I had to listen to this 2x since I enjoyed it so much! True happiness comes in all forms-doesn’t have to be found in a man all the time. It’s whatever completes you. I relate to this story because I found unconditional love and acceptance elsewhere that no man can give me. Now, my life is stress free and I smile everyday ❤
Happy for you sister! I am also happy where I am at….living my single life after my first marriage. I was a divorcee at 33. I too, learned to value and love myself more….i worked hard to continue my higher education and advanced my career. I have enjoyed my single life for almost 20 years now -with friends that I trust. Yes, you are correct that we women don’t need men to make us happy. Once we know the root to happiness, we will enjoy life more and not have to depend on men.
Tus sister, ur life sound so exhausting. Dont be so desperate for any man that comes ur way. U dont need a man to be happy. So glad u made friends & traveled the world, u seemed so much happier than having all the dramas in ur life.
I am glad you found your happiness! It's not your fault that you thought it was from having a husband and children. Hmong girls were conditioned to think that having a husband and children is what life fulfillment is. Many good wishes for your future, sister!
That's why niam hnub no peb cov poj nruam tsi kam mus yuav txiv es nyob yus vaj yus tsev loj loj yeej tsi ntshaw lawm tabsis yus yeej tseem nco nco yus tus txiv kawg nkausj li os cov niam tsev aw nrog nej zoo siab vim yog nrauj xwb ces tsi nco leej twg mog!
Ntuj os lawv aw nej cov niag pojniam thiab txiv neej ua yuav ntau2 tus txiv los yog ntau2 tus pojniam mas thiaj tsim nyog vim tus loj tus me tus txawj tus tsis txawj los nej pom txij paub tag mas tsim nyog tiag2 tshaj plaws kiag yog cov tsis tau pom dua ntau2 tus li nej cov no mas yog yus cia li mus tab tau mas ntshai xyov muab xav mas thiaj li txawj xu siab ntshai peb yuav tuaj tsis taus zoo li daim nqaij rog uas leej twg noj los ntshai yuav u nqaij rog yuav tuaj tsis taus li vim peb tsis yog cov neeg ntaus taus ntxhib os.
Koj yog ib tug poj niam tsis muaj hom phiaj los yog tsis muaj plan ua neej nrog ib tug txiv neej twg li. Koj xav yuav txiv ces cia li yuav xwb. Koj tsis muaj tswv yim xaiv thiab ntsia tus txiv neej twg yog tus yog los yuam rau koj. Tsis tas li los koj tsis yog neeg thoob tsib to nrog ntes tau ib tug txiv neej twg tej lus tiag los cuav rau koj thiab.
IF I am divorced one day, I hope to find a sisterhood as good as that. 😂 Hmong women tend to have jealousy issues against each other. It's hard to find a good, trustworthy hmong woman for a friend, so don't even mention a whole group!
Nub, just because you want a husband does not make you stupid. God created marriage. No relationship is perfect. Most times the man we chose are not yet men. Just a grown boy. And sometimes, for new relationship to work out, we need to stop comparing.
Koj cov txiv yog tib co tos poj niam UA rau noj xwb es...PEB cov no UA noj los peb UA nyob UA ke yuav tau sib paub txhob coj li cov laus Thaum un es yuav poj niam los tu tus xwb lub neej no yuav tau sib pab hauj lwm UA noj los tus txiv yuav tsum txawj UA xyaum UA thiab...🫰
Yog nej sawv daws yuav thiab them nyiaj ib yam tab sis ho ua ib tug npe xwb ces lwm hnub yog nej tsis sib haum ces nej cov tsis muaj npe ces tsis tau dab tsi li, tsuas yog tus muaj npe thiab nws tus tub xwb os. Ceev2 faj nawb hais txog qhov no.
Honestly this sounds like you make a lot of rash decisions and isn’t patient enough. Some of your husbands were horrible, others weren’t that bad but you were too picky or didn’t seem to like them enough. Its best be alone. Glad you found a lifestyle that fits you.
good thing you dont have any children. zoo li koj yog neeg xam khib heev thiab nyiam very yooj yim life xwb. tsis muaj txiv neej nyiam lawm ces ham tsis kawg nyob single live li koj cov friends xwb mas. thaum twg xav tau txiv neej ces muaj toys ntau2 los yog call men for one night tas bye2 xwb tiag
Zoo kawg nej cov niam xav, nco ntsoov lwm hnub nej paj poj nrauj sib phiv kiag mas nej yuav ua cuag dev sib tog xwb, sib ntxub txog hnub tuag thiab seb lub tsev ko yuav ua leej twg lub ces maum aub yuav tawm tuaj.
Aub yaub tej zaj niag dog dig li ko xwb es coj los hais xiam sij hawm dab tsi nas. Dhuav thiab laj mloog dhau lawm os, y sis muaj qab hau li. Stopped listening within the first 5 minutes.
Great story, that's how we should live life to the fullest. I'm happy for you ladies. Way to go ladies.
Such a great story! So proud of these women, they chose happiness over men ❤
I had to listen to this 2x since I enjoyed it so much! True happiness comes in all forms-doesn’t have to be found in a man all the time. It’s whatever completes you. I relate to this story because I found unconditional love and acceptance elsewhere that no man can give me. Now, my life is stress free and I smile everyday ❤
Happy for you sister! I am also happy where I am at….living my single life after my first marriage. I was a divorcee at 33. I too, learned to value and love myself more….i worked hard to continue my higher education and advanced my career. I have enjoyed my single life for almost 20 years now -with friends that I trust. Yes, you are correct that we women don’t need men to make us happy. Once we know the root to happiness, we will enjoy life more and not have to depend on men.
Wow, best story of the year! 😅
Wow, what an Inspiring story! Love it!! ❤ So happy for and proud of you and your Soul Sisters, Sister! Wish you all the very best! ✨️
Im glad you found your happiness grandma
It's good that you found yourself and love and respect yourself. Enjoy your life.
Finding peace when you're divorced is the greatest happiness. Women should be more like this. This is why women live longer! 🎉
Great story. Independent ladies are the happiest. ❤
Tus sister, ur life sound so exhausting. Dont be so desperate for any man that comes ur way. U dont need a man to be happy. So glad u made friends & traveled the world, u seemed so much happier than having all the dramas in ur life.
Glad you finally found happiness!
Awesome, glad you ladies found happiness.
Im happy for u, sister I need a group of friends like ur... 😊support....
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I am glad you found your happiness! It's not your fault that you thought it was from having a husband and children. Hmong girls were conditioned to think that having a husband and children is what life fulfillment is. Many good wishes for your future, sister!
Way to go girls
5 husbands? We all know who the real problem is. 😂😂😂
When everyone flows the same, things like this can be achieved.
Txhob rawm zoo siab. It's only a temporary thing. You still have a long way to go. The harder part always comes at the end.
Good story yes love urself..girl power❤❤❤❤❤
Great story. Happy for all you sisters.
I am so happy she found her happiness and right people. This method wont work with everyone, it is a rare case😭❤️
Glad you finally find your happiness!
I'm glad you found happiness, but me, i would rather live by myself, more privacy( solitude), and independent. Thanks for sharing!
You ladies are peb Hmoob Golden Girls. Nrog nej zoo siab os.
1st very good 👍 👌 👏
Yog mas, we've all been told a lie about marriage. Yog txiv neej tsis txawj pauv ces poj niam yeej muaj muaj peevxwm tsis yuav txiv neej thiab
❤great story self love is the best!
Lub Neej ko mas number 1 king os
Yup, 45, divorced for 21yrs and living life single and to the fullest! No headaches, heartaches or anything else! No wrinkles either 😂😂😂
Kuv nrog nej 4 tug Viv ncaus phooj twg zoo siab os sister, mloog koj than mas twb lom zem nrog nej lawm os
I need roommates like these!
That's why niam hnub no peb cov poj nruam tsi kam mus yuav txiv es nyob yus vaj yus tsev loj loj yeej tsi ntshaw lawm tabsis yus yeej tseem nco nco yus tus txiv kawg nkausj li os cov niam tsev aw nrog nej zoo siab vim yog nrauj xwb ces tsi nco leej twg mog!
Yog tib cov maum tshob lawm xwb ces tsis xav txog txiv neej txoj kev ua nkauj nraug ces yeej kajsiab xwb mas. :}
Love is 2 way street if you not filling that you doing too much for your partner get nothing returns than say good bye
Ntxov ua poj nrauj ntxov tau zoo nawb cov mi niam tsev aw...
Yog mas kev kaj siab ces yog nyob sib haum li ko tiag kav tsij enjoy yus lub neej os mog es hlub yus tus kheej kom tsim nyog xwb os nawb..
Married and divorced that easy for you, lady You’re never find that perfect partner. Just stay single and have fun.
Ntuj os lawv aw nej cov niag pojniam thiab txiv neej ua yuav ntau2 tus txiv los yog ntau2 tus pojniam mas thiaj tsim nyog vim tus loj tus me tus txawj tus tsis txawj los nej pom txij paub tag mas tsim nyog tiag2 tshaj plaws kiag yog cov tsis tau pom dua ntau2 tus li nej cov no mas yog yus cia li mus tab tau mas ntshai xyov muab xav mas thiaj li txawj xu siab ntshai peb yuav tuaj tsis taus zoo li daim nqaij rog uas leej twg noj los ntshai yuav u nqaij rog yuav tuaj tsis taus li vim peb tsis yog cov neeg ntaus taus ntxhib os.
Koj yog ib tug poj niam tsis muaj hom phiaj los yog tsis muaj plan ua neej nrog ib tug txiv neej twg li. Koj xav yuav txiv ces cia li yuav xwb. Koj tsis muaj tswv yim xaiv thiab ntsia tus txiv neej twg yog tus yog los yuam rau koj. Tsis tas li los koj tsis yog neeg thoob tsib to nrog ntes tau ib tug txiv neej twg tej lus tiag los cuav rau koj thiab.
Nej cov viv ncaus mas. Lom zem os thov qhuas nej nawb
Yog kiag lub homphiaj lawm ntag. Peb coob tus tabtom tseem nrhiav kev kajsiab thiab os.
Nkauj hnub, nyob zoo os ❤
IF I am divorced one day, I hope to find a sisterhood as good as that. 😂 Hmong women tend to have jealousy issues against each other. It's hard to find a good, trustworthy hmong woman for a friend, so don't even mention a whole group!
Nub, just because you want a husband does not make you stupid. God created marriage. No relationship is perfect. Most times the man we chose are not yet men. Just a grown boy. And sometimes, for new relationship to work out, we need to stop comparing.
Kuv tus txiv wb sib yuav thiab nyob tau 42 lub xyoo kuv tus txiv yeej tsi paub tu tsev nawb vim vaj tsev yog poj niam tej dej num mog poj hmoob aw!!
Koj cov txiv yog tib co tos poj niam UA rau noj xwb es...PEB cov no UA noj los peb UA nyob UA ke yuav tau sib paub txhob coj li cov laus Thaum un es yuav poj niam los tu tus xwb lub neej no yuav tau sib pab hauj lwm UA noj los tus txiv yuav tsum txawj UA xyaum UA thiab...🫰
Good luck! Hope nej tsis muaj zaj phooj ywg ntxeev siab in the future 😅😅😅
McDermott Port
These are my kind of girls😅😅
Date first maybe for a couple of years.
Xav mloog part 2 thaum nej lub tsev muaj nqi siab2. Nws yuav muag lub tsev tsis kam faib ces nej yuav ua rog
Zoo heev nrog koj zoo siab ntau nawb nkauj hnub.
Yog nej sawv daws yuav thiab them nyiaj ib yam tab sis ho ua ib tug npe xwb ces lwm hnub yog nej tsis sib haum ces nej cov tsis muaj npe ces tsis tau dab tsi li, tsuas yog tus muaj npe thiab nws tus tub xwb os. Ceev2 faj nawb hais txog qhov no.
Koj mas tsim nyog yug los ua neeg kawg li lawm lau tus zoo cas los koj sim tag li lawm
Honestly this sounds like you make a lot of rash decisions and isn’t patient enough. Some of your husbands were horrible, others weren’t that bad but you were too picky or didn’t seem to like them enough. Its best be alone. Glad you found a lifestyle that fits you.
i want to know your friends n i want to enjoy them too !
Kajsiab tshaj😂 plaws ko g muaj lawm, we don’t need Elcheater in our life
That’s not true, kv nyob ib leeg nrog kv tej minyuam xwb mas Kajsiab tshaj,
Koj yuav nrauj pes tsawg tus Txiv ntxiv thiab na.
Lwm hnub maum dev sib tog ces peb tsis hnov lawm. Nej cov paub lwm hnub pli faib nqaij tsis haum es ua plaub no rov hai tuaj qhia nawb.
Why would you put 5k down payment on a house that's not under your name?
nkauj nrab nej nyob qhov twg puas kam kuv lo nroj nej roomate thiab nas?
good thing you dont have any children. zoo li koj yog neeg xam khib heev thiab nyiam very yooj yim life xwb. tsis muaj txiv neej nyiam lawm ces ham tsis kawg nyob single live li koj cov friends xwb mas. thaum twg xav tau txiv neej ces muaj toys ntau2 los yog call men for one night tas bye2 xwb tiag
yall need some cats lol
Zoo kawg nej cov niam xav, nco ntsoov lwm hnub nej paj poj nrauj sib phiv kiag mas nej yuav ua cuag dev sib tog xwb, sib ntxub txog hnub tuag thiab seb lub tsev ko yuav ua leej twg lub ces maum aub yuav tawm tuaj.
You are lying to yourself women.
All u guya lying to yourself
Aub yaub tej zaj niag dog dig li ko xwb es coj los hais xiam sij hawm dab tsi nas. Dhuav thiab laj mloog dhau lawm os, y sis muaj qab hau li. Stopped listening within the first 5 minutes.
Your ex just has wild fantasies.. that’s okay 😂
Selfish
You're lying to yourself, and the same with your friends.