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  • @jandavidarquisola777
    @jandavidarquisola777 Місяць тому +17998

    Our deepest condolences to you and your family🙏🏻🕊️

    • @superMegafir
      @superMegafir Місяць тому +12

      🙏

    • @Bellatrix_edits
      @Bellatrix_edits Місяць тому +17

      May you're dad rest in peace 🕊️💗

    • @wendywilson4771
      @wendywilson4771 Місяць тому +2

      ​@@messianic_scam tf u mean?

    • @raniasabbah624
      @raniasabbah624 2 дні тому

      😢 no​@@wendywilson4771 what do you mean tf you meab shee wishing ger dad to rest ib peace dude whats wrobg with you

    • @raniasabbah624
      @raniasabbah624 2 дні тому

      Wrong *

  • @tamarakekedo2242
    @tamarakekedo2242 Місяць тому +6982

    As soon as you said the words "my dad has passed" got me crying in my car. My dad passed 13 years ago but I still get emotional when others have lost their dad's

    • @Allthebest1010
      @Allthebest1010 Місяць тому +49

      Me as well. I got completely triggered by her account bc I know the feeling - 🙏🏾 but the memories keep you very alive.

    • @sharonlatour6230
      @sharonlatour6230 Місяць тому +45

      I still have my daddy, but i'm crying for you and the girl who is cooking.

    • @reignna
      @reignna Місяць тому +18

      Me too...i miss my tatay so much..losing him is the heartache that never goes away😢

    • @JeremyTheCatt
      @JeremyTheCatt Місяць тому +9

      Same but for me it’s been exactly 2 years.. actually 2 years and 2 days

    • @dyodoleu
      @dyodoleu Місяць тому +16

      I'm so sorry about that, today I randomly thought how I won't have my dad forever (those random moments of realising we aren't immortal) and I had to push the thought out of my mind or I would've bawled. Wherever ur dad is, I hope he's at peace and happy and warm❤❤❤❤

  • @whatever_art
    @whatever_art 29 днів тому +224

    "Grief feels weird" is the truest statement I've ever heard, i hope your father is in a better place now

  • @Celeste-dp5ur
    @Celeste-dp5ur Місяць тому +3870

    Grief is the price we pay for the love ❤ may you be comforted greatly Tiffy xxxxx

    • @RIFKI8872
      @RIFKI8872 Місяць тому +27

      That's such a beautiful way to put it

    • @abigailcraig
      @abigailcraig Місяць тому +9

      Queen Elizabeth's legacy is obviously mixed, but she certainly knew grief, and she spoke about it with almost unparalleled eloquence ❤ It's nice to see her words being quoted!

    • @NickPartida-gq7be
      @NickPartida-gq7be Місяць тому +2

      I am so sorry for your loss. I know what it’s like to lose a dad. I lost mine last year. ❤

  • @itssohani.
    @itssohani. Місяць тому +2128

    Your dad was a fighter ❤

  • @tdouglas1206ify
    @tdouglas1206ify Місяць тому +274

    I'm so sorry to hear he passed. You have my deepest condolences 🙏🏾

  • @wendymichiko
    @wendymichiko Місяць тому +1386

    Grief is love with no place to go. I’m so sorry Tiffany. He left with a heart filled with love.

    • @DarlingDarleen-q6f
      @DarlingDarleen-q6f Місяць тому +3

      I am so sadden to hear of your dads passing. You are an amazing daughter and I am praying for u and the family❤️🌹

    • @Bababooey-f4d
      @Bababooey-f4d Місяць тому +4

      I love this. I always say that grief is the price of love. ❤

    • @wendymichiko
      @wendymichiko Місяць тому +2

      @@Bababooey-f4d Have a beautiful weekend. 🥰

    • @Bababooey-f4d
      @Bababooey-f4d Місяць тому +2

      @@wendymichiko same to you!!! 🙃

    • @Elyanley
      @Elyanley Місяць тому +3

      That is a powerful description of grief and love.

  • @Fallen.Leaf13
    @Fallen.Leaf13 Місяць тому +1042

    May your dad rest in peace ❤stay strong tiffy ❤

  • @D9P323
    @D9P323 Місяць тому +21

    May he rest in peace.....grief over a parent is unlike anything else. Take care Tiffy❤❤

  • @arixgaming9583
    @arixgaming9583 Місяць тому +519

    Oh man when she said “Grief” and how her voice broke. That just made me tear up. I send my condolences! And praying for you and your family.

  • @CPJau
    @CPJau Місяць тому +521

    I'm so sorry for your loss. We will miss watching him enjoying your food in your videos. Take your time to process your grief. I'm glad you have dishes you can make to remember him by. ❤️

  • @rose-wf6hk
    @rose-wf6hk Місяць тому +46

    im so sorry for your loss, he sounds like an amasing man that raised a beautiful and kind daughter, thank you so much for sharing not only this dish but yourself with us, againg im so sorry and i hope threw time you can heal

  • @MsLcyoung
    @MsLcyoung Місяць тому +222

    Losing a parent is super hard. Your life changes a full 360, take the time to heal and you’ll never stop grieving. You’ll learn to live with it. Sending so much love and comfort. ❤❤

  • @kalea808AB
    @kalea808AB Місяць тому +321

    Oh no Tiff, I'm at a loss for words. Quiet moments can be the hardest. You brought so much joy to your Dad and seeing your success, definiely made him proud. You and your family were his strength. Take your time to care for your momma who needs all of you. Sending lots of hugs and love from Hawaii.

  • @1634.
    @1634. Місяць тому +25

    “i would do anything for him to cook me another bowl of noodle soup” was the thing that she said that made tears roll down my face. sometimes we take things for granted, and we should stop scrolling, and spend time with our loved ones before they go. don’t take this stuff for granted.

    • @djmidori
      @djmidori 24 дні тому +1

      this. defintely. my dad was the 'chef' of the family and he just died too suddenly without us saying goodbye. enjoy everything now before they go

    • @pamelasingh2666
      @pamelasingh2666 22 дні тому +1

      My condolences to you and your family. It is ok to grief. Pray for his soul. Will pray for you. God bless you and your family ❤

  • @13nielsbri
    @13nielsbri Місяць тому +494

    Lost my dad nearly 10 years to the day when i was 20. Still miss my dad and have a good cry every now and then. He will never meet my husband or know his grandkids. He won't be around when I graduate nursing school. When I think about moments like that I feel robbed compared to other people who got to experience those milestones with their fathers, but learning to live without him has made me the person I am today. I'm so sorry you had to learn this pain, be kind to yourself and let yourself feel when you need to. I hope you can surround yourself with people who love you.

    • @Endicq
      @Endicq Місяць тому +16

      I lost my mom last year when I was 6m pregnant so I feel you on the being robbed. It’s such a crazy, helpless feeling. I’m sorry for your loss❤❤❤🫶🏻 thank you for sharing this comment, it truly helps people like me that are still trying to navigate.

    • @mik-exe-
      @mik-exe- Місяць тому +4

      That feeling of being robbed is so real. Sometimes it makes me angry, but it is certainly a process of learning to live with it and not let it dominate. Hearing others in the same situation makes it less lonely.

  • @OliviaVeea
    @OliviaVeea Місяць тому +171

    i cannot stress enough how important these types of videos are. of course first to the people who have sadly lost loved ones in their lives but also for the people (aka) me who haven’t but are DREADING coming to point where it will happen. i don’t know how i will cope or if i will ever be happy again as even just thinking about it sends me through a spiral of emotions. but these videos show us it’s okay, it’s the cycle of life, we will all meet again on the other side, and the grieving gets better.

    • @jinorism
      @jinorism Місяць тому +11

      anticipatory grief is not fun 😔
      but this was a great comment, thank you for making it 💖

    • @OliviaVeea
      @OliviaVeea Місяць тому +6

      @@jinorism thank you for acknowledging it darling, it isn’t, but it helps to know your not alone we are ALL in this game of life together ❤️

  • @tiab3829
    @tiab3829 Місяць тому +4

    I am so very sorry for you and your family's loss😢❤💐

  • @tanyaseet2753
    @tanyaseet2753 Місяць тому +104

    I am so sorry for your loss. It was lovely seeing his videos and thank you for sharing a small window into your father-daughter relationship ❤❤

  • @stephanienoire1892
    @stephanienoire1892 Місяць тому +70

    So sorry for your loss. Grief is complicated. Take all the time you need.

  • @MilaDetoma
    @MilaDetoma Місяць тому +21

    I’m so sorry for your loss, but it’s good to hear you say you will see him again

  • @CamrynCarter-wx2es
    @CamrynCarter-wx2es Місяць тому +86

    I’m so sorry for your loss😢 praying for you and your family!!🩷

  • @jeneferjoice7503
    @jeneferjoice7503 Місяць тому +477

    Don't worry. Our dear God is taking care of him 🙏❤️

    • @kim-xo
      @kim-xo Місяць тому +16

      Oh yea , the same one that gave him cancer

    • @Kayleigh-w1g
      @Kayleigh-w1g Місяць тому +19

      ⁠@@kim-xogod didn’t give him cancer don’t worry

    • @buttpain171
      @buttpain171 Місяць тому

      @@kim-xo Don't be cynical. Only because you don't believe in a god other people do and this is how some of them express their compassion.

    • @cecenails9713
      @cecenails9713 Місяць тому +27

      @@kim-xojust because you don’t believe, doesn’t mean you need to make this comment negative.

    • @kim-xo
      @kim-xo Місяць тому

      @@cecenails9713 Genesis 1:1 , do your fucking homework god did create everything

  • @chickenplaysroblox21
    @chickenplaysroblox21 Місяць тому +1

    Its been a couple of months since my grandma passed and i still get random moments of sadness and happiness like you do ❤

  • @jeaninefurniss7288
    @jeaninefurniss7288 Місяць тому +271

    The first time I ever cried for someone I knew only online. I am so sorry. He was so proud of you. We could just see it when he looked at you. Thank you for taking him on all the trips, and sharing him with us. Prayers for peace that passes all understanding to you, Dom, your mama and sister.

  • @livblochsrensen673
    @livblochsrensen673 Місяць тому +343

    I am so sorry for your loss. I just recently finished chemo therapy and I really enjoyed watching the videos with your father. It was nice finally seeing something on my social media feed I could relate to, so thank you for that. I know there is nothing I can say that is going to make things better, but as a cancer patient, I can tell you that your love and support was the most important thing to give your dad in his situation ❤

    • @seaslife60
      @seaslife60 Місяць тому +11

      Wishing you healing and strength. ❤

    • @Paru-si5wr
      @Paru-si5wr Місяць тому +9

      Hoping for your speedy recovery dear..

  • @AgnesLinks
    @AgnesLinks 26 днів тому +4

    You got me bawling like a child,an old lady of 66 years,big hugs and lots of love from South Africa❤❤

  • @evecami1953
    @evecami1953 Місяць тому +30

    Perfectly said!! 😍 Until the day we see them again!! 💪💗 "and death will be no more" (Rev 21:4)

  • @DalasCZech
    @DalasCZech Місяць тому +28

    Dad is hella proud of you. keep going he would love this. you honoring him throu this

  • @idiluzun3341
    @idiluzun3341 Місяць тому +10

    I am so sorry for your loss. I remember seeing videos of you cooking for his chemotherapy cravings. He was such a lucky man to have a caring daughter like you. ❤

  • @dotcassilles1488
    @dotcassilles1488 Місяць тому +55

    I'm sorry for your loss but I'm so glad you have good memories (and recipes) of your dad.
    I have a collection of recipes from people I loved and all the associated memories.
    Just remember grief is different for each of us, there's no one right way to grieve. Whatever feels best for you is your right way.
    Blessings (& hugs) from South Eastern Australia, Dot

  • @amandacorrea1251
    @amandacorrea1251 Місяць тому +7

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Grieving is a crazy process. I lost my mom 33 years ago, and I miss her more than ever. ❤

  • @pinkycorpuz2618
    @pinkycorpuz2618 Місяць тому +58

    Sorry about your loss, glad that you guys were able to travel with him that last trip to Taiwan….loved that bonding moment…..PRAYING FOR YOUR FAMILY

  • @anupriyachatterjee8468
    @anupriyachatterjee8468 Місяць тому +23

    Sending you a hug. May his soul rest in peace.

  • @Isabells-n4o
    @Isabells-n4o 2 дні тому +1

    Ur lucky to have at least spent most of ur life with him unlike me, my dad passed when I was just 6 weeks old and I still think about him and cry so know, it’s ok to cry because whenever u love someone and u lost them no matter how long it has been u will cry

  • @MoonHuntressMetaphysics
    @MoonHuntressMetaphysics Місяць тому +93

    I am so sorry, Tiffy. It is so hard to lose a parent. Sending love ❤

  • @NuCreature8
    @NuCreature8 Місяць тому +35

    My condolences Tiffy, thanks for your transparency 🙏🏽💕💐

  • @jagjitvirdee1515
    @jagjitvirdee1515 Місяць тому +2

    Oh I'm so sorry. My deepest condolences 🙏❤

  • @izzywoods794
    @izzywoods794 Місяць тому +68

    After my uncle passed, i gained a new appreciated for the term "passed." They are on to the next stage. Theyre a level ahead of us

  • @belindapishner6924
    @belindapishner6924 Місяць тому +13

    Sorry for your loss. You always spoke so kindly of him. He would be proud that you continue to honor him by cooking.

  • @ranun5973
    @ranun5973 Місяць тому +7

    And his memory is with us now too through you and his recipe! I hope the grief is peaceful and smooth going forward for you and yours.

  • @Coolcucumber905
    @Coolcucumber905 Місяць тому +75

    I unexpectedly lost my dad in 2022, not a day has passed without me thinking about him. I know the grief you feel, sending love your way ❤🙏

  • @belletwelve438
    @belletwelve438 Місяць тому +10

    He's watching over with pride and joy. Blessings to you and your fam 🙏

  • @brendagarnes7671
    @brendagarnes7671 Місяць тому +7

    My deepest sympathy ❤️‍🩹 goes out to you. ❤❤❤❤

  • @sumiyamiah9637
    @sumiyamiah9637 Місяць тому +11

    I am so so sorry for your loss Tiff. I really enjoyed seeing your dad's reaction after you cooked his cravings for him. May he rest in peace. Sending you love and prayers.

  • @patchchat
    @patchchat Місяць тому +12

    Awww. No. I am so sorry for your loss. be comforted that you know his favorites and can still enjoy them.

  • @williamsimpson2777
    @williamsimpson2777 Місяць тому +7

    Deepest condolences - we've just been through something similar as a family. All love and best wishes for you and your family. ❤

  • @CourageUnderFire87
    @CourageUnderFire87 Місяць тому +64

    Im sorry to hear about your dad’s passing. Sending prayers and condolences to you and your family.

    • @ginnibrower596
      @ginnibrower596 Місяць тому

      I am so sorry for your loss.🙏🤗

  • @ntuan9360
    @ntuan9360 Місяць тому +11

    My condolences, thank you for sharing with us

  • @eh2kim
    @eh2kim 26 днів тому +2

    So sorry for your loss. I loved watching your series supporting your dad through chemo. I lost my father also this past summer, and you’re so right, it is so weird. Somedays are fine and I’m filled with love and gratitude thinking about him and then other days, I’m a mess. Thanks for sharing and being courageous enough to invite people in your journey. Take care❤

  • @ai1een876
    @ai1een876 Місяць тому +12

    I send you my love and consolences. I always enjoyed seeing the relationship you two had for each other.

  • @babygirl110800
    @babygirl110800 Місяць тому +12

    I'm at a loss of words...... Your memories of him will get you through day by day.

  • @eshaalnasir4607
    @eshaalnasir4607 29 днів тому +2

    I know this is totally random but.... Looking at videos and reacting to the comments just makes me feel happy.... Like I know there's people out there willing to comfort someone during hardships so shout out to everyone in the comments and RIP your dad, he will be missed by all of us❤❤❤😢

  • @miizblonde28
    @miizblonde28 Місяць тому +17

    Aw, 🥹 my sincere condolences to you and your family. The way you feel is totally normal. This up and down will there for a while but in the near future you will be content. Hugs 🤗

  • @fatimaboebina
    @fatimaboebina Місяць тому +9

    I’m very sorry for your loss 😢 I hope you are taking care of yourself! Love your content girlie 🤗❤️

  • @Whoknows20220
    @Whoknows20220 Місяць тому +3

    God bless you angel 🙏😇 stay strong

  • @_ohe_hehehe_6970
    @_ohe_hehehe_6970 Місяць тому +83

    Last month my dad passed away. It was his birth month. His birthday was on 22 august and he died on 17 august. I was planning to bake a cake for him. I don't know how to cook so for me baking him a cake was a big deal. When he died it was only me and him. He died infront of my eyes. It happened within few minutes. Before I can call anyone or an ambulance he was gone. After his death I cried only once. It was right after his death, when it was only me and my baba's soul in my home. Only he saw me crying for him. When my mom and everyone came I didn't shed a single tear. It wasn't like I was controlling my emotions. It's just that I couldn't bring myself crying. Whenever people tried to console me, they said "Crying will make you feel light. You should cry. You don't have to be strong for your mom." But I wasn't being strong. I don't know why I couldn't cry. I was really close with him. My gallery is filled with all of our fun videos. I watch them and tries to forget those eyes of him while he was dying. But I am also happy that when he was dying he was holding my hands. I am reading books, watching movies and hanging out with friends to feel happy. I know he's seeing me and me being happy will make him the happiest one in heaven.

    • @Crackhead599
      @Crackhead599 Місяць тому +4

      So sorry to hear this. He will be happy to see you like this.....
      💜💜💜💜💜

    • @shreya6568
      @shreya6568 Місяць тому +1

      He loves you ❤ stay strong and know that he's always there with you.

    • @CreativeMood
      @CreativeMood Місяць тому

      I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm also an August 22nd born, which somehow makes me resinate with this more.

    • @barbiecentral
      @barbiecentral 29 днів тому

      he’s really lucky to have had you there with him, as difficult as it was i imagine he was grateful it was you

  • @Sacha_03
    @Sacha_03 Місяць тому +11

    Thinking about you my love! Every single day! So happy to see your face back on! Sending you all the love & prayers your way ❤

  • @Seraphina-j9o
    @Seraphina-j9o Місяць тому +1

    I also lost my dad two months ago and I can feel how you feel because he meant everything to me

  • @minolidealwis695
    @minolidealwis695 Місяць тому +8

    I’m so sorry for your loss!! You took care of him and loved him very much may he rest in peace. We never lose our loved ones they just become angels in heaven!! Lots of love and my prayers are with you ❤

  • @JFlec1983
    @JFlec1983 Місяць тому +5

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! Grief is continuous.. and there is no right or wrong way to grieve. Take all the time you need. Cry as much as your heart needs. But still, always, always remember how much he loved you and will ALWAYS love you! 💜

  • @JonnyTylerMoore
    @JonnyTylerMoore Місяць тому +4

    I once read that grief is just love, with nowhere to go. This has made me more forgiving of myself during the moments I am stricken by the feeling. Today is the 30th anniversary of my father's death, and it still stops me in my tracks at times. You are blessed to have such a strong connection to your father through both your recipes. My condolences Tiffy 💜

    • @awkwardlyrachel5524
      @awkwardlyrachel5524 Місяць тому

      This is the definition that feels most right to me. My baby sister passed from cancer in July 2021, leaving her amazing 8.5 year old daughter to be raised with my brother's kids. The pain I mostly feel wells up when I watch her daughter (12 in January, holy cow) being a goofball, like her mommy, or cuddling babies, like her mommy. It's absolutely the love I know my sister would be feeling, the pride she would have in her wonderful girl. I will tell her about her mommy, as she grows up, as appropriate. I hope that doesn't hurt her. I just can't let the overwhelming love my sister had for her baby be silenced by her death.

  • @debbiedoodiedandi
    @debbiedoodiedandi Місяць тому +6

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing him with us through your video shorts. It was wonderful seeing how much he enjoyed what you cooked for him.

  • @tiffanyali8315
    @tiffanyali8315 Місяць тому +12

    Lost my dad 2 1/2 years ago, also to cancer. Every single day he is the first thing on my mind when I wake up, and the last before I go to bed. I am so so sorry for your loss, I hope you find comfort in knowing he is out of all pain and suffering now. ❤️

  • @garnettspontini1011
    @garnettspontini1011 Місяць тому +3

    So sorry for your loss, but you'll always have his great dishes and wonderful warm memories. ❤

  • @ohhelloca5214
    @ohhelloca5214 Місяць тому +8

    So sorry to hear about your loss. You’ve been an inspiration and it is ok to cry. 🫂

  • @rebeckacalkins1616
    @rebeckacalkins1616 Місяць тому +5

    I do this myself. I'm the only one who learned my grandfather's recipes and he raised me with my grandma. I turn on music from my childhood that they played on the radio and start cooking and I feel them with me, and its almost like they made the food, I just helped it along a little bit. Its my way to connect with them and I thank them for everything they did for me when they didn't have to. They were the best people in my life and I'm so grateful and I miss them dearly. They gave me so much and taught me how to make all of the same things they did, so I can connect with them every time I make a meal for myself and my loved ones.

  • @rmglifestyle8356
    @rmglifestyle8356 Місяць тому +5

    Deepest condolences ❤❤❤

  • @andymack9339
    @andymack9339 Місяць тому +2

    I know how you feel.There's no time where I don't stop thinking about my mom and it's been six years already since she passed away

  • @Bigb00bs_umchileanywaysso
    @Bigb00bs_umchileanywaysso Місяць тому +38

    Omg i just watched the video of you cooking noodles for your dad yesterday. I’m so sorry to hear that. My condolences

  • @sarahabston8118
    @sarahabston8118 Місяць тому +4

    Sorry for your loss 💕 😢

  • @SamAntics86
    @SamAntics86 Місяць тому +1

    My condolences. But there wont be a day again where you won't think about him. I lost my dad 3 years ago and it still hurts. It does get easier. Just cherish those memories amd remain grateful. Much love from Australia ✌🏻

  • @animescout3025
    @animescout3025 Місяць тому +7

    I’m so sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace ❤😢

  • @eleshawashington4918
    @eleshawashington4918 Місяць тому +3

    My Condolences your doing a Great job ✝️.

  • @ju.m0cha
    @ju.m0cha 22 дні тому +1

    so sorry that your dad passed I hope he. lives a good so good life in heaven

  • @iconicTreeRat
    @iconicTreeRat Місяць тому +6

    My cat I had had since I was born died 2 years ago and even 1 short sad video about family or animals will make me cry for hours sometimes even about family that hasn’t passed

  • @mayce09
    @mayce09 Місяць тому +6

    Condolences to you and your family 🤍

  • @Karmic_art
    @Karmic_art Місяць тому +1

    I understand how you feel completely, lost my brother a few years back and i still get triggered thinking about it, ill tell you this now despite what other people say it never gets easier you'll just grow num to it overtime. However those fond memories you have with your dad will carry on with you forever and it'll help you grow. A little something that has helped me is that whenever i wanted to cry i would just put on my best smile and do something that reminds me of him and it'll eventually calm me down.

  • @archywiseman
    @archywiseman Місяць тому +7

    My condolences to you and your family.

  • @rebeccahardin-mk7qm
    @rebeccahardin-mk7qm Місяць тому +4

    So sorry for your loss. Such a sad emptiness.😪My dad is gone too, and I miss him every day. Keep up the good work. You are wonderful and I love your recipes. Good for you. Making his favorite foods will keep him close. I believe too, we’ll see them again.🌅😘🫂

  • @isadelps
    @isadelps Місяць тому +2

    Nooooooo i was just enjoying your chemo recipe series a few days ago! Sending my deepest condolences 🤍

  • @FlipMominNC
    @FlipMominNC Місяць тому +4

    I’m so sorry for your loss! Losing a good Dad is the hardest feeling to overcome!😢

  • @ramonamacabugao4836
    @ramonamacabugao4836 Місяць тому +18

    Family can be together forever. Yes, you will see him again. Sending hugs !

  • @GabriellaTapia-d6i
    @GabriellaTapia-d6i Місяць тому +2

    Don’t worry girl you are so STRONG never forget that there will be hard times but don’t wait for the storm to pass dance in the rain may god be with you throughout your life❤❤

  • @trini7841
    @trini7841 Місяць тому +5

    Aww I'm so very sorry for your loss. I pray you have strength to carry on. Grief is not an easy thing to go through nor is there any right or wrong way to feel. It's your personal journey so do what feels right for you. Big squeezey hugs ❤❤❤

  • @gaiamorgosi7181
    @gaiamorgosi7181 Місяць тому +9

    Tiffy, you are helping me SO MUCH through the problems I'm having. I have a genetical condition that makes appreciating food so difficult because of the chronic pain in my intestines, these videos help me a lot to spark the appetite. Well. When my best friend's mum died almost six years ago, in the middle of our teenage years, the first thing that I said (I'm ashamed to say it, but it's true), was "Who is going to make oven pasta now?" Right after, the sentence seemed so selfish, and I said sorry, but my friend hugged me tight telling me that she was happy I felt at home eating her food, that I found comfort in her presence in my life. Food is more than food, it is memory, it's home, comfort, attachment, is not the food itself, it's the person that made it for you, to keep you healthy, it's the person that makes you stay fed. I can tell you from experience that THAT dish is never going to be a dish, it is going to be that feeling all over again, and with time the sadness of the memory of the person will become the feeling of having them by your side all over again, and then you'll be the one to pass those feelings and those memory to others, either us, or someone else in your life, you're following the path of that person, sharing food with others. One day you'll get to see him again, but for now, you're becoming someone's inspiration and source of comfort.

  • @lindapops
    @lindapops Місяць тому +2

    I am so sorry for your loss. Be comforted ìn knowing how much joy you brought to his life. In the videos you shared with us, you could see the pride in his eyes. Thank you for sharing him with us.❤

  • @tuesdaywelch
    @tuesdaywelch Місяць тому +6

    Oh my gosh...I'm so sorry to hear about your father. God can comfort us in the deepest of grief

  • @hanyasalazar12738
    @hanyasalazar12738 Місяць тому +6

    Sorry for your loss ❤

  • @brendacunningham5070
    @brendacunningham5070 Місяць тому +2

    I AM Sooo Glad You Were Able Share Sooo Much Together Here BEfore His Transition💚💚💚💚...You Had Him Into Your Adult Years And That IS A Great Thing...Pisces To Aquarius GOLDEN Age Transition 💚💚💚💚🦅🦅🦅🦅

  • @IK7-o2y
    @IK7-o2y Місяць тому +3

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my dad to covid. I hope you have lots of support around you ❤️

  • @monika-we8tx
    @monika-we8tx Місяць тому +5

    i noticed you haven't posted in a while and was silently praying it wasn't about your dad. i don't follow any of your socials except for youtube so i just knew. my deepest condolences. he's in a better, happier place now. and you should be able to grief in a healthy way as well. keep cooking and being happy. we love ya.

  • @shantiramawad4570
    @shantiramawad4570 Місяць тому +2

    Sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.

  • @amyhunt8379
    @amyhunt8379 Місяць тому +9

    I’m truly sorry for your loss. I recently lost my mother this year unexpectedly. I pray for your healing and strength in this difficult time.

  • @simply4u780
    @simply4u780 Місяць тому +8

    🙂🙏🤍🌸🌸🌸

  • @myCookieAngel
    @myCookieAngel 5 днів тому +1

    Condolences to you and family ❤

  • @luisachang4365
    @luisachang4365 Місяць тому +1

    Dear Tiffy, I'm very sorry for your loss. Stay strong and healthy. God bless you🙏

  • @cbstore6779
    @cbstore6779 Місяць тому +1

    I’m so sorry for your loss Tiffany .My heart felt condolences .

  • @922sunshine
    @922sunshine Місяць тому +1

    I'm very sorry for your loss of your father, I give my condolences to you & your family😢 It's alright to shed tears and cry, I am here😢 Take your time for a break as much as you need, if you want to take a break😢

  • @rebeccagriffith905
    @rebeccagriffith905 Місяць тому +1

    I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs Take care.❤