Tracking Desire: What if Queer Dating Apps Were Actually Queer Friendly?

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  • Опубліковано 25 жов 2024

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  • @jankinair9934
    @jankinair9934 2 роки тому +33

    As a queer woman, I feel like I have not been represented here. Moreover, queer women face something equally scary. There have been so many instances where cis-het men have tried to pass off as a lesbian woman, making fake profiles just to then blackmail and/or threaten us. As a woman, I feel scared revealing my sexuality online.

  • @manyasharma3674
    @manyasharma3674 2 роки тому +51

    I would have liked to hear some comments from the people of other sex and gender in LGBTQ+ community. For example, there was no representation of female sex or non-binary people. A survey on what percentage of such people are actually comfortable in using these dating apps will also be interesting

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 2 роки тому +38

    The person who pointed out there’s patriarchy and hierarchy among LGBTQ+ members was spot on. I disagree with the term ‘community’ to describe us because we haven’t reached a level of absolute equality. A Non-Disabled Neurotypical Cisgender Savarna Man will hold greater power, be over represented and pathologised as a blanket statement against the notion of non-mainstream ways of being.

    • @ronitrajput3934
      @ronitrajput3934 2 роки тому

      what do you mean by power? (not mocking, I am just confused)

    • @ronitsharma1414
      @ronitsharma1414 2 роки тому

      I do agree

    • @PokhrajRoy.
      @PokhrajRoy. 2 роки тому +5

      @@ronitrajput3934 One has Caste privilege and CIS privilege along with a body that doesn’t need 24/7 care.

    • @someoneyouprobablyknowandl9964
      @someoneyouprobablyknowandl9964 2 роки тому +4

      A community doesn't necessarily mean all the people in that community are equal though. All that you say is absolutely true, but doesn't take away from the community aspect of lgbtq+ people. Of course there are assholes in every community, as well as systemic biases.
      But as long as they are addressed, I don't see why thinking of it as a community should be an issue.

    • @varadhk3159
      @varadhk3159 2 роки тому

      Yaha bhi Dalit Bramhin karne lag gaye?😑This is why the country is not progressing

  • @quoyinaghosh8584
    @quoyinaghosh8584 2 роки тому +19

    This was such a brilliant film to watch! Thank you for highlighting this and doing it so beautifully at that!!!! :D

  • @vastikagoel6797
    @vastikagoel6797 2 роки тому +6

    Why do I feel like most of these problems occur in heterosexual dating apps as well. Like there's nothing new about it, dating apps in general whether queer or not can be pretty dangerous...

  • @notsotrending3635
    @notsotrending3635 2 роки тому +5

    More problems like people hiding their STD status, MsM not getting tested for STDs on regular basis, unawareness about the different gender identities and using the umbrella terms, people unnecessarily sending nude pics and starting conversation with a pic rather by a greeting, all these problems would take a century or more to solve.

  • @incognitouser8256
    @incognitouser8256 2 роки тому +4

    I MISS ‘OVERTHINKING IT’ SERIES

  • @pokeplatinumboy
    @pokeplatinumboy 2 роки тому +51

    The Swaddle winning the youtube game no cap this is a WIN

    • @unnatishe-her5916
      @unnatishe-her5916 2 роки тому

      No cap.

    • @gampa_10_31
      @gampa_10_31 2 роки тому +9

      Why is swaddle not making a video on Amber head's dog stepped on a bee

    • @peeper646
      @peeper646 2 роки тому +9

      @@gampa_10_31 they have an article wailing over Scamber's loss, regurgitating the same script all Turd supporters blabber

    • @CancerDepartmentFeminismWing
      @CancerDepartmentFeminismWing 2 роки тому +9

      @@gampa_10_31 yes, Amber lost, she deserves it 😘😂

    • @gampa_10_31
      @gampa_10_31 2 роки тому +2

      @@CancerDepartmentFeminismWing yes🤣🤣🤣, she have to pay 10 million dollars but her net worth is less than 5 million🤣🤣🤣

  • @iu9130
    @iu9130 2 роки тому +4

    Does anyone know what happened before 377 ? Because I know some villages where god slaves( a tradition) used to be practiced by biological females and transwomen together.

  • @shrishtimalhotra2406
    @shrishtimalhotra2406 2 роки тому +8

    So excited for this!

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 2 роки тому +13

    I never fail to mention how much I love the graphics but the graphics are brilliant here 🔥

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 2 роки тому +10

    Happy Pride Month! I look forward to seeing it 👏🏽

    • @gampa_10_31
      @gampa_10_31 2 роки тому +2

      Happy pride month to both of u

  • @shreya_mallick
    @shreya_mallick Рік тому

    Thank you for such an enlightening video, Swaddle! Though I have friends from LGBTQ+ communities and I did hear about the problem from them, so had some bare minimum idea of the same, but this video helped me to understand the problem, in a better way.

  • @nehashekhawat6637
    @nehashekhawat6637 2 роки тому +1

    Excited!!

  • @annageorge1992
    @annageorge1992 2 роки тому +4

    This is so insightful. Well done Swaddle

  • @RahulSingh-books
    @RahulSingh-books 2 роки тому +6

    What an insightful work!

  • @66652
    @66652 2 роки тому +1

    great topics I support your contents

  • @jasleensaini1208
    @jasleensaini1208 2 роки тому

    I can't press like any idea why?

  • @harshbhati1175
    @harshbhati1175 2 роки тому +1

    Be what you are ….

  • @swatisaini6447
    @swatisaini6447 2 роки тому +1

    Great video guys

  • @quoyinaghosh8584
    @quoyinaghosh8584 2 роки тому +6

    Talanted, brilliant, incredible, amazing, showstopper, spectacular-- Is anyone really doing it like The Swaddle?

    • @gampa_10_31
      @gampa_10_31 2 роки тому +4

      Also add misandrist, one sided, hate spreaded

    • @karubaki_nag_6239
      @karubaki_nag_6239 2 роки тому +6

      @@gampa_10_31 , darling, who hurt you?

    • @gampa_10_31
      @gampa_10_31 2 роки тому

      @@karubaki_nag_6239 this channel hurted me dear

    • @karubaki_nag_6239
      @karubaki_nag_6239 2 роки тому +1

      @@gampa_10_31 oh, how so?
      * hurt
      (Words like put, cut, hurt don't change root form during tenses. The present, past, past participle of hurt is hurt. )

  • @gampa_10_31
    @gampa_10_31 2 роки тому +12

    Don't worry , this video can't cross even 30k views and become utter flop

  • @yashagar4443
    @yashagar4443 2 роки тому +2

    Keep up the good work...

  • @Alexmarshall15
    @Alexmarshall15 2 роки тому +2

    Kudos to Swaddle ❤️

  • @DailyFun-e6s
    @DailyFun-e6s 2 роки тому +1

    can't wait...

  • @justsaying7783
    @justsaying7783 2 роки тому

    I don't wanna spread hate n all but most of these guys comes on episode today r very picky i saw and talked to one of the guy he was extremely n arrogant
    How could you want someone to accept you when you can't accept others

    • @konarkkd3264
      @konarkkd3264 2 роки тому

      So you imagined that every one of them are arrogant. Why do you want every LGBTQ person should be polite to get respect.

    • @justsaying7783
      @justsaying7783 2 роки тому +1

      @@konarkkd3264 not at all but if you complain about discrimination and talk about your struggles then don't discriminate against others. If i started insulting fem guy on grindr just because he is fem its moraly wrong according to people like you but if this fem guys insulting me for not being muscular enough for them then its a preference.
      Try understand what i am trying to say
      And lastly you should be polite cause that ain't cost you a dime but being rude to someone clearly shows your insecurities

  • @nuhwe
    @nuhwe 2 роки тому +1

    ❤️

  • @tripathiashutosh874
    @tripathiashutosh874 2 роки тому

    I don't care 😒

  • @okurrt5836
    @okurrt5836 2 роки тому

    AYYO THIS WAS SO GOOD THE SWADDLE I LOVED IT SKSJSHSDHSHSHS TYSM TYSM TYSM

  • @dreamingaboutpinkskies5384
    @dreamingaboutpinkskies5384 2 роки тому

    amazing and insightful film❤️

  • @WR-NC-ASPL
    @WR-NC-ASPL 2 роки тому +12

    Feminist in their teens: "Yay feminism"
    Feminist in their 20's: "I'm a strong, independent woman. I don't need a man"
    Feminist in their 30's: "Where have all the good men gone?"
    Feminist in their 40's: Single, lonely and surrounded by 10 cats..

    • @s_maiya11
      @s_maiya11 2 роки тому +29

      And I’m sure they don’t regret it one bit

    • @aakashgarain
      @aakashgarain 2 роки тому +28

      Wow,imagine being single instead of being with misogynistic men,what a life

    • @gampa_10_31
      @gampa_10_31 2 роки тому +4

      Actually many servays proved that it's true, but feminists can't digest these surveys and say," I don't believe these serveys because men published them"🤣🤣🤣

    • @ronitrajput3934
      @ronitrajput3934 2 роки тому

      @@s_maiya11 Anybody who doesn't has human companion does regret it....

    • @ronitrajput3934
      @ronitrajput3934 2 роки тому +1

      @@aakashgarain Your argument sounds like, "imagine not being with rapists, what a life". I do agree that there is misogyny. But to say that you never crossed road with one decent human being in your entire life and consider spending time with them, sounds too stupid to be true.

  • @suckmyfeminism6211
    @suckmyfeminism6211 2 роки тому +8

    Aree mori maiya, yo ka dekh liyo 🤯😵

    • @konarkkd3264
      @konarkkd3264 2 роки тому

      Ye society ki asliyat h jo tene dekh li but tere samjh me nahi aayegi kyunki tere jaahilpane ne tera dimag sada diya h.

  • @happysunday4262
    @happysunday4262 2 роки тому +4

    don't teach your son to respect every women, respect who respect you (delhi ke daride ka chacha)

    • @WR-NC-ASPL
      @WR-NC-ASPL 2 роки тому +11

      Respect is earned, not given. No one is going to respect a person just because of their gender

    • @aakashgarain
      @aakashgarain 2 роки тому +2

      @@WR-NC-ASPL first time u said something right

    • @gampa_10_31
      @gampa_10_31 2 роки тому +1

      Teach your son to respect who deserves respect

    • @konarkkd3264
      @konarkkd3264 2 роки тому

      @@WR-NC-ASPL then don't disrespect others on the basis of their personal life and personal opinions. Nobody wants any respect from you.

  • @iu9130
    @iu9130 2 роки тому +4

    I want that suruj girl to have a great modelling career. She's has that confidence in her. 🔥

  • @canigetahoooyah9812
    @canigetahoooyah9812 2 роки тому +4

    Boooring

  • @antarikshNo.10
    @antarikshNo.10 2 роки тому

    This was nicely done 🔥🔥🔥

  • @CancerDepartmentFeminismWing
    @CancerDepartmentFeminismWing 2 роки тому +18

    Yes, Johnny Depp WON ✌️🥳🧨🎆🎇
    #JusticeForJohnnyDepp