Lawv aw 3 cov hmoob twb tsi mu mloog zaj keeb kwm e vasleethai no kom zoo22 tso twb tsi ke sib hlub ntawd yu tej niam txiv o nej ua zoo tsaw faw kom meej
He probably got an illness that isn't curable. He knew he was gonna died. So he changed to be nice. Amen sister at least he did changed towards the end.
Leej twg tsis tau ntsib cov txiv neej tsab ntse li no ces txhob rawm tuag Vim tus txiv twb Tswj tus poj niam txaus txaus lawm luag tsis paub xwb Twb yog Tim tus txiv xwb Kuv thiaj paub cov txiv neej zoo li no Luag tsis paub luag xav tias Tim tus niam ho tus txiv mas zoo kawg Tiam sis vim tus txiv twb muab txhua yam stub rau tus niam lawm.
Tus me sister aww mloog koj zaj neej neeg no mas pab koj tu siab kawg li os mog. Yus los sib yuav es twb vam thaum yus ua tsis taus thiab muaj mob kom yus tus txiv ,los yus tus poj niam hlub yus xwb ,es yog tsis muaj kev sib pab thiab sib hlub ho los sib yuav ua tus dab tsi? Luag tsis hlub yus los yus yuav tau hlub yus tus kheej mog. Luag hlub yus li cas ces yus tshuas hlub luag li ntawd xwb os. Ua neeg nyob cas nyias yuav muaj nyias ib zaj dab neeg thiab ib txoj kev tu siab. Lwm tiam es mam li thov kom tau daim ntawv zoo los ua neeg es tau tus kom hlub hlub yus es thiaj tshim nyog los ua neeg ib zaug os .
You and me in the same boat.. but at least for me I’m not afraid of my husband. You get used to it. I’ve been married to my husband for 24 years and my husband never does anything for me.. it’s okay though because I can do it for myself. You don’t need a man to make you happy.😊
Pab koj tusiab tias tau tus txiv tsis hlub, tabsi cas yuav siab ntev/ thiab ruam ualuaj es cias luag khoos los laus li ko. **Yog yuav ua mov kuasdis xwb txhob muab laujkaub los ua ntawm qhocub, siv kiag lub laujkaub faisfab(electric rice cooker) ua xwb tsis tas dos li, rau del kom ntaus, txhob kaws lub haus xwb ces tsis kubnyiab es thiaj tau noj.
Zaj ko tsis tsha txaus ntseeg. Yog nws siab phem npaum li ko rau koj tau 31 xyoos mas hloov tsis yooj yim npaum li ko. Sound like he automatically change over night. Lol!
Sister, it didn’t matter how nice he was to you before he died. Damages have been done. He hurt you so much and for so many years. Don’t even bother to miss him. I wouldn’t. When you miss him, think of how shitty he was then that feeling will go away. You are a free woman now!
Uag ua mov kua dis es nim yuav tos dej npau tso mam li muab txhuv tso rau nab lwm tus mas kuv tsis paub tab sis kuv ua mov kua dis no kuv muab 1 nyuag taus tes txhuv rau hauv lub me nyuam lauj kaub ces muab zawv 2-3 tom dej tas ces hliv dej kom yuav luag puv lub lauj kaub ces nta qhov cub rau kom npau nto plaws ces muab hluav taws tso kom low heat es maj mam npau2 txog thaum cov dej maj mam qhuav zuj zus thiab kuv yeej tsis do li ov
What a sad life...how much time was wasted with such a hater husband. In life, when one loves the other more, that spoiled one will take the other spouse's love for granted.
According to a lot of hmong stories I heard on youtube, this is typical for a lot of hmong guys. Ruam ruam thiab tsis paub hlub poj niam. But if a guy don't love you and you still stick around for 30 years than that is not his fault but yours. The fool isn't anyone but you. You choose to stay and suffer. Smdh.
I agree. Sadly, I am one of those dumb women that can’t leave. It’s easier said than done, especially when you worked so hard to get so far. It’s hard to just leave all that behind.
I’m A Single Mama & I Taught My 11 or 12 Yr Old Daughter How To Make Rice Pourage Once I Got Sick & Couldn’t Get Up!! Now, She’s 18 Yrs Old & Very Professional; Better Than Me! Even, Women Who Have No Husband Struggle Too?! 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 Very Sad, Some Hmong Men Can’t Cook!!!
The only reasons why he change over night are: 1) he got rejected by the woman he wanted. 2) he got lecture by relatives. 3) hes dying. 4) another soul took over his body. 5) he finally grow up. Thirty years of marriage with a greedy childish boy. You must liked him more than he like you to bare with his bs. I cant stand annoying guy like this. I will probably cuss him out or just leave him be. Glad he changed for the better! Smh.
Tu siab ua luaj mloog txj no raug raug yu thb os
Hauv. Lub nriaj teb no tseem muaj tus txom yem kev hlub.Zoo li kuv thiab lo kuv xa tias kuv xwb.No, txhob tu siab nawb tu sister awm peb txoj.Hmoov ua neej tsi zoo ib yam
Feem coob peb cov txiv neej hmoob laus zog yeej coj li no tiag.Tej zaum yus sis yog tus luag ntshaw luag hlub luag thiaj tsis pab thiab tsis hlub.Txhob tu siab mog tus sister.Yus yuam kev lawm ces lig lawm os.
luag tèj laus ib txwm hais tias ua lub chaw tshua na has. yam nws ua ces yog ua lub chaw hmov chaw tshua xwb os mi niam tsev aw. pab koj tusiab mog.
Txiv neej tas rau koj tus txiv lawm los cas mas tus txiv zoo li koj tus txhob nkim koj lub sij hawm rau koj tus txiv ntawm koj os tus muam aw
Typical hmong men when you love them too much
When you’re submissive as hell
Lawv aw 3 cov hmoob twb tsi mu mloog zaj keeb kwm e vasleethai no kom zoo22 tso twb tsi ke sib hlub ntawd yu tej niam txiv o nej ua zoo tsaw faw kom meej
Koj tus txiv yog ib tug neeg uas siab phem siab Dub tshaj plaws Tsis tas nco tshua txog ib tug neeg siab dub li ko nyob rau lub neej tiam no lawm
Tus tsis yog txiv neej, niam no txiv neej yuav tsum paub 90% poj niam cov hauj lawm thiaj yog txiv tsev.
Tus txiv coj li ko mas thaum nws yuav nrog yus pw ces ntxim laug taw ua nws tsa taw hlo xwb os...
He probably got an illness that isn't curable. He knew he was gonna died. So he changed to be nice. Amen sister at least he did changed towards the end.
But it was too late to make up for the crappy way he treated her. On the bright side, he left nothing to be missed.
Many hmong men doesn't care for their sick wife, but when they are sick.... they are worst than a baby and expect everything to be handed to them.
I love your Hmong outfit n hat. Can you share the name of person or company?
Leej twg tsis tau ntsib cov txiv neej tsab ntse li no ces txhob rawm tuag
Vim tus txiv twb Tswj tus poj niam txaus txaus lawm luag tsis paub xwb
Twb yog Tim tus txiv xwb
Kuv thiaj paub cov txiv neej zoo li no
Luag tsis paub luag xav tias Tim tus niam ho tus txiv mas zoo kawg
Tiam sis vim tus txiv twb muab txhua yam stub rau tus niam lawm.
Ntuj aw yus yug me nyuam twb g tua qaib yus noj es tseem hu tias hlub2 koj ntshe hlub koj pog xwb os hhh
Tus me sister aww mloog koj zaj neej neeg no mas pab koj tu siab kawg li os mog. Yus los sib yuav es twb vam thaum yus ua tsis taus thiab muaj mob kom yus tus txiv ,los yus tus poj niam hlub yus xwb ,es yog tsis muaj kev sib pab thiab sib hlub ho los sib yuav ua tus dab tsi? Luag tsis hlub yus los yus yuav tau hlub yus tus kheej mog. Luag hlub yus li cas ces yus tshuas hlub luag li ntawd xwb os. Ua neeg nyob cas nyias yuav muaj nyias ib zaj dab neeg thiab ib txoj kev tu siab. Lwm tiam es mam li thov kom tau daim ntawv zoo los ua neeg es tau tus kom hlub hlub yus es thiaj tshim nyog los ua neeg ib zaug os .
Lol Niam neej vam aw I like the way you imitate him 😁🤣
Koj niag txiv ko dab nkag lawm xwb es thiaj hlub koj me me li ko xwb os tus hlub koj ko twb tsis yog nws lawm os....
You and me in the same boat.. but at least for me I’m not afraid of my husband. You get used to it. I’ve been married to my husband for 24 years and my husband never does anything for me.. it’s okay though because I can do it for myself. You don’t need a man to make you happy.😊
I agree. I am the same too. As long as he helps me pay the bills and let me do whatever I want, I am fine.
He must know he was dying.
Tus txiv no yog ib tug es khuv2 xim nyiaj xwb. Nws yeej hlub yus tias sib yuav tau coj phem kom yus thiaj nrog nws txuag nyiaj. Qhov es thaum laus nws hlub tus niam tsev ces twb yog nws tsheb nyiaj txaus lawm thiab yog muaj sab tsis ua nws siab. Ob tuaj mus tus niam tsis ua neeb kho nws thaum pom tus txiv zaum ntawv sofa tias sib qhov tiag nws nyob hauv basement.
Pab koj tusiab tias tau tus txiv tsis hlub, tabsi cas yuav siab ntev/ thiab ruam ualuaj es cias luag khoos los laus li ko.
**Yog yuav ua mov kuasdis xwb txhob muab laujkaub los ua ntawm qhocub, siv kiag lub laujkaub faisfab(electric rice cooker) ua xwb tsis tas dos li, rau del kom ntaus, txhob kaws lub haus xwb ces tsis kubnyiab es thiaj tau noj.
Niam NeejVam es koj mas txawj qog tus txiv dhau lawm! Too funny 😅
Zaj ko tsis tsha txaus ntseeg. Yog nws siab phem npaum li ko rau koj tau 31 xyoos mas hloov tsis yooj yim npaum li ko. Sound like he automatically change over night. Lol!
Karma had reach him for being so bad to you…served him right
It's better late than never ladies!! Forgiveness 😔 ❤️
Sister, it didn’t matter how nice he was to you before he died. Damages have been done. He hurt you so much and for so many years. Don’t even bother to miss him. I wouldn’t. When you miss him, think of how shitty he was then that feeling will go away. You are a free woman now!
Uag ua mov kua dis es nim yuav tos dej npau tso mam li muab txhuv tso rau nab lwm tus mas kuv tsis paub tab sis kuv ua mov kua dis no kuv muab 1 nyuag taus tes txhuv rau hauv lub me nyuam lauj kaub ces muab zawv 2-3 tom dej tas ces hliv dej kom yuav luag puv lub lauj kaub ces nta qhov cub rau kom npau nto plaws ces muab hluav taws tso kom low heat es maj mam npau2 txog thaum cov dej maj mam qhuav zuj zus thiab kuv yeej tsis do li ov
Vivncaus lub sijhawm ntawv koj txiv yug koj puas tseem ua neej nyob os ? Yog koj txiv yug koj ncaim lub ntiaj teb mus lawm ces yog koj txiv pom koj tus txiv tsis hlub koj ib qhos li es koj txiv nkag rau koj tus txiv ua zoo rau koj hlub koj xwb. Thiaj li ua rau koj pom koj tus txiv nyob sofa but nws tseem nyob basement. Koj txiv yug koj hais tias neeg phem ces yuav phem phem kom txog hnub nruam sim.
Ed...ua cas koj lub neej yog nkaus kv lub thiab ne.
Sister, gonna love yourself first.
True. But we women have more conscience so we actually care about them even though they don’t care about us.
What a sad life...how much time was wasted with such a hater husband. In life, when one loves the other more, that spoiled one will take the other spouse's love for granted.
Zaj no muab hais tau dag zog lawm !!
13:18-this is how Hmong men are when wife do everything for him. When he does, he will act like tus thaub no
Sounds like my friends life too
According to a lot of hmong stories I heard on youtube, this is typical for a lot of hmong guys. Ruam ruam thiab tsis paub hlub poj niam. But if a guy don't love you and you still stick around for 30 years than that is not his fault but yours. The fool isn't anyone but you. You choose to stay and suffer. Smdh.
I agree. Sadly, I am one of those dumb women that can’t leave. It’s easier said than done, especially when you worked so hard to get so far. It’s hard to just leave all that behind.
So sad
How sad.
I’m A Single Mama & I Taught My 11 or 12 Yr Old Daughter How To Make Rice Pourage Once I Got Sick & Couldn’t Get Up!! Now, She’s 18 Yrs Old & Very Professional; Better Than Me!
Even, Women Who Have No Husband Struggle Too?! 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 Very Sad, Some Hmong Men Can’t Cook!!!
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
coincidence
The only reasons why he change over night are:
1) he got rejected by the woman he wanted.
2) he got lecture by relatives.
3) hes dying.
4) another soul took over his body.
5) he finally grow up.
Thirty years of marriage with a greedy childish boy. You must liked him more than he like you to bare with his bs. I cant stand annoying guy like this. I will probably cuss him out or just leave him be. Glad he changed for the better! Smh.
*black magic!