A Japanese man who has given up on career advancement and marriage

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  • Опубліковано 11 лип 2024
  • I'm kaede. I am Japanese. I live in Japan.
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  • @chewsday5760
    @chewsday5760 23 дні тому +11

    I like this video, the silence and the beeping sounds are calming but empty.
    As a Southeast Asian woman in her 30s and single, I feel that sometimes it's easier to give up on everything, but I don't like to see myself giving up. I'm just grateful that I have a job in this economy, doesn't pay that much but it's a respectable one.
    I didn't know that being an adult is this lonesome, but thank you for sharing your thoughts through this video, it made me feel less lonely 👍

    • @kaede-gg7cs
      @kaede-gg7cs  23 дні тому +2

      Hello! Thank you for your message. I'm glad you enjoyed the video.
      I'm glad the silence and the beeps were able to calm you down. Everyone has moments in life when they feel it would be easier to give up, but I think it's very important not to lose sight of yourself in those moments. It's great that you continue to be grateful for the work you have. You may often feel lonely, but you are not alone.
      I would be very happy if my video could ease your sense of loneliness even a little. Let's continue to work hard together. And I hope you find the peace and satisfaction you are looking for.
      See you again. I'm rooting for you.

  • @coboldelphi
    @coboldelphi 25 днів тому +8

    You should find that 50 Japanese guy who complains about the same stuff.

    • @kaede-gg7cs
      @kaede-gg7cs  24 дні тому +1

      Thanks for the advice. Have a great weekend.

    • @taipangwong356
      @taipangwong356 21 день тому

      He us really miserable, day in and day out 24-7. Samaritans have given up on him.

  • @NOname_360
    @NOname_360 25 днів тому +6

    TBH brother the title seems a little depressing and I don't know what u are going through but I will just say that do your best, be excited for each moment of your life, make friends and most importantly have a goal. so, u can be much more motivated and excited. ❤😊
    Akiramenaide ❤💪

    • @kaede-gg7cs
      @kaede-gg7cs  25 днів тому +2

      Thank you for your comment. I regret that the title may have made you feel depressed. Your advice is very encouraging. You are so right about having goals, making friends, and enjoying every moment of life. I will continue to do my best and stay positive. The word "Akiramenaide" also touched my heart. Thank you.

  • @k1m1noishere
    @k1m1noishere 24 дні тому +3

    You should never give up! Always push through everything! Your content is incredible ❤

    • @kaede-gg7cs
      @kaede-gg7cs  24 дні тому +2

      Thank you for your messages of support. I will try my best to complete it. Also, thank you for praising my content. Messages like yours give me the strength to do my best.

  • @sebnemb935
    @sebnemb935 23 дні тому +2

    At least you did not give up on UA-cam.

  • @jeanhopman5659
    @jeanhopman5659 24 дні тому +1

    Your video is a work of art x

    • @kaede-gg7cs
      @kaede-gg7cs  24 дні тому

      Thank you for praising the video. It motivates me.

  • @cacherow
    @cacherow 14 днів тому +1

    This feels like the start of an analog horror series.

  • @captainsunbear5472
    @captainsunbear5472 24 дні тому +2

    at least he can live alone, here in canada, single occuptant apartment is unaffordable.

  • @jeanhopman5659
    @jeanhopman5659 24 дні тому +3

    When you feel this way just go on auto pilot and go through the motions of everyday life like a robot. Give yourself an easy time. You won't always feel like this.

    • @kaede-gg7cs
      @kaede-gg7cs  24 дні тому

      Thank you for the good advice. I'll try to give myself some time. I'll do my best.

  • @jamesmustin7289
    @jamesmustin7289 14 днів тому

    This is ridiculous for this to happen in Japan when there is a growing shortage of people. Everyone should be appreciated and have jobs
    that are supportive and productive. It was understandable after the war because the economy was flat. When i was in Japan in the
    1980’s people seemed full of life. Something must have gone wrong. People loose qualitative life when pushed beyond reason. Japans
    population is shrinking for a reason. I believe the rich in Japan don’t live in this pressure plated society. Japan in my thinking
    has gone way beyond normal limits where quality of life is decreasing . I have seen videos on the Japanese teen gangs that were formed
    because these teens did not get the support they needed, it is now dissolving the Japanese Society. That is also the truth in the United States.

  • @pawkyyy
    @pawkyyy 25 днів тому +4

    頑張ってください

    • @kaede-gg7cs
      @kaede-gg7cs  25 днів тому +1

      Thank you for your kind message. I'll do my best.

  • @shubus
    @shubus 23 дні тому +2

    I think a new rice cooker would help.

    • @kaede-gg7cs
      @kaede-gg7cs  23 дні тому +1

      Thank you for the good advice. I was also thinking about getting a rice cooker.

  • @youknowkbbaby
    @youknowkbbaby 5 днів тому

    I would love to be Japanese.

  • @MagnanimousFantastico
    @MagnanimousFantastico 24 дні тому +2

    I hate being a person

    • @kaede-gg7cs
      @kaede-gg7cs  24 дні тому +1

      I sometimes feel the same as you.

  • @c.j.2720
    @c.j.2720 24 дні тому +1

    Please talk about how you learnt English. Would be so interesting

    • @kaede-gg7cs
      @kaede-gg7cs  23 дні тому +1

      I learned by watching foreign TV dramas. I also watched English channels on UA-cam to fill in the gaps in my knowledge.

  • @garyg4158
    @garyg4158 19 днів тому +1

    I find your videos very artistic... and emotional. They have this "alternative" aesthetics. いつも頑張ってくださいね ٩( 'ω' )و

    • @kaede-gg7cs
      @kaede-gg7cs  19 днів тому +1

      Thank you for your comment! I'm very happy to hear that. It's the best compliment to hear that my work resonates with you emotionally and is considered artistic. I will continue to create my work with all my heart.

    • @garyg4158
      @garyg4158 18 днів тому +1

      @@kaede-gg7cs I lived and worked in Okayama as an ALT (JET Programme) for 5 yrs so I understand the cultural/sociological aspects of your videos. Great job!

    • @kaede-gg7cs
      @kaede-gg7cs  18 днів тому

      Thank you! It's great that you have experience as an ALT in Okayama for 5 years. I'm so glad that you can understand the cultural and sociological aspects of my videos.

  • @BananasushiArt
    @BananasushiArt 25 днів тому

    whats happening

  • @Yaya-bd7ml
    @Yaya-bd7ml 23 дні тому +1

    I am your wife

  • @momenoorrahman1083
    @momenoorrahman1083 24 дні тому +1

    Marry a foreigner soon. Make down ur ego. Acknowledge you are in trouble. Lots of girls available in dating site also

    • @kaede-gg7cs
      @kaede-gg7cs  24 дні тому

      Thank you for your advice. I'll try my best to give a good report.

  • @8-bit-g
    @8-bit-g 20 днів тому +1

    Would you like to leave Japan?

    • @kaede-gg7cs
      @kaede-gg7cs  20 днів тому +1

      I love Japan, but I would like to move abroad if possible.

  • @angelcisneros5641
    @angelcisneros5641 24 дні тому +1

    You need color on those walls, help yourself by creating with color.

    • @kaede-gg7cs
      @kaede-gg7cs  24 дні тому

      Thanks for the advice. I'll take it into consideration.