Hello friends, Merry Christmas. This vlog was supposed to come out later because I thought would post my Christmas vlog before. But I’m behind with this vlog and I thought you could enjoy this one while I work on the Christmas vlog. Hope you enjoy the vlog 😊
Hi Milly! I'm in my fifties, also have a friend of more than 20 yrs, who in the last three or so months changed attitude towards me. She started being negative, I thought I had seen it before but gave it time because we are all human. I would ask simple questions and she would answer rudely. I decided to stop going to her office because we work in the same institution. I decided to send her a Christmas message today. However, I don't think the relationship will ever be the same and I choose peace over toxic relationships.
@@mirembehellen5387 I'm sorry to hear that and 20yrs knowing someone is precious. I would have a one-on-one sit down with her to see what' up. Sometimes, in live you never really know what the other person is going through and maybe this is her cry for help. If you can, do have a one-on-one talk with her. Happy! holiday season to all.
@@mirembehellen5387 Sorry to hear about that. Maybe she is going through something if this is not how she has been before. It’s difficult because if you ask they might say that nothing is wrong . But choose your peace no matter what.
@@kemikemi Exactly my thoughts. Because if the person has not been like this and it’s out of no where, they might be going through something. But it’s also had when you have someone not being nice to you when you ask a simple question.
Dear Milly from my perspective people change and people response changes as your life changes. Sometimes friends can be envious and jealousy when your life changes. Some friends are comfortable when we come to them with our troubles and problems, when life changes they feel unworthy because you got it figured out. BE YOU and walk with those that understand and appreciate you. ❤😊
This is my first time watching your content, and you're right. Over time, you outgrow people. As soon as I see something I don't like, I make myself scarce. You are worth more than that. I enjoy spending time walking the dogs, hiking, running, working out, doing meal prep, or cleaning the house. Keeping a full schedule helps.
@@Ami-ml7gp So true. When you are so busy occupied with your life, you have no time for things like friendship that don’t serve you ☺️. Merry Christmas 🎄
Love your natural hair! It's really hard to find and keep true friendships. Like you I gave up all my fake friends. Alone but love my own company. Try to stay positive and strive for the best in me. Take care and stay true to yourself! ✌❤
I love your outdoor view, The video is relaxing, for friendship i let some people go long time ago, i enjoy my own company, i have peace i am happy with my self.
Hi, Milly! I turned 50 this year and admittedly, something changed in me. (My older sister did it would). I find that my tolerance for a lot of things has shortened, and my desire for peace of mind has increased. It's your time. Let go of whom u need to let go and when God tells you to do so. He knows better than we do when someone is for us or not. Other than that, I'm glad I found your channel today. Your home is beautiful! ❤from Texas. USA
Friendships for me are about the quality and not the quantity or length of time. I know a LOT of people but there are very few that I call a friend. As time passes, I am no longer a people pleaser first...nope...me and my feelings come FIRST. Great video ❤
Nice relaxing video as usual. Green looks good on you, though. I think that as we grow older, we naturally tend towards a quieter and more peaceful life, and this affects the time we alot to friends. This, of course, widens the friendship gap, and one just grows apart from some friends. Friends can also be a big distraction. I think that as we age, family becomes more and more our friends. In addition, because of life experiences and lessons, older people can see through a facade and they can realize when they are being used in the name of friendship. The older one gets, the less one really cares about what people think about him/her, so one can take better self-protective decisions like cutting off some people. Wish you a merry christmas.
@@zubby7461 You are absolutely right that when we get older we don’t care and that means we also don’t care to loose friends. Merry Christmas and thank you for the compliment and input about the part of friendship 😊
Hello Milly, I just came across your channel, which is very refreshing. I believe that we mature and being "old" is a state of mind. Staying youthful or young at heart makes a person ageless. At 62 I appreciate my younger days, and am ready for what 2025 holds☮️🌅
Merry Christmas Milly. Lovely video. On friendship, it is said, be careful the environment you choose for it will shape you; be careful the friends you choose for you will become like them. I’d rather have four quarters than one hundred pennies.
Yes, with age it's challenging to make new friends. It's also hurts to loose them. We are not perfect so sometimes it's about keeping strict boundaries and have peace.
You seem like such a lovely person. I think anyone would feel fortunate to have a friend like you. If they have bad energy, though, it's okay to move on for the sake of peace. Your home is beautiful!
Hi Milly xxx Life changes as we age, significant life changes, such as marriage, career shifts etc.can alter our social circles and priorities. These changes can make it harder to maintain existing friendships or form new ones. At 61 years my 2 children have left home one working in Japan and the other in Singapore , My holidays are time with them and I haven’t lost friends but found out who the real ones are. I wish a happy Christmas, full of joy, happiness, peace and love with your family xxx
Merry Christmas! I can't believe how green your grass is in December. The weather is crazy, next week here in Michigan it will be super warm. I agree with your take on toxic friendships, as I've gotten older I have less tolerance for b.s. But I will also say I've gotten more tolerant towards others so I'm less likely to fly off the handle over little stuff. I just want peacefulness during this time in my life.
@@carolperdue7534 The weather is also funny here. We should be in minus degrees, but we are in up to 8+. Actually I have never thought about the color of the grass during winter. I think I’m the same like you. I want peace which means I’m not fighting small fights. And I consider my self to be large. But the older I have gotten, the less I give so many chances. Merry Christmas 🎄
Hello Milly, first and foremost merry Christmas to you. I just want to point out on your looks. You got the Styling in your blood. You are soo simple yet soo stylish. I could watch you the whole evening. greetings from Germany.
I feel you, Milly. It is difficult to make friends in Germany too. Your peace is important, rather have few friends than tolerate rubbish. Thank you for your positivity and good vibes. Happy holidays 😊
Hi Milly pray you and your family have a wonderful Christmas 🎄 your vlogs have brought joy to me this year. You truly deserved only the best! Now im 45 I now choose peace, time is too precious 😊
OMG!...This couldn't have been well scripted, as you mentioned eating well at 500 calories per meal and something about the GYM, I was just putting a slice of cake in my mouth. Merry! Christmas everybody and a Happy! new year.
I have always felt that I was the friend that was used. I have good girlfriends from high school that felt I was the dumb one, as a 55 year old woman the last 10 years I reevaluated those relationships and just started to distance myself. Still love and talk to them but just keep my peace by distancing a bit.
Hai Milly ,I feel happy whenever I watch your videos ,I really love them.I would like to let you know that you and i we share some stuffs or personalities eg.loving nature,same age,I can see you have that sweet taste for color green and the way you embraces your peace just to mention the few. And lastly ,guess what,we are from Uganda ,only the difference is where we reside (abroad).maybe also friendships is a concern too.am person who loves genuine friends,this breaks me down but am healed.thanks God❤
@@roynamatovu5554 Thank you 🙏 so Mich Roy. It’s so nice to see you here. I think the older we get, we start seeing people for what they are. And then it’s time to find out what’s best
Alone With Jesus is Best!!!, There's So much to Watch online and Get Self Busy..First tyme watching. Like the Natural, I Keep Colouring my hair, but in 2 months the grey comes up😂😂😂😂, waist of tyme..Remain Blessed
Hello friends, Merry Christmas. This vlog was supposed to come out later because I thought would post my Christmas vlog before. But I’m behind with this vlog and I thought you could enjoy this one while I work on the Christmas vlog.
Hope you enjoy the vlog 😊
Hi Milly! I'm in my fifties, also have a friend of more than 20 yrs, who in the last three or so months changed attitude towards me. She started being negative, I thought I had seen it before but gave it time because we are all human. I would ask simple questions and she would answer rudely. I decided to stop going to her office because we work in the same institution. I decided to send her a Christmas message today. However, I don't think the relationship will ever be the same and I choose peace over toxic relationships.
@@mirembehellen5387 I'm sorry to hear that and 20yrs knowing someone is precious. I would have a one-on-one sit down with her to see what' up. Sometimes, in live you never really know what the other person is going through and maybe this is her cry for help. If you can, do have a one-on-one talk with her. Happy! holiday season to all.
@@mirembehellen5387 Sorry to hear about that. Maybe she is going through something if this is not how she has been before. It’s difficult because if you ask they might say that nothing is wrong . But choose your peace no matter what.
@@kemikemi Exactly my thoughts. Because if the person has not been like this and it’s out of no where, they might be going through something. But it’s also had when you have someone not being nice to you when you ask a simple question.
Dear Milly from my perspective people change and people response changes as your life changes. Sometimes friends can be envious and jealousy when your life changes. Some friends are comfortable when we come to them with our troubles and problems, when life changes they feel unworthy because you got it figured out. BE YOU and walk with those that understand and appreciate you. ❤😊
@@Over50andMe Thank you 🙏 so much for the kind words. Merry Christmas 🎄
This is my first time watching your content, and you're right. Over time, you outgrow people. As soon as I see something I don't like, I make myself scarce. You are worth more than that. I enjoy spending time walking the dogs, hiking, running, working out, doing meal prep, or cleaning the house. Keeping a full schedule helps.
@@Ami-ml7gp So true. When you are so busy occupied with your life, you have no time for things like friendship that don’t serve you ☺️. Merry Christmas 🎄
Milly love your authenticity and your house.Just continue to do you!
@@maryibanda6018 Thank you 🙏
I love your hair and like good friends are supposed to be, this video is good for the nervous system!!!
Love your natural hair! It's really hard to find and keep true friendships. Like you I gave up all my fake friends. Alone but love my own company. Try to stay positive and strive for the best in me. Take care and stay true to yourself! ✌❤
@@macywacy7384 Thank you 🙏. It’s actually painful but one has to choose 😊
I love your outdoor view, The video is relaxing, for friendship i let some people go long time ago, i enjoy my own company, i have peace i am happy with my self.
@@FashionPassion-f2k Thank you 🙏. It’s sad but sometimes it’s bet to move ourselves from situation that disturb our happiness.
Very true
Stunning 😍 First Time here. Merry Christmas and happy boxing day 🎉
Absolutely love your style very your own and unique!!Keep doing you it's FABULOUS!!!👑👑🎉🎉🎉
@@lolanono1117 Thank you 🙏 for the kind words.
Hi, Milly! I turned 50 this year and admittedly, something changed in me. (My older sister did it would). I find that my tolerance for a lot of things has shortened, and my desire for peace of mind has increased. It's your time. Let go of whom u need to let go and when God tells you to do so. He knows better than we do when someone is for us or not. Other than that, I'm glad I found your channel today. Your home is beautiful! ❤from Texas. USA
Friendships for me are about the quality and not the quantity or length of time. I know a LOT of people but there are very few that I call a friend. As time passes, I am no longer a people pleaser first...nope...me and my feelings come FIRST. Great video ❤
@@MissLondonE7 Amen 🙏 to putting your self first 😊
Nice relaxing video as usual. Green looks good on you, though.
I think that as we grow older, we naturally tend towards a quieter and more peaceful life, and this affects the time we alot to friends. This, of course, widens the friendship gap, and one just grows apart from some friends. Friends can also be a big distraction. I think that as we age, family becomes more and more our friends. In addition, because of life experiences and lessons, older people can see through a facade and they can realize when they are being used in the name of friendship. The older one gets, the less one really cares about what people think about him/her, so one can take better self-protective decisions like cutting off some people.
Wish you a merry christmas.
@@zubby7461 You are absolutely right that when we get older we don’t care and that means we also don’t care to loose friends. Merry Christmas and thank you for the compliment and input about the part of friendship 😊
Not only friendship but family.. Cousins have just become enemies. Age comes with wisdom, and you appreciate and value yourself more.
Hello Milly, I just came across your channel, which is very refreshing.
I believe that we mature and being "old" is a state of mind. Staying youthful or young at heart makes a person ageless. At 62 I appreciate my younger days, and am ready for what 2025 holds☮️🌅
You are so right about friends, sometimes you just need to do what you have to do
@@dornett2701 We have to keep our peace
Love the vibes. Merry Christmas to you and your family.
@@opaljohnson4762 Thank you and merry Christmas to you too.
Happy holidays 🎉happy new year. Love your hair you look fabulous ❤❤first time viewing 👍🏽😊
@@outofmanyweareone6429 Thank you and happy holidays to you too😊
Merry Christmas Milly. Lovely video. On friendship, it is said, be careful the environment you choose for it will shape you; be careful the friends you choose for you will become like them. I’d rather have four quarters than one hundred pennies.
@@gracesim1806 Thank you and this is well said. We can’t be in relationships that keep us doubting our selves. Merry Christmas 🎄
Thank you for the vlog Milly, and Merry Christmas!
@@roxannethwaites5387 Thank you for watching 😊
With age comes wisdom and discernment. My peace is non negotiable. 🙂🙃
Yes, with age it's challenging to make new friends. It's also hurts to loose them. We are not perfect so sometimes it's about keeping strict boundaries and have peace.
@@linientchege183 Yes it does hurt because also sometimes you might think it was you, you know!
I looooooooove❤❤ your hair Milly. You have inspired me
@@priscillamatika3668 Thank you 🙏 so much and I’m so happy if I can inspire anyone. Merry Christmas 🎄
Love from Barbados Merry Christmas and a happy, healthy New year
@@mariaboyce9596 Thank you and merry Christmas to you and yours ☺️
You seem like such a lovely person. I think anyone would feel fortunate to have a friend like you. If they have bad energy, though, it's okay to move on for the sake of peace. Your home is beautiful!
Hi Milly xxx Life changes as we age, significant life changes, such as marriage, career shifts etc.can alter our social circles and priorities. These changes can make it harder to maintain existing friendships or form new ones. At 61 years my 2 children have left home one working in Japan and the other in Singapore , My holidays are time with them and I haven’t lost friends but found out who the real ones are. I wish a happy Christmas, full of joy, happiness, peace and love with your family xxx
@@proudmganda1159 So true. Thank you for watching
Lovely as usual.The views are beautiful.Have a merry Christmas.
@@khalnamodi8599 Thank you 🙏 and merry Christmas to you and your 🎄
Merry Christmas! I can't believe how green your grass is in December. The weather is crazy, next week here in Michigan it will be super warm. I agree with your take on toxic friendships, as I've gotten older I have less tolerance for b.s. But I will also say I've gotten more tolerant towards others so I'm less likely to fly off the handle over little stuff. I just want peacefulness during this time in my life.
@@carolperdue7534 The weather is also funny here. We should be in minus degrees, but we are in up to 8+. Actually I have never thought about the color of the grass during winter.
I think I’m the same like you. I want peace which means I’m not fighting small fights. And I consider my self to be large. But the older I have gotten, the less I give so many chances.
Merry Christmas 🎄
You looks so beautiful✨ thanks for sharing yourself and your home😊
@@611Kimmie Thank you 🙏 for watching 😊
You will always know those "solid" friends are, but stay true to yourself 😉🙏🏽
@@margaretjackson7953 So true. Thank you 🙏
Hello Milly, first and foremost merry Christmas to you. I just want to point out on your looks. You got the Styling in your blood. You are soo simple yet soo stylish. I could watch you the whole evening. greetings from Germany.
@JoyceZimmermann Oh wow! Thank you so much Joyce for the kind words.
You look amazing. 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️
I feel you, Milly. It is difficult to make friends in Germany too. Your peace is important, rather have few friends than tolerate rubbish. Thank you for your positivity and good vibes. Happy holidays 😊
@ProjectMind-kw9sp That’s the biggest problem for many foreigners. But I appreciate my peace and we choose that any day. Merry Christmas 🎄
Hi Milly pray you and your family have a wonderful Christmas 🎄 your vlogs have brought joy to me this year. You truly deserved only the best!
Now im 45 I now choose peace, time is too precious 😊
@@Norvelaful Thank you 🙏 so much for the kind words. And wish you and your family a merry Christmas 🎄
You have a beautiful home
@@ss1nga Thank you 🙏
I enjoy my own company
Nice relaxing vlog,thanks Milly
Glad you enjoyed it. Merry Christmas 🎄
OMG!...This couldn't have been well scripted, as you mentioned eating well at 500 calories per meal and something about the GYM, I was just putting a slice of cake in my mouth. Merry! Christmas everybody and a Happy! new year.
@@kemikemi Ha ha 🤣. I eat cake chips and other unhealthy things but I’m really trying to be better because I learnt all this her in Denmark.
I have always felt that I was the friend that was used. I have good girlfriends from high school that felt I was the dumb one, as a 55 year old woman the last 10 years I reevaluated those relationships and just started to distance myself. Still love and talk to them but just keep my peace by distancing a bit.
@@mattiewilliams1138 I honestly think that’s the best way. Keep them but from a distance 😊
Hai Milly ,I feel happy whenever I watch your videos ,I really love them.I would like to let you know that you and i we share some stuffs or personalities eg.loving nature,same age,I can see you have that sweet taste for color green and the way you embraces your peace just to mention the few. And lastly ,guess what,we are from Uganda ,only the difference is where we reside (abroad).maybe also friendships is a concern too.am person who loves genuine friends,this breaks me down but am healed.thanks God❤
@@roynamatovu5554 Thank you 🙏 so Mich Roy. It’s so nice to see you here. I think the older we get, we start seeing people for what they are. And then it’s time to find out what’s best
That is true
The older we get,fewer friends we have.I respect saying
Alone With Jesus is Best!!!, There's So much to Watch online and Get Self Busy..First tyme watching. Like the Natural, I Keep Colouring my hair, but in 2 months the grey comes up😂😂😂😂, waist of tyme..Remain Blessed
@@carolinechuna2112 Thank you 🙏. I used to do the same, and just got tired of coloring my hair. 😊
I will like you to demonstrate how you tie your head ❤🇹🇹
@@YvettePhilip You mean my head wraps of the band I have in my hair?