Home Sweet Home (1985)

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  • Опубліковано 27 вер 2024
  • From the Cradle to the Grave episode 1
    Documentary about the dilemma facing homeless families, unsatisfactory bed and breakfast accomodation and how landlords exploit the situation.

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  • @patsyhowse1919
    @patsyhowse1919 6 місяців тому +31

    Its 1.45am, I should be in bed but I'm stuck watching these great uploads.
    Britain did the best documentaries in the 70s 80s and 90s

  • @andreacaughey6761
    @andreacaughey6761 23 дні тому +14

    I’m loving this channel,I was too young to see these at the time but now I’m 50 I can watch 😂 loving the insight into 60s 70s 80s Britain

  • @belladrome
    @belladrome 17 днів тому +37

    The only thing that’s changed is illegal migrants being put to the top of the list staying anywhere from average to luxury hotels. Some trashing the place, some causing a stink because the FREE meals they are provided by the hotels are not to their taste. I’ll leave it there…

    • @carolinehoward180
      @carolinehoward180 16 днів тому +8

      Agreed

    • @lydialily846
      @lydialily846 6 днів тому +2

      Same here in Ireland !

    • @moominmay
      @moominmay 5 днів тому

      Always that one person spouting nonsense and crying about ‘illegal immigrants’ living the high life in the best hotels. Dry your tears and stop believing everything the right wing spouts 🙄

    • @elmobolan4274
      @elmobolan4274 Годину тому

      Yes-this is happening in America too...alot of people are getting kickbacks on having these illegals destroy our country.

  • @LuciThomasHardylover-qx6ts
    @LuciThomasHardylover-qx6ts 6 місяців тому +41

    Nothing ever changes in the end does it. We've come full circle after fifteen years of Tory rule, we're right back to this as normal again. But now it's even worse.we have people living from food banks, and epidemic of drug use that dwarves the heroin of the 80s and a social attitude that would make Thatcher proud. Everyone looking over each others shoulder to see if they're getting something, and a total denial of any social problems before the wave of migration at the turn of the century. Look how people are living then, I remember it! No-one had migration to blame then🤷 it's government serving their own greed that's the problem.

    • @Cloughjordan23
      @Cloughjordan23 5 місяців тому +7

      Exactly. This the type of film I'd show ppl who think the 70s were better. Have you watched Johnny go home from same uploader? Homeless London boys at risk to paedo gangs, just like in last 20 years it's been girls at risk. The boys predators were all upper class British established.

    • @MrDirkles
      @MrDirkles 5 місяців тому +1

      Labour are no different. They introduced buy to let and destroyed thousands of homes to increase prices.

    • @mickymouze1224
      @mickymouze1224 18 днів тому +5

      @@Cloughjordan23 The 70s were better in many ways but maybe that depended on where you lived. I remember a great community spirit where everyone looked out for each other, local shopkeepers who knew everyone by name and nobody going hungry even if we didn't have much with neighbours taking meals to the less fortunate. The 80s is where it started going downhill IMO with Thatcher telling everyone to get on their bikes to find a job as unemployment reached record levels, the beginning of breaking up families and increasing homelessness as people headed for the big cities, especially London.

    • @Diamond3503
      @Diamond3503 12 днів тому +3

      Exactly! Couldn't have said better myself. History has repeated itself yet again.

    • @dinagreaves6686
      @dinagreaves6686 12 днів тому

      Absolutely spot on

  • @prbsnoop1974
    @prbsnoop1974 19 днів тому +28

    Lola, why did you have another baby when you're living in a room with a toddler? Where's the father buggered off to? I'm only halfway through so I might find out

    •  2 дні тому

      i bet she never did find out.. mandatory pill for these types of women.

  • @Springamatul
    @Springamatul 5 днів тому +4

    This is so interesting but so sad at the same time. This film only seemed like yesterday. I think nothing much has changed even though this was made almost four decades ago. We hope the situation will improve and people live better lives.

  • @rachelbowskill4165
    @rachelbowskill4165 11 днів тому +4

    Thank you for uploading these programs ❤

  • @DieselDawg.
    @DieselDawg. 16 днів тому +13

    Poor little girl 😢 who threatens to smack a baby that small she doesn’t even know what she’s doing wrong, maybe she wouldn’t eat because your swinging her around by her limps and trying to force her down, I wouldn’t eat for you neither, and I don’t care how stressed she is with the small environment her baby didn’t ask to be born

    • @emilygilbeyful
      @emilygilbeyful 12 днів тому +7

      This was 40 years ago, the mother is young and utterly clueless. She's essentially homeless and seems to have NO idea how to handle a toddler. It's heartbreaking for the baby, back then there was no internet to help get information either, I'm the same age as the baby here and I remember it wasn't uncommon to hear people speak this way when I was very little.

    • @moominmay
      @moominmay 5 днів тому +3

      @@emilygilbeyfulthe shocking thing is there’s too many people still treat their children like that in this day and age. Until recently I worked in a public facing government department and it’s so sad to see kids having kids. Charlene’s mom is likely depressed as she said she finds it hard to motivate herself and her poor little girl is suffering as a result. It’s possible neither have bonded to each other. Fact Charlene isn’t even talking yet is probably because she never got stimulated as a baby 😢

    • @paulbrew7022
      @paulbrew7022 4 дні тому +1

      ​@@emilygilbeyful
      It still happens today in the year 2024

    • @TheMockatiel
      @TheMockatiel 2 дні тому

      @@moominmay attachment disorder for sure … and that fks up yer entire life as an adult

    • @loannaxxx8845
      @loannaxxx8845 2 дні тому +3

      She stressed and children was smacked back then

  • @mrmrsmsmisscloud7512
    @mrmrsmsmisscloud7512 14 днів тому +8

    Reminds me of that song by the Specials:- 🎶🎵”You’ve done too much, much too young, now you’re sitting washing nappies when you could be having fun with me..🎵🎶

  • @lindastanley229
    @lindastanley229 7 днів тому +5

    The little girl charlene i think she was called was so adorable.❤

  • @paulbrew7022
    @paulbrew7022 4 дні тому +11

    Why have more children when you cannot afford

    •  2 дні тому

      true. i would support a law that made it compulsory for women do take pill unless they have a certain amount of money, a safe and secure home prefably a secured tenancy (social housing tenancy) or bought their own and are married, etc, etc. call it the mandatory pill taking for chicks Act.!

    • @linda-nl8ib
      @linda-nl8ib 7 годин тому

      I agree

  • @tinamartin8890
    @tinamartin8890 6 місяців тому +3

    Thankyou for uploading this !!!

  • @kaibear8258
    @kaibear8258 21 день тому +6

    That poor kid,the mum trying to force her to eat,it was obvious she wasn't hungry

  • @mrmrsmsmisscloud7512
    @mrmrsmsmisscloud7512 14 днів тому +8

    The one in the white skirt is very frustrated with her toddler. She’s quite rough with her& I’m wondering how she’s fared now, assuming she was approximately aged 3 in 1985, therefore she would be about 42 now.

    • @yazzyb3293
      @yazzyb3293 7 днів тому

      Probably sat at home eating pork balls with her Mum 🤣

    • @Littlemouse884
      @Littlemouse884 День тому

      I know poor wee darling ☹️

  • @yazzyb3293
    @yazzyb3293 7 днів тому +4

    "Where's me pork balls" 😂😂

  • @mistofoles
    @mistofoles 20 днів тому +8

    Wow - "Backwards" is not a nice way to describe your own child !

    • @prbsnoop1974
      @prbsnoop1974 19 днів тому +9

      Different times

    • @thathurt
      @thathurt 15 днів тому +6

      People probably used that word commonly in 1985 instead of developmental delay.

    • @bethhagues7686
      @bethhagues7686 15 днів тому +12

      You’re under 30 aren’t you?

    • @sophie_penny
      @sophie_penny 14 днів тому +2

      ​@@bethhagues7686😂

    • @yazzyb3293
      @yazzyb3293 7 днів тому +1

      ​@@bethhagues7686💯😂

  • @mrmrsmsmisscloud7512
    @mrmrsmsmisscloud7512 14 днів тому +1

    The cute looking guy at 32:42 who was trying to help people, reminds me of Paul Weller in his heyday!!

    • @Diamond3503
      @Diamond3503 12 днів тому

      Looks nothing like Paul weller. Although the hair style was very on point for the 80s.

  • @AnnDuffy-v6x
    @AnnDuffy-v6x 19 днів тому +3

    Nonthin changes

  • @MarjorieKarpan
    @MarjorieKarpan 14 днів тому +1

    I have no idea r these people from other countries looking for handouts that country can’t take care of . And having babies when living in conditions like this is just plain stupid.

  • @irenepwheeldon
    @irenepwheeldon 10 днів тому +8

    Homes going empty, yet the council are paying out £120 a week for 1bedroom. in 1985. Who is making money out of this ??? Has anything changed since Kathy Come Home? in 2024 nothing has changed. Look at the owners, there is a common thread there. Greedy money grubbers, for one.

  • @mrmrsmsmisscloud7512
    @mrmrsmsmisscloud7512 14 днів тому +3

    So, where are migrants housed today in UK? Have things improved?

    • @gemmasmith6715
      @gemmasmith6715 18 годин тому

      A lot of migrants seem to be priority over everyone. It's still like this for a lot of people unfortunately

    • @janettemellor1572
      @janettemellor1572 10 годин тому +1

      Don't have kid's and moan you have done this !!!!

  • @CharlotteGreen-rt8pr
    @CharlotteGreen-rt8pr 12 днів тому +4

    Quit having kids!

    •  2 дні тому +1

      yes, you're right. this should have been called 'knocked up numskulls!'

    • @barbarapalmer8224
      @barbarapalmer8224 18 годин тому

      Well the children are here and did not ask to be born..

  • @blastproces
    @blastproces 15 днів тому

    Orange jackets were the thing

  • @ATHLDN
    @ATHLDN 23 дні тому +16

    I've lived like that and it breaks you.

    • @Nith-t8h
      @Nith-t8h 8 днів тому +1

      Same. Was grateful to not be beaten up every day though

  • @Harry-fk5of
    @Harry-fk5of 27 днів тому +22

    I feel for these people but why are they having kids and continuing to have kids when they're homeless?

  •  2 дні тому +2

    the poverty in the uk just gets worse and worse! That's what you get for having 1% of the population controlling 80% of the wealth, the access to education and means of production. £140 per week for a grotty little room with no bathroom? at 2024 that almost £530 per week..! WHAT?!

  • @donnakirk8504
    @donnakirk8504 23 години тому +2

    Makes me realise how lucky I was as a kid in the 80 s

  • @HardyTempestsWildCampsandWalks
    @HardyTempestsWildCampsandWalks 6 місяців тому +7

    Shocking documentary. Would dearly like to know how Charlene Paradise faired after this.

    • @catherinecurran7898
      @catherinecurran7898 17 днів тому +3

      I found her facebook profile. Can see the mum Pat in some of the photos.

  • @Sparkles12340
    @Sparkles12340 18 годин тому +1

    I left school in 1985, seems like yesterday but it’s millions of years ago at the same time. Nothing has improved at all, life on this dimension is hellish for so many.

  • @laurensteele2717
    @laurensteele2717 День тому +1

    Omg I know Hilary… havnt seen her for years and years she was a wonderful mum andn last time I saw her she had a flat.. amazing woman I had my work experience with her at a shop she ran in borehamwood. She was top class. I hope she is doing well ❤️

  • @Sharon-marie
    @Sharon-marie 16 годин тому +1

    Im glad the dad is still providing for his wife and daughter

  • @skyepalmer5719
    @skyepalmer5719 17 днів тому +6

    The tension between Charlenes Mum and Dad, i really felt for them😮

    • @DieselDawg.
      @DieselDawg. 16 днів тому +6

      Felt bad for them! I felt sorry for Charlene no wonder she didn’t want to eat the way her mum was swinging her about, threatening to smack a baby who’s to small to know what she’s even doing wrong is bang out

    • @mdmayhem
      @mdmayhem 12 днів тому +3

      ​@@DieselDawg.She's 41 now but it still killed me to see how she man handled a toddler, cooped up in a bedsit with the Mum and Dad knocking each other about. 😢

    • @DieselDawg.
      @DieselDawg. 12 днів тому +1

      @@mdmayhem was heartbreaking wasn’t it, brought back a lot of bad memories for me

    • @mdmayhem
      @mdmayhem 11 днів тому

      @@DieselDawg. Same 💚🇮🇪

    • @avalondreaming1433
      @avalondreaming1433 6 днів тому +1

      ​@@mdmayhemShe seemed terrified of the mother, but happy with the dad..

  • @Littlemouse884
    @Littlemouse884 День тому +1

    Fast forward to 2024 and things are even worse

  • @janettemellor1572
    @janettemellor1572 10 годин тому +1

    Takeaway? ??

  • @mrmrsmsmisscloud7512
    @mrmrsmsmisscloud7512 14 днів тому +3

    Having watched documentaries like this here on our ABC in Australia during the ‘80’s, I became aware of the social issues surrounding people my own age. Due to this, I viewed Thatcher’s Britain during the 1980’s as extremely harsh & unfair. However, the music coming out of England was creative & mind-blowing! Pop, Punk, Synth-pop, New-Wave, New Romantics, Ska, etc. I’ve since met many Poms who have migrated here to Australia, who were in their teens/early 20’s during the ‘80’s & they never had to deal with issues like this, because they had parents, education & homes, etc. Even now, I feel sorry for these young, vulnerable parents and wonder how their life panned out. 😢

  • @RuthRadcliffe-rl5pj
    @RuthRadcliffe-rl5pj 31 хвилина тому

    I wonder what became of everyone in this film ❤

  • @101curlywurly
    @101curlywurly 2 дні тому

    Thank God things have improved.........NOT!! Corruption and vice at the centre of all Gvts and Councils have caused and perpetuate this.

  • @ALICE-m8f
    @ALICE-m8f День тому

    Nothing has changed.people are still unemployed,but machines can now do jobs better and faster than a human.
    100years time with development of AI no-one will work and the government with have to pay everyone a universal living wage.
    There is much fear that the government is closing down the cash based benefit system but I think welfare system will still exist in some way in the future as there will be no need to work because of machines and computers running everthing.

  • @Sharon-marie
    @Sharon-marie 16 годин тому

    Wow that toaster right up the the bed is a fire waiting to happen. Kids trying to be grownups. Nice to know over 34 years its discusting people are still living like this in 2024