God how ridiculous people can be? They're humans. Instead of falling in love with opposite gender, they fall in love with same gender person ( gay or lesbian). How can love be different for them? Besides, they get together not only to have sex! And bisexuals, isn't it beautiful they fall in love irrespective of the gender? Why should be everything for sex only? Companionship is a basic need! Stop asking such stupid questions! I am straight but I don't judge them this way! Nobody should
THANK YOU FOR THAT!! India needs more people like you, also just a correction, bisexuals are attracted to both men and women, its pansexuals who are attracted irrespective of gender.
I'm a desi bi, and i relate to this on so many levels XD update:its been a couple years, im gay now but still super proud of all you guys.keep doing you homie
We REALLY need such videos esp. in a country like India where legally LGBT community is not even considered.. And we've made gay marriage "illegal" ...then they must also ban love marriage if people can't marry who they love!!! #SupportingLGBT
A straight person claiming hes not a homophobe just because he has gay friends is like a man saying hes not a misogynist just because hes married to a woman.
you do understand getting married and having gay friend is totally different things. you cant connect those two. if straight man has gay friends, it is true to certain level that he is not homophobe.
I learned it today and I welcome them with open arms.. Oh please include cross dressers too... People should bust myth that crossdressers automatically become gays... They might just like cross-dressing... That doesn't mean they become "gay" . Double standard folks. Girls dressing like guys and being tomboy is totally fine. But judge guys for wanting to dress up like female.. That should be educated too...
@@priya9194 Agreed dear... But there are girls who are tomboys but not lesbians... The thing is we jump into conclusions so much na? That I wanted to tell.. It sure affects both the genders..
Low key crushing on that Bi guy. And if I had a dollar for every time I heard the words "I'm okay with bisexuals, but I don't think I'd date one" I'd be super rich.
Desi Bi here and God please more lgbtq content from you guys. Thank you. Because no one else will do it and there is an acute scarcity of good content. Or any proper content.
Being gay or bisexual legal in india , but few people accept this. but it has disadvantages why some people face the problem like , we have face hatred and disrespect from people someone file a complaint/case against our sexuality that we don't have right to do any job or work anywhere because of our sexuality this is so painful that someone will totally broken😢 and shocked 😮 it's happens of their rights and also we have to face criticism that we can't go for any doctors for treatment and we have to face hatred like shopping or buy something . we can't go anywhere. we are humane we have right to do work for living .
It’s very good to see an Indian channel creating content about LGBTQ, keep it up, all the best. And any other LGBTQ community needs someone to talk about the issues or thoughts or need support, you please get in touch with this NGO Kartha.org.in
i'm bi. i'd been in denial for over a year or so after i realised i was attracted to both men and women. recently, i've just accepted it. there's nothing wrong in it. i've now started telling people once we meet that i'm queer cuz once i ended up becoming close to someone but then when i told them, they started distancing themselves. i **so** agree that people say "you don't like me right?" another thing i get told is "why are you single if you have double the options?" it's cuz when you have double the options, you also have double the number of douchebags.
Loving a person is a normal thing Whether you fall in love with a man or a woman, the feelings, emotions, hormones, jealousy, trust, loyalty, affection and everything is exact SAME! Love is b/w two souls, b/w two people, gender has nothing to do with it.❤ It is just that we are living in a judgemental society😒
I'm a bengali lesbian and there's no any lesbian girl or bisexual or pansexual or even questioning girl in here! Idk why? I think majority of them are scared to come out or something or Kolkata is a homophobic place? Oh my god where I'm even living!
Gals, you guys need to develop your gaydar. You'll be surprised by the number of homosexuals around you. Homosexuality is a lot more common than people realize it is. Most never admit it to themselves cause they think straight is default and the one's who do don't always come out.
"It's just a phase my parents say this every time" And "why aren't you a fashion designer", haha and most famous, chakka, hijra, meetha, kinner, and God knows what other. I get these all the time.
This popped up in my recommendation again after 2 years and I realized that BuzzFeed stopped making LGBTQ+ Content and I'm hating it it was one of the few channels which really made some good videos about LGBT community and don't know why they stopped coz maybe working for something good isn't really more important than making money 😶
a passenger next to me during a flight kept explaining to me “nah, it’s not that you like girls you know, it’s just your hormones. there’s something wrong with your chromosomes or something.” i almost splashed water on his face lmao
Gay desi in England , I can be talking about a concert but my cousin's will think I'm talking about pride and then turn around and say it's all I ever talk about .
@@Harini-oo6rj the proper term is lgbtq or lgbtq+ or lgbtqia+ Asexuals are very much part of the queer community! Any one who is not straight and/or cis-gendered is part of the community. Please, no gatekeeping.
@@oof-rr5nf babe listen we all have different opinions, I'm a psych student so I based my opinions around what I've learned, but you can think whatever you want
@@oof-rr5nf it's not acephobia lmao you're not LGBT unless you have gender dysphoria or same gender attraction that's literally the purpose of the community. A cisgender, heterosexual aro or a cisgender heteromantic ace is not LGBT because they don't experience same gender attraction or gender dysphoria
@@Harini-oo6rj Well. No. But it does not seem like dueling it out in a youtube comments section will change your mind. Just know that your exclusion of asexuals and aromantics from the queer community is definitely a minority opinion, and that I for one see them as very much part of the community.
"If you are a lesbian, how are you so pretty / cute / feminine??" -- hahaha.. the most annoying question I must say 😂 Another thing: Mom: "oh honey, that is just a phase, you'll get over it sometime".. Me: "But Ma, its been 15 years since I realised I am not interested in men and still the same, if I wait for a change then I might go old and die without having lived my life" Mom: ohh... you are right. Sowee.. 😘
Gay , bi , trans , pan , straight whatever ! We are all humans and only that should matter. Respect each other and stop meddling with other's life. It's not your life to decide. Embrace life with open arms because that matters .
Akshay aurora is a a terrific terrific munner, he was a guest delegate in one of my muns and oh boy I still remember how he spoke. Delegate of saudi arabia
I wish there WAS a way we could signal to each other that we're also lesbians. I'm tired of wearing plaid every day.
*sigh*
@@jennypan4055 😂😂
@@jennypan4055 ahahaha
Or a weird short dance. Idk, anything that would help TBH.
We need *the lesbian salute* back on trend...
I lost it when she said 'feminininist'.... hilarious 😂
I lost it when he said 'it's just a phase'
That was too funny
1:30
When they started chanting "threesome" i lost it 😂😂 Love you guys from Italy ❤
Altri italiani siii ahah🇮🇹
@@likealillo siamo ovunque ahahah
@@michellefreeman5700 If you talk to one of us you become one of us it's an unwritten rule. (I'm kidding of course, some people are really stupid).
I swear 😂😂😂😂
God how ridiculous people can be? They're humans. Instead of falling in love with opposite gender, they fall in love with same gender person ( gay or lesbian). How can love be different for them? Besides, they get together not only to have sex! And bisexuals, isn't it beautiful they fall in love irrespective of the gender? Why should be everything for sex only? Companionship is a basic need! Stop asking such stupid questions!
I am straight but I don't judge them this way! Nobody should
Kalpana M Yeah you're Absolutely right....
THANK YOU FOR THAT!! India needs more people like you, also just a correction, bisexuals are attracted to both men and women, its pansexuals who are attracted irrespective of gender.
PREACH!!!!
@@azh-cn1im Thank you for correcting me 😄 Everyone deserves love! Hope people do realise that...
So true. 👏👍
I'm a desi bi, and i relate to this on so many levels XD
update:its been a couple years, im gay now but still super proud of all you guys.keep doing you homie
God Jihyo likes this comment
Me too lol
once?
thank for getting the reference XD
@jimingotyesjams yep UwU
It's just a phase. I've heard that a million times. Being bi/gay is not a phase or habit that you can just get bored of.
Likhitha R ifkrrrr
I agree that gay and lesbianism isn't a phase but bisexuality just confuses me,
@@karthikrox6310 how? I am bi and I fall in love irrespective of gender.
@@rajvishukla458 it just seems evolutionarily weird , not judging though
@@karthikrox6310 weird? Can you elaborate
That guy in white is damn attractive.
Derp Ina true AF 💓 m straight but I don't mind dating him 😍
OMG yesss
His Instagram ID anyone ? For educational purposes of course.
@@vidyaramakrishnan1467 it's a private account 😂😂😂
No the guy in black t shirt and the guy with a little moustache ( jacket too),
I'm bi, and damn, I can relate
Sivaraj Aishwariya sameeee
Same
us bestie us
We REALLY need such videos esp. in a country like India where legally LGBT community is not even considered.. And we've made gay marriage "illegal" ...then they must also ban love marriage if people can't marry who they love!!! #SupportingLGBT
Lol what gay marriage, being gay itself is illegal.
@@ahumanperson1638 ikr!
And it's shameful
@@ahumanperson1638 Being gay wasn't illegal. Gay sex was illegal.
@@khushboodhingra5356 Times are changing..for the better😀
Thank God they made it legal now🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
I hate it when girls say " I wish I could be gay like you ,boys are so annoying." Girl I'm not a aesthetic.
Fr !!
0:48 love his voice!!
OML YAS
Loved it..... progress my fellow Indians please progress! LGBT 🏳️🌈 is a thing stop the misanthropic tendencies 🤯🔥
A straight person claiming hes not a homophobe just because he has gay friends is like a man saying hes not a misogynist just because hes married to a woman.
you do understand getting married and having gay friend is totally different things. you cant connect those two. if straight man has gay friends, it is true to certain level that he is not homophobe.
0:19 how cute is this guy ugh
a pansexual from india and yes pansexual and bisexual aren't the same 🗿
I learned it today and I welcome them with open arms.. Oh please include cross dressers too... People should bust myth that crossdressers automatically become gays... They might just like cross-dressing... That doesn't mean they become "gay" . Double standard folks. Girls dressing like guys and being tomboy is totally fine. But judge guys for wanting to dress up like female.. That should be educated too...
Kalpana M I'm 16- sjdjndn I don't know much about it 😢
Kalpana M actually tomboys are also categorised as lesbians. so the issue is on both ways not just cross dressing men
@@priya9194 Agreed dear... But there are girls who are tomboys but not lesbians... The thing is we jump into conclusions so much na? That I wanted to tell.. It sure affects both the genders..
Kalpana M yeah offcourse. I was just saying
FACE IT PEOPLE.....I AM A LESBIAN!!!!! And have finally come across a video which is so relatable......great work
@Subhasmita Rout being feminist isnt men hating. misandrist is men hating. for reals though?
all of their voices are so comforting to listen to omg.
these are the kinds of videos we need 🏳️🌈
As someone who's still in the closet, I can't relate.
It's okay love yourself love myself or whatever it is Namjoon usually says
#IndianArmy
purrnessian parrapio cutting onions me too
Hey! Listen to epiphany and the entire album and you'll definitely get some more courage by the end of the day! Hang in there, it's gonna get better 😃
Aye aye mate. Was gonna comment the exact same thing.
this is so true! my friend tries to set me up w the next female she can find who’s not straight! It’s frustrating!
Low key crushing on that Bi guy. And if I had a dollar for every time I heard the words "I'm okay with bisexuals, but I don't think I'd date one" I'd be super rich.
😝😝😝 me too
And it's okay Bcz they don't want some random bi guy to play with their life
Are u masculine ?? I mean i have heard bisexual man are like straight man .i.e masculine and handsome 😂😂
Yes heck yes shower us with all the gay videos thank you
Yaaaaassss please, give us all the gay content !
Desi Bi here and God please more lgbtq content from you guys. Thank you. Because no one else will do it and there is an acute scarcity of good content. Or any proper content.
American Indian Bi here
is it bad that I'm totally in love with the guy at 2:28
lmao samee
00:11 OMG WHO IS THAT ♥️♥️
I love the idea and what you're doing but I'm waiting for trans and asexual people to be represented as well (still love this tho)
Yasssssssssssssssssss
You're my new favourite person on UA-cam.
ME TOOO
I need someone to talk about if it's asexuality related to Hipoactive Sexual Activity
Those aren’t sexual orientations.
So proud of y'all, this was desparately needed. ❤️👌🏿
0:11 damn, he's hot.
ME TOO
He looks like a druggie
I KNOW, RIGHT?!
@@ananasbanana no he is born with dark circles and deep set eyes. doesn't make him a druggie 😒
@Tech Gravity be gone IDIOT
Why is it that all the guys in this video are like super hot? Why is this world so unfair? 😭
That guy with black v neck tee is so damn attractive man,
Being gay or bisexual legal in india , but few people accept this. but it has disadvantages why some people face the problem like , we have face hatred and disrespect from people someone file a complaint/case against our sexuality that we don't have right to do any job or work anywhere because of our sexuality this is so painful that someone will totally broken😢 and shocked 😮 it's happens of their rights and also we have to face criticism that we can't go for any doctors for treatment and we have to face hatred like shopping or buy something . we can't go anywhere. we are humane we have right to do work for living .
What a nice video man! The last one got me because I think that's the first thing someone listens when they reveal their sexuality!!
It’s very good to see an Indian channel creating content about LGBTQ, keep it up, all the best.
And any other LGBTQ community needs someone to talk about the issues or thoughts or need support, you please get in touch with this NGO Kartha.org.in
0:17 I wanna ask him if he's into non-binary people. If so, I'm always available ;)
Karan johar must be the reason for half the gay stereotypes in India.
I'm a desi gay person and I can confirm this is relatable
Hello
Wow they all are really very brave!!
Such videos are very much needed in India! #lovewins 🇮🇳❤
The last part is so true. My bi friend's actual parents told him that it was a phase and you need to go to the doctor. : /
i'm bi. i'd been in denial for over a year or so after i realised i was attracted to both men and women. recently, i've just accepted it. there's nothing wrong in it. i've now started telling people once we meet that i'm queer cuz once i ended up becoming close to someone but then when i told them, they started distancing themselves. i **so** agree that people say "you don't like me right?" another thing i get told is "why are you single if you have double the options?" it's cuz when you have double the options, you also have double the number of douchebags.
I love you Buzzfeed!!
y'all at BUZZFEED....This is what india needs...you guys are amazing 👏👏👏👏👏
Loving a person is a normal thing
Whether you fall in love with a man or a woman, the feelings, emotions, hormones, jealousy, trust, loyalty, affection and everything is exact SAME!
Love is b/w two souls, b/w two people, gender has nothing to do with it.❤
It is just that we are living in a judgemental society😒
I'm a bengali lesbian and there's no any lesbian girl or bisexual or pansexual or even questioning girl in here! Idk why? I think majority of them are scared to come out or something or Kolkata is a homophobic place? Oh my god where I'm even living!
I'm pansexual and same sksksk
Gals, you guys need to develop your gaydar. You'll be surprised by the number of homosexuals around you. Homosexuality is a lot more common than people realize it is. Most never admit it to themselves cause they think straight is default and the one's who do don't always come out.
@@vibhiverma3209 ikr the thing is they're scared of being homosexual and that's kinda not right
@@donttakemycommentsseriousl1554 I agree but change will take time
P.S: your username😂😂💜💜
@@virenmehra5998 not just bi but all sexualities. Even most out-and-proud homosexuals aren't aware of how many sexualities are there.
I liked the yellow background🏵️
Okay I'm exposed. Yes Mum, you can't see me studying coz I study in the closet the whole day.
BUZZFEED, YOU ARE DOING AMAZING SWEETIE!!!!🌈
So jesse pinkman is gay! He flew all the way to India. Man I wish him luck 🌟
"It's just a phase my parents say this every time"
And "why aren't you a fashion designer", haha
and most famous, chakka, hijra, meetha, kinner, and God knows what other.
I get these all the time.
This was amazing, thank you BuzzFeed!
Came back to watch this video after today's judgement. Congratulations, guys!!! #SECTION377
LOVED THIS!! COME THROUGH WITH REPRESENTATION YAAAAAASSSSSSS
This popped up in my recommendation again after 2 years and I realized that BuzzFeed stopped making LGBTQ+ Content and I'm hating it it was one of the few channels which really made some good videos about LGBT community and don't know why they stopped coz maybe working for something good isn't really more important than making money 😶
Wow wow wow! Kudos BuzzFeed! (Aishwarya, what an amazing video! Kya conceptualise kiya hai!!)
I go to one of the most homophobic colleges in India and I'm a Desi bi person so I relate to this on so many levels
I'm sorry, that's terrible.
Who cares .. u gona settle with girl ( if u r a. Man ) at the end .
They all are soo cool
One in the black shirt❤💙💚💛💜
I respect LGBT community so damn much 😍😘🌈
Because they have self acceptence more than anyone 😊💜💜
I WANT TO WATCH THE VIDEO AGAIN IT WAS SO COMFORTING
for reallll
Body glitter- UNBELIEVERS
Im in love with everyone in this vid. That's it. That's the comment.
a passenger next to me during a flight kept explaining to me “nah, it’s not that you like girls you know, it’s just your hormones. there’s something wrong with your chromosomes or something.”
i almost splashed water on his face lmao
Vegeta Uchiha that’s the surprising part,, he’s just three years elder than me. still in college.
Gay desi in England , I can be talking about a concert but my cousin's will think I'm talking about pride and then turn around and say it's all I ever talk about .
0:48 The guy is 😍
Superb but no one asked me anything ...... 😂😂😂
I love BuzzFeed India. I wish we had even BuzzFeed Africa.
ngl we need more LGBTQIAP+ vloggers or maybe a desi yt channel for the community
Heyy!! I love Buzzfeed India❤️
Please do a video tour of your Buzzfeed office!
Where are the asexuals? Misses them out ?!!!
Great video !
AYYY thank you
there are loads of them they missed. i hope they take this up as a series of vids and not just a one off🤓
@@priya9194 they have one with trans and non binary people
So yeah i am an Indian lesbian and omg this stuff is so relatable!
Lol this is so true. It happens to. Me here in Toronto. I am East Indian and Venezuelan and I get this so much from friends to Co workers.
interesting to know that these close-minded comments are universal around the world. *eye roll*
Thank you so much buzzfeed!
1:51 OMG STOP THAT IS SOOOO LOUDDD
Hey, what about asexuals? I still loved the video, though!
Also, non binary, pansexual, transgender and the Aro/ace community?
well i mean aros/aces aren't really lgbt unless they experience sga/dysphoria but yea i would love to see some non binary rep
@@Harini-oo6rj the proper term is lgbtq or lgbtq+ or lgbtqia+
Asexuals are very much part of the queer community! Any one who is not straight and/or cis-gendered is part of the community. Please, no gatekeeping.
@@oof-rr5nf babe listen we all have different opinions, I'm a psych student so I based my opinions around what I've learned, but you can think whatever you want
@@oof-rr5nf it's not acephobia lmao you're not LGBT unless you have gender dysphoria or same gender attraction that's literally the purpose of the community. A cisgender, heterosexual aro or a cisgender heteromantic ace is not LGBT because they don't experience same gender attraction or gender dysphoria
@@Harini-oo6rj Well. No. But it does not seem like dueling it out in a youtube comments section will change your mind. Just know that your exclusion of asexuals and aromantics from the queer community is definitely a minority opinion, and that I for one see them as very much part of the community.
Wtf who even asks these questions? That's so offensive 😐.
Great !! Loved it. 😍😍
I'm alone I left all my social friends so nobody asks me all that questions
And now I think that I'll die alone
OMYGOD I've got that "threesome" bullcrap from so many people 😂😂
Don’t the straight folks tell ‘Even I have a GAYDAR’ 🙄😑
How many of you are closeted bisexual teen who could not relate since almost zero people know about your orientation?
I'm a closeted bisexual in my 20s, does that count lol
Omg the guy in white's voice 😍
I swear to god if one more person tells me it's a phase, I will slap the shit out of them
Do it !!! Ill accompany u 😌
What is "desi"? And damn that guy in white shirt is HAWT!!!
im not out to the world yet but im super scared but this vid cracks me up
Man all of them are so fine!!!
cc: How do u know so much about cricket, It's because the boys are cute, isn't it.
Me(who is not into sports): Yes.
I was thinking "I don't relate to any of this", but I don't talk to people and neither do they want to talk to me.🤣🤣🤣
2:16 nah not really it used to be but we took care of that little issue
"If you are a lesbian, how are you so pretty / cute / feminine??" -- hahaha.. the most annoying question I must say 😂
Another thing:
Mom: "oh honey, that is just a phase, you'll get over it sometime"..
Me: "But Ma, its been 15 years since I realised I am not interested in men and still the same, if I wait for a change then I might go old and die without having lived my life"
Mom: ohh... you are right. Sowee.. 😘
That threesome thing is sooooooooooo true, I get that all the time.
thank u for acknowledging our existance, I love you.
It's awesome going from highschool to college. In school it was like no one should know im queer and in college its like , yea man everyone is gay
"Aren't you a fashion designer" XD XD
Gay , bi , trans , pan , straight whatever ! We are all humans and only that should matter. Respect each other and stop meddling with other's life. It's not your life to decide. Embrace life with open arms because that matters .
Akshay aurora is a a terrific terrific munner, he was a guest delegate in one of my muns and oh boy I still remember how he spoke. Delegate of saudi arabia
this is so true!! also took the longest gasp there ever was cause them sass, couldn't help but dig!
The most told thing to me is like u only like girls or bi is nothing
We need these kind of videos to reach wider audience😃😍😍
That white formal shirt guy 💕💕💕💕