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  • Опубліковано 22 гру 2024

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  • @runarigus
    @runarigus 2 роки тому +877

    He stared at the floor with his brown orbs. "Y-you... you could n-never like a horrible man like me, could you....?" She stared deep into his eyes. "No 💗"

    • @liisaa287
      @liisaa287 2 роки тому +70

      “Brown orbs” 💀💀 why do people think this is the only way to describe eyes lol

    • @runarigus
      @runarigus 2 роки тому +28

      @@liisaa287 because i can 😈

    • @justadumbchrysanthemum
      @justadumbchrysanthemum 2 роки тому +4

      I love your pfp btw!

    • @incite2004
      @incite2004 2 роки тому +38

      Istg all new fanfic writers use orbs to describe eyes. Reminding me of my 13 year old fanfics years ago.

    • @emilymonahan5232
      @emilymonahan5232 2 роки тому +10

      its 'his brown orbs' for me 💀💀

  • @xenopyxis
    @xenopyxis 2 роки тому +398

    fellas if she’s visibly affected by the effects of systematic oppression and is counter-reacting in ways that are not traditionally attractive to you would you still hit 🤨

    • @alexjohnson9798
      @alexjohnson9798 Рік тому +3

      No I lost interest before I even finished reading your question

  • @ditzyblues
    @ditzyblues 2 роки тому +245

    we as a society should just blow up all social media and run into our nearest forests!! we got about 30 more years of trees!

    • @NicholasBlack
      @NicholasBlack  2 роки тому +132

      The Nicholas Urge to mysteriously disappear into a forest, never to be found again

    • @aroacelitchi2007
      @aroacelitchi2007 2 роки тому +19

      @@NicholasBlack my dream since childhood!

    • @chansfeet2500
      @chansfeet2500 2 роки тому +1

      I would love to fuck off into the middle of nowhere, y'all mind if I come?

    • @my_name_is_bee
      @my_name_is_bee 2 роки тому +4

      that's where i'm headed once i move out. just two more years!

  • @JoeMama-1diot
    @JoeMama-1diot 2 роки тому +195

    She’s a 10 but she’ll never date you, EVER! Because you’re a bad person. 😢😢

  • @zenmaster8
    @zenmaster8 2 роки тому +141

    i always thought that a pick me man should describe a fake feminist man who fakes being progressive so he can get women, like that snl skit. I feel like pick me behavior in men would not be internalized misogyny because they cant really have it internalized, but putting down other men for being creeps while not being that much better. (I wrote this at the beginning of the video im so glad you also thought that)

    • @actualgoblin
      @actualgoblin 2 роки тому +10

      those kinds of people r why i refuse to call myself a feminist honestly

  • @toko8480
    @toko8480 2 роки тому +87

    Now we need a pick me them and the trilogy will be complete

    • @Cecil...
      @Cecil... 2 роки тому +50

      I feel like that's the person who's always going on about "Yeah I'm queer, but I don't make it my whole personality!"... so often that it becomes their whole personality.

    • @toko8480
      @toko8480 2 роки тому +4

      @@Cecil... lol yeah

    • @anerrorhasoccurred8727
      @anerrorhasoccurred8727 Рік тому +18

      Two types depending on their social group:
      If they mostly have straight friends it’s “I’m queer but I don’t make it my whole personality like the others do smh 🙄”
      Otherwise it’s what we had on tumblr 5 years ago like “uh wdym it’s not safe for you to ‘come out’ where you live?? I could _never”_

    • @archduchessmathildaofaustr9235
      @archduchessmathildaofaustr9235 Рік тому

      We already have. Non binary pickmes who put down other gnc and nb peeps to cater to the cishets

  • @lkm630y79
    @lkm630y79 2 роки тому +120

    In Brazil pick-me men are called “lefty-macho” (?) where it’s basically a depiction of the “misogynistic feminist man” or the “homophobic fem-boy”.

  • @CaptinBenny
    @CaptinBenny 2 роки тому +131

    Shit dude, I am in the same boat as you with COVID. Avoided catching it for three years and it fuckin got me at the very end of the year. I'm glad you're doing better, but the fear of the long term effects are daunting sometimes.

  • @benadrylcucumbersnatch9401
    @benadrylcucumbersnatch9401 2 роки тому +97

    "The universe is a time soup and I am but a carrot" is now gonna be my yearbook quote

  • @tylerf.145
    @tylerf.145 2 роки тому +187

    this is so off topic but andrew tate finally got arrested !!!!!!

    • @NicholasBlack
      @NicholasBlack  2 роки тому +156

      HELLLLL YEAHHHH 🎉🎉
      Genuinely howling that he doxxed his own location to the authorities because he couldn’t help but reply with a two minute video defending himself to a 19 year old girl that absolutely owned him on twitter dot com.

    • @cosinev1265
      @cosinev1265 2 роки тому +33

      RIP BOZO 🎉🎉

    • @nalenks8083
      @nalenks8083 2 роки тому +9

      OMG YESSS

    • @medea__witchhh
      @medea__witchhh 2 роки тому +7

      WHOOOOOOO 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @someperson1727
      @someperson1727 2 роки тому

      @@NicholasBlack and him doxxing himself with a pizza box no less

  • @idonotresidehere.5709
    @idonotresidehere.5709 2 роки тому +25

    Yeah I had the exact same thought about the term "pick me man" and how it doesn't make sense since the term "pick me girl" specifically has to do w mysogyny. Glad to see someone else say it.

  • @lilithlaney1759
    @lilithlaney1759 2 роки тому +28

    With every upload your mane gets more and more majestic

  • @vicentehelianthus8339
    @vicentehelianthus8339 2 роки тому +22

    The one with bruises, stomach pains and tiny cutlery seems very targeted at women with restrictive eating disorders which makes it all the more grim that he's targeting them

  • @alliejewelle
    @alliejewelle 2 роки тому +48

    i think the disappearance contributed to the random appearance of completely unrelated content that is this channel (we stan btw, it’s very funny)

  • @rainyrouge5123
    @rainyrouge5123 2 роки тому +40

    “The universe is time soup and I am merely a carrot”. Too accurate, I need to get that tattooed on my body.

  • @lorreads.8255
    @lorreads.8255 2 роки тому +11

    when he said "troy becker" my hand went to my mouth i literally watched danny's vid right before this one.

  • @red-eyessolares1817
    @red-eyessolares1817 2 роки тому +53

    I definitely agree that what a “Pick Me” Guy is will be different from what a “Pick Me” Girl is. While there’s definitely a fair amount of Troy Beckers that probably don’t believe in it, the other side of it is guys that do genuinely internalize the criticisms. This can lead some of them to a potential point where they wished they weren’t born as guy. That mindset becomes a paradox since they are then trying to find validation from women yet with their own logic, why would a woman want to validate someone that’s “a terrible guy”.

    • @Snormite
      @Snormite Рік тому

      Feminism and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race.

  • @eleanorsherry4620
    @eleanorsherry4620 2 роки тому +38

    GODDAMN can we talk about his hair????? Nicholas drop that routine

  • @sardonicrose
    @sardonicrose 2 роки тому +8

    Saw the title, initially thought, "Pick-Me Men... so, White Knights?" Halfway through the video: Yeah we agree this is p much a branch of "Do not fret over that scoundrel, milady, for you are a QUEEN" White Knights.

  • @daisychainmilk
    @daisychainmilk 2 роки тому +18

    I’ve met multiple men like this and I think I’m hindsight I’m thankful I saw right through it. It annoys me because it makes it very difficult to trust cis men.

  • @broken_queer_but_fighting8589
    @broken_queer_but_fighting8589 2 роки тому +15

    Yay a Nicholas Black video my days been shit so time for serotonin. Oh no sorry you had covid💜💜🤗🤗

  • @CaptainMagmar
    @CaptainMagmar Рік тому +2

    "The universe is time soup and I am merely a carrot"
    So inspiring, literally tears in my eyes right now

  • @gaslghtgatekpgirlbss
    @gaslghtgatekpgirlbss 2 роки тому +7

    dont know what to comment, so just welcome back king :) thanks for introducing me to leftism when i was younger

  • @themeltingpot3266
    @themeltingpot3266 2 роки тому +5

    The fake feminist description reminded me of some lyrics from Taylor Swift’s All Too Well 10 Minute Version
    “And you were tossing me the car keys
    ‘Fuck the patriarchy’ keychain on the ground”
    Men using the phrases and symbols women have used for empowerment to gain our trust then leave once they’ve gotten what they wanted

  • @XDDCCOUUTT
    @XDDCCOUUTT 2 роки тому +10

    I love how he thinks he’s the most respectful person he is towards women when he really just has standards so low he’d date women for simply breathing.

  • @creationsylphfandom6256
    @creationsylphfandom6256 2 роки тому +2

    My favorite, more Nick content.

  • @freyabrody559
    @freyabrody559 2 роки тому +13

    Oh, oh no, oh shit. Here I was thinking I would watch a fun video, broaden my horizons maybe learn something, hopefully not forget it. For a second when you started describing the mans videos I was like “ah yes he seems like a douche bag and I hate him”, and then I realized I had literally been given his content and shared it with people because I in fact fell for it, because I am stupid, oh no.

    • @corbanekarel3692
      @corbanekarel3692 2 роки тому +11

      yeah, people in a dark place will be a bit easier of a target. Not so much because they're stupid, but because having a psychologic need met the wrong way still feels like a need being met. Needing something can be quite the haze. I hope it at least as an experience helped you avoid that kind of man from now on

  • @Neromali
    @Neromali 2 роки тому +7

    These types of guys are also the types to think they are so special for like, actively enjoying being around their girlfriend? Or still wanting to be around her when she's on her period? Like those fucking POVs of those guys who are like, "I-I bought you some chocolates since you're on your period, are you in love with me yet?"

  • @quarbarian2
    @quarbarian2 2 роки тому +1

    this reminded me of when i randomly saw him at a mall in like 2019. it’s already awkward seeing a youtuber you watch irl, but it’s amplified when it’s a washed up youtuber you used to watch half a decade before 😭

  • @KakiT1
    @KakiT1 2 роки тому +12

    I would put an * on that "men can't feel internalized misogyny" bit. I'm a (trans) man, and I do feel it, a lot of it actually

    • @corbanekarel3692
      @corbanekarel3692 2 роки тому +3

      I also think he is wrong on that. Feminists have been explaining men misogyny hurts them too to sell them feminism for a decade. I think it's more that the pick me girl loathes women in a way that hurts her too when pick me men really just have contempt for women in a way they don't suffer from themselves.

    • @kate_wn
      @kate_wn 2 роки тому +1

      I’m not too sure about that. Internalized misogyny specifically means sexist behavior by women to other women. If you’re not a woman, you can’t have internalized misogyny, just misogyny

    • @KakiT1
      @KakiT1 2 роки тому +4

      @@kate_wn I call it internalized bc I target myself with it. I am not aware of being misogynistic towards other females, but as a female, I do judge myself in a very sexist way. I feel bad for expressing femininity, see my feminine side as a liability and a way of getting assaulted if I show it at all and when writing I accidentally let it bleed onto the paper. This does not effect anyone else, as I'm not a published writer. So yes, I'm a man, with internalized misogyny.

    • @mylife-23
      @mylife-23 2 роки тому

      @@corbanekarel3692 this 🙌

    • @mylife-23
      @mylife-23 2 роки тому

      @@corbanekarel3692 thou I think he's talking specifically about hate towards women, 🤔 men have internalized misandry.

  • @imaneclair4836
    @imaneclair4836 2 роки тому +4

    woah i saw a repost of the tiktok where he talks ab little spoons and stomach aches and i didn’t recognize him at all or know any of his content, so i honestly did feel kinda validated
    why did his bullshit work on me for a second 😭😭😭

    • @corbanekarel3692
      @corbanekarel3692 2 роки тому

      As I said to another commenter, you fell for it because it made you feel like a need was being met. With time you learn. I just hope next time you won't get caught in this.

  • @Roaring20twentys
    @Roaring20twentys 2 роки тому +3

    The only thing I can see mirroring pick me women is pick me queer men and instead of internalized misogyny it’s just internalized homophobia

  • @courtesyofeden
    @courtesyofeden 2 роки тому +5

    something is telling me those eyes arent yours and an alternate is speaking to me instead

  • @ven5646
    @ven5646 2 роки тому +5

    I mean I think you could make the argument trans pick-me men would be one instance where they're navigating the world with internalized misogyny because you have a lot of trans men who were still socialized as women or girls under misogynist hierarchies, but it would be unimportant to focus on or call them out specifically because they still fall under all the same blanket criticisms I have under any pick-me man

  • @applepatronum4934
    @applepatronum4934 Рік тому

    Happy new year to you too, Nick

  • @Mylittlestcorner
    @Mylittlestcorner 2 роки тому +1

    Around 4 minites in you said pants and I was picking up a pair of pants! Lmao, it humored me so know you all myst know

  • @incite2004
    @incite2004 2 роки тому +7

    I would say pick me guys & nice guys & incels are the same thing.
    But pick me guys hate themselves more openly as manipulation to make women feel bad for them
    Nice guys think being nice & a good person means women have to like them & praise themselves more openly
    Incels is the umbrella which nice guys & pick me guys fall under. However is could also be the alpha guys with toxic masculinity, probably have a podcast, & more.

  • @lahlybird895
    @lahlybird895 2 роки тому +5

    And I would have thought the phrase would refer to toxic masculinity like if pick me girl refers to a woman who tear other women down then you'd think the reverse would refer to Men who tear other men down in order to make themselves look like alpha males or whatever

  • @gabri_cheesellamasneeze9006
    @gabri_cheesellamasneeze9006 2 роки тому +8

    Yo is Nick a Greg?

    • @queenedsheeran581
      @queenedsheeran581 2 роки тому +1

      What's a greg

    • @gabri_cheesellamasneeze9006
      @gabri_cheesellamasneeze9006 2 роки тому +8

      @@queenedsheeran581 Greg is the fastest growing army on the internet. When you subscribe and turn on notifications for Danny Gonzalez's channel, you join the Greg family

    • @queenedsheeran581
      @queenedsheeran581 2 роки тому +3

      @@gabri_cheesellamasneeze9006 wow that's beautiful

  • @alredacted1734
    @alredacted1734 Рік тому

    Recently caught COVID too and it wasn't even that bad (compared to the person I caught it from) but the long-covid related anxieties are omnipresent.

  • @corcborc2547
    @corcborc2547 2 роки тому +4

    a pick me girl puts other women down for male validation, so in my opinion a pick me boy would be someone who puts other men down for female validation

  • @jacquesjones9980
    @jacquesjones9980 2 роки тому +4

    Masculinity under a male dominated society that has a very rigid definition of what's acceptably male. Gender roles in general are most often a performance overall of whats expected unless someone is intentionally breaking from the role whether it comes naturally to them or not. Feminine men are an example of people breaking this role whether they like it or not as it doesn't fit the broad definition that's been historically crafted. From my experience seeing the term "pick me man" it'd been men who were more clearly desperately attempting to play the role for male validation. Partially due to the fact that although many of these men had wives ect who should be able to validate them, they had been diluted over time into feeling that a womans opinion could never hold the value that a mans does. This kind of culture can be seen not always but frequently in luxury car owners, gym bros, bikers, and much much more. Its the act of a man rejecting the abundance of female validation in seek of male validation (true validation) . We can and should have an understanding and level of empathy towards men who have fallen into this false mindset. Yes it is more detrimental to women overall but it's still harmful to men and more importantly future innocent boys aswell who didn't ask for a society that expects so much of them. Also not necessarily arguing against the video but it's just not how its beinf used by and large when people specifically use the term "pick me male"

  • @ku8408
    @ku8408 2 роки тому +1

    I can't imagine typing something out and then just staring into the camera with music over what you just typed, too self conscious for that

  • @scusachannel1682
    @scusachannel1682 Рік тому +1

    This man sounds like he loves my eyes and their blueish-brownish-greenish color

  • @Cecil...
    @Cecil... 2 роки тому +1

    "The universe is time soup and I am merely a carrot." -Nicholas Black, 2022

  • @lamedragon3323
    @lamedragon3323 2 роки тому +3

    Women should be allowed to have stomach aches (btw i am immature and mature at the same time--

  • @lulubeukes2296
    @lulubeukes2296 Рік тому

    His pickup line really is "my mind is fully developed"

  • @ZaffreFennec
    @ZaffreFennec Рік тому

    I like your hair!

  • @solahaze8948
    @solahaze8948 Рік тому

    13:31
    You know, you never really fully FEEL the truth of Nick's videos until you feel it personally. Up to this point I was feeling upset at this man for abusing women's emotions, but then I saw this tiktok and I felt personally hurt because seeing this WOULD make me feel validated, but it was made by a terrible person. I feel icky and used, even though I've never engaged in his content.

  • @eagletscosplaycloset3793
    @eagletscosplaycloset3793 Рік тому +1

    I think pick-me men do exist in a way that is very similar to pick-me women. It just already has a term: toxic masculinity. Acting traditionally masculine in order to be liked more by other men. The pick-me is not one that tries to gain favor from the ‘opposite’ gender. A pick-me is one that tries to gain favor from those in power, even if doing so hurts them. That’s my take, anyway.

  • @Moocow2003
    @Moocow2003 Рік тому

    WAIT OMG THIS IS PAUL ZIMMER? this guy is like bedbugs, just keeps coming back

  • @rabidpichu7391
    @rabidpichu7391 Рік тому +1

    He's literally being a pick me by making this video, trying "be an ally" 😂😂😂

  • @LixiaWinter
    @LixiaWinter 2 роки тому +1

    Is female gaze Kevin a pick me guy?

  • @anitanielsen1061
    @anitanielsen1061 2 роки тому +1

    OOF, Pick-Me Men 😬

  • @dearlily325
    @dearlily325 11 місяців тому

    It annoys me when men make "relatable jokes" about things women experience as if they are like in on the joke. Especially if its something about like periods and they are a cis man.

  • @alexevenstar3214
    @alexevenstar3214 Рік тому

    I think Jake Gravbrot would fall under your definition of Pick-Me Guy, which really reveals the potential danger of these people imo.
    (Shamelessly plugging the podcast Something Was Wrong here. They go through his victims' stories in the most recent season)

  • @squishybones4021
    @squishybones4021 2 роки тому

    do u stan loona

  • @alexjohnson9798
    @alexjohnson9798 Рік тому +1

    Why do you people on the left even talk about men? You know that we're not going to change or stop hating you people right?

  • @itsuckslol7046
    @itsuckslol7046 2 роки тому

    Your eyes scare me :(

    • @emilian7052
      @emilian7052 Рік тому +1

      Then don’t look into them 🌚

  • @lyxxo1032
    @lyxxo1032 Рік тому +1

    Here's a personal anecdote about a guy in my life i call a ''pick me'':
    There was this guy that i once considered a friend but as he slowly started to reveal his true self, me and some of my other friends couldn't help but degrade him to pick me status.. The reason for that being is that although he is the closest to people in our friend group - which consists of girls, gays and theys- than to any other guy at our school, he consistently left us behind or ignored us just for wanting to be recognized by other cishet guys. It felt like despite our closeness he was wanting to be picked by other people who he considered more worthy than us (men) to feel a sense of worthiness himself. Gladly, i'm not friends with this guy anymore (especially after he offended me multiple times) but i thought that the term ''pick me'' was quite fitting in this case since being a pick me girl is also about seeking validation from someone who stands above you in the patriarchy and throwing other marginalized people under the bus in the process.

  • @equinox1223
    @equinox1223 Рік тому +1

    This is what a Redditor and Twitter user simultaneously looks like
    I'd say the pick me guys are more along the lines of both simps and incels.
    Edit: also 100% sure OP doesn't know what a pick me girl is necessarily.

  • @dragonslayer101
    @dragonslayer101 2 роки тому +1

    Actually I think saying "men cannot feel internalized misogyny" is trasphobic because excluding the experiences of a man who lived a portion of his life as a woman and manifested misogynistic views on himself and other women is a real thing I fact that's a part of my life.
    I do think men can have internalized misandary although which will be more rare due to the amount of praise aimed towards men in our society after all, it is controlled by mostly men.
    So it is possble to have a pick me man "mirror" a pick me woman although more manipulative from what I witnessed.

  • @JustABigSoftie
    @JustABigSoftie 2 роки тому +9

    I would've thought that the concept of the "pick me man" would be the guy who acts like a feminist ally and lay down everything to seem like a white knight for women, telling their bros not to be misogynistic when all they're doing is having normal conversations lol.