HOW TO DRESS BETTER | 10 STYLE IMPROVEMENT CHANGES I MADE

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  • Опубліковано 24 тра 2023
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    * MY LEVI’S: rstyle.me/+tOPXqEMwC9E9HX0jNe...
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    * SIMILAR JUMPSUIT: rstyle.me/+B6EZQqKcDpoSVZGpEh...
    * LINEN BLAZER: rstyle.me/+9XJYKqRNls92xryEte...
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    * BROWN CROP TOP SET: go.magik.ly/ml/1rvxi
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    * SIMILAR HEELS: rstyle.me/+UBvCpERPcabt9xoWlB...
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    * SHAPEWEAR SHORTS: rstyle.me/+-xMinP0GWOu4ylS1uk...
    * CREAM DRESS: rstyle.me/+VXmgQ5kBLShu6-saji...
    * BROWN JUMPSUIT: rstyle.me/+Ez5Wk0klQ3d1k6uzwG...
    🔸 OUTFIT #9
    * RED BLAZER (REG): rstyle.me/+yIDovbmhvnAFvjxQaA...
    * RED BLAZER (PLUS): rstyle.me/+EOew1ng18llL8Bq6bV...
    * BERMUDA SHORTS: rstyle.me/+o6D84RMg6XhuR0T_u9...
    * BERMUDA SHORTS (PLUS): rstyle.me/+NvdZt-8WOpAKDteA6k...
    * SIMILAR HEELS: rstyle.me/+oCkpkKlhWXIznmq_cx...
    * WHITE SHIRT: rstyle.me/+6buOA2ur8zy6nneFR-...
    * RED STRIPED PURSE: rstyle.me/+KED_yW-5vFYEPZ-AZF...
    🔸 OUTFIT #10
    * COLORFUL COAT: Sold Out
    * COLORFUL SKIRT: rstyle.me/+X8IZGehMI5G8Fy3rUX...
    🔸 OUTFIT #11
    * AFRICAN BLAZER and PANTS: glnk.io/10wq3/tenwaystowearit
    * MY HEELS: rstyle.me/+lIflQdthvfnDexJbJp...
    🔸 OUTFIT #12
    * SIMILAR POLKA DOT SHIRT: rstyle.me/+wUKUrDXghiaQN5grKu...
    * DENIM SKIRT: www.shopcider.com
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    * METALLIC SKIRT: go.magik.ly/ml/1qsd0
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    * LTHR JACKET: rstyle.me/+p-lhN27xYegMVS3Dnx...
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    * WHITE SKIRT: rstyle.me/+vMNgzgObXNCzcNYV2l...
    * ZEBRA SLIDES: rstyle.me/+_EENTbsdzJyWNruXg3...
    * ZEBRA BAG: rstyle.me/+FbHH0AJ1oYB9gxVTvj...
    🔸 OUTFIT #15
    * RED BLAZER DRESS: rstyle.me/+e83x7x-VKw2vbLytK9...
    * GOLD BELT: rstyle.me/+ZemSD3RHnSpWG71gPq...
    * SIMILAR RED HEELS: rstyle.me/+vZcWfv80IPg-5ZlK5D...
    * RED PURSE: rstyle.me/+lz97R9wyj9JVUKwU2g...
    🔸 OUTFIT #16
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    * RUST LINEN SHORTS (PLUS): rstyle.me/+Vd92OXRk6QRlteUfk3...
    * RUST HEELS: Ross Stores
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    * WHITE SHIRT: rstyle.me/+6buOA2ur8zy6nneFR-...
    * WIDE LEG JEANS: rstyle.me/+ntFqDZ_3I0wDDti4PK...
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    * ORANGE HEELS: rstyle.me/+wP6xT_Dg6D3ABudwng...
    🔸 OUTFIT #18
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    * SIMILAR STRIPED PANTS: rstyle.me/+IboT4mI0gT4wprB9n_...
    * PINK BOOTS: rstyle.me/+HwtPu56WLhdGJ2RkGW...
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  • @deegee6868
    @deegee6868 Рік тому +52

    This is a great video!!! Shapewear is so key!! Now I take/wear shapewear when I go shopping!! Have a great day! I can’t wait to see the next video!!

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому +2

      That’s such great advice Dee. It’s good to take it with you when you’re shopping so you know how things will fit with your shapewear on. See that’s why I love y’all. Thanks boo. Going to pin your comment. 😘♥️

    • @deegee6868
      @deegee6868 Рік тому

      @@tenwaystowearit Love u more!!!

    • @pearlinejones9993
      @pearlinejones9993 Рік тому +1

      Really valid tips Dee. You are so correct

    • @pietabeasley6549
      @pietabeasley6549 Рік тому

      great idea!

  • @laraveal6968
    @laraveal6968 Рік тому +101

    The biggest tip I've taken from you over the last year is to stop saving my clothes for a special occasion. Now I just look bomb all the time!

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому +5

      That’s wonderful Lara. I love to hear it babe. Thank you for being here. I really appreciate it. 😘♥️

    • @laraveal6968
      @laraveal6968 Рік тому +4

      @tenwaystowearit You are always so fun to watch and I appreciate that you take time out to do this while holding down a regular job, a bf and all the fam! Girl you are amazing!🥰

    • @modestinemungo4661
      @modestinemungo4661 Рік тому +3

      That's what I had to do too anout 2/3 years ago. Covid really made throw the whole thing g of 'Saving it for a special occasion out of the window'

    • @emilyfarris3510
      @emilyfarris3510 Рік тому +2

      That's awesome! I have worked in service jobs that require a uniform most of my life and I try to dress nice when I go out too. It makes me feel confident and happy.🥰

    • @roslyngraf1737
      @roslyngraf1737 Рік тому +2

      Exactly. I am doing that at last. Making myself look good all the time.😁

  • @queenadonri5913
    @queenadonri5913 Рік тому +2

    Insecurity, low self esteem, and lack self confidence contribute immensely to the choices we make, generally in life.

  • @braddock1708
    @braddock1708 Рік тому +42

    Saving my clothes for special occasions has been my downfall! You should see me walking my dog now🤣🤣🤣…but I’m feelin’ damn good with my doggie by my side since I’ve included my personal style on the sidewalks❤️👍🏻😃. Love your videos!

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому +2

      I love it Braddock!!! You and your puppy just styling and looking cute. I’m here for it. ♥️♥️♥️

  • @sandymason1772
    @sandymason1772 Рік тому +78

    This video is therapy in itself! I used to visualize that I still had my youthful, slim body - and actually shopped as if I was a size 6 instead of the size 14 that I am. But now I shop for my real-time-body. I look so much better and feel more confident. Also, I tend to ask myself if my clothing/style is age-appropriate. Why do I do that to myself? There’s no age listed on the sizing tags! Your video has given me a new and freeing perspective. Thanks so much!

    • @kcmarie3774
      @kcmarie3774 Рік тому +6

      Same or I wouldn't buy any new cute outfits because I was waiting to "lose weight" lol. Naw I'm going to dress cute NOW at my current size!

    • @vonnieb7411
      @vonnieb7411 Рік тому +2

      Omg,me too. I'm finally starting to realize I need to shop things that look good on me now instead of back then. I'm not alone😊

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому +3

      Oh my good Sandy. I can relate with everything you said. And I have a great video coming about about age and style. I don’t believe in the whole age-appropriate thing either. Thank you so much for sharing your experience with me. This means a lot. 😘♥️

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому

      @@vonnieb7411 you’re not alone Vonnie. I did the same thing my whole life. ♥️😘

    • @canonymous8035
      @canonymous8035 Рік тому +2

      @ sandy Mason facts, there is no age on the tag. Shop what makes you happy!

  • @colleenraymond944
    @colleenraymond944 Рік тому +3

    I get dressed up for even going grocery shopping. I also stop saving my clothes for special occasion. We only live once so make use of thing when you have good health. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @theforbiddentree8903
    @theforbiddentree8903 Рік тому +77

    I started improving my personal style when I started watching you. Honestly you have helped me tremendously.

  • @carolwelcome2882
    @carolwelcome2882 Рік тому +5

    Great informative video Alicia. I dress for me. Don't care if they are out dated. If Iike it, I am going to wear it.😊

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому +1

      I heard that Carol. That’s the best way to live babe. 😘♥️

  • @sharonhowell668
    @sharonhowell668 Рік тому +22

    Such a great video. You are so right about saving your clothes for a special event. The pandemic has taught me that life is short. I wear my clothes and try not to leave them hanging in the closet. I still dress up for church even though we are so casual these days. I don’t care I want to look good in house of the Lord.😀. I always enjoy your videos. Keep them coming. You have helped me a lot for a retired 62 year old. ❤️

    • @msdiva2847
      @msdiva2847 Рік тому +3

      I still dress up for church also!

    • @sharonhowell668
      @sharonhowell668 Рік тому +1

      @@msdiva2847 😃👍🏽

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому +3

      Thank you so much Sharon. You are so right about everything you stated. And I’m the same with my church. Our church is pretty casual but most of us still choose to dress up a little and just show that respect. I can’t see myself dressing up for dinner with friends but not dressing up for the Lord. I look forward to my Sundays at church. I don’t go every Sunday but I’m starting to go a lot more. At least 2-3 times a month. Thank you babe. ♥️♥️♥️

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому +2

      @@msdiva2847 me too. I look forward to it.

    • @xiomaralewis1002
      @xiomaralewis1002 Рік тому +1

      Wow, you have really stuck a nerve with that. When I buy a dress it would always be for church first, my priority being to dress properly for the Lord's house. So when others think I'm being a snob for dressing up, I really don't care. This has been excellent advice.

  • @Dyane629
    @Dyane629 Рік тому +40

    If there were awards for best presented content in a YT video you would definitely have my vote, Alisha! Loved this topic & your very personal & relatable presentation right down to today’s sponsor. The last two on your list really hit home for me personally & I’m glad you included them. Thanks for sharing and always being authentically amazing you! Love you back girl & all you do for your community of devoted subbies!❤️

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому +1

      Wow!!! Thank you so much Catdyane. That’s such a wonderful compliment. I truly do appreciate it. 😘

    • @Dyane629
      @Dyane629 Рік тому

      @@tenwaystowearit ❤️

  • @fernitacatchings2725
    @fernitacatchings2725 Рік тому +4

    You are the BOMB! If I lived near you I would pay for you to style my ENTIRE wardrobe. These other "fashion" girls don't have style they just buy label after label, then do videos about luxury regrets and how the stuff falling apart. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't ever change!!!

  • @veladahall6140
    @veladahall6140 Рік тому +12

    Hi Alisha! You are so right! I used to wait for special occasions to wear my special clothes, but no more! Living is a special enough reason to wear all the "special" clothes! You have to accept the skin you're and be happy! Whatever positive changes one makes, then you'll be better for it! Love yourself!❤❤

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому

      Absolutely Velada! I love you for this. I completely agree babe. 😘♥️

  • @msdiva2847
    @msdiva2847 Рік тому +5

    I totally agree with your tips! I dress the way I want, despite what others might be wearing. Thanks for the style inserts!

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому

      I love it. I bet you inspire so many people around you just by being you. They’ll never say it but I bet you do sis. Big hugs! 😘♥️😘

  • @rbrice3567
    @rbrice3567 Рік тому +2

    In the words of the dearly departed Tina Turner, you are simply the best , better than all the rest. This video was right on time for me. Loving my new size. I went from a 8 to a 10/12 and still squeezed into the 8s looking a hot mess and waiting to lose the covid weight. Well I’m a 10/12 and have accepted it.

    • @liliwms508
      @liliwms508 Рік тому +1

      You are speaking for a lot of folks; Covid has been a monster in quite a few ways. You don’t have to be a size 8 to be stylish and beautiful; work whatcha got!👏🏽🥰

  • @user-zx6lu2ke3i
    @user-zx6lu2ke3i Рік тому +1

    Ohhhh my goodness. #9 hit hard. "In Costco looking fly AF" --- I LOVE it! And every other syllable in that particular segment. Loved ALL your trips, but felt this one big. Thank you!

  • @luckee316
    @luckee316 Рік тому +6

    I honestly just love your personality. You’re so warm and generous with how you share with us. I’m at a point in my life where I’m beginning to care so much less about other’s opinion of me. I’m newly single and losing weight and struggling with my personal style. These tips are super helpful. Thanks!

  • @rosiekitties
    @rosiekitties Рік тому +7

    I love your style I have my own style and I don't care what people think my own sister told me I used to think you dressed weird but she seen how I felt about myself and she started dressing better after she went shopping with me and seen how she could look better and feel better.

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому +2

      I love it Rosie! You sound amazing and sounds like you even helped your sister out just by you being yourself. That’s powerful. Keep rocking girlfriend. Lots of love to you. 😘♥️😘

  • @RobinH-us4vs
    @RobinH-us4vs 4 місяці тому

    You are describing me. I kept trying to dress in my old size. Finally accepting and loving body now. Instead of thinking, I'll be happier after I lose 20 lbs. I'm buying what fits me now. No more living in the future! You gave very good advice!

  • @marciadawson4183
    @marciadawson4183 Рік тому +2

    It's all about growth. When you know better you do better. I would encourage you not to beat up and yourself. I have been watching your for a while, my style is growing along with your style.

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому

      Yesssss! Beautifully stated 👏🏾! Thank you so much love. 😘♥️😘

  • @emilyherr6011
    @emilyherr6011 Рік тому +2

    I always say if someone doesn't like what I'm wearing, that's their problem, not mine. You look wonderful in all the outfits you showed in this video! I especially love the green checkered pants outfit with the white blazer over it! 🥰

  • @nuhnmoniqueboayue261
    @nuhnmoniqueboayue261 Рік тому

    I couldn’t agree more with the idea of wearing my clothes whenever and wherever instead of keeping them for special occasions. Thanks for the inspiration. 👍🏽👍😎

  • @qalayah
    @qalayah Рік тому +5

    ALICIA, OMG, you so hit the nail on the head with me regarding saving clothes for a special occasion. Girl, like a month ago, I started wearing my clothes that I was saving. I loved this whole video

  • @TheMsjade1984
    @TheMsjade1984 Рік тому +5

    This was actually very helpful. I definitely need to organize ( declutter and donate) my wardrobe for sure. Knowing where things are and being able to see them is helpful. I honestly have so many clothes I have not worn or do not plan to wear again but find it hard to get rid of. Soon I’ll be with you in Target looking like a DIVA!! 😂🥂

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому +1

      I heard that Carolyn. 🥰 And I can relate with you so much on struggling to get rid of things. I have major attachment issues to my stuff so it’s definitely been a struggle. Just keep working at it. Lots of love babe. 😘♥️

    • @TheMsjade1984
      @TheMsjade1984 Рік тому

      @@tenwaystowearit 🥰

  • @leslieperry4006
    @leslieperry4006 Рік тому +6

    I have always loved fashion and dressing, but finding you and your real style that’s really nice and reachable like clothes that I can actually wear out has made me completely reevaluate my looks. So now, every time you share your new ideas, it prompts me to evaluate my wardrobe too! Shapewear is absolutely key, my mother stressed this importance even as a young woman. Thank you for your hard work putting all of this together.❤

  • @alethialovetosew
    @alethialovetosew Рік тому +1

    Congrats! I am happy to see that you accepted the body that you were blessed with and began to dress with clothes that are beautiful and flattering for your body shape. Kudos to you and Congrats.

  • @abcstyles
    @abcstyles Рік тому

    “PUT ON YOUR CLOTHES!!!” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @shadee15
    @shadee15 Рік тому +1

    Yes, PLEASE do a separate video for finding your core elements and understanding your style!! This is the best style channel on you tube chyy!!!

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому

      Thank you so much Shana. I got you baby. I’ll start working on it tomorrow. Stay tuned. 😘♥️

  • @Niamirismom
    @Niamirismom Рік тому +1

    You should be on TV. Period. Classy, consistent, interesting, and on point with every video!! ❤❤❤

  • @Bevareux
    @Bevareux Рік тому +2

    This, and you are Awesome! I was just about to get ready to go and meet up some of my friends for an early dinner. I had my outfit ready and I sat and watched this video, and now I have changed out my purse and shoes and added some and jewelry ... NOW, I am ready to go out and I am looking so cute now and feeling great. Thank you for videos.

  • @dbrown0496
    @dbrown0496 Рік тому +2

    Videos like THIS are exactly why I love your channel!!!! Sis! Thanks for such great content!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jwiggins4765
    @jwiggins4765 Рік тому +3

    Phenomenal video!! You touched on so many helpful points!!

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much J. I really appreciate it love. 😘♥️

  • @gillianrichards6028
    @gillianrichards6028 Рік тому +4

    Alisha, brilliant video. This was free therapy for me. I've been dressing better since I started watching you. So a big thank you my girl 🙏🏾❤

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому

      Awwww thank you so much Gillian. I really appreciate your kind words and I’m so glad to have you here. So thankful for all the people like you who make doing this so wonderful. Lots of love to you babe. 😘♥️😘

  • @goldenchild2369
    @goldenchild2369 Рік тому +1

    This is why I love this channel because you are authentic and keep it so honest 🥰

  • @joycepenn6123
    @joycepenn6123 Рік тому +1

    Make no mistake, you have great style!!! I love how you put unusual things together and one of my favorite outfits, I copied and everyone loves it...I receive so many compliments on it!! Drum role... It's my camo pants, black combat boots, black low cut tank top, paired with the Amazon long red and black cheetah sweater!!! Do you remember it? I also purchased the green and black cheetah sweater and wear it sometimes!!! You look fantastic in everything you put together!!! Thanks for your tips and ideas!

  • @lindacrutcher6444
    @lindacrutcher6444 Рік тому +2

    I've watched you for a while now and you always make good fashion sense. YES! YES! you are so right, stop saving clothing because everyday is a special occasion. You are helping women of all ages, Thank You!

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому

      Thank you so so much Linda! Thanks for rocking with your girl all these years. I really appreciate you and your feedback. Lots of love. 😘😘😘

  • @ketriceebain7041
    @ketriceebain7041 Рік тому +4

    You are so on point with this i was doing the same thing,this is why i love your channel so much thank you for this.

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much Ketrice. It’s so wonderful to hear that so many of you ladies can relate and understand where I’m coming from. I truly appreciate you. 😘♥️

  • @juliejohnson1306
    @juliejohnson1306 Рік тому +6

    I love seeing that you’ve uploaded and this video is top shelf! The messages and the outfits are spot on! So modern and classy, edgy and sophisticated. Your styling is extraordinary - SO good. Your advice is universal, delivered in a very genuine way. Applause!

  • @courtneybealdavis6493
    @courtneybealdavis6493 Рік тому +1

    You just helped me way more then can be imagined. I struggle with EVERYTHING you mentioned. Thank you so much.

  • @zeritacopeland9402
    @zeritacopeland9402 Рік тому +1

    Dee Gee, you are soooo right. This is a fantastic video!!!. I was already this person and have been for years. People who know me will have to admit that this is me 100%. What I am about to do now is try to get my girlfriends to listens to this from start to finish. I know I will be met with some resistance, but , at least I have tried. This is very timely and so important in so many ways.

  • @phajahdawnlett4979
    @phajahdawnlett4979 Рік тому +4

    You👈🏾 Have had such a positive impact on me! This is THE BEST VIDEO EVER!!!!!!! I happened upon you and I now look forward to your content weekly. I have witnessed how you've grown in style and maturity over time..I went back and watched almost all of your old vids😅 Thank you for being YOU. I have two Style Content Creators
    YOU & Angela Michelle...you both are OUTSTANDING. I'm 55 so you help me keep my edgy flair and Angela ties into my "you somebody's GlamMa vibe" L❤ve you💕🦋

    • @msdiva2847
      @msdiva2847 Рік тому +1

      They both are fabulous 😍!

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому +1

      Awwww thank you so much Phajah. That means a lot to me. I really appreciate you being here and I’m so glad the content has been helpful. 😘♥️

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому +1

      @@msdiva2847 thanks so much sis. 😘♥️

  • @helenwalker9751
    @helenwalker9751 Рік тому

    Love that youre not into brand names and living above your means. And yes ladies, pleeease wear some shapewear...dont ruin the garment. Know your shape and what works well with it, your style. Love all your videos and advice

  • @china1cal
    @china1cal Рік тому +2

    Honey, you hit it out the park with this one. Thanks so much for your transparency. I love you and your style.. my inspiration❤

  • @bobettabrooks
    @bobettabrooks Рік тому +1

    I found you through a comment section and decided to check out your content, and was pleasantly surprised. I find this advice very helpful and you seem like a great roll model to follow as a 16 year old aspiring fashionista 😊

  • @nuhnmoniqueboayue261
    @nuhnmoniqueboayue261 Рік тому +10

    Girl, you’re a rockstar! Thanks for this amazing video, especially for being so candid about mental health. I’m a work in progress in terms of style but love where I’m at. I get a lot of inspiration from you. Your style is fabulous and commensurate your body type. 😍

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому

      Thank you so much for your sweet and encouraging words Monique. I really appreciate you being here babe. We’re all a work in progress just doing the best we can. 😘♥️

    • @naomichepkoy2029
      @naomichepkoy2029 Рік тому

      Wow, you such an amazing soul

  • @CynthiaMobleyHowell
    @CynthiaMobleyHowell Рік тому +3

    Thank you so much for the great content in this video sis! I like using your name, but refuse to spell it wrong. I know, I have issues. 🤣🤣🤣I'm a mental health advocate, so the Better Help piece really resonated with me! Thank you for raising the awareness that HELP is available. My favorite tip was about NOT saving stuff for a special occasion. I'm my mama's daughter and be rocking to the NINES on ANY day! LOL! Somebody made a comment one day about how I was dressed, indicating that I was overdressed for a regular day. Chile please...It bothered me for a hot second and I went about my business. Don't hate, APPRECIATE! That's all. Thanks again Queen. Keep bringing the🔥🔥🔥 Peace, Love, and Blessings💚💚💚

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much Cynthia. And I love what you said. I too have had people attempt to insult me by saying I’m overdressed or just doing too much but I find that it usually comes from a place of either jealousy or unfamiliarity. Especially out here in L.A. They’re so used to everybody walking around in gym clothes all the time so when you actually get dressed they look at you like you’re crazy. These days I’m like look and learn. 😂 Thank you sis for understanding where I’m coming from. Big hugs. 😘♥️

    • @CynthiaMobleyHowell
      @CynthiaMobleyHowell Рік тому +1

      @@tenwaystowearit you're welcome sis! What YOU said! I love it..."look and learn."😘

  • @angelabutler7761
    @angelabutler7761 Рік тому +1

    This has to be one of my favorite videos that you have ever done. Your style has come a long way and I found these tips really helpful and authentic!

  • @preciousstone2782
    @preciousstone2782 Рік тому +1

    YAASSSS HUNTY, ALL OF YOUR TIPS ARE ON POINT... THANK U FOR SHARING, I TOTALLY AGREE. I ABSOLUTELY MUST SHARE!

  • @shannanberry
    @shannanberry Рік тому +1

    I think your an awesome "BRAVE" young woman... There is something beautifully humble in you that is awesome humble and brave all in the same person is super rare!!!! Thats it!! Your a rare gem !!!! A pleasure to watch thank you!!!!

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому

      Awwwww 🥰 thank you Shannan. You’re the sweetest and you made my day. I really appreciate your kind words. Big hugs my dear. 😘♥️

  • @omaryland5039
    @omaryland5039 Рік тому +1

    Finding core element is superb for i create my own fashion and that make me always stand out..
    GREAT video...

  • @lindamaturesass
    @lindamaturesass Рік тому +3

    Great video sis! You definitely come into your style as you age and change ( not everyone 🤷🏽‍♀️😬). You do need to let go of things and I've learned that you don't even miss them & I feel good hoping I've helped others. I was blown away by those black & white pants with the hot pink duster & boots. 🔥🔥🔥 #theslay👸🏾👑

  • @ineverythinggivethanks3249
    @ineverythinggivethanks3249 Рік тому +2

    Wonderful video! This information is so valuable. You’re such an inspiration. Thank you for being true to yourself.

  • @robinsneed2043
    @robinsneed2043 Рік тому +1

    Great video appreciate you sharing these tips. Love your style and content !

  • @lisamonti7057
    @lisamonti7057 Рік тому

    Spot on. Every single tip was helpful!

  • @56RCD
    @56RCD Рік тому +1

    Well, in this video you provide the most logical and useful style advice that I’ve consumed on UA-cam and I consume A LOT of style advice content! Thank you!

  • @lindaboo3220
    @lindaboo3220 Рік тому +1

    I'm so happy I found your channel. I needed to hear this. Great scenery, beautiful outfits and great advice. Thank you 💖

  • @tabkins
    @tabkins Рік тому

    So many great tips and outfits! Thanks.

  • @mubiyna5839
    @mubiyna5839 Рік тому +1

    Such a great video!! Thank you so so much for dropping this 🔥 knowledge for us!! You are so amazing and I genuinely enjoy all of your videos ❤

  • @janetmasindekheir1778
    @janetmasindekheir1778 10 місяців тому

    This video is my game changer when it comes to personal styling and confidence. I dressed to impress the society that was around me but I wasnt happy. After watching this I dress in what makes me happy and suits my body shape. My confidence level is on a high and I just love how I feel. This video is great and right now I am watching your other videos for great tips.

  • @teashachocolate5284
    @teashachocolate5284 Рік тому

    You look amazing. I've been watching your channel for 2 years, and I love your style for you. You wear it well, and you've definitely elevated your style.

  • @Failureisnotanoptionever
    @Failureisnotanoptionever Рік тому

    Love love love this video! And all those outfits look great on you! Fabulous

  • @TT-fl8jt
    @TT-fl8jt Рік тому

    Awesome video! I agree with everything you said!! On point! 😀

  • @xiomaralewis1002
    @xiomaralewis1002 Рік тому +1

    Alisha, you are so right in every way. Thank you.

  • @polognedajuste1184
    @polognedajuste1184 Рік тому +1

    Love every points and will definitely apply tip 9&10 ❤️

  • @cltinturkey
    @cltinturkey Рік тому +2

    You have nailed your style and know what suits you! Many of these outfits are spectacular. They seem effortless, but I can tell you took a lot of time and attention to perfect them. Jumpsuit at 3:59, 2-piece set at 12:39, B/W zebra at 16:41, and orange and white at 18:32 (the SHOES!) are my favorites. It's wonderful how well you know yourself!

  • @vampgaia
    @vampgaia Рік тому +1

    Excellent advice! I'm working on all those steps right now. It's a process for sure. But worth it.

  • @maxineshrouder2166
    @maxineshrouder2166 Рік тому +1

    I really appreciate how you have grown in your style and sharing your journey. I look forward to your videos and the insights you share for my style journey.

  • @valariedemendonca4929
    @valariedemendonca4929 Рік тому +1

    Love this..great tips tfs.

  • @shaylow8938
    @shaylow8938 Рік тому

    Bravo!!!! I loved all your tips. You look fabulous and I love your style. That last outfit oooh..lala

  • @angelaeuell2762
    @angelaeuell2762 Рік тому

    Thank you for your authenticity and honesty.

  • @janenejackson3524
    @janenejackson3524 Рік тому +1


    All of the tips you give are extremely helpful! Thank you for sharing and for being your authentic self. I loved all of these looks

  • @lastisnowfirst2319
    @lastisnowfirst2319 4 місяці тому

    Girl, you look so beautiful in those clothes. I actually have that really nice body, but your full-figured body looks way better the way you dress than a slender frame without the right style. If people take your advice, any body type can be beautiful. I'm changing my wardrobe!

  • @mzneti8467
    @mzneti8467 Рік тому

    Another GREAT post. I just Enjoy your style and your Laugh. Keep em coming. . . .😍

  • @suzanschneider6163
    @suzanschneider6163 Рік тому +1

    One of your best videos! Thank you. And your confidence is contagious. I’ll try to remember all of these great tips AND not care about what others think of how I dress.

  • @gloriajohnson3626
    @gloriajohnson3626 Рік тому +1

    I love everything that you did. I absolutely appreciate the wisdom that you have gained. ❤ You look fabulous.

  • @kimberlyshaffer8342
    @kimberlyshaffer8342 Рік тому +1

    I truly enjoy your videos and style! Thank you for your style guidance! Love it! ❤

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому

      Thank you so much Kimmie. That really means a lot to me babe. Big hugs! 😘

  • @learning5780
    @learning5780 Рік тому +1

    I always like and appreciate your content. This one is great for core values. Thank you!

  • @rhondaisler1882
    @rhondaisler1882 Рік тому +1

    LADY you are so down to earth! keep rolloing. greetings from Switzerland😂😂

  • @EmpressSolstice
    @EmpressSolstice Рік тому +1

    I did the same visualization mess as a younger woman. I’m so thankful that it is behind me😊

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому

      I heard that Dee. 🥰 It’s a beautiful thing when you can let that sort of thing go and love yourself. I’m so glad I let that go. 🙏🏾♥️🙌🏾

  • @SunniTheEarthBabe
    @SunniTheEarthBabe 10 місяців тому

    Omg everything organized n all the links I’m in. I’m changing my wardrobe you have given me so many ideas

  • @teresacoombs1917
    @teresacoombs1917 Рік тому

    Thank you for this video. I really liked the different styles sis.!

  • @bettyhowatt8167
    @bettyhowatt8167 9 місяців тому

    Thank you for this video!!! Everything you have said is so true and boy have I seen myself doing some of the things you have said. Have been having a great time binge watching!!!!!

  • @shanshaw9398
    @shanshaw9398 Рік тому +1

    I appreciate all the effort you put into your videos. All that you say resonates with me. I definitely need to shop for my body type and current size and buy quality and timely pieces. I truly appreciate your advice 🙂

  • @pietabeasley6549
    @pietabeasley6549 Рік тому

    Such great information! Thank you!!!

  • @lawandairving2076
    @lawandairving2076 Рік тому +1

    Great tips, this my first time watching you. Love your style. Be blessed sis!!!

  • @sjb9573
    @sjb9573 Рік тому

    Amazing points made. Great video xxx

  • @carlaallen3768
    @carlaallen3768 Рік тому +1

    Awesome content. I love your personal style and your positive words. Keep up the great work!😊

  • @efiaesoteric3566
    @efiaesoteric3566 Рік тому +1

    I love love, love this video and your content in general. You have got to be the most down to earth, fashionista on UA-cam! Also, as a therapist with BetterHelp, I second your motion! Peace

  • @janjenkins5298
    @janjenkins5298 Рік тому

    Thank you for this video!!! I needed this. Great video!

  • @tonigilyard10
    @tonigilyard10 Рік тому +1

    WOW, such wisdom in what you shared! So many of us need to adhere to or consider what you presented. Thank you so much.

  • @sarag.7156
    @sarag.7156 Рік тому +1

    dear Ten Ways, I don't always like *everything* you wear, but I am always, ALWAYS stunned by how beautifully, majestic goddes like you look!

  • @I_amMiriamC
    @I_amMiriamC Рік тому +1

    Your videos are always on point! This one spoke volumes to me! Thank you!! “Stop caring what people think, invest in good shapewear, love and dress your body the way it is!! Yes gauuuud!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @WearYourWardrobe
    @WearYourWardrobe Рік тому

    Great video. So many helpful suggestions. Thanks for sharing.

  • @denisenelson6370
    @denisenelson6370 Рік тому

    ❤love this!!!🎉🎉🎉💐 thank you!! Yes keep being you.

  • @traciesullivan8560
    @traciesullivan8560 Рік тому

    “You can find me in Costco looking fly…” 😅😅❤❤EVERY look in this video is a 10!!! Just gorgeous!!! Wish you could
    go shopping w me😃

  • @theluxxetraveler
    @theluxxetraveler Рік тому +1

    Great tips! I love all the advice, so true. I need to clean out my closet, that’s the tip I’m working on. Thank you for sharing.
    I’ve also seen your style evolve and I’m inspired by you and your bravery. Good for you!!!

  • @okesadeogunlana5292
    @okesadeogunlana5292 Рік тому

    Great content, Alisha. One of the best videos I've watched. Thanks for your authenticity.

  • @4everBP1
    @4everBP1 Рік тому

    Loved it! I've watched you for awhile but never subscribed. It was just time. Love your positivity and your outlook on life. You love you some you! Blessings.

  • @iamgoddesskouture
    @iamgoddesskouture Рік тому +1

    Perfect Timing 👌🏾. I was actually saying it's time to get rid of all my graphic tees because I want to definitely elevate my look that's more age appropriate. These tips were speaking to me on a personal level and on a business level for my online women's boutique. Thanks for a great video ❤

  • @colleenhoffman2817
    @colleenhoffman2817 Рік тому

    I LOVE your channel ❤️ 💕 ♥️ I'm so grateful I found you! You are beautiful, and your advice is so wonderful!!! Thank you 😊

  • @jenniferd.8823
    @jenniferd.8823 Рік тому +2

    Such a great video!! I relate to ALLL of it. And thank you for highlighting how we all can benefit from therapy. I definitely was making the same wardrobe mistakes on my journey as well. LOVE LOVE LOVE.

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  Рік тому

      Thank you so much Jen. I’m so glad you enjoyed the video. I truly appreciate your kind words. 😘♥️