HOMELESS, SINGLE, & WELL - April was hard

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  • Опубліковано 16 тра 2017
  • My grandma used to say - bad things happen in threes. I vomited, broke up with my girlfriend, and my 96 year old nana died. It's been tough. Thank you for loving me, seriously.
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  • @youngblossom
    @youngblossom 7 років тому +164

    Hell yes, that's an A+ porch setup! I'm sorry you had such a rough month, but I'm glad to hear you're starting to come out of that. Your strength, as always, is inspiring beyond words. Much love, Skylar!! 💚
    edit: Here's a joke I enjoy:
    A man went to the zoo and found there was only one animal in the whole place. It was a shih tzu! Ha ha ha!

    • @skylarkeleven
      @skylarkeleven  7 років тому +34

      thank you love! that joke did make me crack up :) i appreciate your existence, my friend

    • @dakotahope599
      @dakotahope599 7 років тому +3

      this is so sweet ♡ stay strong, and to the both of you. haven't watched the video yet but i know your a strong guy- i'm sorry these cards of life were thrown at you but i'm hoping your growing through it and looking towards the good things. Your great

  • @1ndoorliving
    @1ndoorliving 7 років тому +87

    *hugs* joke: where do cats go when they lose their tails? the retail store!

    • @skylarkeleven
      @skylarkeleven  7 років тому +24

      omg that got me laughing thank you xoxoxo

  • @LeslieItza94
    @LeslieItza94 7 років тому +118

    I know that this sounds weird BUT I did think about you for all the time you didn't post. I was worried and I'm glad you've posted again. I hope happiness comes your way dude♡

    • @skylarkeleven
      @skylarkeleven  7 років тому +11

      my friend, that is not weird at all. i was missing posting - and trying to reach out the best i could. you sensed that - thank you

    • @LeslieItza94
      @LeslieItza94 7 років тому +3

    • @elisadelpino5159
      @elisadelpino5159 7 років тому +4

      Leslie Itza Me too. I kept thinking "Please, universe, let him be safe."

  • @melodyanne5321
    @melodyanne5321 7 років тому +45

    You have alot of support from people you don't even know. Remember, we're here for you. I'm very sorry for what's happening to you. I hope things get better for you ❤

  • @jessb7415
    @jessb7415 7 років тому +7

    What do you call a pile of cats? A meowtain.
    Sending love and positivity your way!
    Things will get better, I promise! ❤️😊
    Much love!

  • @tomsgirl29
    @tomsgirl29 7 років тому +18

    hugs and prayers to you

  • @AafkeKastelijn
    @AafkeKastelijn 6 років тому +1

    Bad things always happen in a short time. Lost my 95 year old grandma, few days later my dad was diagnosed with cancer, and i was struggling on my new job after 2 and a half years of being sick. Got all that news after 2 weeks in at my job.. sucks pretty bad.

  • @NovakHayden
    @NovakHayden 7 років тому +2

    when I face problems I say "Deep breath, stay depress". But in your case I say " Deep breath, and just look ahead". Things may be crapping now but, sooner or later it will get better. Feel better☺

  • @dylanobrien1970
    @dylanobrien1970 7 років тому +6

    Dude you're awesome! Stay strong man.

    • @dylanobrien1970
      @dylanobrien1970 7 років тому

      Ahh you saw my comment 😍 I can sleep happy tonight! Btw you're so handsome it hurts!

  • @annikaclark2873
    @annikaclark2873 7 років тому +2

    My mom's mom's name is Betty Lou, and she always said bad things happen in threes. Crazy.

  • @elphiaba416
    @elphiaba416 7 років тому +5

    Did you hear about the cat who swallowed a ball of yarn?
    She had a litter of mittens 😸
    💛💛💛 sending much love!

    • @skylarkeleven
      @skylarkeleven  7 років тому +2

      you know i love kitties :D thank you!

  • @KaiTreible
    @KaiTreible 7 років тому +28

    😊thanks for sharing so candidly. Joke for you: did you hear about the man who got hit in the head with a can of soda? He's just lucky it was a soft drink...

  • @ThisIsCivic
    @ThisIsCivic 7 років тому +40

    life gets better! keep your chin up!!!

  • @iminaphase
    @iminaphase 7 років тому +6

    Did you hear about the corduroy pillow? It made headlines!
    Sorry--that's my one goto joke. Skylar, your kindness, talent, and positive outlook are always inspiring! Can't wait for the porch music!

  • @zaingregg884
    @zaingregg884 7 років тому +11

    i love you. youre my inspiration and i look up to you. keep it up. You're amazing.

  • @sarahwelz5883
    @sarahwelz5883 7 років тому +2

    Skylark, you're amazing and such a good person. Good things are yet to come. ❤️
    Help yourself before you help anyone else, because you can't give what you don't have.

  • @Pg.394
    @Pg.394 7 років тому +1

    Positive vibes your way. KU was my under grad university. They'd be more than happy to have you back when you're feeling better :) if you ever need to talk, I'm always an open ear ! Have a good rest of the day.

  • @carolinamatias3619
    @carolinamatias3619 7 років тому +1

    I admire you a lot, Skylar. Everything will be fine! Love from Portugal.

  • @riccifike8173
    @riccifike8173 6 років тому

    After every storm comes a rainbow 🌈 . You're an absolutely beautiful person.

  • @kaileym4634
    @kaileym4634 7 років тому

    We're birthday twins! Happy almost birthday sky! The universe has everything happen for a reason, I'm so glad that you're doing better considering the circumstances. Keep your head up!

  • @darkness529
    @darkness529 7 років тому +7

    Oh geeze, I know how it is to lose your only living grandparent. Sending positive vibes!
    Joke time.
    A Mexican magician told his audience that he would disappear on the count of three.
    He went, "Uno, dos..."
    And POOF! He disappeared without a tres.

  • @SmithTaylor
    @SmithTaylor 7 років тому

    The lower you fall, the higher you get to climb. Much love, my brother. We are all riding the waves together.

  • @juliaquirino5065
    @juliaquirino5065 7 років тому +8

    ❤️ I hope things get better

  • @bravestroller4469
    @bravestroller4469 7 років тому

    Hi hi! Ah yes, life, well, well, well. It tricks us, it spawns us and it loves us. Perhaps that is our best answer to life.........all the best and a big kiss!!

  • @saj4755
    @saj4755 7 років тому +1

    I'm really hoping everything will get better for you. I can relate. Just know you have love and support from amazing people. Just like you inspire others the love will be returned. Keep up your amazing strength.

  • @cotton-Dave
    @cotton-Dave 10 місяців тому

    I just finished reading your book "Before I Had the Words". Two afternoons. Now I'm happy to be a part of your channel.
    I'm going to look around here, possibly be able to gild some of your life from the book which made me feel so sorry for you and everyone in your (and others) situation.
    Thank you so much for maintaining the wherewithal to stay alive and live a real life. Hugs!

  • @conniwooldridge6389
    @conniwooldridge6389 7 років тому

    thank you for being you. happy belated birthday. I celebrated 3years sober on your birthday. I hope you are well.

  • @seaweedbeach
    @seaweedbeach 7 років тому

    Happy Birthday! :)
    You always seem so chill and positive even when bad things are happening. I love that.
    Comic Sans walks into a bar
    and the barman says
    we don't serve your type here

  • @jennifer9084
    @jennifer9084 7 років тому +4

    Keep strong. This is just a bump in the road. I know you can get through this. Good luck.👍🏼

  • @postietoastie9562
    @postietoastie9562 7 років тому +2

    we go through shit times in our lives. rough days, weeks, months, and even years can come. but they'll all leave the same way they came, and we'll get through it stronger than before. i'm so sorry you went through this, but you look so healthy and i want you to know that you are loved by family, friends, and thousands of your fans (including me)

  • @carlottagianotti6124
    @carlottagianotti6124 7 років тому +1

    Virtual hug for you, man♡ You really deserve to be happy!

  • @alvearjoha
    @alvearjoha 7 років тому

    So I see this on my start page today (cause my phone didn't let me know when you uploaded it grrr) and I think "finally, a video!", cause I count on your positivity to keep my energy up, but then read the title, freeze, and feel the urge to hug you. All the time, the best people in the world have the worst things happen to them, but it's just a learning experience. The greeks saw crisis as a blessing, cause it allows you to see how far you've come. Asian cultures value cracked vases cause it's a reminder of scars, which bring lessons. After that horrible week, you're still joyful, smiling wide and bright as ever. As inspiring as always. You're a true survivor and you'll get through this. I'm glad you're sticking to the 'keep moving forward' mindset, friend. I love you. Stay strong.
    Also, I'm impatient for your memoir! Are you still working the dream job you posted about at the beggining of the year?
    Sheldon Cooper joke: A neutron walks into a bar and asks, "How much for a drink?" The bartender says, "For you? No charge".

  • @michellebyers1291
    @michellebyers1291 7 років тому

    Things always get better in time. I can relate to the things you went through. I, too, lost 3 family members in a months time so the saying "it comes in 3's" is a true statement. You are stronger than you know! Happy Birthday! 🎂

  • @elijahlukka1787
    @elijahlukka1787 7 років тому

    How do you organize a space party? ...You planet!
    My last biological grandmother just died tonight. Watching your video has been a nice reminder of how much we are all connected and going through the same things.
    Also, Happy belated birthday! Mine is coming up too! Thanks for sharing 🌟

  • @anomalapithecus
    @anomalapithecus 7 років тому +1

    Catan! Excellent! That makes me ridiculously happy.
    I hope things improve sharply and quickly for you.

  • @cosmicowl97
    @cosmicowl97 7 років тому

    You're so lucky to have so many friends that'll help you out and let you stay at their place

  • @crowmisfits
    @crowmisfits 7 років тому

    So Sorry to hear about your misfortune. I had to go to my grandpa's funeral that weekend too. It is good to hear that you have lots of support from your friends and family. I hope things get better for you soon.

  • @sphiaclark1193
    @sphiaclark1193 7 років тому

    I just found your channel today & I'm already really impressed with all of the things that you do to try to make this world a better place. :) I'm so sorry that April was unkind to you, but hopefully May was better! & happy belated birthday!
    One of my neighbors owns several cats. On a recent visit, she introduced them to me: "That’s Astrophe, that’s Erpillar, that’s Aract, that’s Alogue."
    “Where on earth did you get such unusual names?” I asked.
    “Oh, those are their last names,” she explained. “Their first names are Cat.”

  • @bam7227
    @bam7227 7 років тому +1

    you're such a beautiful soul... you're truly inspiring ♡

  • @lorennclaireee
    @lorennclaireee 7 років тому

    Aww Sky glad you're doing ok. I love your positivity 💙 also glad to see a new video on my feed 😘 sending nothing but positivity your way. Happy Birthday handsome 😊

  • @shaythomas515
    @shaythomas515 7 років тому

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY SKY!!!!!!!
    hope your having an awesome day and that things are slowly getting better, your a huge inspiration and once again HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

  • @marlzach
    @marlzach 7 років тому +4

    This whole time, I didn't know you were from Mass, ME TOO. I'd tell you a chemistry joke, but I'm not sure what kind of reaction it will get!

  • @alvarojarrin8561
    @alvarojarrin8561 7 років тому

    Sorry to hear you've been through a rough patch! Sending a big hug, and a huge congratulations for finishing the memoir!

  • @astroscvm
    @astroscvm 7 років тому

    You are so strong, Sky! We all love you endlessly and will be here if you need anything at all. Keep your head up! 💖✨

  • @victoriaax114
    @victoriaax114 7 років тому +1

    im sorry to hear about what's happened. i myself am going through the worst thing that's ever happened to me. my best friend just passed away this last week. he actually used to watch your videos and i know you probably helped him a lot.. id just like to thank you for guiding him and helping him in his life, it means a lot.

  • @grace8688
    @grace8688 7 років тому

    Despite the content, seeing your bright shining face on my feed has made my day. Like others, I had been a bit worried, so I'm happy to see you upload. We all have your back.

  • @shyb7847
    @shyb7847 7 років тому

    Wow, I'm an hour from Kutztown. Listen to paramore's hard times. It helps me get through. I know you will get through. Much love ✌🏾

  • @buddystar22
    @buddystar22 7 років тому

    My mom always says bad things happen in threes too! I'm glad it's starting to get better. Shit gets rough but at least you'll always have an outlet here. No one ever feels like they can open up to their audience like this. But I appreciate the transparency with how you're living too.

  • @mercurious6699
    @mercurious6699 7 років тому +1

    sounds really rough but l always admire your courage. may things go very very right, very soon for you

  • @ashtonhades8055
    @ashtonhades8055 7 років тому

    Sending you all my love and support, man. Hope things are better

  • @EllieMcHale1
    @EllieMcHale1 7 років тому

    You and my dad have the same birthday! Happy belated. Strong Taurus men are awesome.

  • @monarch1957
    @monarch1957 7 років тому

    So sorry for all you are going through we all seem to have life glitches, So sorry for the loss of your nana, I hope you find a place to live. Keep strong and you will have a better life ahead.

  • @lesarasure2740
    @lesarasure2740 7 років тому

    Wow thanks for the update Sky. I was sort of wondering if things were rough. On the bright side, I can tell you that I never really counted myself as "born" to the person I am now until I was 28 years old. Long story! But it was a grand birth of who I am and have been since. So I am happy I stuck around even after the days when I didn't want to exist. I didn't get rid of me, I got rid of that attitude and old person. I found my wings at 28, and have been flying since! I'm glad you are okay, and when I started over so to speak, I stayed with friends until I could afford my own place. I have found that the minimalist life can be so great, and so are counting small victories. It's after midnight here, so Happy Birthday!!! As for a joke, well how about a riddle? The age old question of which came first, the chicken or the egg? I have the answer! I will share this with you if you want, so reply and I will tell you. I can also say that you are in a great age and stage of life right now, and it does get better and better! Enjoy your day, and if you ever visit Texas, HMU!

  • @alyssabarneycastle9174
    @alyssabarneycastle9174 7 років тому +2

    Hoping for better days ahead for you!!!

  • @mremogay13
    @mremogay13 7 років тому +1

    It sucks that you've had such a horrible time. I hope it all goes up from here for you.
    My last grandparent died on May 3rd, she was 96 as well so I know how that feels.
    Keep your chin up and I'm glad you've got a place to stay and such. :] xXx

  • @shantikeet
    @shantikeet 7 років тому

    seriously sending you all my love. you videos helped me when i was this low, usually right before it gets really good. persevere. your doing better than you know. you are so optimistic you made the porch sound like a great place to live! you have freed yourself from relationships and physical possessions, now it's time for a new chapter in life

  • @gayathri8823
    @gayathri8823 7 років тому

    I'm very sorry you had to go through all of that, but I'm so happy you're trucking through it all so well! I have faith that you will be okay. Sending love your way ❤️ ❤️

  • @EthlinnPadilla
    @EthlinnPadilla 7 років тому

    I am sorry you went through all that. I also did go through a rough month, but I am glad you are always so positive! It gives me hope. Thank you!

  • @missmusic881
    @missmusic881 6 років тому

    Your outlook on everything is so badass! I hope everything turns out better soon!!

  • @SpookiestAlice
    @SpookiestAlice 7 років тому +1

    Sorry your month was so rough

    • @skylarkeleven
      @skylarkeleven  7 років тому

      thank you so much. i'm so sorry i couldn't come and i hope to be able to in the future

  • @alliemcelroy9781
    @alliemcelroy9781 7 років тому

    skylar, im so sorry that all of these things have happened to you, but please stay strong life gets better just keep believing.

  • @A7xMSZVSGJCJTR
    @A7xMSZVSGJCJTR 7 років тому

    I was also homeless a few months ago and had a really rough few months and it's nice to know that I'm not the only one that's dealt with difficult living situations. You're so sweet and optimistic and I'll be looking forward to new videos! Love you

  • @animalsisterboy
    @animalsisterboy 7 років тому

    These past couple months have been rough for me as well, and a lot of bad things have happened that are similar to your experiences, so you definitely have a friend here that can sympathize with that. My heart goes out to you and I hope that you feel better as soon as possible. You're such an a kind hearted person and you don't deserve this in the slightest xoxo

  • @charlescarranzainactiveacc3499
    @charlescarranzainactiveacc3499 7 років тому

    You're so strong. You can get through anything. :) I believe in you.
    Thank you for inspiring me every day, Skylar.

  • @slamajama7773
    @slamajama7773 7 років тому

    Love you so much!!! Hope everything gets better!!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @ruinned
    @ruinned 7 років тому

    Was literally just thinking about you yesterday. Thanks for updating even during the rough times. You're missed!

  • @my.life.journey13
    @my.life.journey13 7 років тому

    Thank you for being so honest with us! Much love and strength to go on! You help me a lot!

  • @enseevee
    @enseevee 7 років тому

    Sending love to you skylar, you are so strong!

  • @raeganhall8777
    @raeganhall8777 6 років тому

    Hope you had a great birthday Skylar!!

  • @TheSilverWolf133
    @TheSilverWolf133 7 років тому +15

    How did the Vikings send messages??
    NORSE CODE *boom tish* (that was awful but I hope you at least laughed at the lameness)

  • @sgrnspc73
    @sgrnspc73 7 років тому

    i just want to say thank you for being such an inspiration to me, and making me feel so much more hopeful in my own life. these past few weeks have been the worst ive ever had, including homelessness for me aswell, and separating from my partner, and a car accident and being forced to stop testosterone and more... but watching you and seeing how positive you are through everything you are going through, and have gone through in your 26 years makes me feel at least a little bit better... so thank you. thank you for making your videos and sharing your stories because it makes a world of difference.
    im sorry this isnt a joke.. but i hope that it still makes you feel a little bit better knowing that you make a huge difference.
    i wish you the best of luck in the next steps of your future.

  • @SpookyStregaAL
    @SpookyStregaAL 7 років тому

    Im a lurker, love following your experiences. Just wanted to say I am so sorry you are going thru this tough time. I lost my Dad, 2 years ago..i still feel like im in a weird cloud somedays. Time will help. sending you a hug

  • @darrensharapov7375
    @darrensharapov7375 7 років тому

    Daddy's home! It's nice to have you back ❤️

  • @ryderphelps3365
    @ryderphelps3365 7 років тому

    much love to you, you wonderfully inspirational man. you deserve the world and i believe whole heartedly that you will have it one day

  • @ristin59
    @ristin59 7 років тому +13

    The past year has been rough for me.
    What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger.
    You're loved be strong...

  • @jlunar2795
    @jlunar2795 7 років тому

    You are so warm and kind!!.. I would love to spend and entire day talking to you hehe.
    I hope everything gets better. Remember the only thing that anyone can take away from you is your attitude. I send you love from another part of the planet 💗

  • @Labyrinth22
    @Labyrinth22 7 років тому

    Happy Belated birthday & Best wishes to you Skylar, I understand completely what you're going through. In January, I lost my older brother unexpectedly, got denied a much needed work promotion, and have been experiencing health issues that have baffled my doctors since. 2017 has been rough. I'm hoping the tide is turning. Sending you positive vibes. You hang in there, and I will too! Xoxo

  • @43jenp
    @43jenp 7 років тому

    Sorry for the rough month, but hitting lows usually result in a climb back up to better times, I'm sure you're on your way. Keep your head up, better things are always around the corner ❤

  • @foreverwantingpie
    @foreverwantingpie 7 років тому

    Best wishes!!! You're amazing

  • @adamfenton2433
    @adamfenton2433 7 років тому

    I'm so sorry you went through all that man. breakups are awful (I had one in January) and it had to be especially tough losing a family member the day after. I'm glad you're doing better now and it's good to see you smile. anything you need you say the word. we love you sky, keep your head up

  • @DumandsONE
    @DumandsONE 7 років тому

    Good luck with everything friend!

  • @PeytonBourree
    @PeytonBourree 7 років тому

    Thanks for sharing I am sorry its been so rough! Keep your head up

  • @Eminem-ib2ek
    @Eminem-ib2ek 7 років тому

    I'm so glad you're back!! But I'm sorry about everything that's happened

  • @lifeirresponsibly
    @lifeirresponsibly 7 років тому

    I wish I could hug you 😞😞 I'm sorry you're going through a rough time. But you're loved and you have a ton of support. You'll bounce back like a champ ❤️

  • @Rocky-hx9xb
    @Rocky-hx9xb 3 роки тому

    I'm glad you managed to come out of it and I'm so incredibly thankful that you're still here.💖

  • @skye-aprilx6008
    @skye-aprilx6008 6 років тому

    Hope you're doing well!! Wishing you all the luck in the world!!❤️

  • @VanillaMadeleine
    @VanillaMadeleine 7 років тому

    Sorry to hear about that Skylar :( I hope things get better soon, I give you my best wishes!

  • @byronesque7436
    @byronesque7436 7 років тому

    I'm wishing you well, skylar. ❤️ I hope everything gets better for you very soon, and I'm happy that you have many good people surrounding you. ^_^

  • @martinalongari4873
    @martinalongari4873 7 років тому

    sending you lots of hugs and love, keep being the beautiful person you are Skylar
    hope to see you to one of your gigs one day♥

  • @johnna6877
    @johnna6877 7 років тому

    I'm sorry this month was so stressful for you but you glad your ok :) always here for support !

  • @eryksilver7926
    @eryksilver7926 7 років тому

    Dude happy birthday!!!

  • @brileysmith107
    @brileysmith107 7 років тому

    you're a beautiful soul, Skyler. keep swimming dude.

  • @MicahPanda
    @MicahPanda 7 років тому +19

    My girl and I came up with these for you
    How do astronauts party in space? They PLANET
    How come dogs can't watch tv? Because it's always PAWsed

  • @1GaaraILuvU1
    @1GaaraILuvU1 7 років тому

    I'm glad you're doing better! Stay strong!

  • @soroakai4880
    @soroakai4880 7 років тому

    I hope you feel better and I'm sorry your month was that bad. Hugs from Spain and stay strong Sky, I'm sure your situation will improve soon!

  • @ChristieIsRiddick
    @ChristieIsRiddick 7 років тому

    You are such an inspiration to so many. I have shown sooo many of my friends your videos and you have our thoughts and hearts with you. I know what it like to have hard months and things hit you one after another. You are gorgeous, strong and inspiring. I know you will get back up again stronger and better for it. Loads of Love xoxo

  • @suspendedsecond
    @suspendedsecond 7 років тому

    inspiring to see you smiling and staying positive even in rough times. hope you've been alright living the porch life these past few days. its been hot as heck lately.

  • @oren7436
    @oren7436 7 років тому

    I was wondering if something was going on :( I'm glad you're pulling through and your positive attitude is inspiring!! Hopefully new and better things will come out of this situation!

  • @JoasRadiomann
    @JoasRadiomann 7 років тому

    I'm sorry Sky! Hope you'll get better soon!

  • @JustMeira
    @JustMeira 7 років тому

    Idk any jokes but I watched the whole thing and your YouNow while you were editing. I love how positive your attitude is despite your minor setbacks. That is great and I love watching your vids for this reason. Just keep trucking!