How to give yourself PERMISSION!
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- Опубліковано 14 лис 2017
- So often we are looking to others, circumstance, events to give us the permission we need to make a decision, love ourselves, go to the next level or simply own our own perception.
After many years of self sabotage I finally woke up to the permission that lives within.
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Have a beautiful week!!
You have punched me in the gut with this truth!!! Your right!!! I have been looking for permission outside myself and it’s because I am afraid to step out of the limb by myself. Thank You!!!
YES totally understandable. It's all about unconditional belief in ourselves ;-) it IS possible!
I feel the exact same way, I always felt like I was a bad person. There was a lot of shame and guilt brought on by my mom and dad because they were both manipulative and on a certain level I thought that if I aligned with myself then I wouldn't be approved of by others so I would do look for external approval and validation and abandon myself although I didn't know that I was doing that until this past year. It is a huge revelation.
Iam enough i have been enough i for ever be enough for the rest of my life ..... Love yall ....i wish yall the vedt in life ....
Oh my God Candace! Like HOLY COW!!! THANKS FOR sharing ur story. Finally, someone who knows what it feels like to feel from the inside out.
yesss ;-)
I find Candaces work very helpful along with TB Joshua, Teal Swan, Coda, I thank Candace and the others for their gifts.
Awww Thank you for that!
I have been such a chicken for so long and I'm so tired of it. I am going to finish and publish my book because I deserve what I want !! Thank you for this message 👌❤
Yes you do sister. I need to publish mine too ;-)
Candace, for what i need.. i 'm not looking for permission..
But, encouragment& Acceptance
You can also find that within. I hope you find it sweetheart!
Go inside you can do anything you want when you bleive yourself and free yourself
YES!!!
We were given the gift of life to experience what our souls want dont let anything hole you back from what the soul wants you seem to know if you follow the path others set out for you and not what the soul is here for you might be able to laugh for you to fit in but the soul will make your hart tear. That was Beautiful video and thank you for sharing your experience which is ever easy to do but your inner strength shined thru like a ray of light from your favorite star
Cheers have a beautiful and powerful day Candace
Thanks for the video. I am at the stage in my life right now where you described you were before you changed things. Thinking about it this week I feel that I haven’t been taking responsibility for my feelings so I have become detached from them. This video gave me a better perspective that it actually deals with giving myself permission to feel and act the way I feel instead of hiding it or giving others permission to tell me otherwise when I’m unsure of myself. I like that you use the word permission instead of only taking action because it’s gives acknowledgement that it’s a choice to assume responsibility of your actions not just an action without commitment to change.
Wow. You are always right on time. Our energies must be connected :) thank you so much.
Love it! Soul sis ;-)
Fear of réjection. I thank God for deliverance.
Gosh how I love you! You always rock. The level of your accuracy and consiceness of delivering the message is just adorable, Candace!!
Synchronous again. Literally felt this way yesterday. So many good things were happening the last couple of days.. Then self sabotage kicks in.. I really needed this, I don't need to be going back and forth with myself. I give myself permission to be the best that I can be. Thank you 😊
YES!! you deserve it!!
Candace van Dell saw the 222 when I had read your reply. 😊
I'm 36, and I still need my mom's permission to do big things. I feel I hold myself back in so many ways because of that. No, it doesn't mean I don't do things without her permission. I live my life, which is pretty successful, I make my decisions on my own for the most part. But there are some grander things that I need my mom's validation for. And no matter how much permission I give my self to do them, and even if I end up doing them, I still don't fully trust myself and end up not totally enjoying whatever I'm doing. I honestly not sure how to change that.
The things is, this is so powerful. But how to use it the right way...
Very powerful👌🏽perfect alignment ✨
Thank you !!
Self abandonment is big for me. I do it for safety and fear. I had no idea. Wow! Thank you for this video
Oh...I resonate with this so much. Very helpful message, thank you Candace.
Wonderful, I'm so glad!!
Omg words can't express how thankful I am for humans like you, thank you Candace 🙏
Wow !! Bullseye ♐️
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Just where I’ve reached today n u r reassuring 😇 Ty! I sabotaged myself for 8yrs to become perfect/ inner work. It’s eternal work rt! Today I ws angry, I’ve done al d work n I must hav manifested my 1 desire. I’d just begun giving self permission to receive n nt to doubt if inner work is not enough...
Thx a ton 🥰
Thank you for this! I REALLY needed to hear this today. I too, have let my fears and doubts dictate my value in my abilities, as a creative person. I think that the biggest struggle for me is comparing myself to others who have so much more talent than I do. Or at least believed that I had. I continued to believe and then use it to justify why I haven't fully pursued my dreams or my passions. Music, dance, design...its like I get close, and then start to doubt myself and qualities and then give up. So I never became a professional dancer, singer and songwriter, or a fashion designer. All of these skills that I don't really believe that I am or will never measure up to be at the level that I want to be. And that I am "just ok" at it.
I want to change my mindset so I can really enjoy those things and what I have to offer, so I can be confident in sharing them with others.
be human. be humanity. be happy.
just simple.
thank you
♡jenn
This information is golden especially if you apply to your personal life , thanks
Yes! I'm so glad you can relate!
Every video I watch of yours helps me reflect on myself, and my life, and helps me progress to be better. Thank you for sharing your knowledge!
Thank you Candace. I love how real and honest you are. And I'm really happy you are where you are today! Thank God
Done shadow work for yrs. Recently after fighting divinity for nt allowing me to live my dream life like my parents & exes. I bumped into d shadow that I seek their permission. I ws stunned. Y do I need permission? Its my life. I released myself in that moment & gave myself d perm. I can feel d integration & joy within.
,so vibrating with this! Thankyou so much for being who you are. Sending much gratitude and appreciation and so much love 💖
You’re a true legend! I have just started to listen to you and you have changed my life!!!!! I thank you 🙏🏽❤️
Thank you Candace 💖
Welcome!!
Thank you for these videos. Hugs :) highly sensitive person from narcissistic family past here.
Beautifully and simply explained ♥️thank you 🙏🏻
Have a beautiful day✌
I think another way to look at this is to give Yourself permission to manifest these things.. My trigger trigger has been that dreams and wanting can be a negative as well. That by wanting or dreaming I am greedy and self centered and therefore should not manifest these things. Over time I've come to understand that my gifts and dreams are part of a gift to the world as well and it's not self serving
Is it ok to say after watching her for the first time that I’m insanely jealous of Candace’s significant other. I’m in LOVE with the idea of getting to know Candace better. I have never been so attracted so quickly to a woman for all of the BEST reasons. Wow! 😌
I manifest Candace replies. 😑
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Thank you. I love you
Ha thank you!
Such a great vid! I just subbed so I can watch all your future ones, and am going to binge on your previous ones.
Wow wonderful video thank u!
It's my pleasure!
On spot, thanks for sharing ❤️
I love this! Thank you!
you are very welcome!!
This was so real are helpful, thank you for opening up your heart on camera
So so true for me. Thank you for sharing your story
My pleasure! ;-)
OMG this is amazing. thank you.
Thank you Candace
I identify deeply with this discovery 🙏💕
Women need to give themselves Permission to be who they are and want to be. 💖 Give myself Permission to Love. Which makes me feel good. I don't need Permission to be Different. I use to think I'm not good enough. You can't please everyone all the time.
I sooo needed this, 🙏🏽
That was beautiful xx
Key to dreams :) Because I decide if that's the key. It's in myself. And I believe that Rihanna just allowed herself too. Because we can do anything and we just need to allow ourselves, it's just that simple! I hope this will be a little inspiration to the ones who have ''big'' dreams 🙂🙂
always the thing I needed to hear.
you are AWESOME!!!
I love your light 💛
I refuse to abandon self
OMG . thank you thank you 1000 000 times
Love this
Thank you!
Thank you 🙏💕
Thank you.🙏🌸🦋💗
Omg...just what I needed🌼 thank you so much, you are a light in this world😃
Awww thank you beauty!
Yes!!!!!!
So m'y story
Thank you madame ;-)
This channel is truly amazing. I really enjoy your message and relate to what you're talking about. Also, I emailed you inquiring about a possible collaboration if you would be interested.
I refuse to self reject
Love u
I understand that and I have come to that awareness already, however…I’m not sure how that “give yourself permission” feels like. Even though I’m aware of the inner process, still not sure how to overcome so many years of continuous thinking in that way. I’m no longer seeking for external validation but that has not automatically turned into “self permission”. I feel I’m stuck in between.
I agree 100% but how can I get to that point? Of not feeling like I need validation from everyone
Just common sense. Be realistic, most people will encounter much more competition and jealousy than encouragement in their life, maybe even in their own family ! If they keep waiting for external validation, they're going nowhere...
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I have always struggled with the idea that we need to be selfless and not to think of our desires. We are not suppose to desire something for ourselves. I wanted clarity and if u cd help me understand whether seeking to experience something or desiring something to happen...is it selfish? And if so what is the truth? Why do we need to be selfless and what is selfless desire really?
I don't seek permitoon i gove notice ..... I wish. Yall well ....
I reject first before you reject me
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Honestly, I nerver give permission, they look at your expression said you give them permission, you got to ask people directly, not assume.
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How did you overcome self sabotage??
By owning herself, giving permission to herself from the inside of her... and not seeking validation and permission from the outside. Bcz I think when we create some idea to do something and we don't be sure and believable to pursue it.. we seek validation outside and when it doesn't go well we take steb back and it becomes a cycle that kick us to the same place over and over again.
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Babe I feel ur energy, weird like my twin flame x
You are demeaning a queen when u say babe such am arrogant comment
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keep being a sexy AND smart BITCH!!!
I LOVE YOU, CANDACE!!!
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