreet-u7x im confused.. are you under the impression child support is paid by the government? its not. its paid by non custodial parent
There’s three sides to every story. Her side , his side and, the truth.
It's not hard to figure out the truth when he's 10K behind on child support and has another family 😊
@@Ororeoalpha14k actually
Dang she woke up FRUSTRATED and DISGUSTED ain't it..
I hate being this early. I need comments to read 😂
I was just thinking the same! 😂
😂😂😂 same
Lol me too!
Me TOO!!
Same 😂😂😂😂
I would have been dead if the paper proving he already paid $2000 of the debt was on toilet paper written in crayon. I would dare the judge to say, the paper is not valid!!
She always says that a napking and crayon is leggit LOL
He is the louse, no doubt, but I wonder why any woman would find him attractive. If I found out some guy ignored his children and owed back child support, I would RUN. Bad moral character that will never change.
Doug is colder than ice! What a savage😂😂😂😂
Do people in these comments really not understand why the mother didn't have rent money? She's been the sole provider for two children for a long time. If he had been paying that $14,000 the whole time, she would have had that much for rent instead of using it to cover expenses for the kids. It's not that 'the father has to pay the mother's rent'. It's that she didn't have enough to cover rent anymore after all that time paying for everything else.
When he is sick and shut in and need those precious children, that is when he will understand the circle of life.
He claimed that $2100 loan towards his arrearage. The plaintiff is acting like he’s a victim “it’s been made very difficult to see my children” but he hasn’t taken legal steps to remedy that situation, if it’s even true.
The Defendant has no excuse not to pay back the Plaintiff. He's the worst father to his 1st 2 children. Eventhough the children are young, they're going to remember that he does not want to see his 1st 2 children.
Pay for your kids man!
Bad father: the truth will prevail in the future.
Doug: what does that mean?
😂😂😂 that was too funny
dougs shade is an olympic sport in which he earns gold every time.
Did anyone else notice the woman in the back recording Harvey and the bystander's response to his question? 😅
Jm did to much with the age thing in the beginning, he still got their ages right I feel like she was just trying to make him look bad from the jump, BUT that was a bull shit excuse for him to say the kid’s mother makes it hard for him to see his kids. Put your big boy pants on & go to court to see your kids!! & with the daughter not being able to pay rent on time because she’s solely relying on the child support then she should’ve been found a different place with cheaper rent if he was already that much behind.
What if (for example) the mother threatens his life or the children's life if he ever comes around the kids?
I really think he would have mentioned it to JM or Doug in the hallway. He's grossly in arrears and it's the childrens money.@@blessedtobealive
He can get proof she said that and take it to the police/court and file for emergency custody.
He made himself look bad🎉
@@blessedtobealive Well if she is threatening him or the children, then he really should be going to court. Not going to the police or court when his children are being threatened is child neglect.
He is a deadbeat dad. Child support has nothing to do with seeing your children.
As a Single Dad, I worked so hard to get a good life for my Son I.
At 1 point 3 jobs, 1 full time and 2 part time. I coached his hockey team
as well as his baseball team, plus I played tennis in the evenings
We were busy, but I liked it. We were busy but it was fun!
Judge Judy would have chewed him out about child support as someone who has 9 half siblings because of a deadbeat im glad i had a good mom and grandparents
"the truth will prevail........ In the future." Deadbeat dad say what??
Men like the defendant have mastered the art of having a massive ego with a victim mentality.
My ex-husband did the same thing he left our two kids for someone 12 years younger than him. That didn’t last and now he’s living four states away with another gal and her two kids. I could never imagine waking up to someone else’s children and not my own. Who on earth could live with themselves doing that? But so many do.
He came in with zero evidence. Doesn’t usually work out 😂
If the judge said pigs fly Doug would concur.
😂😂😂
Do better! Lmao and magically, because the judge said “ do better” he pays all his support and turns to a good dad….. do better up your butt
I can’t comprehend how this defendant proceeded to have more children by another when he can’t take care of his own first children… smh
Deadbeat at its finest.
My ex did nothing to raise his kids, but remarried and raised his 4 step kids like they were his own. I hated that for my kids, but I made sure they had everything they needed! And I don’t begrudge his stepkids at all. They are good kids.
NO, you absolutely ARE NOT a good dad. If he HAD "spent thousands of dollars " in family court to see his kids, he would have said so in court. He's a liar!
she never said "thaaank you douglas" 😂
😮 she didn't say, " Thank you Douglas"!!!! 😮😅
Doug ran him 🔥 😂😂😂Boy he wanted to slug Doug!
He’ll need his first 2 kids one day and this will come back to haunt him
He has zero desire to do better. Because if the draw of your children doesn't make you go to court to see them, nothing will.
Oh man... I love this Judge usually but this time she really jumped on this guy. He was calm and humble and it seemed like she was going overboard. He *was* careful not to say anything about the mother when it sounds like he could have. Do better! Not all dads are bad!
Really...!?
The man is a piece of shit..
He OWED $14,000 in back Child Support....
He gotta loan from his ex MIL and completely ignored repaying her..
AND then counter sues for havin to come to court ..
LUDICROUS...!!
He says to Doug...
"The truth will pervail....."
YuP will show wotta AHole he is...!!
BtW courts do NOT favour Mothers or are prejudiced against fathers..!!
The NON CUSTODIAL parent...
Pays Child Support to the CUSTODIAL parent..
Simple as that..!!
I see where he is confused, the mother-in-law needed to be reimbursed directly from his pocket and he seems to think it's up to her daughter to pay it back out of the child support payments. It is confusing.
Everything aside, courts are so much more in favor of the mom than the dad. Everyone, except the judge, knows this.
Take care of one family before you make another one
So sad his current wife should be ashamed she have a deadbeat as a husband smfh
The woman always gets the favor of children.
No, dear. The truth has already prevailed.
Lol that man is so typical.
Clearly he has money was able to find 10000
If you look up the word “deadbeat”, his picture is right there.
I worked in family law. The court is a neutral party and will help mothers and fathers for FREE. If you want to see your kids, go to the court and quit making excuses including not paying your child support!! Tired of dead beat parents blaming everything under the sun for not seeing their kids when its their own fault. Try harder and do better for those innocent kids! It's not their fault they were brought into this world. 😢
$2100/month for an apartment? Jesus. That’s a double mortgage payment. Why do people rent?
He’s a piece of work
There are no equal rights for parents this notion that courts care is BS!!!!
Child support and custody court NEEDS to be ONE
He needs to get another job cause he has to support his new family and his other two children!!!
I mean… if they were calling him for money that he owed for child support so that she could pay rent, and he gave that money plus more, then shouldn’t it be the daughter that owes the mom?
He borrowed the money in Jan. Around $20k was owed at that time. Then this was filmed in June. So that payment he made, was around six months after this money was owed. It still left him approximately $10k in arrears. The money was borrowed from the plaintiff… to pay towards the child support.
The judge keeps forgetting going to court cost money
Okay, here to be a differing voice of reason. There are a LOT of men who want to see their kids but whom are unable because "mom" hates dad more than she loves the kids. My husband is proof, and he's got friends who experience it as well. When mom convinces the kids that their father is terrible, they exhibit fear, the family court doesn't push it, therapists get suckered by mom, therapists tell judges "the kids aren't ready yet". It's been 6 years since we've seen my stepkids. We've been trespassed from mom's house for dropping off cookies, gifts, notes, etc. Police called... trespassed. He's literally legally barred from going to their home because SHE doesn't want him around "her" kids. . Nothing bad happened. No loss of care for the "first kids". It's been hell and fury trying to see them. And when normal people are emotionally exhausted, it can come off as anger in court- which feeds the judge's unfounded reasons to keep the kids away from dad/us/their half-siblings. So no. Not every dad who isn't involved does it out of needing to "do better". The family court system is a failure and they see fathers as sperm donors and child support. Please stop assuming dads are deadbeats if they don't see their kids. The law is not kind to farhers.
PS "Mom" lives with a boyfriend, has all their bills paid, goes on vacations, kids have had braces 2x each, collects welfare because she's "single". We struggle every month, and we'd HAPPILY take the kids.
You’re right. Except I AM the mom in this case. And it’s been an open door policy for him. He’s been invited to every school function, birthday party, sports event, etc. he chose not to come. And cries “poor me” trying to shift the blame for his behavior. My SO has been kept from his children. His ex moved them to another state and refused to let him see them or speak to them… even after going to court etc…. Yet he still pays his child support every week. He put ZERO effort into seeing our children. Didn’t call them etc. there’s a novels worth of stories I could tell. But enough of my business has been aired. Hope you have a wonderful evening.
How irritating is it to hear that someone has to fight for their children, why dont we talk about the lame moms that are intentional when they make it difficult for fathers
Except we aren’t the ones in court on national tv. You made those babies you take care of them too
Exactly!! I personally been there. It’s so easy to blame all men but ignore there’s so many bad women. Ppl act like it’s so black and white but it’s not always the case.
@@prairierider7569 monetarily? Because i see alot of fathers getting the short end of the stick, these moms want their money but could care less about their presence in their childs lives, if some moms want to ease the burden then give them to their dads and have them take care of them, oh wait, they wouldnt do that
Excuses excuses
Funny how the ones always whining about the mother making it difficult are also behind on child support
He doesn't care about his first family. He probably won't care about the second family after he dumps them. Maybe he'll move on to number three
As crazy as it is I see his point. He agreed to pay this child support in exchange for rent money. To bad that is not the agreement he mad with the mother nor did he honor the agreement he had in his head. “Do better”
Ladies out there. Do not marry a divorce man with children un less he is wealthy. Hard to sustain one family
Child support isn’t for dead beats to pay rent.
My birth father abandoned my mother and I while she was still pregnant. Back then, they saw fluid on my brain and didn’t know if I was going to be born with disabilities or not. He found that out and dipped. He moved to another state, married another woman and helped raise her kids. Well, that didn’t work out, he came back here and I tried to have a relationship with him.. unfortunately, that didn’t work out either. He is best friends with my ex, even went to his bachelor party & wedding. Fun times. I definitely feel for the children in this case. It’s disgusting to have children and abandon them and RAISE OTHER KIDS.