yeah, I'm in no contact for the 2nd time but this time I've done everything perfectly so I know ill hear from my ex with in a few days. last time it took 8 days and I did everything horribly wrong. my ex wants me to beg etc so that it makes it easier for her because she's already planned out how she thinks it will go in her head but im doing the exact opposite. despite the difficulties and set backs we are still moving in the right direction. I know her entire life story and the pain that I feel from trying to work on things is nothing compared to what she has been through. I would rather fight for a relationship that I know can work because she's inspired me to change so much more than any other person I've dated.
My ex called my mom twice so That I dont call her again.she blocked me all over. I am in constant touch with her lil sis, but she is relacant blaming her sister to take my side. Her social media behavior is changed a bit.She was always conservative. I am really upset seeing Her photos.
What if their profound desire is sexual connection and I neglected that after 15 yrs of marriage. Being separated now - i have no opportunity to show my newfound resurgence in sexuality (lost it while kids were young). I am showing good changes but cant figure out how to show that change. He is very resentful and resistant.
My wife and I are separated. We had a fight couple weeks ago and we unfollwed each othe on instagram, now both our account are private so we can see each others stuff. Should I send her a follow request? So she can see my progress
How do I know what to change about myself? If I never really understood what she wanted differently from me when she was in love with me from the get, go and I have never changed to begin with
What if he keeps bringing it up? I try to dodge the subject about the past. I try to change the subject but he tells me after invites me to see him and I'm coming with a positive attitude he then turns it around with his attitude of negative behavior and finds excuses to bring the negative about my family and if it wasn't because of family interference with our relationship and me having a connection with them we could've had a good relationship. So I find myself leaving because he shows me a lot of resenment . I've come to the conclusion that I would rather just stay as friends from afar and move on with my life like he keeps expressing to me.. I need to stay focused on God first and on myself. I really am ready to move on because I deserve better!😢
What if he is the one who keeps making the mistakes, keeps coming back. Shouldn't you tell them how they have hurt you and what we need to do to make the relationship better?
Thank you It would really depend on the circumstance and situation and we would need to know a bit more, consider booking 1:1 session using link below www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Thanks Coach Alex
He is five months away from the relationship. He calls me, I also call me he does everything that I ask him to do.He even fixes my cars and can ask for lunch.
Hi coach plz plz respond What if they still had sex after break up, but the boy says he's doing that just to help the girl at the same time that boy is dating another girl
Alex, I know it’s more a psychological approach and I love that but I’m curious do you also believe in manifestation and law of attraction contributes to outcome and circumstances? Thank you 🙏🏼💖
Thank you Asia for the comment and question Law of attraction and manifestation can contribute to outcome and circumstances and each situation is unique and different. Thanks Coach Alex
It's been 7 months I believe I have no hope for wanting to come back, please let me know if you're thoughts are different? She block me from everything. I can't communicate with her, will I can, but I believe she is with a friend of mine for 3 years not a good friend. Your comment will be welcome. Thank you.
Thank you for the post and comment. Excellent question. We are here to help, please book a session so we can discuss further 1:1 www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Thank you Coach Alex
It can be difficult when your ex brings up past issues. It's important to reflect on your new actions and take responsibility for your mistakes. Nevertheless, you can also be distant when he only talks about that subject
Hello Alex my husband cheated on me multiple times and even make him self assigned far from our home and then I caught up again cheating thru chat and exceeded my limit reported him to his office and automatically terminated and now he is mad of me even blocked me in every social media platform that he has is their any way to get him back?actually he is a stubborn wife beater and an absolute manipulator and a narcissist. He hadn't went to his brothers home it was already 2 weeks now. Is it possible to win him back?I am doing the no contact method since he really ignores me
Thank you for this video. I understand your advice not to talk about the past. My ex has told me that she loves me but cannot bear the thought of having to deal again with my betrayal of her trust. She says that if I can guarantee 100 percent that it would never happen again, then she would come back. My problem is that while I KNOW I have changed and would not betray her trust again, how can anyone give a 100 percent guarantee? Seems like an impossibility. You say not to bring up the past, but I know that is all she thinks about in relation to us. What do you suggest?
Me and my Ex were too happy togather but after getting pregnant he want to separate he doesn't want the relationship Now I asked him the amount of the money so that I leave him in peace
Hi Alex Thank you sooo much for the lovely encouragement that you and your team give out weekly! 🙏🏼🤗 What if the Ex is herself taking about the past? Like we used to go there and this happened, or this was lovely? Or she wants to visit the places we used to go to? This is after 3 yrs of separation and I have done a lot of self work and improved myself! Invited and the kids me to a holiday home she was staying at! Asks about what I am doing? Asking me to help her around the house! All this while the Divorce is still going on! What does this say?
Alex please we break up some month ago she start dating someone else she came back and we fight again please help me when she's had in speach she tooking to me but she can't reply to message or some time she can't phone any way to get back
Thank you Hussein We apologize for everything you are go through. I am sorry she is dating someone else. We will help you 1:1 on this matter. As mentioned in our previous communication, this is best discussed in a personal setting. Please book session www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Thanks Coach Alex
I'm really confused at the moment.. I did all the wrong things begging, pleading and all the rest of it.. but as soon as I started focusing on myself and going into no contact she has definitely noticed and trying to make contact with me. But because I'm a better version of myself have have managed to attract a super awesome girl. Now I'm stuck between which way should I go.
I told my ex I don’t want us to be friends cause it doesn’t make sense dating and later been friends.he said he ain’t cutting me off or I should call his family and also tell them am cutting him off so they shouldn’t allow me see his mom.I said I won’t cut his mom she was too nice to me when I had my surgery.he keeps making this statement your husband and that makes me feel deep down there’s no hope or future with us anymore.that’s why I told him that.but not in a clingy way though @coach Alex
Hello Alex It's been 6 months since I divorced my ex-wife after 15 years of marriage and 3 children together. Everything was going well until she had an early mid-life crisis. Consequences, more vulgar clothing changes, coldness, belittling and infidelities,. I went radio silent for over 2 months. But I see that she still has the behavior of a teenager. She has relationships with wealthy men who constantly invite her on vacation, leaving our children abandoned. Despite the pain she is causing me, I don't know if it's worth it to win my ex back. I would like to benefit from your expertise
Thank you for the comment and follow We can certainly help, please consider 1:1 session, using link below www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Thank you Coach Alex
Thank you There is always a possibility he will come back, but things take Time and patience. We can help strategize on different techniques, have you looked into our self paced products? Thanks Coach Alex
My ex girlfriend left me 7 months ago, I'm 16 years older than her we are both from Latino families so it's not uncommon to see someone 10 yrs or older, but to get your comment. Thank you.
After being needy, desperate and begging I'm in no contact for the 3rd time. It's just so hard for the person hurting and wanting to fix it.
Thank you
I know it is difficult but continue to remain strong!
Thank you
Coach Alex
yeah, I'm in no contact for the 2nd time but this time I've done everything perfectly so I know ill hear from my ex with in a few days. last time it took 8 days and I did everything horribly wrong. my ex wants me to beg etc so that it makes it easier for her because she's already planned out how she thinks it will go in her head but im doing the exact opposite. despite the difficulties and set backs we are still moving in the right direction. I know her entire life story and the pain that I feel from trying to work on things is nothing compared to what she has been through. I would rather fight for a relationship that I know can work because she's inspired me to change so much more than any other person I've dated.
Same here
My ex called my mom twice so That I dont call her again.she blocked me all over. I am in constant touch with her lil sis, but she is relacant blaming her sister to take my side. Her social media behavior is changed a bit.She was always conservative. I am really upset seeing Her photos.
Thanks for all your messages it has helped me for the past few days.
You are so welcome!
What if their profound desire is sexual connection and I neglected that after 15 yrs of marriage. Being separated now - i have no opportunity to show my newfound resurgence in sexuality (lost it while kids were young). I am showing good changes but cant figure out how to show that change. He is very resentful and resistant.
My wife and I are separated. We had a fight couple weeks ago and we unfollwed each othe on instagram, now both our account are private so we can see each others stuff. Should I send her a follow request? So she can see my progress
Thank you Alex, sound advice 🙏
Thank you for watching and following!
Coach Alex
So, question? So it’s no more resolving issues that happened so there is understanding?
How do I know what to change about myself? If I never really understood what she wanted differently from me when she was in love with me from the get, go and I have never changed to begin with
What if I want to ask my ex some questions to better understand her behaviour in the relationship?
What if he keeps bringing it up? I try to dodge the subject about the past. I try to change the subject but he tells me after invites me to see him and I'm coming with a positive attitude he then turns it around with his attitude of negative behavior and finds excuses to bring the negative about my family and if it wasn't because of family interference with our relationship and me having a connection with them we could've had a good relationship. So I find myself leaving because he shows me a lot of resenment . I've come to the conclusion that I would rather just stay as friends from afar and move on with my life like he keeps expressing to me.. I need to stay focused on God first and on myself. I really am ready to move on because I deserve better!😢
Hello Coach Alex.
Hello Victoria
Thanks for watching and following!
Coach Alex
Happy new year Alex 🎉
What if he is the one who keeps making the mistakes, keeps coming back. Shouldn't you tell them how they have hurt you and what we need to do to make the relationship better?
Thank you
It would really depend on the circumstance and situation and we would need to know a bit more, consider booking 1:1 session using link below
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Thanks
Coach Alex
Good
He is five months away from the relationship. He calls me, I also call me he does everything that I ask him to do.He even fixes my cars and can ask for lunch.
Hi coach plz plz respond
What if they still had sex after break up, but the boy says he's doing that just to help the girl at the same time that boy is dating another girl
Mine only seems to want friendship right now and space on top of that if that makes sense
Any updates
Alex, I know it’s more a psychological approach and I love that but I’m curious do you also believe in manifestation and law of attraction contributes to outcome and circumstances? Thank you 🙏🏼💖
Thank you Asia for the comment and question
Law of attraction and manifestation can contribute to outcome and circumstances and each situation is unique and different.
Thanks
Coach Alex
It's been 7 months I believe I have no hope for wanting to come back, please let me know if you're thoughts are different? She block me from everything. I can't communicate with her, will I can, but I believe she is with a friend of mine for 3 years not a good friend. Your comment will be welcome. Thank you.
What about when she did something’s you didn’t like in the past. So if you want to come back, you don’t want those things to happen again?
Thank you for the post and comment.
Excellent question. We are here to help, please book a session so we can discuss further 1:1
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Thank you
Coach Alex
Hey Alex help me my boyfriend doesn't want to talk to me because i did not wish him birthday
What if it's your ex that brings up the past? I wasn't supportive enough, I put him down..
What do I do??
It can be difficult when your ex brings up past issues. It's important to reflect on your new actions and take responsibility for your mistakes. Nevertheless, you can also be distant when he only talks about that subject
My ex said we are back together, but he doesn't initiate communication
Hello Alex my husband cheated on me multiple times and even make him self assigned far from our home and then I caught up again cheating thru chat and exceeded my limit reported him to his office and automatically terminated and now he is mad of me even blocked me in every social media platform that he has is their any way to get him back?actually he is a stubborn wife beater and an absolute manipulator and a narcissist. He hadn't went to his brothers home it was already 2 weeks now. Is it possible to win him back?I am doing the no contact method since he really ignores me
Thank you for this video. I understand your advice not to talk about the past. My ex has told me that she loves me but cannot bear the thought of having to deal again with my betrayal of her trust. She says that if I can guarantee 100 percent that it would never happen again, then she would come back. My problem is that while I KNOW I have changed and would not betray her trust again, how can anyone give a 100 percent guarantee? Seems like an impossibility. You say not to bring up the past, but I know that is all she thinks about in relation to us. What do you suggest?
Y my ex not calling me it is 4 months and no contact am not calling him
how is the current situation? what things are you doing for your self?
Forget him . If he do t want me , I will get someone who does … moving on .
Me and my Ex were too happy togather but after getting pregnant he want to separate he doesn't want the relationship
Now I asked him the amount of the money so that I leave him in peace
Hi Alex Thank you sooo much for the lovely encouragement that you and your team give out weekly! 🙏🏼🤗 What if the Ex is herself taking about the past? Like we used to go there and this happened, or this was lovely? Or she wants to visit the places we used to go to? This is after 3 yrs of separation and I have done a lot of self work and improved myself! Invited and the kids me to a holiday home she was staying at! Asks about what I am doing? Asking me to help her around the house! All this while the Divorce is still going on! What does this say?
I can say she's asking you to fix what was broken... ask her about it. Why is she doing what she's doing?
NC day 389 .. Still think about her every day Arrrrh!! Should I send a friendly message or not??🤔
Thank you
I am glad you are remaining strong. We would need to know more about the situation to determine the next steps.
Thanks
Coach Alex
My ex don't want to call me. See me, have to do anything with me again
Alex please we break up some month ago she start dating someone else she came back and we fight again please help me when she's had in speach she tooking to me but she can't reply to message or some time she can't phone any way to get back
Thank you Hussein
We apologize for everything you are go through. I am sorry she is dating someone else. We will help you 1:1 on this matter. As mentioned in our previous communication, this is best discussed in a personal setting. Please book session
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Thanks
Coach Alex
I'm really confused at the moment.. I did all the wrong things begging, pleading and all the rest of it.. but as soon as I started focusing on myself and going into no contact she has definitely noticed and trying to make contact with me. But because I'm a better version of myself have have managed to attract a super awesome girl. Now I'm stuck between which way should I go.
The ex doesn't value you enough which is why she left. Move forward. It's also not fair to string the new girl along either.
Coach Alex. When you are focusing on what they want aren't you losing yourself?
Hello Joanne
Well it depends on what you are focusing on. We say to focus on the positive and personal growth. Does that make sense?
Coach Alex
Is been almost 8month I don’t think he will come back..I think he moved on
Thank you Julia
Continue with your personal journey and growth!
Thank you
Coach Alex
I told my ex I don’t want us to be friends cause it doesn’t make sense dating and later been friends.he said he ain’t cutting me off or I should call his family and also tell them am cutting him off so they shouldn’t allow me see his mom.I said I won’t cut his mom she was too nice to me when I had my surgery.he keeps making this statement your husband and that makes me feel deep down there’s no hope or future with us anymore.that’s why I told him that.but not in a clingy way though @coach Alex
Thank you Lilian
You will have to go back into no contact and remain focused on yourself.
Thanks
Coach Alex
Coach Alex, if had know you in 2020, wouldnt make so much mistakes and wouldnt have wasted the 2nd chance that was given by the betrayed partner.
Hello Alex
It's been 6 months since I divorced my ex-wife after 15 years of marriage and 3 children together.
Everything was going well until she had an early mid-life crisis. Consequences, more vulgar clothing changes, coldness, belittling and infidelities,.
I went radio silent for over 2 months. But I see that she still has the behavior of a teenager. She has relationships with wealthy men who constantly invite her on vacation, leaving our children abandoned.
Despite the pain she is causing me, I don't know if it's worth it to win my ex back.
I would like to benefit from your expertise
Thank you for the comment and follow
We can certainly help, please consider 1:1 session, using link below
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Thank you
Coach Alex
Alex, if my X is with another girl, will he still come back?
Thank you
There is always a possibility he will come back, but things take Time and patience. We can help strategize on different techniques, have you looked into our self paced products?
Thanks
Coach Alex
Hi Coach Alex has been a month, and my ex boyfriend still didn’t get back to me.
My ex girlfriend left me 7 months ago, I'm 16 years older than her we are both from Latino families so it's not uncommon to see someone 10 yrs or older, but to get your comment. Thank you.